Pay Yourself First
Published on - October 19th, 2009 (Modified on - December 29th, 2009) (by J.D. Roth) This article is the fourth of a fourteen-part series that explores the core tenets of Get Rich Slowly. It’s also a part of National Save for Retirement Week.
One of the oldest rules of personal finance is the simple admonition to pay yourself first. All the money books tell you to do it. All the personal finance blogs say it, too. Even your parents have given you the same advice.
But it’s hard. That money could be used someplace else. You could pay the phone bill, could pay down debt, could buy a new DVD player. You’ve tried once or twice in the past, but it’s so easy to forget. You don’t keep a budget, so when payday rolls around, the money just finds its way elsewhere.
And besides: What does “pay yourself first” even mean?
To pay yourself first means simply this: Before you pay your bills, before you buy groceries, before you do anything else, set aside a portion of your income to save. Put the money into your 401(k), your Roth IRA, or your savings account. The first bill you pay each month should be to yourself. This habit, developed early, can help you build tremendous wealth.
Why pay yourself first?
If you’re just getting started in the Real World, saving may seem impossible. You have rent, a car payment, groceries, and maybe student loans. Sure, you’d like to save, but there’s just no money left at the end of the month. And that’s the problem: Most people save what’s left over — left over after bills and after discretionary spending.
But if you don’t develop the saving habit now, there are always going to be reasons to delay: you need dental work, you want to go to Mexico with your friends, you aren’t making enough to pay your bills. Here are three reasons to start saving now instead of waiting until next year (or the year after):
- When you pay yourself first, you’re mentally establishing saving as a priority. You’re telling yourself that you are more important than the electric company or the landlord. Building savings is a powerful motivator — it’s empowering.
- Paying yourself first encourages sound financial habits. Most people spend their money in the following order: bills, fun, saving. Unsurprisingly, there’s usually little left over to put in the bank. But if you bump saving to the front — saving, bills, fun — you’re able to set the money aside before you rationalize reasons to spend it.
- By paying yourself first, you’re building a cash buffer with real-world applications. Regular steady contributions are an excellent way to build a nest egg. You can use the money to deal with emergencies. You can use it to purchase a house. You can use it to save for retirement. Paying yourself first gives you freedom — it opens a world of opportunity.
I’ve never met anyone who does not wish they had started saving earlier. Nobody tells themselves, “Saving was a mistake.” No matter what your age, begin saving now. And if you already save, consider boosting how much you set aside each month.
How to pay yourself first
The best way to develop a saving a habit is to make the process as painless as possible. Make it automatic. Make it invisible. If you arrange to have the money taken from your paycheck before you receive it, you’ll never know it’s missing.
Part of your savings plan will probably include retirement, but you should also save for intermediate goals too, such as buying a house, paying for a honeymoon, or purchasing a new car. Here are three easy ways to begin doing this yourself:
- If your employer offers a retirement plan — such as a 401(k) — enroll as soon as possible, especially if the company matches your contributions. Matched contributions are like free money.
- Starting a Roth IRA is one of the smartest moves a young adult can make. These accounts allow your investments to grow tax-free. Because of the extraordinary power of compound interest (and compound returns), regular investments in a Roth IRA from an early age can lead to enormous future wealth.
- Open a high interest savings account at a bank like ING Direct or FNBO Direct. Set up automatic transfers into this account, either directly from your paycheck or from your regular bank account. Treat these transfers like you’d treat any other financial obligation. This should be your first and most important bill every month.
The real barrier to developing this habit is finding the money to save. Many people believe it’s impossible. But almost everyone can save at least 1% of their income. That’s only one penny out of every dollar. Some will argue that saving this little is meaningless. But if a skeptic will try to save just 1% of his income, he’ll usually discover the process is painless. Maybe next he’ll try to save 3%. Or 5%. As his saving rate increases, so his nest egg will grow.
If you’re struggling to find money to save, consider setting aside your next raise for the future. As your income increases, set your gains aside for retirement and savings. Once you’re contributing the maximums to your retirement (and you’ve built emergency savings), you can begin to use your raises for yourself again. Sure, this means your effective salary will stagnate for a year or three or five. But it also means you’ll force yourself to develop the saving habit.
Further Reading
No matter what your age, you should make it a priority to develop a regular saving plan. Establishing this habit early can lead to increased financial security later in life. But even those of us who got a late start should do our best to pay ourselves first. I didn’t begin doing this until just a few years ago. Better late than never.
Though many personal finance books briefly explore the idea of paying yourself first, David Bach’s 2003 best-seller, The Automatic Millionaire is devoted exclusively to the subject. The entire book is a step-by-step guide to developing the saving habit and making it automatic. If you’d like more ideas about how to make this work in your life, this is the place to look. Any good public library will have a copy. Finally, here’s a recent Get Rich Slowly discussion about how much you should save for retirement.
Pay yourself first, my friends. It’s a habit that you will never regret.
This is the fourth of a fourteen-part series that explores my financial philosophy. These are the core tenets of Get Rich Slowly. Other parts include:
- Tenet #1: Money is more about mind than it is about math
- Tenet #2: The road to wealth is paved with goals
- Tenet #3: To build wealth, you must spend less than you earn
- Tenet #4: Pay yourself first
- Tenet #5: Small amounts matter
- Tenet #6: Large amounts matter, too
- Tenet #7: Do what works for you
- Tenet #8: Slow and steady wins the race
- Tenet #9: The perfect is the enemy of the good
- Tenet #10: Failure is okay
- Tenet #11: Financial balance lets you enjoy tomorrow and today
- Tenet #12: Nobody cares more about your money than you do
- Tenet #13: Action beats inaction
- Tenet #14: It’s more important to be happy than to be rich
Look for a new installment in this series every Monday through the end of the year.
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This is just a personal story of how strong the psychological effect of teaching yourself to pay yourself first, can have.
I am a 25 year old single woman who was only making about 25k/year. I lost my job 1 month ago (2 months after purchasing my first house and 1 month after purchasing a car–after my very first and only car, a 10 year old Mazda I drove since high school, gave out 1wk and 1 day after closing on the house). For the first time since I was 16 I am living on no income (only my emergency funds), and with about $1,000/month more in bills than I had 3 months ago (and more monthly bills than I’ve ever had in my life).
Even after all of this, I can, at the least, afford to pay my mortgage, car, and bills for 3 more months. I’m a FTHB that bought a house in August and I’ll be getting an 8k tax credit about the time I would be running out of money (assuming I haven’t gotten a job by then.)
Although my funds are dwindling away I still pay my savings account that I’ve been building since I bought the house, every two weeks as if I were still getting a paycheck. The worst thing that could happen is I would need to use that money. The best thing that could happen is I get a job soon and now I have income again plus a still-growing savings account. Of course then my emergency savings will be a pile of poop by then but at least it’s a start.
I’ve learned my lesson though, EMERGENY FUNDS EMERGENCY FUNDS EMERGENCY FUNDS. Instead of using the 8k to pay off my car like I was intending, half of that sucker is going towards rebuilding a 6-12 month emergency fund. The only reason why I had the “emergency funds” is because the home I bought was a fixer-upper and I needed to have money left over. Fortunately I had my wits about me and was determined not to spend a cent of that money until I’d built my savings back up to at least a few months income. Unfortunately I was laid off before I could build my savings so my “house funds” became my “emergency funds” by default. Meh, so is life. BRING ON 2010!
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I just wanted to add that I do have a Roth IRA, just over 7k. I put $1000/year into it, but I couldn’t this year, I had to use that money towards my home down-payment. I don’t have a 401K yet, but the second I get a job, especially one that offers matching, I will fully fund it.
My future financial goals are to diversify my saving accounts. I currently only have my checking, my savings, and my ROTH. I’d like to start an e-fund, money market (to put extra money towards paying my mortgage off early). A 5 year CD ladder, and of course the 401k. I’d also like to be able to start a high-yield savings/investment accounts with about $500/year for my niece and 2 nephews.
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Update. I have a job now (that pays 25% more and is 40 minutes closer). Although I’ll have lost two paychecks in between where I got my last paycheck and where I’ll be getting my next one, I haven’t skipped a single payment to myself and hope to give “myself” a 50% raise
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I wanted to add that I also like to think of “paying myself” as paying a bill. Light bill, car bill, Laura bill. I give myself a credit card allowance for each month that gets paid off monthly; I like to call it the envelope system for credit cards. If after bills/savings are paid and I don’t have enough left over to cover next month’s allowance (which I rarely spend anyways), then I cut that budget beforehand.
I ALWAYS KNOW HOW MUCH I CAN SPEND BEFORE I SPEND IT. Because of this I rarely, if ever need to take money out of savings. Believe me, this took so long for me to learn. I’ve never really saved short-term before (like for vacations, new clothes, etc etc.) because I just buy what I need and what I want with left over money in my checking after bills and savings are paid. And best of all it is GUILT FREE because it is pre-designated as “fun-money”. I also tend to be more particular about what I buy, and therefore tend to only get stuff I really love.
I personally save more with long-term, big-budget goals in mind (retirement, home improvements, paying off mortgage, paying off car, building substantial emergency funds, building investment funds). With my CC allowance method each month I can buy whatever semi-major thing I want, I just can’t buy more than the allowance for that month covers, and I have to wait until the next month if additional wants push me out of this month’s budget.
If I have a major expenditure coming my way (vacation or furniture) I underspend my CC allowance for a couple months until I’ve built up enough cash in checking to assure I can cover an inflated CC bill.
KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE TO WORK WITH AND WORK AROUND THAT. That is the key purpose of paying yourself first. You will be surprised what income you can adjust to and don’t feel shy about playing with that level until you reach a place that is both functional and enjoyable for you.
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Always pay yourself first. You have worked hard for that money and it is yours. The rest can wait. Major companies follow this philosophy so why should we not.
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It should actually be “Pay Your Investments First”. Sure savings is great, but you need to keep your money moving rather than being parked in a savings account. Over time your investments will pay for your luxuries.
First you need to take control of spending & track every single cent that comes in and out of your accounts. Its amazing how much excess spending you can cut back on by being stringent and tracking everything. At the end of the month, any additional cash thats left over, goes into savings & investment.
Than the next step is to be creative and look at ways of increasing income by adding additional income streams, be it a part time job, a part time business or selling items on EBay.
The same creativity can be applied to expenses & looking at ways of saving money.. making your lunch everyday, growing your own vegetables, getting rid of cable.
Any goal or outcome is achievable if you plan for it
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