This is a guest post from Erica Douglass. Erica sold her successful business and “temporarily retired” at age 26. Having made over $1 million online, she is now sharing her business knowledge with over 10,000 people every month at erica.biz.
There is one reason most of us don’t learn how to invest, start a business, or even can our own food — we just don’t have the time to do those projects. Between jobs that force us to work ever-longer hours, and growing duties at home, there never seem to be enough minutes in the day!
I wanted to go deeper, though, so I delved into research to answer two questions:
- First, how do we actually use our time?
- And secondly, which activities could be cut down or outsourced to allow time for pursuits we really want?
Immediately, I assumed that we could outsource housecleaning tasks to free up time for our passions. I was right: we work on housework an average of 14.7 hours per week, or nearly 765 hours per year! However, my triumphant post about outsourcing housecleaning work was met with one criticism: “I simply don’t have the money to do that.”
What activity, then, could be cut back without incurring a significant cost — and leave us enough time to start a business, make more money, or do something we have always wanted to do?
I found the answer in a book called Time, Goods, and Well-Being, which uses “time diaries” to calculate how much time people are using. Unfortunately, this book uses time diary studies from the mid-1970’s. But after reading it, I’m not sure we are all that different today.
Breaking It Down
750 hours a year is 14.42 hours a week, or just over two hours a day. Besides housework, “market work” (the term the book uses to denote paid-for jobs), and sleeping, what activity consumes the most time?
The answer shocked me: It’s watching television.
Wait — don’t close this browser window yet! I’m not suggesting you give up TV. I like “American Idol” and “Heroes” just as much as you do. Instead, I merely suggest that you change a simple behavior pattern related to watching TV.
There are two types of TV watchers: those who turn on the TV and watch whatever is on, and those who turn on the TV to watch specific programs. By moving yourself from the first category to the second, you can find 7-8 hours a week of extra time. With that time, you can do those things you seem to continually be putting off:
- starting a business
- volunteering
- taking cooking classes
With a simple investment of as little as $10 (in an old VCR) or a more high-tech DVR such as TiVo, you can free up hours a week. (Not to mention that many DVRs allow you to fast-forward through commercials!)
Once you make the investment in a VCR or TiVo (consider it an investment in yourself — your time), thoughtfully consider which shows you most enjoy. For instance, my TiVo is set to record every episode of Dr. Phil. That would be 4-5 hours a week of watching Dr. Phil, except that I delete all the episodes I’m not interested in. That way I don’t have to worry about what I’ve “missed” — I can see all of the shows the TiVo has recorded, pick the one I want to watch, watch it, and then turn the TV off!
By making this one simple change, you can free up hundreds of hours of free time a year. By eventually going “cold turkey”, you could free up, on average, over 750 hours a year — enough to learn a foreign language, start a profitable business, or read enough books to make you more educated on a particular subject than 90% of us.
After implementing this change, I found I watched enough less TV to cut my cable bill from a digital package to Limited Basic, saving me $50/month and still allowing me to record network TV on my TiVo. I’m quite happy to have that $600 extra a year, but more importantly, I’m happy to have my time back.
But I Enjoy TV…
Does TV really make you happy? There is evidence out there that it doesn’t. In Bowling Alone, author Robert D. Putnam cites surveys that show that “viewers consistently report that television viewing is less satisfying than other leisure activities and even than work.”
How do you feel after watching a long series of TV shows? Chances are, you feel groggy, tired, and perhaps even grumpy. Since television is mildly addictive, however, it’s hard to give up. That’s why I don’t recommend going cold turkey. Try eliminating one show you really don’t care about that much. Then try strategic viewing — not watching every episode.
Finally, have a goal in mind for those extra hours. Otherwise, you will easily slip back into watching more TV, since you won’t have anything else to do.
- Schedule dinners with your friends.
- Sign up for a class.
- Make a date to go to the library or walk outside.
Motivate yourself with a specific, measurable goal — perhaps to lose 10 pounds by the end of the year, or read 12 books in the next 12 months. Whatever your passions are — this is your chance to let them shine!
What about the Internet?
Many of you will be reading this right now and saying “I don’t watch that much TV!” But watch out: an Internet addiction can be just as bad. Wandering aimlessly around online and watching videos isn’t much better than watching TV. What goals can you set while working online? Can you make some extra money? Learn HTML? Set up a website or blog and keep it going for 3 months?
If you really want to start a business, or if you have a goal in mind, and you watch TV or surf the Internet mindlessly, you do have time to reach that goal — over 750 hours a year, in fact. This life is your chance to better the world around you in some way. What amazing creations can you make with that time? What will you do with your newfound 750 hours a year?
J.D.’s note: I agree with Erica 100% — you have the time and the knowledge and the resources to pursue your dreams. All it takes is a few small changes. For more on how I reduced my own TV consumption, check out cheap alternatives to cable television.
This article is about Self-Improvement Wednesday, 24th September 2008 (by J.D. Roth)


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September 24th, 2008 at 5:10 am
Bravo!
We lived briefly in Manhattan after we were married - but because we knew we were moving out, we didn’t bother to get cable (antennas don’t work well in Manhattan because of the tall buildings).
That broke us of our TV habit.
We now live overseas, and are not interested in either local or satellite TV. My wife sometimes gets American women’s magazines from friends. Sometimes we cannot even recognize the woman on the cover - starlets have had their entire careers unfold without us knowing. Seinfeld and other “era-defining” shows have come and gone.
And it hasn’t affected us in the least.
Television is more than a waste of time - it presents an alternative reality that creates false “needs” and makes you impatient with the rhythms of real life, and real relationships.
Turn it off!
Any relationship based on talking about TV shows is not a real friendship. Don’t waste your life trying to keep up with this nonsense-masquerading-as-culture.
Turn it off!
September 24th, 2008 at 5:21 am
I couldn’t agree more about watching less TV. Better yet, cancel your cable completely.
Several months ago my family realized that all of the shows we regularly watch - Lost, Battlestar Galactica, and Grey’s Anatomy where all available for free (legally) on line. We watcah our shows on the networks websites or on hulu.com. We now save time and money.
RDS
http://financialvalues.blogspot.com/
September 24th, 2008 at 5:35 am
I totally agree. When I gave up watching tv I gained enough time to start playing the violin, learned to make my own bread, paid more attention to my finances, take better care of my house and children and started studying things that I love. I still watch occasionally, but certainly less than five hours a month or so.
September 24th, 2008 at 5:39 am
Time definitely is the ultimate currency. However, it is very difficult to be constantly concious of how you spend it, so posts like this every now and then serve a very good purpose.
September 24th, 2008 at 5:56 am
I don’t have cable or even an antenna, but I do have a bluray dvd player and HD tv. I rent ‘proven’ shows through Blockbuster Online, and only watch those. It’s been great, have Kung Fu and Oz at home right now. I also recommend Weeds, Mad Men and Deadwood!
This method also cuts down on watching after the episode is over, it’s impossible actually.
September 24th, 2008 at 6:10 am
When I tell people we don’t have cable, they look at me like I just grew a third arm. We can afford cable TV, but we choose not to have it because it’s a major time suck. We love PBS, and we subscribe to Netflix, and that covers any tv/movie entertainment we need.
We spend our weekends cooking and working in our small garden (a new project this year). Last weekend, I learned how to can pears. TV is okay, but I’d rather spend more time out there living life, doing something constructive and gratifying. I want to learn three other languages and how to play piano. I want to learn how to sew and how to garden. I just have too many interests to waste my precious free time.
When I was a kid, all of my friends had cable and watched shows on Nickelodeon. I felt left out, and begged my dad to get cable, but he wouldn’t give in. He said I should read or go play outside. At the time, he was just unreasonable, but now, I see the wisdom and know we’ll never have 500 channels. We’ll have a full home library and lots of backyard for our kids to explore.
September 24th, 2008 at 6:10 am
For my TV needs, I switched to Netflix and Hulu. Both offer on demand streams of most of my favorite shows. I’ve since canceled my cable TV (saves me money and time) and solely use these two services.
September 24th, 2008 at 6:13 am
My wife and I gave up watching TV years ago and went the way of Netflix. Not only did we save on the cost of cable TV, but we picked up a lot of time to pursue other activities. We spend more quality time with each other and with friends; we both started new businesses; my wife went back to school; and I obtained a certification in my field.
We get about a half dozen broadcast channels which look magnificent on HDTV so if we really wanted to watch something, we could.
It’s all about priorities. What would you like to accomplish in life and how do you want to spend your time?
September 24th, 2008 at 6:40 am
Bravo for posting this! hopefully some people will listen… I grew up without a tv (thank goodness) and even though I married a tv addict (who is also a wonderful, caring man) I try to stay away from it as much as possible… I’m always getting comments from people who know that I work a full time job and also maintain a true daily painting blog, the I dont know how you find the time comments and I’m like put down the remote and freakin’ DO something…
ok, I’m sorry I have nothing constructive to add to the article, I was just so enthusiatically in agreement with the writer I felt the need to chime in
September 24th, 2008 at 7:04 am
My favorite hobby is knitting, and therefore something I can do while watching TV. However, it requires me to put down the computer — the internet is my biggest time waster! Now that I’ve dedicated myself to knitting at least 1 hour a day, it means 1 hour offline. After reading this, I think it is time to kick it up a notch.
Earlier this year, we decided to get rid of all the movie channels and to buy an Apple TV. We are now more selective of what movies we rent and watch - it is the perfect fit for us. We kept basic cable, since I wanted local station and news access, but otherwise our TV watching has dropped dramatically this year.
Fabulous post!
September 24th, 2008 at 7:14 am
I’m not really sure who has two hours a day to watch TV daily–or more!?? How?
We get home from work, make dinner, sit down with the kids to eat, clean up the kitchen while the kids bathe, do homework, play a board game, read a story, and then it’s bed for them and by 9:30–bed for me. If I’m lucky I get to sneak 20 minutes of reading in there myself. All of that is on a day we don’t have afterschool activities planned…I don’t even feel caught up on regular housework. Not entirely sure where I can chip out 14 more hours a week…Any other thoughts?
September 24th, 2008 at 7:15 am
I’m with Christine @10. I have had no difficulty in giving up most TV (I admit I like to watch political stuff on CSPAN and the news networks — usually while ironing or knitting, though so it’s not too time wasting) BUT, I seem to have replaced it with several hours a day of internet time. It’s not surfing or shopping, it’s email, blogs, and aggregate sites that seem to me to be giving me a lot of information and discussion that I want and enjoy. But I do see it as something of a time sink and feel I may need to get this under control in order to get time back for other activities.
September 24th, 2008 at 7:24 am
Leigh wrote: Not entirely sure where I can chip out 14 more hours a week…Any other thoughts?
Not everyone can do this, of course. But for many people, even if it’s not television, there are other things that can be traded for time. For me, it was computer gaming. Once I traded computer games for writing, I really was able to pursue my dreams.
This reminds me of a recent Gary Vaynerchuk video in which he points out that if you’re really devoted to something, if you’re willing to work four hours every night at it, you can really have it.
But, again, not everyone can do this. I know how packed many lives already are.
September 24th, 2008 at 7:32 am
I think this is a great post, even though I work for an entertainment company that owns over 10 cable channels. A lot of people at work are surprised when I tell them I don’t have cable, not even basic cable or rabbit ears. I do have a nice television, a 46″ Hi-Definition, which I have hooked up to an Apple TV. I subscribe to a couple television shows through iTunes. These shows are not on basic cable stations, so it would cost me more to subscribe to premium cable to get these channels, than it does to purchase a season of the show online; plus I get the benefit of having no commercials. Since I don’t watch television I have time to read, listen to music, work out, play video games, play guitar, draw, cook, etc. I work with a lot of people who watch hours of television every day, it’s pretty much a way of life for them, and then you hear them complain that they don’t have time to do stuff like make lunch to bring in to work, or read a book. You do have time, you just choose to waste it in front of the TV.
September 24th, 2008 at 7:47 am
This is probably the strongest argument I have heard to suck it up and pay the extra $10 a month for a DVR. I might have to think about this one a little…
September 24th, 2008 at 7:53 am
Right on!
I don’t have time to watch tv 2 hours a day, but I still manage to do it because I can’t get off the sofa after I walk my dog. This is time that would be better spent sleeping or reading. I think I need to move the sofa away from the tv.
(This is the same reason I don’t have cable. I’d watch 4 hours a day, and sleep only 6 hours a night, if I had cable.)
September 24th, 2008 at 7:54 am
Thanks for this post! I’ve struggled with letting go of the TV for a long time. I had to stop taping shows cause I felt bad I didn’t have the time to watch them. I now only watch in real time and that has helped me to cut down, but I want to cut down even more. I really struggle with TV addiction. This post was helpful.
September 24th, 2008 at 7:54 am
I can save time by not watching TV the way I can save money by not going to Starbucks and getting weekly manicures, the way the women’s magazines always tell you to. I do need to cut back on my internet time (and use it more productively–I have two websites to maintain, I don’t need to be checking email, LiveJournal, and Facebook every five minutes).
If I could just quit worrying, and quit standing around wondering what to do next, THAT would save me some serious time.
September 24th, 2008 at 7:58 am
Count me in.
For the foreseeable future, I’m only watching Mad Men, NFL games, and the upcoming Presidential debates.
Other than that, my TV is staying off. I have better things to do.
September 24th, 2008 at 7:58 am
Start running and excersizing. Once you really get in the habit of longer runs, you really chew up a lot of your time after work (or at least I did). That being said, I still probably watch 14 hours of TV a week (football Sundays and playoff baseball). Would actually spend more if I didn’t go to games every Saturday as well.
September 24th, 2008 at 8:04 am
This is really helpful. I have been thinking of ways to reduce or eliminate my cable TV bill. This will help me to save both money and time.
September 24th, 2008 at 8:14 am
JD, I went back and read your article about cable TV. I wanted to mention a few things I have found.
Usually, if you live in a city, you can get all your local channels through a fairly inexpensive outdoor antenna. Check http://www.antennaweb.org/ to see what channels you would get in your area. You may be able to get them all in High Definition and drop your local channels all together.
The antenna requires an initial investment, but pays off pretty quickly with the great HD programming for no monthly fee. It works with TIVO and other DVRs that you can buy or build. (I use MythTV, but it is too much work for some)
Also, do you subscribe to cable internet? It seems that if you have cable internet, you get the basic television package at no charge. (This is definately true with Charter in my area). YMMV. Try disconnecting your cable modem, and hooking the coaxial cable up to the TV to see what channels you get. You may be surprised at the results. If you do get some channels, a cheap all frequency coax splitter will be all you need to get cable TV.
September 24th, 2008 at 8:27 am
I’ve given up on cable TV a few years ago simply for lack of money. I’m a geek, so I love animes and I watched a lot of them in the Animax channel. After a while it didn’t feel that bad, I got used to being back to open TV.
After a time I got addicted to online games such as World of Warcraft, and that also cut in my habit of watching open TV (and on useful things too: for two years I stopped attending college).
Interestingly enough, after I also gave up on World of Warcraft (and got back to college, thanks God!), I ended up completely uninterested in TV. End result: even considering college assignments and classes, having overcome two time-sinking addictions means a lot of previously unknown free time.
Now I only need to get out of Internet addiction and I’ll be ready to shine!
September 24th, 2008 at 8:29 am
How about not spending so much time on the internet. I think we are quickly replacing our time in front of the TV with time in front of the computer screen. My addiction to reading certain blogs (thanks JD)has consumed its’ fair amount of time.
September 24th, 2008 at 8:33 am
I don’t watch that much TV (and mostly watch while folding laundry) but I think I can apply these principals to the internet.
I just counted and found that I have 27 blogs in my favorites, and one of those is Liferemix, which links me to a whole bunch of blogs.
I’m going to choose my five favorite blogs, and erase the others from my favorites list. That will probably give me an extra two hours per week to do things myself, instead of reading about what other people are doing!
Okay, I’m off to do this right now before I weaken…
September 24th, 2008 at 8:39 am
A nice post.
I quit watching Cricket and in India, Cricket is a religion. I was very passionate about cricket but then I realized I was spending more number of hours doing nothing productive. Instead of watching it, I started to cultivate a hobby of designing and maintaining web sites. This has really helped me a lot.
Suggestion: Quit watching sports. You will get all the more time to do something productive.
September 24th, 2008 at 8:52 am
Not watching TV has collateral effects too. Since we haven’t had TV for over a year now we’re completely out of the loop on what movies are coming out.
On the up side, we save a little bit of money. We only ever went to the dollar theater anyways.
On the down side it’s harder to talk with our friends about movies or to even want to go to the movies with them.
FWIW, the last movie we went to see was the Simpsons movie, in the dollar theater.
September 24th, 2008 at 9:03 am
As soon as I saw the title, I knew it was going to be television. I agree with you and you are exactly right. I often feel like I don’t have enough time to work out as much as I want to. But I always seem to find time to watch a show or two every night. There are actually only two shows on that I even care about seeing each week and they aren’t even on at the same time of year. So I should have a lot of time!
Often times I find myself watching it just so I can spend time with my husband. Tivo has been a time saver for me. For him it’s a time sucker because now he has a list a mile long of shows he’s “got to catch up on.” Now he gets to watch them all. Tivo isn’t always a good thing for all people unfortunately
September 24th, 2008 at 9:04 am
However, commenter #1, I met many of my closest friends, including my current roommate who I’ve known for a decade…on an X-Files fan mailing list. Somehow, while we were discussing the feminist and sexist aspects of Scully’s portrayal and the relationship dynamic between the two agents and if it was degrading to it to make a partnership between a man and woman romantic by default, we didn’t know you can’t make real friends by discussing television.
My love of television has brought me paid writing jobs, years of expertise with online community that’s gotten me work, it got me into graduate school because my undergrad research on fanfiction was a lot more interesting than my thesis on medieval lit, apparently…and it costs me a big 1.45 a day now that I have the fancy cable, so for most of my life, it was less than a dollar a day for the cable scapegoat.
That, to me, defines a good return on my time and money. It may not be a good return for you, because if you had infinity money, you wouldn’t spend much time doing media, but it’s not cable tv’s fault that you use it to do mindless leisure.
September 24th, 2008 at 9:04 am
I really like this post for a few reasons. I live in a very liberal town, and those “kill your TV” bumper stickers are everywhere, and it’s “cool” to not have a tv.
Anyway, I’ve always challenged these folks, in arguing that it’s not the TV that’s the problem, it’s people’s behaviors in watching TV. I’d argue that TV is better than ever- well written shows, DIY programs, Tivo, on demand, etc.
If people can watch on their own terms, and not needlessly channel surf, than people can realize the extra time the poster talks about, but also be “in tune” with pop culture, and enjoy some of the very good shows that are on TV.
September 24th, 2008 at 9:18 am
Hi, I’m Erica (the author of this article.) I’m really glad you all enjoyed it and that it’s been thought-provoking for many of you.
@Leigh (#11): One of the things to consider is to outsource some of your housecleaning work. Hiring a cleaning service is fairly affordable (even in my expensive area, I only pay $70 per cleaning) and can save you hours of time — and your sanity! Shopping around and finding a good cleaning service is worth it.
I wrote about how to decide which personal activities to consider outsourcing here:
http://www.erica.biz/2008/you-are-worth-more-than-you-think-overcoming-the-key-reason-entrepreneurs-fail/
It’s one of my most popular articles.
Good luck!
-Erica
September 24th, 2008 at 9:18 am
I broke the TV addiction years and years ago by getting rid of the TV. I’ve never regretted it, and never looked back.
Breaking the internet addiction is much harder, because giving up the internet entirely would have far more negative consequences than giving up TV entirely. Moderation can be much harder than abstinence, with anything that’s even colloquially called an “addiction”.
At this point, I feel like I’ve lost all the ground that I originally gained by giving up the TV, and I’m not sure how to get it back (since no internet access at all would be a bit drastic).
Ah, for those blessed few years after I gave up television and before internet became ubiquitous.
September 24th, 2008 at 9:25 am
We have never been tv watchers. Not to say we don’t watch tv because we do. It just does not consume us.
I waste more time on my computer. I tell everyone I am working but I waste time reading and interacting with my network.
September 24th, 2008 at 9:26 am
I’m an avid TV watcher, but Im living abroad and I only watch TV online. So, it’s become very efficient. I plan on continuing that when I return to the USA
September 24th, 2008 at 9:27 am
I banned TV from my life about 2-3 years ago and don’t miss it one bit. The only time I turn it on is when I get a Netflix DVD in the mail (and that is not exactly “TV”).
There was a time recently when all I would do is roam around the internet, like you said, and just waste time. But recently I have learned HTML, studied SEO, created a blog, and created a superstar RSS list that keeps the knowledge pumping!
- Jack Rugile
Simple Sapien
September 24th, 2008 at 9:32 am
Seems like most people here are naturaly geared more towards internet addiction rather than TV addiction. THe difficult thing here is that internet addiction can be quite productive. TV is typically passive entertainment, but internet usage can be quite interactive and productive. For instance, maintaining blogs, uploading/sharing photos and videos, researching information, planning vacations/events, it can all be very useful.
I guess the trouble is trying to decipher when it stops becoming productive, and starts becoming a time sink. For instance, I feel that reading this blog is helpful for my own personnel knowledge base, but does commenting on the article really help with anything? Does my 2 cents really matter in cyber space, and has it really made any contribution to the overall discussion- probably not most of the time. . .
September 24th, 2008 at 9:39 am
I like the theme of this post - the value of time (really, your paycheck is simply your time and efforts converted into dollars).
One caveat - I lived for about a year with a little 19 inch tv that was located in an inconvenient room in my house. I really broke the TV habit.
Then I got my big ass tv ™ and dvr.
I’m not sure how I survived without HD, and the DVR opened up an entire world of entertainment I didn’t know was out there (House! The Office! ATHF!).
I think the key is setting time aside specifically to watch things you’ve recorded, and not getting sucked in.
September 24th, 2008 at 9:40 am
I feel the need to dispel the myth that a DVR leads one to watch less television. This is only the case if you are really disciplined. And if you are really disciplined, then you probably don’t need a DVR anyway, since you won’t be channel surfing. I’ve had a TIVO and various DVRs for six years, and I certainly don’t watch less TV. If anything, I probably watch more. First, if two shows you would like to watch are on at the same time, with some DVRs you can record both (on ours you can record three!). Whereas before you had to choose, now you can watch both. Also, I am more likely to try out a new show or watch a show I only mildly like because it’s only 45 or so minutes rather than an hour (or 20 minutes, if it’s a 30 minute show). I think DVRs are meant for people who watch a lot of TV - why else would you have a hard drive that can hold over 100 hours of TV? It’s great for convenience, and I highly recommend a DVR. I couldn’t ever go back. But don’t fool yourself into thinking that you will watch less TV. And if you only plan to record a few shows a week, don’t waste your money on a $10 a month DVR - buy a DVD player that can record TV. It’s much more economical.
September 24th, 2008 at 9:49 am
i don’t have cable and our antenna gets exactly one channel with audio. i don’t really care, i listen to the radio instead. i do rent a lot of movies, though, which is an equal leisure device if you ask me. the benefit is that it is time-limited, unless you feel like going out and getting another.
for me, it works particularly well because i will lay on the floor, watch the movie, and do all of my physical therapy exercises. then when i’m done with those, i’ll do some other exercises with hand weights, or extra sit-ups, or something.
and the plus to the movie subscription is that i’m not as tempted to venture out into the world where i would be spending more money just for the sake of entertaining myself.
September 24th, 2008 at 9:59 am
Are you saying I should stop reading blogs on the internet to free up more time?
September 24th, 2008 at 10:05 am
Oooh JD in resp. to your comment: I watched that Gary V video you linked to on Twitter. I’m familiar w/his message and respect it in many ways but I also find fault with parts of it as well.
I find his message far too simplistic, without nuance, and find it to be aimed at a very limited audience. Then again, how much nuance can there be in videos of a few min. length and a short keynote, I grant that for the sake of consistency and a strong speech he may have to sacrifice some nuance for simplicity.
In all, as you prob. well know by my comments over time, I find people–esp. those who had such things as obstacles themselves and overcame them–make far too much of motivational obstacles at the expense of not recognizing far more serious and more difficult to overcome barriers.
Even the hours of TV can be explained in many ways, in my view, mostly other than 2 free hours per day to devote to developing a business or some other active task and long term goal. But I won’t get into that here/now.
In all, in regard to the post, I’m a huge fan of using one’s time in a way that won’t later be regretted, and for me that most certainly means no or almost no TV. Never been much into TV, I don’t tend to watch, and find it a waste overall. My Internet usage, on the other hand, I still need to work on . . .
September 24th, 2008 at 10:06 am
Not that I disagree with the premise (mindless timesucks add up to a lot of wasted time) but the comments are making me laugh a bit … isn’t being superior over TV watchers very, um, eight years ago?
September 24th, 2008 at 10:20 am
I agree, but I would say it is important to rethink your screen time, and as you would with a child, set daily limits for yourself.
TV + Internet + Gaming = screen time
September 24th, 2008 at 10:25 am
I haven’t read through everyone else’s comments closely so I apologize for any redundancy. Great article, and I, too, have worked hard to take TV out of my life. I was even considering selling my TV when I moved this summer but decided to keep it for entertaining others (mostly my girlfriend when she comes over). One thing I’ve consciously done to get over my habit was to put a barrier between me and the TV: I put my remote controls in a drawer in my entertainment center. It’s amazing how something simple like this gave me more control. When I would go to turn the TV on, the remote wouldn’t be in the couch and when I remembered where it was, I’d remember my commitment. So I’d turn on some music instead. One thing I want to caution others on, though, is make sure that losing one bad habit (TV) isn’t replaced by another (internet). I’ve found myself slipping into this recently and I need to devise a new way to overcome it (put the laptop in a dresser drawer??). My best to all of you looking to make better use of their time!
September 24th, 2008 at 10:32 am
Great article! I’ve recently begun to cut down on my TV consumption (limiting myself to 2 or 3 shows) and to watch show’s on my terms via PVR. I’m enjoying the free time and am putting it to good use!
You’ve hit the nail on the head though, which is take control of your life and live it on your own terms. Don’t allow your time to be dictated to you by faceless corporations.
September 24th, 2008 at 10:53 am
For most of the 10 years I lived in Vermont I didn’t have a television, yet I felt I never had enough time to do the things I wanted to do. In contrast, one of the busiest people on the planet is David Pogue, the New York Times columnist, who writes columns for the paper each week, does weekly videos for CNBC, edits and writes books, is a frequent guest speaker at tech conferences, has a blog and a personal website, and probably about fifty other things I’m failing to mention, plus he has a wife and kids. Somehow he also finds time to watch a lot of TV — all on TiVo so he does do the “targeted watching” thing, but he makes time for it.
Cutting anything time-consuming out of our lives is going to free up time for other stuff. The invention of the dishwasher, the clothes washing machine, the car, central heating, indoor plumbing…all these things were great time-savers. But people filled up that space with other activities and ended up still feeling too busy and “not having enough time.”
In the end, as Erica says toward the end of her post, the equation should be reversed. Instead of asking, “what can I cut out of my life to make more time?” the better question might be, “what do I want to do with my tme?” Once you know the answer to that question, it will help you focus and the things that “waste” your time will fall away naturally.
September 24th, 2008 at 10:57 am
Television and the internet are both big time-suckers for me, so I appreciate the motivation to change. Great post, thank you.
Also, a lot of television today focuses on lifestyles that are very wealthy and superficial, and too much of that can make you feel hopelessly inadequate and failing even if you have a good normal life. Not to mention — unattainable standards of thinness and rejection of aging.
September 24th, 2008 at 11:07 am
Another TV time trick, do things while watching TV. Before I had my son, I used to get a ton of knitting and other crafts done while watching tv. I also could squeeze in some reading or exercise (mostly crunches) during commercial breaks. When I lived in a small condo, I could do things like cook or can (I didn’t can then, but I could have) while watching TV. The kitchen and the living room were practically the same room!
I don’t watch that much TV anyhow, I’m a select show watcher (the TV doesn’t turn on until my show is on, and I turn it off when my show is over), but I used to be able to multitask while watching TV pretty well. Now that I’m a mom, my son doesn’t let me do things like knit or read very often, so I multitask while watching TV by playing with my son at the same time, or nursing. Not quite as productive, but oh well.
September 24th, 2008 at 11:16 am
One of the things that freed me from the ball and chain called TV is that I will not watch it alone. Sounds crazy I am sure but unless the family is sitting down to watch a show or a movie together as a family event I stay away from it. This way I kill two birds with one stone; free up time for me and when I do watch it’s family time
September 24th, 2008 at 11:18 am
I agree with the suggestion of getting a DVR. If you can afford one, it will change your life, or at least your TV viewing life anyway. I used to stop whatever I was working on when one of my favorite shows comes on, now I don’t have to. Here is a trick, if you start watching a show about 15 or 20 minutes after it starts, you can use the DVR to fast forward commercials and by the time you reach the end, you are at the normal end time of the show. So, that 15 - 20 minutes can be spent doing other things and you still get to watch your show without staying up till all hours catching up. I do this almost every day and I have much more free time then I used to.
September 24th, 2008 at 11:18 am
Several months ago our family dropped our cable package down to the basic, local channels. At $12 a month it certainly helped our monthly budget, but we found many other benefits as well. Since dropping television our kids read more, and with the weather getting nicer they tend play outside more often. My wife and I spend more time talking at night, and reading some great books ourselves. Of course, dropping the majority of our television viewing has also enabled me to build up my blog which has been more profitable than the PT job I was considering.
September 24th, 2008 at 11:24 am
I have to agree with Jane at #38 — be careful investing in a DVR. I got one a few years ago, and by six months into it, I was watching more tv than I ever had *ever*. I recorded shows I missed because they were on at the same time, I recorded things I wouldn’t normally clear time to sit down and watch because all I had to do was hit a button, then watch it when I was bored, I saved up daily shows and watched them for hours long marathons on the weekend. I was watching shows my roommate recorded that I’d never seen, and if you don’t turn it off, most DVRs have a default setting that will record shows it “thinks” you’ll like, as well.
Obviously I was not disciplined in using it, and getting rid of it and cable totally, and turning to Netflix to get 1 show at a time, was the best thing I ever did.
September 24th, 2008 at 11:29 am
Nope, nope, nope. VCRs and TiVo can actually increase your TV time, because you no longer miss any shows, or skip shows because they are on too late or too early, or out, or doing something else, etc.
September 24th, 2008 at 11:31 am
A DVR is good in certain respects. I do watch more TV than before I had a DVR. However, I watch TV when I want to watch it and don’t let my life revolve around the TV. “Oh, it’s Thursday night but I can’t go out because Grey’s Anatomy is on!” doesn’t get uttered. I try to limit the number of shows that I’m into at any given time. Right now, I have Scrubs, Heroes, House, 30 Rock, Holmes on Homes, and Californication. That’s actually probably too many for me. I try to limit it to about 5 shows which is under 5 hours of TV in a week. I think that is respectable.
Also, I’m a triathlete and I spend a lot of my free time training for it. A lot of people ask how do I find the time to train that much. I ask them how much TV they watch in a week (and it’s usually something around 20 hours). Then, I tell them that I spend 75% of that 20 hours a week training and only watch TV maybe 5-6 hours a week.
TV isn’t inherently bad. It’s like anything else that can be viewed as black/white such as credit cards and guns. There are good things and bad things and people can find a reasonable balance between the two.
September 24th, 2008 at 11:47 am
If people are worried about becoming TV addicts, go work in the billing department of at a cable company. I used to LOVE TV, but after years of people screaming at me because their crack, I mean, cable, was off (because they did not pay their bill or because a huge fire/hurricane/tornado/flood destroyed the cable company’s infrastructure), well, I really started reading a lot more books. My TV viewing is about an hour a day, while working out on the elliptical machine. Of course being Canadian, you will find me watching Hockey Night in Canada Saturday night but even then, by the second or third period, I find myself muting the game and reading a book at the same time. Billing has ruined TV for me. In a weird way, I’m sort of grateful, I did not want to become one of those crazy people who freak out when they lose their cable.
September 24th, 2008 at 12:13 pm
The time you save is great, but don’t forget the MONEY you save. Not paying $30-$150 a month. Not paying over $1000 for an LCD. Money for a Tivo. The monthly subscription for that Tivo. Not losing all that potential income from wasted time.
Oh, and how it makes you lazy, stupid and sedentary. And don’t forget the constant barrage of advertisements you are subjected to.
TV is pretty much the antithesis of everything related to personal productivity and finance.
September 24th, 2008 at 12:24 pm
Sometimes I think people are too keen to regulate every single little part of their lives. We’re all bright people and already know that moderation in all aspects of life is good.
But sometimes it seems like more and more people are playing productivity-chicken and oneupmanship. Is reading my book really better for me than watching TV? What if I snuggle while watching TV, but not while reading? Do I win if I am snuggling while reading a book on being more productive while knitting with my feet?
I think everyone undervalues “downtime”, where you should shamelessly do whatever you feel like, without guilt. You work hard, do you really need to play hard too?
September 24th, 2008 at 12:39 pm
Shut off the TV when we moved here 20 years ago. Raised 4 children without it, and if I could stress just one benefit of turning it off. My children found so many wonderful things to do with their extra hours created by not having TV, some of those hobbies changed their lives. They would not be the same people they are today if that box had absorbed even 1 hour per day of their time. Yes, it caused screams of pain the day it went off, yes, they grumbled all the way through high school about the wierdness and cruelty of a life without TV. Bottom line-they are better educated and lead much fuller lives because it was dead.
September 24th, 2008 at 12:47 pm
I’ve found that the internet is just as big a time-sucking device for me as T.V. is.
We cut our cable off long ago, but those time wasters seem to creep in there no matter what we do!
September 24th, 2008 at 1:17 pm
I feel “groggy, tired, and perhaps even grumpy” after 9 hours at work 5 days a week, and so have no energy to do anything but eat and sleep when I get home.
September 24th, 2008 at 1:37 pm
Awesome post! I’m going to start keep track of how much time I spend laying around on the couch doing “pointless” activities and try to re-invest that time into something more productive! Thanks for the post!
September 24th, 2008 at 1:46 pm
I love the train of thought in this post and in the comments, although I have to disagree with one thing.
A few years ago a friend bought me a TiVo for christmas and she promised it would change my life. And it did! At first, I loved being able to not worry about being home for the news (or forgetting to set my VCR to tape whatever show I was missing while I was at night school). I loved being able to forward through commercials.
BUT! for me, I ended up watching WAY more tv after getting TiVo! Now that it only took me 20 minutes to watch a 30 minute show, I’d end up watching two at a time instead - getting totally hooked! It also suggested new shows and turned me onto ones I wouldn’t have thought about otherwise, and with the convenience of having them all lined up for me whenever I wanted, it was just too hard to put down the remote. I’d say my viewing habits completely changed after TiVo, but instead of spending less time watching TV it was DEFINITELY a marked increase.
I just got back from an 8 month trip abroad, during which time I missed entire seasons of Top Chef, Grey’s Anatomy, Project Runway - some of my favorite shows. While I had the option (if I REALLY needed a fix) of watching some of them online, I found that I had way more fun actually living life, and I hardly missed them.
In the meantime, I went back to reading books. I think that in the past ten years my attention span was shortened to practically nothing by the ubiquity of information being hurled at me in bite-sized pieces on the internet, TV, etc. During the time I was away I read through approximately 2 books per week, picking up old classics that I was supposed to have read in school, as well as new recommendations from friends. My newly rediscovered reading habit, combined with daily sessions writing in a journal, have helped me to turn over a new leaf. And I don’t miss my TiVo at all!
September 24th, 2008 at 1:54 pm
You seriously watch Dr. Phil…?
September 24th, 2008 at 2:40 pm
Awesome post Erica and thanks for hosting it J.D.!
Here’s another great read from the Journal of Cognitive Liberties — http://www.cognitiveliberty.org/5jcl/5JCL59.htm
It’s a scientific perspective on TV watching and how it affects our brains and bodies. It’s definitely been helping me cut back — and hopefully to quit soon!
September 24th, 2008 at 3:01 pm
Lots of people are seeing the Tivo as a time-suck and it can be. I find that I need to allow myself to not watch things I don’t want to. I tivo Oprah but only watch the happy episodes. mostly in fast forward. Olympics? Tivo’d. I watched most of the swimming *gasp* in triple fast forward. Less suspense and really, if you’re watching it after the fact, you know who won.
The true time suck for me these days is internet, specifically wandering about yelp and reading feeds. I knit while watching tv but don’t while I’m online.
And doing without cable to watch on a small computer screen? I’d get Apple Tv and use Amazon Unbox instead. It isn’t about saving the money but about enjoying my time investment. A show here or there on the computer is fine, but I’d rather watch it on a larger screen. It’d also save me the pain of waiting for online shows to buffer.
September 24th, 2008 at 4:42 pm
A VCR or DVR is definitely a good way to save about 1/3 of the time you watch TV as long as your disciplined with it. But as others have pointed out a Tivo /DVR can cause you to watch more TV. Cutting commercials out of TV is a good time saver, I agreee there.
But other than that Whats the real underlying suggestion here? Should I simply stop leisure activities and spend all my time with productive work? Or should I just not watch TV because some people dislike TV?
Personally I enjoy TV. Its my primary choice for how I spend my leisure time.
Yes if I cut back on TV I could have more time to do other things. But I choose to spend my leisure time watching TV. If I choose to cut my leisure time I have more time to do work. But I enjoy my leisure time and I enjoy spending my leisure time watching TV.
Theres always a balance between leisure and productive / work time. Sure, cutting back on leisure time can free up time to work, but I don’t want to work more.
Otherwise its a personal opinion and preference as to whether we want to watch TV, read a book, play cards, exercise, or do other things with our own leisure time. While I understand many people feel TV is a waste of their time any other choice of how you spend leisure time is still simply a personal preference.
September 24th, 2008 at 4:51 pm
We love our Tivo. We can watch a 30 minute show in 20 mins as we fast forward through commercials. (Major time savings.) And it is a good way to keep track of exactly how much TV we do watch. (Which is very minimal, but still something we do enjoy.)
I am with a few people here in that I can’t find 14 hours in a week. I am a working mom (full time) with two small children (and have outsourced housecleaning AND lawn mowing). My husband also works full time (plus overtime and an hour each way commute).
After everyone is sleeping in my house I hop on the treadmill and/or blog for my local newspaper (which while it makes me well known in my community, isn’t going to make me a millionaire!)
Anyways, good article and helpful for some out there. I agree with many points.
September 24th, 2008 at 7:37 pm
I wonder what the results would be if you polled much of America with this idea? Cutting out tv? I think people have become more productive with the introduction of DVR’s and TIVO’s, but what percentage of American’s actually own them? It must be a small amount. Anyways, as I have gotten older I have cut back on TV and spent more time on the web, especially blogging. I definitely have give myself more time but I am just trying to make that extra cash in my spare time! Great points!
September 24th, 2008 at 8:23 pm
Definitely if you want to pursue your dreams, you need to free up time to be focused as well eat right, exercise, get proper sleep and get lucky.
September 24th, 2008 at 8:44 pm
Good post.
Though, in this day and age (and for this crowd), I suspect “idle Internet use” may be an even bigger time consumer than television.
How many hours a week do we spend chatting, watching YouTube videos, playing online games, Stumbling, etc. etc. etc.
If you’re already achieving your goals, and have time to waste, by all means, do what pleases you (TV and internet included), but if you’re always feeling pressured for time, check yourself a few times a day, and see if you’re engaged in something meaningful.
Good luck, all!
September 24th, 2008 at 9:03 pm
This is parallel to J.D.’s article about attentive spending except that this is attentive use of time. I agree with #70. You can use your time for anything you want, just make sure it is REALLY what you want to do with your time.
As a matter of fact, today I started keeping track of what I did as soon as I got home. I did not realize I spent so much time cooking because the TV was on and I kept pausing to hear what they were saying!
September 24th, 2008 at 9:25 pm
Wow ! Talk about strike a nerve ! There’s a ton of responses to this. I guess I’m lucky, I generally consider the vast majority of television programming to be without value. But, internet addiction, well …
September 25th, 2008 at 7:01 am
I like tv, I won’t lie. But, eventually I’ll be moving out of my rental house and into a house I buy. So the free cable will disappear.
I’d love to be able to download shows from the internet and watch it on my television. The Appletv won’t work, because I don’t have a hdtv. Are there any other options? This would allow me to watch the shows I like but limit my watching of filler.
September 25th, 2008 at 7:37 am
On the cleaning front, I personally give up on trying to keep the house perfectly clean. I hired a cleaning service years ago to save my marriage and time. For the Internet, I launched myinspirationlounge.com, an online portal to help women connect to the best of the web without all the searching! My vision is to help women get one step closer to doing what they love!
Misty
Founder
My Inspiration Lounge
http://www.myinspirationlounge.com
September 25th, 2008 at 8:03 am
@Jen S - awesome! I met my boyfriend by discussing The X-Files in a newsgroup.
In topic: I’m watching as much tv now as some years ago - I bought a DVD recorder one year ago but my habits remained the same: I watch some favorite series and good films.
But yeah, I waste much more time on the web, I’m more worried about that.
Though I must admit that sometimes I prefer wasting some time because I’m just tired and feel lazy - not the internet’s fault, or the tv’s fault…
By the way, one book a month is not enough to be a goal, read at least 2.
September 25th, 2008 at 8:16 am
This is why i love my TIVO. I just watch the shows i want when i have the time to watch it. I usually set aside one day to watch the shows of the week without the commercial interruption.
September 25th, 2008 at 9:28 am
I grew up in the very old days. One black and white Tv with 3 channels- and my dad picked what we watched. Then for a while, I couldn’t afford a Tv- and when I could- it was an old set for which I created an “antenna” from telephone wire that I had to be held to make it work(don’t ask) while watching. Eventually I got money, got TV(s), and got cable and then 13 years ago- got rid of it(cable, not TV). Cable was a treat on vacation/business trips(Clinton and Stacy-I love you- but don’t look at my clothing). For the past few years, the only show I had to see was Lost(and often the only show I watched).
Now, kids grown, husband retired- My husband is a TV addict and this was his idea - we got FIOS this week. I started clicking. I didn’t know there was more than one shopping channel(scary, really- but I’ll never buy)-I thought there was QVC. A whole slew of evangelical/religious channels(is Ernest Ansley around?)?? Lots of local gov’t program channels(a whole channel for the county council???- granted -our county has a larger population than Alaska). However, I didn’t see a whole lot to watch and I don’t even know when Stacy and Clinton are on.
September 25th, 2008 at 10:53 am
We got rid of our cable and got an Apple TV box. This was a huge help. At usually $2 per show our bill was a fraction of what it was with cable and we watched our favorite shows commercial free in Hi Def.
This biggest advantage is it eliminates aimless watching, as well as all the annoying commercials. The hard part is not having sports, but there are always sports pubs around to catch the game….
September 25th, 2008 at 12:01 pm
I’ve been TV free for three years. My DVD player broke last year and I never got around to fixing it. My neighbor just shut off their wireless (yep, I was poaching) and after a week or two of pangs, I don’t miss it. And Guess What? my tangled jungle of a garden is newly beautiful, the house is clean, and I am making art EVERY DAY- working on that MFA I always dreamed about. TRUST ME - you won’t miss it! And you won’t be depressed any more, either!
September 25th, 2008 at 3:25 pm
I am a mother of three young children, the vice president of a company, read extensively, and have many hobbies, to the point where I’ve been given the joke nickname “Martha Stewart” (um, I hope its a joke). People always ask me how I have time to do it all, and I always tell them its because I don’t watch television. Well, unless Project Runway is running, in which case I watch 1 hour of television a week.
September 25th, 2008 at 4:12 pm
Good analysis on the two types of TV watchers. What makes the Television networks think they can tell me what I can and cannot watch on Tuesday night at 7 pm. If you are the first type of TV watcher you need to take a serious look into your life and goals and then move into the here and now of DVR/Ti-Vo.
Or you could just not own a TV. My wife and I have now been married for nearly 3 years and we have never owned a Television. With internet programing you can now watch pretty much anything you want any time you want, you can even watch it in HD. I agree that one of the only downfalls of not having a TV is sacrificing watching live sporting events. Sometimes you can find them online but the quality, size and overall experience just isn’t the same.
The best part of the post though is the part addressing what to do with you new found free time. You must have a plan and some goals. Dont just plan to plan or plan to make goals -DO IT. then you will never miss your TV
September 26th, 2008 at 3:02 am
Don’t forget that TV watching is cheap entertainment. You don’t need the latest LCD big screen, or the full cable package. An older nice-enough TV lasts for years and years, basic cable with Internet and a Netflix subscription is enough. You can improve the quality of your entertainment by pre-selecting (”targeted viewing”) shows and films that have good reviews (check metacritic.com). The library has DVD’s for free as well.
When I get home from my rather long and stressful workday, sometimes I am too wound up to sleep, and it’s too early. I’m not going to do much productive, so I relax and unwind with some quality television and a low-cal dinner. Beats going out and spending money and eating and drinking too much socially.
The web is a time-suck for sure as the commenter mentioned above. Kill monsters and collect gold games, even the fancy new ones, are fun but they hit the right brain-receptors and keep us coming back for too many hours.
September 30th, 2008 at 12:34 pm
I haven’t had cable since I lived at home. We subscribe to Blockbuster online and it’s so much better, I’d only go back to television if there was a gun to my head.
I watch the shows I want to watch, when I want to watch them. They come in the mail and sit until I’m ready for them.
They have no commercial breaks, so you’re saving time.
If you’re married to someone whose mouth goes like a duck’s rear, you can rewind to catch what you missed while he was flapping his gums. Ahem.
October 7th, 2008 at 9:07 am
I agree with a lot of the post and a lot of the comments, however I think addiction and procrastination is the key thing here. We gave up our cable in December last year, basically a financial decision. Not because we couldn’t afford it, but because it wasn’t economically viable. You see we watched 2-3 shows a week (yes on DVR) for $50 a month for HD (Ballpark figure as I really don’t remember the exact price). Totally not worth it to us, especially when the seasons changed and it was 1-2 programs a week. We canceled the cable and haven’t looked back. Like someone mentioned we can watch programs online on the channels website for free!
One thing is that we tend to swap one behaviour for another. I noticed I was spending more time online, more time stuck infront of a computer screen, so now I make it a point that on ‘days off’ (I work from home) I don’t go on the computer till after lunch. Sundays I try and stay offline all day. I’ve done so much more since doing these few things, had more time to get things done and achieved so much! And it all started by giving up TV!
December 18th, 2008 at 12:44 pm
Time indeed is a precious commodity and it is not necessarily what we do with our time that is the most mportant but how we feel when we are doing it. If watching television or being on the internet makes you feel guilty or not productive then stop doing it. If on the other hand you feel good about it because you are relaxing; or your learning something from the program you are watching then you are not wasting your time. Remember, time is what you make of it and not how it is perceived by others.
December 21st, 2008 at 3:14 pm
There are many famous people who sleep 4-5 hours a night including Bill Clinton, Martha Stewart, Madonna, Donald Trump.
If you cut your sleep time in half from 8 hours to 4 hours, in the next 10 years you will have 14,600 extra hours awake. This is equivalent to 608 days which is over 1 year and 6 months extra your awake. Imagine having an extra 1 year and 6 months over your competition. The more productive your are now,the sooner you can relax.
Read up on the REM cycle’s your brain goes through when you sleep. 4 hours is really all you need. It’s not easy, but it’s definitely the best way to have more time! I personally have changed mine from 8+ hours to 5-6. It’s not 4 hours, but it’s a start.
December 24th, 2008 at 10:39 am
Hmmmm….but what if I spend my time reading “getrichslowly?”
July 13th, 2009 at 9:50 am
My partner invested in a wonderful Digital Video recorder with the unfortunate result that now he spends even more time watching all the shows he records during the day. And so do I. Missed “Beautiful People” or “Oprah” ? No worries, it’s all there when you get home.
The real solution is to turn the TV off and have very light dinners. I find elaborate , long drawn out dinners with snacks are what sparks a lot of TV watching.
November 9th, 2009 at 4:49 pm
I was really intrigued by the title of this post, thinking it would be something scam-like anywhere else, but never on Get Rich Slowly. However, I haven’t had TV in several years. Sometimes, as a treat after a large project has ended, I will watch something on Hulu, but I probably average 0-2 hours a month. I don’t get caught up reading things online, and often spend weeks or months without spending the internet time to completely catch up on email or read my favorite blogs.
You said:
“If you really want to start a business, or if you have a goal in mind, and you watch TV or surf the Internet mindlessly, you do have time to reach that goal — over 750 hours a year, in fact. This life is your chance to better the world around you in some way. What amazing creations can you make with that time? What will you do with your newfound 750 hours a year?”
and I really find myself wondering how I must spend these 750 hours that others spend in front of the tv! I used to stage manage professionally in the evenings, which was a easy way to attribute my lack of time, but now I work on my blog, have dinner parties, and go to sleep at a reasonable hour. I am still hard-pressed to fit in time to learn a new language or get my freelancing off the ground.
Do you have any advice for finding those extra 750 hours for those that don’t watch tv or loll around online for hours at a time?