I received another great e-mail yesterday describing a reader victory. Joshua has been wanting to buy a Nintendo Wii, even though he knows it’s not the best use of his time or money. On Friday, he stared temptation in the face — twice! — and triumphed through force of will. Here’s his story:
I had a great “resist spending” story this weekend, and I had to tell someone. Last Friday I read about No Credit Needed’s idea of “$100-a-day rule to prevent impulse buying. For every $100 that he wants to spend on a new product, he forces himself to wait one day before making the purchase. Want a Nintendo Wii? Wait three days.”
I was out with some friends later that evening and we stopped by Toys “R” Us. I don’t spend much money there, but my friend wanted to check out their action figures. (He’s a collector.) At Toys “R” Us, they had about a dozen Wiis. I’ve been wanting a Wii but nobody has them in stock. My friend kept encouraging me to purchase one while they had them. I really wanted one, but have a limited amount of cash. I’m a college student and do not have that much money.
I finally decided not to get a Wii and we left. I really wanted one and was barely able to say no. After a quick stop to Target we went back to Toys “R” Us because my friend wanted to grab a Wii and sell it online. Again, I wanted to get one. He gave me a look, like, are you going to get one? But I was able to walk away.
Once I got home, I was so glad that I had enough self-will to say no. I thought about it, and I know I could get one later after I graduate and start making more money. Besides it would just distract me from my study this next year, when I’m a senior. Plus, this would have left me tight financially the rest of the summer. I am very thankful that I have no debt, and that I am able to pay for school and have just enough left over to pay for essentials. I just struggle when I don’t have much money, like you said today in the blog, with desires to purchase stuff. Once I was home, I celebrated by transferring more money into my ING account so I wouldn’t have the money available to spend so easily (and so I can save more).
I’m impressed. Joshua exercised tremendous willpower, and I think he’s going to be happier for it.
During my senior year of college, I’d newly discovered the “power” of credit cards. I bought a new computer (a Macintosh SE) and hundreds of dollars worth of games to play on it. These games didn’t just suck up the money — they sucked up the time. My academic performance suffered.
For one assignment, I wrote a critique of the advertising for Wizardy VI: Bane of the Cosmic Forge. “Aha,” wrote my professor in response. “Now I know why the quality of your work has fallen off this semester.” Ouch. She’d hit the target.
I’m proud of Joshua for making this choice. He’s right — he’ll be able to afford a Wii in the future. I only wish that I’d known when I was his age that there’d be plenty of time for play after I was done with school and had begun saving money.
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Way to Go!
I always find that no matter how strong the impulse is to buy, the longer I wait, the less I want something. If i still desire to buy an item after several days of “thinking about it” then I will make provisions to pay cash for it!!
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Plus by then, there will be something better to buy anyway.
But I do have to ask… was his friend able to sell the one he bought, and how much money did he make?
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Great Job, Joshua!! It’s tough to resist something you really want, but you were able to step back and then feel good about it after.
JD, thanks for sharing this. It’s good inspiration!
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That shows incredible will power. My wife and I had a similar experience and we told each other, “Wii need to save our money!”
I’m proud to say that my wife and I saved up cash for our Wii, and while it is worth every penny in terms of fun, I am so happy we didn’t charge it.
Way to go, Joshua! And kudos to J.D. for continuing to put out the message to delay gratification for long term gain. We need more of this kind of advice.
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ooooo good work Joshua ! defeated the demons of temptation not once, but twice!
Our local Costco had some Wiis at the checkout counter this past week. They were priced very temptingly and I was longingly looking at one while waiting for my turn at the till. I thought about the fun games that I could play. And then I remembered the Nintendo DS with Brain Age that I had bought, at the same Costco, only six months earlier. I don’t play that very often, once or twice a week. So why buy a Wii? Oh but this would be more kinetic, I could play standing up, move around…
The woman behind me at the lineup egged me on to start placing my things onto the checkout counter. The Wii was just within my grasp….. and I demurred.
And just like Josh, now that I am home, I do not regret my decision one bit.
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The Wii is a pretty poor investment no matter how you slice it. It is specifically targeted at people who don’t play many games, so the same ones who want it the most will be the ones who play it the least.
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Given that the Wii is selling for above retail price on Amazon right now, I would have purchased two and then sold one online, as the friend did.
Aaron
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He should just do what I did and pay 5 bucks for one . . . er, I won the 50/50 draw at work and purchased mine. It’s been great, especially with small kids in the house. I’m in to more strategy, and large scale games. You can’t get those on consoles without them sucking, so I mostly play with the family. I have to admit Mario Kart is great for an hour or two with the spouse or family though. Much like board game night or whatever activity, it’s always better when the whole family is involved.
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Fasntastic decision Joshua!! Very mature. And the fact that you took into consideration the time it would take away from your studies as well as the $$ is very impressive. You are going to have a great financial life if you’re able to keep making the tough decisions responsibly! Way to go!
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The key is to let time pass and let the logical thought process kick in.
Excellent and inspiring post! Thanks for sharing it.
Best Wishes,
D4L
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Awesome job Josh! It is so hard to say no to something you really want, but you were strong enough to wait.
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Well, obviously buying a Wii is pure luxury spending. You can’t eat video-gaming fun for dinner and you can’t, or probably shouldn’t, use video-gaming gear to clean your house or yard. From a get-rich-slowly standpoint, video games are about the worst purchase you can make, because on top of a pure luxury investment up front, owning the system leads to more game purchases later.
That said, everyone needs a hobby or thing to enjoy or you’ll get burned out pretty badly. Not all of us can live on lentil soup and turnips and collect scrap aluminum all day long to turn in at the reimbursement center. As hobbies go, video games are comparable or cheaper than things like bowling, golf, hunting/fishing, and far cheaper than paintball or shooting sports. Plus, with Wii Fit about to release, a video game system that’s “not too bad” for active engagement is about to get even better.
I would conclude that if you have enough discretionary cash (NOT CREDIT CARD BALANCE) to buy the Wii, knock yourself out. Mario Kart Wii is great fun, Wii Fit is coming, and I’ve had a very high hours-of-entertainment-per-dollar return from Mario Galaxy, Metroid Prime 3, Zelda, Wii Play, and Wii Sports (the included title), not to mention that I was able to sell my Gamecube and play all GCN titles on the Wii instead, since it is backward-compatible.
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Hey, that’s pretty awesome! I’m glad the $100 a day technique helped out. I find that when I leave the store, and wait a few days, 90% of the time, I no longer want the item.
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Too, waiting for the future when you can afford it may see a change in your priorities. You may not want it, or find you have even less time for it.
I can’t tell you how much stuff I bought that now sits ignored because family, work and other interests demand my time.
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Another cool feeling is when you know you CAN AFFORD IT. Last week, I really want it to go out to eat at this particular restaurant. Usually, I just think it over, and I know it is not worth going. This time my fiancee looked at me and said “check your budget”. After checking, I noticed that I COULD TREAT MYSELF. Once in a while it is okay to indulge as long as you saved up for it.
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Wow..
Thats a good one Joshua. If I was in your shoes, I would have probably got the Wii.. Nice to see that you have saved it up for future.. Way to go..!!!
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“The Wii is a pretty poor investment no matter how you slice it. It is specifically targeted at people who don’t play many games, so the same ones who want it the most will be the ones who play it the least.”
Not true. My bf has always been a gamer and uses a lot his Wii. Actually, we use it. After one year and a half we’re still enoying our bowling or tennis matches… Despite my being wary at first, it’s really something else. And WiiFit is awesome. I hope our friend Joshua will buy it some time…
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I think that is great!!If you really want a Wii, and it sounds like you do, save up for it and pay cash.
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Well done! I managed to resist once but that was it. The next time I folded and got it. And Guitar Hero!
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This reminds me of an adventure in spending about a decade ago. I was a senior in college when Playstation 2 came out. Having most of the cash for one I stood in line for hours and purchased it on launch day with a little help from Visa. I took care of my grades (after a couple of days anyway) and enjoyed the system. I played roughly two-four hours a week. Not a lot compared to many but I really was focused on grades. Money was super tight for the rest of the year though as every spare penny went to pay for my system, games, and the credit card bill.
Flash forward ten years and I am out of school and have a job. I also really wanted a Wii. They were impossible to find when I came across one, this time with cash in the bank and a nice savings account. I paid cash and walked out of the store like I had discovered gold. I still play about 2 hours a week, sometimes less (it’s harder to put off a job than it was homework). Only now do I realize how much stress my earlier purchase led to though. Without the strain, the same amount of playing is much more relaxing.
Is a luxury good really much of a luxury if it just adds stress to your life?
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Great job Joshua! You showed a great deal of willpower. Living within your means is the foundation of any personal finance teaching.
From a time and productivity point of view, this was a fantastic decision. Video games can suck you in and take over your free time. Work and grades can suffer. I’ll have to admit this is my Achilles tendon. I have to set firm boundaries or loose myself in game time!
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@ Mike Bahr:
There is such a thing as nonconventional investments. For quite a few people, a Wii can save quite a lot of money.
I see where you’re coming from, but I respectfully disagree.
Let’s say you spend $30 every time you go out. Let’s also say that a Wii costs $270 ($250 retail + sales tax). That means if you spend 9 nights playig Wii instead of going out, you’ll break even on your investment, and every subsequent night spent playing will save you more and more money.
This may sound a bit anti-social, but you can always invite your friends over. Wii is great for parties, and if your friends are as frugally-minded as you are, they’ll appreciate your initiative.
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My kids have been begging for a Wii for some time. My husband and I decided that (since we really wanted one too) we would start a “Wii fund” and the whole family is contributing money to help reach our goal. Our hope is that the kids see that even adults have to save up for purchases they can’t afford. Hopefully they will have the same will power and appreciation for delayed gratification as Joshua when they grow up!
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This is a great story. I’m having trouble embracing the concept of delayed gratification…I’ve paid off my CC, but am now aggressively contributing to my ING emergency fund; I’d like to get it to $10K. Following some other advice on this blog, I split my checking account into two accounts; one for mortgage/bills/groceries, the other for non-discretionary spending. It’s been less than a month and I’m already learning a lot more about my spending habits. I’m also being bombarded with temptation! I am saving for a short-term goal (trip to France) but it’s still hard to say no to temptation. My boyfriend is going to NYC for work in a few weeks, and I could fly out and have a free hotel room for four nights. I love NYC and this would be a great way to stay in the city on the cheap. BUT I know I would want to see a show and I’d be eating out a lot…so I’m not going. I hate saying no to experiences but I’m trying to keep my eyes on the Paris prize.
Stories like these help keep me on track!
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Whoops I meant to write “discretionary spending” above. Didn’t click the comment in time so I missed my chance to edit.
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Since Adam and Lily are looking at the gamer side of this personal finance question, I thought I’d pose my quandry-
Outside the Wii, which of the next-gen systems is the best investment? Xbox 360 or PS3?
The Xbox plays all the games I want (like GTA IV) but not blu-ray. It also has the better online play, but this costs something per month(not sure how much). The PS3 doesn’t play all the games I want (like Bioshock) but a future new PC purchase will cover that, and it does play blu-ray, saving that purchase, and PS2 games, which I sat out on since I haven’t had a console since the N64, if you can believe that.
Now, this looks like a big time/money sink, but I just have to play the new GTA! Advice?
Sigh. I’ll probably wait, it’ll just be painful! Like Cara, my summer vacation is foremost on my future large expenses, though the flight is already paid for.
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@Russell: If you can hold your urge for GTA IV for a while, the game will drop in price, as will the price of the console you want to play it on.
Personally, I own: a DS Lite, PS2, Wii (Christmas present) and an Xbox 360. My girlfriend owns a PS3 and a PSP, so I can play the exclusives for those platforms without trouble when I want to (e.g. Metal Gear Solid 4 this summer).
Even if I didn’t have access to a PS3, I’d hold off on it for the time being. I don’t think the richness of that platform’s library justifies a purchase at this time. Also, rumors are flying left and right about the release of an external Blu-Ray player for the Xbox 360 sometime this year.
I have a cool little project I’ve been working on for a couple months that should help you manage this sort of issue in the future, and I hope to unveil it soon. Hopefully, J.D. will find it interesting enough to mention and you’ll hear about it that way.
Cheers,
Aaron
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In all honesty, if you can afford it and not put in on credit, go for it. I have purchased one – cash. The initial outlay of money was big $350 on ebay, but the money I have saved playing it with friends over and with family (and not spending it on gas, eating out, movies and such) has paid for the Wii in a matter of months. Besides, it has given me an opportunity to spend time with friends and family and enjoy endless hours of gaming together. Not to mention that the level of activity in some games can be a workout as well. Can’t wait for Wii Fit to come out later this month! I already have the money saved up for it.
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wiis are over rated. i had fun w/ mine for maybe 2 weeks, now im over it.
bring on GTA4!
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@GL….I agree!
I’m a teacher at a small private school (about 170 students K-8) with a faculty of 13. A few faculty own Wii’s. We’ve gotten together several times and played — let me tell you, that’s fun. And, it’s fantastic bonding. It’s good, clean fun — not to mention cheap entertainment.
There are ton of other non-wholesome things that college students could spend $300 on…
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@ Cara
Next time you want to go someplace (the big city) and have a great deal on a hotel, but not spend a lot of money, just bring a rice cooker or electric skillet and a small cooler with you. You can cook meals in the rice cooker from groceries you leave in the cooler. Even in a hotel room.
I know this is a different style of travel than most people do when traveling to a city, but you can also have an unconventional and different trip that’s not focused around dining out and spending money and seeing shows but maybe on looking at architecture, wandering around on the street and soaking up local flavor, all the while packing a brown bag lunch to snack on in a public park or whatever.
I have been known to use my camp stove on the trunk of my car to cook dinner at a rest stop during long car trips, using the same philosophy but slightly different cooking technology.
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My hobby is studying mathematics. It is very inexpensive and I get exposed to the greatest mathematical minds of history.
The books last forever because they take forever to read–like an entire year for one if you work at it regularly.
It is not as much exercise as a wii though, and most of my friends will not play mathematics with me.
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