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This morning’s discussion about credit cards and emergency funds was interesting. Many commenters noted that if you have a history of using credit responsibly, a credit card can actually make an acceptable buffer in case of the unforeseen.
JenK made an analogy I like: “Credit cards, like knives, are not risky in and of themselves. People chop onions and peppers all the time without cutting themselves — though someone with a history of cutting might rather buy them pre-chopped.” The problem, of course, is that many people who don’t know how to use knives — or credit cards — get themselves into trouble.
A couple of readers pointed to interesting articles at other sites. Bornbad mentioned a Reuters story that describes how stressed borrowers use plastic to delay default. It seems the subprime mortgage crisis may have a domino effect. Some people purchased houses they could not afford, and have been staving off disaster with their credit cards:
Rising mortgage payments and tighter lending standards for refinancing amid the subprime credit crisis have dried up once-easy access to home equity loans for many middle-income borrowers — so desperate borrowers are using credit cards to cover basics while trying to keep up with home payments.
“When credit conditions dry up, marginal borrowers turn to plastic,” said Merrill Lynch North American Economist David Rosenberg. “We’re seeing signs of that already.”
In an October 5 research note, Rosenberg called rising credit card delinquency rates as the “next skeleton in the closet.”
It is one scary skeleton — and a specter of bankruptcy.
The problem with using credit cards — with their high interest rates — to stave off default brought on by “reset” adjustable mortgage interest is that it merely postpones an inevitable crisis, said Gregary Brown, social policy director at Metropolitan Family Services in Chicago.
“Our biggest concern right now is that there are lot of people who will face a choice between bankruptcy or foreclosure,” he said. “Either way, it’s going to suck.”
According to the article, U.S. Federal Reserve data indicates revolving consumer credit — mainly credit and charge cards — is rising rapidly. More worrisome, credit card delinquencies have reached a three-year high. And, as many GRS commenters who read the Reuters article noted, there’s this ominous sentence at the end of the piece: “The U.S. holiday retail spending season is rapidly approaching and, according to Rosenberg and others, this could push many home owners over the edge.”
Meanwhile, escapee wrote that the credit crisis goes beyond just the United States. In Fortune magazine, Peter Gumbel notes:
If there is an international precedent the U.S. should be watching, it’s actually that of the U.K. British consumers are just as overstretched as Americans, but since the real estate market there rose faster and fell earlier, they’re about 18 months ahead in the credit cycle. Since the last quarter of 2005, credit card delinquencies and charge-off rates in Britain have risen as much as 50%, forcing banks to take huge write-offs.
It’s a sign of the times that, according to one survey last month, 6% of British homeowners have been using their credit cards to pay their mortgages. That’s suicidal, of course, given that credit card interest rates are more than double even the heftiest mortgage. Keep your fingers crossed that it’s not a trend that crosses the Atlantic.
But as the first article noted, the trend is already here.
I know that many Get Rich Slowly readers are struggling with debt. I encourage you to put aside the plastic whenever possible. (I had to destroy my personal credit cards in order to overcome my debt.) Do your best to accumulate an emergency reserve. Continue to move toward your goal. With hard work and good fortune, one day you will reach a place where you no longer feel the need to rely on credit. We’re here to help you on that journey.
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October 30th, 2007 at 1:34 pm
I watched a friend and coworker go through this very thing and now her husband and she now both work two jobs trying to get out from under it. My husband & I are on a fixed rate mortgage but buried under debt that never we can never seem to get ahead of. We just keep working like crazy like everyone else to get ahead of it.
October 30th, 2007 at 1:38 pm
I think that a lot of us who are lucky enough to have good knife skills, as it were, forget how easy it is to cut yourself with a sharp knife; & today’s credit cards are sharper and more jagged then ever before, and they’re easier to get.
If you can pay off your credit card every month, if it’s only a way for you to get free rewards, and you never spend more then you would have otherwise, then use them! If not, if you spend more then you would, if you’re paying for today with tomorrow’s money, then Don’t.
October 30th, 2007 at 1:59 pm
Christmas should never put you “over the edge.” If you’re financial house is crashing around you, are you really going to exacerbate it by buying too many gifts?
I hope not.
October 30th, 2007 at 2:19 pm
I agree with the statement that credit does not equal evil. I was always a very responsible credit card customer, I used 0% offers with skill, I was never late, I paid my balances in full on cards that incurred interest charges, I enjoyed the rewards, etc. When my husband and I started out on our $55,000+ debt paydown project in 1/07 the vast majority of that debt belonged to my husband (it was our debt b/c we got married and I wanted to treat it as such). However, I had my part too: $10,000 in credit card debt but I didn’t think of it as debt b/c it was 0%.
Now that I’m in month 10 of not using credit cards I have come to realize that credit cards enabled (in the psychological sense) me to spend more than I should have. Looking back at my credit card statements for the past few years I’ve found that I spent, on average, $8000-$10,000 a year more than I should have. Yes it was money I had available but if I’d saved it I would have more than enough for a nused car (or even a new car) or maxed out an IRA each year or put it away for a rainy day.
October 30th, 2007 at 3:07 pm
I would hope that if the mortgage was too much to cope with, I’d have the guts to sell the house. I think I was fortunate in having a too-expensive-home go south when I was renting; I learned that “stuff happens” (flaky roommates) and got into a cheaper apartment. Yes, some of the move costs and the last month’s rent went onto credit cards, but selling furniture that wouldn’t fit in the new place and the $400/mo rent savings let me pay it off quick. That’s why, when I bought, I only considered a fixed-rate mortgage. And I keep a year’s worth of payments in the emergency fund.
All that said, I do think Liz Pulliam Weston has a point in her article, “The big lie about credit card debt.”
MOST Americans are not in credit card debt (25% don’t have credit card debt, another 30% pay them off every month). But the ones who are okay are not the ones who are in the headlines. And they may be a bit less interested in actively seeking help with finances than the typical reader here
Why am I bringing this up? Simple. There’s a perception that EVERYONE is paying off credit card debt and EVERYONE has a negative net worth. Not so! Yes, there are people in trouble out there - but they are not the norm, and there is no reason to expect that you MUST be one of the people in trouble.
October 30th, 2007 at 3:09 pm
Sam,
My husband and I are on our sixth year of living credit card free, and we noticed exactly the same thing. Psychologically, it’s much easier to pay with plastic than with cash. The difference in our savings has been amazing!
October 30th, 2007 at 3:12 pm
I don’t really appreciate the US market that well, but the news over here is all about whether we are going to have a real estate crash like the one in the States - most commentators seem to suggest that we are behind in that respect not ahead. Whether are overall position is worse, I wouldn’t know.
October 30th, 2007 at 3:15 pm
Sam & Redhead68,
Funny - I feel more “free” with my money when I pay cash. I think it’s because credit gets scrutinized when the bills arrive, so I know there will be an accounting to come…
October 30th, 2007 at 3:19 pm
Fascinating, Jen. I guess that goes to show that there is no real one-size-fits-all financial advice other than “spend less than you earn.”
October 30th, 2007 at 3:22 pm
October 30th, 2007 at 3:31 pm
@JenK: Oh, i completely agree with you! Cash, it’s gone as soon as i have it! I try to never carry any, ever. Sure, it pisses off alot of my friends, but if they’re real friends, they get over it. I don’t know where my cash goes, but i always know where my plastic purchases go. Plus, if i get robbed, all the get is at most a few bucks, and my frequent shopper cards.
October 30th, 2007 at 3:41 pm
I think the main problem with credit cards is that they’re easier to get than a regular loan. When I entered university straight out of highschool, companies were lined up to give me credit cards. A few years later when I had bought a car (with cash) and was renting my first apartment, I applied for a line of credit and was rejected because I didn’t have enough of a credit history. My income was fine, the history I did have was spotless, it just wasn’t long enough.
It seems to me that people don’t treat credit cards as seriously because the issuers don’t treat them as seriously. When you apply for a car loan or a mortgage it’s a big deal, there are repayment terms and a lengthy approval process that perhaps brings home the idea that this is a Big Deal. With a credit card it’s more sneaky, they don’t tell you about paying off your entire bill because they don’t [i]want[/i] you to pay off your bill. It’s more like “You want a credit card, here you go.”
October 30th, 2007 at 3:47 pm
“My husband and I are on our sixth year of living credit card free, and we noticed exactly the same thing. Psychologically, it’s much easier to pay with plastic than with cash. The difference in our savings has been amazing!”
Weird. I don’t think using Visa has affected my spending at all. Back when I had unlimited free transactions on my bank account, I used to use cash for everything. It certainly didn’t stop me from spending. There was a cash machine in the record store and sometimes I would visit it two or three times during the same shopping spree.
October 30th, 2007 at 3:52 pm
@Sam: “I agree with the statement that credit does not equal evil.”
I don’t. I think credit card companies are evil and greedy. They’re out of control and over the top. The fact that our nation has about 916 BILLION dollars in consumer debt, much or most of that on credit cards means there is something *wrong* with how Americans are handling money.
October 30th, 2007 at 5:13 pm
wow, if someone’s in so deep that they’re pulling mortgage payments off a credit card, the only obvious fix is to walk away from the house, because this is not sustainable behavior. the end result will be worse: no house, a huge load of credit-card debt, and ruined credit. a foreclosure/short sale will obviously damage credit, but it beats the alternative. any “advisor” telling someone to keep the house above all else needs to be beaten.
October 30th, 2007 at 6:33 pm
Caveat: I pay off all my cards each month, no matter what.
From my POV, credit cards are basically free money. I get an interest free loan for roughly a month, and - this is the best part - the points I get means they pay ME to take their loan!
When I use an ATM, I pay an average of about 2% - I withdraw $100 and pay $2. When I use a credit card, I spend $100 and get $1 of points - AMEX or Continental miles. This means that, per $100 spent, I am $3 richer than the guy using the ATM.
October 30th, 2007 at 8:02 pm
I don’t think credit cards are inherently evil, but they are not to be trusted. Credit cards bottom line is to make a profit off you. They will try it anyway they can. They will switch around due dates–sometimes sending a statement with the balance due only 1 week later (which is fine as long as people check and pay online). There have been cases where the credit card companies have held or even torn up payments by mail in order to force the cardholder to pay a late fee. I also feel sometimes credit cards/banks take advantage of the most vulnerable customers, usually the ones who are the most uninformed, or in some cases who have learning disabilities. I know someone who is autistic who has been overcharged by his bank for years (yes, not a credit card but I put banks in the same category). That being said I don’t shy away from credit cards completely. Some offer really good bonuses and warranty protection–but it’s not free. There is a price to every perk and the credit cards patiently wait for the opportunity to make money off of your mistakes and ill fortunes.
October 30th, 2007 at 8:21 pm
Aleks,
Perhaps I should elaborate about how I manage my cash. At the end of every month, my spouse and I review the next month’s budget and transfer that money from our high-interest savings account, where our paychecks are automatically deposited, into our checking account.
At the beginning of each week, I withdraw the cash I have planned to spend on our variable expenses for the week (groceries, gas, restaurant meals). I immediately go to the grocery and then to the gas station. The rest of the money goes into an envelope at home until needed. I do not carry anymore cash on a daily basis than I plan to spend.
It’s not a mind-game (as someone put it in another thread). I just find it a simple way to prevent unnecessary purchases, because I must plan ahead for expenditures, and it’s definitely working for us. We currently save/invest about 35% of our annual income.
Over the last six years, we’ve amassed enough to purchase a house out-right in our Denver neighborhood, and we’ve maxed out our retirement savings at the same time. The kids both have healthy college funds to boot.
I’m proud of our accomplishment. We’ve made lots of great changes over the last six years, and, to think it all started when we got rid of that card.
October 30th, 2007 at 8:42 pm
I also want to add that credit cards are enablers, especially for those who are desperate–and while I think that is bad, some might see the positive side to it.
October 30th, 2007 at 8:59 pm
All this credit talks makes me think that maybe it’s time to trot out one of my very favorite money hacks: Put a post-it note on your credit card, and write down each purchase amount as you make it. It’s so easy to lose track of the balance and be surprised when the bill arrives. With the post-it, you can keep a running tally and it’ll keep you honest!
October 30th, 2007 at 9:03 pm
I recently paid off my credit card & never want to be in debt again. So I don’t keep it in my purse anymore. The payments I was making to them, now goes into a high interest earning savings account, automatically. Now cash goes into 3 envelopes & I use those each month. They are 1) Groceries/Dining Out; 2) Misc./Toiletries/Fun and 3) Gas/Car Wash. This way I have enough money week by week to pay those expenses. At the end of the month whatever is left over goes into a clothes fund for myself. (I’m single). Then I start all over the following month. I have an emergency fund should I need any kind of car repair or house repair.
October 30th, 2007 at 9:09 pm
It appears from the comments that we, blog readers and posters, are not having any financial issues. All is well and we are sorry for the trouble others are having, but hey, it is their own damn fault right? I sell home loans and I can tell you from seeing 250-300 loan applications a year that few and I mean very few have any financial strength at all. Yes, they have good credit and they may have low debt but they rarely have savings either. So this is a rare crowd and I am glad to be with you in this land of debt free living and fiscal health.
On a side note: The house of cards is getting more precarious everyday and I for one think we are far from the bottom. It is going to be an wild couple of years. Are you learning Mandarin or Cantonese?
October 30th, 2007 at 11:22 pm
jtimberman: I think your argument is skewed.
“I think credit card companies are evil and greedy…means there is something *wrong* with how Americans are handling money.”
These are two very different things. Yes, credit card companies make a fortune in interest and preying on people who can’t use credit effectively. We live in a capitalistic society, and cc companies are highly capitalistic. Big deal. It’s not the credit card company’s job to educate people about personal finance.
The problem is that many people don’t know how to manage debt. *That* lack of skill in someone does not make *the credit card company* the devil. Owning a credit card doesn’t mean you will be in serious debt.
People need to take accountability for their financial decisions, and not try to pass the blame. You can complain and say “yeah, they gave me a card when I started college and I got SOOOO into debt.” But the real point is that the person *took* the card and used it without understanding it. Someone’s lack of personal finance management skills is not the fault of the credit card company.
October 31st, 2007 at 6:16 am
Credit card companies, for the most part, are out to make as much money as they can. But the only reason they are so successful is because the average American is clueless as to how to handle finances. Plus, they’re bought into the mass cultural belief that we need, and are somehow entitled to, *stuff*.
The real way to fight back at the cultural propaganda and credit card companies is to make sure we’re as educated about finances as possible. We need to learn good habits, then pass them on to the next generation.* Otherwise, the economy is just going to blow up in the country’s face. And then we’ll just be trying to survive.
*And don’t depend on future generations learning any solid financial practices at school. I’m currently taking a personal finance class at my college, and the text is based on the cultural beliefs instead of financial truths. (i.e. you need credit!, use credit cards for consumables, etc.)
October 31st, 2007 at 6:20 am
Re: Bryant Keefe
My husband I are strengthening our financial situation, with the goal of buying a home in the next year or two. If you were so inclined, I would be grateful for any expertise you could share.
October 31st, 2007 at 6:26 am
Charging your mortgage payment on your credit card? Is there a Darwin Award for that?
Pretty clearly, as a society we need a way to protect our economy from individual stupidity and from the avarice of large corporate entities. We’re ALL going to pay the price racked up by people who were dumb enough to buy houses they couldn’t afford with dangerous mortgage instruments set like bear traps.
Deregulating everything in sight generated short-term profits for corporate interests and for those of us who invest in the stock market, but over the long term–as we’re starting to see now–deregulation does America no favor. The folks who “complain and say ‘yeah, they gave me a card when I started college and I got SOOOO into debt’” can be made to take all the accountability you like, but ultimately the rest of us still end up paying for their stupidity–and for the greed of the entities that took advantage of it.
October 31st, 2007 at 6:33 am
I never carry cash with me. If I have it I will spend it on stupid things like chips or soda. What I won’t do, however, is use a credit card to buy something like soda because it’s too embarassing to admit that you don’t have even $1.00 in your pocket! I think paying mainly with credit cards actually saves me a lot of money this way.
October 31st, 2007 at 7:19 am
To add to what Jenn said at #24:
My DH was an undergrad student at UC-Berkeley business school (Haas) between 1997 and 2000 (height of dot-com startup craziness), and read an article where an MBA student was complaining how a dip in the stock market would make it hard for him to pay tuition next semester. We were flummoxed that a mid-20’s MBA student doesn’t know not to put short-term money in the stock market?!?
In response, DH set up a 1 credit short course on personal finance, and many of the students were disappointed that it didn’t explain how to get rich by 30. Oy. I hope a few were paying attention when the dot-bomb happened, and they had to give up their dreams of internet startup $millions and think about getting real jobs . . . And these are supposed to be “the smart kids”?
As for teaching personal finance . . . My kids are 6 and 3. We’re already teaching them whatever we can about wants vs. needs, the game of advertising (”if you buy it because you saw the commercial, they win!”), the choices that saved money gives you, etc. We model modest living and talk about why we buy things we value and why we don’t buy things we don’t need or really care about, but I can tell it’s going to be a long road to balance outside influences to spend, spend, buy, buy, want, want . . .
October 31st, 2007 at 7:29 am
I’m currently about 9K in personal debt (car and credit cards), not including mortgage. I’ve a new job starting in November that will pay almost 3X what I make now. In light of this, I’ve committed to using the “extra” money to paying off all personal debt as soon as possible. With the current low-paying job, I’ve learned how to live on much less, and hope to keep those lessons in the forefront while transitioning to a higher salary.
October 31st, 2007 at 7:52 am
“People need to take accountability for their financial decisions, and not try to pass the blame. You can complain and say “yeah, they gave me a card when I started college and I got SOOOO into debt.” But the real point is that the person *took* the card and used it without understanding it. Someone’s lack of personal finance management skills is not the fault of the credit card company.”
Well, that’s certainly part of it. On the other hand, what the hell are these companies doing giving people easy loans (as in: here’s some free money and a candy bar, have at it) if they don’t understand debt? If we extend your argument to anything else in the real world, it seriously breaks down:
“People need to take accountability for their surgical decisions, and not try to pass the blame. You can complain and say “yeah, they gave me a scalpel when I started college and I got SOOOO into performing surgeries on my friends and random hobos.” But the real point is that the person *took* the scalpel and used it without understanding it. Someone’s lack of surgical skills is not the fault of the ACME Scalpel and Medical Supply Company.”
My point is there is such a thing as predatory lending, and there are laws and regulations that protect us from ourselves and other people using certain tools without understanding them, why should financial tools be much different.
It would be nice if we lived in a world where we could count on every single person to be completely responsible for themselves and everyone around them, but the sad fact is probably less than 20% of people are even capable of thinking like that, let alone actually being responsible.
And there is at least one obvious flaw in my analogy above: ACME didn’t trick the guy into using the scalpel, whereas alot of times credit companies do.
Just off the top of my head as an example, take the humble balance transfer fee. What is the effective APY on an account that offers 6 months of 0% interest on balance transfers with a 3% no cap transfer fee? The answer is something in the neighborhood of 9-12% depending on what it goes up to after month 6. Now, what is the interest rate number that they put in big bold type all over the marketing materials? 0%*, 0%*, and 0%*.
Tell me that’s not evil.
Then there’s variable rate mortgages given to unsophisticated borrowers. Also 6 month ’same as cash’ deals where the interest just silently accrues for 6 months, and store credit cards with 100% APY that give you a 10% discount. Oh and 1000% APY payday loans.
All of that is possible *only* because lenders know that most people are not going to do that math. All of that is at least as evil as using high concept logic to trick children out of their candy. You can argue that maybe the parents should have taught their children to hold onto their candy better, but it doesn’t change the fact that they are being preyed upon.
There should be a law that makes people do math problems to work out how much interest they are going to be paying (both before and after inflation) before they are allowed to borrow any money, and then they should be made to write the total cost of their new HDTV into a box next to the cash cost, and sign a waiver saying they understand how stupid it is to pay so much more money for something.
I know I could have benefited from such a law in my youth.
October 31st, 2007 at 10:53 am
I’m pretty sure if you went around performing surgery in collage you would be in a lot more trouble than the guy who sold you the scalpel, so you really backed up the personal responsibilty argument.
October 31st, 2007 at 7:33 pm
“It appears from the comments that we, blog readers and posters, are not having any financial issues. All is well and we are sorry for the trouble others are having, but hey, it is their own damn fault right?”
Pretty much. In terms of blog readers and posters not having financial issues I think some people above posted that they had debt and are getting out of it, so not everyone is OK. Also, this is an obvious example of what is known in statistics as “selection bias”: People who post on financial blogs are people that are interested in finances, savings, investments. People who write about saving money are likely to be doing just that. This would mean that this self-selected group is likely to have larger percentage of those who are responsible with money than general population.
“But the only reason they are so successful is because the average American is clueless as to how to handle finances.”
Well, I grew up in Soviet Union, so I sure hadn’t had any financial education before I came to the US. So how come both me and my parents (who barely spoke English) understood that we have to pay our bills in full every month or we’ll pay a lot in interest? It is really quite easy: a) you should learn as a child that if you borrow money from a friend or someone else you always have to pay it back and b) with credit cards, if you don’t pay the full amount by the due date, you pay a really high interest. This is really quite simple.
“What is the effective APY on an account that offers 6 months of 0% interest on balance transfers with a 3% no cap transfer fee? ”
Well, it doesn’t require much sofistication to figure out that nobody gives something for nothing and that 0% is not forever. So anybody with an ounce of common sense should check when this introductory rate expires and what the interest rate will be. If some young people have no common sense, why is it somebody else’s fault? It is all on the same page, you don’t even need to read full T&C. As to 3%, I guess they started doing it when they realized that lots of people use these 0 interest offers for arbitrage.
By the way, I do have a lot of sympathy for those who got in trouble because of a real emergency - like medical bills not paid by insurance, for example. I just don’t get “we didn’t understand, so we need rules” explanations.
October 31st, 2007 at 9:32 pm
I wholeheartedly agree with Kitty.
Since my response was quoted in a couple follow-ups, I’ll add a bit more.
I repeat that credit card companies are capitalistic. Sure, there are some ethical issues with their promotions and “shopshopshop” image they promote — I don’t disagree. They’re in the business to make money, and they’re successful. Do I like all their methods? Certainly not. Do I think they are “evil” because of said methods? No.
Which brings me to: saying that a person is ignorant about money management or foolish about it does not make it ok to call the credit card companies “evil.” Just, no. Yes, there are financial ramifications for market investors when a financial crisis hits (e.g. current mortgage situation, people with massive amounts of debt who have to file bankruptcy). But this is just how the system works.
You can’t blame one person’s foolishness/ignorance with personal finance on the credit card companies. Yes, maybe the person got a little too far in debt, having been tempted by a “great” deal, but if they don’t work to get out of the debt and learn something from the situation, the borrower bears the full brunt of their actions (or lack of them). America is a very finger-pointing/assigning blame type of country, and that’s just bs. I stand behind my posit of people being accountable for their actions. And many people aren’t going to fully understand money management until *after* they’ve acquired debt and then had to pay it off. People need to learn from their experiences and not say “boo HOO — I was TRICKED by the credit card companies.” Puh-leeze. If you don’t read what you sign, or don’t ask questions about what you sign, you deserve what you get. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but that’s truly what I believe.
As a side note, several months ago I had to update my Blockbuster membership once they changed their policies, and the clerk was highly surprised I took the time to read what I was signing. “You’re the first person to do that in a long time.” People are so happy to be reactive when something happens, after not being proactive to what they sign on to — and that’s just very, very wrong. People are not being tricked if they don’t take the time to inform themselves.
Oh, and the scalpel analogy doesn’t quite work. If someone isn’t a licensed medical professional and they’re performing surgeries, they’re breaking the law and also (potentially) mortally endangering other people. Just because someone is in default of their mortgage doesn’t mean that someone else may *die*…
November 1st, 2007 at 4:57 am
I’ve always found that the best way to have a good hard look at your bad debt is to visualise it:
Put EVERYTHING you owe on a spreadsheet…….and just look at it for a while. Let it sink in…..and then set up a system of getting back into the black.
I did this, and after many moons I was free
November 1st, 2007 at 2:38 pm
Not only marginal borrowers, but also financially savvy borrowers will turn to credit as well.
My dad will charge everything he possibly can to plastic, and PIF each time. He has a decently high credit limit and doesn’t need another line of credit anytime soon. His motivation? Collect the cashback rewards. Good for him!
Anyway, the best way to financial stability, in my opinion (just like anybody would say): 1) reasonably decent self control, 2) good judgement of current finances, 3) meticulous recordkeeping.
November 5th, 2007 at 4:33 am
How are you supposed to deal with the unforeseen if your credit is in the tank because of a previous unforeseen uninsured extended illness and hospitalization?
Is there a way to deal with it without becoming even worse off than you already are?
April 9th, 2008 at 12:44 am
er, was just doing some back reading, and came upon this article. after probably two years of knowing i *should* chop up ze olde credit cards, i’ve finally done it.
and i’m scared all to hell.
luckily, i’m on my way to having the $1000 in the back as back-up (i’m at $500, and i’m owed about $300 right now, so by end of this month i should be good).
however, its been about 12 years since i’ve been without a credit card; and about 10 since i’ve been without a credit card that could hold at least $10K.
needless to say i feel a bit lost, but a bit relieved as well. i can’t spend what i don’t have.
i used to be good with money, until i came into a bad time mentally. i honestly didn’t think i’d be sticking around this great wide world for the foreseeable future, so i spent like there literally was no tomorrow. now, i’m trying to crawl out of that crevasse mentally/physically and financially, and somedays i feel like i’m getting out; others i feel like i’m not. i’m attempting not to be so hard on myself, but sometimes, that’s the toughest part of all.