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		<title>By: Greg@eliminatethemuda.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Greg@eliminatethemuda.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 22:59:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>J.D.

I think it is short sighted that someone is going to pass judgment on you for the work of another. 

On the other hand I totally can see these characters in a Saturday morning cartoon teaching kids how to make good financial decisions.... hmmmmm did I just give you your next career opportunity?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>J.D.</p>
<p>I think it is short sighted that someone is going to pass judgment on you for the work of another. </p>
<p>On the other hand I totally can see these characters in a Saturday morning cartoon teaching kids how to make good financial decisions&#8230;. hmmmmm did I just give you your next career opportunity?</p>
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		<title>By: FinanceAnswers.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>FinanceAnswers.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 20:49:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>JD,

Congrats on being named a badass blog, perhaps you give us some advice on how to become so badass!? The secret must be that chopper, still haven&#039;t figured how you have time to blog your riding that thing all over the country raisin&#039; hell... amazing!

You have built an incredible blog, thanks for helping so many people!

bgr</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>JD,</p>
<p>Congrats on being named a badass blog, perhaps you give us some advice on how to become so badass!? The secret must be that chopper, still haven&#8217;t figured how you have time to blog your riding that thing all over the country raisin&#8217; hell&#8230; amazing!</p>
<p>You have built an incredible blog, thanks for helping so many people!</p>
<p>bgr</p>
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		<title>By: Marie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 20:27:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Boo-hoo, the trolls are unsubscribing. Congratulations, J.D., on a readership now more sane.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Boo-hoo, the trolls are unsubscribing. Congratulations, J.D., on a readership now more sane.</p>
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		<title>By: Beth</title>
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		<dc:creator>Beth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 16:15:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Cairsten -- The links you posted were really interesting, but I was put off by your &quot;bingo card&quot;. It&#039;s &quot;nice&quot; to see all the ways people think others are racist. In fact, it sounds like there&#039;s no possible way to not be racist. According to that list, even discussing race is racist. I don&#039;t get it.

Sometimes if you see people as fitting into those boxes, it&#039;s because you put them there, not because they actually belong there. If you see enemies in everyone around you, then it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Cairsten &#8212; The links you posted were really interesting, but I was put off by your &#8220;bingo card&#8221;. It&#8217;s &#8220;nice&#8221; to see all the ways people think others are racist. In fact, it sounds like there&#8217;s no possible way to not be racist. According to that list, even discussing race is racist. I don&#8217;t get it.</p>
<p>Sometimes if you see people as fitting into those boxes, it&#8217;s because you put them there, not because they actually belong there. If you see enemies in everyone around you, then it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.</p>
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		<title>By: Linear Girl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Linear Girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 16:04:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>JD, 

My take on the caricatures was pretty much in line with yours and I appreciate the very thoughtful way you articulated it in your comment.  Thanks and keep up the great work.

LG</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>JD, </p>
<p>My take on the caricatures was pretty much in line with yours and I appreciate the very thoughtful way you articulated it in your comment.  Thanks and keep up the great work.</p>
<p>LG</p>
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		<title>By: Adrian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adrian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 11:25:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>J.D.
I truly admire that you go out of your way to please such a diverse variety of readers.

I must opine that in this case, I believe Rose and Cairsten&#039;s opinions are likely based on personal gripes and issues, and are certainly over-looking the true value of your content.
(It is the contrast in these animations to reality that is the entertaining part and clearly they are NOT to be taken literally.)

As a psychology major I deal with many people who are sensitive to a diverse range of topics because of their own biases and experiences that frequently shaped and distorted their realities. 

The fact they attempt to &quot;threaten&quot; to leave your site simply because of some drawing that you -- the author -- didn&#039;t even design yourself seems fairly immature and almost entertaining within itself. 

You are a truly valuable and irreplaceable asset to the Personal Finance blogging community, and there will always be those who don&#039;t agree with what you do. Criticism is simply a natural part of life, and when it cannot be justified logically, it should be dismissed as unwarranted.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>J.D.<br />
I truly admire that you go out of your way to please such a diverse variety of readers.</p>
<p>I must opine that in this case, I believe Rose and Cairsten&#8217;s opinions are likely based on personal gripes and issues, and are certainly over-looking the true value of your content.<br />
(It is the contrast in these animations to reality that is the entertaining part and clearly they are NOT to be taken literally.)</p>
<p>As a psychology major I deal with many people who are sensitive to a diverse range of topics because of their own biases and experiences that frequently shaped and distorted their realities. </p>
<p>The fact they attempt to &#8220;threaten&#8221; to leave your site simply because of some drawing that you &#8212; the author &#8212; didn&#8217;t even design yourself seems fairly immature and almost entertaining within itself. </p>
<p>You are a truly valuable and irreplaceable asset to the Personal Finance blogging community, and there will always be those who don&#8217;t agree with what you do. Criticism is simply a natural part of life, and when it cannot be justified logically, it should be dismissed as unwarranted.</p>
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		<title>By: Fred</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fred</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 10:37:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear JD,
Thanks for your great post and glad you liked your caricature. Your 2 comments above were so professional and I can see where everyone is coming from. We intended to entertain with the pics just wanted to say that the bloggers are cool and they help us all to get a little richer, both personally and financially. Blinging them up a bit. We had heaps of fun going through the blogs and doing a real indepth analysis. We also read a lot of comments and posts as you could imagine. We chatted to some other pf bloggers to get their suggestions too. And then decided who were worthy of being badass. I really appreciate all the comments and I hope it brightened up everyone&#039;s day, and maybe its quite a good resource?

Congrats to JD and Adam.

Personally I love comparing Adam Baker&#039;s real pic on his blog to his bada$$ one. Congrats to Adam for being the newest GRS writer!

@Brian - Thanks for the big ups. 

@JMoney - George needed a bitta bling.

@MattJabbs - Love your work dude</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear JD,<br />
Thanks for your great post and glad you liked your caricature. Your 2 comments above were so professional and I can see where everyone is coming from. We intended to entertain with the pics just wanted to say that the bloggers are cool and they help us all to get a little richer, both personally and financially. Blinging them up a bit. We had heaps of fun going through the blogs and doing a real indepth analysis. We also read a lot of comments and posts as you could imagine. We chatted to some other pf bloggers to get their suggestions too. And then decided who were worthy of being badass. I really appreciate all the comments and I hope it brightened up everyone&#8217;s day, and maybe its quite a good resource?</p>
<p>Congrats to JD and Adam.</p>
<p>Personally I love comparing Adam Baker&#8217;s real pic on his blog to his bada$$ one. Congrats to Adam for being the newest GRS writer!</p>
<p>@Brian &#8211; Thanks for the big ups. </p>
<p>@JMoney &#8211; George needed a bitta bling.</p>
<p>@MattJabbs &#8211; Love your work dude</p>
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		<title>By: ebyt</title>
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		<dc:creator>ebyt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 07:12:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL love the caricatures. @ Rose Fox: lighten up. Please.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL love the caricatures. @ Rose Fox: lighten up. Please.</p>
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		<title>By: kick_push</title>
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		<dc:creator>kick_push</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 21:58:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LMAO at that drawing of you!  hahahaha!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LMAO at that drawing of you!  hahahaha!</p>
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		<title>By: J.D.</title>
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		<dc:creator>J.D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 21:35:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Folks, just because I don&#039;t agree with Cairsten and Rose Fox, that&#039;s no reason to be unkind to them. Their concerns are real -- even if I think they miss the point. 

Cairsten and Rose Fox have been valuable members of the GRS community for a long time. They&#039;ve both contributed excellent comments to our discussions in the past. (And they&#039;re doing so in this thread, even if I don&#039;t agree with them.) I&#039;ll be sorry if either (or both) decide that these caricatures warrant giving up the site for good, but that&#039;s their call.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Folks, just because I don&#8217;t agree with Cairsten and Rose Fox, that&#8217;s no reason to be unkind to them. Their concerns are real &#8212; even if I think they miss the point. </p>
<p>Cairsten and Rose Fox have been valuable members of the GRS community for a long time. They&#8217;ve both contributed excellent comments to our discussions in the past. (And they&#8217;re doing so in this thread, even if I don&#8217;t agree with them.) I&#8217;ll be sorry if either (or both) decide that these caricatures warrant giving up the site for good, but that&#8217;s their call.</p>
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		<title>By: mostlyharmless</title>
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		<dc:creator>mostlyharmless</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 20:45:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh JD you are totally badass. Don&#039;t let anyone ever tell you otherwise.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh JD you are totally badass. Don&#8217;t let anyone ever tell you otherwise.</p>
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		<title>By: David C</title>
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		<dc:creator>David C</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 20:34:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>J.D., you are the tops when it comes to PF bloggers and your classy response to this &quot;race&quot; tempest in a teapot proves that you are a truly exceptional person. Racism, sadly does exist in our world, no matter how hard we try to make it go away. 

We are all of different colors, but we come here to learn about one color. The color that I am focusing on nowadays is green. Green as in saving more of it, earning more of it and doing more nice things for our planet so my kid can enjoy a better world. Green is gorgeous.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>J.D., you are the tops when it comes to PF bloggers and your classy response to this &#8220;race&#8221; tempest in a teapot proves that you are a truly exceptional person. Racism, sadly does exist in our world, no matter how hard we try to make it go away. </p>
<p>We are all of different colors, but we come here to learn about one color. The color that I am focusing on nowadays is green. Green as in saving more of it, earning more of it and doing more nice things for our planet so my kid can enjoy a better world. Green is gorgeous.</p>
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		<title>By: Elizabeth</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elizabeth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 20:26:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kudos, J.D.! 

This discussion has been bugging me all day because I&#039;ve studied visual rhetoric and I know the impact that even subtle messages can have on people over time. Rose and Cairsten raise interesting questions, and I don&#039;t think people should be so quick to dismiss them. 

I can&#039;t say what&#039;s right or wrong in this case, just that we need opposing voices in the dialogue.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kudos, J.D.! </p>
<p>This discussion has been bugging me all day because I&#8217;ve studied visual rhetoric and I know the impact that even subtle messages can have on people over time. Rose and Cairsten raise interesting questions, and I don&#8217;t think people should be so quick to dismiss them. </p>
<p>I can&#8217;t say what&#8217;s right or wrong in this case, just that we need opposing voices in the dialogue.</p>
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		<title>By: Terry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Terry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 20:15:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been reading GRS for a few months now and enjoyed Bringing the Bling as much as all the rest.  Great blog J.D.!  Keep up the great work.  What&#039;s up with all that bling on your caricatures?! lol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been reading GRS for a few months now and enjoyed Bringing the Bling as much as all the rest.  Great blog J.D.!  Keep up the great work.  What&#8217;s up with all that bling on your caricatures?! lol</p>
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		<title>By: Cairsten</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cairsten</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 20:06:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow. That went about like I expected. My Bingo card&#039;s not quite full, but it&#039;s getting there.

The Pause for Applause
“Unlike all those other white people out there, I’m an anti-racist.” (…) “I do anti-racist work and I try to educate other people about anti-racism.” (…) “Wait, did you hear me?”

The Culture Appropriator
“Damn, bro! You know I’m down with the homies, I ain’t no wack racist cracker, shiznit.”

Turning the Tables
“You’re being just as racist against white people, you realize. You’re being racist against me right now, you reverse-racist hypocrites!”

The Remove the Right To Be Angry
“You’re too sensitive… if you weren’t so aggressive, vocal, hostile, angry, or upset, people would listen to you and you wouldn’t get in trouble!”

The Utopian Eye-Gouger
“I’m colorblind, personally… why can’t we all just ignore race, it’s not like it’s even real… it’s not like I tangibly benefit from being white every day or anything! Can’t we all just get along?”

http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2008/03/06/sixteen-maneuvers-to-avoid-really-dealing-with-racism/ 

http://coffeeandink.livejournal.com/607897.html

2. Attack the person, not the argument.
Personal attacks end the discussion before it even starts! If you can accuse your opponent of &quot;paranoia,&quot; &quot;white guilt,&quot; &quot;internalized racism,&quot; &quot;whining,&quot; &quot;overreacting,&quot; &quot;paternalism,&quot; &quot;condescension,&quot; &quot;being obsessed with race,&quot; &quot;bitching about racism at the drop of a hat,&quot; or &quot;taking things too personally,&quot; you don&#039;t need to bother addressing the content of their remarks. This will save you time and energy you can then devote to happier pursuits.


&quot;It&#039;s just a book/film/comic book/TV show!&quot; (cartoon)
&quot;Pointing out racism just makes it harder for us to achieve a colorblind society. You shouldn&#039;t judge people based on their race.&quot;
&quot;Focusing so much on race just shows that you&#039;re racist yourself.&quot;
&quot;Minorities can be racist too, you know!&quot;

if you actually want a starting place on what not to do when someone points out that there&#039;s a racist stereotype at play in something you just said/did/posted, these are good places to start.

In any case, I was waiting for a response. I now have that response, and it&#039;s removed a bit of clutter from my life. I can get personal finance from sources that don&#039;t glorify racist caricatures or condescend irritatingly while denying the racism&#039;s there. I have now unsubscribed from the feed, and will do so from this post as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. That went about like I expected. My Bingo card&#8217;s not quite full, but it&#8217;s getting there.</p>
<p>The Pause for Applause<br />
“Unlike all those other white people out there, I’m an anti-racist.” (…) “I do anti-racist work and I try to educate other people about anti-racism.” (…) “Wait, did you hear me?”</p>
<p>The Culture Appropriator<br />
“Damn, bro! You know I’m down with the homies, I ain’t no wack racist cracker, shiznit.”</p>
<p>Turning the Tables<br />
“You’re being just as racist against white people, you realize. You’re being racist against me right now, you reverse-racist hypocrites!”</p>
<p>The Remove the Right To Be Angry<br />
“You’re too sensitive… if you weren’t so aggressive, vocal, hostile, angry, or upset, people would listen to you and you wouldn’t get in trouble!”</p>
<p>The Utopian Eye-Gouger<br />
“I’m colorblind, personally… why can’t we all just ignore race, it’s not like it’s even real… it’s not like I tangibly benefit from being white every day or anything! Can’t we all just get along?”</p>
<p><a href="http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2008/03/06/sixteen-maneuvers-to-avoid-really-dealing-with-racism/" rel="nofollow">http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2008/03/06/sixteen-maneuvers-to-avoid-really-dealing-with-racism/</a> </p>
<p><a href="http://coffeeandink.livejournal.com/607897.html" rel="nofollow">http://coffeeandink.livejournal.com/607897.html</a></p>
<p>2. Attack the person, not the argument.<br />
Personal attacks end the discussion before it even starts! If you can accuse your opponent of &#8220;paranoia,&#8221; &#8220;white guilt,&#8221; &#8220;internalized racism,&#8221; &#8220;whining,&#8221; &#8220;overreacting,&#8221; &#8220;paternalism,&#8221; &#8220;condescension,&#8221; &#8220;being obsessed with race,&#8221; &#8220;bitching about racism at the drop of a hat,&#8221; or &#8220;taking things too personally,&#8221; you don&#8217;t need to bother addressing the content of their remarks. This will save you time and energy you can then devote to happier pursuits.</p>
<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s just a book/film/comic book/TV show!&#8221; (cartoon)<br />
&#8220;Pointing out racism just makes it harder for us to achieve a colorblind society. You shouldn&#8217;t judge people based on their race.&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Focusing so much on race just shows that you&#8217;re racist yourself.&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Minorities can be racist too, you know!&#8221;</p>
<p>if you actually want a starting place on what not to do when someone points out that there&#8217;s a racist stereotype at play in something you just said/did/posted, these are good places to start.</p>
<p>In any case, I was waiting for a response. I now have that response, and it&#8217;s removed a bit of clutter from my life. I can get personal finance from sources that don&#8217;t glorify racist caricatures or condescend irritatingly while denying the racism&#8217;s there. I have now unsubscribed from the feed, and will do so from this post as well.</p>
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		<title>By: Ben</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 20:01:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Real racism is disturbing and wrong. This is funny and harmless. Rose Fox, I don&#039;t know what race you  are, but if you were ever exposed to real racism I think you may change your tune and worry about those ACTUALLY harmed by bigotry.....grow up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Real racism is disturbing and wrong. This is funny and harmless. Rose Fox, I don&#8217;t know what race you  are, but if you were ever exposed to real racism I think you may change your tune and worry about those ACTUALLY harmed by bigotry&#8230;..grow up.</p>
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		<title>By: E</title>
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		<dc:creator>E</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 19:48:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>omg just the IDEA of &quot;bad-a$$&quot; PF bloggers cracks me up! :D
Great links. I shared the one about &quot;how to be unhappy&quot; and lots of us are seeing ourselves in at least one or two items. Thanks!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>omg just the IDEA of &#8220;bad-a$$&#8221; PF bloggers cracks me up! <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Great links. I shared the one about &#8220;how to be unhappy&#8221; and lots of us are seeing ourselves in at least one or two items. Thanks!!</p>
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		<title>By: Victoria</title>
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		<dc:creator>Victoria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 18:55:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey JD, our true homie - keep on blingin&#039; up on personal finance! You are awesome. Keep up the great work.

@Rose and Cairsten - I think you two have the most messed up minds around here. I am a fine black woman and when I saw the caricatures, I saw great relevance and I was even smiling. There was no racism here but because you are so stuck in it, you want to promote your -ism given any opportunity. Why can&#039;t my white brothers be portrayed with some bling? They are doing some bad-a$$ stuff. Come one, why do you choose to see bad stuff all the time?

@Rose adn Cairsten, take your time to focus on your personal finance goals. Let the world live in happiness.

J.D, keep up the excellent work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey JD, our true homie &#8211; keep on blingin&#8217; up on personal finance! You are awesome. Keep up the great work.</p>
<p>@Rose and Cairsten &#8211; I think you two have the most messed up minds around here. I am a fine black woman and when I saw the caricatures, I saw great relevance and I was even smiling. There was no racism here but because you are so stuck in it, you want to promote your -ism given any opportunity. Why can&#8217;t my white brothers be portrayed with some bling? They are doing some bad-a$$ stuff. Come one, why do you choose to see bad stuff all the time?</p>
<p>@Rose adn Cairsten, take your time to focus on your personal finance goals. Let the world live in happiness.</p>
<p>J.D, keep up the excellent work.</p>
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		<title>By: bethh</title>
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		<dc:creator>bethh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 17:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kudos for the thoughtful response, J.D.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kudos for the thoughtful response, J.D.</p>
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		<title>By: Lindsay</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lindsay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 16:37:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congratulations, it looks like J.D. is in the #1 spot in this poll: http://twtpoll.com/r/p4hhp0

Congrats on being the most badass personal finance blogger!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations, it looks like J.D. is in the #1 spot in this poll: <a href="http://twtpoll.com/r/p4hhp0" rel="nofollow">http://twtpoll.com/r/p4hhp0</a></p>
<p>Congrats on being the most badass personal finance blogger!</p>
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		<title>By: Brian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 16:04:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fred&#039;s site did an incredible job with this post and it surely took the PF world by storm yesterday.  I love these and am so happy that a lot of my friends were mentioned.  Check out the writing on some of the descriptions as they were equally as enjoyable as the caricatures.  

Great follow up comment by JD.  All in all, this made my week.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fred&#8217;s site did an incredible job with this post and it surely took the PF world by storm yesterday.  I love these and am so happy that a lot of my friends were mentioned.  Check out the writing on some of the descriptions as they were equally as enjoyable as the caricatures.  </p>
<p>Great follow up comment by JD.  All in all, this made my week.</p>
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		<title>By: corrin</title>
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		<dc:creator>corrin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 15:53:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great links and love the caricatures.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great links and love the caricatures.</p>
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		<title>By: No Debt Plan</title>
		<link>http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/09/10/daily-links-bringing-the-bling-edition/comment-page-1/#comment-197328</link>
		<dc:creator>No Debt Plan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 15:50:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The simple fact that JD had to comment in defense of posting the cartoons shows exactly how laughable the internet can truly be.

Turn down the sensitivity meter people, lighten up, and laugh a little.

&#039;Fo shizzle.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The simple fact that JD had to comment in defense of posting the cartoons shows exactly how laughable the internet can truly be.</p>
<p>Turn down the sensitivity meter people, lighten up, and laugh a little.</p>
<p>&#8216;Fo shizzle.</p>
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		<title>By: Damilola@Kaizen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Damilola@Kaizen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 15:40:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;div class=&quot;greatcomment&quot;&gt;
When I saw your tweet about this yesterday, I thought this would eventually be an issue.

In general, your race and background will shade the lens (no pun intended) through which you perceive things. It&#039;s the reason why when a black person says racism, a white person first thinks says &quot;Why are we bringing up isms?&quot; or when a woman says sexism, a man thinks the same thing etc. It&#039;s just the way it is. The powerless person will often see something (that may or may not be oppresive) and deem it as oppresive while the empowered won&#039;t see it that way.

The caricatures here show bling which is usually associated with black people prior to being associated with rappers etc. However even the [learned] black community is moving away from being associated with this i.e. bling, sagging pants etc. 

That said, I do think that while these caricatures might initially  appear racist, a thoughtful look at what they represent (swag) is representative of a mindset and not a race.
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When I saw your tweet about this yesterday, I thought this would eventually be an issue.</p>
<p>In general, your race and background will shade the lens (no pun intended) through which you perceive things. It&#8217;s the reason why when a black person says racism, a white person first thinks says &#8220;Why are we bringing up isms?&#8221; or when a woman says sexism, a man thinks the same thing etc. It&#8217;s just the way it is. The powerless person will often see something (that may or may not be oppresive) and deem it as oppresive while the empowered won&#8217;t see it that way.</p>
<p>The caricatures here show bling which is usually associated with black people prior to being associated with rappers etc. However even the [learned] black community is moving away from being associated with this i.e. bling, sagging pants etc. </p>
<p>That said, I do think that while these caricatures might initially  appear racist, a thoughtful look at what they represent (swag) is representative of a mindset and not a race.
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		<title>By: Charles</title>
		<link>http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/09/10/daily-links-bringing-the-bling-edition/comment-page-1/#comment-197325</link>
		<dc:creator>Charles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 15:36:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree 100% with your response, JD. The cartoons are innocent and funny and anyone who thinks otherwise is being influenced by their own internal dialogue. As said above, you are one classy guy. Keep it up!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree 100% with your response, JD. The cartoons are innocent and funny and anyone who thinks otherwise is being influenced by their own internal dialogue. As said above, you are one classy guy. Keep it up!</p>
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		<title>By: Cara</title>
		<link>http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2009/09/10/daily-links-bringing-the-bling-edition/comment-page-1/#comment-197319</link>
		<dc:creator>Cara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 15:08:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>JD, I&#039;ve always thought you were a classy guy, but your response confirmed it. Excellent work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>JD, I&#8217;ve always thought you were a classy guy, but your response confirmed it. Excellent work.</p>
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		<title>By: Gooniette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gooniette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 15:06:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That was a truly classy and well-written response JD.

Thanks for the links.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That was a truly classy and well-written response JD.</p>
<p>Thanks for the links.</p>
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		<title>By: April</title>
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		<dc:creator>April</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 14:53:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I didn&#039;t think the cartoons were about race at all. Like others have said, the joke is that they are rap artists, who can be of any race (and nationality, actually), but are united by flashy shows of wealth and a badass persona. 

Um, so on another note, I loved the links posted.

I used to compare myself to others constantly, and it never made me anything but miserable. Then coincidentally, a couple of people who I envied (yes, I&#039;ll admit it) fell on some really hard times, and I realized how incredibly stupid I was to assume that just because that person made more money or had a flashy job that their life was perfect. I learned to be content with the great things in my own life, and to be truly happy for the good things in other peoples&#039; lives.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I didn&#8217;t think the cartoons were about race at all. Like others have said, the joke is that they are rap artists, who can be of any race (and nationality, actually), but are united by flashy shows of wealth and a badass persona. </p>
<p>Um, so on another note, I loved the links posted.</p>
<p>I used to compare myself to others constantly, and it never made me anything but miserable. Then coincidentally, a couple of people who I envied (yes, I&#8217;ll admit it) fell on some really hard times, and I realized how incredibly stupid I was to assume that just because that person made more money or had a flashy job that their life was perfect. I learned to be content with the great things in my own life, and to be truly happy for the good things in other peoples&#8217; lives.</p>
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		<title>By: J.D.</title>
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		<dc:creator>J.D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 14:27:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Folks, I am very sensitive to issues of bias, whether they&#039;re gender-based, religion-based, race-based, or from any other source. 

In my forty years, I&#039;ve come to believe that discriminating based on stereotypes of any sort is wrong. I&#039;ve taken classes on inter-cultural communication. I&#039;ve organized seminars on racism and week-long programs about gender discrimination. Though I&#039;m by no means perfect, I am very sensitive to this stuff. I go out of my way here at GRS to write in such a way that purposely avoids &lt;i&gt;-isms&lt;/i&gt;.

That said, Rose and Cairsten are both correct. People can inadvertently do things that are offensive to other people. Sometimes this is due to ignorance. Sometimes this is due to deep-seated prejudices. And sometimes, yes, sometimes this is because the offended person&#039;s response is &lt;i&gt;itself&lt;/i&gt; racist. That is, the &quot;recipient&quot; of the offense harbors their own stereotypes and prejudices that cause them to be offended.

Which is the case here?

I find absolutely nothing offensive, nothing racist about these caricatures. If I thought there was even a remote possibility that they were offensive, I would not have posted them. But to my eyes, they&#039;re not based on race in any way, and my first response is to think that those who believe they &lt;i&gt;are&lt;/i&gt; based on race are making some racial judgments of their own.

When Kris and I read your complaints last night, we were baffled. Seriously. We spent a long time looking at the caricatures, trying to puzzle out the problem. We couldn&#039;t find it. It didn&#039;t make sense to us. Even after reading your follow-up comments, it makes little sense to me. &lt;b&gt;These are not caricatures based on race.&lt;/b&gt; To me, they&#039;re caricatures based on a segment of popular culture, a culture like &quot;goth&quot; or &quot;redneck&quot; or &quot;jock&quot;. In this case, it&#039;s &quot;rap&quot; culture.

Even that is a little broad for what I see happening here. I cannot speak for the artist&#039;s intent (I&#039;ve had no communication with the site that produced these), but it seems to me that for an article about money writers, they looked for a culture that featured prominent displays of materialism as a way to be funny. It worked. These caricatures are funny because this is not who we (the financial writers) are. We don&#039;t flash our wealth. We&#039;re not &quot;bad-ass&quot;. We don&#039;t possess those attitudes. 

The artist might have made other choices, too. Maybe she could have portrayed us as bankers or investors. If I were doing this myself, I would have based the caricatures on rich comic-strip characters (Scrooge McDuck, Richie Rich, Daddy Warbucks, etc.). But choosing rap culture is not inherently racist. In fact, I find it a little racist to claim that &quot;rap culture&quot; is equivalent to &quot;black culture&quot;, which is the logical leap that&#039;s being made here.

Are all rappers black? Are all African-Americans rappers? And Cairsten, why do you perceive these people as &quot;thugs&quot;, &quot;thieves&quot;, &quot;foul-mouthed&quot;, and &quot;violent&quot;? &lt;i&gt;I&lt;/i&gt; don&#039;t. But I do associate rappers with a sort of &lt;i&gt;braggadacio&lt;/i&gt;, a swagger, a &quot;tough-guy&quot; act. And I associate them with flashy materialism. That&#039;s what the caricaturist is going for here, and I think it works.

When I saw these caricatures, I didn&#039;t think about skin color at all. Even after the two complaints, I still don&#039;t perceive them as being related to skin color. Rose and Cairsten, I understand your concerns here, and I think they&#039;re noble &#8212; I do &#8212; but I also think they&#039;re misguided in this instance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Folks, I am very sensitive to issues of bias, whether they&#8217;re gender-based, religion-based, race-based, or from any other source. </p>
<p>In my forty years, I&#8217;ve come to believe that discriminating based on stereotypes of any sort is wrong. I&#8217;ve taken classes on inter-cultural communication. I&#8217;ve organized seminars on racism and week-long programs about gender discrimination. Though I&#8217;m by no means perfect, I am very sensitive to this stuff. I go out of my way here at GRS to write in such a way that purposely avoids <i>-isms</i>.</p>
<p>That said, Rose and Cairsten are both correct. People can inadvertently do things that are offensive to other people. Sometimes this is due to ignorance. Sometimes this is due to deep-seated prejudices. And sometimes, yes, sometimes this is because the offended person&#8217;s response is <i>itself</i> racist. That is, the &#8220;recipient&#8221; of the offense harbors their own stereotypes and prejudices that cause them to be offended.</p>
<p>Which is the case here?</p>
<p>I find absolutely nothing offensive, nothing racist about these caricatures. If I thought there was even a remote possibility that they were offensive, I would not have posted them. But to my eyes, they&#8217;re not based on race in any way, and my first response is to think that those who believe they <i>are</i> based on race are making some racial judgments of their own.</p>
<p>When Kris and I read your complaints last night, we were baffled. Seriously. We spent a long time looking at the caricatures, trying to puzzle out the problem. We couldn&#8217;t find it. It didn&#8217;t make sense to us. Even after reading your follow-up comments, it makes little sense to me. <b>These are not caricatures based on race.</b> To me, they&#8217;re caricatures based on a segment of popular culture, a culture like &#8220;goth&#8221; or &#8220;redneck&#8221; or &#8220;jock&#8221;. In this case, it&#8217;s &#8220;rap&#8221; culture.</p>
<p>Even that is a little broad for what I see happening here. I cannot speak for the artist&#8217;s intent (I&#8217;ve had no communication with the site that produced these), but it seems to me that for an article about money writers, they looked for a culture that featured prominent displays of materialism as a way to be funny. It worked. These caricatures are funny because this is not who we (the financial writers) are. We don&#8217;t flash our wealth. We&#8217;re not &#8220;bad-ass&#8221;. We don&#8217;t possess those attitudes. </p>
<p>The artist might have made other choices, too. Maybe she could have portrayed us as bankers or investors. If I were doing this myself, I would have based the caricatures on rich comic-strip characters (Scrooge McDuck, Richie Rich, Daddy Warbucks, etc.). But choosing rap culture is not inherently racist. In fact, I find it a little racist to claim that &#8220;rap culture&#8221; is equivalent to &#8220;black culture&#8221;, which is the logical leap that&#8217;s being made here.</p>
<p>Are all rappers black? Are all African-Americans rappers? And Cairsten, why do you perceive these people as &#8220;thugs&#8221;, &#8220;thieves&#8221;, &#8220;foul-mouthed&#8221;, and &#8220;violent&#8221;? <i>I</i> don&#8217;t. But I do associate rappers with a sort of <i>braggadacio</i>, a swagger, a &#8220;tough-guy&#8221; act. And I associate them with flashy materialism. That&#8217;s what the caricaturist is going for here, and I think it works.</p>
<p>When I saw these caricatures, I didn&#8217;t think about skin color at all. Even after the two complaints, I still don&#8217;t perceive them as being related to skin color. Rose and Cairsten, I understand your concerns here, and I think they&#8217;re noble &mdash; I do &mdash; but I also think they&#8217;re misguided in this instance.</p>
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		<title>By: Ajax</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 14:14:26 +0000</pubDate>
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