Scott Adams (of Dilbert fame) has an excellent personal blog in which he pontificates on life, the universe, and everything. GRS readers frequently send me Adams’ nine-step guide to personal finances. It’s good, and someday I’ll post it here. (I haven’t found the time yet.) Yesterday Adams wrote about his Happiness Formula:
He noted that each component of the formula could be reduced further. For example, health can be broken into the following parts:
Each of these could further be reduced ad nauseum.
Today, in response to questions about the last component of his Happiness Formula, Adams has written about the meaning of meaning. There’s a lot of good stuff here. (There’s always a lot of good stuff in Adams’ blog. It’s in my top ten daily reads.)
What does “meaning” mean?
When you serve a purpose larger than yourself, you experience the sensation of having meaning. There are plenty of larger purposes from which to choose: You can save the whales, feed the poor, shelter the homeless, march for peace, serve your notion of God, whatever. The details don’t matter.
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I remember when Dilbert hit it big and it became clear that I would never again have to worry about money. It was a wonderful feeling, but it didn’t last. I went from happy to hollow with no warning. The first moment that I could afford any car I wanted, I lost interest in having a nice car. I simply couldn’t see the point, if there ever was one. Success is surprisingly disorienting.
One day, about ten years ago, I was alone in my office, sitting on the couch and reflecting on the fact that I had managed to become rich and famous in my dream job. For the first time in my life, I had no goals. And for a goal-oriented guy, that’s an empty feeling. Success was supposed to feel good and stay that way. But it tricked me. There was a huge hole in my soul. I sat in my office and sobbed.
Then the change happened. It wasn’t something I thought about. It wasn’t an indication that I am a good person or a bad person. It was just some sort of chemical reaction in my moist robot head. It was natural.
I turned outward.
And in so doing, bit by bit, I found meaning. I found ways to use my success to make the world a little bit better. It’s surprising how often the opportunity comes up. It ranges from personal favors to investment decisions to my choices to continue making a comic and a blog post for you every day.
I start work before most of you wake up because I’m a part of something larger than myself, and it feels good. I don’t work because I want more money. I work because it makes you happy, and that gives me meaning. And the extra money I make can be used to make other people happy too.
Adams says you have to take care of yourself before you can turn your attentions outward, before you can look for meaning. To me, this sounds a lot like Maslow’s Heierarchy of Needs: meeting basic needs leads to self-actualization, which leads to self-transcendence.
I know I’ve belabored goals lately, but they’re important. Goals are the fundamental building blocks of success. Even if your goal is simply to pay your bills on time this month, that’s a start. Success and wealth and happiness are intertwined. Life is not just about money. (Though this site is about money, and I promise there’s more ahead to help you save and prosper!)
[The Dilbert Blog: The Meaning of Meaning]
This article is about Self-Improvement Sunday, 25th March 2007 (by J.D. Roth)


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March 25th, 2007 at 12:18 pm
You’re right on about goals. I have goals for just about everything I do. I even have goals for going to the bathroom. (I think I read this in the Millionaire Next Door as well; what a delight to read about someone else with a similar mindset.)
Goals contribute to happiness. Go, goals.
March 25th, 2007 at 1:09 pm
On the same line of thought my favourite formula is still:
Happiness=Reality/Expectations
Any basic math knowledge is sufficient to recorgnize that there are two ways to improve happiness: either try to change the reality or change your expectations. What do think will be easier ?
March 25th, 2007 at 1:11 pm
I whole heartedly agree that having worthwhile goals is what makes life abundant. They don’t even have to be huge stuff. One of the books that has really burned the importance of goals in my soul is Victor Frankel’s Man’s Search for Meaning. Dr. Frankel tells the horrors of being concentration camp prisoner. He explains that while others died of sickness or simply just gave up living, his motivation to survive was his simple goal to write a book about his new form of psycho therapy. As soon as he had meaning, he was able to deal with any setback.
March 25th, 2007 at 2:28 pm
[...] I make lists like “100 things you want to do/have/be in your life”, at this stage of the game very few material possessions come on to it. Partly because I have a [...]
March 25th, 2007 at 9:43 pm
Thanks for this post, JD. I actually enjoy your posts on goals and success and happiness, so don’t apologize for them. I recently wrote an article on this topic called The Three Secrets to Happiness on Zen Habits. You might find it interesting.
Going back something you mentioned in passing: I’d like to hear about what your top 10 daily reads are! Give us the complete list!
March 26th, 2007 at 3:59 pm
I concur. Thanks JD for this reference to Adams’ website - I didn’t know it existed. The epiphany that Adams describes (and you reference) is powerful stuff. Many people on this planet will pay attention when this happens to someone who is so successful in the traditional (money, fame, intelligence) ways.
Happiness research is known as the “New Science” because it has remained dormant for so many years. These dormant years were the years of the “me generation” and the pursuit of wealth in material terms. It is so nice to see the abundance of information that exists today about what happiness really is. It’s not wealth in the “me generation” sense, that’s for sure. Keep them coming JD…
March 26th, 2007 at 4:05 pm
I don’t know about using addition. I think multiplication is a better operator… if you have lots of money, but no health, you aren’t happy.
March 27th, 2007 at 11:16 pm
Links for 9 Feb 2007…
It's been a slow blogging week for me. Been very busy with some back-of-the-house work related to the One Year Exit Plan business and some family matters (stay tuned, have we got news for you!) In the mean time, here are a few quick links I found i…
April 10th, 2007 at 9:50 pm
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December 11th, 2007 at 3:37 pm
Setting financial goals and building wealth can be done if you are disciplined about what you are doing. The only drawback about getting rich slowly is that it won’t happen until you are old. It takes decades for money to grow and to have the compounding interest effect. But that’s the reality of things. If you weren’t born into it, inherited it, sued someone, or got lucky with a successful business, then you are going to have to get rich slowly with long term investments.
January 25th, 2008 at 11:47 am
Excellent post. A great website I’ve come across about the meaning of life and purpose is The One Question: http://www.theonequestion.com - it has an free online test too