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	<title>Comments on: Possessed: People Who are Ruled by Stuff</title>
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		<title>By: andrew poe</title>
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		<dc:creator>andrew poe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jun 2010 01:20:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I accidentally visited your site and I&#039;ve found your story very interesting. During my HighSchool years, I am fond of collecting some stuffs as a remembrance. And now, I also find them not useful anymore. I guess we  have to organize and sort things that somehow we would like to keep.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I accidentally visited your site and I&#8217;ve found your story very interesting. During my HighSchool years, I am fond of collecting some stuffs as a remembrance. And now, I also find them not useful anymore. I guess we  have to organize and sort things that somehow we would like to keep.</p>
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		<title>By: Carol</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carol</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jun 2010 06:32:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m the opposite of hoarder. I feel a strong desire to get rid of stuff. I love to gather stuff and give to charities. I look around my home for stuff daily. I wonder what happens when I run out of stuff. I have very little possession now. I also like cleaning out refrigerator. Less makes me feel better. I wasn&#039;t always like this. I think watching hoarder show scared me. But I can&#039;t stop . Is this a OCD?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m the opposite of hoarder. I feel a strong desire to get rid of stuff. I love to gather stuff and give to charities. I look around my home for stuff daily. I wonder what happens when I run out of stuff. I have very little possession now. I also like cleaning out refrigerator. Less makes me feel better. I wasn&#8217;t always like this. I think watching hoarder show scared me. But I can&#8217;t stop . Is this a OCD?</p>
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		<title>By: Sallyann</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sallyann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 22:12:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am an offloader.  I put it down to being taken weekend after weekend by my parents to clear out my late grandfather&#039;s house, after he died.  Then for the 20 years after I left home, I moved house frequently, often having to fit into tiny rooms in apartment shares.  Then I went travelling the world for 9 months with just one bag.  So that sealed it!  Now I get panicky if I accumulate.  Like Kati I read a book then give it away.  I like very perfect, miniature things, I buy the best I can afford but very little in quantity.  I personally think I am very Zen and healthy, I prefer to do things rather thay buy things.  But society is built on trying to sell you things.  So not having stuff is seen as a sign of weakness, or self-deprivation, or failure.  And I think that is bad.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am an offloader.  I put it down to being taken weekend after weekend by my parents to clear out my late grandfather&#8217;s house, after he died.  Then for the 20 years after I left home, I moved house frequently, often having to fit into tiny rooms in apartment shares.  Then I went travelling the world for 9 months with just one bag.  So that sealed it!  Now I get panicky if I accumulate.  Like Kati I read a book then give it away.  I like very perfect, miniature things, I buy the best I can afford but very little in quantity.  I personally think I am very Zen and healthy, I prefer to do things rather thay buy things.  But society is built on trying to sell you things.  So not having stuff is seen as a sign of weakness, or self-deprivation, or failure.  And I think that is bad.</p>
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		<title>By: Jason</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 06:34:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m another one of those rare &quot;anti-hoarders&quot;. Instead of hoarding possessions, I get rid of them. Usually occurs every six months once I&#039;ve built up commodities; I&#039;ll either sell them, give them away, or throw them away. Items are usually electronics and clothes that I don&#039;t wear. I also have a habit of starting an expensive hobby, buying everything I need for it, doing it for a couple months or less, and then just quitting it and offloading everything. I don&#039;t necessarilly consider it OCD, however, it is somewhat damaging; the money I lose in these fire sales are usually anywhere from 25%-75% of the value of the item. The tradeoff is, as a lot of people have indicated before me, is the incredible &quot;freeing&quot; feeling there is when you clean house. It makes me inspired to take up a new hobby or do something new or improve myself; which results in the cycle repeating itself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m another one of those rare &#8220;anti-hoarders&#8221;. Instead of hoarding possessions, I get rid of them. Usually occurs every six months once I&#8217;ve built up commodities; I&#8217;ll either sell them, give them away, or throw them away. Items are usually electronics and clothes that I don&#8217;t wear. I also have a habit of starting an expensive hobby, buying everything I need for it, doing it for a couple months or less, and then just quitting it and offloading everything. I don&#8217;t necessarilly consider it OCD, however, it is somewhat damaging; the money I lose in these fire sales are usually anywhere from 25%-75% of the value of the item. The tradeoff is, as a lot of people have indicated before me, is the incredible &#8220;freeing&#8221; feeling there is when you clean house. It makes me inspired to take up a new hobby or do something new or improve myself; which results in the cycle repeating itself.</p>
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		<title>By: jacqueline</title>
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		<dc:creator>jacqueline</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:57:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i used to buy tons of books, magazines and clothes but when i ran out of storage, i gave them to charity and i sell some on ebay</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i used to buy tons of books, magazines and clothes but when i ran out of storage, i gave them to charity and i sell some on ebay</p>
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		<title>By: wrm</title>
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		<dc:creator>wrm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2008 12:45:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Someone said that one should never have something you don&#039;t know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.

All my stuff fits into those two criteria :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Someone said that one should never have something you don&#8217;t know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.</p>
<p>All my stuff fits into those two criteria <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Lair of the Green Knight &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Friday LinkLuv for March 7, 2008</title>
		<link>http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2008/03/04/possessed-people-who-are-ruled-by-stuff/comment-page-1/#comment-121319</link>
		<dc:creator>Lair of the Green Knight &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Friday LinkLuv for March 7, 2008</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2008 15:04:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Rich Slowly has an interesting article about people who hoard things (I fall into this category as someone who hoards books&#8230; [...]</description>
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<p>[...] Rich Slowly has an interesting article about people who hoard things (I fall into this category as someone who hoards books&#8230; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Diana</title>
		<link>http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2008/03/04/possessed-people-who-are-ruled-by-stuff/comment-page-1/#comment-121154</link>
		<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2008 18:16:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ditto on www.flylady.net.  Her free website and practical, caring approach enabled me to work miracles in my home and unload many, many pounds of clutter a layer at a time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ditto on <a href="http://www.flylady.net" rel="nofollow">http://www.flylady.net</a>.  Her free website and practical, caring approach enabled me to work miracles in my home and unload many, many pounds of clutter a layer at a time.</p>
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		<title>By: Carm</title>
		<link>http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2008/03/04/possessed-people-who-are-ruled-by-stuff/comment-page-1/#comment-121115</link>
		<dc:creator>Carm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2008 15:43:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The best website I have seen for this is www.flylady.net.  It&#039;s free.  She helps you realize you can do anything 15 minutes and to finally start loving yourself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The best website I have seen for this is <a href="http://www.flylady.net" rel="nofollow">http://www.flylady.net</a>.  It&#8217;s free.  She helps you realize you can do anything 15 minutes and to finally start loving yourself.</p>
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		<title>By: Mai</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2008 14:27:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What does it mean when you are compulsive stuff purger?

I may be one of the few, but I feel almost equally trapped by my &quot;need&quot; to get rid of my stuff. I get stressed when I cannot get rid of things.</description>
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<p>I may be one of the few, but I feel almost equally trapped by my &#8220;need&#8221; to get rid of my stuff. I get stressed when I cannot get rid of things.</p>
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		<title>By: Shari</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shari</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2008 13:22:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Re: CleanSimple

Please stop perpetuating the myth that the Japanese are minimalist. This is only true in style magazines and architectural digests. Real life looks a lot more like stacks and stacks of junk all over the place. If you don&#039;t believe me, have a look at the book &quot;Tokyo: A Certain Style&quot; by Kyoichi Tsuzuki. That&#039;s real life. That zen, clear space crap is a myth the West eagerly embraces for reasons I can&#039;t fathom. I&#039;m guessing the only people who really live like that are monks. Honestly, I&#039;ve lived in Japan for almost 19 years and I&#039;ve seen places that&#039;d make you shudder.

I started decluttering seriously 4 years ago and have my apartment (which is a tiny place in Tokyo) pretty clear. I keep pruning it around the edges, but I&#039;m pretty happy with it as it is. My main problem is my husband simply refuses to let some things go even though he hasn&#039;t touched them in over decade. As it was, I had to labor long and hard to convince him that he isn&#039;t extracting any additional value from things he spent money on and no longer has any use for. These days, I can&#039;t pry stuff from him that he is convinced he may have a use for again some day or that he may eventually sell (a collection of 2000 music CDs, for instance).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Re: CleanSimple</p>
<p>Please stop perpetuating the myth that the Japanese are minimalist. This is only true in style magazines and architectural digests. Real life looks a lot more like stacks and stacks of junk all over the place. If you don&#8217;t believe me, have a look at the book &#8220;Tokyo: A Certain Style&#8221; by Kyoichi Tsuzuki. That&#8217;s real life. That zen, clear space crap is a myth the West eagerly embraces for reasons I can&#8217;t fathom. I&#8217;m guessing the only people who really live like that are monks. Honestly, I&#8217;ve lived in Japan for almost 19 years and I&#8217;ve seen places that&#8217;d make you shudder.</p>
<p>I started decluttering seriously 4 years ago and have my apartment (which is a tiny place in Tokyo) pretty clear. I keep pruning it around the edges, but I&#8217;m pretty happy with it as it is. My main problem is my husband simply refuses to let some things go even though he hasn&#8217;t touched them in over decade. As it was, I had to labor long and hard to convince him that he isn&#8217;t extracting any additional value from things he spent money on and no longer has any use for. These days, I can&#8217;t pry stuff from him that he is convinced he may have a use for again some day or that he may eventually sell (a collection of 2000 music CDs, for instance).</p>
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		<title>By: riley</title>
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		<dc:creator>riley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2008 06:19:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think in our culture it takes a deliberate and constant effort not to acquire and hoard possessions.  I have been steadily de-hoarding for the last year and the more I get rid of the easier it seems not to acquire more stuff.  Just a change of mind set I guess.

My cleaning out started when I shut down my home office.  Good grief, I had accumulated an unbelievable amount of stuff(junk really) in that office, eighteen years worth.

Once I got started I just kept going.  Every few months the spirit moves me and I tackle another area.  My house is getting pretty empty, but I notice that my girl friend is slowly filling in behind me.

One area that I have been unable to cut down is tools that I have accumulated over many years.  Just can&#039;t make myself do it yet.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think in our culture it takes a deliberate and constant effort not to acquire and hoard possessions.  I have been steadily de-hoarding for the last year and the more I get rid of the easier it seems not to acquire more stuff.  Just a change of mind set I guess.</p>
<p>My cleaning out started when I shut down my home office.  Good grief, I had accumulated an unbelievable amount of stuff(junk really) in that office, eighteen years worth.</p>
<p>Once I got started I just kept going.  Every few months the spirit moves me and I tackle another area.  My house is getting pretty empty, but I notice that my girl friend is slowly filling in behind me.</p>
<p>One area that I have been unable to cut down is tools that I have accumulated over many years.  Just can&#8217;t make myself do it yet.</p>
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		<title>By: zach</title>
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		<dc:creator>zach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2008 05:52:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just wrote about this.

&lt;a href=&quot;http://pennywise-poundfoolish.typepad.com/this_is_life/2008/02/the-cost-of-jun.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Cost of Junk&lt;/a&gt;

it&#039;s a little more on the larger-scale societal aspect of hoarding, but it&#039;s a good complement to J.D.&#039;s article.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just wrote about this.</p>
<p><a href="http://pennywise-poundfoolish.typepad.com/this_is_life/2008/02/the-cost-of-jun.html" rel="nofollow">The Cost of Junk</a></p>
<p>it&#8217;s a little more on the larger-scale societal aspect of hoarding, but it&#8217;s a good complement to J.D.&#8217;s article.</p>
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		<title>By: Simon J.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Simon J.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2008 00:03:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Computer nerd/entrepreneur Paul Graham wrote a good essay on the urge to acquire stuff (in the context of &quot;normal&quot; people, not those with diagnosable mental conditions):

    &quot;...the value of some new acquisition wasn&#039;t the difference between its retail price and what I paid for it. It was the value I derived from it. Stuff is an extremely illiquid asset. Unless you have some plan for selling that valuable thing you got so cheaply, what difference does it make what it&#039;s &#039;worth?&#039; The only way you&#039;re ever going to extract any value from it is to use it. And if you don&#039;t have any immediate use for it, you probably never will.&quot;

http://www.paulgraham.com/stuff.html</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Computer nerd/entrepreneur Paul Graham wrote a good essay on the urge to acquire stuff (in the context of &#8220;normal&#8221; people, not those with diagnosable mental conditions):</p>
<p>    &#8220;&#8230;the value of some new acquisition wasn&#8217;t the difference between its retail price and what I paid for it. It was the value I derived from it. Stuff is an extremely illiquid asset. Unless you have some plan for selling that valuable thing you got so cheaply, what difference does it make what it&#8217;s &#8216;worth?&#8217; The only way you&#8217;re ever going to extract any value from it is to use it. And if you don&#8217;t have any immediate use for it, you probably never will.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.paulgraham.com/stuff.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.paulgraham.com/stuff.html</a></p>
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		<title>By: Mrs. Micah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mrs. Micah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 23:19:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m trying to figure out what I still need from my college years---papers? On the one hand, having the papers could be important down the line if someone wants to see my work for grad school or somesuch. On the other, they may never be useful again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m trying to figure out what I still need from my college years&#8212;papers? On the one hand, having the papers could be important down the line if someone wants to see my work for grad school or somesuch. On the other, they may never be useful again.</p>
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		<title>By: Tziporah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tziporah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 19:01:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Check out the OCD Foundation website: http://www.ocfoundation.org/ There is a pamphlet that details compulsive hoarding.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Check out the OCD Foundation website: <a href="http://www.ocfoundation.org/" rel="nofollow">http://www.ocfoundation.org/</a> There is a pamphlet that details compulsive hoarding.</p>
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		<title>By: CleanSimple</title>
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		<dc:creator>CleanSimple</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 18:02:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a hoarder in recovery. It&#039;s very very hard! Stunning the power stuff has over us....The irony is, while it pains me to let my stuff go, my favorite places are those with few things---I love Japanese style (minimalist), wide open spaces, clean, clear surfaces. It&#039;s frustrating!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a hoarder in recovery. It&#8217;s very very hard! Stunning the power stuff has over us&#8230;.The irony is, while it pains me to let my stuff go, my favorite places are those with few things&#8212;I love Japanese style (minimalist), wide open spaces, clean, clear surfaces. It&#8217;s frustrating!</p>
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 17:53:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;If only I could figure out how to stop hoarding data…&quot;

I hear you there.  I&#039;m trying to create personal wiki on my home computer to compile all of the &quot;indispensable&quot; information I&#039;ve clipped (Google Notebook) or bookmarked.   I&#039;ve got a real problem.  Just yesterday I saved a consumer reports article about saving money on baby formula.....I&#039;m at least a year or TWO from even needing that info!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;If only I could figure out how to stop hoarding data…&#8221;</p>
<p>I hear you there.  I&#8217;m trying to create personal wiki on my home computer to compile all of the &#8220;indispensable&#8221; information I&#8217;ve clipped (Google Notebook) or bookmarked.   I&#8217;ve got a real problem.  Just yesterday I saved a consumer reports article about saving money on baby formula&#8230;..I&#8217;m at least a year or TWO from even needing that info!</p>
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		<title>By: kati</title>
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		<dc:creator>kati</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 17:09:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is there an opposite to hoarding thats linked to OCD because i have some ocd tendancies and i HATE stuff. I have one book shelf of books, dvds and video games, when i can no longer fit anything on it i get rid of most of it. It drives me insane to have stuff. I go through my closet atleast once every 3 months and get rid of any clothes i haven&#039;t worn. when i buy a book i read it ASAP then donate/sell/trade it. My husband is a hoarding but only with electronics and computer parts. drives me insane how much stuff is in our office and on his desk. His desk takes up half the room and mine is a printer stand bc i dont need extra space for anything.  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is there an opposite to hoarding thats linked to OCD because i have some ocd tendancies and i HATE stuff. I have one book shelf of books, dvds and video games, when i can no longer fit anything on it i get rid of most of it. It drives me insane to have stuff. I go through my closet atleast once every 3 months and get rid of any clothes i haven&#8217;t worn. when i buy a book i read it ASAP then donate/sell/trade it. My husband is a hoarding but only with electronics and computer parts. drives me insane how much stuff is in our office and on his desk. His desk takes up half the room and mine is a printer stand bc i dont need extra space for anything.</p>
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		<title>By: jtimberman</title>
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		<dc:creator>jtimberman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 16:37:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I keep too much Stuff as well, though not to the extreme of the people in the video. I have grand designs of making back some money on things by selling on ebay or craigslist, rather than just tossing them in the trash. The frugality in me doesn&#039;t want to let go of something that could bring some money.

But sooner or later its time to let go. I suppose I don&#039;t need those three spare computer cases from old systems 10+ years ago.... :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I keep too much Stuff as well, though not to the extreme of the people in the video. I have grand designs of making back some money on things by selling on ebay or craigslist, rather than just tossing them in the trash. The frugality in me doesn&#8217;t want to let go of something that could bring some money.</p>
<p>But sooner or later its time to let go. I suppose I don&#8217;t need those three spare computer cases from old systems 10+ years ago&#8230;. <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Sandy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sandy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 16:28:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am not a packrat, and I have decluttered often, but still there is so much more stuff in my house and garage that if I were to dispose of it, I know it would give me an incredible freeing feeling. I get rid of things in stages, instead of one fell swoop.  It&#039;s excess baggage to me, weighing me down mentally -- (one way to look at it).  Whenever I drive by and glimpse someone&#039;s garage, packed to the gils, I feel sorry for them.  Whenever I see someone&#039;s garage all cleaned out, I envy those people.  I&#039;m somewhere in the middle, but want to have that empty garage/house, free from at least the stuff that I know I will never wear or use.  Maybe this article will motivate me.  I could work in 30 min. increments, or could do one room a day, or one closet a day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am not a packrat, and I have decluttered often, but still there is so much more stuff in my house and garage that if I were to dispose of it, I know it would give me an incredible freeing feeling. I get rid of things in stages, instead of one fell swoop.  It&#8217;s excess baggage to me, weighing me down mentally &#8212; (one way to look at it).  Whenever I drive by and glimpse someone&#8217;s garage, packed to the gils, I feel sorry for them.  Whenever I see someone&#8217;s garage all cleaned out, I envy those people.  I&#8217;m somewhere in the middle, but want to have that empty garage/house, free from at least the stuff that I know I will never wear or use.  Maybe this article will motivate me.  I could work in 30 min. increments, or could do one room a day, or one closet a day.</p>
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		<title>By: Bonnie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bonnie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 16:03:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And don&#039;t forget that selling whatever stuff you can helps with your snowflaking efforts. :) I find that when I do that or when I donate sacks and sacks of stuff to Goodwill, 5 minutes after I drop the things off, I can&#039;t remember what any of it was. My credit-card statements do, though! Sad.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And don&#8217;t forget that selling whatever stuff you can helps with your snowflaking efforts. <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I find that when I do that or when I donate sacks and sacks of stuff to Goodwill, 5 minutes after I drop the things off, I can&#8217;t remember what any of it was. My credit-card statements do, though! Sad.</p>
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		<title>By: Atomic Bombshell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Atomic Bombshell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 15:47:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aha! I was going to comment about &quot;The Story of Stuff&quot; (which changed my life!) but I see that fortunately &quot;InvestEveryMonth&quot; beat me to it. I&#039;m so glad you brought up this issue.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aha! I was going to comment about &#8220;The Story of Stuff&#8221; (which changed my life!) but I see that fortunately &#8220;InvestEveryMonth&#8221; beat me to it. I&#8217;m so glad you brought up this issue.</p>
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		<title>By: Jane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 15:38:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great article. One thing that really helped me become less of a hoarder was my husband&#039;s constant reminder to me of the economic principle of &quot;sunk costs.&quot; Like others have mentioned, I find that I often justify keeping things because I paid good money for them, not because I actually like the stuff or ever plan to use it. So reminding myself that that dusty gadget in the basement represents sunk costs that I can never recoup makes it easier for me to throw it in the Goodwill bag. I sell what I can on ebay or craigslist, but so much of what we keep has no significant value anymore.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great article. One thing that really helped me become less of a hoarder was my husband&#8217;s constant reminder to me of the economic principle of &#8220;sunk costs.&#8221; Like others have mentioned, I find that I often justify keeping things because I paid good money for them, not because I actually like the stuff or ever plan to use it. So reminding myself that that dusty gadget in the basement represents sunk costs that I can never recoup makes it easier for me to throw it in the Goodwill bag. I sell what I can on ebay or craigslist, but so much of what we keep has no significant value anymore.</p>
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		<title>By: elisaeth</title>
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		<dc:creator>elisaeth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 14:25:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why is it easier to acquire than de-acquire?  I think that some of the traits that make one thrifty, that are useful habits in one&#039;s life, can at the same time lead to over-accumulation.  I have been tepidly trying to reduce what I own for some time now, but without an external prod like a move, it is difficult not to see each item as something I paid for and saw value in. As someone noted above, it is a lot easier to purchase than to sell, so usually to un-acquire something, it&#039;s  going to be give it to goodwill/salvation army or to the trash/recycling bin... There&#039;s no reason either of those options should be so hard, but somehow it is...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why is it easier to acquire than de-acquire?  I think that some of the traits that make one thrifty, that are useful habits in one&#8217;s life, can at the same time lead to over-accumulation.  I have been tepidly trying to reduce what I own for some time now, but without an external prod like a move, it is difficult not to see each item as something I paid for and saw value in. As someone noted above, it is a lot easier to purchase than to sell, so usually to un-acquire something, it&#8217;s  going to be give it to goodwill/salvation army or to the trash/recycling bin&#8230; There&#8217;s no reason either of those options should be so hard, but somehow it is&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Lily</title>
		<link>http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2008/03/04/possessed-people-who-are-ruled-by-stuff/comment-page-1/#comment-120862</link>
		<dc:creator>Lily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 13:50:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my! This link ---&gt; http://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=830487 is unbelievable.</description>
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		<title>By: Shanti</title>
		<link>http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2008/03/04/possessed-people-who-are-ruled-by-stuff/comment-page-1/#comment-120838</link>
		<dc:creator>Shanti</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 07:49:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Woohoo! I read The Tyranny of Stuff back when you wrote and couldn&#039;t agree more. I&#039;ve been writing all about my process of GETTING RID for two weeks, as part of a month long challenge to myself:

http://www.antishay.com/?p=67
Simplicity Challenge - Halfway There!

It&#039;s been an experience of letting go, to say the least ;) Keep on preaching the word! LOL. We could all use a little less stuff in our lives, I think.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Woohoo! I read The Tyranny of Stuff back when you wrote and couldn&#8217;t agree more. I&#8217;ve been writing all about my process of GETTING RID for two weeks, as part of a month long challenge to myself:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.antishay.com/?p=67" rel="nofollow">http://www.antishay.com/?p=67</a><br />
Simplicity Challenge &#8211; Halfway There!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s been an experience of letting go, to say the least <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Keep on preaching the word! LOL. We could all use a little less stuff in our lives, I think.</p>
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		<title>By: InvestEveryMonth.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>InvestEveryMonth.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 05:31:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here&#039;s a good 20 minute video called The Story of Stuff: http://www.storyofstuff.com/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s a good 20 minute video called The Story of Stuff: <a href="http://www.storyofstuff.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.storyofstuff.com/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Greg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 05:04:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My wife&#039;s parents recently retired and did away with almost everything they own.  They keep 1 small condo, fully furnished, and only what clothing they can fit in a couple suitcases.  Because of that, they are able to travel at will, all over the world, often for lengthy times and just rent out their furnished place to offset their travel costs when they aren&#039;t there.  The freedom that lifestyle has given them has inspired me to de-clutter as much as possible, and I hope sharing that helps others who struggle with hoarding.  

The reality is, all that stuff just ties you down, and there&#039;s incredible freedom in ridding yourself of it.  &quot;Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My wife&#8217;s parents recently retired and did away with almost everything they own.  They keep 1 small condo, fully furnished, and only what clothing they can fit in a couple suitcases.  Because of that, they are able to travel at will, all over the world, often for lengthy times and just rent out their furnished place to offset their travel costs when they aren&#8217;t there.  The freedom that lifestyle has given them has inspired me to de-clutter as much as possible, and I hope sharing that helps others who struggle with hoarding.  </p>
<p>The reality is, all that stuff just ties you down, and there&#8217;s incredible freedom in ridding yourself of it.  &#8220;Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: KC</title>
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		<dc:creator>KC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 04:43:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with DebtKid - moving can be very freeing - you get rid of so much stuff.  I try to trick myself each year and pretend I&#039;m moving to throw out stuff.  Fortunately I live in a 1550 sq. ft. house with no basment and a hard to reach attic.  I don&#039;t have much space to hoard.  And I generally don&#039;t add to the mess.  My husband, on the other hand, can&#039;t throw anything away.  He is really bad to keep papers and journals.  I frequently have to go in and just pull from the bottom of the pile to throw away (we are talking about papers that are 5 years old or more - kept for no apparent reason).  After all, if it has an inch of dust on it I really don&#039;t think you are going to use it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with DebtKid &#8211; moving can be very freeing &#8211; you get rid of so much stuff.  I try to trick myself each year and pretend I&#8217;m moving to throw out stuff.  Fortunately I live in a 1550 sq. ft. house with no basment and a hard to reach attic.  I don&#8217;t have much space to hoard.  And I generally don&#8217;t add to the mess.  My husband, on the other hand, can&#8217;t throw anything away.  He is really bad to keep papers and journals.  I frequently have to go in and just pull from the bottom of the pile to throw away (we are talking about papers that are 5 years old or more &#8211; kept for no apparent reason).  After all, if it has an inch of dust on it I really don&#8217;t think you are going to use it.</p>
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