Comments on: How to Win Friends and Influence People http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/ Common sense advice on money saving tips, how to get out of debt, high interest savings accounts, cd rates, money market accounts, mortgage rates, money management and more. Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:16:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: jordan http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-3335401 jordan Wed, 12 Jun 2013 05:17:14 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-3335401 This is an awesome post and speaks the truth. Part 6. Make the other person feel important is possibly the most influencing and strategic chapter from the book. Dale Carnegie is the man, If anyone is further interested in who Dale Carnegie was and what he was about I recommend reading this review on him: http://pinkmistmotivation.com/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people-book-review/#more-368 This is an awesome post and speaks the truth. Part 6. Make the other person feel important is possibly the most influencing and strategic chapter from the book. Dale Carnegie is the man, If anyone is further interested in who Dale Carnegie was and what he was about I recommend reading this review on him:

http://pinkmistmotivation.com/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people-book-review/#more-368

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Sincerely,

Jared Balis

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]]> By: Gabriel http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-195413 Gabriel Mon, 31 Aug 2009 21:23:38 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-195413 Carnegie leaves out one important aspect of winning friends and influencing people: Setting healthy personal boundaries. It is easy to read this book and continuously give to others, but it needs to be noted that there are times and places to be 'selfish'. If you read this book, pick up some literature on personal boundaries as well. If combined properly, the two together can make up a solid foundation for human relationships regardless of who you are. Carnegie leaves out one important aspect of winning friends and influencing people: Setting healthy personal boundaries. It is easy to read this book and continuously give to others, but it needs to be noted that there are times and places to be ‘selfish’.

If you read this book, pick up some literature on personal boundaries as well. If combined properly, the two together can make up a solid foundation for human relationships regardless of who you are.

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]]> By: Daily Links: End-of-the-Year Edition ? Get Rich Slowly http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-161095 Daily Links: End-of-the-Year Edition ? Get Rich Slowly Fri, 26 Dec 2008 19:00:43 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-161095 [...] As you’re prepping for the new year, why not resolve to be more responsive. An older article at Business Week has some great tips for making a good impression: respond quickly, be enthusiastic, make eye contact, be respectful. This is good stuff (and reminds me of the classic How to Win Friends and Influence People). [...]

[...] As you’re prepping for the new year, why not resolve to be more responsive. An older article at Business Week has some great tips for making a good impression: respond quickly, be enthusiastic, make eye contact, be respectful. This is good stuff (and reminds me of the classic How to Win Friends and Influence People). [...]

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]]> By: Galina http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-136110 Galina Thu, 12 Jun 2008 01:06:34 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-136110 Great book! I love that its so understandible, and has such great examples from real life. Great inspiring book to read. Great book! I love that its so understandible, and has such great examples from real life. Great inspiring book to read.

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]]> By: Amos http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-112115 Amos Mon, 14 Jan 2008 09:10:38 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-112115 This is perhaps one of the most essential self-improvement book for anyone to read, I do find people who are genuinely sincere about making other people feel good about themselves very attractive; more importantly they are invaluable friends in the long run. This is perhaps one of the most essential self-improvement book for anyone to read, I do find people who are genuinely sincere about making other people feel good about themselves very attractive; more importantly they are invaluable friends in the long run.

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]]> By: PH http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-98037 PH Thu, 20 Sep 2007 13:50:25 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-98037 This is a fantastic book and "Best of all, this book is readable.", even for me, a student in China who has a very limited English ability. This is the first and only English publication I've read, and I find it is so worthwhile that I am eager to read other great works of Dale Carnegie. This is a fantastic book and “Best of all, this book is readable.”, even for me, a student in China who has a very limited English ability. This is the first and only English publication I’ve read, and I find it is so worthwhile that I am eager to read other great works of Dale Carnegie.

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]]> By: The Power of Yes: A Simple Way to Get More Out of Life ? Get Rich Slowly http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-89585 The Power of Yes: A Simple Way to Get More Out of Life ? Get Rich Slowly Wed, 13 Jun 2007 17:17:39 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-89585 [...] How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie has a five-star rating on 107 reviews at Amazon, and rightly so. This is a classic book about courage in everyday life. (From the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People.) [...]

[...] How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie has a five-star rating on 107 reviews at Amazon, and rightly so. This is a classic book about courage in everyday life. (From the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People.) [...]

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]]> By: Asgeir Hoem http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-85431 Asgeir Hoem Mon, 07 May 2007 05:25:22 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-85431 "Each of the book’s chapters has a title that sounds like a link-baiting weblog entry" haha, someone has been blogging too much :-) great review, and thanks for heaps of useful posts “Each of the book’s chapters has a title that sounds like a link-baiting weblog entry”

haha, someone has been blogging too much :-)

great review, and thanks for heaps of useful posts

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]]> By: There is No Secret: The Myth of the Law of Attraction ? Get Rich Slowly http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-85362 There is No Secret: The Myth of the Law of Attraction ? Get Rich Slowly Sun, 06 May 2007 16:29:26 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-85362 [...] a marvelous job of describing how the law of attraction can help you build stronger relationships. (My review.) Of course, Carnegie never actually mentions the law of attraction, but that’s the idea [...]

[...] a marvelous job of describing how the law of attraction can help you build stronger relationships. (My review.) Of course, Carnegie never actually mentions the law of attraction, but that’s the idea [...]

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]]> By: James http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-80888 James Sat, 10 Mar 2007 10:23:03 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-80888 I live my life like this dude says but others don't and it seems like hard skin is valued higher than being Mr nice guy in todays world. I think the fact that I have lived my life like this guy has made me lonely. I think one thing which is basically as important for success is confidence. I live my life like this dude says but others don’t and it seems like hard skin is valued higher than being Mr nice guy in todays world. I think the fact that I have lived my life like this guy has made me lonely. I think one thing which is basically as important for success is confidence.

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]]> By: unnamed http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-80472 unnamed Sat, 03 Mar 2007 22:15:39 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-80472 i love this book... i think you will love it too i love this book…
i think you will love it too

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]]> By: Hasan Diwan on the Web! http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-79642 Hasan Diwan on the Web! Tue, 20 Feb 2007 20:48:01 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-79642 <strong>Unless you're me Sweetie, Read this Book...</strong> Instead of reading How to Win Friends and Influence People, read Get Rich Slowly's summary of it. Granted, people like Charis don't need to read it, she has the content memorised, even if she doesn't realise it, but for the......

Unless you’re me Sweetie, Read this Book…

Instead of reading How to Win Friends and Influence People, read Get Rich Slowly’s summary of it. Granted, people like Charis don’t need to read it, she has the content memorised, even if she doesn’t realise it, but for the……

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]]> By: dizzydiva http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-79602 dizzydiva Tue, 20 Feb 2007 04:17:36 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-79602 After reading your post J.D. there was a Friends of the Library book sale and I snagged this once I saw it for $1.00! I'm excited to read it! Thank you! After reading your post J.D. there was a Friends of the Library book sale and I snagged this once I saw it for $1.00!

I’m excited to read it! Thank you!

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]]> By: Jonathan Cisco http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-79489 Jonathan Cisco Sun, 18 Feb 2007 08:01:18 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-79489 I just picked this up a few days ago from the library. I love it! Can't believe I missed this one! I just picked this up a few days ago from the library. I love it! Can’t believe I missed this one!

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]]> By: How to Win Friends at rich text http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-77711 How to Win Friends at rich text Fri, 16 Feb 2007 15:09:40 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-77711 [...] contact 16Feb07 Over at Get Rich Slowly, JD sings the praises of How to Win Friends and Influence People. I was going to post about that book but JD’s said anything I would, so go read it there. [...]

[...] contact 16Feb07 Over at Get Rich Slowly, JD sings the praises of How to Win Friends and Influence People. I was going to post about that book but JD’s said anything I would, so go read it there. [...]

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]]> By: Matt http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-77682 Matt Fri, 16 Feb 2007 13:31:50 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-77682 I've read some of Carnegie's other books; I think I'm going to have to pick this one up and read it. I’ve read some of Carnegie’s other books; I think I’m going to have to pick this one up and read it.

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]]> By: Nirah http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-77320 Nirah Fri, 16 Feb 2007 04:59:29 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-77320 It's a great book. It helped shaped me early in life, as I read it in my early teens, about 14 or so. It has so much so ingrained a few qualities so deep that it has become part of who I am. However, I believe that in order to successfully implement his teachings and/or theories, one should be sincere - not just to be successful in the human network yet is full of superficiality. I personally loath people who 'play' around with knowledge like this, instead of be genuinely interested in enhancing and enriching the experience of human relationship. It’s a great book. It helped shaped me early in life, as I read it in my early teens, about 14 or so.

It has so much so ingrained a few qualities so deep that it has become part of who I am.

However, I believe that in order to successfully implement his teachings and/or theories, one should be sincere – not just to be successful in the human network yet is full of superficiality.

I personally loath people who ‘play’ around with knowledge like this, instead of be genuinely interested in enhancing and enriching the experience of human relationship.

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]]> By: Chris http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-77241 Chris Fri, 16 Feb 2007 03:35:35 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-77241 Great book, I read it once a year. Like others, the title kind of threw me which kept me from reading it for awhile. Great book, I read it once a year. Like others, the title kind of threw me which kept me from reading it for awhile.

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]]> By: Dez! http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-77209 Dez! Fri, 16 Feb 2007 02:57:25 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-77209 G'day. I agree that this is a fantactic book, very readable, very simple, very enjoyable. "It’s an easy book to mock — its earnest tips can seem idealistic and childish to the cynical" - The beauty of the tips IS their simplicity. You read these things and say "Of course' it's obvious!" "This book is easily misinterpreted. I’ve heard it condemned for encouraging people to be obsequious flatterers. Yet Carnegie loathes insincerity." - Another good point. I think this is a really really great book and one well worth reading every couple of years just so that the ideas stay fresh in you mind. I am a middle manager and it has really changed the way I work with my staff. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED read. Thanks for the review. Dez! G’day.

I agree that this is a fantactic book, very readable, very simple, very enjoyable.

“It’s an easy book to mock — its earnest tips can seem idealistic and childish to the cynical” – The beauty of the tips IS their simplicity. You read these things and say “Of course’ it’s obvious!”

“This book is easily misinterpreted. I’ve heard it condemned for encouraging people to be obsequious flatterers. Yet Carnegie loathes insincerity.” – Another good point.

I think this is a really really great book and one well worth reading every couple of years just so that the ideas stay fresh in you mind. I am a middle manager and it has really changed the way I work with my staff. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED read.

Thanks for the review.

Dez!

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]]> By: Melsky http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-76898 Melsky Thu, 15 Feb 2007 19:48:45 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-76898 I found that book very helpful too, and also another of his books, How To Stop Worrying and Start Living. They were re-written in the 80s. They got rid of all the old-fashioned language. But the books lack his voice and I found them nowhere near as interesting or helpful. I found that book very helpful too, and also another of his books, How To Stop Worrying and Start Living.

They were re-written in the 80s. They got rid of all the old-fashioned language. But the books lack his voice and I found them nowhere near as interesting or helpful.

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]]> By: dabrfe http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-76896 dabrfe Thu, 15 Feb 2007 19:42:26 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-76896 Great review. This is a terrific book. I was hesitant to read it at first because the title has become little more than a punch line in today's culture, but this really impacted the way I relate to other people. Despite the title, it is a not a book on how to become the most popular person in the room and the one who can win every argument; it is about how to act cordially and conduct business in such as way that the end result us for everyone's benefit. Great review. This is a terrific book. I was hesitant to read it at first because the title has become little more than a punch line in today’s culture, but this really impacted the way I relate to other people. Despite the title, it is a not a book on how to become the most popular person in the room and the one who can win every argument; it is about how to act cordially and conduct business in such as way that the end result us for everyone’s benefit.

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]]> By: Lauren Muney http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/comment-page-1/#comment-76881 Lauren Muney Thu, 15 Feb 2007 19:32:37 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/02/15/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people/#comment-76881 And I know that you are a delightful person to work with, JD, so these pages have rubbed off on you! And I know that you are a delightful person to work with, JD, so these pages have rubbed off on you!

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