I go to the gym every morning at about eight. There’s a guy who shows up every morning at about nine. He’s huge: big, buff, and tanned. But the thing is, while I’m lifting little tiny weights because I’m just starting out, he lifts little tiny weights because that’s his way of staying big and buff. Like me, he’s getting fit slowly.
Apparently, as I learned this morning, he’s also getting rich slowly. I forgot my iPod today, so I had a chance to hear the banter among the regulars. (It’s odd to think that I’m a regular, too, but I’m a regular who usually is listening to high-intensity dance music on his headphones.)
This man — whom the regulars call Elvis because he’s in a band — was explaining his personal finances. Among other things, Elvis revealed:
- He doesn’t use credit cards. He only uses cash.
- He works hard. He’s had eleven days off in the past eighteen months. He works eight hours a day, seven days a week. He’s not interested in working ten hours a day, five days a week. “I can walk all day,” he said, by way of metaphor. “But I don’t like to run.”
- “Even after paying all my bills,” Elvis said, “I have over $1,000 left at the end of the month.” This, my friends, is positive cash flow, the power of which I’ve recently discovered myself.
- “I have a slush fund for myself that has over $6,000 in it,” Elvis said. Good thing, too. He explained that he’s had over $10,000 in dental work done the last month, and his insurance only covers about 70%.
- But Elvis isn’t just squirreling money away. He’s using it for fun, too. “I’ve been restoring an old car,” he said. “I need to get a new exhaust system for that. It costs a lot, but I can afford it.”
- And, finally, he’s also been able to use the money to pursue a dream. He recently bought a recording studio. (At least, I think that’s what I heard him say.) “My father thinks I’m crazy, but I say ‘no guts, no glory,’” Elvis said. “This is something I’ve always wanted to do.”
I don’t know whether Elvis started working so much to pay off debt, but I do know that he’s making choices now that allow him to live a life he loves. This conversation lasted only a few minutes, and was held between sets of squats and curls. But it was fascinating to hear a complete stranger talk about the rewards of saving.
Just before I left the weight room, Elvis said something else that intrigued me. He was talking about his expensive dental work, and he said something like, “Before I began my transformation three years ago, I used to eat a lot of sugar.” He doesn’t eat as much sugar anymore, and he aims to lose one pound a week. I wonder what Elvis was like three years ago. Was he broke? Was he overweight? Maybe I should leave my iPod at home all the time — I feel like I could learn a lot from Elvis.
(Note: I debated whether to post this anecdote here or at my fitness blog, but ultimately decided it was more about money than muscle.)
This article is about Real-Life Saturday, 7th June 2008 (by J.D. Roth)


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June 7th, 2008 at 6:06 pm
My favorite part about this blog is how unassuming you are. I’m sure you get a lot of email each week asking advice, yet you’re interested in what a gym-mate might have to offer. It’s brilliant… We (your readers) don’t have the cash flow to follow Warren Buffet’s footprints (plus it’s rather daunting), but we’d all love to be the local ‘I turned my life around, and so can you’ guy/girl… It’s not about having millions, it’s about having more than you had last month, last year.
June 7th, 2008 at 6:12 pm
Cool site. I’m JUST getting into blogging…man I’ve been missing out.
Anyway, I’d 100% encourage you have your conversations at the gym though. You never know who you meet. I met one of my closest friends in ATL (when I had just moved there) was from the gym conversation I had. Turns out he’s also from the same college I graduated from and the SAME year too. Coincident can be a very very powerful factor in life I’ve learned.
June 7th, 2008 at 6:18 pm
J.D., leave the iPod at home…
“You know you’ve got to exercise your brain just like your muscles.” ~ Will Rogers
June 7th, 2008 at 7:01 pm
What a good story. I hope to hear more about him in the future.
June 7th, 2008 at 7:16 pm
Transformation? The suspense is killing me! It’s like waiting for the other shoe to drop. Please let us know if you find out. Thanks!
June 7th, 2008 at 8:42 pm
oh my. i’ve never heard such conversation at the gym.
i need to shut up and lift the small weights, but i suck at moderation.
my shoulders are paying for it!
June 8th, 2008 at 12:19 am
Though the credit card is so convenient, using it all the time can turn your bank account into one of those scenes from a Western where a tumbleweed blows across the ghost town’s floor.
Leave the credit card at home!
June 8th, 2008 at 3:30 am
I’m really curious too. He’s really got it together - working hard, working out, losing a pound a week and pursuing his dream! Makes me feel like a real underachiever …
June 8th, 2008 at 7:28 am
Good story. Finances and losing weight use the same strategies when successful.
June 8th, 2008 at 9:31 am
I find that I’m overhearing more of these conversations too. I think that when you focus on it more in your daily life, it gets past your filters for background noise.
It’s like buying a car. You never realize how many grey Ford minivans there really are on the road until you buy one. Then they are everywhere.
June 8th, 2008 at 10:14 am
You stated that Elvis had $10,000 worth of dentistry done recently and expects his insurance to pay 70% of it. I’m wondering what kind of dental insurance Elvis has. Although dental insurance may cover 70% of allowed dental expenses, it is usually up to a calender year maximum. Most people are lucky if their maximum is $2,500 per year. I worked for over 20 years as a dental office manager, and I never encountered a dental insurance company paying anywhere close to $7000 in one year.
June 8th, 2008 at 11:52 am
Though the credit card is so convenient, using it all the time can turn your bank account into one of those scenes from a Western where a tumbleweed blows across the ghost town’s floor.
Leave the credit card at home!
Why should I? I use credit cards all the time, and I have over $2000 left after bills every month - including full credit card bill - and max allowed 401K contribution. I also have a whole lot more money in savings than the guy in the story and have never had consumer debt. I agree it makes sense for some people - alcoholics shouldn’t drink wine; but I get so annoyed when people make blanket statements as if they should be universal rules. It is not credit cards that are to blame, it is stupidity and failure to have learned a basic moral principle in childhood: if you borrow money you always have to pay it back.
It is about spending less than you earn regardless of the method of payments.
Having said that - kudos to the guy in the story. I recently had a talk with a hispanic woman who works in our cafeteria: she works two jobs, her husband works two job and their son who is studying to be financial consultant also works two jobs: his main one in a bank and something else on evenings and weekend. I doubt very much they have consumer debt: they understand the value of money too well to throw it away on interest.
@Linda - I am wondering about it too. I work for a Fortune 500 company, and my maximum is $2000 a year. I also get 65% for major work, not 70%. This is 65% from negotiated prices, so if the dentist isn’t part of preferred network than it is 65% from negotiated price plus the difference between the dentist’s price and negotiated price. 70% of 10K sounds very generous.
June 8th, 2008 at 8:14 pm
You’ve SO got to interview him man! That’s great stuff!
June 8th, 2008 at 10:15 pm
I love learning life lessons from others. I really believe you learn the most about life by just listening to others. It saves your time and keeps you from just talking about yourself.
June 9th, 2008 at 8:27 am
Elvis sounds like a smart man. He knows not to get caught up in debt and he balances his money well. This is a rarity these days, because so many people use credit to pay off stuff and spend their excess money on other things. Don’t spend beyond what you can afford! Good lesson.
June 9th, 2008 at 11:12 am
kitty, I’d be curious to know what percentage of people use credit cards responsibly. By responsible, I would say either paying off the full amount every month, or generally keeping the balance below 50% of available credit and paying off that balance every few months.
I’d say that carrying any balance beyond 3 or 4 months is probably not the best use of credit.
I do not qualify as one who uses credit cards wisely, but am getting there.
June 9th, 2008 at 12:39 pm
I agree with No Debt Plan - ask if you can interview him for the site! I’m totally intrigued.
June 9th, 2008 at 3:56 pm
As a long-time Elvis fan, you got my attention! There are a lot of folks who’ve got it together and a lot who haven’t. One of the things this story reminds us of is you cannot judge a book by its cover.
Musicians (by “musician” I mean, not-a-star), blue collar workers, and others seem to squirrel away more dough than the guys driving the beemers wearing the 3-piece suits.
Great story, man. Remember, losing weight, getting financially fit, and getting better at the gym means pushing just a little bit harder tomorrow than you did today.
It’s about tiny sacrifices and a constant yearning for getting better.