It’s Monday morning. I’m sitting upstairs in my office, in my pajamas, watching Gary Vaynerchuk give his keynote address at Affiliate Summit West live on Ustream (along with 865 other viewers). Vaynerchuk runs a New Jersey business called Wine Library, and has a popular video blog called Wine Library TV. But most importantly (to me), he’s a passionate proponent of personal entrepreneurship.
As much as I believe that frugality is an important part of personal finance, I also believe that starting your own business is an excellent way to boost your income and to lead a more fulfilling life. My family is filled with entrepreneurs. When Gary Vaynerchuk speaks, he speaks to my soul.
Artists and Entrepreneurs
Gary talks about how some people who produce content for the web are Artists, while others are Entrepreneurs. He talks about the importance of Passion. He talks about building Brand Equity. He talks about Transparency, about not hiding things from your users. And he talks about how you need to have Goals.
It’s all fascinating. And it’s all stuff that I’ve been discussing with my colleagues Nickel and Jim recently.
I’ve been fascinated by the Artist/Entrepreneurship dichotomy for the past few weeks, for example. I’ve been telling Jim and Nickel that while the three of us are bloggers, I’m more of a Writer, and they’re more like Marketers. There’s nothing wrong with either one. They’re two different approaches to the same problem.
As it happens, I know that Jim is actually at Affiliate Summit West, sitting in the audience, watching Garyvee in person. So I pick up my phone, and I text him.
J.D.: Are you watching Gary?
J.D.: His artist/entrepreneur dichotomy is like my writer/marketer split.
Jim: Yeah, but you don’t have to always pick.
J.D.: I like that he says you can be both.
Jim: Very true. I’m more marketer and you’re more writer.
There’s a sort of continuum between Artist and Entrepreneur (or Writer and Marketer). You can’t make money by just doing it for the Art. But it’s difficult to build an audience by just playing the Marketer. There’s a balance to be found. For each blogger (and each business owner), that balance is different. I tend to fall on the side of Art. Jim tends to fall on the side of Entrepreneur. We’re looking to meet in the middle.
Jim and I keep an ongoing dialogue during the rest of the presentation. “This is so 2009,” I tell him, referring to the fact that he’s in Las Vegas watching the speech in person, I’m in Portland viewing it on the web, and we’re sharing it with each other via text message. I also say, “Garyvee is a genius.” Which is true.
Hustle and Patience
“This bad economy is the greatest thing that ever happened to Hustlers and people in the trenches,” Gary tells the crowd. “It’s the best thing.” When you work hard, when you build Brand Equity — even if it’s only your personal brand — you can always make more money. But those afraid of hustle, or afraid of trying something new, get left behind.
“There’s a scary four letter word that a lot of people are just completely petrified of, and that’s called Work. That’s what you have to do,” Gary says. But he also says you need something else. “There’s nobody that has enough Patience. Everybody’s like, when’s it gonna happen? But you’ve been doing this for three months — are you kidding me?”
Gary describes how he spent 8-10 hours every day for 18 months pumping out a 20 minute wine video that nobody watched. He participated in the online wine forums. He commented at wine blogs. And gradually — very gradually — he achieved success. “That’s hard,” Gary says. “That’s Patience.”
I think that’s something that most people who begin blogging for dollars miss. They come here, for example, and see that Get Rich Slowly has 70,000 subscribers and gets over 25,000 visitors every day and they imagine that maybe it makes a lot of money. They figure they’ll start right up and do this, too — they’ll get rich quickly.
But they don’t see the fifteen years I’ve been writing on the web, the ten years that I’ve had an online journal, the eight years I’ve had a blog, the three years that I’ve been building Get Rich Slowly. They want to go from zero to 70,000 in two months. It doesn’t work that way. It takes effort — and lots of it.
No offense to Tim Ferriss, but the four-hour work week is a myth. It’s an ideal. Not even Ferriss works just four hours a week. He’s always hustling.
I don’t work four hours a week, either. In fact, most weeks I work 60. Or more. Not just this week, but every week for the past three years. Writing a blog is a job, and like any job you get out of it what you put into it. I’m fortunate that I love my job, but it’s still a job.
Love what you do
During the Q&A for Gary’s talk, a Danish businessman asks a question I could have asked. He says that his business is so successful that he finds himself spending 10 hours a day answering e-mail. He feels stretched thin. He wants to know where Gary finds time to do the important stuff while still interacting with the customers and fans. “How do you do it?” he asks. “It seems impossible.”
“Are you happy?” Gary asks him.
“I love it,” the Danish businessman says.
Gary smiles. “Then you’re set,” he says.
I think there’s a lesson here for me. I’ve been frustrated lately about how busy I am. I don’t have enough time to answer my e-mail. I’m falling behind on my article writing. There are so many things I want to do for this site, and I don’t have time to do them. But you know what? I’m happy.
“When you love what you do, you never lose,” Gary said earlier in his talk.
I love what I do. I love sharing this stuff with you. I love interacting with GRS readers. Maybe it’s time to realize that, in the words of Garyvee, I’m “set”.
Last month at GRS, Gary Vaynerchuk shared advice about finding good wines and great prices. Look for more from him here in the future.
This article is about Entrepreneurship Tuesday, 13th January 2009 (by J.D. Roth)


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January 13th, 2009 at 5:20 am
I really like what you (and Garyvee) say about loving what you do. You, I, and most of the rest of the world spend more than half of our waking hours working. If you love and enjoy your work and it pays the bills, you’re getting much more out of life than someone who earns more, but hates their job.
January 13th, 2009 at 5:26 am
I think a lot of people have been hearing about the success bloggers have been having in the past few years and have been trying to get a piece of it.
It sounds easy but it’s much more competitive now. You worked really hard AND you’re good at it. Some people can only do one, and like you said, they don’t have the patience.
To me it seems like many blogs that used to have interesting discussions in the comments are dieing. People are just posting to promote their site and not leaving anything substantive behind.
There are some blogs that just aren’t that interesting, but the comments are and once that goes, well. There’s nothing left.
Other sites like yours are a source of quality reading and discussion in the main post and in the comments.
“You have to love what you do” is so true. The reason is that becoming successful requires hard work and dedication. It’s hard to have that when you hate what you’re doing.
January 13th, 2009 at 5:31 am
Oh, and since you’d like more time. I started using something you might find interesting. The RSVP reader for Firefox
You highlight the text you want to read then it shows it a few words at a time in a little box and you can control the speed. Apparently people can get up to 800-1000 words per minute with it.
I’ve only been using it for a day and it’s helped me read articles online faster. Not much faster. I can do 400 wpm for a decent skim to decide if I want to read it in more detail.
If you’re writing, you’re also doing a lot of reading and it might help you.
January 13th, 2009 at 5:48 am
It’s true that liking what you do and doing a lot will make you succeed in 2009. I have been believing that it’ll help for every year and not only 2009.
January 13th, 2009 at 5:55 am
Great post. I’ve been following @garyvee for a while and love everything he says. You’re right to say he’s a genius. He speaks right to the core of my soul too J.D.
January 13th, 2009 at 5:59 am
Everywhere I look these days there seems to be a new book out on how not to work. The old saying the “Harder you work, the luckier you become” seems to be out of style and we have forgotten that patience is a real virtue.
What I do feel grateful for is having work. I really love;enjoy working hard to help that work grow and prosper. I am also grateful for parents that taught me that working hard can be both profitable and fun–even with the necessary drudgery all work has sometimes.
January 13th, 2009 at 6:09 am
I believe that anyone who is serious about blogging needs to love what they do, as it’s most likely going to occupy a lot of their time. It makes it all the more important to write about something you believe in and where you feel you can make a contribution.
Artist or entrepreneur is an interesting argument. Lots of advice comes down on the side of good writing, that will make people want to keep reading you, which seems to lean towards the artist. And as you’ve mentioned in your article about the advertising offer you got, good writing will usually come to the attention of the money people anyway.
January 13th, 2009 at 6:14 am
Great read.
My question would be what would you suggest to those of us who don’t currently love, or even like, what we do? While I’m extremely grateful to even have a job right now, much less a very good paying one right out of college, I do not enjoy my work.
It’s a very nice thought to just find work you love doing, but sometimes that is difficult to do, especially in this economy. It would be interesting to see an article that offers tips on how to enjoy a job you are stuck with more.
January 13th, 2009 at 6:26 am
Great article. It seems the answer to almost all of our problems always comes down to hard work. I need to quit looking for shortcuts and *do* the work.
January 13th, 2009 at 6:26 am
What an uplifting post. I don’t know how you do all that you do. Thanks for being such an inspiration to others!!
January 13th, 2009 at 6:40 am
Maybe now is not the right time to make any big changes, maybe it is. You have a job and that’s something a lot of people wish they could say.
You can either try and make your job something you love or you can try and focus on what it is you would rather be doing and come up with a plan on how to achieve that goal.
I’d recommend you take this week and think about what it is you could do with your current employer to make your job more enjoyable. Imagine your boss offered you the same pay and let you choose your role. What would you do that you would enjoy and would benefit the company?
Then next week think about what you would like to do outside of the company and work on a plan on how you would achieve it.
Do this after hours.
Then the go over both plans and think which one would be better.
If you like the idea you came up with for your current company, write it up and present it to your employer. Don’t say you hate your current job.
The problem most people have is they don’t know what they want. Sounds like you need to figure that out.
January 13th, 2009 at 6:45 am
@Centsability, one thing I’ve always found helpful: if you take pride in what you do, and you do the best you can at it, for yourself, you’ll be doing all right. Sometimes being grateful for your job isn’t enough to motivate you; but if you take pride in doing it well, it’s a real boost, emotionally - at least, that’s what I have found.
January 13th, 2009 at 6:52 am
I was shown your site a couple of months ago, and have since spent a lot of time (perhaps too much…) reading your archives.
I would consider your work more the philanthropy of a digital age. You give your hard earned thoughts, ideas, and failures away to the masses for free, while still making money. The more people that you interest with your ideas, (hopefully convincing them to get rich slowly…) the more money you make doing something you love! What better business plan is there?
Keep it up!
January 13th, 2009 at 7:03 am
@ htnmmo,
Thank you for the well thought out response.
I actually do have a pretty good idea of what I want to do. I’m an accountant and would like to be in the tax and/or financial advising area. Unfortunately, these are not areas offered at my current employer. It is a large corporation and the job description is a stereotypical “bean counter”.
Switching into a job that offers what I am looking for is not only difficult because of the economy, but I have also been at this job for just under a year, and anything under two years at your first employer supposedly looks bad on your resume.
I’ve come to a compromise with myself to stick with this job for at least the two years, and use my free time to right about tax and financial advising subjects on the internet. That way I can fulfill that passion while also potentially enhancing my resume for a future career in those areas.
@la BellaDonna,
You are absolutely right. I have found the one enjoyable aspect of the job is when I complete a difficult task and do a good job on it.
Again, I don’t want to come off as an ungrateful kid who doesn’t appreciate a good job when people who have families depending on them are losing jobs left and right. I am extremely grateful. I just can’t help but be a bit envious when I read a great article like this about loving your job AND making good money doing it.
January 13th, 2009 at 7:04 am
This is very motivating, but remember, most small businesses fail, even if the proprietor loves what he or she does. My father had his own business for 12 years and, in that time, there were many down periods, which can be scary for a family.
From what I gather from reading your blog, you waited till your blog income matched or outpaced your regular income; you have a spouse with a job (and benefits?); and you don’t have children.
So you were very prudent, it seems to me.
Congratulations on your success.
January 13th, 2009 at 7:06 am
@Centsability
You have a great idea for a future post, and I’ve added it to my list of topics. For now, though, both La BellaDonna and htnmmo have good advice. While I’m an advocate of hustle and passion and doing what you love, it’s also important to be realistic.
I am not saying (nor is Garyvee) to quit your job in this economy and pursue your love of basketweaving. Instead, pursue your love of basketweaving (or whatever it is) in your spare time. Do it after your spouse and kids are asleep. Do it on weekends. Do it as you ride the bus to work. Bust your ass at it, but also take pride in what you do (as LaBelleDonna says), and do the best you can at your job. Look at it as a stepping stone for the future.
If you don’t know what you love, don’t worry. I didn’t know that I loved blogging about personal finance for a long time. How could I? Such a notion was absurd. I was deep in debt and blogs didn’t exist. But once I stumbled upon it, it was a natural fit.
In the meantime: hustle and patience.
January 13th, 2009 at 7:10 am
Nasty nasty ads that Google is pairing with his post. I’ve blocked a couple, but it’s going to take several hours for the block to take effect. I write about hustle and patience and getting rich slowly. Google gives me ads about getting rich quickly. sigh That’s not entrepreneurship.
January 13th, 2009 at 7:13 am
@ Centsability to Wealth:
The grass is always greener, isn’t it? I am a financial advisor. It is not all it is cracked up to be. You are 90% salesman and 10% financial guy. You think you will be spending your time helping people meet their financial goals, blah, blah, blah.. NO! What you will be doing is cold calling, banging on doors, and shmoozing everyone you meet in the hopes of making that “prospect” (I hate that word) a “client”. I thought I had entered a noble profession. BOY WAS I WRONG.
On that note.. How the heck DO you find out “WHAT IT IS YOU WANT TO DO”.. And please don’t tell me to read “What Color Is Your Parachute.”
January 13th, 2009 at 7:21 am
Thanks for reminding me that I need to be watching what Garyvee does. I’m definitely not afraid of work and in fact pride myself on being where I am today on hard work. Having said that, I always try to be efficient in what I am doing (perhaps the engineer in me talking). I want to not necesarily work hard, but I want to work smart.
The Tim Ferriss reference was something I found to be interesting.
Great post as always!
-HIB
January 13th, 2009 at 7:25 am
JD - you sound incredibly busy; are you looking into offloading some of that work? A secretary or intern? You’re audience is now the size of many newspapers–is it time to expand the staff? Just curious to know what your future plans are.
January 13th, 2009 at 7:25 am
@Chris
I’m reading a new book called Career Renegade right now. I think it officially comes out today. I’ll review it tomorrow or Thursday. It’s basically a primer on how to do what you love.
@Starving Artist
I’m gradually adding some contract employees to help me with some of the workload. Winston helps with e-mail and overall blog direction. Lisa helps with editing. (I have high hopes to set her on the stack of guest posts soon!) But, yeah, and actual part-time employee might be helpful. I’ve considered it!
January 13th, 2009 at 7:36 am
It’s so difficult to work hard. I would love to get over that for good.
January 13th, 2009 at 7:54 am
You couldn’t be more RIGHT about WORK. I harp this to my readers so much they get sick of it. But people want instant, fast, no-effort success, and if you could REALLY get that, then everyone would have it. Hard work and perseverence are the real ingredients of success.
January 13th, 2009 at 8:15 am
JD - I really enjoy your blog and your writing. Thanks for working so hard to provide it to us.
I’m similar to Centsability to Wealth - I’m very grateful for my job, especially because having it allows my husband to pursue more education in order to reach his career goals, but I don’t love what I do. Mine is more related to the fact that I have a difficult relationship with my boss than with the actual job, but I digress.
Every time I hear people talk about how to go after what you want to do, I get a little frustrated. I know part of it stems from the fact that I don’t really know what I want to do. I know I want to take time out of the career/work world in a few years to raise kids, but I’m not sure about after that. Hopefully I can figure it out along the way! In any event, one thing I know for sure is that I’m not an entrepreneur. I enjoy the freedom that working for someone else grants me - even when I love my job, I just work hard, do a good job, and put in the time, but at the end of the day, I’m done, free to engage in other things. My father owned his own business for 12 years and was very successful. He also had no time to do the other things he loved.
So while I understand that there are lots of people who long to be entrepreneurs, there seems to be a noticable lack of conversation geared toward those of us who know we’re not cut from that mold. It seems sometimes that most people believe that the only road to meaningful success lies in starting your own business. I personally don’t believe that - am I alone in that?
January 13th, 2009 at 8:18 am
This is my first time reading your blog. I was referred to you by my husband, who is the financially savvy one in the family. And I’m the entrepreneur of the family. (I make the money, he saves it and grows it.)
Really intrigued by your dichotomy of artist/marketer. It makes me think of Michael Gerber’s idea of working in your business and working on your business. I also think of the dichotomy of doing (social) good and doing well. With all of these, I think both are necessary and the trick is to not only figure out the balance, but what to do when you don’t have the orientation or talent for one or the other.
Also very much appreciate your point about patience and hard work. I’ve had my own business since 2003 and can only appreciate in hindsight how long it takes to create a revenue stream that will support a family. (I didn’t believe people when they said three years. Sure enough, that’s how long it took.) I’m starting two new businesses this year and your message on patience is one that I have to remind myself of. The hard work is given, and the passion is core component of making the ride joyful instead of a slog.
Thanks again for a thoughtful and timely post.
January 13th, 2009 at 8:24 am
kj wrote: It seems sometimes that most people believe that the only road to meaningful success lies in starting your own business. I personally don’t believe that - am I alone in that?
Absolutely not. I agree with you 100%. I would never say that starting your own business is the only road to meaningful success. It is, however, one road to meaningful success, one that many people overlook. But it’s not a road suited to everyone.
My wife, for example, isn’t well-suited to be an entrepreneur. That doesn’t mean she can’t love what she does. She has her dream-job. She tells me all the time, “I can’t wait to go to work every day.” That’s a lucky thing.
I think the key — and maybe I need to address this — is finding something you love to do. I know that there are some people (Penelope Trunk?) who say that loving your work is irrelevant. I’m not one of them. If I’m going to spend 40-60 hours a week at something, I want it to be fulfilling.
But patience applies here, too. Finding work you love is a process. Most of us have to spent time doing the grunt work first.
January 13th, 2009 at 8:56 am
This post was so timely for me. Great job. Upon your mentioning of Ferris, I take it you read what Penelope wrote about him on her Brazen Careerist blog recently?!?!
January 13th, 2009 at 9:13 am
@Katrina
I did read Trunk’s post. I don’t know either Trunk or Ferriss very well (I’ve only spent about two hours on the phone with him, and an hour with Trunk), but I like them both. I think they’re both excellent motivators who are full of ideas.
I don’t have much of a response to Trunk’s criticisms (as I say, I respect both of these two), but I do agree with her that Ferriss works hard, much harder than four hours per week.
January 13th, 2009 at 9:16 am
I have mixed feelings about the dream job. I’ve spent 8 years pursuing what I thought was my dream job (a college professor) only to realize that there are no jobs in my field and even if there were, I wouldn’t want to uproot and move away from family and friends to get that elusive tenure track job. Depressing that it took me 8 years to realize this, but there you go. Also, after years of taxing mental work and writing, I actually envy those people who have have “just a job” and not a calling or passion. My husband is like this, and he is much happier overall.
I’ve seen lots of people quit a well paying job to pursue their dream (often involving extra education and lots of loans), only to then go back to their old job once they realize their dream job wasn’t what it was cracked up to be. Or they couldn’t ever find gainful employment in their new profession. You could attribute this to a lack of planning, but I think it’s also the flawed concept of a dream job and the push for everyone to have “meaningful” (whatever that means) work. No job is perfect, and everything becomes routine eventually.
One example I’ve seen countless times is the accountant, engineer, or something more practical who quits to become a minister or an artist of some sort (since oftentimes these are deemed more rewarding or meaningful jobs). A few years later in debt from school or start up loans, the person eventually goes back to the more lucrative and stable work.
January 13th, 2009 at 9:41 am
I think one thing which stops people from pursuing their dreams is fear. The big bad economy seems to freeze so many in their tracks and derails them from having hope. The reality is that this is a good time to start out. So wall street is going to hell in a hand basket, big deal. If you can go out and find your spot while times are tough, you’ll fly when they’re good times.
I personally am starting up a new company. While it’s a stretch financially for both my wife and I we’re excited about the possibilities. Neither of us have totally quit our jobs yet, and maybe never will. At least we’re doing something we like even if it means working on it part time. Our jobs fund out endeavors whatever they may be, until a time where the endeavor is making it’s own funding. At least we’re working on something we enjoy.
I’ve been self employed since I graduated high school in 2003. Every year I’ve seen slowdown in the winter and have had to tighten my belt. I watch the news about people being shocked at how tough it is to get by and how we’re all doomed by the economy being unstable. Not to downplay what people are going through but my personal economy has been unstable for years, it’s nothing new to me to survive and just get by.
So it was in this current slow down I decided to make a change. I have time on my hands, and having come out of a really good year decided it was time to start something new. I’ve had people telling me I’m brave and what not. But in reality I’m just tired of being bound to the conventions of what others say I should do.
If I constantly live in fear of what might be, the hopes and dreams I have will never be. If I take a risk and start something the worst I can do is fail and have to start again. I plan towards freedom, not bondage. In creating something new I am free. For a nation that was founded on freedom it seems so many of us have none.
I tell you if we stopped being afraid of what might happen imagine the things that would happen. If we’d stop worrying and started living imagine what would happen. Our marriages would last longer, our children would be happier, and perhaps we’d live longer more productive lives. It’s amazing what a little fear will do to kill any dream.
Do not fear but rather be free!
January 13th, 2009 at 9:48 am
Another great reminder that hard work is the only true way to success…
Thanks!
January 13th, 2009 at 10:28 am
I don’t like my current job but I don’t hate my line of work. I’ve been working on a plan to address what I most dislike about my job, waking up to an alarm clock, going to an office and working on someone else’s schedule. I’m not prepared to go self employed right now but I’m looking at the steps it will take and devising a reasonable plan to get me from dream to reality. Throwing away my whole career would be stupid, but so would staying in an environment that makes me unhappy. Can you tell I read Your Money or Your Life over christmas?
My goals with my blog are very modest and center around personal development, so I don’t feel crushed that I don’t have tens of thousands of visitors a day. Being a better steward of my money is a good enough reward.
January 13th, 2009 at 10:55 am
Loving your work is an interesting idea, and I don’t know if it gets enough scrutiny. What does it mean to love your work? It sounds obvious at first, but I don’t think it is. What does it mean to love your family? It doesn’t mean you think to yourself, “Oh, yay, I get to spend time with my family today, fun!” But, I have a feeling that’s basically what people are thinking when they talk about “loving your work”.
Loving your family requires the situation in the quote above, but that’s the easy part. It also requires sticking by them through hard times: when you can’t make the rent. when a grandparent dies. When you get in a fight with your spouse. When you have to bail your brother out of jail. Love in this sense is a lot more than just enjoying something. It’s commitment and dedication, even when you’re feeling like you *don’t* like someone right at the moment. It’s perseverance and acceptance of flaws.
I don’t mean to say that we should feel this way about our work, what I mean to say is the definition we have for “love our work” is probably far weaker than the love we have for family. What to we really want from work? We want it to be low stress. We want it to be flexible. We want to be able to get up in the morning and think “oh work, ok, no problem,” rather than, “man do I hate having to wake up everyday.” We don’t want to stick with our work through thick and thin, even when things get rough. We just want things not to be rough. If they get rough, we’re perfectly happy to go somewhere else, where things are less rough, assuming it’s an option.
I’m not trying to make us all out to be some sort of “fair weather friends” to our jobs. I think this attitude is perfectly OK. It’s a job, and you need not have the same level of dedication to it that you do to the people in your life. I’m just trying to point out that the definition of “love” here may not be what we traditionally think of as love, and that means that the criteria by which we measure it are different, too.
Do I love my job? I like it. I don’t mind going every day. I like my co-workers. We get along well, we go out to lunch together every day. I even hang out with some of them after work and on weekends. It pays well. The hours are decent. I get to work on interesting problems (interesting in the same sense that riddles are interesting. Not interesting in the sense that if I figure them out, I stop world hunger).
Given all those criteria, it’s a pretty good job. But I’m a software engineer. What I do is help data move around the internet in a more efficient, cost-effective way. I make no pretense that I think it’s the most important function in the world, or that it’s fulfilling on a spiritual level (I don’t really think I even know what people mean when they say this). That’s OK too, I think. When you think about it, there’s a lot of work in the world that needs to be done, and most of it is not particularly romantic. Food needs to be grown, houses need to be built, cars need to be fixed, it’s all just work that needs to get done to keep people healthy and happy. It’s not all exciting, but it’s what the world needs and wants. There is nothing wrong with doing this sort of work. It’s good honest work, and there’s a lot more room in the world for people doing this sort of thing than there is for people writing self help books or trying to save endangered animals, which seems to be the sort of work that people who *don’t* like their work tend to use as examples when asked what they would rather be doing instead.
I’ve wanted to be in software since I was in high school, not just because of the salaries, but because I thought it was interesting. I’ve managed to do pretty well for myself in this field, but that doesn’t mean that given a somewhat better opportunity I wouldn’t leave to do that instead. That’s the difference here — I wouldn’t leave my wife if a slightly more exciting option came along, but if it was a slightly more exciting job? Sure, why not. Is that love?
And on the topic of professional blogging, this whole field annoys me. There are a few people who are good at it, like J.D. these people are genuinely good writers, and if it was ten years ago, they could have written newspaper columns. But blogging is so easy to get into that people think, “hey, those other people can do it, so can I!” They get a wordpress account, write poorly, plaster their sites with ads, and then complain about how they only make $10/month. People — it’s because you’re bad at it. There is only room for so many writers in the world. It’s a profession that is supported by the discretionary income of others. Everyone else is out working on more crucial things like I mentioned earlier - growing food, building houses. As long as people’s discretionary income is limited, which will probably be forever, then the amount of money they’ll spend on books and magazines and newspapers and blog advertising and the vectors that support writers will also be limited, and so the number of writers who can live on this money will be limited accordingly. Only the best writers are going to be able to survive on it, because no one is buying bad writing with their “fun” money. Either keep up with the good writers, or you’re not going to succeed in a competitive environment like that.
Personally, I have no interest in trying to make money from writing. I write a bit for my own purposes. I try to be decent at it, and I think I’m competent at least, but I don’t have any intentions in competing in that field as a source of income. I’m perfectly OK sticking with software.
January 13th, 2009 at 10:59 am
I’m an attorney that would eventually like to have my own practice. I currently don’t love what I do (the work part - I do love blogging), but I like it. I actually have an offer from a big company to help me start my own practice and guarantee me a substantial amount of business for my first few years. Even with that on the table, I don’t have the courage to make the leap at this time. I don’t know if the offer will be there in the future. It’s an interesting problem to have. My wife and I talk about how to handle it all the time.
January 13th, 2009 at 11:14 am
JD,
This spoke to my heart in a very powerful way. You see, one of my goals this year is to “create a second stream of income”. It is more than just a statement, I have specific details behind it. I am determined to make it happen and working on it in the background as I write this.
This post just made it feel so right even more. I appreciate the note on patience. I know that I will need it. I am starting small that’s why I call it “second stream of income”. Ultimately, I would like to replace my job but like you said, it will take time.
This Saturday, I am attending a seminar sponsored by http://www.score.org/. I found it through http://www.sba.gov/. There is so much help out there. I am feeling confident that I will make it happen this year. I will surely share the details later on with GRS readers.
Thanks for the encouragement!
-Charlotte
January 13th, 2009 at 11:19 am
I am of fan of Gary’s as well and appreciate the passion he has. Because of it, I would like to work on my own personal blog and treat it as a business the way you do, maybe even try to venture out in other projects. You have to have a balance if you want to be successful, and clearly you do. It’s not a get rich scheme, and it’s obvious to all of your readers the time and effort you put into your blog. It’s the sacrifice behind the blog which makes it works.
January 13th, 2009 at 11:34 am
When you find yourself in the middle of cicumstances you don’t enjoy, It could be work or anything else, you have two choices.
1. Suck it up and deal with it
2. Create the life and circumstances you want.
While the second doen’t always end up like you planned, you don’t spend your days wondering if the grass would be greener. I truly believe you can create the life that you want.
I quit a well paying corporate job to return to teaching. Teaching isn’t all it’s cracked up to be at times, but I do enjoy certain aspects of it. It has also allowed me time to spend with my family, pursue my interest of writing, creating my own web site, and working towards a CFP certification. I know financial planning sucks for a lot of people (read comment #18) but it is an area I’m interested in. For me it is worth the $2500 I will spend in gaining the knowledge even if I never become a planner. I am preparing myself for an opportunity of some type at some point in the future, how’s that for a career plan! It may be something over the internet, maybe it’s teaching personal finance to highschool students, a planning job that I have thouroughly researched before I begin it, or a combination of a few of the above. In the end it doesn’t matter.
I read a quote when I was in the Marines that has stuck with me, “Never wish your life was easier, wish that you were better.” I’m getting better. (whatever that means)
Chett
5k5k.org
January 13th, 2009 at 11:55 am
Just a quick comment re Tim Ferris. I’m not a raving fan and take issue with some of his ideas (like, most especially, his rabid fervor for outsourcing all manner of stuff to Indian virtual assistants), but I think his central concept of lifestyle design is a point well worth pondering.
I don’t think Tim ever meant to literally suggest you could cut your work down to 4 hours. Not at all. He was challenging people to identify the activities that are most worth their time and attention and doing them as efficiently as possible. Then reclaiming the time you are otherwise wasting for other stuff you’d rather be pursuing.
So – as questionable as some of his actions/ethics may be – don’t give Ferris a bum rap as having propagated the notion that we should strive to work a 4 hour week.
I wouldn’t have bothered to comment on this except I stumbled on the Penelope Trunk post yesterday and it really bothered me, so much so that she instantly and permanently discredited herself in my mind. I’ll take what I can use from Tim Ferris and discard the rest, but Trunk lost me to her message forever.
January 13th, 2009 at 12:28 pm
Agree with #24 kj
January 13th, 2009 at 12:35 pm
Agree with #24 kj.
“4-hour work week”, “Rich Dad Poor Dad”, and “Automatic Millionaire” all left me with a sour taste. No, we’re not schmucks if we work a steady 9-5 job our entire life, save more than we earn and actually be able to use our vacations on (gasp!) hobbies and relaxation. Many entrepreneurs cannot say that.
I work entry level at a career I find challenging and satisfying. Though I don’t have my dream job at the moment, I keep my eye on the prize. During this recession, I continue to network within my industry, improve my skills, practice interview questions and focus on the journey, not the destination.
I guess you could call that Hustle and Patience.
January 13th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
I’d like to add a bit to what Tyler said, and it may be of some comfort to you, Centsability:
There’s a LOT to be said for having a job you like - that’s LIKE, not love - or even just a job you can stand, and alternatives that you love. The truth is, in this world, not everybody has or will have a career, or even a job, that he or she loves. It’s important to be able to look in other directions to fulfill your life. What will you do if you NEVER find that job you love? What will you do if you find out that you HATE the job you love? There are quite a few lawyers out there who’ve been through law school, spent some time lawyering … and it’s not for them. There are artists of various stripes who can’t make a living at their art. There are people who occupy the lower rungs of the financial ladder whose jobs are paychecks (for which they are grateful), but it’s the ability to pay the bills that causes them to leap out of bed in the morning, and not the job, in and of itself. We are the people who need to have Something Else.
January 13th, 2009 at 1:03 pm
I really enjoyed the article. I’ve been really inspired by the blogs I’ve been coming across lately that talk about taking chances and doing what you love. I work at a job I enjoy but I don’t love it. And the worst part is, because business is slow they want me to start doing other tasks that I have no interest in at all. I’m almost to the point where I hope they lay me off. If they did, that would really put me at a place where I could start new and fresh. The problem is there’s no guarantee that doing what you love will pay the bills.
January 13th, 2009 at 1:11 pm
I don’t disagree with anyone that you should try to find a career you’rr passionate about, but my father used to say, “it’s called work for a reason…if you were having a lot of fun, we wouldn’t need to pay you, b/c you’d do it anyway.” If you’ve found something you’d do for free, then good for you. Most people would focus on hobbies in their free time instead of work.
For me, there are times when I love my job. I like being in courtrooms, I like talking about the law, I like being part of a profession…but I don’t like writing memos or briefs (and I like to write). I don’t like managing a huge caseload. I don’t like a lot of things, but I do them because they’re my job. They’re work.
January 13th, 2009 at 1:18 pm
@la BellaDonna,
That is a great point and something I was going to mention in one of my comments.
One of the big things that helps keep me going in a job I don’t enjoy much is the things I want to do with my money. I may not enjoy work, but I enjoy the paycheck it provides which will help me pay off college debt, build an adaquite emergency fund, and save for a wedding that’s a year away, plus get a nice head start on saving for retirement. Having concrete financial goals helps keep me focused on the end rather than the means. Honestly, if I didn’t like my job AND I didn’t have a financial direction I wanted to go in, I don’t know how I would do it.
And I don’t hate my job like I may have made it sound originally. It is tolerable and I really like my co-workers. The work itself is just mundane and, at the risk of everyone here throwing something at me, it doesn’t keep me busy enough.
I’m grateful to be working, I’m comforted by the fact I’m only 25 and have plenty of time to find my dream job, but it’s still hard to read a post like this and not be a little jealous of a guy like JD who can make a living doing something he truly loves.
January 13th, 2009 at 2:28 pm
My father one day told me that we need to understand we can’t do all the work if we want to succeed.
For example, making 1000$/day as consultant and trying to do all admin work (billing, email, new contracts, telephone) cost him 3 days a week!
But once he hired an admin, he was able to to work all month, so HE SACRIFICED 3000$/m on assistant in order to make 10K $/m. That’s 7000 $ profit.
So here’s my advice J.D. Hired an assistant, part time college student to do your admin work. For sure you can make it out how much to pay, hours, etc.
We want you writing, not filling papers
AC
January 13th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
I just finished reading ‘The Big Five for Life’ by John P Strelecky, subtitled Leadership’s Greatest Secret. His ideas are linked to what he calls Purpose For Existing, and Big Five for Life. Purpose For Existing (PFE) is the answer to why we are here, why we were born, in other words, a personal mission statement. The Big Five For Life define what we want to do, see or experience before we die. The author basically says that if your PFE is a fit with your companies PFE, and you can fulfill your Big Five For Life by performing the job you were hired to do, you and your employer are in a win-win situation.
The book is written from a corporate leader’s perspective, but he does emphasize the importance of knowing what your own Purpose of Existing and Big Five For Life are. Ideally, your work direction and your life direction would be aligned, and you will be successful.
This all fits into what Gary said: When you love what you do, you never lose.
I feel badly for those who do not like their job. To wake up feeling like you can’t wait to get to work is a wonderful thing. I wish everyone could experience that feeling at least once in their lifetime.
Peg
January 13th, 2009 at 4:12 pm
JD,
I know it’s a side topic, but I hear you on the ads. My blog is about fat acceptance and health at every size; Google serves ads on diets, weight loss surgery, and acai berry scams. Guess why I don’t have any ads at the moment?
(Gee, maybe the problem is that I didn’t start my blog to make money?
January 13th, 2009 at 5:39 pm
I left a really good paying job due to my lack of passion for it. Unfortunately I got sucked into the trap of blogging for dollars and other crazy ideas, but I have realized my mistakes and now feel that I am on the right path. It is articles like this one that keeps me in check and realize that I need to take it one day at a time. When you are really passionate about something you do not care if it makes you money or not. Your just happy to do what you are doing.
January 13th, 2009 at 8:23 pm
I can definitely relate to hustle and patience. I love both my paid job and my unpaid blog — but they both take lots of ongoing effort.
Interesting about your Artists and Entrepreneurs section, because for twelve years I was a self-employed artist. I wish that in Year One someone had given me the advice I can now supply to others in retrospect: http://www.diamondcutlife.org/top-ten-tips-for-entrepeneurs-part-i/
January 13th, 2009 at 8:49 pm
I was watching too and was inspired by the hustle and the patience message. I am build an online service right now. Dang it takes time and patience and diligence and work.
January 13th, 2009 at 9:03 pm
Tyler (#33) wondered what it meant to love one’s work. I have what I personally consider my dream job. It has its share of drudgery and stress, but they are offset by visceral moments where I’d sit there and think “I can’t believe they’re paying me to do this” or, indeed, “I have the best job EVER.” (Would I do it if I didn’t get paid? Sure, but I don’t see why I can’t have it both ways. ;-))
I don’t subscribe to Tim Farris’s idea because I enjoy my work too much to want to do it only four hours a week. However, I’m currently tinkering with the way I do my job in order to minimize the drudgery - to free up more time for the fun part. *That* is my take on Farris’ 4-hour workweek.
January 13th, 2009 at 10:43 pm
Even though we’re it’s 2009 and technology is allowing us to re-think and re-invent nearly everything that we do, principles never change. Hard work and persistence are just as important today as they have been since the beginning of time. There’s no such thing as get rich quick and anything worth doing takes work! I appreciate the transparency from those who of you who are veterans. It’s important to understand what it truly takes to succeed in any endeavor.
January 14th, 2009 at 8:36 am
I had heard of WineLibraryTV before, but wasn’t into it until after I saw Gary give a keynote at Web 2.0 Expo in NYC in September. I was excited by his presentation, his passion for what he does and the fact that HE GETS IT. He knows what works, he knows you HAVE to work, and he’s created his own world so that he loves it all. It’s incredibly inspiring, just tough if you can’t figure out what you are that passionate about.
January 14th, 2009 at 8:52 am
Hustle and patience. I love it. Great post!
Regarding figuring out what you want - why is this so hard? I know instantly what I like and don’t like. How can you not? I think part of the problem is we are often so cut off from ourselves that it’s easy to create untrue stories. Slow it down and live the moment. That’s how you’ll figure it out.
January 14th, 2009 at 12:45 pm
I don’t have anything to add about hustle and patience, but I do have to say this - Gary’s Wine Library store is by far the most awesome liquor store that I’ve ever been in. And I mean that in an awe-inspiring way. Every year, we buy wine there for Thanksgiving, and every year, we stumble across something really delicious.
I’m glad to see he’s achieved so much success.
January 14th, 2009 at 6:29 pm
This is where it’s at, JD. Building your dream takes dedication and patience, but it is probably the most rewarding application of your time and energy.
I’ve worked long and hard for other people (I still do), but I apply those same efforts to my own enterprises. It is work, but it’s fun and rewarding. More importantly, I never have to ask myself if there is anything better I could do with my time or if there is anything else I want to do. I have the answer, and that energizes me.
January 14th, 2009 at 9:00 pm
Great post! I actually just started a blog about wines under $10 and so I was really interested to hear what you and Gary had to say about blogging, entrepreneurship and wine. I plan to send some link love your way in my next post.
My favorite budget wine so far this year was a 2005 Merlot by Red Diamond for $6.99. It was rich and fruity and velvety. Cheers!
January 15th, 2009 at 3:11 pm
This piece from Tim O’reilly fits in nicely with the theme:
http://radar.oreilly.com/2009/01/work-on-stuff-that-matters-fir.html
January 18th, 2009 at 6:00 pm
Thank you for this article!
You have inspired me so much to start my own blog and just do what I love. I know it’ll probably take years but it’s okay since I really have finally decided to focus on topics that I love, rather than topics that in my HEAD I thought would be getting attention. The lesson of course, is that I can’t predict the market’s tastes at all. I am now just writing about anything that I love and it’s been really fun!
Once again, thanks for writing this article. It’s been so inspiring
January 22nd, 2009 at 5:35 pm
Well written and what Gary’s reminder is great too. Many blog programs don’t tell the hour needed to make a blog successful.
Many present quite a different view that just a few hours a day is needed so you sign up for their program or buy their what they are selling and wonder why your blog is not getting anywhere.
While passion is a key ingredient to success, having a market for your passion plus the wisdom to focus on a certain niche in the area of passion is important too.
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