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I went to get my haircut yesterday. Wayne, my regular barber, wasn’t in, so I drew the new guy, Richard.
“So what do you do?” Richard asked as he tied the apron around my neck.
I smiled. “I’m a writer,” I said. I was trying the label on for size, curious to hear how it sounded.
“A writer, huh? What kind of books?”
“No books. Not yet, anyway,” I said. “I write about personal finance. I write on the internet.”
Richard contemplated this as he spritzed my hair and combed it straight. “I have a son-in-law who writes books. There’s not much money in it,” he said. I laughed.
He picked up a pair of scissors. “Do you follow your own advice?” he asked
“I sure try to,” I said. “I did some dumb things when I was younger, and I ended up with a whole lot of debt. I’m out of debt now, and I want to stay that way.”
Richard nodded. “Most people struggle with debt when they’re young,” he said. “Most people do. But you know what? You get past that. It takes hard work, and it seems like it’ll never end, but you get past that. And eventually you get to retire.”
He plugged in the clippers and began to trim around the edges. “When you’re young, it’s all about work. I was regional manager for a national corporation for twenty years,” he said. “Then I worked for a bank. I retired in ‘98.”
I was puzzled. “But you’re cutting hair now. Did you decide to go back to work?”
“Yeah,” said Richard. “I was bored! I like this job.”
“My old boss keeps calling,” he said, “asking me to come back. He’s offering $12,000 a month, but I tell him, ‘Uh-uh, I won’t do it.’ I like cutting hair. Besides, I’m too old. I’m 75 now, and I’ll be lucky to live another ten years. I don’t want to spend those years in a high-pressure job.”
“No sir,” he said. “I like cutting hair.”
I’m surprised how often personal finance comes up at my barber shop. One time, a fellow spent ten minutes preaching the virtues of a Roth IRA with the fervor of a religious zealot. “The Roth IRA is the most over-looked secret in money,” this man said as the barber snipped his hair. “Everyone oughtta have one.”
Often the conversation turns to the cost of cars or fuel or food or housing. Last time I was in, people were sharing tips for saving money at restaurants. It’s not always personal finance, of course — the guys are more likely to talk about hunting, football, or politics. But my local barber shop is a surprisingly good place to talk with other people about money.
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January 19th, 2008 at 8:51 am
This story made me think of “The Wealthy Barber.” You should have asked Richard if he has read it…
January 19th, 2008 at 8:53 am
Wow. Really interesting conversation you seem to be having there. I think talking to other people can be one of the best sources for our blogging topics, and that obviously shows here. Great post!
Justin Dupre
http://www.blogosis.com
January 19th, 2008 at 8:56 am
“Most people struggle with debt when they’re young,” he said. “Most people do. But you know what? You get past that. It takes hard work, and it seems like it’ll never end, but you get past that. And eventually you get to retire.”
I hope he’s right about that statement, but I’m not so sure. I’ve talked about this with my parents (in their early 60s, I’m in my mid-30s). The conversation usually centers around the availability of credit. My dad always laughs and says he never had the chance to aquire much debt cause no one would give him any. Of course, the opposite is true for me - I try to pay my bills on time and the credit card companies are beating down my door to give me more. Credit is very easily available to anyone these days and I’m afraid its increased our wants and desires.
Dad always wanted a new truck but never could get the credit to buy one until he was financially stable enough to pay cash for it. I, on the other hand, could go out and get a new Mercedes today, on credit, no problem (well, no problem until the payments start rolling in). But you catch my drift.
I just hope your new barber is right - we “get over it” as we get older, because we come to our senses and use credit and debt wisely.
January 19th, 2008 at 10:16 am
As others have pointed out, I don’t think past generations realize how ubiquitous credit has gotten for the current generation. Young people can have everything they want, as long as they agree to make minimum monthly payments forever. Credit card companies want to own people.
It’s not as easy to get out of debt as many past generations would like to think. There is some personal accountability here, but some things shouldn’t be peddled to young people everywhere they go.
Promote credit education.
January 19th, 2008 at 10:20 am
I like Richard!
January 19th, 2008 at 10:25 am
Yup. Ditto on The Wealthy Barber comment. That was the first thing that sprang to mind on this post. It was folksy, charming, caring, and honest. I’d like to know more about this conversation.
Sounds like you’ve found a great barber shop. They are a dying breed, I fear. I’m still looking for a good one.
Keep up the great writing. I subscribe via RSS and never miss a post.
January 19th, 2008 at 10:48 am
I was going to say the same thing as Kevin…it reminded me of “The Wealthy Barber”.
January 19th, 2008 at 10:52 am
You should ask who his son-in-law is and what kind of books he writes. He might be a nice contact to have. Even writers who don’t make much money often have agents and know editors!
January 19th, 2008 at 11:15 am
“I just hope your new barber is right - we “get over it” as we get older, because we come to our senses and use credit and debt wisely.”
We just recently left the “let’s keep the debt rolling boat” and have finally entered the “what the @%$^#& were we doing to ourselves boat”. I have talked to my parents for years and it has taken me almost 39 years to realize that they were correct, you do not need credit to survive. My family has used credit as a crutch for a loooooong time lol. I honestly believe that as we get older one of two things will happen: either we get over it and decide to live more within our means while shedding debt, or we continue to hold the same old course which typically leads to a miserable life. I used to be a Training Specialist at a Credit Union…..on Christmas Eve a couple of years ago, a man came through the drive through in his nice shiny Jag. He looked the role. He wanted a credit card cash advance (it was like 5:00pm on Christmas Eve). When we pulled his account up, we had to hold the CC due to non-payment, his mortgage was in full closure (over $500k), his Jag loan was defaulted, two other loans, including a HELOC was defaulted, his checking account was empty and the savings had the $5 share certificate to hold the account open…..and he was wanting a $2k cash advance…..sad, very sad. He was in all views “living the life”, but he had absolutely nothing. THAT is the person that no one wants to become.
Darrell
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http://angrydebtor.com
January 19th, 2008 at 11:16 am
It has been my experience that most barbers fall one of the two extremes:
1. Intelligent, insightful and well-spoken
2. Let’s just say the opposite of #1.
Best Wishes,
D4L
January 19th, 2008 at 11:21 am
JD, When the barber starts giving you hot stock tips, watch out and buyer beware!
The “new” barber is wise beyond his years. Most Americans don’t like their job… but Richard…au contraire!
Pierre
January 19th, 2008 at 11:33 am
I haven’t gotten a haircut in over a year…i’m going for the samson look
January 19th, 2008 at 11:47 am
I wish the ladies at the salon would talk like this. Everytime I go, it’s more about how my friends are and what I’ve bought recently. I haven’t been to the salon for so long (been cutting my own hair), but I know when I go, it’s not about personal finance…how can it be when most procedures done on women’s hair costs over $20?!?!
January 19th, 2008 at 11:50 am
My grandfather’s a barber and he talks about this stuff constantly, at work and at home! His interest in personal finance is what got me started in it, reading blogs like this one, setting up my Roth IRA when I was 24 & in school with no 401(k) option, going for a much better interest rate on my savings account . . . So to me, stories like this & the concept of the ‘wealthy barber’ are second nature!
January 19th, 2008 at 2:42 pm
I enjoy discussing personal finance with my stylist because she’s the owner of her shop and therefore a small business owner. She gives me a lot of insights into how she runs her business as we talk. I also like talking to my dentist (when I can talk!) for the same reason - he runs a profitable small business!
January 19th, 2008 at 2:53 pm
I miss having a old-fashioned barber shop on every corner. Now days they have been replaced by walk-in clinics and high-dollar “salons.” You just can’t beat the conversations found in a barber shop.
January 19th, 2008 at 3:08 pm
And yet.. there are people who like to keep secrets. You know the kind:
“There’s this stock I’m watching.. I’m not going to tell you what it is but for the past month it has..”
The other day I was with one of those.. someone else came along and happened to have a good tip on a low interest loan.. I could be wrong, but the guy who always says “I won’t tell you” looked like he was unhappy I had heard the tip!
Some people like to play their cards very close to their vest. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that, though it’s certainly not my style.. but I wonder how many people take it even farther and just never say anything at all.. they know something, but aren’t going to breathe a word of it?
January 19th, 2008 at 4:11 pm
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January 19th, 2008 at 4:45 pm
Thanks for sharing the conversation. Interesting. Where is that barber shop? I’ve got to start going there.
January 19th, 2008 at 8:20 pm
“One time, a fellow spent ten minutes preaching the virtues of a Roth IRA with the fervor of a religious zealot. The Roth IRA is the most over-looked secret in money”
Sounds like me all the way, but unfortunately never had my hair cut in Oregon:)
January 20th, 2008 at 3:43 pm
Wait a second! You pay someone to cut your hair??? Bill Gates wouldn’t make that mistake. Say it’s ten bucks a haircut and you get it cut once a month or so. That’s 12 hundred bucks a decade.
January 21st, 2008 at 3:24 am
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January 22nd, 2008 at 6:41 pm
I cut my own hair, saving about $200 a year. Plus gas and time saved. Buy a pair of automatic hair clippers and learn to cut your own hair, that’s my personal finance advice to you.