I’ve been pleased with our discussion here over the past couple days. Many of you have contributed valuable insights about education and careers. I always tell people that Get Rich Slowly has the best readers — your thoughtful comments continue to impress me. Thank you.
Other people have made fine additions to the conversation at their own sites. At All Financial Matters, Meg argues that loving your job is overrated. I believe that she’s correct, to some extent. It’s possible to find fulfillment outside a job you love through dedication and the pursuit of quality. (But I still say it’s good to pursue your dreams.)
Elsewhere, Noah talks about how not to find work that you love. He shares mistakes he has made, including a belief that education might be the answer. Similarly, Bohemian Revolution explains what to do if you can’t find a job you love.
Finally, at Soul Shelter (formerly The Prosperous Peasant), Mark has a wonderful piece on finding fulfillment. He took the words right out of my mouth:
It’s all too easy, sometimes to convince myself that “fulfillment” and “financial security” are one in the same. In my worst moments I fall into fantasies of a golden prize that lies somewhere just ahead — a definitively measurable accomplishment that will eradicate all financial concerns and deliver a conclusive feeling of Success (with a capital “s”). Sometimes the fantasy is seeing my book title on the New York Times Bestseller list. Sometimes it’s having one of my novels adapted for a major motion picture.
But in my clearest, most truthful moments, I know fulfillment is to be found by recognizing something simpler and more profound. I guess you could put it this way: My destiny is already unfolding around me. What I want to happen is happening now. I’m a published novelist and am living my life as a writer. My continuing struggles — rather than undermining my achievements — are reminders that it’s all for real. I’m working, actively working, at the thing that fulfills me most. I was lucky, early on, to find some wise words in the Bhagavad Gita. They’ve helped to guide me for years now:
“Be intent on action, not on the fruits of action. Avoid attraction to the fruits and attachment to inaction.”
For me, that’s what fulfillment means: sitting down at the desk and working, every day.
After two days of thinking about this subject, I find myself returning to the maxim that guides my life: Do what works for you.
While there are general rules of thumb — education increases income potential, happiness can be derived from meaningful employment — it’s important to realize that nothing is true in every case. What works for me may not work for you. The most important thing is to find a path through life that brings you happiness and fulfillment.
This article is about Career, Choices, Education, Self-Improvement Friday, 11th January 2008 (by J.D. Roth)


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January 11th, 2008 at 6:38 pm
I am a firm believer in the maxim as well. If your plan has no passion, then you won’t follow it.
It is like trying to force some one to eat something they don’t like. If they found it on their own, they might like it!
January 11th, 2008 at 7:15 pm
I believe the concept of loving your job is idealistic, something that most of us will never really get to. For me, my full time job meets my financial needs, and I look for self-actualization through writing, coaching youth sports, etc.
January 11th, 2008 at 11:21 pm
I was fed a lot of stuff about loving your job and following your passions. These career planners seem to forget something: your job is just one part of your life. Me, I like living without debts (other than the mortgage), having decent clothes, being able to take my kids places, travelling, buying books, going to concerts, not having a lot of work stress, etc. Your job is not who you are. It’s part of you, but it is not who you are. And you may love a lot of things that your job cannot provide you.
I started with an English degree, but quickly realized I love a lot of other things and moved my career to something much more lucrative.
January 12th, 2008 at 1:49 am
Found your blog today…very relevant theme!
If we can recognize what we like and can spend moments from our busy schedule (lucrative job) towards our dream (outside our job), I guess we are already on the right track of aligning our work with our inherent nature. I consider this one of the first steps of karma yoga. While selecting a major in college (and the first job) solely in accordance with our aptitude remains the ideal rule, our deeper interests may unveil late in life, responsibilities may not allow us to follow our dreams in early life, or our affinity to profits may simply be stronger.
Once we have identified a void in our life arising from a mismatch of our job with our instincts, we’ll sooner or later have to devote some time to activities that interest us. Now, if these moments give us more happiness, we may start spending more time in these new activities. As the quality of happiness grows, we may be encouraged to reassess our full-time professional preferences and our financial needs. And if we find that we have learned to place aptitude above profits, we may have successfully built a platform for “selfless karma.”
For believers in the Bhagavad Gita, our alignment with our true nature, which follows an alignment of our work with our instincts and an evolution in our instincts as well, is so gradual that it may take more than a lifetime. Nevertheless, once happiness at a spiritual plane higher than our current plane is experienced, it may be difficult to ignore it.
January 12th, 2008 at 7:53 am
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January 12th, 2008 at 4:27 pm
At times I love my job…..At times I despise it. I don’t think I will ever truly have a job I LOVE all the time. I don’t care how great someones job is its still work and at some point they will have to work when they wish they were elsewhere.
That said as far as education goes, I did not finish college. My salary is in the range of advanced education and I make fr more than anyone else I know. So yes it increase your potential but isn’t the only way to get a high paying job. In fact the job I really want thats related to my current one requires a degree but would involve a 30% pay cut
January 13th, 2008 at 9:05 am
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January 13th, 2008 at 9:34 pm
I would state Meg’s point differently, I would say *hating* your job is overrated.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with striving to find a job which you’re passionate about & fulfils you. I know I am - and every year, my dream job gets a little clearer and closer.
I do think there’s something wrong with looking down on your job in the meanwhile as unworthy of you. There’s a quote I like: ‘no job is inferior, only people are inferior’.
A job is not just a means to earn a living wage, it’s not just an avenue for personal fulfilment, it’s also our contribution to a functioning society, a contribution I’m happy to make regardless of what I do. There’s good in every job if we’d only open ourselves up to see it. And I think if we can’t learn to be happy where we are, no job is going to do that for us.
And in any case, I suspect that if and when I do get my dream job, I will eventually be sated and aspire to a new, different dream job. So a dream job may be more about the journey than the destination so we may as well enjoy ourselves along the way.
January 14th, 2008 at 4:51 am
As I moved from communal living to “average” American life back in the 90s, I tried to do a lot of reading to prepare myself. Truth is, i should have read *a lot* more financial works, as i am struggling to get out of a deep debt hole. But one book, “Die Broke” by Stephen Pollan, though somewhat mercenary in nature, at least shook the cobwebs from my idealistic brain. To sum him up: “Life is what you do that brings fulfillment–family, church, hobbies, etc. Work is there to fund Life. You may like your work, or you may not–most of the time, it does not matter, as it is only the source of money so you can do the things that are fulfilling.”
Now, I have found other authors who bring some balance back into that equation. I enjoy the job I have, and the work I do. But I’ve reached the top of my pay scale, and I would like to go a lot farther–at least until I get my debts paid off. Which means either taking time from the fulfilling things to make extra money, or turning one or more of my “fulfilling” things into a way to make more money. I am pushing for the latter. . . .
January 18th, 2008 at 4:46 am
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