Ask the Readers: How to Handle a Windfall? Print
Friday, 19th June 2009 (by J.D.)This article is about Ask the Readers, Choices, Odds and Ends, Savings
It’s been a while since we touched on the subject of windfalls: money that unexpectedly falls into your lap. It’s been so long, in fact, that I’ve started to receive questions about them, including this one from Aaryn:
I wanted to get your advice as far as the distribution of windfalls. Would you put a certain percentage in a savings account? Invest it? Keep some in your regular checking account? What is your recommendation? Would this fall in line with the balanced money formula?
Though I’ve written about windfall management before, it’s been almost eighteen months since the last time we discussed it. At that time, I didn’t know anyone who had experienced a sizable windfall. Now I do. My friend Joan inherited a large sum of money earlier this year, and I’ve been able to watch first-hand how she’s handled it.
A large windfall
The first thing Joan did was set aside money for taxes. Depending on how big your windfall is, you may not need to do this. You’ll owe them, of course, but if your windfall is just $100 or $1000, you can probably scrape the money together at the end of the year. But if your windfall is $100,000 (or $1,000,000!), you should set the money aside immediately. I think Joan put her tax money into a money market account.
Next, Joan chose to use a little of the money to treat herself. She redecorated her house, which is something she’s been wanting to do. I know this project cost quite a bit, but I’ll bet it was still just two or three percent of her inheritance.
I thought Joan would invest the rest of her new-found wealth right away, but she didn’t. She let it sit in savings for a few months because she was scared to make a wrong move. She’d never had a lot of money before. Finally, she interviewed some investment advisers in her hometown, and she chose one that she felt comfortable with. She sought professional help. Now that she’s had time to let the emotion drain from the situation, she’s ready to invest.
Joan was fortunate in two regards:
- She didn’t have any debt. If she had debt, she would have been wise to eliminate it after using a bit of the money to redecorate her home.
- Without knowing, she followed the standard advice for how to manage a windfall successfully.
Joan was also lucky to have received a large windfall. What if her inheritance had been smaller?
A small windfall
I’ve experienced many small windfalls in my life, and I’ll bet you have too. I used to get a windfall every spring when I received my tax refund. And, like clockwork, that windfall would vanish through my fingers just a few days later. (That’s one reason I no longer aim for large tax refunds.)
More recently, I’ve found better uses for “found” money. When I was working to get out of debt, I’d apply my windfalls directly to the balances I owed. Over the past two years, I’ve used windfalls to build my savings, and then to save for my goals. I still follow a personal rule of thumb that I can use 5% of every windfall for fun (so, $5 out of $100, or $50 out of $1000), but the rest of the money is applied immediately to my personal financial goals.
I find it exhilarating to fund my Roth IRA early in the year because I’ve been diligent with the little windfalls. And, of course, my Mini Cooper was purchased almost entirely with small- to medium-sized windfalls. When you don’t fritter them away (as I used to do), windfalls can really turbo-charge your savings.
Your take
Have you ever experienced a large windfall? Inherited money from Aunt Madge? Won the lottery? Sold a business? How did you handle it? Would you make different choices now? And what about small windfalls? All of us receive those. What do you do with yours? What advice do you have for somebody who receives a windfall?
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June 19th, 2009 at 5:07 am
One of the best things to do when you receive a windfall of significance is to do nothing for a while. Do nothing, don’t make any huge purchases (new house, fancy car, trip around the world). Put the money some place safe, and then gather information, research, hire professionals, etc. and then in six months or so start making moves.
June 19th, 2009 at 5:21 am
My grandmother passed away 7 years ago, and I inherited 22k. I put in in a high earning CD for the next 2 years (as I finished college). When it came up for renewal a second time, I took out 7k so I could buy a used car to use for driving to my first job. It covered the cost of the vehicle outright as well as the first year of insurance. The rest, I’ve kept in high earning CDs and is the base of a nestegg for buying a house, which my husband and I hope to do in the next 3 years. I’ve pulled from it once for a home-repair emergency, but we ‘reimbursed’ the account within and added the money back in on it’s next renewal.
June 19th, 2009 at 5:39 am
If I have a small windfall (<$1000) I’ll usually invest all of it. If I have a bigger windfall I’ll allow myself to spend a fifth of it and I invest the rest. I’ve got an addiction to saving/investing though so that may not work for everyone.
June 19th, 2009 at 5:46 am
Finally, an article that highlights a *responsible* windfall recipient.
Seriously, I get so tired of articles reporting how UNLUCKY lottery winners are, and how no one should ever wish for a windfall, because they’ll just come to ruin. The writer will follow the sad saga of 2 or 3 irresponsible windfall recipients, and claim that anyone and everyone who gets a large amount of money after not having much money before, will immediately go out and blow it on McMansions, hookers and blow, bringing themself to bankrupt ruin and wrecking their once-happy family.
But there are hundreds of people every day winning and inheriting huge amounts of money, and i seriously doubt every one of them is out squandering it. Thank you for highlighting Joan’s responsible response to her windfall.
I know if I ever got a large sum of money (HA), I’d set aside taxes first (duh), as well as read up myself on the subject of windfalls and perhaps also seek the help of a professional financial advisor in tandem.
June 19th, 2009 at 6:02 am
I have received two moderate windfalls this year. One was my annual bonus from work (which was a miracle in itself). That money was used to pay off my spouse’s car immediately. (The payments for that were then designated in the following way: for 6 mos that amount is added to savings, after 6 mos it is rolled into the next debt we want to pay off. No credit card debt, but our mortgage is overwhelming and we have a private loan too.)
The second moderate windfall was my tax return. 100% of this went into savings. Why? A couple of years ago, I was out of work for several months. Our emergency fund did what it was supposed to do in that time. My replacement job doesn’t earn as much as I had been earning, so rebuilding the emergency fund has been challenging. A windfall like a tax return gives it an excellent boost.
June 19th, 2009 at 6:03 am
I haven’t yet been lucky so far but I would be getting $500 as a referral bonus in December 09. Long time for it I know but I’m planning to put it all towards car loan
I did get $50 and $20 at different occasions though but small windfalls I put towards my grocery and fuel expenses.
June 19th, 2009 at 6:17 am
That last big windfall we had was in 2004 when we sold our home outside DC. We walked away after commissions etc with 180K. We had a little bit of debt which we paid off but that left us with about 160K. We had a ‘plan’ to purchase rental properties. Our goal was to use the money to generate 5000.00 / mo in cash flow. We had been researching for years areas to buy in, how to become a landlord, the business of landlording etc. We purchased 13 homes within the first year to begin building our passive income.
June 19th, 2009 at 6:20 am
My husband and I do have a loose “80/20″ rule; 80% of any windfall goes towards the common good with 20% being left for fun.
Since we don’t have any outstanding debt, the “common good” is can be our car fund or vacation fund or the purchase of some item (anything from car washes to a couch depending on the windfall size).
The remaining 20% is divided unevenly between the two of us - with the windfallee getting to pick how the dollars will be used (for individual or couple fun).
June 19th, 2009 at 6:25 am
Hi J.D.,
I don’t think I would even second guess what I’d do with my unexpected money. In most cases my wife and I put about 50-80% of our windfall into our Financial Freedom Account (FFA).
We use the FFA to invest in rental properties that bring us a positive cash-flow . We’ve done this successfully with our own home and it is a God-send. Having an extra $800 of rental income every month on auto-pilot is amazing.
Investment property that brings in +cash-flow is my primary choice for windfalls.
June 19th, 2009 at 6:26 am
Similar to commenter christy above my wife and I received two moderate windfalls this year. The first was our tax return which we used to pay off her final school loan and purchase some big ticket items for our first child (due in late July!).
The second was my annual bonus from work. We used this to finish paying off both of our cars (one of which would have been done in 2 months anyways.)
As a couple we made the decision to use windfalls to reduce our debt until the only debt we have left is the mortgage. Then we will start allocating them differently to savings, mortgage, fun, etc. The only exception to this is that typically our tax return goes towards a nice vacation but this year we didn’t do that because of the baby on the way.
June 19th, 2009 at 6:31 am
I recently received a windfall from my grandmother’s estate. The majority of it I used to pay off a car loan and a balance on a credit card. The rest i’m using to build up our emergency fund which should give us about a 6 month backup. There’s actually still some left over which for now i’m just going to let it sit in savings or I may just add it to my Roth IRA. The beauty of paying off the car and credit card is that now we’ve freed up about $480.00 in monthly cash flow which we’ll re-allocate to the Roth IRA, continuing to build our ER fund, our vacation fund, our house buying fund, and our baby fund since we’re still newly weds.
June 19th, 2009 at 6:35 am
Talking about investing in financial instruments is fine and good, but talking about investing in EXPERIENCES is even better.
The Mrs. and I have both talked to our parents about what THEY want us to do with the windall when they pass.
We tell them that…
…at least 50% will go to their grandchildren’s education
…at least 25% will go towards our retirement plans,
…and we haven’t thought of the rest.
What were their ideas? They talked about trips or moments we could share together.
Currently, my parents give us a small amount every year. “Prepaying the inheritance,” they say. This is the amount we do fun things with. We take pictures to put in a photo album, and the kids give it to them on the my parent’s wedding anniversary. It could be an overnight stay at a nearby Waterpark, and one time we took a weekend in the hometown of my mother (taking pictures of her old house and the bakery her father ran, etc.). They weren’t trips to Jamaica, but small things.
My parents get to see the fruits of their labor, and know that any inheritance that’s left is icing on the cake.
They thought it was very important to LIVE the inheritance we were going to spend. My parents get so much enjoyment talking to their grandkids about the trips.
June 19th, 2009 at 6:45 am
My grandma passed away last year and left me with $130k in stocks ($90k after the crash). Instead of spending any of it, I decided to use it to begin funding my retirement account, as I am in my early twenties and have a long time for compound interest to work to my advantage.
I maxed out a Roth IRA for both myself and my wife for 2008 and 2009, and then starting trading out of the taxable stock account I inherited into my employer’s tax free Roth 401k in an effort to max that out this year as well.
There still is a sizable chunk left in the taxable account I inherited, but it has pushed me to learn a lot about investing and stock picks (yay index funds). I am planning on using some of it to purchase a house, but want to wait until the market goes back up and some of the original value is regained. The rest is for retirement.
June 19th, 2009 at 6:48 am
Oooh. I love these type of questions.
I actually had a friend of mine (just out of college) win 3 million dollars (this was take home, after taxes) in a state lottery a number of years ago. The smartest thing she did was to go to her family lawyer. He told her to put the money in the bank for a while, money market account, I think, until she could fully and smartly decide what she wanted to do, BUT . . . he also told her to take some ‘mad money’ and to do with it whatever she wanted, a ‘no guilt’ shopping spree. Some ‘go crazy’ $. So, that’s what she did. I think she took $10,000 and went shopping. Didn’t spend it all, not nearly, but she did go to the mall and just bought stuff that she always wanted - anything from clothes, CDs, furniture, etc. Again, didnt spend nearly all of it (maybe around $5000) . . . but, it did get rid of that itch, that “ooh, I just won the lottery, let’s go crazy!” itch. She got it out of her system and was able to, a couple of months later, to calmly decide what to do with the rest of her windfall. She helped finance (or flat out bought, I dont know) a retirement home for her parents, paid off college loans, set aside money for her brother’s college education, took two WONDERFUL trips to Europe and put aside more than half of her winnings for long term savings, retirement.
Wouldn’t work for everyone, but I know that my friend appreciated having some immediate ‘fun’ $. She said it made ‘being smart’ about the rest of the money so much easier.
June 19th, 2009 at 6:49 am
I’m still in college and therefore my only windfalls are the small tax return I get after my summer internship or part-time job.
I usually put all the money into high-yield dividend paying stocks. I am going to make sure never to touch this money until I am retired.
June 19th, 2009 at 6:56 am
I wish my parent would follow Brian’s parents and give us the inheritance a bit at a time so she can enjoy the results.
We do expect a windfall when my parent passes. We will split it between us and the kids- equally. That gives them more tax implications than us- but they can make decisions that can change their lives. They will each, most likely, continue in their professions (which are low pay-but they love) and put down a lot for a house. Since they have followed in our “no debt” attitude, they should be set to go. Our part will go soundly into our retirement accounts- which will mean that our kids will enjoy it- a bit at a time- in about 30 years.
Small windfalls are split between fun and retirement. Usually the fun, these days is spending money on the grandbaby!
June 19th, 2009 at 6:56 am
Hi J.D.:
Great topic. Maybe I missed something, but I’m not sure why you recommended saving a portion of a windfall inheritance for taxes. To my knowledge, as long as the money qualifies as a “gift” in legal terms, there would be no tax due. That said, of course windfalls like lottery winnings, bonuses and other types of windfalls that qualify as income would most definitely be subject to tax and your advice is sound.
I recently received a large annual bonus and decided to save approximately two thirds of the money in my emergency fund. The remaining one third was used to pay for car repairs/maintenance, a nice vacation, and to have a litte “fun” money. Other than student loans and a mortgage, I am free of credit card debt and my cars are paid for. I contribute 12% of my salary to a 401K through work and am funding a separate Roth IRA through a monthly automatic transfer. I’d love to be able to max out my 401K and fully fund the Roth IRA annually, but I’ve dialed back my retirement savings slightly to focus on building my emergency fund and to save for taking a 13-week maternity leave at some point in the next 2 years. I am usually very conservative with spending on vacations and fun stuff, so this year I decided to splurge on the vacation, knowing that it will be a rare occasion when we spend this much on a trip in the next several years.
June 19th, 2009 at 7:05 am
Alex (#17) wrote: Maybe I missed something, but I’m not sure why you recommended saving a portion of a windfall inheritance for taxes.
Oops! You’re absolutely correct. I’ve got some wires crossed someplace. Either this wasn’t a strict inheritance, or there aren’t any taxes going on. I know Joan and I discussed it, but maybe I’m just imagining the outcome. My bad.
Still, in many cases, taxes do need to be paid, so the general advice is correct. But something’s wrong with my memory of this particular situation.
June 19th, 2009 at 7:07 am
Set aside money to pay taxes. Pay off any consumer debts. Then sit on it for a while (several months) before doing anything. I wouldn’t even pay off my home mortgage (the only debt I have) without thinking about it for a few months. I would want to make sure paying it all off would be the right move as opposed to paying down the mortgage or just stuffing the windfall in the bank and using it to assist in making mortgage payments at my very low interest rate.
As for your friend sounds like she did a good thing in redecorating her house. She’ll enjoy that for years and it probably added some value to her home. IMO that’s much better than taking a vacation that fades away or buying a fancy car that will depreciate quickly.
June 19th, 2009 at 7:13 am
We usually get a sizeable refund at tax time, and we have paid off debt, taken 2 trips to Disney w/our 3 kids and relatives, trip to North Carolina, purchased furniture, paid the property taxes, etc. I have enjoyed the trips, but frankly, I wish we would have saved/invested…we’d easily have AT LEAST $85,000!
A little off-topic, but since we have very little saved in short-term liquid accounts (we have been saving in a deferred retirement account for 12 yrs.), we were able to qualify for fin. aid for our daughter’s private H.S. tuition. If we had saved a lot, we wouldn’t have qualified at all. So, my question is, wouldn’t saving in 529 accounts (or other vehicles) for children’s college tuition likely disqualify us for any aid in the future? (We have been living on one income for 14 years). Anyone know more about this topic? J.D.-can you touch on this? I know some would consider this approach irresponsible, but my husband and I expect our children to contribute at least half to the college expenses like we did ourselves.
June 19th, 2009 at 7:21 am
We receive a fair sized bonus cheque every year (about $35-$50k depending on the year) and we always spend it thusly: 1/3 set aside for taxes (it is income), about $10k for fun ( a trip, redoing a room, other home projects, etc.) and the rest we add to our investment portfolio. (We are debt free or else I would suggest paying down any consumer debt prior to investing.)
June 19th, 2009 at 7:25 am
I recently bought a condo, having budgeted strictly for ~4 years to do it. About a year ago I won $1,000 playing video poker at the casino. I put the cash in an envelope, sealed it, and deposited the money the following monday in my downpayment account. I did the same with my bonus (paid over 2 years). It felt really good!
I have 1 instalment of my bonus left-it is going straight into my investment account where it will be put into an income fund designated to pay my power bill-and ultimately all the rest of my bills when I retire. My target for this year is $8,000, which at 8% should yield somewhere in the region of $40/month in income, which can be used to pay a bill. Im about halfway there and the bonus should complete it.
By the way-I dont gamble often -once or twice a year-I go with a set amount of money that I can afford to lose and leave when it is gone….
All the above were sums in the $1,000-$5,000 range and I already had major savings goals I was working towards. Were I to receive a larger windfall I would do what your friend did: set aside the tax, enjoy 1-2%, and think for a while/get advice, on what to do with the rest (pay off debt, invest). And learn to say NO to people asking for a handout. I would also donate to charity-as a professional fundraiser, I cannot ask others for money if I don’t give myself, and I love to give to good causes when I can afford it. These last 2 sound contradictory-what I meant was, by all means give money, but think your plans through for awhile before doing anything and do what YOU want to do with the money, not what a lot of other people want you to do.
June 19th, 2009 at 7:42 am
I adjusted my tax withholding last year so I would be within a couple hundred dollars in paying or refund, then the river ate the university and everything got refunded. Two thousand dollars! Whoo! That’s a paycheck right there.
I had been nosing around the idea of a laptop, and had enough in savings, so I waited until there was a frankly excellent sale and bought one guilt-free– actually, a proud purchase, because it was what I wanted and on sale, plus it didn’t draw down the savings.
Gift money tends to go into the Unemployment Fund (job runs out at the end of the month, no new one lined up, my own fault) or the Extravagant Food Fund, depending on whether it’s from my mom or not. Having some money set aside explicitly for frivolities makes it easier to actually enjoy them.
It’s like a time-release shopping spree, really, with the added benefit that when I’m done, I am no longer hungry.
June 19th, 2009 at 8:03 am
After my dad passed away last year, my mom sold some very valuable property they’d owned and (very generously) gifted $24k to each of their four daughters. I guess the idea was that, once they’d sold their business and officially retired, they were going to give us that money together; when my dad died, my mom sold the business and the property and gave it to us from both of them. I’m not sure what my sisters have done with their share, but our share has sat in a high-interest savings account for about 9 months now. There’s no tax to worry about. I want to use a small chunk of it (less than $1,000) to purchase something “permanent” that will always remind me of my mom and dad and that we’ll have forever, but I haven’t figured out what that will be just yet. The rest will be part of our next down payment for a house (we currently own, but live in Michigan, so we’re not expecting to sell quickly or for a lot when we’re forced to move in a year).
We don’t have a lot of debt - just a mortgage that we can easily afford and my student loan that has a super-low interest rate. Our emergency fund is fairly healthy, so this seemed like the best plan of action for us. If we weren’t going to be moving in year, we’d probably hire someone to help us decide where to invest it for retirement or some other long-term goal.
June 19th, 2009 at 8:05 am
Good timing on this article. I’m recently married, and we decided to move into my wife’s house and sell my house. We have a lot of stuff, but we decided not to get a bigger house with the way the economy is going. One house on my street just sold for a good amount, so I am hopeful mine will too. We plan on using the profit to pay off as much debt as we can and save the rest.
We plan to put the house on the market for $170,000 and see what happens. I owe $110,000 on the mortgage and $18,000 on a HELOC that I used to refinance my out-of-control credit card debt (I know, very bad of me, but I’ve been paying it down for a while now). As I understand it, I won’t have to pay any taxes on the gain since I lived there for the past five or six years. Please correct me if I’m wrong. So that will leave us with $42,000. Between us, we have about $4,000 in credit card debt which we’ll pay off, and we will probably pay off her car loan too.
We will probably be left with about $20 - 30,000 after all that. She has been awesome about helping me get my house ready for sale, so I’d love to take some of that money and treat her to something fun with it. But the rest will go into an emergency fund or a short-term CD while we figure out what to do with it. We’ll probably keep it as an emergency fund. Then we’ll take whatever money we were using to pay towards debt and use that to save and invest. We could also put a portion of that toward her mortgage and pay it off faster.
I’d love to hear any comments or suggestions. I’m really looking forward to getting all this debt paid off.
June 19th, 2009 at 8:05 am
I inherited $37,000 from my great grandfather whom I had only spoken to once or twice in my life! I also had no idea that he was wealthy. He was very frugal and kept all of his money in investments. So, it can happen to anyone! This first of all made me want to be able to do the same for my family one day…even the ones that I will never meet. The biggest lesson that I learned after my husband and I did a jig and proudly pronounced that we would never be broke again… is… it doesn’t matter how much money you have, but what your spending habits are. I always had in the back of my mind…”if only we had a little more money…” I can now look back on this experience and see that is not the solution, because we are right back at square one struggling to pay bills not even two years later. I know that a lot of you are financially savvy which is why I read this blog! I need to learn how to save and be frugal no matter how much money I have! I spent $10,000 on furniture and home improvements. I gave $10,000 away to those in need, $5,000 on vacation at Disney World (that place is expensive!)and the other $12,000 disappeared in minor purchases, but did help me to become a stay at home mom for the past 2 years! Next time I will put it all in a cd for 6 months so I will not be able to touch any of it and will be able to use my head in a calm and cool manner and pay off my debts and save and invest!
June 19th, 2009 at 8:14 am
Windfall, meet student loan. Student loan, meet windfall. I’m sure your time together will be lovely.
Though last time I got unexpected money, I did treat myself to a haircut/color. I only go to good places to get my hair done, so that’s about $200 a trip.
June 19th, 2009 at 8:15 am
Up to 2,3 years ago I could have said I have never received a windfall (put myself through grad school, eloped, no free vehicles, etc) but a little over 2 years ago received about 8K from the in-laws. We established 529’s for the 2 kids and put 2K each in, put 1k towards the car payment, and the rest in a savings account. Ostensibly the savings account was to be the start of our e-fund, but we ended taking out most of that money for a downpayment for new windows. So in retrospect in a matter of months the money was “spent”. The only thing I would have done differently was to put more into efund and not touched it, and made the contribution for the 529s rather than lump sum a monthly contribution so we could have taken advantage of dollar-cost averaging.
June 19th, 2009 at 8:22 am
@Holly #20–I wrote a bit about need vs merit aid on my blog recently. Check it out if you want. I am not providing a direct link b/c some bloggers disapprove of that.
June 19th, 2009 at 8:42 am
I’ll throw my name in as one who recommends sitting on the money for a few months at least.
When my father died, he left my brother and I his life insurance policy. After receiving the cheque in the mail, I was a wreck for a few days while in shock.
My uncle suggested waiting a few months for the emotions to wear off, which I did. It really does work! After that I set aside a few thousand bucks and bought myself a nice guitar and amplifier, and then paid off my student loans with the majority. The remainder I set aside and later used for a down payment of my first house and for investments.
June 19th, 2009 at 8:44 am
This is a timely post - I was just offered a contract job that will pay $2500. I have $4600 in savings, $5800 in credit card debt, and no room in my monthly budget for anything that’s not a necessary expense. $2500 is more than my take-home pay for an entire month.
Right now I am thinking $500 savings/taxes, $500 spending, and $1500 credit card payment. But that’s different than what I thought yesterday or earlier this morning, so I will definitely be thinking about this more.
June 19th, 2009 at 8:49 am
I just received my annual bonus at work today, and I used most of it to pay off debts (including a student loan, freeing up $200/mo). I spent maybe 10% on fun stuff, and I’ve a little left that I’m holding on to for unexpected expenses.
June 19th, 2009 at 9:07 am
Several years ago my mother gifted my husband and I with $125k; a portion of an inheritance she received from her brother. We applied all the money to our mortgage principal. The decision was easy for us; the money was given to us with the stipulation that it be used towards our mortgage, so we didn’t have many decisions to make!
We were incredibly grateful that my mom chose to share a portion of her inhertance with us. It has halved our mortgage payment and allowed us to put more money in savings each month.
June 19th, 2009 at 9:49 am
The windfalls I’ve received have been bonuses from work, and the rule we use for those is 10% of the gross is given away, then I get a splurge of some sort, and the rest goes to savings. The bonuses may be $2,500-25,000. For the last couple of years, the splurge has been a piece of jewelry in the $200-300 range. When we bought our 2 cars, we knew I would be getting a bonus in a few months after, and so we used those bonuses to pay off the cars in full. (We won’t be getting a bonus this year, though.)
The only other windfall I’ve received is $2,000 from my grandafather’s estate. We gave away $200, then put the remainder in our child’s college savings account. I like that I will be able to tell her later that her great-grandfather helped her go to college.
June 19th, 2009 at 9:56 am
@Honey #29
You’ll probably want to allocate some for paying the taxes on that contract job.
June 19th, 2009 at 9:57 am
I wish I had read this back in 2001 when I received my windfall.
I got an inheritance of about 50k.
We spent about 12k to pay off our debt(which we soon re-accrued), put 10k in a CD (wanted to put in more but that was all that was left after…) we “invested” most of the rest on furniture for our house.
I say most of the rest, but it was more like half of the rest because I really can’t account for the other half. It just “went away”.
I have beaten my self up about this ever since, as we are in a much worse financial situation than we were before, and I make much more money than I did back then.
Well, lesson learned? I hope so, but I don’t expect any more windfalls to come our way.
edit: BTW, we ended up withdrawing the CD before the 6 months were up and paying a fee.
June 19th, 2009 at 10:02 am
I usually split my small windfalls 50% debt reduction, 50% emergency fund, which I am still building up. That’s in addition to my usual biweekly debt payments and emergency fund contributions.
I’m not sure what I’d do with a large windfall - I like the idea of sitting on the $ for a while but also having a small amount be “go crazy” money, just to have fun with.
June 19th, 2009 at 10:16 am
My recommendation would be to put it in savings for a minimum of 3 solid months. Why? Because you will spend that sum, mentally, 12 different ways - I guarantee it, before the 3 months goes by.
June 19th, 2009 at 10:22 am
Why do so many people who work for a living feel they have to blow part of all big sums they receive without having to work for it?
This “found” money is in no way different from the one they’re earning by working!
While I do realize that there’s no solution that is “correct” for everyone… it seems to me that,
unless their life goal is working & consuming, it may be smarter to invest it ALL and use the income to bring them closer to their goals.
June 19th, 2009 at 10:25 am
I got an unexpected $500 recently. I made a list of all the things I’d love to buy with it (food processor, commuter bicycle, new shoes, travel), and I added up the total expenses of my wish list (more than three times the amount of the check!). Then I prioritized the items on the list. Travel was tops, so I stuck the check in my travel account, which has been sadly depleted.
Good thing, too, because the next few days I found out about two fun short weekend trips I want to take, and now they’re funded!
(My car is paid-for, my credit card is paid off, my student loans are at 2%, and my job is very secure.)
June 19th, 2009 at 10:25 am
In the past year I’ve had two small windfalls (under $9K); a tax refund and a work bonus.
For both, I took out 10% for fun/vacations.
For the tax refund, I immediately transferred the rest to my emergency fund account, which I was still building.
For the bonus, I paid off my car and put the rest into my emergency fund.
For me, the key was to act quickly. Both windfalls were automatically deposited into my checking account, so I wanted to get them out of there as soon as possible so I didn’t whittle away at any of the money.
By the way, I also changed my withholding so I will never get such a big refund again. The big check is not worth losing out on what I could have been doing with that money (especially investing it) throughout the year.
June 19th, 2009 at 10:39 am
I inherited a large sum of father when my father died back in 2007. Aside from the previous comments about caution and spending carefully after the initial shock, I would add the following remarks:
1. For a large inheritance (PARTICULARLY when part of it is in an IRA!), don’t just put aside taxes, hire really really good tax professionals (CPA and/or tax attorney). I know these guy’s aren’t cheap, but the tax ramifications of $$$ beyond your usual experience are more byzantine than you can imagine. I didn’t, and now I’ve got to deal with all the reporting, distributions and paperwork that I didn’t handle correctly on my own.
2. As far as what I’ve learned about taxes:
* even if the estate was below the Federal threshhold, you might still have to pay state estate taxes. Some states don’t have any but mine taxes 6% of the FIRST dollar of the estate– no part of the $$ escaped the estate tax
* if you want to set up an “inherited” IRA to defer taxes on the IRA, this has to be done a very specific way. As I said before, take thee to a tax professional
* even if there’s no estate tax, you’ll have to file an income tax returns for the year of death (if you’re the executor) and any subsequent years where significant income is trickling in on the estate.
* keep every scrap of paper related to the inheritance and copies of any paper you send out related to that $.
Hope this helps someone from making the same mistakes I did.
June 19th, 2009 at 10:42 am
Less than a month ago, my parents won $500K (after taxes were taken out) from the state lottery. They immediately bought a brand-new-with-all-the-bells-&-whistles car. They also put $200K into annuities at one bank and another $100K into a different annuity (or CD?) at a different bank. I did some research, however, and it seems that the amount of taxes withheld from their lottery payout will NOT cover the full amount of taxes that will be due on 4/15/09. My calculation shows that they will owe another ~$28K. They can cover it (no big deal), but that’s just an example of a windfall where you do have to set aside $ for taxes.
They are already retired, so setting $ aside for that isn’t quite an issue; they just have to make it last. They also paid off the one & only loan that they had. By investing in annuities, I feel like they are taking a VERY conservative approach, but they really have to; they don’t have any more time left to recuperate any losses that might happen if they invest elsewhere.
On the VERY upside, they gave hubby & me checks to completely pay off our car loan & credit card debt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We were NOT having problems making payments (and were making significant steps to go beyond the required monthly minimums), but it would have been at LEAST until Jan 2011 until we would have paid it off.
June 19th, 2009 at 11:02 am
We got back more than expected on taxes this year ($3600). Spent 600 for fun (a couple camping trips and some new stuff for the pool), 1000 for debt, 1000 to ING account, and 1000 to local CU (not our regular one; we don’t have ATM card or anything like that for easy access) for the second half of property taxes this year that are due in November, which frees up monthly payment budgeted for property taxes to now go to debt.
June 19th, 2009 at 11:16 am
All my Windfall $$ goes to pay off debt. Once all debt is gone then to buy a home. If it covers buying a home as well then the rest (up to $5,000) is play money. Any left at this point goes to retirement.
June 19th, 2009 at 11:23 am
Any windfall before Dec 15, 2009 would go towards the mortgage. Since I’ll be mortgage free on that date, any windfall afterwards would be split evenly between the Honda Fit fund and the early retirement fund. However, as I’m destined to have to work for any money I need, I won’t be getting the Fit until Q3 2010 because only half of the money that previously went to the mortgage would go towards the Fit fund.
After Q3 2010, money will be split between the early retirement fund and another investment property.
June 19th, 2009 at 11:53 am
I received an inheritance in 2008 and paid off a HELOC, funded IRAs, put a lot of money into savings and spent a hunk on a kitchen remodel. Unfortunately, we ended up having to move for my husband’s job so the tenants have used the new kitchen more than I have (we plan on moving back to that house). Part of me regrets doing the kitchen, but the other part thinks that the house wouldn’t have commanded as much rent. We were also able to put 20% down on a new house because we had the inheritance. Because we paid off the HELOC and moved to a cheaper location, we’re able to fund our IRAs fully as well as a 401(k) and save a bunch of $ each month. So it’s kind of been the gift that keeps on giving, I guess.
June 19th, 2009 at 12:01 pm
We got an unexpected $1000 after fees were paid from a judgement that I thought we would never recover, as well as $3000 from my wife’s share of her deceased father’s life insurance policy. Our tax return refund was about $4000. They all went into our emergency fund to bolster it after we had our rental property decimate our fund when the tenant skipped and we had to pay 6 months expenses for the property mortgage and maintenance before we could get a new tenant.
Trips and other discretionary expenses are taken from earnings. If I cannot swing the expense, we don’t go.
I cannot overemphasise the importance of an emergency fund. Not having debt apart from a mortgage helps also.
June 19th, 2009 at 12:22 pm
We actually have a policy since last year with ANY windfall over $100 (after taxes):
10% - Charity
10% - “Play Money” - we keep that in an account for splurging.
40% - General savings - for emergency funds, saving up for a new car, saving up for a family vacation, etc.
40% - Investment savings - we kinda hold it in a savings account until there’s enough to use for an interesting opportunity. We don’t have any consumer debt right now (thankfully), but it could also be used for that, paying extra expenses on a rental property, or putting into our brokerage.
We used to just put half into savings and splurge on the other half, which wasn’t too terrible either. I am tempted to increase the “play” amount a bit, but I think the new policy is an improvement. I think the splurging part is important though. It’s too dang frustrating to not be able to enjoy any of it when you get bonus money like that.
June 19th, 2009 at 12:33 pm
I have two windfall stories:
First:
For the past 6 years I have received two bonuses from work annually. Each year they have been getting progressively larger. Last year, I received 40K in bonuses.
Prior to last year I was in a cycle of pay off my credit card debt and personal loans with the bonuses and then spend the rest of the year accumulating more.
Two years ago my mom pointed out to me that my bonus was more than what she made the last year at her job. And I realized I had to stop the cycle.
I’m continuing to pay off my consumer and student loan debt, but this year will be the first time that I’ll actually be putting most of my bonuses into savings, I’m really excited.
Second:
Last year I learned that I’ll be receiving less that 5K in an inheritance from my estranged father this year. I’ve already planed to set the money aside until I’ve paid my taxes and haven’t decided what to do with it after that.
On the flip side, when my younger sister found out about the inheritance, she took out a personal loan, stopped paying her rent and spent all of her money on herself. She was counting on getting the money sooner than later, and the money is coming later. Unfortunately, she is being evicted from her apartment this month, she is delinquent on her loan, she currently has no source of income and her credit score is so bad that she won’t be able to find a new place.
It pains me to see her in this situation, but she made all her choices knowing that there was no guarantee when we would get the inheritance.
June 19th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
Around ten years ago I inherited $100,000. The lawyer who handled the estate said, “My best advice is to put this somewhere safe and do not touch it.” I put it straight into the highest-paying CD I could. It is now over $130,000 in the bank. You can bet that anything I could have bought with it wouldn’t be making me feel as good as I do now with an extra $130,000 in the bank. I already had money in index funds, etc., and when the crash hit, I was very glad this money remained untouched. (Incidentally, I had no debt except my mortgage, and I paid the mortgage off without the help of the inheritance this year.) I think that unless an emergency comes along, keeping the whole windfall in a safe place and not touching it is the way to go.
June 19th, 2009 at 12:45 pm
I got a $73K inheritance earlier this year from life insurance policy. I was out of debt and saving for a car, which needed to either be fixed for more than it was worth or a needed a different car. I bought Grandma’s Car and put $5K in IRA. I gave a little to charity. The rest is in the bank while I wait. A lot of has happened in the past year … two deaths in the family, and two changes in bosses to have made work more difficult. I’m waiting for the storm to die down.
June 19th, 2009 at 2:11 pm
We don’t receive large income tax refunds because it doesn’t make sense to give the government an interest-free loan when we could use that money every month.
Regarding taxes on inheritances, I’m sure estate laws vary from state to state. However, usually any tax due is paid by the estate not by the beneficiaries. My husband is in the process of settling his father’s estate. He will have to file a final tax return for his dad from 1/1/09 to the date of his dad’s death. And then he’ll file a tax return on behalf of the estate for any income the estate earned up to the point of distribution. The amounts that my husband and his siblings will receive is not taxable to them, however.
We have each received bonuses in the past. Mine were unexpected and ranged from $5,000 to $15,000 to $25,000 (on the 25th anniversary of working for my boss). We added those amounts to our savings accounts, and they helped fund the landscaping of our backyard and an anniversary trip to Hawaii. My husband receives a check each March for the sales commissions he earned the previous year. The last several years these commissions totaled about $45,000-47,000 gross (basically about 1/3 of his total pay), about $25,000 net. The money gets added to our savings and is used for emergency fund needs and helped pay for a new roof ($11k) on our house last year. We’ve also used it to fund Roth IRAs.
My husband expects to get about $70-75k from his dad’s estate. We had talked about paying off our mortgage which now has less than five years left on it and a balance of about $50,000. However, in this economy and with me unemployed for almost two years, we may just buy some short-term CDs and keep that money safe.
My three siblings and I each inherited about $22,000 thirteen years ago from our great-uncle. They all spent the money they received on various items and paid off debt. (One sister used her money for a downpayment on a house, the other bought a baby grand piano.) Being the conservative sister that I am, and wanting to honor our uncle who as a public high school science teacher probably saved for years to accumulate the money, I parked my money in a Fidelity money market account. That money has now grown to $35,000 and is what I call our “if we both lost our jobs fund.” Combined with our bank savings, we have $70,000 in cash and could easily live for a year if my husband lost his job without having to worry about tapping into any retirement funds. To me, money means security and opportunity. I’d rather be able to sleep at night knowing we can always pay our bills no matter what, and I’d rather take a memory-filled trip than buy a new car or redecorate my house. Thankfully we don’t have any debt to pay down besides our mortage. Windfalls should be treated with respect, especially inheritances. An inheritance represents someone’s lifetime of work — don’t blow it on something stupid.
June 19th, 2009 at 2:14 pm
Two things.
1) a small splurge (probably 5%)
2) Pay off bills.
If there is anything leftover, then I’d invest it.
June 19th, 2009 at 2:18 pm
In the past I used small windfalls (my bonus was small), to bump up my 401k.
We used a profit from a house sale and all the $ we could scrape up to put a 20% downpayment on the next house. The profit was a sort of windfall.
My H became eligible to purchase stock options so we took out personal loans to buy up all the options. Then we paid the loans off with regular income. That was kind of an ‘opportunity’ windfall.
This year I inherited about $100k from life insurance policies. I put it away for some months and am in the process of investing it conservatively in a plan we agreed upon.
When we liquidate some property in the estate there may be some additional money and we will also save that. We have been talking about some small remodeling projects in our old house, so we may use some of the final estate to make that happen. We are planning to sell down the road so it would be with an eye to the market and not an all-out dream house remodel thing. We will also put aside money for taxes because there is a 4.5% state inheritance tax.
For me, the idea of setting a percentage of the windfall aside for a splurge isn’t the way I wanted to slice it. I like the idea of using the entire windfall to advance my family’s financial security. Instead, I splurged out of my regular paycheck. Usually I am striving to set money from my regular pay aside in savings, so instead I took a break from that, did some charitable giving and a bit of shopping.
June 19th, 2009 at 2:41 pm
I’m a no-fun squirrel and money is my acorn. If I got a windfall, doing anything other than running to the bank waving a deposit slip would give me heart palpitations.
June 19th, 2009 at 3:06 pm
I’m not sure tax returns should be considered “Windfalls”. I think if you get a return every year your screwing something up.
I don’t think I’ve ever received money I wasn’t expecting but I’m still young so hopefully some day soon
If/When I do get it I’d like to think I’d donate some of it. Maybe I won’t but I’d like to think I would anyway. Plus it might help with the tax situation.
June 19th, 2009 at 3:17 pm
Our “windfall” was when both DH and I inherited a nice but not life-changing sum from our parents, within a year of each other, about eight years ago. DH bought us a new (inexpensive) car, our first new car ever!
We have yours-mine-ours accounts. We both parked our inheritances separately, they were “sacred” to us because we both had very frugal parents who lived through WW2 in difficult circumstances. One day I saw an ad for a cheap 1BR apt. I thought, hmmm. Our parents really believed in real estate, it seemed like a good way to use that money and “honor” them at the same time. I said to DH, I want to do this. DH agreed immediately.
So we bought two rentals. We made some mistakes, it has definitely been a learning curve. But we bought them at a great price. One has doubled in value, the other has quadrupled (there was some paperwork to do and the previous owner couldn’t be bothered to do it. I did it. And I convinced the owner of the other, identical apartment next door to do it too, so we could split the cost. It took me 18 months, but I did it, lol.)
They are our supplemental retirement when the time comes, and one day they’ll be our kids’ “windfall”. I hope they’ll be smart with it.
There’s still some left over for college for our youngest (we’re in Europe so college is not crazy expensive here, although it’s far from free as many Americans seem to think) and some left over for the occasional vacation. But never, ever, ever for a regular bill. That money is still “sacred” to us, and it needs to be treated accordingly.
I know this may sound silly but I believe that our parents are happy about us using their money to “grow” our wealth and pass it on to our kids, the same way they did for us. We are both educated but we are both expats who but don’t earn great salaries so this “windfall” was very important to us.
June 19th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
When my uncle died 8 years ago, my grandmother was sweet enough to share part of the life insurance with my brother and me - our parents died when we were much younger and our uncle was like a father to us in many ways. I got about $15,000, which went directly into paying for my M.A. program, which I found out I got into with a 50% scholarship the day after my uncle died. This was a really good use of the money, and I’m happy I spent it that way, and I know my uncle would have approved. My grandmother paid off her mortgage with it, and who knows what my brother (18 years old at the time) did with it.
June 19th, 2009 at 3:53 pm
Speaking of windfalls, and in some cases, inheritances, I would really recommend advice an attorney once gave me. He suggested to his clients that that put age 25 when kids can inherit anything, and not 18 or even 21. There’s just a big difference re maturity from say 18 to 25, and most of us will agree. I’ll never forget when I was 35, I worked with a woman 25 and she said that she received a large inheritance from an Aunt when she was 18, but it was all gone, and if she knew then what she knew now, she wished she had the money because if so, she would have used it as a down payment on a house. I asked her what happened to that inheritance? She said she bought a brand new sports car with it, a fur coat (that was back in the day) and took a trip. She said she totaled the sports car less than a week after she bought it, (had not yet set up auto insurance), and left the fur coat on the back of a chair at a bar one night. When she went back to get it, it was gone. Anyway, here she was 25, looking back and kicking herself.
June 19th, 2009 at 4:01 pm
In 2004 I received a substantial inheritance (north of 400k once the real estate was sold). I bought a brand new Lincoln LS for cash (actually a leftover 2003, so I got a great deal), paid off the mortgage on my house, and invested the rest. Since part of the investment was going to throw off an income stream, I began maxing out my 401(k) contribution at work. That way I could use some of the taxable investment income for part of my cash flow needs while getting maximum tax benefits for retirement. I’m still maxing the 401(k), still driving the car (which I intend to keep until it’s junk), and planning to retire next year.
June 19th, 2009 at 7:55 pm
For me, my parents have been “pre-paying” my inheritance. They don’t put any strings on the gift. So what I’ve been doing is putting 2/3rds of it into my emergency fund and 1/3 of it into my travel fund. Once I get my emergency fund up to the 6-month mark, I plan to shift more of that money into the travel fund and also increase my Roth IRA contribution.
June 19th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
You could pay your bills for the next few months ahead. This would relieve much stress.
Definitely plan immediately. Tell your money where it’s going to be spent before you fritter it away.
June 20th, 2009 at 5:14 am
My wife and I recently received a windfall from her grandfather passing away. He left us approx. $2.5 million in an inherited IRA. We have to take the required minimum distribution each year, which should add a nice amount to our income. I had never heard of an inherited IRA prior to this, but I believe it is one of the best way to pass money on to future generations. Even after paying the state estate taxes, we’re left with more than enough for our retirement. That money can grow tax free for the next 30 years until we retire and we can pass any remainder onto our kids.
June 20th, 2009 at 7:30 am
I agree with Chris Brown (post # 57). I don’t believe tax returns meet the definition of “windfall”. Tax return is money you earned and basically lent the government interest free. It’s not that considering it a windfall is a bad thing, just be careful not to treat it as “found money” when in reality you worked hard for it.
As far as inheritences, it never hurts to park the money somewhere and think about the best way to use it. I’ve inherited money once in my life… my great aunt left all her grand nieces and nephews $45K each. We used most of it to pay for the half of my college that wasn’t covered by scholarship. The left over (about 15K) I used 2K to add to my stock portfolio and I have 10K earmarked for a house down payment.
June 20th, 2009 at 7:58 am
Another thought: they say that fortune favors the prepared mind. I already have a plan for the “really big” windfall, and I will know what to do when it materializes! It is this: pay off my (small) remaining amount of debt, set up enough in my retirement account to guarantee a healthy income, pay off my house, help the family out with a few things and THEN, set up a private foundation. I find that once I know my bills etc are paid, I really dont have that many expensive “wants”, and shopping per se doesn’t interest me. I already have art, nice furniture etc. In my job, I’ve noticed that a lot of foundations are run by trust lawyers and others in their 80s and 90’s-they seem to go on until they are really really old. It seems a good way to stay sharp, live long, have fun, remain engaged with the world, and do good in the process, and I look forward to running my own foundation and having fun making research grants, then setting it up to operate indefinitely after I am gone…..
June 20th, 2009 at 12:49 pm
Now that we have gotten to the point of no outstanding debt except the mortgage and have a healthy six month emergency account our views on windfalls has changed. Where before we would put it towards the cars or the CC, without these we now have a fund called ‘Mad Money’. This is money we use to buy things for ourselves or the house that are no necessities. A leaking pipe is a necessity, a new awning for the back porch is not. We setup another account at ING and put money that we receive from CC points, birthday money, bonuses, overtime, and Ebay/garage sales. There is never an enormous amount of money in there, but it has been a nice perk comparative to our regular income, which is strictly budgeted out.
Full disclosure: We have never received a large sum of money at one time (>2500). Though this year once my grandmother’s estate is settled we will inherit about 10000 dollars. We plan to stick in a savings account until we can think clearer about what to do with the gift.
June 20th, 2009 at 4:52 pm
I agree that tax refunds should not be considered windfalls.
A windfall is money that you either didn’t earn or didn’t expect. A refund is certainly earned and should be expected if you get one every year. What a refund really is is the government paying you back an interest free loan and/or a misguided forced savings scheme.
A REAL windfall would be things like receiving an inheritance, winning the lottery or finding a Rembrandt in your attic.
June 20th, 2009 at 5:29 pm
Don’t tell anyone about your windfall.
If you come into a windfall, order this guy’s book and read his columns, e.g.:
http://www.donmcnay.com/content/view/64/9/
And again, don’t tell anyone about what you’re getting, unless you want everyone and their brother helping you to spend it.
You can always help friends or family anonymously.
June 21st, 2009 at 5:39 pm
My sister and I received a generous inheritance in January. Since our only debt was our mortgages, the past few months we have been on a spending spree. But it’s making me uncomfortable to be so loose about my spending. I am now in the process of setting up the YouNeedABudget software, so that I can have a better understanding of where the money is going. I want to be sure I can be as generous to my heirs as my parents were to my sister and me.
June 21st, 2009 at 6:20 pm
Save and invest– it isn’t your income so don’t start living like it is . . .
Look at professional athletes– many end up broke. Their windfall is income, but it is a limited income. It is a lifetime’s income compressed into a short career.
June 21st, 2009 at 10:51 pm
Quick question.
Why would you have to pay tax on a lottery win????
Sassy
June 22nd, 2009 at 12:39 pm
I was recently awarded employee of the quarter with a $250 check but I can’t get myself to spend it. I thought I would buy one single thing to commemorate it like a camera but if I needed a camera, I would have already bought it before. So, I converted the check to cash and it is sitting on my desk in an envelope. I also recently sold my laptop for $400 and I don’t need another one so that makes it $650. I feel guilty spending it on myself but on the other hand, I don’t want it to be swept into the family budget.
Suggestions?
June 22nd, 2009 at 4:53 pm
I’m a big fan of not having a mortgage. I don’t have any kids, credit card debt, student loans, or car payments, and I already have a savings cushion for emergencies. So any windfalls I get (and all the extra money I have left over each month from my paycheck) go toward paying off my condo. I will have the title to this baby in two and a half years, when I’m 41.
Unlike some others here, I am not very interested in accumulating vast sums of wealth. I’m living through my third recession, and I think this one will turn into a full-on depression which we may not recover from in my lifetime. My goal, when my house is paid off, is to work less. I’m never going to have a stockpile of money big enough to retire for thirty years on - that is a pipe dream cooked up by the Social Security Administration and is far beyond the reach of the average person. But as long as I am willing to work, say, half of the year, I can spend the rest of my time taking cycling tours and enjoying life. I won’t mind work so much when I only have to do it half of the time. Plus, talk about a tax shelter - they will never be smart enough to stop taxing income, so I may as well use that to my advantage. And I believe that a marketable skill and the willingness to earn some money is a far safer investment than anything else you can put your money into today.
June 23rd, 2009 at 1:07 pm
We got about quadruple what we normally get back on our taxes this year. We put the money into our emergency fund as we don’t know what will happen with our job situations. NORMALLY, we would probably put the money into our children’s college funds so we can get those paid off earlier in the year.
June 30th, 2009 at 11:43 pm
“What advice do you have for somebody who receives a windfall?”
Coincidentally, I’ve written a post on this topic a few months ago and I’d like to share it with GRS’ readers.
How to Spend a Windfall Wisely
Cheers~
Mark
July 22nd, 2009 at 9:22 pm
What is this “windfall” you speak of and how do I receive one?