This guest post from Rita marks the start of a new feature here at Get Rich Slowly. Every Sunday will include a reader story (in the new “reader story” category). Some will be general “how I did X” stories, but most will be like this: An example of how a GRS reader achieved financial success.
I discovered Get Rich Slowly from a link on MSN Money in the fall of 2008. I’d just purchased a home with my husband and I was in a lot of debt (we keep separate finances for reasons of convenience). I’m not the type of person to feel hopeless or sorry for myself. I realized that I had only myself to blame for my situation and I really wanted to turn things around.
The best thing I ever did
The single best thing I ever did for myself was create an excel spreadsheet which added up the debt that I owed. I’d never taken a look at my “number” before and, oddly enough, it made me feel better knowing that I was getting organized. I then created a list of my monthly fixed expenses and a paycheck-by-paycheck spending plan (I don’t like the word “budget” because it sounds too restricting). Whatever I had left over each paycheck was my debt snowball.
My situation was relatively simple: I made a nice salary and I had money left over each paycheck because I had already optimized my auto insurance, cell phone bill, gym membership, etc. After looking at past bank statements and credit card bills, I realized that I wasn’t spending money on clothes, video games, etc. but I was spending way too much on experiences (trips, dining out, concerts, etc). Understanding my spending habits helped me plan for debt elimination.
In order to start my debt snowball, I ordered my debts from the smallest to the largest (conveniently, my smallest debts also had the highest interest). I scheduled payments to the assigned debt each paycheck until it was gone and then moved on to the next debt. I estimated that it was going to take me about 18 months to pay off everything; however, I was fortunate enough to receive a sizable bonus this month (of which I put $1,000 in savings and the rest toward the last of my debt).
The secrets of my success
I believe I was successful for a few reasons:
- I read Get Rich Slowly everyday to keep me motivated. It was nice to know that other people were in or had been in my situation before and were able to pay off their debt and save for their future.
- I also allowed myself a certain amount of “fun money” each paycheck to keep me motivated and happy. I paid all of my bills as soon as I received my paycheck (including my debt) and all that was left in my account was my fun money (this is how I kept myself from overspending on activities).
- Most importantly, if I had a minor setback (car repair, vet bill, etc) that ate into my debt snowball, I did not let it get me down.
I also went through my share of challenges. I tried to follow your advice that I should build a small emergency fund before paying off my debt, but I failed at this numerous times. I have always been a little bit of a risk-taker, so I decided that I had a large enough cash flow to just pay for unexpected expenses out of my debt snowball if needed. I was also in debt elimination mode so I felt like that money would be better spent on my debt. I wouldn’t necessarily recommend this method, because I do think it is better to build a small savings; however, I was just coming out of a period of bad spending habits and I didn’t trust myself not to spend the money that I had in savings.
Some would say that I should have put my fun money toward my debt instead of spending it, but I believe that having that extra money to spend on whatever I wanted was what made me succeed in paying off my debt so quickly. When I started my debt payoff, I cut up all of my credit cards (and left the accounts open) and just used the fun money in my bank account to spend freely. I know I would have paid off my debt sooner had I not spent this money, but I was a much happier person for having it.
Life after debt
Now that my debt is paid off, I have a new spending plan which allocates a large portion of what was previously my debt snowball to a Roth IRA and an HSBC Direct online savings account (my emergency fund). Funds are allocated to my accounts through direct deposit each paycheck so that I can’t mess with them. Once my online savings account has reached my goal, I’ll begin allocating funds to a few other online savings accounts (one for vacations, one for a car, and one for irregular expenses).
I’m now able to keep my needs at 50% and allocate 20% to my wants and 30% to my savings (I am maxing out my Roth IRA and building an emergency fund). My goals for the future include paying cash for my next car, building a $20K emergency fund, and paying off my federal student loans.
Thanks so very much for creating such a useful and inspiring blog. I will continue to be an avid reader and forward your posts to my friends.
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Rita, what an inspiring story.
JD, thumbs up on the new columns.
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Congratulations Rita! I also allow myself a small amount of fun money, which helps me stay the course on paying back my debts.
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Rita, thank you for sharing your story. Very inspiring.
JD, what a great feature. I look forward to more reader stories.
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Awesome that you knew yourself enough to know exactly how to stay motivated. Good job, and good luck with the rest of your goals.
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Congrats, Rita!
Looking forward to more reader stories as well.
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Congrats Rita!!! I’m so close to paying off 67K in credit card debt….and we still allow ourselves to have fun and go on vacation. People have said we’re doing things wrong….but it works for us and that is what is most important!!! We all need balance in our lives and the uber-frugal lifestyle isn’t for everyone. WTG!!
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Very nice…everyone has to find what works for them and congrats to Rita for finding her path! Thanks to JD for providing “real stories”!!
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I also love this new feature. What a great idea!
Rita — I totally agree that you need to allocate money for fun even while paying down debt. I know that if I didn’t have a bit of “free” money to spend on whatever I wanted, I would go crazy with the credit card after a few months.
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Rita: I’m with the prior posters – no need to explain or feel embarrassed about allocating money for fun – your success is the best evidence that your plan worked. Congratulations on paying off your debt – that is a HUGE success – and good luck on hitting your next financial goals.
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Thanks so much for sharing your story, Rita, and congratulations on getting your debt paid off. I’m especially impressed that once your debt was repaid, you redirected that money towards savings.
Like several others said, I do think it’s important to allow for some fun money while paying off debt. When we first started paying off our debt in our 20′s, we didn’t and were miserable.
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Nicely done, Rita – a very smart, balanced approach.
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Great new feature although if we have to be “nice” then that will certainly take all the fun out of it.
Good story Rita – it’s nice to hear a success story with the details about what worked for you.
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Yeah, i totally agree with the bit about “fun money.” It’s like dieting–nothing’s more depressing than having to stick with a strictly regimented routine. Letting yourself loose once in a while with a treat keeps up the motivation and makes you feel rewarded for hard work. Good job
I also look forward (totally sarcastic here) to paying off loans after leaving college. Keeping a spreadsheet in excel was a good idea–I’ll probably do that once I buckle down to paying my student debt.
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Well done Rita. Sounds like you did an awesome job. It’s great to be able to pay off that last dollar of debt – makes you feel great for the day and most of the week afterwards.
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I agree with previous comments on the issue of the fun money. I re-evaluated my plan this last month and realized it wasn’t working for me because of a lack of any fun money and not setting aside money for other irregular expenses. I was starting to get really depressed about my budget, so I changed it.
Congratulations!
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Kudos, Rita! I’m so happy to read about people who manage to escape debt and find true financial freedom! I hope to read about many, many more stories like yours in the coming year!
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I have three children and 2 dogs and unexpected expenses come fairly often.
It sounds like you have the right idea to not get so rigid with the budget that you are easily put off-track but these financial setbacks. Like you, however, I find it difficult to keep an emergency fund simply because it’s there for the taking; I will look into cd’s as a better way to control my spending impulse (just wish the rates were a little more rewarding!).
Thanks for the insight, Rita…your story is an inspiration! I look forward to being where you are and, hopefully (with a little luck and a lot of discipline), within 18 to 24 months.
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Great story, Rita!
The idea of “fun money” is very important. It’s kind of like going on a diet, if you don’t allow yourself any “wiggle room”, you are bound to lose motivation, and fail in your efforts.
Congratulations on being debt-free!
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Rita,
I’m impressed by your ability to allocate 50% of your income to savings. That means that you have not upgraded your lifestyle to match your salary. Housing is usually someone’s single biggest expense and if you have control there, the rest is easy.
I totally agree on the spreadsheet thing. It was eye opening knowing the % of my income going to certain categories. There were some suprises when I did it.
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Congratulations on paying off your debts Rita! I LOVE reading these inspiring stories! Keep ‘em coming!
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Am so inspired by your story, Rita! Thank you!
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Forgive me for posting a comment off topic, but I want people to know of a con I was tricked into.
I bought some clothes from Blair.com 5 months back, and for the last 4 months, they have been charging 14.95 USD on my creditcard, for “Blair Rewards” program that I never signed up for, and when I try to call them, their customer care number plays the same message in a loop, that they cant answer my calls due to a high volume of calls.
I have read that this is a common experience with blair.com, but am not sure how to get my money back.
http://www.viewpoints.com/Blair-com-review-12b84
http://www.complaintsboard.com/bycompany/blaircom-a42897.html
Has anyone else had this experience?
I would request people not to do business with this company, that practices such shady deals.
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Great work Rita! I went through the same process 10 years ago, and moved forward with great success. I wish you the same good luck.
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Love this post! My “fun money” is what gets me through each week, but every payoff day feels great.
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JD what a great feature! I will look forward to Readers’ Stories every Sunday now.
Rita – congratulations on taking control of your debt, and on listing your plan to eliminate it.
In particular, I like how you examined your reasons for spending.
Every person is different – I frown on myself for spending on ‘stuff’ (especially when it’s small and mindless and easily forgotten), whereas when I spend on experiences I think it’s all right – in my case these are planned for, saved for, and not very usual. It’s all a matter of one’s priorities.
Also, I smiled when I read that you listed all of your debts and needed to come up with ‘your number’. I did exactly that, in 2006, when taking control of my debt. It was not a happy afternoon, but knowledge is an important first step. I am happy to report that I eliminated my debt last April and now I spend a little and save a lot. Writing down all the debts, their rates and who I owed them to was the most important step for me back then.
Keep up the good work Rita, like you I read GRS every day (it’s one of my default tab opens when I start my day). Stories like yours inspire me to return here every day, to continue a debt-free lifestyle and plan for the future.
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This is a great start to what’s going to be a great series, I like it.
Love how she still allocated money for “fun,” even when you’re paying off debt you should still be able to have a life!! I love knowing I’m not the only one with weaknesses for some spending money.
I hope to be a success story when I pay off my ~$30k worth of student loans…. I don’t feel like much of a financial success until that’s over. (Even though I have no other consumer debt, other than a very tiny car loan, and have started retirement savings.)
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Congrats Rita! Great post to start the New Year.
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Great points. I agree that reading this blog and others every day is a great way to stay motivated!
Also, it is definitely important to allocate fun money. Everyone wants to get out of debt, but most people haven’t done it yet. Why? Because it is not fun enough. Fun money makes the process faster because we actually enjoy it!
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Rita, I truly enjoyed hearing about your story. I think one of the other commenters had it correct when they compared it to dieting… actually because of your story I may take a look at how I structure my budget…
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Great post, Rita! Thank you for sharing your story with us!
I loved the point about really needing to understand your spending habits in order to change them. I also agree that a bit of “fun money” is needed too. I know if I didn’t give myself little bits of money to spend guilt-free (even though those bits are very small right now) I’d go crazy and blow a whole bunch of money on something just to make myself feel better.
Again, thanks for taking the time to write this up and share it with us. I love this new Reader Stories column!
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For the record, Caitlin (#30) will be next week’s featured “reader story”. Stay tuned to learn how she trimmed 16 years from her mortgage in just one hour!
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The use of Excel for budgeting and Debt Reduction has helped me as well. I have been able to reduce spending over the last 2 months which has helped with Debt Reduction.
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Great story, can’t wait to hear more like this.
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Hey Rita, I really enjoyed your post – really!
When you wrote that you’re “not the type of person to feel hopeless or sorry for [yourself]“, I started thinking about how easy it is for me to blame other people for my problems. It’s a great way to avoid making changes to ourselves, where it really counts! Haha. Your story is an inspiration for change. Happy New Years!
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Hi Rita,
This is a travesty! You should have gotten rid of all your 37 cars, lived like a hermit, made your own soap, moved back in with your parents…And then you wouldn’t have been in debt in the first place!
Haha, I’m only kidding. Great job, and a great first post. You may have a future as a blogger.
Hope to see your posts here again at some point!
-Erica
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Fantastic story, and very similar to my own recent history.
However, I have one salient question with respect to your Roth IRA:
HOW (with whom?) did you arrange for direct deposit into your Roth? I’ve contacted several banks to set up exaclu such a beast, but they have all been unanimous in their refusal to accept direct deposit into a Roth. Some muddled explanation about unintened tax consequences.
Tell me which bank does it and I’m open an account there post-haste!
Congrats!
Chad
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I love these stories but I would love to get some numbers. I know there is a unwritten rule to not talk about how much you make and spend. In this case, I think it could only be helpful.
If we knew salary compared to bills, I think it would be easier for the reader to understand if it’s possible for them. Especially as a homeowner.
Sometimes it’s a eye opener that one needs a better job or is paying way too much for a home. Not just senseless spending.
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Yes, Frank. Obviously Rita was making a decent salary. We were able to pay off a lot of debt our first year of marriage. We lived in a trailer (as in travel trailer) and lived very “tight” but it was only one year. A person can endure almost anything when the end is in sight!
My husband also made something like 40K (can’t remember, to tell you the truth–maybe it was only 30K) over 20 years ago) and so we were able to pay off close to 20K in debt that year by being careful, still having a place to live, but obviously no mortgage. Friends let us park their trailer on their ground without charge though of course we paid for our own utilities. We went out for dinner on our first anniversary but otherwise, no eating out, etc.
But we wouldn’t have been able to do it on a salary of $1000/month.
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Paying off +/- 18k in 18 months. Impressive!
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We worked a similar plan to pay off our $55,500 in debt. That first step of adding up the debt is a big one. We worked a debt snowball and our plan was similar, we paid our bills, allocated money to savings, paid on our debt snowball and the rest was our allowance for day to day spending which included groceries, dry cleaning, gas, entertainment, etc. And even during our debt paydown project we still took a vacation but we saved up for it and paid for it in cash.
Being debt free is super awesome. We resolved to get debt free in late December 2006 and started working our plan on January 1, 2007, we were debt free as of January 15, 2008.
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I did the same thing with a simple Excel list of all our debt in Dec. 2004… so painful at the time, but it really helps. We’ve kept up the spreadsheet, all the way out of debt, and now it tracks our savings and investment balances.
Like the reader stories!
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Great story! I can’t wait to have regular income again so that I can start using the 50/30/20 method. I love Rita’s use of monthly fun money. I don’t have any debt anymore, but I do tend to get so wound up in savings that I feel guilty for anything fun I spend. If I paid myself first and stuck a set amount in savings, I bet I’d feel a lot better about using some of my money for me.
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I agree with Rita and the others about fun money. I didn’t spend anything on “fun” when I was paying off debt, but after paying it off, it took me awhile to learn how to lighten up a little with spending. Great job, Rita!
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Congratulations!! You made a plan that worked for you and stuck with it!
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Great job, Rita!
I agree with everyone above – you definitely need some “fun” money, too. Even if it’s not very much – you need to occasionally be able to go out for dinner, or get coffee, see a movie, or visit a museum. It’s no fun to sit inside your house all day.
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JD – I think this is a courageous and refreshing move, sharing GRS reader stories in their own voice. It breaks up the monotony that can sometimes result from just reiterating tried-and-true mantras. I do not agree with the sentiment that more details are needed, budgets and spending plans are by their very nature nuanced and user specific. We all have the capacity to assess the sensibilities of our households and figure out how much can be devoted to debt reduction, investments, savings – given our fixed expenses and salary. Sometimes I think more details give people carte blanche to say see I can’t do it because I make $10K less or have two cars, live in a higher cost of living area – everyone can leverage their income better and reduce their debt. The same principles apply. Everyone cannot make the same sacrifices but everyone can make some.
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I loved this post. Great feature. Totally agree on the fun money. W/out it, I feel my need to have fun/relax building up inside me which leads more often than not to a big blowout spend, whereas if I’d been allocating a little bit on an ongoing basis it would save me more in the long run.
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Just wanted to add that I like this feature too. It is great to hear more real people doing real money stuff. Thanks!
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Thanks Rita for sharing your story. I look forward to more reader stories. I agree with comment #37 (Frank) and think actual figures would also be beneficial if people feel comfortable providing them.
Thanks!
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Congratulations on all you have accomplished so far!
I do have one nit to pick (apparently I am the only one
). Right near the end of the article you said you were still paying off your federal student loans. As someone who just recently finished paying off $58000 myself, my student loans were the first thing to go. Even if your interest rate is really low (like with most people, but not me) you are still in debt, just not “consumer” debt.
Good luck with the rest of your journey.
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