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	<title>Comments on: PAYjr: A Web-Based Chores and Allowance Tool</title>
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		<title>By: Brandon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brandon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 20:05:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Not sure if I agree with giving your child a debit card.  A study at Cornell University shows that you spend 8% to 12% more using a debit/credit card instead of cash.  Apparently the psychology of it is that you see the green money going out of your wallet and it hurts a little more than swiping a card.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not sure if I agree with giving your child a debit card.  A study at Cornell University shows that you spend 8% to 12% more using a debit/credit card instead of cash.  Apparently the psychology of it is that you see the green money going out of your wallet and it hurts a little more than swiping a card.</p>
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		<title>By: Person</title>
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		<dc:creator>Person</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2008 06:04:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why is it so bad to credit them for what they do? Rewarding kids for what they do makes them happier, resulting in (most of the time) better grades and a happier lifestyle.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why is it so bad to credit them for what they do? Rewarding kids for what they do makes them happier, resulting in (most of the time) better grades and a happier lifestyle.</p>
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		<title>By: Dickey47</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dickey47</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jun 2007 14:33:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: x-er</title>
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		<dc:creator>x-er</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2007 20:21:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m with a few of the other people here. Paying your kids to do chores is the wrong thing to do.

The kids are part of the family, they benefit from living there then they should contribute to the household. Plus someday they will need to take care of their own house without getting paid.

Allowances should not be tied to chores. If you do that then they will begin to get paid for everything.

Try it, watch. Soon you will be negotiating over everything you ask them to do.

Oh, and don&#039;t give them a credit card. Even if it is prepaid.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m with a few of the other people here. Paying your kids to do chores is the wrong thing to do.</p>
<p>The kids are part of the family, they benefit from living there then they should contribute to the household. Plus someday they will need to take care of their own house without getting paid.</p>
<p>Allowances should not be tied to chores. If you do that then they will begin to get paid for everything.</p>
<p>Try it, watch. Soon you will be negotiating over everything you ask them to do.</p>
<p>Oh, and don&#8217;t give them a credit card. Even if it is prepaid.</p>
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		<title>By: Dickey47</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dickey47</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2007 16:19:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just switched to the homework for money thing.  As a behaviorist, you shouldn&#039;t satiate a child so they have no motivation to work - especially kids with motivation problems. Here is the homework contract I use (adapted for him and for a savings account):
http://brainsarefun.com/Contracts2.html</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just switched to the homework for money thing.  As a behaviorist, you shouldn&#8217;t satiate a child so they have no motivation to work &#8211; especially kids with motivation problems. Here is the homework contract I use (adapted for him and for a savings account):<br />
<a href="http://brainsarefun.com/Contracts2.html" rel="nofollow">http://brainsarefun.com/Contracts2.html</a></p>
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		<title>By: DC Portland</title>
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		<dc:creator>DC Portland</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2007 15:47:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry gang, paying children to do chores is a VERY bad idea.  This may sound a little extreme, but the lesson learned by children through chores for money is one of the things that has had the most negative effect on our society as a whole.  Expecting payment for community contributions has undermined our social connectedness as humans and has contributed to unhealthy levels of individualism.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry gang, paying children to do chores is a VERY bad idea.  This may sound a little extreme, but the lesson learned by children through chores for money is one of the things that has had the most negative effect on our society as a whole.  Expecting payment for community contributions has undermined our social connectedness as humans and has contributed to unhealthy levels of individualism.</p>
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		<title>By: DirtMcGrit</title>
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		<dc:creator>DirtMcGrit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2007 15:41:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Never had an allowance myself.  We got odd change for snacks after school every once in while, received bicycles, clothes, etc. when we needed them, worked for neighbors and friends if we wanted real money, and waited till birthdays or christmas for the rest.  The money I got from working went into a savings account for college -- although I suppose I could have done something else with it if I had really wanted.  In retrospect an electric bass guitar would have been nice.  

I&#039;ve never had a credit card debt in my 33 years of life.  Although I have been fortunate enough to receive a few gifts and inheritance checks when I really needed them.  Money hasn&#039;t been a focus of my life and I suppose I&#039;d disappoint a lot of parents (not my own) with my career decisions to date.  I suppose I&#039;ll be crushed by a younger money centric crowd later in life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Never had an allowance myself.  We got odd change for snacks after school every once in while, received bicycles, clothes, etc. when we needed them, worked for neighbors and friends if we wanted real money, and waited till birthdays or christmas for the rest.  The money I got from working went into a savings account for college &#8212; although I suppose I could have done something else with it if I had really wanted.  In retrospect an electric bass guitar would have been nice.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve never had a credit card debt in my 33 years of life.  Although I have been fortunate enough to receive a few gifts and inheritance checks when I really needed them.  Money hasn&#8217;t been a focus of my life and I suppose I&#8217;d disappoint a lot of parents (not my own) with my career decisions to date.  I suppose I&#8217;ll be crushed by a younger money centric crowd later in life.</p>
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		<title>By: MoneyChangesThings</title>
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		<dc:creator>MoneyChangesThings</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2007 15:27:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had a chart on the wall and would add or subtract from the kids&#039; running tabs.  It was an imperfect system, because they would often ask &quot;did you remember to credit me for x or y&quot; and there was no record.  With teens, you need to have a system that includes a memo line, so there is a record of what the transactions actually are, or you kids will drive you nuts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had a chart on the wall and would add or subtract from the kids&#8217; running tabs.  It was an imperfect system, because they would often ask &#8220;did you remember to credit me for x or y&#8221; and there was no record.  With teens, you need to have a system that includes a memo line, so there is a record of what the transactions actually are, or you kids will drive you nuts.</p>
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		<title>By: A Tentative Personal Finance Blog</title>
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		<dc:creator>A Tentative Personal Finance Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2007 14:21:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not sure what the answer for teaching kids responsibility with money, but I don&#039;t think paying kids for chores is a great idea.  Contributing to a family should be the primary lesson when they&#039;re doing chores.

But, I guess if they chores or task are above and beyond what they normally do, you could compensate them.

Also, I wonder how you teach young children about work=pay without using allowance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not sure what the answer for teaching kids responsibility with money, but I don&#8217;t think paying kids for chores is a great idea.  Contributing to a family should be the primary lesson when they&#8217;re doing chores.</p>
<p>But, I guess if they chores or task are above and beyond what they normally do, you could compensate them.</p>
<p>Also, I wonder how you teach young children about work=pay without using allowance.</p>
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		<title>By: cabesh</title>
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		<dc:creator>cabesh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2007 14:01:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So, I&#039;m probably REALLY old fashioned, because I think chores are part of being a family, not something that you get paid for, especially on a &quot;by the task&quot; basis.  If we &quot;pay&quot; our children to do everything, then they won&#039;t learn about family/community/social responsibilities.

On another note, after reading the Money Savvy Pig entry I was inspired.  I got out those canning jars and labeled them.  We talked to our 2 yr. old and 4 yr. old about money, how we get, what it&#039;s used for, and how to save.  They each got an &quot;allowance&quot; (50 cents per year of age) and put 10% into the charity jar, 30% into the college  savings jar, and 60% into the spending money jar.  We also discussed that fact that their chores were part of family responsibility, not something that they were getting paid for and that there are extra (non-chore) jobs to do if they want to save up extra money for something.

This went over pretty well.  My 4 yr. old gets it.  The 2 yr. old is excited because his big sister is. 

Thanks JD for great articles that are helping me teach my children about money, something that my parents didn&#039;t do for me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, I&#8217;m probably REALLY old fashioned, because I think chores are part of being a family, not something that you get paid for, especially on a &#8220;by the task&#8221; basis.  If we &#8220;pay&#8221; our children to do everything, then they won&#8217;t learn about family/community/social responsibilities.</p>
<p>On another note, after reading the Money Savvy Pig entry I was inspired.  I got out those canning jars and labeled them.  We talked to our 2 yr. old and 4 yr. old about money, how we get, what it&#8217;s used for, and how to save.  They each got an &#8220;allowance&#8221; (50 cents per year of age) and put 10% into the charity jar, 30% into the college  savings jar, and 60% into the spending money jar.  We also discussed that fact that their chores were part of family responsibility, not something that they were getting paid for and that there are extra (non-chore) jobs to do if they want to save up extra money for something.</p>
<p>This went over pretty well.  My 4 yr. old gets it.  The 2 yr. old is excited because his big sister is. </p>
<p>Thanks JD for great articles that are helping me teach my children about money, something that my parents didn&#8217;t do for me.</p>
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		<title>By: Matthew</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matthew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2007 13:48:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Since it&#039;s prepaid, it would be more like a debit card, which, in my experience, is the way most of us gen-nexters do business anyway. If a kid learns to use his debit card and watch how much money is on it compared to how much he&#039;s spending, then he&#039;ll be well off by the time he gets a real one.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since it&#8217;s prepaid, it would be more like a debit card, which, in my experience, is the way most of us gen-nexters do business anyway. If a kid learns to use his debit card and watch how much money is on it compared to how much he&#8217;s spending, then he&#8217;ll be well off by the time he gets a real one.</p>
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		<title>By: COD</title>
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		<dc:creator>COD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2007 13:33:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My kids have plain &#039;ole savings accounts - with ING though. The whole chore chart thing seems sort of silly. If your kid needs an email reminder to take out the garbage you have other issues in the family to deal with!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My kids have plain &#8216;ole savings accounts &#8211; with ING though. The whole chore chart thing seems sort of silly. If your kid needs an email reminder to take out the garbage you have other issues in the family to deal with!</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
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		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2007 13:01:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well...at least it&#039;s PREPAID, not actual credit. And I&#039;m thinking more in-line with your &quot;On the other hand...&quot; comment that by starting them early and educating them along the way...and by starting them on a prepaid card, not an actual credit line, that perhaps they will learn good habits for using plastic.

Let&#039;s be honest...the plastic itself isn&#039;t a problem. It&#039;s when people use them improperly, such as for buying things they can&#039;t actually afford. So perhaps this sort of early, restricted introduction is what some kids need to learn good habits?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well&#8230;at least it&#8217;s PREPAID, not actual credit. And I&#8217;m thinking more in-line with your &#8220;On the other hand&#8230;&#8221; comment that by starting them early and educating them along the way&#8230;and by starting them on a prepaid card, not an actual credit line, that perhaps they will learn good habits for using plastic.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s be honest&#8230;the plastic itself isn&#8217;t a problem. It&#8217;s when people use them improperly, such as for buying things they can&#8217;t actually afford. So perhaps this sort of early, restricted introduction is what some kids need to learn good habits?</p>
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