Over the past few months, the mainstream media has been filled with stories about the New Frugals and the return to thrift. People who once lived beyond their means, financing their lifestyle with debt, have “found religion”. They’ve begun to embrace frugality, and have discovered the joy that can come through spending less.
The new age of thrift
Not everyone is happy about this. The March issue of Redbook contained an article called “The Upside of Living on Less”, which profiled how four women are coping with the recession. The story prompted the following letter to the editor in the May issue:
While I love Redbook, something in your article “The Upside of Living on Less” rubbed me the wrong way. When describing the economic crunch, after rightfully blaming the banks and consumers who were charging more than they should have, the author wrote “Basically, we’d all been spending way more than we could afford.” I don’t appreciate being in the same category as overspenders. I am frugal with every cent, and I use every item to its utmost capacity simply because I don’t believe in waste of any kind. I always will be like that, regardless of the economy. Even though we’re all in this together, not everybody contributed to the country’s financial mess. — Darcy Bailey, Mount Holly NC
I’ve heard similar sentiments from GRS readers — and from my wife. To a degree, I sympathize. None of us wants to pay for the mistakes of others. When people make poor choices, they ought to face the consequences.
Still, I’m happy to see so many people discovering frugality. It’s an opportunity for us to spread the gospel of thrift. I don’t think it’s productive to spend time judging people for their past mistakes. If someone has a sincere desire to change, then I’m happy to help them do so. If these New Frugals possess the zeal of recent converts, perhaps they’ll spread the word to their friends and family, and maybe we will see a fundamental shift in American values. I believe that this country needs more frugality, not less.
Those with long-time habits of thrift should relish the current economic climate. Our smart choices will help us to weather the storm. Meanwhile, we should be glad to share what we know with others. The more people we can welcome to this way of life, the more likely it is to stick, to become a permanent part of our culture.
Gleefully frugal
A recent New York Times article explores this notion. Matt Richtel writes:
Millions of Americans have trimmed expenses because they have had their jobs or hours cut, or fear they will. But a subset of savers are reducing costs not just with purpose, but with relish. These are the gleefully frugal…The gleefully frugal happily seek new ways to economize and take pride in outsaving the Joneses.
One of the “gleefully frugal” profiled in Richtel’s article is GRS-reader Katy Wolk-Stanley, who writes a blog called The Non-Consumer Advocate. Katy’s goal is to help people learn to live on as little income as possible. She follows some familiar frugal practices (like hanging clothes to dry), and she tries to buy nothing new — except for underwear. I asked Katy how she feels about the New Frugals.
“I am seeing a profound increase of interest in frugality, which I welcome with open arms,” she told me. “Very few of us have exercised complete financial responsibility from day one, and sometimes it does take hitting rock bottom before we embrace change. Frugality is not just for the chosen few, but for anyone who wants to take control of their lives. Just because a person has been frugal for years doesn’t mean they’re more deserving of kudos than someone whose frugal journey just started.
Katy made an interesting observation: “I’ve noticed that the mainstays of my frugal life have increased in popularity. The library lines are longer and the thrift stores are consistently busy, but I don’t resent this. I’m happy to share my non-consumer tricks with whoever is looking to ratchet down their lifestyle. Frugality is for everyone.”
She also pointed to a piece over at The Frugal Girl about the “unriveting story” of a woman who was always frugal and never got into debt.
Why thrift matters
Now that we’re about a year into this recession, we’ve had time to see how people are responding. Honestly, I’ve begun to suspect that there won’t be a permanent shift in American values. I wish our culture would embrace frugality and the do-it-yourself economy, but I don’t think it’s going to happen — not on a large scale. But I do expect that some people will change for good, and that many people will at least try their hand at thrifty things like:
- Growing their own food.
- Shopping at thrift stores.
- Building and repairing things.
- Making food from scratch.
- Mending clothes.
If enough people do these things, if enough people see the benefits of these changes, if enough people retain a few of these skills once the economy improves, we’ll all be better off. I think frugality and thrift are about more than just saving money. They offer a chance to re-examine our lifestyles.
- Thrift teaches the value of things.
- Thrift provides for the future.
- Thrift allows you to focus time and money on what’s important.
- Thrift reduces consumption and waste.
- Thrift imparts a sense of accomplishment.
Thrift matters to me because it is a skill that I can use every day in many ways, big and small, to maximize the value of my money. But it’s not the money that’s important. It’s what the money represents, which is freedom — the freedom to write. This is why thrift matters to me: By being a wise steward of my money, I am able to pursue my dream of writing full-time.
Making frugality personal
In my own life, I’m delighted to see the changes in my friends. Smart personal finance has been a personal passion for me over the past three years, but I try not to evangelize outside the blog. Perhaps I don’t need to.
Last weekend, a group of us gathered for our annual trip to central Oregon. Every year, the women go shopping at the big-name chains: Old Navy, The Gap, etc. This year, however, some of them joined me and Kris for a trip to Goodwill. They had so much fun that they went back to do more shopping the next day!
This is just a small example — and I have others — but I think it’s telling. I applaud people making small changes like this. This is how we learn to be frugal, how we learn to embrace an ethic of thrift. We try one thing. Then we try another. And another. I don’t think that people can maintain habits when they try to go cold turkey. I think that it’s better to make incremental changes to your lifestyle.
How do you feel about the New Frugals and the return to thrift? Do these new converts bug you? Are you glad to see them? Do you think the do-it-yourself economy will last? When things turn around, do you plan to practice the new skills you’ve found? Or are you eager to return to the way things were?
For more on this subject, check out the following articles from mainstream media:
- Business Week: The new age of frugality — Especially the three-minute video at the top of the story.
- The New York Times: The new frugality: No passing fad — A four-person discussion about the new age of thrift.
- Fortune: Thrifty is the new frugal
- The New York Times has compiled a collection of videos related to what they’re calling “The New Hard Times“. These feature people who grew up during the Great Depression discussing how that compares with today.
[Thanks to Nancy, who asked me to write about this subject, and who pointed me to the Redbook articles. Goodwill photo by Scurzuzu.]
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I get annoyed with all the cover stories on these magazines/newspapers about being frugal. I was frugal before frugal was cool, as I am sure the majority of GRS readers were. Maybe this frugal lifestyle will rub off on the politicians and they can start the Ramsey baby steps on the massive federal debt. That is what I am waiting for.
Imagine if they were as careful with their money as we are with ours….
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Katy here from The Non-Consumer Advocate.
Frugality and thrift are so ingrained in my family’s life that it’s almost without thought at this point. But please don’t think our life isn’t rich. We have everything we need and then some. We vacation, eat fabulous meals, see second run movies, watch DVD’s from the library and wear expensive (Goodwill) clothing.
We do everything mainstream America does, we just pay 10% the price.
Katy Wolk-Stanley
“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”
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It’s a good concept and I think we all should follow this, living in efficient way and only buy things that are basic needs.restrain yourselves from credit cards…lol
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Why have the terms thrifty and frugal become synonyms for cheap? I also don’t appreciate the poster here claiming that frugal, thrifty people are not charitable. In fact, by not buying,buying, buying and taking care of what I have, I have given a lot to charity- money and time. I find that is the same for many of my friends. I could shop at the “best” stores but cannot see how most of what they have is worth anything close to the price. I travel(yes, we had an international trip this year), paid two college tuitions for our kids, have a paid off house(and this is in the suburb of a large city) and we have 2 paid off cars.
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The only thing that bugs me is people doing it because it’s “fashionable”, or people talking about everything they’ll spend money on as soon as the economy is better.
It just makes me think they don’t get it…
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In a way I can see your point about people taking it as being ‘fashionable’ and reverting to their old ways as soon as things get better. The fact is that not everyone will get it but I think it would be fantastic if “keeping up with Joneses” meant outsaving them. I’d love to wake up in a world where people were doing their utmost to be frugal and keen savers because let’s face it this ‘spending money as a way of asserting your status in society’ has gone so far.
The thing is if this goes on for long enough (and I mean several generations) people won’t know about ‘overspending’. Hopefully it’ll be a foreign concept that they never need to know. After all there are still people still saying now, “I didn’t realise how much water is wasted by leaving the tap running whilst brushing my teeth” or “I can’t believe how much money I waste by leaving my TV on standby.”
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I also take homage with those who are doing it because it’s the trendy hip thing to be doing like “going green”(to much of this trend smacks of insincerity). Getting the most out of the things we own is a way to show appreciation for everything given. It’s that simple!
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I’m not sure if the ‘new frugality’ will stick, but I have enjoyed the new trend towards open conversations about financial matters. The recession has a lot of folks feeling like ‘we’re all in the same bucket’ and I think that is broadening the financial discussions between friends and family. Now we sit around the dinner table instead of a restaurant table and shop at goodwill instead of the mall, but we also talk about how much we spent and how much we saved, something that I witnessed very little of before.
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Personally I think its a fad. Once the economy recovers people will go back to being the way they were.
I dont find the idea of shopping at Goodwill helpful. I have a position that requires me to be well dressed and well groomed-I am a senior professional fundraiser and manager at a very prestigious institution. While I dont raise $$ from high net worth individuals, being in a different area of the field, I do need a professional wardrobe and to look like I am a credit to the institution. Getting a $20 haircut and buying work clothes at thrift stores is simply not acceptable. There is not enough inventory and I am all too likely to end up sitting at a table with the former owner of the clothes….. I have found some of the tips here helpful, but not on issues like maintaining a professional wardrobe. My own solution has been to hire a personal shopper, set a clothing budget, and buy a lot of clothes twice a year and NO OTHER CLOTHES SHOPPING. THis suits me as I hate shopping anyway. I need nice evening clothes for example-its hard to be thrifty in this area. Being Indian however, I have switched back to wearing saris, which I have loads of-one size fits all-but I still need to get blouses custom tailored-and it isnt a solution that applies to everyone. Frankly at my age there ARE very few interesting clothes out there and saris are very flattering if you are over 25 and have a normal body. I have focused more on raising my income than saving $$. I do use a budget, which helped enormously in saving to buy a house. I am now using a zero based budget to build an emergency fund, but thats about it-I dont clip coupons-I rarely buy the stuff coupons are good for, but I do cook from scratch and always have, so my food budget is not too bad.
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1. I fear that a lot of “the new frugals” are viewing it as a fad, won’t really learn anything, and will just go back to their old, unssustainable ways when things turn around or when it’s no longer “cool” or “in.” (I feel the same way about being green, sadly.)
2. It IS all about balance and priorities. There are some areas in which I don’t scrimp, because I feel it would affect my quality of life, and I feel that what I spend in those areas does not negatively impact the rest of my financial life. I have no credit cards and no CC debt, and I plan to keep it that way. When I want a luxury (like travel–you CAN do it not on credit–or collecting art,) I budget for it.
I DO believe one can be too tightfisted, and that one can get too careless with one’s money, but I try not to judge others or preach to them. I know what matters to me, and I stick to that.
Jen M.
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@ Beth:
Loved your comment about being paid too poorly to buy a Prius. I think there’s a separate issue about the “luxury” of being all green and correct — but I digress.
Prius-smugness is a category all its own. I personally know people who bought Priuses back when gas (here in Calif., anyway) was $4 a gallon. Now that gas prices have dropped, and they’re stuck with financing that Prius, I wonder if some aren’t regretting the decision as a not-so-frugal choice. It would be too politically incorrect to say so, I suspect.
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Thrift is making a comeback! This is one of the good news of the economic downturn we are experiencing. It is about time that the average American is getting a little more careful with money again.
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Let’s see how frugal people are after the economy improves– people have short memories . . .
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@Kate,
I totally agree with your point about the luxury of being green and correct. Alas, my former company refused to put in a company recycling program (we had recycling bins, but they were picked up by the garbage company) and the execs flew around the world in a private jet.
I didn’t own a prius, but I’ll admit I felt a little bit superior taking all of my recyclables home with me.
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Hi,
No offense meant to the americans, but In india we never grew up on the notion of living on credits or enjoying on borrowed money. USA is a corporation where this century’s statesmen have ruined the whatever little culture was there. I wonder how you have reached to a point where you have to be taught not to be living off on credit money!
Boy, this is what a 1st grade student or an infant kid learns–to be neat about belongings. I am from Mumbai, when i was in USA i visited few households, where i was appaled at the items you people have lying uselessly around. So many caps [like 2 dozen] collecting dusts, belts, different shoes, stashes of books, piles of branded CDs.. and from whatever i see in movies, seems the ladies in USA never cook at home! i hope that is not true.
Yes, India is still not a developed country due to corruption, dynastic-politicians, etc. but the average Indian Joe is far smarter in savings, frugality and conspicuous consumption. Also, in most educated middle class [people who have actually lived well according to the standards] the parents have a lot of retirement funds, most even have a house in their name and other ornaments, jewelery. I guess this is equal comparision because an american earner has much more wage and high standard of living that an Indian middle class earner.
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@Pranay Sanghavi
I recognize you weren’t intent on offending but I fear this will cause people to be offended. As an outsider of the US I cannot adequately comment on your evaluation of Americans but I do have to say it sounds much too generalised. You do realise there are 306 million americans so having visited a few houses I don’t think you can say that ‘you people have so many items lying around collecting dust’. Perhaps the media has made out that every american is useless with their money but if you look at the number of people who are a part of these ‘personal finance’ communities then you can see there is a portion of people who aren’t like this.
You also have to take into account that a higher pay packet usually goes in line with the area in which you are living and how high costs are there. Americans may earn more but they also have to pay more.
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Looking at the big picture is part of being thrifty. Sometimes you have to spend a little more up front to save a whole lot more over time.
Take laundry as an example: The new front-loading horizontal washing machines cost more up front BUT they use less water AND spin the clothes so fast that they are almost dry already when you take them out. Then you can take those ‘almost dry’ clothes and finish them up on a good clothes drying rack which means you save a lot by not using that energy hog clothes dryer.
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I discovered a way to live frugally after I went through a divorce and then lost my job. Having to support a child on my own, I quickly turned to shopping at thrift stores to clothe my child and I. To my delight I found really great items that would invite people to compliment what I was wearing and have them ask, “where did I get that, I like it.” This inspired my new business, because I want others to have access to great fashion, but still look and feel great about their purchases. As I am slowly paying off my lawyers fees and getting out of debt. I have learned some great lessons and even when I am doing better financially, will still continue to live a frugal lifestyle. This time with making smarter decisions about my money. For more about my story and to see my store, go to http://www.lethrift.com, I would love to hear from you feedback and comments!
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