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		<title>By: Marcia</title>
		<link>http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/04/02/a-frugal-dinner-with-friends/comment-page-2/#comment-174999</link>
		<dc:creator>Marcia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 19:45:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ha! funny.  Hub and I are both engineers too.  But I cook a lot.  Didn&#039;t learn until I was 32, though.  Before then, I cooked a little, but inevitably burned or cut myself.  (Including needing stitches and a tetanus shot the night before my professional engineer&#039;s exam.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ha! funny.  Hub and I are both engineers too.  But I cook a lot.  Didn&#8217;t learn until I was 32, though.  Before then, I cooked a little, but inevitably burned or cut myself.  (Including needing stitches and a tetanus shot the night before my professional engineer&#8217;s exam.)</p>
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		<title>By: vilkri</title>
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		<dc:creator>vilkri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2009 13:13:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Being frugal is only part of the deal. Being with friends is another. Social contacts make our lives happier, but we got to spend a little money socializing. In my view, reasonable expenses spend on socializing is well worth it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being frugal is only part of the deal. Being with friends is another. Social contacts make our lives happier, but we got to spend a little money socializing. In my view, reasonable expenses spend on socializing is well worth it.</p>
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		<title>By: Amy H.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy H.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 08:37:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Call me obstinate, but I think good food does have to cost more.  Four examples off the top of my head --

Organic Straus Family nonfatmilk in glass bottles (with an extra bottle charge that is refunded when you bring it back) . . . around $4.49 per half-gallon plus the $1.25 CRV.  (Whole Foods)

Odwalla fresh-squeezed orange juice at $7.99 for 64 oz. -- though occasionally that size will go on sale for $6.99.  (Safeway)

Cabot Extra Sharp Cheddar Cheese for $5.99 per lb.  (Trader Joe&#039;s)

One loaf of three-seed whole grain bread from Vital Vittles for $5.39.  (Safeway)

The cheaper stuff is far, far inferior on taste.  (And often less healthful as well.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Call me obstinate, but I think good food does have to cost more.  Four examples off the top of my head &#8211;</p>
<p>Organic Straus Family nonfatmilk in glass bottles (with an extra bottle charge that is refunded when you bring it back) . . . around $4.49 per half-gallon plus the $1.25 CRV.  (Whole Foods)</p>
<p>Odwalla fresh-squeezed orange juice at $7.99 for 64 oz. &#8212; though occasionally that size will go on sale for $6.99.  (Safeway)</p>
<p>Cabot Extra Sharp Cheddar Cheese for $5.99 per lb.  (Trader Joe&#8217;s)</p>
<p>One loaf of three-seed whole grain bread from Vital Vittles for $5.39.  (Safeway)</p>
<p>The cheaper stuff is far, far inferior on taste.  (And often less healthful as well.)</p>
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		<title>By: kitty</title>
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		<dc:creator>kitty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:13:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Kristia@FamilyBalanceSheet 
&quot;Have your friends or their parents’ seen the movie “Super Size Me”. That is the first thing I thought of when I read this post. &quot;
Funny, I thought the same thing. Eating every day at McDonald or Burger King: lots of calories, very few vitamins. 

Also, wouldn&#039;t it get boring eating the same thing every day for a year? It&#039;s not like either or these places has much of variety. I don&#039;t mind eating the same food I cooked for more than one day - I don&#039;t have time to cook every day, and certain dishes take too much time for me to be worth it to eat for only one day. Also, having grown up in the Soviet Union, I am used to not having much variety. But I don&#039;t believe I could handle Mc Donald or Burger King fare forever.

I find that eating out is very much an American thing. I believe most of us immigrants prefer to eat at home and view eating out more like a special occasion. 

I don&#039;t even consider it a frugal choice, although I do consider the cost of a single restaurant meal a waste of money. I buy ingredients that I like, I can buy expensive fruit occasionally, I cook what I like. I can spend money on things I like, even things that other people may find wasteful, but for me eating out is a special occasion. It must be cultural differences I guess.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Kristia@FamilyBalanceSheet<br />
&#8220;Have your friends or their parents’ seen the movie “Super Size Me”. That is the first thing I thought of when I read this post. &#8221;<br />
Funny, I thought the same thing. Eating every day at McDonald or Burger King: lots of calories, very few vitamins. </p>
<p>Also, wouldn&#8217;t it get boring eating the same thing every day for a year? It&#8217;s not like either or these places has much of variety. I don&#8217;t mind eating the same food I cooked for more than one day &#8211; I don&#8217;t have time to cook every day, and certain dishes take too much time for me to be worth it to eat for only one day. Also, having grown up in the Soviet Union, I am used to not having much variety. But I don&#8217;t believe I could handle Mc Donald or Burger King fare forever.</p>
<p>I find that eating out is very much an American thing. I believe most of us immigrants prefer to eat at home and view eating out more like a special occasion. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t even consider it a frugal choice, although I do consider the cost of a single restaurant meal a waste of money. I buy ingredients that I like, I can buy expensive fruit occasionally, I cook what I like. I can spend money on things I like, even things that other people may find wasteful, but for me eating out is a special occasion. It must be cultural differences I guess.</p>
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		<title>By: Charlotte</title>
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		<dc:creator>Charlotte</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 23:33:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love the Thanksgiving story. It sounds like me! Actually, kind of but not to that extent. I am an Engineer and like everything to be measured, labeled, etc. :-) My husband freaked out when I started putting dates on all refrigerated food. Now he is also doing it! Don&#039;t you agree that is a good idea?

Anyway, I believe frugal means &quot;wise use of resources&quot;. It is not being cheap. With that said, we LOVE good quality food. We do not compromise except when we are in a situation where food is served to us at a function, we are on the road, out of convenience...etc. Not everything we buy is organic but most are natural, whole foods. We are especially particular about staples such as rice, milk, eggs, yogurt, sugar, honey, cereal. We do not eat much meat.

I agree - the company is what matters, not the food. Although, good food is nice. A typical dinner we make for friends would consist of: Mixed Green Salad, Wild Salmon or a Chicken Dish, Wild Rice or Potato Dish, and Flan.  The salmon is expensive but when we combine with the cheap salad, rice, and flan, it&#039;s a good balance. Sometimes, just salad and pasta with homemade sauce. Simple meals can be very tasty. We generally do not serve &quot;processed&quot; food. We avoid anything artificial, with high fructose corn syrup, msg, etc.

Wow, I am looking forward to a great summer of eating with friends :-)

...and if you must have mac and cheese (we do sometimes), go for &quot;Annie&#039;s&quot; brand. They are side by side with Kraft at Costco for about the same price.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love the Thanksgiving story. It sounds like me! Actually, kind of but not to that extent. I am an Engineer and like everything to be measured, labeled, etc. <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  My husband freaked out when I started putting dates on all refrigerated food. Now he is also doing it! Don&#8217;t you agree that is a good idea?</p>
<p>Anyway, I believe frugal means &#8220;wise use of resources&#8221;. It is not being cheap. With that said, we LOVE good quality food. We do not compromise except when we are in a situation where food is served to us at a function, we are on the road, out of convenience&#8230;etc. Not everything we buy is organic but most are natural, whole foods. We are especially particular about staples such as rice, milk, eggs, yogurt, sugar, honey, cereal. We do not eat much meat.</p>
<p>I agree &#8211; the company is what matters, not the food. Although, good food is nice. A typical dinner we make for friends would consist of: Mixed Green Salad, Wild Salmon or a Chicken Dish, Wild Rice or Potato Dish, and Flan.  The salmon is expensive but when we combine with the cheap salad, rice, and flan, it&#8217;s a good balance. Sometimes, just salad and pasta with homemade sauce. Simple meals can be very tasty. We generally do not serve &#8220;processed&#8221; food. We avoid anything artificial, with high fructose corn syrup, msg, etc.</p>
<p>Wow, I am looking forward to a great summer of eating with friends <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>&#8230;and if you must have mac and cheese (we do sometimes), go for &#8220;Annie&#8217;s&#8221; brand. They are side by side with Kraft at Costco for about the same price.</p>
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		<title>By: Conrad</title>
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		<dc:creator>Conrad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 19:48:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>J.D.- Why not substitute &quot;Cooking&quot; with &quot;Meal Preparation&quot; ?   Maybe Chris and Jolie need to learn how to make a basic sandwich at home and avoid McDonald&#039;s and Burger King.

A sandwich doesn&#039;t need to require any &quot;cooking&quot;, only Bread, veggies, meat, cheese, salt, pepper... they are quick, nutritious, tasty and cheap.  Served hot or cold, a sandwich can easily be &quot;Dinner&quot; and can be prepared in the home at any time without special skills or labor.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>J.D.- Why not substitute &#8220;Cooking&#8221; with &#8220;Meal Preparation&#8221; ?   Maybe Chris and Jolie need to learn how to make a basic sandwich at home and avoid McDonald&#8217;s and Burger King.</p>
<p>A sandwich doesn&#8217;t need to require any &#8220;cooking&#8221;, only Bread, veggies, meat, cheese, salt, pepper&#8230; they are quick, nutritious, tasty and cheap.  Served hot or cold, a sandwich can easily be &#8220;Dinner&#8221; and can be prepared in the home at any time without special skills or labor.</p>
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		<title>By: Rita B</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rita B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 15:41:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m all about frugality but mac and cheese?  McDonald&#039;s food?  Isn&#039;t anyone at all concerned about nutrition?  Maybe that&#039;s impossible on $30 a week, I haven&#039;t tried it.  Very sad that poor people have to eat so badly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m all about frugality but mac and cheese?  McDonald&#8217;s food?  Isn&#8217;t anyone at all concerned about nutrition?  Maybe that&#8217;s impossible on $30 a week, I haven&#8217;t tried it.  Very sad that poor people have to eat so badly.</p>
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		<title>By: Andrea</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 14:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When I was young and poor, I ate eggs, pasta with a little butter and a little cheese(there wasn&#039;t ramen then) and these little fish that came frozen in a big bag at my supermarket(in a fiarly poor neighborhood). Years later, a friend told me his mom only used those fish to cook for the cats. 

Not as tasty as fresh(to me) but still nutritious and thrifty - and useful for soups and stews- are frozen vegetables. It seems there is always some brand on sale at my supermarkets- including their own brand-which is not necessarily so cheap at the regular price. 

and did I post this already? Domino&#039;s and Burger king, yuck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was young and poor, I ate eggs, pasta with a little butter and a little cheese(there wasn&#8217;t ramen then) and these little fish that came frozen in a big bag at my supermarket(in a fiarly poor neighborhood). Years later, a friend told me his mom only used those fish to cook for the cats. </p>
<p>Not as tasty as fresh(to me) but still nutritious and thrifty &#8211; and useful for soups and stews- are frozen vegetables. It seems there is always some brand on sale at my supermarkets- including their own brand-which is not necessarily so cheap at the regular price. </p>
<p>and did I post this already? Domino&#8217;s and Burger king, yuck!</p>
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		<title>By: Jane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 13:40:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@chacha1: &quot;all it was, was endive leaves with a schmear of soft goat cheese and a slice of smoked duck breast. Easy.&quot;

Are you joking? It might be easy, but as you said it is not economical and certainly not simple by any stretch. I&#039;m impressed that you could prepare with such ease things that I would only order in an expensive restaurant and the vast majority of the US would never have in their life. It reminds me of the disconnect felt by many with Obama&#039;s arugula comment during the campaign. 

So many commenting seem to have missed the spirit of the article, which is the nostalgia for the simple days of ramen and mac and cheese when you are young and poor and how companionship matters more than food sometimes. This is a good piece for those struggling in a recession, who perhaps can&#039;t afford that expensive appetizer anymore. Sadly, I don&#039;t think most of those people are reading this blog.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@chacha1: &#8220;all it was, was endive leaves with a schmear of soft goat cheese and a slice of smoked duck breast. Easy.&#8221;</p>
<p>Are you joking? It might be easy, but as you said it is not economical and certainly not simple by any stretch. I&#8217;m impressed that you could prepare with such ease things that I would only order in an expensive restaurant and the vast majority of the US would never have in their life. It reminds me of the disconnect felt by many with Obama&#8217;s arugula comment during the campaign. </p>
<p>So many commenting seem to have missed the spirit of the article, which is the nostalgia for the simple days of ramen and mac and cheese when you are young and poor and how companionship matters more than food sometimes. This is a good piece for those struggling in a recession, who perhaps can&#8217;t afford that expensive appetizer anymore. Sadly, I don&#8217;t think most of those people are reading this blog.</p>
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		<title>By: Attagirl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Attagirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 06:26:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wish I liked cooking, but I don&#039;t.  It&#039;s a drag.  I&#039;d sooner do laundry, vacuum, change the cat box.  At least the house is cleaner when you&#039;re done vacuuming.  Cold cereal - it&#039;s a girl&#039;s best friend.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish I liked cooking, but I don&#8217;t.  It&#8217;s a drag.  I&#8217;d sooner do laundry, vacuum, change the cat box.  At least the house is cleaner when you&#8217;re done vacuuming.  Cold cereal &#8211; it&#8217;s a girl&#8217;s best friend.</p>
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		<title>By: Ari Lestariono</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ari Lestariono</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 03:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In this bleak economy, I think we should plant our own foods in our backyard, it will suffice though tough for starters.I have a guava tree in my backyard, and I can juice them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this bleak economy, I think we should plant our own foods in our backyard, it will suffice though tough for starters.I have a guava tree in my backyard, and I can juice them.</p>
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		<title>By: Derek @ Live Uncomfortably</title>
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		<dc:creator>Derek @ Live Uncomfortably</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 00:19:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Spending $30 on food split between 2 people is down right stupid. I say this because if you&#039;re spending this much you&#039;re most likely substituting healthy foods.

In the long run, even if your bill is higher, the healthy foods are more worthwhile. Your work productivity and energy levels will be much higher. Not to mention your future medical bills being lower. 

Spend the extra money on good, healthy food. Cut costs elsewhere.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Spending $30 on food split between 2 people is down right stupid. I say this because if you&#8217;re spending this much you&#8217;re most likely substituting healthy foods.</p>
<p>In the long run, even if your bill is higher, the healthy foods are more worthwhile. Your work productivity and energy levels will be much higher. Not to mention your future medical bills being lower. </p>
<p>Spend the extra money on good, healthy food. Cut costs elsewhere.</p>
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		<title>By: sunny</title>
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		<dc:creator>sunny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 23:22:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lovely post!

I&#039;ve been sick with a cold this week, too tired to cook, so we had Kraft mac &amp; cheese and green peas - always cheers me up.  Now if I just had a glass of Hi-C!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lovely post!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been sick with a cold this week, too tired to cook, so we had Kraft mac &amp; cheese and green peas &#8211; always cheers me up.  Now if I just had a glass of Hi-C!</p>
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		<title>By: Sara at On Simplicity</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sara at On Simplicity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 23:21:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was going to say give me hot dogs on the grill and a couple of good friends over champagne and brie anyday, but on second thought... A judicious blend of both makes everything more enjoyable. Consider yourself lucky to have such good dinner company!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was going to say give me hot dogs on the grill and a couple of good friends over champagne and brie anyday, but on second thought&#8230; A judicious blend of both makes everything more enjoyable. Consider yourself lucky to have such good dinner company!</p>
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		<title>By: chacha1</title>
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		<dc:creator>chacha1</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 23:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been known to invite friends over for a bowl of chili.  It&#039;s all about the company, not the food.

Recently I tried a braised lamb shanks recipe we got from a winery.  It was great, but I think the appetizer was enjoyed even more - and all it was, was endive leaves with a schmear of soft goat cheese and a slice of smoked duck breast.  Easy.  Though, come to think of it, not that cheap!  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been known to invite friends over for a bowl of chili.  It&#8217;s all about the company, not the food.</p>
<p>Recently I tried a braised lamb shanks recipe we got from a winery.  It was great, but I think the appetizer was enjoyed even more &#8211; and all it was, was endive leaves with a schmear of soft goat cheese and a slice of smoked duck breast.  Easy.  Though, come to think of it, not that cheap!  <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Joyful Abode</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joyful Abode</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 22:26:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can&#039;t imagine eating ramen, ravioli, mac and cheese, and other processed &quot;ready made&quot; foods for very long... I love them in moderation, but I&#039;m definitely a home cook and love making exciting delicious meals out of simple ingredients.

My husband and I are extremely frugal and have a TIGHT budget (no cable TV? Our friends are horrified!) but other than sticking to simple ingredients, cooking at home, and growing some of our own veggies, we don&#039;t &quot;sacrifice&quot; much in the way of food. 

Our grocery budget is $400/month just for the two of us (granted, this includes personal care items, cleaning stuff, paper products, and dog food too). So yeah, I&#039;m not a fan of &quot;frugal eating&quot; if you can afford anything more than that. Nothing beats good produce and from-scratch meals. 

But there&#039;s nothing wrong with inexpensive/simple meals either, and it&#039;s a great way to get together with friends. Usually when we have dinner parties we do it semi-potluck style (I make the entree and everyone else brings sides/salad/dessert/whatever). Low stress for everyone and we can focus on each other.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t imagine eating ramen, ravioli, mac and cheese, and other processed &#8220;ready made&#8221; foods for very long&#8230; I love them in moderation, but I&#8217;m definitely a home cook and love making exciting delicious meals out of simple ingredients.</p>
<p>My husband and I are extremely frugal and have a TIGHT budget (no cable TV? Our friends are horrified!) but other than sticking to simple ingredients, cooking at home, and growing some of our own veggies, we don&#8217;t &#8220;sacrifice&#8221; much in the way of food. </p>
<p>Our grocery budget is $400/month just for the two of us (granted, this includes personal care items, cleaning stuff, paper products, and dog food too). So yeah, I&#8217;m not a fan of &#8220;frugal eating&#8221; if you can afford anything more than that. Nothing beats good produce and from-scratch meals. </p>
<p>But there&#8217;s nothing wrong with inexpensive/simple meals either, and it&#8217;s a great way to get together with friends. Usually when we have dinner parties we do it semi-potluck style (I make the entree and everyone else brings sides/salad/dessert/whatever). Low stress for everyone and we can focus on each other.</p>
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		<title>By: Cathy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 21:33:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>E: #50

I&#039;m a big fan of Rachael Ray&#039;s show &#039;30 Minute Meals&#039;.  I learned how to turn out delicious, 3 course meals in about 30-40 minutes (she&#039;s a faster chopper than I am!)  Cooking a dinner party doesn&#039;t have to be time consuming - it helps to know which recipes you can turn out fast!  Practicing on yourself helps too! ;)

For a large number of guests, I prefer a &#039;tapas bar&#039; style with lots of small bites rather than a formal dinner where we sit at a table.  Allows people to wander around and mingles.  You can get most of the tapas snacks from an olive bar at the local supermarket, cheese and crackers that take no time to prepare, then pan fry some chorizo bites in a pan for a hot meat.  Easy!  You can spend more time snacking and mingling! :)</description>
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<p>I&#8217;m a big fan of Rachael Ray&#8217;s show &#8217;30 Minute Meals&#8217;.  I learned how to turn out delicious, 3 course meals in about 30-40 minutes (she&#8217;s a faster chopper than I am!)  Cooking a dinner party doesn&#8217;t have to be time consuming &#8211; it helps to know which recipes you can turn out fast!  Practicing on yourself helps too! <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>For a large number of guests, I prefer a &#8216;tapas bar&#8217; style with lots of small bites rather than a formal dinner where we sit at a table.  Allows people to wander around and mingles.  You can get most of the tapas snacks from an olive bar at the local supermarket, cheese and crackers that take no time to prepare, then pan fry some chorizo bites in a pan for a hot meat.  Easy!  You can spend more time snacking and mingling! <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: E</title>
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		<dc:creator>E</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 21:06:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fortunately I have some family and friends who love to cook because I hate it. :) I much prefer being in someone&#039;s home, eating something made by someone I know, than going to a restaurant. It&#039;s so much more relaxed!

I hosted a dinner party once with my former BF, and it was a disaster. All my attention was on cooking and I couldn&#039;t enjoy our friends; not only that, but the dinner didn&#039;t turn out too well and that was quite awkward. My friend C, on the other hand, can turn out delicious meals without ever appearing to DO anything - we never miss a moment of her company - and the conversation is always stimulating too. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fortunately I have some family and friends who love to cook because I hate it. <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I much prefer being in someone&#8217;s home, eating something made by someone I know, than going to a restaurant. It&#8217;s so much more relaxed!</p>
<p>I hosted a dinner party once with my former BF, and it was a disaster. All my attention was on cooking and I couldn&#8217;t enjoy our friends; not only that, but the dinner didn&#8217;t turn out too well and that was quite awkward. My friend C, on the other hand, can turn out delicious meals without ever appearing to DO anything &#8211; we never miss a moment of her company &#8211; and the conversation is always stimulating too. <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 20:49:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can totally relate to Chris. My parents didn&#039;t have time/can&#039;t actually cook so we ate out all of the time when I was young. I continued that tradition all throughout college until I got married. My parents are engineers too, haha. We did the Boston Market thing for Thanksgiving though. Luckily, we ate at only the really good restaurants and man have I got some stories to tell about places I&#039;ve been and some really good dining experiences. I can&#039;t cook either, but I ended up marrying someone who&#039;s a professional cook and loves doing it. So he does all of the cooking and I do everything else in the home. It&#039;s a fair trade-off considering everything I attempt turns out black and hey, a girl&#039;s gotta eat.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can totally relate to Chris. My parents didn&#8217;t have time/can&#8217;t actually cook so we ate out all of the time when I was young. I continued that tradition all throughout college until I got married. My parents are engineers too, haha. We did the Boston Market thing for Thanksgiving though. Luckily, we ate at only the really good restaurants and man have I got some stories to tell about places I&#8217;ve been and some really good dining experiences. I can&#8217;t cook either, but I ended up marrying someone who&#8217;s a professional cook and loves doing it. So he does all of the cooking and I do everything else in the home. It&#8217;s a fair trade-off considering everything I attempt turns out black and hey, a girl&#8217;s gotta eat.</p>
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		<title>By: Erika</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erika</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 20:40:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@freemo - I live in an urban area with produce markets.  These are generally much cheaper than grocery stores, and I end up spending about $30/week there for most fruits/veggies, supplementing the rest with frozen.  I shop at chain grocery stores for other items (like meats, starches, pasta, canned goods). I haven&#039;t seen these kinds of produce markets in the suburbs much, though. The farmer&#039;s markets here are insanely expensive, at least 2x the grocery stores.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@freemo &#8211; I live in an urban area with produce markets.  These are generally much cheaper than grocery stores, and I end up spending about $30/week there for most fruits/veggies, supplementing the rest with frozen.  I shop at chain grocery stores for other items (like meats, starches, pasta, canned goods). I haven&#8217;t seen these kinds of produce markets in the suburbs much, though. The farmer&#8217;s markets here are insanely expensive, at least 2x the grocery stores.</p>
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		<title>By: freemo</title>
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		<dc:creator>freemo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 20:12:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wonder where you all shop where you find that you can eat fruits and veggies for cheap. In my market, most fruit/veggies range from $2-$4 a pound, which makes it comparable in price to meat. And the farmer&#039;s markets aren&#039;t much better (when things are in season). We are talking about $1 for one zucchini, $4 for a small box of tomatoes, $2 for a bunch of carrots...so comparable in price, and sometimes more expensive than, to the grocery stores.

We were on a strict $60/week food/household expense diet for 8 months and found we ate a lot more starches than we usually do. Starches are cheaper than either meat or fruits/vegs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder where you all shop where you find that you can eat fruits and veggies for cheap. In my market, most fruit/veggies range from $2-$4 a pound, which makes it comparable in price to meat. And the farmer&#8217;s markets aren&#8217;t much better (when things are in season). We are talking about $1 for one zucchini, $4 for a small box of tomatoes, $2 for a bunch of carrots&#8230;so comparable in price, and sometimes more expensive than, to the grocery stores.</p>
<p>We were on a strict $60/week food/household expense diet for 8 months and found we ate a lot more starches than we usually do. Starches are cheaper than either meat or fruits/vegs.</p>
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		<title>By: Cathy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 19:55:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m an engineer too, but ugh...there&#039;s more to life than pizza and Burger King!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m an engineer too, but ugh&#8230;there&#8217;s more to life than pizza and Burger King!</p>
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		<title>By: Miss M</title>
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		<dc:creator>Miss M</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 19:47:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m an engineer and I can&#039;t afford to eat every meal out! Well maybe I could but I&#039;d have no savings and weigh 200 pounds.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m an engineer and I can&#8217;t afford to eat every meal out! Well maybe I could but I&#8217;d have no savings and weigh 200 pounds.</p>
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		<title>By: Cathy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 19:46:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with you J.D.  What matters is the people whom you share experiences with.  Of the dining I&#039;ve done with friends, the memories I&#039;ve cherished the most have been the ones where we shared food in our own homes.  More than any &#039;fine dining&#039; experience.  Among my friends, we never went crazy with fancy dishes or fine silverware.  It was about spending time, not about trying to impress each other.  That&#039;s how you know you have good friends, not superficial ones.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with you J.D.  What matters is the people whom you share experiences with.  Of the dining I&#8217;ve done with friends, the memories I&#8217;ve cherished the most have been the ones where we shared food in our own homes.  More than any &#8216;fine dining&#8217; experience.  Among my friends, we never went crazy with fancy dishes or fine silverware.  It was about spending time, not about trying to impress each other.  That&#8217;s how you know you have good friends, not superficial ones.</p>
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		<title>By: Carla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 19:13:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For health reason, about 80% of the food I buy is fresh, organic fruit and veggies.  I get really good deals at a local produce store (Monterey Market - Berkeley) and save a ton not buying pre packaged foods, processed foods, etc.  Everything else I buy is fish, nuts, etc.

Good and healthy food is important to me and some weeks I spend more than others.  I prefer to save in other areas in my life and not skimp on food and nutrition.  

When I friends over, I also have a lot of fun preparing good meals without breaking the bank.  Having friends bring the main course for me to prepare (salmon, etc) is a big help at times.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For health reason, about 80% of the food I buy is fresh, organic fruit and veggies.  I get really good deals at a local produce store (Monterey Market &#8211; Berkeley) and save a ton not buying pre packaged foods, processed foods, etc.  Everything else I buy is fish, nuts, etc.</p>
<p>Good and healthy food is important to me and some weeks I spend more than others.  I prefer to save in other areas in my life and not skimp on food and nutrition.  </p>
<p>When I friends over, I also have a lot of fun preparing good meals without breaking the bank.  Having friends bring the main course for me to prepare (salmon, etc) is a big help at times.</p>
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		<title>By: EMBO</title>
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		<dc:creator>EMBO</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 18:34:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One of the things that has saved me a ton on good food was learning to BBQ.  I bought a smoker, a vacuum sealer, and a deep freeze.  Now I buy meat in bulk.  I can pay $100 for enough brisket to feed my family of 4 for a month, and it tastes fantastic.  Vacuum sealed, cooked meat will keep for a year, and still tastes as good reheated as it did coming off the smoker.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the things that has saved me a ton on good food was learning to BBQ.  I bought a smoker, a vacuum sealer, and a deep freeze.  Now I buy meat in bulk.  I can pay $100 for enough brisket to feed my family of 4 for a month, and it tastes fantastic.  Vacuum sealed, cooked meat will keep for a year, and still tastes as good reheated as it did coming off the smoker.</p>
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		<title>By: LLnL</title>
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		<dc:creator>LLnL</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 18:19:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love eating at home or with friends. Eating out has lost its appeal because of the amount and quantity of food is not worth the cost. I forget that you can invite people over for a simple meal, I don&#039;t know why we assume when you have guest there must be a big production.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love eating at home or with friends. Eating out has lost its appeal because of the amount and quantity of food is not worth the cost. I forget that you can invite people over for a simple meal, I don&#8217;t know why we assume when you have guest there must be a big production.</p>
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		<title>By: J.D.</title>
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		<dc:creator>J.D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 17:40:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;@Anna (#38)&lt;/b&gt;
Ha! Good one. I forgot to list what we ate for dinner. We had a green salad, manicotti with home-made tomato sauce, and sorbet. Very tasty. 

When the conversation is good, the food doesn&#039;t matter. :)</description>
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Ha! Good one. I forgot to list what we ate for dinner. We had a green salad, manicotti with home-made tomato sauce, and sorbet. Very tasty. </p>
<p>When the conversation is good, the food doesn&#8217;t matter. <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Craig</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 17:36:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a big eater and spend a lot on myself every week for food.  Sure I could eat a little bit less, maybe have less snacks, but I think it&#039;s difficult to always be so frugal with food.  Especially if you enjoy food and eating different things.  You can only have so much pasta and sauce.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a big eater and spend a lot on myself every week for food.  Sure I could eat a little bit less, maybe have less snacks, but I think it&#8217;s difficult to always be so frugal with food.  Especially if you enjoy food and eating different things.  You can only have so much pasta and sauce.</p>
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		<title>By: Anna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 17:26:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>But what did you eat for dinner!</description>
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