Do Experiences Lead to Greater Happiness Than Material Purchases?
Published on - July 28th, 2009 (by J.D. Roth)
The August issue of the Journal of Consumer Research arrived in my mailbox yesterday. It contains an interesting article from Nicolao, Irwin, and Goodman entitled “Happiness for Sale: Do Experiential Purchases Make Consumers Happier than Material Purchases?” This is a topic we’ve skirted at Get Rich Slowly, but never fully explored. Many readers have offered anecdotal evidence that they get more “bang for their buck” by spending money on experiences instead of Stuff.
This new research supports that idea — but only for experiences that turn out well. Good experiences do bring greater happiness to consumers than buying Stuff. But bad experiences make us more unhappy than bad purchases. From the article:
Our results replicate those of Van Boven and Gilovich (2003), showing that, for positive purchases, experiences lead to greater happiness than material purchases. Also, there is a sense in which our results support the experience recommendation because we show that on average the most happiness obtained through purchasing is likely to be obtained through experiential purchases that turn out well.
However, the experience recommendation in its pure form is incomplete. Our findings suggest that a lifetime of negative experiential purchases might lead to quite an unhappy life and furthermore that negative material purchases may not leave as much of a negative mark.
In essence — and these are my words, not those of the authors — it seems that when we pay for experience, our happiness or unhappiness is magnified. Generally, however, we have more positive experiences than negative experiences, which leads many of us to conclude that spending on experiences brings more happiness than spending on Stuff.
In the general discussion, the authors review past studies to explore reasons that buying experiences might provide greater happiness. Here are a few examples:
- Positive social interaction is a major source of happiness. Experiential purchases often involve positive social interaction.
- Some experiential purchases involve pursuing goals and obtaining a “flow” state, which has been shown to be correlated to happiness. (The authors note that even online games can produce flow. World of Warcraft can make you happy!)
- Finally, exercise increases happiness. Experiential purchases can often lead to exercise.
“Thus, positive experiences may be correlated with the basics of human happiness,” write the authors. When we buy experiences, we often inadvertently purchase things that contribute to happiness.
A new $1000 flat-screen television won’t give you social interaction, won’t help you achieve your goals, won’t give you exercise. By paying $1000 for a week-long bicycle tour of Oregon will do all three. The latter is more likely to make you happy.
A couple of other points from the article:
- Materialistic people tend to receive equal happiness from positive purchases, whether they’re experiences or material goods.
- Our feelings about a material purchase fade more quickly than they do for an experiential purchase. For example, I still feel happy about the vacation Kris and I took to Victoria, B.C., in 1998, but I’m no longer ecstatic about finding a rare Tintin book on that trip, though it pleased me greatly at the time.
As I gradually reduce the Stuff in my life, I’ve been thinking about what I can do to improve my happiness in the future, to not become so absorbed with material possessions. Kris and I have already decided that we’d like to focus on travel. I’d also like to take some classes (photography, French). Essentially, I’ve decided on a sub-conscious level that I’d rather pay for good experiences than Stuff.
Photo by Charlie Brewer.
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Fascinating to read the article & all the various responses. I must agree wholeheartedly with HW that what I paid/pay for my dogs (to get them & keep them) is without a doubt the best money I have or will ever spend. I am also one of those who buy items that offer long-lasting experience. I’ve owned my pottery wheel for more than ten years now & it has paid for itself many times over in great experiences, in artwork sales & in creating a healthier, much less stressed human. While I treasure the memories of my trips when I was younger, I revel & grow as an artist & human being through creating with the material purchases I make. Trips now are short weekends to the city to shop for art supplies, wander through galleries, & visit with other artist friends where we network & inspire each other with new ideas & creations.
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I think its the experiences that don’t happen often which make them more memorable.
I took a trip to Florida a few years ago and it is very memorable. I hadn’t been there before or since. I go to Vegas 1-2 times a year and have been there 1-2 dozen times. Vegas trips are not very memorable for me. I become accustomed to going to Vegas so it doesn’t stand out in my mind as memorable. Its almost routine to go to Vegas.
The material possessions we have are things we become accustomed to having. They are a routine part of our lives. We’re used to it so we don’t think about it. I think the real measure of how much happiness a material item brings you is whether or not you’d sell the item to pay for for an experience.
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I wrote an article on this topic a few months ago, and found another interesting study on spending. Researchers at UBC and Harvard found that people who spent money on others were happier than those who spent just on themselves. It didn’t matter if it was five dollars or a big fat bonus check. People who bought gifts or made donations reported greater long-term happiness than those who spent all the money on themselves.
I’d like to see what happens if you put that research together with these findings. In other words, are you happier buying someone an experience rather than an object?
(Here’s the press release for the study if anyone is interested: http://www.publicaffairs.ubc.ca/media/releases/2008/mr-08-032.html)
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Another point here is to focus on having a good attitude when paying for an experience. If paying for that experience magnifies your feelings about it make sure you’re mentally ready to enjoy that experience! As chacha1 and others have alluded the way you react to a situation affects how you feel about it. You can’t control the world… only your reaction to it.
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I think it’s fascinating how experiences and material possessions can affect people differently. This article makes some good points and was fun to read!
-Mike S.
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I find I’m happiest with an experience that has a small material item to trigger the memory. It doesn’t have to be lavish. For example, a Christmas ornament bought on vacation or (as I’m a shutterbug) tons of photographs.
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One notable downside to spending money on experiences is that you might become an ‘experience junkie’ and want to recreate the magic every weekend at a high expense.
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I absolutely believe purchasing experiences make me happier. My husband and I love to go to concerts, ball games, and amusement parks. We have a wonderful day and memories for a life time. I much prefer that to buying a new purse!
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