Your career is one of your most important assets. After your health, it plays the largest role in determining your ability to acquire wealth. Penelope Trunk’s Brazen Careerist is a weblog filled with practical workplace advice that that can help separate you from your peers. Some of her past articles include:
- How much money do you need to be happy? (Hint: your sex life matters more.)
- What to do in college to be successful in your career. A list of twenty ways to jump-start life after college.
- How to manage your image, in which Trunk learns to dress for success.
- Use money to buy time. “If you’re considering taking a job that requires long hours so that you can make a load of money, don’t do it.”
One Brazen Careerist reader recently wrote for advice about how to ask for mentoring. “Read a lot,” Trunk answered. “Find people you want to be like and send them an email.” But after replying she realized:
To be honest, it’s not like I do this all the time. So, like I said, the more I give advice the more likely I am to take it, and finally, I decided to try contacting someone I read about. [...] I emailed her to ask if she could give me some career advice. I sent her some sample columns and I made a little joke about how even the career columnist needs career advice. After all, humility and humor go a long way in getting someone to want to help.
She replied to my email ten minutes later. I couldn’t believe it. I rarely respond to my emails that fast. I decided she was very organized and on top of things and she would really have a lot to teach me. I got excited. And then I got nervous that I wouldn’t have good questions, or that I wouldn’t know how to steer the conversation. [...] Finally, I called.
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I felt great after that call. I felt great that I took action to get a new mentor, even if it didn’t work. I felt great that I read about someone and talked to her. That’s what people should do, and I knew that after having done it once, I would do it again. It wasn’t difficult at all.
Mentors come in many forms. The key is identifying those people from whom you can learn, and to ask them to share their wisdom with you. Do you work in a large firm? Would you like to pick the brain of the CEO? Form some questions and call her. Are you an aspiring writer? Drop your favorite author a line and ask him for advice. Don’t fawn. Don’t gush. If you are polite, and if you are sincere, most people will be pleased to respond. They were young once, too. They know what it’s like to be starting out.
I have a wishlist of people I want to contact. Among them are big names like Dave Ramsey, Guy Kawasaki, Warren Buffet, and Robert Kiyosaki. Despite having formed this wishlist, I have never acted upon it. That’s ridiculous. There is absolutely no harm in trying to contact these people.
Trunk’s story has urged me to action; during the next month, I will attempt to contact these gurus to ask them if they can offer personal finance advice to the readers of Get Rich Slowly. Like Trunk, maybe I’ll get lucky. (My first step is finding contact information for these potential mentors.)
Not all mentors are big name celebrities, of course. Most are simply successful people further along your chosen career path. But they can be as close as your circle of friends, or your family. I’m fortunate to have a blogging mentor who lives nearby; his advice is invaluable. By seeking the wisdom of others, you can learn from their experience, and use this knowledge to improve yourself.
I’ll be reviewing Trunk’s new book, Brazen Careerist: The New Rules for Success, during the beginning of May.
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JD,
Those mentors are fine, except for Robert Kiyosaki. It’s very likely that he largely invented Rich Dad, Poor Dad. He bashes mutual funds, which is horrible financial advice. And its readily apparent via public records that he made his money off of his books and appearances and not off real estate.
Critique of Rich Dad, Poor Dad:
http://johntreed.com/Kiyosaki.html
Criticism
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Kiyosaki#Criticism_and_controversy
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Oh, I’m well aware of Kiyosaki’s weak points, but I still think there’s a lot I could learn from him!
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I second DC Economist’s concerns about Robert Kiyosaki. I’ve always thought of him as being counter to the Get Rich Slowly idea, and I put him in the same category with people like Russ Whitney. I honestly believe the man does more harm than good. Much of what he says is easy for people to believe but unrealistic in practice. My suspicions are that he made all of his money by promoting the myth that there is an easy shortcut to getting “rich.”
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Actually I’ve contacted a few authors with questions about their books. For the most part they are very nice and willing to help out. The key is to give them something in return. A book review is typically a nice way to break the ice.
CD
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I third the “stay away from the slimeball that is Robert Kiyosaki”. I read r.d.p.d. and got caught up in the sensationalism of it all. And then I started looking for ways to make it into a reality. Turns out most things are not as he says. Check out this site for the deconstructing of Kiyosaki’s book:
http://www.johntreed.com/Kiyosaki.html
It’s long, and it’s obvious mr. reed doesn’t care for Kiyosaki… but I think Reed is correct in most of his analysis. Kiyosaki is a liar and a con, with no interest in educating you, and every interest in getting your dollar.
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I would also second that finding a mentor is great advice to people at all levels of their career. I also think people should feel comfortable to let the person giving advice know what your ambitions are. I think a lot of people seeking advice or looking for a mentor hold back, perhaps because their ambitions are not exactly like the mentors, but close. It’s a very natural transition and you can often get extremely helpful and tailored advice when you follow some format like
1) “I like the way you do ________.”
2) “I would ideally like to do _________.
3) Ask a leading question that shows how your goal and the mentors success are related.
Also, FOLLOW UP! If someone gives you great advice and you benefit greatly (or maybe not so greatly, but even a little) from it don’t leave the mentor hanging. Follow up, let them know what happened, and they will not only appreciate it greatly, but this is how long lasting and worthwhile contacts are made.
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“use money to buy time”
this is something i think about 24/7.. i’ve sacrificed a lot of my time and personal relationships in order to reach my own financial goals.. but i feel like it’s hurt the ones i love because of the lack of time i have to spend with them.. i’ve worked hard for 7 years and i’m not sure what i have to show for it.. i am now 29 and i realize i can never get those younger years back
now that i’m sort of settled at my job.. i’m starting to second guess my decisions.. most of my time is wasted in the commute.. i sit at a desk for 8 hours.. then i’m on the road for another 2 hours.. by the time i get home my energy is drained.. and i have no time to spend with my loved ones
i’ve had the same career for 7 years.. and i just wonder if there is an easier way to make a living.. i know i have to do what i have to do.. but i want more freedom.. what’s going to happen when i’m married? will i have time for my wife? and for my kids?
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I’ve talked w/Guy on a project I’m (slowly!) working on to explore his works for a Belly Dance audience. He’s very gracious, and considering the many demands upon his time, really took the time to write something clever and focused on me as a person.
HIGHLY recommended.
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J.D., I’d personally love it if you had Robert Kiyosaki do some guest material here.
Though I’ve always been interested in Business and financial literacy, my first real books I read on the topic were by Robert Kiyosaki. An investor friend of mine did a discussion group using his books and “The millionaire mind”. We were aware of the controversy around him and read the Reed page (as well as a rebuttal).
Personally I think most of his advice is good and whether Rich dad was a real person or a literary device really doesn’t matter to me.
Dylan, exactly what “easy shortcuts” are you referring to? I have not read all of his books, but I don’t recall him ever mentioning any get rich quick schemes.
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My marketing website led to so many requests for mentoring that I started my ConsultantJournal.com site as a way to give back in a more efficient way.
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Kick_push, could you move closer to work? Or get a job closer to home? I work from home and my husband walks four blocks to his job. It’s the greatest situation.
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I’m currently on a quest for a mentor – it’s kind of difficult as I’m in the IT/Internet industry and the position I’m trying to segue into isn’t exactly parallel.
My former boss ‘thought’ I should focus on IT/marketing and not finance, based on his personal opinions of *his* thoughts on finance, which lead me to a dead end.
Now I’m looking for finance professionals to mentor under, but it seems all my contacts are marketing/communications people with no contacts on the financial side!
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[...] Get Rich Slowly has a basic tip for finding a mentor: It never hurts to ask. [...]
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The best career move I’ve ever made was finding a mentor. The way i did it was to find the “best” programmer at my current job…as it turned out, he was a contractor, so he wasn’t in a position to help train anyone. I asked him where he learned how to do what he was doing, and eventually tracked down his mentor. I emailed the guy’s company, got an interview shortly thereafter, and got a job working there.
I agree with the “don’t be stupid about this” suggestion. I only mentioned once or twice that I was there to learn from the guy, but I certainly did more listening/observing than talking. After about a year and half, the training started to pay off…and three years later (in hindsight), this was one of the best moves I could have made.
Certainly a great tip for those starting out. My one regret was not taking this advice sooner.
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