This is a guest post from Lynn, a long-time reader of personal-finance blogs. Lynn is a potential Staff Writer for Get Rich Slowly. In her first post, she explained where to find free activities and events in your area. Lynn is the CFO (Chief Financial Officer) of her family, and is working hard to increase her financial health after years of many poor financial choices.
From my toddler years on, I’ve had long hair. There were a few years when I would get it cut shoulder length, but I never ventured into short hair territory. That is, until about a month ago.
I found a cute hairstyle from the virtual salon at MarieClaire.com (you can upload your picture and try on different styles — it’s free!). I printed my new style and ventured out to the hair salon. I showed the hairdresser the picture and sat in the chair. I got an uneasy feeling in my stomach as the cape was placed around my neck.
I should have listened to my gut — it was trying to tell me something. Before I knew it I heard the scissors and she held up a long clump of my hair: “There’s no going back now.” I managed a nervous smile. No…there wasn’t.
The hairdresser was great. It took about 20 minutes for the cut and then the fancy hair product came out. She explained everything she was using so I could learn what I needed to do. First up was the root boost to give my hair some volume. Then my hair had to be dried with a hair dryer in a specific way to make the ends flip out. To give the style even more “sassiness” as the hairdresser put it, she used a curling iron to curl the ends up. Sculpting wax and hairspray locked the style in.
What did I get myself into? For the past ten years all I had to do was wash, brush and let my hair air dry. It was perfect for my busy schedule. I feel a bit embarrassed about the whole situation because I didn’t do one thing…
I didn’t really think through my purchase before I made it.
One of the best tips I have picked up from reading personal finance blogs is that I should ask myself whether something I want to purchase is a want or need. That single question has saved me from many frivolous purchases. The decision to get my hair cut passed the want or need test through some creative justification on my part (more about that in a bit).
With my haircut experience as my guide, I came up with a set of questions that I felt would help me really think through purchases - beyond the want or need aspect. My memory can be rusty at times so I needed something to help me remember them. It took a while to situate the questions and the wording, but finally I came up with an easy to remember acronym…WEALTH.
Here’s how it breaks down:
- Want or need? Even though I was looking for more questions to ask myself, this question is still important and at the top of my list. My haircut was a want, yet I ended up justifying the purchase. I convinced myself that I needed a change since I’ve had the same hairstyle for over a decade. My mind has a sneaky way of justifying things sometimes.
- Ego? Was I getting a haircut to boost my ego or keep up with the Joneses? I became fixated on the picture I printed. I thought I would look more attractive with the shorter cut. In hindsight, I didn’t appreciate what I did have with my long hair.
- Add-ons? The haircut itself was one expense, but I didn’t take into account the added cost of hair product. The product ended up costing as much as the cut - doubling the amount I originally planned to spend.
- Lifestyle? I thought short hair would be easier to handle than long hair. Oops! I should have done more research and asked the hairdresser what was needed to maintain my style even before I sat in the chair. I’m a wash-n-go type of gal, and my new haircut is far from that.
- Time? Is the purchase a one time thing or will there be multiple purchases in the future for upkeep? To maintain my haircut, the hairdresser recommended coming back to the salon every six weeks. A $25 haircut was going to be over a $200/year expense (my previous expense was once every few years since I trimmed my own hair). That’s not even counting the cost of replenishing hair product after it runs out.
- Happiness? My haircut is cute, but the happiness started to fade the first time I tried to recreate the style on my own. My little pic used for the audition here at Get Rich Slowly was taken right after I got home from the salon - my hair never looked the same again. It didn’t take long for frustration to set in and I found myself spending way too much time getting ready in the mornings. I would rather do other things during that time.
The WEALTH acronym has already come in handy. A relative was selling a canoe in excellent condition that would fit our entire family. It has been a want of ours for some time, but the price was such a great deal ($150) that the want versus need question was teetering. After going through the other questions, there were add-ons to consider (canoe carrier for our vehicle, extra oars, etc.) and I wondered how much a canoe would affect our happiness. After all, we had a problem spending money in the past on things we thought we would use for family fun but rarely did.
In the end, we didn’t make the purchase and the WEALTH acronym had its first success story. Hopefully there will be many more to come - including when it is applied to my next hairstyle — I’m letting this one grow out
Haircut image via shoothead.
This article is about Hints and Tips, Money Hacks Wednesday, 12th August 2009 (by J.D. Roth)


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August 12th, 2009 at 5:20 am
This article brings up a great point in that sometimes we forget that the initial purchase is just the start and that future costs are also present in the form of upkeep, maintenance and add-ons.
These extras that we don’t think about can sometimes get us in trouble. For example, many people bought houses they thought they could afford; however, they didn’t take property taxes, maintenance and utilities into account.
Nice Article.
-Gen Y Investor
August 12th, 2009 at 5:35 am
This post reflects all the reasons I am letting my hair grow out long. I wash and air dry now, but it’s not long enough for me to cut myself. That’ll change eventually (boy, but hair does grow slow when you want it long; when you keep it short, it seems to grow like a weed).
I think owning cars is another example. Sure, you can afford the car, possibly, but can you afford the insurance, gas, maintenance, etc.? I was never prepared for an expensive repair. I hated owning cars, so I gave up and moved to a town with really good transit.
Every so often, I rent a car when I have a long weekend. I’ll take a trip to the coast for a day or two, and while I have the car, I’ll make use of it by running errands for large items, like several containers of kitty litter and jumbo packs of toilet paper. And it’s always bittersweet to take the car back, and I usually fantasize about getting a car again, musing that it would make my life easier, but your acronym is just the thing to keep that desire away.
August 12th, 2009 at 5:42 am
I keep my hair long for the same reasons - low maintenance and no cost other than shampoo and the very occasional clip or scrunchie, which last a long time! Wash and go, I can even put it up still wet in a clip. I don’t wear make-up either, or lotion or perfume, or nail polish, or lots of jewelry, or any of the other things so many people are convinced they can’t live without. And I have still managed to climb the corporate ladder quite successfully, so don’t listen to people who say you can’t. As long as you and your clothes are neat, ironed, clean, and coordinated, you’ll be recognized for what you do, not how you look.
August 12th, 2009 at 5:43 am
One thing that isn’t specifically mentioned in the article is consulting an expert. In this case, the hairdresser. Even though you did your own research, it’s a good idea to consult an expert before taking the plunge because they might think of something you didn’t… in this case, the maintenance.
From the sounds of it, you may have needed the change… unfortunately it was just the wrong one for you.
August 12th, 2009 at 5:51 am
Outstanding article, Lynn. Really great stuff!
August 12th, 2009 at 5:57 am
Wow, this was a great article. The story was apt and poignant, the content was concise and stayed on point, and her acronym made sense and didn’t feel as contrived as many do (PATRIOT act, anyone?). She even backed it up with another short, relevant story at the end.
This is an example of some great writing, in my opinion.
August 12th, 2009 at 6:09 am
I agree with Lesley, and would like to add that making sure you trust the expert and are up-front with him or her about your needs is important as well. My stylist is amazing, and she knows that I don’t blow-dry, curl, or spend more than 5-10 minutes on my hair. (She also knows I use the cheapest drug-store products available.)
When I told her I wanted to go short, she created a short cut that not only looks amazing and takes minimal effort (I still air-dry it), but also grows out well so I can maximize my time between cuts. Best part is I absolutely love it and it looks better on me than my long, blah hair did.
I think your acronym and thinking is good, but I want to make sure people don’t believe that you need to have long hair in order to have easy, cheap hair. There are smart ways to do both without sacrificing money, time, or appearance!
August 12th, 2009 at 6:15 am
Another super post! I find this really applies to me, because I ALSO recently started going to a salon after a lifetime of keeping my hair long and trimming it myself. I actually like my hair now, but I have been making compromises. The stylist told me I would need to come back every 6 weeks, and I told her I could only come back every 8-12 weeks, depending on finances.
August 12th, 2009 at 6:20 am
Really great post. I love the acronym and it really takes into account all of the possible costs - financial & otherwise - hidden in a purchasing decision.
This is a tip that I know I’ll be applying to my own life. Thanks!
August 12th, 2009 at 6:30 am
It’s very important to consider the costs of ownership. The purchase price of my car now comes to somewhat less than $1000 per year, so the considerable majority of the money it has cost me has been for insurance, repairs, and fuel. I’m sure both my boats have cost me more in storage fees and accessories than purchase price, and I haven’t even bought new sails for either of them yet. Very much worth it (and they’re both in dry storage, about $80 a month for the two of them), but certainly a consideration. And with a house, you typically wind up spending more in interest than the nominal purchase price (if you stay in it until it’s paid off), never mind the new roofs and plumbing repairs and the like.
August 12th, 2009 at 6:56 am
Another incident that I can personally relate to is gym memberships. Two years ago I bought a three year gym membership for $50 a month. My stupid twenty year old self didn’t spend the time following the steps in the WEALTH acronym.
Now I find that I can achieve great workout results with simple one time investments: a pull up bar, some dumbbells, and my bike, which I’ve had since I was 9 years old. The only real recurring expense would be my running shoes, which I would have to buy while having my membership anyway. I also do a lot of workouts without weights: push ups, pull ups, chin ups, and many variations of crunches, which are all obviously free.
I also found that I don’t really enjoy the gym atmosphere. I feel like I’m in a giant box full of social conditioning with these words buzzing in my head, “Go to the gym, because it’s what you’re supposed to do!!”
One more year and I can get rid of that stupid membership. (They won’t let me cancel unless I move, I tried)
August 12th, 2009 at 6:58 am
I’ve really been blown away by most of these audition posts, but this definitely hits the top 3. My wife and I will definitely be incorporating WEALTH into our monthly budget meetings and occasional impulse-buying situations.
August 12th, 2009 at 6:58 am
Great acronym! I’ll be using it a lot, I can already tell.
August 12th, 2009 at 7:00 am
This is a fun article
I like the acronym. A lot of my buddies have a fear though that as soon as they marry their girlfriend, they will chop their hair off…. what do the ladies have to say to that?
One friend was so traumatized by his new wife’s haircut, I think he broke up with her because of it! She had chopped her hair so short, that when the lights were turned off, her silhouette looked like a guy and they divorced a year later!!!
For guys, the best investment is a set of clippers for $19.99 at Walgrees/Walmart. Buz everything off yourself every two weeks and save thousands in our lifetimes
Best,
RB
RB30RB40
August 12th, 2009 at 7:03 am
I like the “add-ons” part. There is a cost to cluttering up your life and this addresses it perfectly.
August 12th, 2009 at 7:05 am
hi JD,
Great post! Although I am loosing my hair and pretty soon won’t need haircuts, I still understand the difference between a NEED and a WANT. Not understanding that is what gets a lot of people in financial trouble. Your acronym is great! ~ Justin Show
August 12th, 2009 at 7:05 am
I love the post and have passed the WEALTH acronym onto my husband.
One thing that was not mentioned was the importance of appearance in creating income. You got your haircut for the interview - this may or may not have boosted your chances at GRS, but in many industries an up-to-date look is important for raises, promotions or sales. I opt to spend some money on keeping up my hair (I found a no-frills place that does it relatively cheaply) because I know I present better when I feel better about my looks.
Just a thought. I know there is a balance, but I’d rather eat spaghetti once a week so I can still keep my highlights up.
August 12th, 2009 at 7:07 am
Good writing and good advice!
Each person has different priorities, so long hair is not the answer for everyone - although it is very easy. I feel better when my hair looks more “professional” so I have made a choice to spend more in this area. On the other hand, I don’t watch TV, so that part of my budget is $0. Everyone is different.
The WEALTH acronym works for all those different areas. Good advice.
August 12th, 2009 at 7:08 am
Even with telling my hairdresser for years to cut my hair REALLY short and that I wouldn’t ever style it, she couldn’t get it into her head. Nor could many other hairdressers. It drove me crazy… but sometimes I would buy the recommended product — they last me many many years, because I never remember to use them.
Earlier this summer I didn’t want to spend any of my blow money on a haircut (it’s a want), so I asked my husband to use the longest attachment on the clippers — he cut my hair, it looked fine, it was free, and I cut my two little boys hair with it too. I was delighted with the savings. My husband was the only one who opted to get a “professional” cut (at SuperCuts) and he said he wished he’d had me do his hair too.
I love having short hair, I never style it, and I think it looks cute, as does my husband.
@RB, I don’t understand why men would care (especially to the point of divorce) about the length of their wife’s or girlfriend’s hair. I’d have to assume that even without the long hair there were other parts of the woman that made her feminine.
August 12th, 2009 at 7:17 am
Enjoyed this one very much. This is what frugality is all about, assessing value before buying. And value comes with many factors. The WEALTH acronym boils it down very well.
Thanks!
August 12th, 2009 at 7:20 am
Loved this article! I agree with other comments that the “Add-ons” consideration is really important. Makes me think of some (especially young people) who confuse the need for transportation with the need for a car. Maybe they can afford the monthly payment, but when you factor in insurance, gas, upkeep, etc, it gets really expensive. Comparing that to a public transportation pas with no add-ons, and the occasional rent-a-car or taxi, and some might realize that a car is not a need.
Also reminds me of when I got highlights in my hair for my wedding. After they started growing out they looked bad so I tried to dye my hair to its natural color so it would grow out natural. But I did a terrible job myself and had to get it professionally dyed and cut again. Just like Lynn, my the one-time highlighting was doubled in cost by upkeep!
August 12th, 2009 at 7:23 am
Great Great Great article. WEALTH would have come in handy when we just spent over $200 on Halloween decorations (yes in August). We collect Lemax Halloween houses, and we made the mistake of going into the store that sells them this weekend. They were ALL so adorable!! And out of fear of them not being there in October (or even next year), we spent $200 we didn’t have. We paid with cash though, not CC, and we can make it up in the next 2 months, but it’s still $200 that could have gone towards our snowball. I am going to print this article out for my husband and keep a copy of the definitions of WEALTH in my wallet.
Thanks for the wonderful insight. This is just the kind of thing I really needed to read right now!!
Thanks!
Rachel
August 12th, 2009 at 7:25 am
Thanks for a terrific post! I can relate, often having not thought purchases through all the way, and paid dearly for it. I have short-ish hair (almost to my shoulders) and am trying to grow it long again. My hairdresser often ignores my request to just give it a trim to clean it up, and snips away all my hard “work” at growing it back.
I got so frustrated the other day that in desperation, I trimmed my own bangs and the crown of my head. It worked! It may not be perfectly beautiful, but it cost me zip and is allowing me to grow my hair again. If you want to grow it out, be patient and get yourself some headbands, barettes, combs, or whatever you need to get you through the awkward, re-grow stage. Good luck!
August 12th, 2009 at 7:29 am
Great post and could really relate to Lynn’s experience as I’ve had similar ones more times than I can count. Unfortunately, unlike Paige, I have rarely found a stylist who understands hair. Of course living overseas and moving around every three years has something to do with it, but even when I was in Tokyo and Canberra, and paying quite lot, it was no easy feat to find a stylist who really knows how to style.
I love the WEALTH acronym. I’ve already become much more frugal since discovering GRS, and will add WEALTH to my arsenal in my fight against mindless spending. Thanks, Lynn!
August 12th, 2009 at 7:30 am
The WEALTH acronym is right on the money, but I think that it (along with all other matters of rationality) fade away when vanity is at stake.
It’s too easy to tell ourselves that by looking better, this and that will improve in our lives and you just can’t put a price on it.
I’ve been thinking about that clippers idea that RB mentioned at comment 14. That would save about $150. But vanity prevents me from actually doing it.
August 12th, 2009 at 7:31 am
Great post, Lynn! I like your acronym and plan to use it when my husband and I are thinking about decision-making.
I’m fortunate in that shorter hair is easier for me to maintain than longer hair in the sense of wash and wear. (My hair is curly, so it styles itself.) But when I got my hair cut off from very long to pretty dang short, I admit I was thinking, “I’ll save so much on not buying hair products!,” and I didn’t think about the fact that I had to get very regular trims till I’d already gotten it chopped off. Oops.
August 12th, 2009 at 7:38 am
I like the idea, but that is too much for me to remember.
August 12th, 2009 at 7:45 am
It’s interesting to see several people acknowledge that long hair can be less maintenance than short. I have very long hair and often have a hard time convincing people that it’s not as much work as they imagine. I wash it every other day at night, it dries by morning, I brush it and then it takes me about 2 minutes to put it up. It’s a few minutes more if I want to braid it or do another style. Ladies with short hair who bleach it, dye it, blow dry it, straighten it, etc. spend a LOT more time on their hair than I do.
I also want to mention that my hair in an up-do looks very polished and professional. I don’t look out of date or not kept up, and I get lots of compliments.
~Johannah
August 12th, 2009 at 7:46 am
RB, you crack me up! I actually lucked out. My sister is a fabulous hair stylist — so I get that done for free! As along as I have been in my professional career, I have never paid for a hair cut. If I didn’t have my sister around, I would probably chop it all off as you suggest!
I am normally pretty good about not making a purchase unless I either need it - or want it REALLY bad. I walk away for a week, and if I still have the desire for the purchase - I pull the trigger. Of course this is after I have thought about the extent of hapiness it will bring - also what utility it provides etc. My want purchases almost always have to do with something that will make my life easier.
If I pull the trigger, I negotiate the heck out of the deal as well…. Always pay cash and it’s unbelievable the “sales” that come out of nowhere
August 12th, 2009 at 7:50 am
Nice post and I can relate to it, since I just had a haircut yesterday:-)
I have always had shoulder length hair and since its dry, I have to have a haircut every month:-( But I usually go once every 2 weeks. I got a coupon from Great clips for $6.99 so I did not regret:))
While at the salon, my hairdresser tried to sell me hair products saying my hair is dry blah blah…But the ‘Matrix Biolage’products are expensive!!!! I told her I’d come back and I did some research and found out that these products ‘eventually’ dry out the hair even more. So I dismissed the thought and saved some bucks:))
I guess I’d stick to Mayonnaisse and hot oil treatments..Thats cheap:))
August 12th, 2009 at 7:50 am
Great article, and great acronym. Add-ons, in particular, can really get you. I pay $130 per month for tae kwon do classes, which at $15 a class is pretty good. What I didn’t know going in was that…every time you take the test for a new belt, it’s another $60! (that’s every 2-4 months) Then you have to buy a second uniform if you want to enter the Black Belt club. And don’t forget about sparring gear—helmet, padding, etc. $130 a month is worth it to me for exercise and fun, but the rest is like a black hole of costs! I may stay a yellow belt forever…
August 12th, 2009 at 7:57 am
My first impression of Lynn wasn’t too great. I liked that she had experience in good and perhaps more importantly - bad - financial decisions. However, it came off, at least to me, very pretentious when she described herself as “CFO” of her family. Kinda like when a guy is the self-proclaimed “president” of his family.
With that said, this article really hit it home! I love the acronym and found it had more validity than most acronyms made up that seem much more forced. Also, I love how your story accounts for the time and money involved AFTER the original purchase! This is what many many people do not factor in with their purchases. I’d love an iPhone. Would it be worth the ~200-300 (Not sure what they go for nowadays with a plan) to me, by all means yes! But is it worth another $40 for the data plan every month? Sad to say it’s not worth $960 over a two year contract - at least not yet. So, I have stuck with an ipod touch.
Good work Lynn! WEALTH is something I will consider more often because of your article =)
PS to #4 - She did mention that she should have consulted the expert, but it wasn’t as prominently displayed as it perhaps should have been. I do agree this is an important step!
“Lifestyle? I thought short hair would be easier to handle than long hair. Oops! I should have done more research and asked the hairdresser what was needed to maintain my style even before I sat in the chair…”
August 12th, 2009 at 7:57 am
My favorite paragraph:
One of the best tips I have picked up from reading personal finance blogs is that I should ask myself whether something I want to purchase is a want or need. That single question has saved me from many frivolous purchases
The same applied to my GPS purchase - which I eventually cancelled (and saved myself about $250)
August 12th, 2009 at 8:07 am
Last time I got my hair cut I was sitting in the chair staring at all the products for sale. One bottle caught my eye as it mentioned “trauma” on it.
August 12th, 2009 at 8:10 am
The trap of add-ons and accessories seems to exist in just about any purchase you can make these days. Products and services are cleverly designed to be less than “all-inclusive,” getting you on board with a reasonable price and then upselling for all the bells and whistles.
The line between what you need and what you’d like can often be a blurry one that can be rationalized any direction with a little bit of effort. Drawing it clearly in the sand before you’re in a position to be sold to can be a very helpful exercise.
August 12th, 2009 at 8:11 am
I really like this acronym. I just wrote it down (and the word or two description for each letter)and put it in my wallet to remind me the next time I make a purchase!
What a great idea, thanks! I never really think beyond the initial cost, and this is a great way to remind myself.
August 12th, 2009 at 8:21 am
@Lesley - Yes, an expert would have definitely helped. Since I rarely went to a hairdresser, I didn’t have a relationship with one established. The woman I received my cut from was great so when I do go for my next cut - she has my business!
@RB @ RichBy30RetireBy40 - My husband and I were married for almost 10 years before I cut my hair. He supported my decision 100%, although it took a while for all of us to get used to it.
@steamincuppaliz - My hair was cut before the opportunity at GRS, but it was cut shortly after a change in my job. That’s probably where the seed in my head was planted that I needed a hairstyle change.
@Hogan - My hair just began the awkward stage and barrettes are my new best friends
@Marco K - Another commenter on my first audtion article mentioned how CFO sounded rather pretentious and after thinking about it for a while - I agree! This whole auditon process has been a great experience for me. JD has wonderful readers and I thank everyone for your input!
I’m glad many of you enjoyed this one. I hope it helps!
August 12th, 2009 at 8:21 am
Thank you for this post. Not only have you helped me decide to keep my shoulder length hair (thanks again on that - I refuse to spend more then 5 minutes on my hair), but you have given me a guideline to keep my spending in line. It’s funny how seemingly small things can lead to a lot of extra money! I recently went back to my natural hair color in order to save money. I haven’t looked back since!
Good luck with the contest. I’ve enjoyed your articles the most so far. I seem to identify the most with your writing and with your situation! Keep the great articles coming!
August 12th, 2009 at 8:28 am
I keep my hair at shoulder length, let it air-dry the nite before, then flat iron it in the morning, which doesn’t take long at all. I wash my hair every 3 days and for shampoo, I use whatever is cheap (seriously doesn’t matter), then once out of the shower, use a spray, leave-in conditioner, and that’s it. I know that I save a small fortune, not buying expensive hair products, and I always get compliments on my hair. At the salons, they use 14 different things on your hair, hoping you’ll buy a couple of them, but I never do.
August 12th, 2009 at 8:44 am
You seem to have trouble distinguishing a “want” from a “need”. You acknowledge now that the haircut was a want, but say that at the time you thought it was a need. You also say that the price of a canoe was almost able to sway you from calling it a want to a need. The price of an item doesn’t affect how much you need it.
I can understand the trouble you might have here — sometimes we’ll think we need something more than we really do because we want them so badly. But then, the conclusion you seem to draw is that you had a failure in judgement by purchasing a “want” in the haircut, and a success by rejecting the canoe. The implication is that, to be successful with this strategy, you have to never buy anything that doesn’t fall into the “need” category.
Going back to my first sentence, I find this to be a problem with any “want” vs “need” personal finance strategy: There’s absolutely no way to assign things to the “want” or “need” category except completely on a whim. Almost everything people end up calling “needs” is unnecessary for survival, and the reason is they decided to call it a “need” is because they *really* want it.
Here in the US, there is almost no problem at all with a lack of necessities for anyone. Even the poor (barring the mentally disturbed) are usually well-fed (even fat) and clothed. Everything on top of this is a luxury to one extent or another, and so all of our purchasing decisions are really a prioritization of wants a lot more than they are a decision between wants and needs.
It’s also a lousy basis for decisions because you will not actually sacrifice a need for a want. You are not going to starve to death while enjoying your new canoe. You’re not going to freeze this winter because you opted for a new TV instead of heat. Those are decisions that we will not make. Every discretionary purchase is a want, so this distinction between “want” and “need” isn’t useful. Prioritize your wants if you wish, and focus on specific ones, but don’t claim that you can’t survive without whatever it is you’re buying.
August 12th, 2009 at 9:01 am
Still not my favourite applicant, but good article.
@Sunandshine - If you hair is dry enough that you have to get it cut every 2-4 weeks, try coconut oil. It seriously helps with dry hair. Put it on your hair and leave it on as long as you possibly can before your shower (yes, you will smell like coconut!); even a half hour works wonders. Then shampoo as normal to wash it out.
@Lynn - you can easily get a short haircut that requires only the amount of effort you put into your previous long hair style. Just as for one that doesn’t require your hair to be flipped, straightened/curled (depending on your natural hair type) or gelled into place. Wash, air dry, and go. It’ll probably be a lot quicker to air dry as well (mine was, when I went from waist-length to pixie-cut)!
August 12th, 2009 at 9:03 am
Overall, I liked this article a lot. I definitely have learned through mistakes to take into account all the aspects of a potential purchase.
On to the short vs. long hair debate. I used to have very long hair (below my butt) and now I have very short hair (1″-2″ long for the most part). I’ve also had cuts in various stages inbetween. It is possible to have cuts at all lengths that require almost no maintenance. It is also possible to have cuts that take a lot of energy to maintain. My current hairstyle takes me two minutes to style with a little surf gel.
The positive with having really short hair is that it takes less time to wash, dry and requires a LOT less product. The negative is that you have to get it trimmed more often. The positive with having longer hair is that there’s more ways to wear it, and (at least for me) when you wake up, it isn’t so messed up that you have to get it wet to style it. The negative is that you tend to end up spending more money on hair accessories, brushes and clips.
I don’t think the mistake in this account was in going short vs. going long. It was in going short with a specific hairstyle that required a lot more upkeep. If I tried to go long and curly with my hair, it would take me an insane amount of time between drying, curling and setting my hair each morning. But because my hair naturally falls into place with my short cut, I literally can wash and go.
August 12th, 2009 at 9:08 am
Great article Lynn, I enjoyed this much more than the first one. Nice practical example with a very practical acronym to help us remember!
August 12th, 2009 at 9:12 am
@Tyler - you know I find this whole want vs. need thing overtalked about (btw, judgment is spelled w/out the e), because it’s human nature to talk ourselves into purchases. So instead, maybe we should just zero in on what our values really are, factor those into our budget, then forget about the rest, knowing our values will be met. (If people still insist on the want vs. need thing to help them curtail spending, they could change those words instead to essential vs. not essential, as in: is this purchase essential? That way it’s harder to talk yourself into it. (I agree with your that wants vs. needs tend to get blended).
August 12th, 2009 at 9:19 am
The acronym is interesting, but I’m not sure how much I’ll use it, honestly. I’m pretty good at admitting when something’s just a want, though it’s, “I need this!” a lot to me. Right now, on my “must buy” list is an oversized cocktail ring… Clearly a want, but at $4, I’m not going to chide myself if I get one.
I guess maybe the key is having some money to devote to just wants? A slush fund of sorts? When I find something I can’t live without, I have a savings account for those unexpected wants. Funny enough, I rarely use it…
August 12th, 2009 at 9:20 am
I think thinking things thru is all part of growing up, in my case anyway. I dyed my hair a few years back and did not think about the upkeep. After many hundreds of dollars of maintenance I just decided to cut my hair short and grow it back to the way it was originally. A LOT of time and money. I think your short cut is hardly something you should regret unless you actually hate the cut itself. I think it’s fairly normal to spend $200+ a year in a salon (I spend $200 a year too - but only on 2 cuts + conditioning treatments. I go to a good salon since I only go twice a year, and make it a treat), and to use *some* styling products. When I go to the hairdresser these days I definitely think about upkeep, so I keep my hair long with long layers.
It’s just about thinking things through, acronym or no acronym (although WEALTH is pretty creative). Even with something as simple as buying new clothes, you have to look at the labels and ask yourself if you really want to hand wash or dry clean. Always think purchases through and then you won’t have buyer’s remorse or be stuck with something you weren’t prepared for in the first place.
I don’t think this post is so much about wants vs. needs, but about whether you REALLY want something after you’ve thought it thru completely.
August 12th, 2009 at 9:26 am
It also depends on what kind of hair you have. I have very fine, thin, oily hair. It has to be washed daily (twice if I’m going out in the evening), but it takes no time to air-dry. I’ve tried wearing it long, but the last six inches is all split ends, and when I pull it back in a ponytail it breaks off so I wind up with lots of little out-of-control wisps in my face. Fortunately, I inherited my father’s hair color rather than my mother’s and it is going grey in a reasonably slow and attractive fashion, so I don’t feel obligated to do anything about the color. I found a stylist who has similar hair, and who accepts that I’m never going to spend an hour in the bathroom in the morning, and I get it cut every six to eight weeks depending on schedule and budget, at $35 including tip.
August 12th, 2009 at 9:34 am
This post was excellent because it had an actionable element. I will try to ask myself these questions the next time I am making a purchase.
August 12th, 2009 at 9:44 am
Interesting and timely. I’ve been going with the buzz cut for four years now, haven’t had to pay for a hair cut because my wife does it. And I do this year round even though we live in Buffalo, with extremely harsh winters.
I was just thinking yesterday that, feeling a bit old, what would happen if I grew it out and went with a little dye job to make it more platinum blonde (i have dark brown hair). But now, taking the acronym into consideration, I realize that I would have to go in frequently to re-dye since my dark roots would show in quick, plus spend a fair bit on color-safe shampoos and gels to style my hair…none of which are needed with a buzz cut. So, I guess this article just saved me several hundred dollars a year, thanks.
-Charley
August 12th, 2009 at 9:54 am
RB- Um, what? Is this a thing, women keeping their hair long to snare a man and then chopping it off after the wedding? I don’t really think a woman’s hair length is linked to her femininity, and even if it is I’d like to think most guys would care about a woman for more than her shiny locks. If your friend really ended his marriage over a haircut, he sounds extremely shallow and a bit sexist and homophobic. I’m sure you meant your comment in a joking manner, but I personally find it a bit off color.
August 12th, 2009 at 10:07 am
Dictionaries seem to find both “judgement” and “judgment” acceptable, although the former may look slightly more British.
I agree though, I have never used “want vs. need” as a deciding factor for a purchase. I prioritize certain things (utilities, housing, savings, health insurance, etc.) and whatever is leftover is just “discretionary”, and I can decide to spend it on anything I like — I make no pretense that any of the things in this category might be “needs”.
August 12th, 2009 at 10:13 am
Thanks, Lynn for the post. I’ll keep the acronym in mind however to echo Tyler in #40, we spend too much time debating wants vs. needs. For example, a few months ago I decided to have a Brazillian wax for the first time in my life and I so loved it. As such, it’s now a “need”. Hmmm….it’s also an added cost since I have to go to the spa every 4-5 weeks. This is a need now (to me) but to some people it could as well be a want. I think if we stuck to identifying needs as “basic needs” e.g shelter, food, clothing, we wouldn’t be spending time on these blogs. However, questions would still arise as to how much shelter space can be defined as a need or want, i.e why can’t a family of four live in such and such square feet instead of bigger space?
I think we spend too much time on personal finance blogs examining stuff and then try to justify or promote our theories to those who may give us audience e.g needs vs. wants. By the way, a few days ago I asked a friend whether taking baths (spending money on bubble bath) was a want. You see, I was a shower girl for the longest time until I started hanging out with this girl who always takes baths. She probably has a long luxurious bath everyday. It has rubbed off on me after months of hearing her say, “Then I had a nice long warm bath…I was so relaxed…” For me right now it’s more costly than I had assumed since I never get the products on sale yet they run out quite fast. So, that’s my other “need” now.
Anyway, let’s enjoy our lives as much as possible while being responsible with our finances. Needs vs. wants differ from person to person.
Thanks a lot Lynn!
August 12th, 2009 at 10:24 am
There’s that key thought: Want vs. Need. And opportunity to get something that is usually otherwise expensive, at a steal is so tempting it’s hard to decipher whether this is really a want or need. Great article!
August 12th, 2009 at 10:41 am
I like this post! It is the first guest post that I’ve immediately thought I should share with someone else.
My first thought was actually our “free” cat. What cat is free? The first thing I did after we got that cat was go to PetCo and buy a ton of stuff and then called the vet and spent even more! LOL
As for the CFO title, I’m not put off by it at all. I’ve often described myself as the CFO (and CIO and others) of my household, but that DH is the CEO with a final approval of all matters. I think the tongue-in-cheek nature of the title implies that she has conscious control of her family’s money where as many people are just spending on the family CC with idea how it is getting paid!
August 12th, 2009 at 10:42 am
brilliant! I like that you delve in deeper than the often-used “want vs need” level.
August 12th, 2009 at 10:47 am
Great article and the 2nd one of yours that I’ve had to bookmark for later reference. Thank you so much!
August 12th, 2009 at 10:48 am
I have had short hair most of my adult life. I found long hair to be a PITA (and my husband thinks it looks better short.) I have had the same hair stylist for 34 years. I get my haircut every 2-3 months at $40 a pop. He knows that any haircut he gives me had better be totally carefree. I haven’t used a blow-dryer in over 30 years now and if I have to do more than comb my hair after I’ve washed it, the haircut fails. “Product?” No thank you.
August 12th, 2009 at 11:03 am
The do-it-yourself guys save money, but they lack professional relationships. Now, I am not sure how good was the relationship between Lynn and this particular hairdresser, but if you use a service once a decade you cannot know many good service providers first-hand. You can seek recommendations from friends, but for personal things like hair-cut, experience etc., recommendations don’t work that well. Maybe if Lynn had a good relationship with this hair-dresser, she might have conversationally discussed the outcome of the hair-cut a bit more before plunging into this fiasco.
I don’t want to say do-it-yourself is bad, or that this disadvantage is particularly serious (I wish I knew less lawyers than I do
). But this is a point that DIYers shouldn’t forget whether they are DIY food growers/hair cutters/gardeners etc.
August 12th, 2009 at 11:04 am
Tyler, perhaps “wants/needs” are too general for pf discussion. They could mean just about anything.
Perhaps “necessary/unnecessary for my lifestyle” is a better way to put it.
For example your family might own 3 cars - if one of them breaks down then you probably “need” to fix it. Can you get by without it? Probably. Is it necessary for survival? Of course not. Does it make sense to fix it? I’d say yes.
I agree “prioritization” is the answer. You have to figure out what your priorities are and how they fit in your budget and with your financial goals and then make your decisions. At that point you don’t have to justify anything.
August 12th, 2009 at 11:16 am
Excellent post - concise, actionable, and catchy (though I’ll have to study WEALTH a little more to remember what all the points are). Relatable stories are the key to good how-to posts, IMHO.
August 12th, 2009 at 11:24 am
I don’t know whether it has been mentioned, but I wonder whether the products she used on your hair were available for purchase at the salon. They’re not just hairdressers, they’re sales people. Of course they’re going to recommend the products they sell!
I agree with the other posters who said you shouldn’t regret your new style unless you hate it. There are plenty of frugal ways of maintaining short hair. Cheaper products are available at drugstores and supermarkets (although sometimes more expensive products last longer because they’re more concentrated and you use less). Plus it’s cheaper if you get trainees to cut your hair, or go to a beauty school and let a student cut your hair. The students are usually in their final year (so not begginners/amateurs) and need people for demonstrations when they are being examined. I take a picture with me of how my hair was originally cut so they know how I want it to look again and I usually pay around $5-10.
August 12th, 2009 at 11:48 am
One thing you didn’t stress was alternatives. Ideally when I find myself wanting something new, I try to figure out why, and then try to think of all the different ways I could achieve that goal.
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I wish it were easier ahead of time to figure out if we really would like something. Isn’t it hard to really think through every aspect of something? Or even to know yourself? Most of us have some things we thought we’d use but didn’t (not to mention the things we hoped we’d use but didn’t). And we’ve probably also gotten things that turned out to be much more awesome than we ever expected.
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As we go through life, we do learn what some of our particular weaknesses are. For example, I’ve learned to research durability before buying many kinds of things. I’ve learned not to buy things that would be hard to clean and maintain. I’ve learned to buy only clothes that go with things I already own. And that have pockets. So now these are things I automatically ask myself before buying.
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You inspired me to make my own list of things to ask myself. Here it is:
* Cost - price plus maintenance in money and time and stress
* Value – how this would change my life, how often I would (actually) use it, whether I should hold out for something I love more
* Alternatives – whether I can make something I already have work, whether I could rent or borrow, whether something completely different would satisfy my urge
* Research – test drive, comparison shop, find reviews, seek advice
Mine has a pretty terrible acronym, though! I could change “Value” to “Happiness,” and then at least it would be a word, but not a very motivating word. Re-ordering the issues to spell ARCH wouldn’t help much either.
August 12th, 2009 at 12:18 pm
Love the post and the acronym. Thanks for the reminder!
August 12th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
Keep in mind though that hairdressers are trying to sell you more products, usually from their salon.
Obviously, when you let your hair grow, they can’t tell you that you need this and that (conditionner, special product for the ends so they don’t fork, etc).
It’s when you have it cut that they get you.
I don’t get my hair cut in salons anymore (I do it myself), but when I did, I always refused their products, and my hair didn’t suffer from it. You can have short hair and not use anything but shampoo. Actually, you have less to do when you have short hair because it dries so fast and you don’t need to brush it or anything.
So to me, it’s more of another problem: learning to say no when they have you trapped on the chair. They know most people will say yes, so they push the products. You expect it from a car dealer, but not from a hairdresser, so you tend to have your guard down.
It’s a good thing to stay prepared in all occasions.
Otherwise, that acronym seems very complete to me, especially the add-on part… But you have to remember, too, that some “add-ons” aren’t necessary at all (like the products they sold you at that salon) and are actually a different purchase.
August 12th, 2009 at 1:03 pm
It’s a good idea to talk about your lifestyle before making a major hairstyle change. If you don’t want to spend more than five minutes on your hair or if you can’t operate a flat iron to save your life, tell the stylist so he or she can suggest something low-maintenance.
@Amber–I like to say that my parent’s cat is the most expensive free kitten. He was a stray who needed medical attention for two fractures, then came down with an infection, then got another one.
August 12th, 2009 at 1:12 pm
I liked this post, it’s cool to see something like a haircut described as a “want” rather than a “need”… as in, “I really need a haircut”.
August 12th, 2009 at 1:15 pm
Love the acronym!! Definitely something I’ll keep in mind for future purchases. Last Xmas, we spent $$ on snowshoes for the whole family thinking we’d use them a lot in family time activities, but they’ve mostly hung on the garage wall, even though we had two record-breaking years for snow fall.
I really liked all the different aspects your guest-poster came up with for looking at a new purchase, and it’s easy to remember. Just wish I’d known about it before the snowshoes!
August 12th, 2009 at 1:21 pm
I’m not big into self-help acronyms, but I think this is one that will help me slow down and really focus on why I’m being tempted to buy something and whether it’s actually worth it.
And since so much of this turned into a hair thread and discussion of styles and products, I’ll add that I’m on month four of not using shampoo, conditioner, or styling products, and I am happier with my hair than I’ve been in a long, long time. Most mornings I rinse it out, towel dry, and go. About once a week, or if I’m really gross from derby or hockey practice, I scrub with a mix of baking soda/water and rinse with a mix of apple cider vinegar/water.
I think I first got the idea of going “no poo” (as they call it) from a frugal tips site that JD linked to when I first started reading GRS.
August 12th, 2009 at 1:38 pm
Good post. The acronym is a good way to really mull over a purchase. In fact, if you always used this acronym I think it would seriously cut down excess spending. I will definitely be testing out the acronym this week.
-DC
August 12th, 2009 at 1:49 pm
Very well written. I have to say that I really like the point of view Lynn brings to this site. We get the view of a woman and the view of a person with a larger family. I find her ideas very valuable.
August 12th, 2009 at 2:02 pm
I agree that want vs need isn’t really a useful distinction for most of us. Most Americans have their “needs” pretty well covered and never debate themselves about it.
I think value or priority is a better way to describe what you’re talking about. Right now, I would jump at the opportunity to buy that canoe - my dad just bought a lake house and I know he wants one, plus I would go over there and use it. Last year, no matter how much I wanted it it would not be worthwhile because without the lake house how often would I actually put the canoe on my car and go to the river or the wetlands? Not so often I’m thinking. Plus there would be garage space, roof rack for the car, etc etc, all rendered moot by the lake house, changing the value of that canoe.
I have no haircut issues. I am quite lazy and don’t like hair salons, so I just don’t cut my hair. For years. By the time I’m tired of it and ready to hack it off, I can usually get a free haircut in exchange for donating the 10+ inches I’ve grown in that time to charity.
August 12th, 2009 at 2:34 pm
Great article! Thanks for sharing!
August 12th, 2009 at 2:49 pm
Not sure where to post this, but any help would be greatly appreciated!
I recently graduated and am now working making around $50,000. I have approximately $25,000 in student loans, half at 3.5% interest, the rest a variable 2.5%. I am currently saving 10% of my salary in a Roth 401(k) with no employer match. I am hoping to save enough money to buy my girlfriend a ring in about a year ($6,000?) while paying at least $300 a month towards my loans. What should I do with the extra money ($10,000 in the first year)? I have an ING savings account, but don’t know if I should be pouring that money towards my student loans, more in my Roth 401(k), or put it in my ING account.
August 12th, 2009 at 3:11 pm
If I’m not mistaken, this wasn’t intended to be an article about want vs. need. This is an article about evaluating the true cost of a purchase, so that spending decisions are made with full awareness. Determining if it’s a want or a need is just one of the evaluating criteria.
It’s an excellent post, Lynn! Useful and concise.
August 12th, 2009 at 5:55 pm
I had long hair once. I miss it. I found a photo which my stylist discussed and I went with a similar modified cut. I like the short hair yet didn’t figure in the cost of the trims or once-twice yearly highlight updates costs either. Even $25 stretched out over 10 weeks can get costly. As someone kinda posted, they could eat spaghetti at home one night a week to keep their hair looking sharp and cut expenses that way. I’m considering letting it grow long and trimming my own bangs and using organice conditioner and shampoo to get rid of any future dry ends. I really enjoyed this guest posting.
August 12th, 2009 at 7:26 pm
Glancing through the comments I see I’m the only person who thinks this article/post wasn’t worth the time spent reading it. Half the article devoted to the story of getting your hair cut? Seriously? Also, why all the agonizing and regret over some haircut? If you value healthy, nice-looking hair and you’re not poor, then a haircut once in awhile is indeed a “need”. If you’d gotten them more often you would have known that you’re never able to get it looking as styled as the hairdresser did that day. Nor that you have to try, nor that it requires buying pricey hair product from her. I have a big bottle of de-frizzing soft hold product from the drugstore I bought 2 years ago that I use often and it will *still* last me another two years. It didn’t break the bank.
August 12th, 2009 at 8:07 pm
@Anca #75
No, you’re not the only one. I also found this article painful, pedantic and far too long. Whilst I agree it’s important to consider how you’re spending your money and realise the difference between a want and a need, spending hours beating myself up over a $25 haircut and developing a long winded process to assess every dollar one spends is just ridiculous.
Of course everybody makes money mistakes along the way but I find the level of introspection on this purchase WAAY over the top. Surely you just realise you’ve make an error in judgement, learn the lesson and move on.
It’s great that everybody is trying to be supportive of all those trying out for the writer position but personnally I do not want to read any more of Lyn’s work. I find her ideas unsophisticated and overly fussy about very simple concepts.
August 12th, 2009 at 8:45 pm
Am I missing something lately? The guest writers have interesting stories with interesting life events, however, not why I visit GRS daily. The posts are analogous to the hundreds of financial articles I’ve read, inspiring acronyms, excellent sport analogies, ERAs, etc. but lack in true substance. The success of GRS to me has been JD’s ability to focus on the “how to” and less on the “subjective” material. He essentially does the homework for us, gives us the link to the spreadsheets or websites, provides different options, personalizes the material and keeps the subject matter based in reality. I have already implemented several dozens of his suggestions (budgets, ingdirect, debt reduction calculator, even dropbox) All very tangible. Enjoyed reading the article and just hope GRS remains a substantive blog and less an psychological/inspirational blog.
August 12th, 2009 at 10:17 pm
Wow! I thought I was the only one. I got my hair cut short once and it was super cute, but no one told me that really short hair cuts have to be trimmed every 4-6 weeks or they don’t look “super cute” any more. Ugh, I couldn’t be bothered. I seem to get my hair cut about once a year, cutting my own bangs and adding highlights myself along the way. Last time, I went to Great Clips and spent $18 ($5 tip…she was awesome). That was Sept 2008. I’m trying to decide if I’m going to cut it again next month…so far, I’m leaning towards “no, not yet”…I just can’t be bothered!
Anyway, love the WEALTH acronym and I think I’ll try to teach it to my children…one is trying to save money for an Xbox 360 that I don’t want him to buy and I’m gently trying to talk him away from it…maybe this will help!
August 12th, 2009 at 10:32 pm
OMG! Salons are a con-game. We’ve been sold on the every six weeks mantra, buy the product mantra, add highlights to your hair (so you look like everyone else) mantra! Look at the pretty women on the video, don’t you wish you looked like them. Let us sell you more product, cut your hair ‘beautifully’, color it ‘just so’, add highlights, etc. Makes me just sick how many years I bought into that line. Finally I have a cut I like, that I insist on, that works for a year or more. And, my goal is to use up ALL the ‘product’ I’ve been sold (whether I like it or not and yes, even if it doesn’t live up to the promises!!)
August 13th, 2009 at 2:05 am
You know Lynn,
I truly enjoyed this article, especially in comparison to your last entry. The reason for this is that this one seems to have been given more thought and focus, and you used an effective visual analogy example from your own personal experience (which always resonates well with GRS readers)and the entry was very reader-friendly and relate-able. The highlight was definetly the creation of an original effective acronym that I too will soon add to my PF vocabulary
August 13th, 2009 at 4:58 am
@ Debbie M - If you changed the “research” to something starting with an “s” you would have CASH
@ Avistew - To the hairdresser’s credit, she did not push product on me. She explained what it was and mentioned that there are many brands out there. It was my idea to go with what she used and sold there.
@ Marcy - Thanks for your opinion. I have learned a lesson (as shared here) and have moved on. But spending some time to reflect on my purchase and share my experience here will not only save $25. The lesson learned here has the potential to save a lot more money over the course of my life and maybe help others save some money as well since I was able to share it here. To me, spending a few hours to reflect on what happened and write this article was worth it.
Thanks for your thoughts everyone!
August 13th, 2009 at 7:41 am
Lynne, this is the second article of yours that I’ve really enjoyed. I’m with you on this one. I’m very low maintenance and really don’t have the skill, patience, or the know how to do fancy things with my hair. I wash it and go, usually with no additional products at all.
One of my problems comes in the fact that I have had horrible, I mean REALLY horrible experiences with hair dressers. I have a lot of long hair and it usually takes 1-2 hours for a cut/trim (depending on how long it’s been since the last one) and my usual bill ends up being something like $75 w/tip. Yes, I could go and get an $8 haircut but I just don’t have trust in those places after everything that’s happened. It has now been 8 months since my last haircut and I definitely need a new one, but it’s so hard justifying that cost. I try to put it down in the maintenance cost of things, haircuts = healthy hair, and sometimes I try comparing it to friends who spend hundreds of dollars a year on style, color, product, etc. I think I’m going to use WEALTH to see if the pro’s outweigh the cons. Thanks!
August 13th, 2009 at 10:01 am
While I like the WEALTH acronym I feel like the particular example of a hair cut doesn’t really apply. It comes down to the L lifestyle more than anything and the way this article is written enforces that. The canoe non-purchase is excelent for the WEALTH example, but since that one hasn’t been plaguing you every morning it took of relatively little space in the article.
Of course I can sympathize with haircut remorse. I recently got a haircut that was a change from the style I had for the last ~12 years. I’m 24, so thats a long time. My old hairstyle was a blunt cut. Wash and go, brush once dry. If I had a bad hair day I’d put it up, no big deal. The new style is layered all the way though and I have bangs now. While the cut looked good coming home from the salon even then I didn’t feel like it was me. Something about the cut doesn’t resonate with me. It doesn’t air dry well and I just let it air dry anyway. Partially because I don’t have the time to deal with it and partially because I have no hair skills. I can spend 20 mins on it and it doesn’t really look better, just different. Putting it up looks cute, but I still have to worry about what the bangs are doing. The bangs are always all over the place. When it’s down due to the layering the longest part poofs thanks to my naturally wavy hair. I wanted a change so when I explained what I was willing to do (wash and go) he wanted to give me the same cut I already had, but I had come to salon to get something different. Despite the warnings I let him give me a cut that needed maintenance. The questions is now what??? I don’t want to go back to my old hairstyle, but I don’t like this one. It’s been 3 months since I got my haircut, so I need to do something with it (stupid bangs). Do I go back to the same hairstylist (who came with amazing recommendations) and try to tweak the cut more to my liking or try to find someone else.
August 13th, 2009 at 11:49 am
Wow, very thought provoking post and answers! If I can add my two cents - I think there may be a time factor that can allow for purchases that don’t pass the W.E.A.L.T.H. test the first few times.
For instance, today I am wearing an outfit to work that I normally wouldn’t, but I’m having so much fun with it and feel confident and professional. It’s just a matter of a skirt but it’s more than I normally spend on an article of clothing ($44, and I did get a free white button down shirt with it as it was a 2-for-1 sale).
I debated a skirt purchase because I normally don’t wear them, but after I thought about it for a while, I realized I don’t because I don’t like heels. So I thought I would try a flats-tights-skirts combo. Already had the flats and tights and found the perfect skirt after a few months of searching.
I’ve tried something new and it’s a success story. I think because I put various skirts through the W-E-A-L-T-H test and after about the 4th test realized I may be ready to commit. I was patient and when I found the right skirt it passed the test and now I’m having fun with a new look.
I’ve used my own variation of W-E-A-L-T-H for a while but would hate to think that overuse of it would kill creativity and new fun experiences. Just a thought.
August 13th, 2009 at 12:14 pm
I really liked this article…it got me thinking.
I’ve been going back and forth for a while on whether or not to sell my car and get something more practical. Just as a quick background, I’m a gear head and a car guy. Little did I know that I’ve been wrestling with these WEALTH questions all along. I’ve been trying to decide between my car and two other choices - one more practical and one about the same as my current one but just different.
So I added a weighting system to the WEALTH questions (ie: I think that happiness is more important than ego) then rated each category from 1-10 (bad to good) and summed the scores to give me one “Purchase Score” between 1 and 10 for each item. Turns out the practical car ends in the lead with 5.95, followed by the other car at 5, and lastly my current car at 4.4. This might actually aid in my decision. I’ve been going over the pros and cons in my head, but it’s pretty clear once you see them in real numbers on paper.
This model could be used for any purchase. I’m an engineer, so I like seeing the actual numbers. I will continue to use this for all my major purchases.
Great job!
August 13th, 2009 at 2:47 pm
Great article. This is the first time in a while (that I can remember) that I am actually writing down notes from a post, so that I can refer to it more easily later (and remember the acronym). Soon enough, I should have the “WEALTH analysis” happen more automatically whenever I’m faced with a purchase.
Also, Matt, the idea of creating a weighted scoring to each category/question is a great idea! Especially for as large a purchase decision as a car! Now I just have to figure out how to best rank the WEALTH points…
August 13th, 2009 at 3:07 pm
August 13th, 2009 at 3:13 pm
For all those that like the weighted scoring idea based on different parameters google “decision matrix”. It’s a super popular idea and there are a ton of resources to help you implement it!
August 13th, 2009 at 5:11 pm
I have long hair, and have resisted getting it cut because it is SO easy and cheap now! All I do is wash it when I bathe. period. There is no way a short cut would be easier or less expensive (I don’t even use conditioner), and the one time I got a “real” haircut it was a lot of hassle to no particularly good effect.
Long hair can be WAY more low-maintenance than short. And it’s easier to get out of my way when I need that.
August 14th, 2009 at 5:14 pm
Women chopping their hair after marriage? I thought that happened after the first kid, when Mom’s long ‘do got a few too many yanks from baby hands.
There’s one more cost benefit to long hair…you spend less on cat toys. :p As soon as I sit or lie down, the cats are all over me, batting at my head.
August 15th, 2009 at 1:41 pm
I’m really excited that you are a finalist for the staff writer position. I have loved reading your work here.
I have to say it’s an adorable cut, and it lead to great insight on your part.
I had a similar haircut experience last Spring and it turned out to be a really wise investment. As it’s grown out it looked fantastic, and it’s been well over 6 months since my last cut.
I think it’s my new cheap way of maintaining a hair style I like. Cut it all off and let it grown for 6 months or a year, rinse and repeat.
I also think of haircuts like oil changes. My old mechanic recommended every 3,000 miles, but my manual says every 7,500. My hair stylist says every 6 weeks I say if I’m looking for maintenance, it’s every 10 weeks.
August 15th, 2009 at 7:59 pm
The CFO thing grates. It’s equal parts pretentious and defensive, somehow. The thing that’s been bothering me about this “audition” process is that I think all of the potentials are much weaker than J.D. I don’t think watering the product down is a good way to expand the site or add value, obviously. I don’t currently check “bylines” before reading a post, obviously, but I get the feeling that I might start, probably only reading J.D.’s posts. That’s going to be annoying and disappointing.
@RB #14: Wow, so THIS must be what the 1940s were like! You and your sexist friend need to realize that women are people too and that hair is just hair, and get with the times — unless YOU’D be okay with your significant other dumping YOU over a haircut. (No? Well then, there’s your answer.) I can’t believe you thought your comment, much less wrote it in public. I know PF blogs tend to skew conservative, but sheesh.
August 15th, 2009 at 10:49 pm
Lynn and/or J.D.,
Perhaps you already saw this (or see web traffic being referred), but I thought I would mention here that this article was featured on another blog I follow, lifehacker. Here’s the link:
http://lifehacker.com/5335806/apply-the-wealth-acronym-to-make-smart-purchases
Is this the first (or only) “audition” article to get such a referral/re-posting on another popular blog, like lifehacker? I haven’t noticed any others on lifehacker, but perhaps this is rather common on other sites I don’t particularly follow…
Just more evidence that this was a great post! Thanks again, Lynn!
August 16th, 2009 at 5:24 am
Sorry, but I’ve had short hair all my life, but it’s easy to take care of. I don’t do complicated. I spend $15 every 4 weeks, which I consider a necessity. Long hair would drive me bonkers. I know that’s not the point of the whole article, but most women, especially as they age, look better in a little shorter hair. The want vs. need is always a good question to ask. It’s amazing the lessons we can learn from everyday situations.
August 16th, 2009 at 5:13 pm
@ Marie - I wonder if my cat misses my long hair because I’d often hang it above him to play with him. There would be the times where I would be laying down and all of a sudden he’d make his “I’m gonna get you” sound and then he’d whap my hair with his paws.
@ DCH - You are very welcome! Glad you enjoyed the article. I did catch the feature on Lifehacker (it’s one I follow) and Baker also was mentioned on Consumerist for his CouchSurfing article:
http://consumerist.com/5334927/couchsurfing-can-help-you-save-money-and-make-friends-while-traveling
August 17th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
I like the acronym and your real-life example. It’s a nice change from the car or house examples.
Another short hair person here.
I have thick hair, and walking around with wet hair most of the time gets old: after a shower, after a run, etc. Getting a good haircut every 6-8 weeks is one of my few luxuries now. The trick is to find someone very skilled who finds out your lifestyle requirements and the look you are going for BEFORE they cut your hair. The stylists at quicky cutting places tend to be new with limited experience.
Mine, for example are: a little product, air dry, fluff, wash 2-4x week, depending on activity level or season. Looks better dirty than clean, and I can miss a trim without wanting to cut my own hair. I want to look urban, but not so urban that I scare the other suburban moms or potential employers. When I had little kids, I had to be able to chase my kids without my hair getting in my line of vision. Did I mention that I have thick, cowlicky hair with a neckline that grows UP?
You mentioned a 20 minute cutting time — a quick cut doesn’t define a good stylist. My guy takes up to 45 minutes of cutting with 5-10 minutes of styling, including drying time. That haircut sits beautifully and looks good with almost no effort on my part, other than the regular cuts. Worth every penny.
August 18th, 2009 at 4:27 am
to Lesley #4- This is a great acronym, no need to add “trust the expert” to WEALTH. I’m very wary of trusting any expert who is pushing the sale. Sure, Lynn could have consulted her hairdresser to see if this was the right low-maintenance cut for her, but that hairdresser was making sure that she walked out with some kind of new haircut. She doesn’t care what kind of haircut you get as long as she gets paid and she can recommend products and secure a follow-up appointment.
The hairdresser definitely would not have said, “you know, short hair isn’t for you. You should keep it just as it is”. You have to make that call for yourself. I say don’t trust the expert unless the expert is you.
Not to sound to jaded with hairdressers- I love mine and she gives me a 50% discount when I walk out of the salon with wet hair rather than styled hair. Just don’t trust someone who needs your money to also keep your best interests at heart.
August 20th, 2009 at 6:59 am
good article! I enjoy the acronym…clever and useful!
August 27th, 2009 at 1:02 pm
I loved this. In March 2009 I cut 10 inches off of my hair and donated it. I was ready for a change and wanted to do something good at the same time. Although I don’t regret making the change, I was the girl who only cut my hair every 6 months. I have already had it trimmed 3 times in the past 5 months! At $40 per cut, that really adds up. I have since made the decision to let it grow back out.
I am an acronym person also and really like this one. I actually laminated a wallet sized card of it as a daily reminder to myself. Every time I open my wallet there is this bright yellow card grabbing my attention.
Thanks Lynn…and JD!