Comments on: How to Build Confidence and Destroy Fear http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/ Common sense advice on money saving tips, how to get out of debt, high interest savings accounts, cd rates, money market accounts, mortgage rates, money management and more. Fri, 24 May 2013 02:41:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Richa misra http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-3305519 Richa misra Fri, 29 Mar 2013 05:51:02 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-3305519 I fisrt of all want to say a thank u for publishing such a good article on positive thinking. i slightly disagree with some of your points. hope u take it in a good way. 1.look sharp: This should be mentioned in a way, that one should take good care of onself to the extent, that one's sloppy dress and uncouth appearance doesnot make you feel yourself as dis-confident. For example: Even Bill Gates, Steve Jobs and Mahatma Gandhi did not believe in being dressed sharp because they were confident in their minds. 2. Do the right thing: This is an escapist attitude. We know that if we do the right thing, we will surely do it well. But the problem is we most often do not know what the right thing is. And if we become afraid not being able to do the right thing, we become dis-confident and unsure of our decision. This post should be written as . To do the right thing is not always important, but doing the things that u think is right , is important. While all the points were true, and i appreciate you to write more things like these. I fisrt of all want to say a thank u for publishing such a good article on positive thinking.
i slightly disagree with some of your points. hope u take it in a good way.

1.look sharp: This should be mentioned in a way, that one should take good care of onself to the extent, that one’s sloppy dress and uncouth appearance doesnot make you feel yourself as dis-confident. For example: Even Bill Gates, Steve Jobs and Mahatma Gandhi did not believe in being dressed sharp because they were confident in their minds.

2. Do the right thing: This is an escapist attitude. We know that if we do the right thing, we will surely do it well. But the problem is we most often do not know what the right thing is. And if we become afraid not being able to do the right thing, we become dis-confident and unsure of our decision. This post should be written as . To do the right thing is not always important, but doing the things that u think is right , is important.

While all the points were true, and i appreciate you to write more things like these.

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]]> By: Jason http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-3287107 Jason Wed, 20 Feb 2013 10:11:38 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-3287107 Great article. I bombed a presentation today quite badly from nerves. This gives me hope, some more interesting reading and things to practice. Thanks!! Great article. I bombed a presentation today quite badly from nerves. This gives me hope, some more interesting reading and things to practice. Thanks!!

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]]> By: chris davison http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-3120352 chris davison Tue, 27 Nov 2012 18:32:38 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-3120352 A very well known brand used to use the slogan, "just do it" and it applies to confidence. The 'fear' of doing something is often far worse than actually doing it and many public speakers will back this up. Dig deep and get through it and you will be glad you did as there will be a fantastic sense of accomplishment. A very well known brand used to use the slogan, “just do it” and it applies to confidence.

The ‘fear’ of doing something is often far worse than actually doing it and many public speakers will back this up.

Dig deep and get through it and you will be glad you did as there will be a fantastic sense of accomplishment.

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]]> By: HOMI R. MULLAN http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-3034902 HOMI R. MULLAN Tue, 09 Oct 2012 06:17:59 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-3034902 JD Roth, Am lucky to have spotted this article of yours on 'Building Confidence & Destroying Fear', in my net search to find material on 'Confidence Building', a topic to be included in my training program for 24-Sales Executives working for a Central Bio-medical Waste Treatment Facility. They are dealing with potentially Infectious waste, and have to interact with highly educated Medical fraternity at hospitals and clinics. Your pointers am surely going to use, but reading your blog has boosted my confidence too. Thanks, and keep it up. JD Roth, Am lucky to have spotted this article of yours on ‘Building Confidence & Destroying Fear’, in my net search to find material on ‘Confidence Building’, a topic to be included in my training program for 24-Sales Executives working for a Central Bio-medical Waste Treatment Facility. They are dealing with potentially Infectious waste, and have to interact with highly educated Medical fraternity at hospitals and clinics. Your pointers am surely going to use, but reading your blog has boosted my confidence too. Thanks, and keep it up.

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]]> By: Amanda Gillam http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-3004062 Amanda Gillam Thu, 20 Sep 2012 09:11:34 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-3004062 Excellent post! Fear can be absolutely crippling unless it's dealt with and these offer some excellent ways forward. Really great read. Excellent post! Fear can be absolutely crippling unless it’s dealt with and these offer some excellent ways forward. Really great read.

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]]> By: ghazanfar http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-2990792 ghazanfar Thu, 13 Sep 2012 12:28:08 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-2990792 sir your article is very good it will help me to overcome my shyness and as well as build self confidence. sir your article is very good it will help me to overcome my shyness and as well as build self confidence.

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]]> By: Jess http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-1/#comment-2857912 Jess Thu, 12 Jul 2012 23:19:15 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-2857912 I'm super late to the comment game on this one, but this reminded me of something one of my ballet teachers said once - I forget the words exactly, but the basic premise was that even if you do the wrong step, keep your arms and your head up and no one will know. It was mostly meant for stage performances, because the average non-dancer audience member only watches the upper body (us dancers watch the feet!) - but I think it's the same principal. Only you'll know you screwed up, unless you let everyone know. I’m super late to the comment game on this one, but this reminded me of something one of my ballet teachers said once – I forget the words exactly, but the basic premise was that even if you do the wrong step, keep your arms and your head up and no one will know. It was mostly meant for stage performances, because the average non-dancer audience member only watches the upper body (us dancers watch the feet!) – but I think it’s the same principal. Only you’ll know you screwed up, unless you let everyone know.

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]]> By: Sharms http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-2432792 Sharms Mon, 05 Mar 2012 11:38:56 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-2432792 Hi JD, great post... i've been constantly bogged down by fear of marriage, travelling abroad, being dependant on someone i hardly know and feel i'm completely losing my confidence when i think of this change.... your post encourages me to think of things in a positive and better light..... i know im panicking and stressing too much about the unknown that lies ahead...im trying my best to focus on the good things that married life has to offer..and i'm going to try and think confidently and act confidently....i guess making a checklist of my fears and facing and overcoming them will surely be on my agenda.... Thanks a ton! Shripriya Hi JD,

great post… i’ve been constantly bogged down by fear of marriage, travelling abroad, being dependant on someone i hardly know and feel i’m completely losing my confidence when i think of this change…. your post encourages me to think of things in a positive and better light….. i know im panicking and stressing too much about the unknown that lies ahead…im trying my best to focus on the good things that married life has to offer..and i’m going to try and think confidently and act confidently….i guess making a checklist of my fears and facing and overcoming them will surely be on my agenda….

Thanks a ton!
Shripriya

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]]> By: rajat http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-1/#comment-2429692 rajat Sun, 04 Mar 2012 16:26:39 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-2429692 i totally agree with you. doing things and learning from them is best experience through which we can gain self confidence. i totally agree with you. doing things and learning from them is best experience through which we can gain self confidence.

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]]> By: David http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-1632312 David Wed, 03 Aug 2011 02:18:00 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-1632312 Great article. Its so true that you have to face fear in order to grow. I read your article on procrastination as well and you mention "If it comes to mind, then do it". Well, I sort of apply the same philosophy to fear (of course if it is reasonably safe for me to do so). I do this to push myself past fear which is the greatest detractor of life. Almost everything bad stems from some kind of fear. Great article. Its so true that you have to face fear in order to grow. I read your article on procrastination as well and you mention “If it comes to mind, then do it”. Well, I sort of apply the same philosophy to fear (of course if it is reasonably safe for me to do so). I do this to push myself past fear which is the greatest detractor of life. Almost everything bad stems from some kind of fear.

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]]> By: lala http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-412661 lala Tue, 27 Apr 2010 00:26:28 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-412661 Visualizing success is something I've done so often. It doesn't always work though. Things happen, even with the best of planning and knowledge and practice. Having the confidence to get up again after failures is what's difficult. Visualizing success is something I’ve done so often. It doesn’t always work though. Things happen, even with the best of planning and knowledge and practice. Having the confidence to get up again after failures is what’s difficult.

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]]> By: Biscuits and Gravy Recipe http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-359751 Biscuits and Gravy Recipe Sun, 04 Apr 2010 19:09:35 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-359751 visualizing success is the hardest part. Many people just are not positive or optimistic in nature. visualizing success is the hardest part. Many people just are not positive or optimistic in nature.

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]]> By: David Maxam http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-302971 David Maxam Wed, 10 Mar 2010 17:50:26 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-302971 I'd disagree that no one is born with confidence, in fact I'd argue that we're all born with it. A little child charging across a playground can walk up to another kid and confidently as can be say "Wanna be friends?" That kid naturally walks around with just as much confidence and self belief as Donald Trump. It's not until we are socially conditioned by parents, schools and society as we grow up that we lose that natural in-born self esteem. The truest self confidence isn't a constructed pile of ego boosts that comes from accomplishing and acquiring things. How then could someone who suffers disastrous misfortune ever have the confidence to rebuild? The greatest confidence is an inherent quality of the self, independent of exterior circumstance and experiences. Unwire the social conditioning, tear down the constructed ego, and limitless unbound self esteem and confidence will be discovered underneath it all. Just my .02 I’d disagree that no one is born with confidence, in fact I’d argue that we’re all born with it. A little child charging across a playground can walk up to another kid and confidently as can be say “Wanna be friends?” That kid naturally walks around with just as much confidence and self belief as Donald Trump. It’s not until we are socially conditioned by parents, schools and society as we grow up that we lose that natural in-born self esteem. The truest self confidence isn’t a constructed pile of ego boosts that comes from accomplishing and acquiring things. How then could someone who suffers disastrous misfortune ever have the confidence to rebuild? The greatest confidence is an inherent quality of the self, independent of exterior circumstance and experiences.

Unwire the social conditioning, tear down the constructed ego, and limitless unbound self esteem and confidence will be discovered underneath it all.

Just my .02

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]]> By: Dollars Not Debt http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-250441 Dollars Not Debt Thu, 18 Feb 2010 16:13:14 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-250441 Great article! Keep up the good work. Great article! Keep up the good work.

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]]> By: William http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-219240 William Sat, 16 Jan 2010 23:56:26 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-219240 This is a great post. Am planning to share with lots of friends. This is a great post. Am planning to share with lots of friends.

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]]> By: Santosh http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-216526 Santosh Mon, 04 Jan 2010 03:33:29 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-216526 Great post! I would add one more thing -- taking the initiative to learn/research more. Very often, fear is really fear of the unknown. For instance, investing tends of be a "black-box" for most people. Stories of people losing their fortunes combined with this breeds more fear. An easy first step would be to take a deep breath and set out to learn more about this formerly unknown area. "Risk comes from not knowing what you are doing". - Warren Buffett. Great post!

I would add one more thing — taking the initiative to learn/research more.

Very often, fear is really fear of the unknown. For instance, investing tends of be a “black-box” for most people. Stories of people losing their fortunes combined with this breeds more fear.

An easy first step would be to take a deep breath and set out to learn more about this formerly unknown area.

“Risk comes from not knowing what you are doing”.
- Warren Buffett.

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]]> By: Sarah http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-212244 Sarah Fri, 11 Dec 2009 04:47:40 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-212244 I just wanted to thank you for your post. I suffer a lot from low self-confidence and have been working to build it, but man it can be hard. I have found that you do have to take on what you're afraid of. Like you, I'm also afraid of public speaking, to the point that I've fainted two times (in elementary school and college) and nearly fainted another two times (elementary school and high school). I'm also an attorney and at my last job as an attorney, (most of my work has been in the non-profit field as a non-attorney), I had to go to court ALL the time. To be honest, it was very hard on me, but my speaking abilities have gotten better, and I'm no longer (usually) absolutely as terrified as I used to be. I find that the more times I confront my fears, the more I grow as a person. Nevertheless, I've got lots to learn still in this field, and I can't tell you how grateful I am for your posting and revelations - this is not an issue I find easy to talk with others about, and it's extremely heartening to know that I'm not alone in my feelings. I think you're awesome. Thanks. I just wanted to thank you for your post. I suffer a lot from low self-confidence and have been working to build it, but man it can be hard. I have found that you do have to take on what you’re afraid of. Like you, I’m also afraid of public speaking, to the point that I’ve fainted two times (in elementary school and college) and nearly fainted another two times (elementary school and high school). I’m also an attorney and at my last job as an attorney, (most of my work has been in the non-profit field as a non-attorney), I had to go to court ALL the time. To be honest, it was very hard on me, but my speaking abilities have gotten better, and I’m no longer (usually) absolutely as terrified as I used to be. I find that the more times I confront my fears, the more I grow as a person. Nevertheless, I’ve got lots to learn still in this field, and I can’t tell you how grateful I am for your posting and revelations – this is not an issue I find easy to talk with others about, and it’s extremely heartening to know that I’m not alone in my feelings. I think you’re awesome. Thanks.

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]]> By: J. Melgar http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-207024 J. Melgar Thu, 12 Nov 2009 01:42:02 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-207024 Excellent article. I too lacked self confidence to buy rental property. I was scared, but could not turn back after I had renters ready to move in. Three years, 5 houses later, I look back and am glad that I overcame this fear... though not fully over it. For years I have lacked self-esteem and confidence, but working at it slowly and getting great tips, such as from this article, really motivates me to keep improving. Thank you very much for being so honest with your fears, as it has helped me. Excellent article. I too lacked self confidence to buy rental property. I was scared, but could not turn back after I had renters ready to move in. Three years, 5 houses later, I look back and am glad that I overcame this fear… though not fully over it. For years I have lacked self-esteem and confidence, but working at it slowly and getting great tips, such as from this article, really motivates me to keep improving. Thank you very much for being so honest with your fears, as it has helped me.

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]]> By: Oleg Mokhov http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-203181 Oleg Mokhov Thu, 22 Oct 2009 21:58:39 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-203181 Hey JD, Confidence isn't the absence of fear, but facing fear and still going for it. Picturing yourself doing what you dream of, saying yes to the opportunity, then acting confident will do wonders to steamroll through fear and build confidence. Avoiding fear means not trying anything new. Since you've never done it, you don't know how it is, and human nature means you fear the unknown. By accepting fear, you learn to actually utilize it. When fear appears, you know it's something new to try, so you specifically go for it, building confidence all the while. Great list on building confidence (especially for public speaking), and I totally agree with your point on how no amount of lists and reading will make you confident - go out and do it, Oleg Hey JD,

Confidence isn’t the absence of fear, but facing fear and still going for it.

Picturing yourself doing what you dream of, saying yes to the opportunity, then acting confident will do wonders to steamroll through fear and build confidence.

Avoiding fear means not trying anything new. Since you’ve never done it, you don’t know how it is, and human nature means you fear the unknown. By accepting fear, you learn to actually utilize it. When fear appears, you know it’s something new to try, so you specifically go for it, building confidence all the while.

Great list on building confidence (especially for public speaking), and I totally agree with your point on how no amount of lists and reading will make you confident – go out and do it,
Oleg

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]]> By: Kap http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-202650 Kap Mon, 19 Oct 2009 04:40:37 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-202650 This post and the comments raises an interesting idea. I wonder whether 'savers' and 'saving' tend to be driven predominantly driven by fear as opposed to foresight and good judgement. JD I'd would love to hear your comments on that theory, perhaps a survey on the blog would shed some light. This post and the comments raises an interesting idea. I wonder whether ‘savers’ and ‘saving’ tend to be driven predominantly driven by fear as opposed to foresight and good judgement. JD I’d would love to hear your comments on that theory, perhaps a survey on the blog would shed some light.

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]]> By: rachi http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-201582 rachi Mon, 12 Oct 2009 00:37:11 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-201582 Kudos J.D, Well the article has put me in situation of giving a serious comeback of former personlaity which I lost due to fear and stepping back on every occassion. I appreciate your efforts of effectively putting this article an eye-opener for all those who feel estranged and emotionally underpinned by fear. Keep going & thanks for boosting my confidence !! It helped drastically to rebuild myself Kudos J.D,

Well the article has put me in situation of giving a serious comeback of former personlaity which I lost due to fear and stepping back on every occassion. I appreciate your efforts of effectively putting this article an eye-opener for all those who feel estranged and emotionally underpinned by fear.

Keep going & thanks for boosting my confidence !! It helped drastically to rebuild myself

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]]> By: Dave http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-195600 Dave Tue, 01 Sep 2009 14:47:05 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-195600 Yr point on "Don’t compare yourself to others" struck a chord. I felt the same way as U do abt feeling inadequate, J.D. May I share my 2-cent's worth though: I see it's O.K. to compare ourselves to others. We do that all the time. Comparison can enable us to improve & better. As individuals, societies, countries. The key lies in this: Don't compete with others. So my empowerment is: Compare yourself to others. Compete with yourself. :-) Yr point on “Don’t compare yourself to others” struck a chord.
I felt the same way as U do abt feeling inadequate, J.D.

May I share my 2-cent’s worth though: I see it’s O.K. to compare ourselves to others.

We do that all the time. Comparison can enable us to improve & better. As individuals, societies, countries.

The key lies in this: Don’t compete with others.

So my empowerment is: Compare yourself to others. Compete with yourself. :-)

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]]> By: Kaitlin M http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-194695 Kaitlin M Fri, 28 Aug 2009 02:18:24 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-194695 It's strange, we hear the same things over and over. Fake it til you make it, you have to think big to make it big, but a lot of the time it's not until the fifth, sixth, millionth reading that it really sinks in. I think it has finally sunk in, thanks. It’s strange, we hear the same things over and over. Fake it til you make it, you have to think big to make it big, but a lot of the time it’s not until the fifth, sixth, millionth reading that it really sinks in.
I think it has finally sunk in, thanks.

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]]> By: Errorman http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-188879 Errorman Wed, 29 Jul 2009 21:59:44 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-188879 How to build confidence and destroy fear Without self-confidence, we have a tendency to make poor decisions. We make choices based on fear instead of what is best for us. If you lack confidence, you might fill your life with self-destructive behavior. You’re might work at a job you hate. You're might work at a job you hate? You are might work at a job you hate? You might work at a job you hate. That sounds correct, to me. How to build confidence and destroy fear
Without self-confidence, we have a tendency to make poor decisions. We make choices based on fear instead of what is best for us. If you lack confidence, you might fill your life with self-destructive behavior. You’re might work at a job you hate.

You’re might work at a job you hate? You are might work at a job you hate?

You might work at a job you hate. That sounds correct, to me.

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]]> By: mark harrison http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-187760 mark harrison Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:59:51 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-187760 I've branched out on my own after being laid off earlier this year. I was doing ok with a new business and then the bad vibes kicked in after a few weeks when things didn't go according to plan. My 15 year old daughter saw that I was a bit down and I told her that I'm doubting myself and had a few setbacks. She looked at me and said, "Dad, if you do half as well at your business as you do as being my dad, then you are going to be 100% successful" Corny I know but she has never, ever uttered anything like that and it just blew me away and gave me the boost I needed. Mark I’ve branched out on my own after being laid off earlier this year. I was doing ok with a new business and then the bad vibes kicked in after a few weeks when things didn’t go according to plan.
My 15 year old daughter saw that I was a bit down and I told her that I’m doubting myself and had a few setbacks.

She looked at me and said, “Dad, if you do half as well at your business as you do as being my dad, then you are going to be 100% successful”

Corny I know but she has never, ever uttered anything like that and it just blew me away and gave me the boost I needed.
Mark

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]]> By: Blake Erickson http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-187500 Blake Erickson Sat, 18 Jul 2009 19:06:13 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-187500 @TexasBoy It was interesting to see your comment of wanting to go back to school. I'm currently in school and have a few more years to go, but I was just thinking that maybe I should drop out so that I would have more time to do other things (possibly more profitable). Thanks for making me realize that I would regret not getting my degree and that I should just stick it out to the end no matter how poor I am now because of it. @TexasBoy It was interesting to see your comment of wanting to go back to school. I’m currently in school and have a few more years to go, but I was just thinking that maybe I should drop out so that I would have more time to do other things (possibly more profitable). Thanks for making me realize that I would regret not getting my degree and that I should just stick it out to the end no matter how poor I am now because of it.

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]]> By: TexasBoy http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-186716 TexasBoy Sun, 12 Jul 2009 19:40:23 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-186716 This is my first time to find this site and i read every word beginning to end and found many useful techniques. I am stuck inbetween a rock and a hard place and it hard to keep up my self confidence because im i should be in school but I'm not and cant make myself go back but after reading these blogs and not having taking any action YET I am looking forward to enrole again in the fall. The biggest problem i have is procrastination and after reading this page i am motivated to go back and try my hardest. This is my first time to find this site and i read every word beginning to end and found many useful techniques. I am stuck inbetween a rock and a hard place and it hard to keep up my self confidence because im i should be in school but I’m not and cant make myself go back but after reading these blogs and not having taking any action YET I am looking forward to enrole again in the fall. The biggest problem i have is procrastination and after reading this page i am motivated to go back and try my hardest.

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]]> By: Ron http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-185582 Ron Wed, 01 Jul 2009 15:54:37 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-185582 Great post! I really needed this and will probably re-read this entire post daily for the rest of this month and purchase the books you recommended... I will begin to practice at least 2 of your suggesstions for building confidence daily starting now. Great post! I really needed this and will probably re-read this entire post daily for the rest of this month and purchase the books you recommended… I will begin to practice at least 2 of your suggesstions for building confidence daily starting now.

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]]> By: Omar http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-180890 Omar Mon, 25 May 2009 13:46:02 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-180890 I don't know what to say about this post. Brilliant man. I felt so good reading it. Very enlightening and inspiring. I took notes and I will check out the books. This made my day. Thanks again. Happy Memorial Day! I don’t know what to say about this post. Brilliant man. I felt so good reading it. Very enlightening and inspiring. I took notes and I will check out the books. This made my day. Thanks again. Happy Memorial Day!

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]]> By: James http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/02/17/how-to-build-confidence-and-destroy-fear/comment-page-2/#comment-174092 James Tue, 31 Mar 2009 06:17:37 +0000 http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/?p=2527#comment-174092 how to build your confident ? The simple way is talk to the one you most feared and prepared the worst results . You will find that every thing are in your control .Try it ,and you will get even what you haven't expected . how to build your confident ? The simple way is talk to the one you most feared and prepared the worst results . You will find that every thing are in your control .Try it ,and you will get even what you haven’t expected .

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