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Here’s a guest-post from my cousin, Mrs. Darling. She previously shared information on how to raise a family on one income (part two). This story is set ten years after my aunt’s six-dollar Christmas and involves the same family.
It was the year 1968. That year was an exceptionally hard year in every way. Pop was laid off due to too much snow in the woods. He was a logger. Roads were impassable and snow lay thick in the mountains. We knew there would be no Christmas. Mom had told us there simply was no money. Times were tough. We didn’t have money even for our very basic needs.
That was the year the guy from the fire department brought my sick baby brother some medicine in his four wheel drive. That was the year the snow piled up relentlessly night and day. The wind blew it under the window sills. We slept each night downstairs by the fireplace trying to stay warm. The entire house was closed off by blankets in doorways and masking tape on all the windows. Rugs were shoved under loose fitting doors so not a breath of cold air could get in.
That was also the year that food was scarce for man and beast. Earlier in the fall, the cold and scarcity of food drove the bear into our orchard to eat any remaining plums and apples that we hadn’t canned or processed in some way. We trapped those bears, tanned their hides to use for rugs, and ate the meat to fill our bellies. Christmas dinner that year was going to be Bear Roast. There were nine of us kids, and food was scarce.
The fires were kept burning night and day. My baby brothers were set on the lids to the warming ovens above the kitchen stove and held there while they dangled there feet over the old Home Comfort. Its cheery warmth not only heated our kitchen, but it also kept their tiny toes warm.
That was also the winter that mom ran out of formula for the baby. Not knowing what to do, we prayed that God would send our baby formula. He was allergic to milk and too young to eat food. That day a man handed mom an envelope of gospel tracts. There hidden in the tracts was a five dollar bill. God had answered our prayers. The baby would now get his formula.
I had only one wish that Christmas. I had seen a beautiful doll bed in the department store window. I wanted it so badly, but I knew it was way too much to ask. I could dream though, and dream I did. Mom knew how badly I yearned for a doll bed, so one day shortly before Christmas she set about to make me that coveted gift. Taking two cardboard boxes she turned the one upside down and set the other on top. She fastened them to each other then lined them with fabric and made a little pleated skirt to cover the cardboard box underneath. She knew that on Christmas morning I would be the happiest child for miles around.
The air was filled with secrecy that Christmas, as we all tried to make each other gifts. Buttons were strung onto strings, small jars were filled with filberts to rattle at the babies, nuts piled high behind the stove in gunny sacks were cracked and sugared for treats. Once again Bear meat was on the dinner menu. But once again God had other plans.
The day before Christmas a big red truck lumbered down the lane to our house. It was the Fire Chief! Whatever was happening? Why had they come? They had chained up the vehicle to get up the snowy roads. Maybe they were bringing medicine. One year the fire department brought aspirin to all the babies on the mountain because families couldn’t get into town. But no! Wait! There were other men with him. We watched as the firemen jumped down and began unloading gifts from the truck. They piled them on to the front porch while we watched from the window. There were lots of boxes. The excitement was more than we could bear. Beautifully wrapped gifts with sparkly bows were lined up on the porch.
Mom opened the front door to ask what this was all about. A fireman filled her arms with a box overflowing with food. “Merry Christmas,” he called over his shoulder as he stomped back through the snow for more things. My sisters and I were squealing and excitedly running from window to window in the hopes of seeing better. The babies peeked out from behind mom’s skirt.
Finally the last box was unloaded and our porch was filled with food and gifts. Everything we needed for a complete Christmas dinner was brought by that fire department. Mom was crying as she thanked the men. At eight-years-old I didn’t see what there was to cry about. I mean one minute there was no Christmas, the next we all had gifts and a Christmas dinner! At the time I knew nothing of what lies in a mother’s heart when God so completely and wonderfully answers her prayers for Christmas for her babies.
But the firemen weren’t done. They had gone back to the truck, and now they were pulling out a huge box with a candy cane striped swing-set inside. Our joy was beyond imagination. We had spent many hours swinging in homemade swings in the apple trees, but we had never seen or dreamed of anything as lovely as this red and white swing set. Our little hearts could hold no more.
That year was the best Christmas we ever had. The turkey from the fire department filled the place with mouthwatering smells. Gifts were opened and nowhere was there greater joy than that which was found in the old farmhouse that day.
That night, as the snow continued to blow across the dark hills, nine children lay tucked in their beds on the dining room floor. The fire gave the room a soft glow. Over in the old green chair mama rocked the baby and fed him warm formula while Pop made his bedtime rounds, stoking the fire and checking windows and doors for any loose masking tape that would let the cold east wind inside.
That was the night that the firemen brought Christmas to little children on a cold mountain. That was the night a new doll, brought from the fire department, slept all snuggly warm in its cardboard box beside a little girl who had prayed for a Christmas.
That was the night the heavens bent low.
That was the night the angels sang.
I will forever be grateful to the men who sacrificed their time that cold Christmas Eve. I have never forgotten their labor of love and the joy they brought to our hearts. Thank you so much for bringing Christmas to our house that year. You will never know what that meant to all of us! May God bless you all!
You know those Christmas-time toy drives? Those “sponsor-a-family” charity funds? They really do help those less fortunate. If you have everything you need, remember to spread the joy, to help out those whose situations are more desperate.
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November 19th, 2007 at 2:29 pm
What a LOVELY story!!! What a awesome lady your Mum was and so full of FAITH for which she and her family were richly rewarded. How wonderful were these generous, kind firemen? I hope they received many blessings in return. Clearly, this event had a great positive impact on you and I am so pleased you shared this uplifting story of goodness and faith.
Can I share my own “Pay It Forward” story please?
When I was just married in 1982, we bought a house in a new development and there were many young families with BIG mortgages. Not starving people who would qualify for public assistance or a Charity Hamper…but most of us were just housebroke!
I noticed one family, with 2 young children and I could gather from neighborhood chit chat, these folks were having a hard time financially but were proud people and they tried to hide their money problems, asking for nothing, surely not wanting pity or handouts.
Having no children of our own and no youngsters in the extended family, we didn’t have the pleasure of shopping for any little ones so I quietly adopted this young family. I made up a big basket of wrapped gifts for everyone (much homemade and few PC incorrect “regifts” (gasp) and nothing of real great value as I could not afford many extra’s myself ) just some food stuffs, homemade cookies and fruitcake… to make their Christmas just a little special. I had great fun being creative, making all sorts of kiddie-stuff, culling through my craft materials and making a fabric covered shoe box filled with markers and stamps and other crafty items I had quit using,….mum got a regifted a fancy perfume/soap/body lotion gift set, dad got some never worn clothes my hubby had been gifted and never like enough to wear…plus I bought some dollar store items that filled up the basket cheaply yet with usable items like socks, shampoo and bubble bath, batteries, placemats, food seasonings etc) I dressed in black to hide in the shadows… sneaked in the dark and left the big package on their step late one night….! Of course, I did not hear anymore about it and just went on thinking I was very crafty for not being figured out. I did take satisfaction in seeing the little boy wearing a sweater I had given and I also saw the little girl with the doll I bought and she showed me how her dolly had come with a whole wardrobe of homemade but fancy, sparkly clothes. I secretly glowed.
That following summer, one morning I went out to my front flower garden and found a bleached white Long Horned Cattle Skull nested in my rustic flower bed amid the old wagon wheels, plough and other vintage items I had collected as garden accents. I KNEW this distinctive skull came from these people’s front garden. I had admired it and mentioned to them a few years ago and was told the boy and his dad found the skull while hiking and the young son insisted on bringing it home and he felt it was a real find. Now there it was, the bone pure white from sun bleaching, with its impressive, extremely long, ivory-like horns gracing my garden! I did wonder if perhaps neighborhood hooligans might have been playing a joke and stealing and swapping around people’s garden art so I went right over and asked the people…the little son actually as I knew it to be “his”. He told me “YES!” he had brought it to me as a surprise gift because he knew I liked it. He told me about their Christmas hamper left on their doorstep and he said his family suspected I was their secret Santa. Feigning complete innocence, I asked him why he thought it was me….. and with childlike candor this 10 year old boy said “Well, you ARE the nicest OLD LADY (aged 23) on the street and my mum said you would be the only person who would do this weird thing….” While I did not confirm this (the part about being “weird” OR the secret Santa part), denied it, in fact (still thought it was more fun for them to enjoy the happy mystery of not knowing for sure and frankly felt a bit embarrassed…) I did thank him heartily for the unique skull gift as I knew he treasured this skull, found with his dad, but he insisted he did want me to keep it. It was his “best” to give and he sacrificed to give me something he knew was a good item for me and one I would cherish.
I kept that precious skull in my garden, just where the little boy had placed it. When we sold the house, the skull moved with me. I was so touched every time I looked at this distinctive gift, knowing it came from a little boy’s sweet thankful heart and knowing he too felt happiness at giving an unexpected yet prized treasure to make someone else happy. This story, of course, was long before the Pay It Forward movie but all these years later and several LONG moves, I have lost contact with this little boy who would now be a wonderful adult man…but this irreplaceable skull goes with me and will always remind me of loving kindness returned 100 fold. I have not ever received a more meaningful gift.
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