Free at Last! Saying Good-Bye to 20 Years of Debt
Published on - December 3rd, 2007 (Modified on - October 9th, 2009) (by J.D. Roth) Twenty years ago I was a freshman in college. I was a poor kid from a poor family, but my roommates came from wealth. In order to fit in, I went out and picked up a department store credit card. I bought some new clothes, an electric shaver, and a bottle of cologne. From that day on, I’ve been in debt.
Getting hooked
My debt grew slowly at first. The department store credit card had a $500 limit. I knew that I shouldn’t come close to the limit, and that I should pay the card off, but within a year I’d maxed it out and was only making minimum payments.
By the time I graduated from college in 1991, I had acquired two additional credit cards. I was glad I had them, too — when my job plans fell through, the credit cards became my emergency fund. I lived off them for months. I also bought a brand-new Geo Storm. Within six months of graduating from college, I was unemployed and carrying $20,000 in debt.
Deeper in debt
To escape impending disaster, I went to work for my father, something I had vowed never to do. During the 1990s, I was the salesman for my family’s box factory. My debt declined a little when I began to bring in a steady paycheck. But I wasn’t out of the woods yet. I began to spend more and more. By the middle of the decade, my debt had crept up to $25,000.
When my father died in 1995, I received a small life insurance settlement. To my credit, I applied this money to debt, and for a few years my balances declined. But then I returned to my profligate ways, buying a new car, buying computers, buying any toy I wanted. By 2004, I had accumulated over $35,000 in debt.
Turning things around
During the summer of 2004, Kris and I bought a new house. It was the home of our dreams: a century-old farmhouse on half an acre close to Portland. It seemed expensive, but the bank said we could afford it, so we leapt at the chance. Things became problematic, however, when we were forced to spend several thousand dollars making unexpected repairs. (Old houses are like that.)
I began to feel overwhelmed. I was drowning in debt, and the expenses were flooding in. I had been living paycheck-to-paycheck for more than a decade, merely staying afloat as the water slowly rose around me. Now I felt myself sinking below the surface — I’d reached the end of my credit and the end of my cash. Fortunately, a couple of friends threw me life preservers.
First, my friend Michael recommended that I read Your Money or Your Life by Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin. Then another friend suggested Dave Ramsey’s The Total Money Makeover. When I read these books, something clicked. I saw the light. I went to the public library and borrowed more personal finance books. I devoured them. They motivated me to action.
The method to my madness
Using the ideas I learned from personal finance books, I set out to eliminate my debt. I stumbled at first — I made plenty of mistakes. But eventually I developed a system that worked:
- I set goals. I can’t stick to a budget to save my life, so I developed what I call a spending plan. Like a budget “lite”, this tool simply gives me a rough idea of my income and expenses so that I can determine where best to put my money. It’s like a roadmap to my money, and it has helped me reach my goals.
I read everything I could find. I continued to read personal finance books of all sorts. I learned that even the worst books generally contained a piece of advice I could use. I developed the ability to extract the stuff I could use from a book and to discard the rest. I subscribed to personal finance magazines. I read personal finance web sites.- I tracked every penny I spent. I never realized how easy it was for me to overspend simply because I didn’t keep track of my money. I’d kept rough records in Quicken before, but now I became precise. By paying close attention, I was able to spot weaknesses and correct them.
- I attacked my debt. Following Ramsey’s advice, I started a debt snowball. I lined up my debts from lowest balance to highest, and repaid them in that order. Though this didn’t yield mathematically optimal results, it gave me quick victories. I knocked off several debts within just a few months — the psychological boost was amazing. It kept me in the game.
- I cut my expenses. I began to look for ways to live frugally. I didn’t cut everything, and I didn’t cut a lot of things at once. But gradually I winnowed out the little things I didn’t need. I looked for ways to save money, to get things for less. These small savings made a real difference to my bottom line. And I started adding to my savings account.
- I pursued extra income. I began to sell stuff on eBay and at garage sales and on Craigslist. I liked the idea of making money online, so I started a web site about comic books. As an afterthought, I started a site about personal finance. Eighteen months later, the comic book site is defunct and the personal finance site has become my vocation.
- I tried not to get discouraged. And when I did get discouraged, I didn’t let myself sink into despair. In the past, any mistake would have led to a sort of cascade failure. If I blew money on comics, it would make me feel guilty, would have caused me to buy more comics. I learned to simply accept my mistakes and move on, re-focusing on my financial goals.
It took a lot of time and effort, but these actions have finally paid off. Today I wrote a check for the last of my consumer debt. I am now debt-free, except for my mortgage. I’ve been walking around in a happy little haze all day long. To celebrate, I bought carne asada at my favorite little hole-in-the-wall Mexican joint.
Getting rich slowly
Now that I’ve eliminated my debt, it’s time to shift my focus from the past to the future. Thanks to great advice from GRS readers, I’ve been preparing to live debt-free. If you read this site regularly, you already know my plans for building wealth:
- I will quit my day job to write. Beginning in January, I’ll begin the transition from box salesman to full-time writer. This is scary, but it’s also a chance for me to pursue my dreams.
- I will create a budget. I can hardly believe I’m writing this. For years, budgets have seemed like a waste of time to me. But my income will soon move from a regular, known quantity to something less predictable. I need a budget to keep me focused.
- I will build my emergency fund. I’ve accumulated $1,000 right now, and that’s helped me weather some small storms. But the move to full-time writer is going to require a larger safety cushion. Over the next year, I want to save at least $10,000. Ultimately, I’d like to have a twelve-month cushion in a high-yield savings account. Excessive? Perhaps. But it’ll help me sleep easier at night.
- I will continue to fund my retirement account. The Roth IRA contribution limit increases to $5,000 in 2008. I aim to make the maximum contribution.
Kris and I will strive to repay our mortgage early. Though we’re aware of the drawbacks to prepaying our mortgage, it’s something we both want to do. We sat down tonight and drafted a plan, which I’ll share in the near future. Basically, we’ll make an extra payment to the principal every month, effectively halving the life of the loan.- I will automate my financial life. Over the past few months, I’ve erected a paperless personal finance system. I’ve signed up for automatic bill pay and paperless billing at the cable company, the phone company, and the gas company. I’ve scheduled automatic transfers to my ING Direct savings account. I’ve scheduled automatic investments to my Roth IRA at Sharebuilder. I’m not able to completely automate things, but I’ve done what I can.
- I will use a cash rewards credit card for regular expenses. I know that many GRS readers oppose credit card use of any sort, and I don’t blame you. I know the dangers first-hand. But I believe I’ve mastered the damn things, and I’m finally ready to make them work for me. My card gives me 1% cash back, so I use it to pay for all my utilities and for other planned expenses. (I don’t use it for unplanned expenses.)
Over the past few months, I’ve been building this system one piece at a time, testing each component to find weak spots. It’s sure to undergo changes in the future, but for now these are the actions that work for me. They fit with my way of life, and they will allow me to pursue my dreams.
Tying up loose ends
I’ve eliminated my non-mortgage debt. I’ve paid all my bills through the end of the year. I’ve boosted my personal emergency fund back to $1,000. I have a plan to fully fund my 2007 Roth IRA by early January. There’s $250 in my MINI Cooper fund, and $250 in my vacation fund. All I have left to do is my Christmas shopping. And to write some more articles for Get Rich Slowly!
Addendum: Big congrats to my friend Leo at Zen Habits. He just got out of debt, too, but his achievement also includes paying off his mortgage. Rock on!
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Being consumer debt free feels fantastic. The most my CC balance owing was ever was a shade under $2,000.00 but even that was enough to make me feel like a failure, stressed, and depressed.
I’m curious, J.D, instead of quitting your steady-income job soon after getting out of debt, why not carry on work at the factory for another year for example? You could’ve used that extra money per month (money otherwise spent on paying off debt) to pay down your mortgage even faster or just build a really good nest egg for your family. That’s what I would have done.
That $200/month I used to pay to my CC bill, and that extra $300/month I used to pay towards my 2nd house (which has been sold) now feels like I’ve won the lottery with that extra $500/month in my account. I don’t want to give it up.
Either way, thank you for this website and all the time you put into it and congrats on pursuing your dream while debt-free!
Mike
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So, in 4 years, you paid off $35000+ in debt, and yet you were living paycheck to paycheck just before that. I find that hard to believe, so why don’t you enlighten us? How much money over those 4 years would you say you freed up as a result of each strategy in your system?
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Chad, you may find it hard to believe, but it happened.
I don’t have exact figures as to how much each component contributed to my turnaround (I never considered logging the information when I started), but searching this site can help put the pieces together.
For example, looking at my article on spending plans, we can see that my debt service was $508/month as of October 2004. I don’t have exact numbers for my frivolous spending, but I know that I got rid of my landline (saving at least $40/month), cut cable from deluxe to basic (saving about $60/month), reduced my spending on books and comics and other crap. Also, I sold a lot of stuff and began to earn side income.
All told, this yielded a positive cash flow of over $1,000/month once I’d eliminated my debt.
My story is not unique. I get e-mail all the time from readers who have managed to similar things. They all basically say the same thing: attack debt, reduce spending, increase income. These are the three components of escaping the paycheck-to-paycheck lifestyle and massive debt. And time. Lots of time.
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I read this article when you first wrote it in December. I was so inspired! At that time we still had $11,500 in credit card debt. Using many of the same ideas in your article, in the past 28 months we have paid off the final $27,000 of our credit card debt. The final payment to chase went out this morning.
We are a family of six – a one income family – I am home with our four children. Actually a one SMALL income family. We have managed this debt repayment on a take home pay of $3100/month. Amazing things can be accomplished when you focus and don’t give up.
Thank you for your great website and especially for this inspiring article. It is articles like this that kept me going through the slow months of debt repay. I am grateful for your words.
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Thanks for your inspiration. I am 48years old, with under 30,000 of income.
My debt on credit cards is 20,000
In the last six months I actually stuck away 2,000.00 into an ING account. Every time I had money in my hands I put it in ING.
Every time I got any extra income, same thing.
Any time I had a balance in my checking account, I put it in ING.
I’m trying man, I’m trying…
I think I’m getting ready to take out the ING money and pay my smallest credit card.
Thanks for your inspiration.
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Just a note to say great job. And congrats.
I was debt free after selling our house back in 06. Was able to pay off EVERYTHING. including both cars we owned. Now Im 30 and have over $30,000 in debt in the matter of not even 2 years. We don’t own a house now so we cant just sell and do it again. Now we really have to work our tails off.
Im glad to have stumbled upon your article. Thank you.
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JD,
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Moreover, I found your website in Money Magazine. How did you get Money Magazine to advertise your article?
CJ
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Congratulations, great stuff! Good energy with being a full-time writer (the only way really to do anything you care about, I’ve found from being a moonlighting actor).
Cheers, Mick
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Thank you for the motivation…I am aiming towards the same goal!!!
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You sir, are an inspiration.
Thanks for the tips.
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Congrats and thank you for sharing your experience. I am 25 years and feel I am drowning in debt. I have $20,000 worth of credit card debt and $10,000.00 worth of student loans. I have simplified my life a lot and cut down on a lot of expenses. I have started to sell stuff online as well. Reading your article give me hope that it is possible to get out of the hole, one step at a time. Thank you…thank you ..thank you..
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Not only do I escape the mad Christmas shopping season this way and am able to enjoy the holidays with my family, but I also save a lot of money and get some real steals. One year I got my MIL a fancy music box at JcPenney’s for under $25.00–the original price over $250.00. This year, I picked her up a gorgeous gilted angel for under $10.00–original price $50.00. Plus, I got her a couple of designer sweaters for under $10.00 each.
I’m completely finished with shopping for extended family for the 2008 Christmas season, and I spent less than $200.00.
Now, the only rub to this plan could be when a relative wants to return something–of course they can’t. But this has only happened to me once in all of the years I’ve been doing this. The solution to that is to simply have some cash on hand and tell the relative that you’ll return the gift and offer them a reasonable amount of cash for the item. Then you can possibly give the gift to someone else.
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Well done! The best has yet to come!
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this is my story
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awesome, congrats! I’m 21 and I am going on my third year to college, and have been working my way through it. I have no debt, and I’ve been saving the past year. Im going into chemical engineering, and this will be my last semester working, since the spring semester will be too intense to work as well. I’ve accumulated about 10K in savings by giving myself a $200 allowance every two weeks and saving everything else. I feel scared about not working, since I have been since 17, but I know I need to so I can graduate soon.
Karla
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Congrats
I’m so happy for you, and your story is inspiring.
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Hello, good for everyone, i’ve been debt free for 2 years now,I turned a 25 year mortgage into a 9 year affair, you need to sacrifice and realize what your goals are, I wanted to pay off my mortgage, so every year I would put an extra 15k on it in cash and before you know it it’s over, i saved 80,000.00 bucks in interest, yes I did, so I celebrated and bought a bmw z4 convertible, used of course, I don’t buy new cars anymore, no value there at all, buy a car minimum 2 years old and you’ll save at least 40% from the new price, so what if it has some mileage on it, get it checked out make sure it was not abused and buy it, my bmw still had the full warranty for 2 years, I drove from montreal to california this past summer with it. I also bought a used audi a4 quattro for the winter, again used this time 6 years old, but it runs great, who can tell that i did not buy the car new, who cares, except the bottom line of my finances. I wanted to buy a country house for the weekends, for 200k put 20k down, called my mum, she said ‘don’t do it now, everything is upside down in the world, wait for a deal withing the next year when people are desperate and need to unload there second house.’ mum know best so i’ll wait, enjoy being debt free it is a great feeling, however i see the country as an investment to retire in then i would sell the house i live in now and use the cash for my retirement. so that is my experience with cash.
Dustin
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Victory! You’ve won the war man. Now is the time you feel the jah of life. MAy the good times roll forever for you. .” Get up, stand up. Stand up for your right. GEt up, stand up, don’t give up the fight. . .”
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A day late and a dollar short … I was so pleased to read this.
J.D., I just want to let you know that for me at least, this was the first blog that made me think that financial information was accessible to me. I had already made some decisions about how I wanted to change – and improve – my financial situation, but coming here, and reading your stories, and the stories of other people, some of whom are NOT financial geniuses, has been incredibly encouraging. Just believing that it’s POSSIBLE is a tremendous psychological boost. And knowing that there isn’t ONE right way to debt management or debt freedom is also helpful. There are plenty of professional financial writers out there, and I certainly want to learn more (it would be hard for me to learn less), but few of them are as accessible as you. Wherever else I go, I will ALWAYS start and end here – this blog feels like my financial education “home”. In addition to congratulations, I want to say Thank You – I hope at the end of 2009 to be able to say that I, too, am consumer debt-free – and it will be due in part to the encouragement I receive reading Get Rich Slowly.
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Congragulations! I am trying to work Dave’s plan too and I definitely would love to be in your position. I just started a blog too-www.moneylifedebt.blogspot.com
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To all of you drowning in student loan debt: If you enlist in the US Army they will pay up to $65,000 in student loans and you still qualify for the new GI Bill. That’s worth the same amount or more depending on what school you attend. You could even qualify for a bonus depending on your job. Not to mention your medical/dental benefits being fully paid. Sometimes you have to make sacrifices and this one would be good for you and your country.
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JD, have you considered any credit cards that yield higher than 1%? There are quite a few out there, and as long as you’ve “mastered” them as you say – you won’t have to worry about their sky high interest rates. I earned $500 last year using my Chase Freedom (3% back where you spend the most) exclusively, and I’m considering using a combo strategy to maximize my profits by using the Chase Freedom and Fidelity’s new Retirement Rewards card that offers 2% back on everything. I blogged about that strategy in my most recent post – check it out!
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Just noticed your comment about a max contribution on a Roth IRA. If you’re self-employed now, why don’t you do a SEP account or SIMPLE, and that way, you can set aside a bigger amount?
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