This guest post from Rita marks the start of a new feature here at Get Rich Slowly. Every Sunday will include a reader story (in the new “reader story” category). Some will be general “how I did X” stories, but most will be like this: An example of how a GRS reader achieved financial success.
I discovered Get Rich Slowly from a link on MSN Money in the fall of 2008. I’d just purchased a home with my husband and I was in a lot of debt (we keep separate finances for reasons of convenience). I’m not the type of person to feel hopeless or sorry for myself. I realized that I had only myself to blame for my situation and I really wanted to turn things around.
The best thing I ever did
The single best thing I ever did for myself was create an excel spreadsheet which added up the debt that I owed. I’d never taken a look at my “number” before and, oddly enough, it made me feel better knowing that I was getting organized. I then created a list of my monthly fixed expenses and a paycheck-by-paycheck spending plan (I don’t like the word “budget” because it sounds too restricting). Whatever I had left over each paycheck was my debt snowball.
My situation was relatively simple: I made a nice salary and I had money left over each paycheck because I had already optimized my auto insurance, cell phone bill, gym membership, etc. After looking at past bank statements and credit card bills, I realized that I wasn’t spending money on clothes, video games, etc. but I was spending way too much on experiences (trips, dining out, concerts, etc). Understanding my spending habits helped me plan for debt elimination.
In order to start my debt snowball, I ordered my debts from the smallest to the largest (conveniently, my smallest debts also had the highest interest). I scheduled payments to the assigned debt each paycheck until it was gone and then moved on to the next debt. I estimated that it was going to take me about 18 months to pay off everything; however, I was fortunate enough to receive a sizable bonus this month (of which I put $1,000 in savings and the rest toward the last of my debt).
The secrets of my success
I believe I was successful for a few reasons:
- I read Get Rich Slowly everyday to keep me motivated. It was nice to know that other people were in or had been in my situation before and were able to pay off their debt and save for their future.
- I also allowed myself a certain amount of “fun money” each paycheck to keep me motivated and happy. I paid all of my bills as soon as I received my paycheck (including my debt) and all that was left in my account was my fun money (this is how I kept myself from overspending on activities).
- Most importantly, if I had a minor setback (car repair, vet bill, etc) that ate into my debt snowball, I did not let it get me down.
I also went through my share of challenges. I tried to follow your advice that I should build a small emergency fund before paying off my debt, but I failed at this numerous times. I have always been a little bit of a risk-taker, so I decided that I had a large enough cash flow to just pay for unexpected expenses out of my debt snowball if needed. I was also in debt elimination mode so I felt like that money would be better spent on my debt. I wouldn’t necessarily recommend this method, because I do think it is better to build a small savings; however, I was just coming out of a period of bad spending habits and I didn’t trust myself not to spend the money that I had in savings.
Some would say that I should have put my fun money toward my debt instead of spending it, but I believe that having that extra money to spend on whatever I wanted was what made me succeed in paying off my debt so quickly. When I started my debt payoff, I cut up all of my credit cards (and left the accounts open) and just used the fun money in my bank account to spend freely. I know I would have paid off my debt sooner had I not spent this money, but I was a much happier person for having it.
Life after debt
Now that my debt is paid off, I have a new spending plan which allocates a large portion of what was previously my debt snowball to a Roth IRA and an HSBC Direct online savings account (my emergency fund). Funds are allocated to my accounts through direct deposit each paycheck so that I can’t mess with them. Once my online savings account has reached my goal, I’ll begin allocating funds to a few other online savings accounts (one for vacations, one for a car, and one for irregular expenses).
I’m now able to keep my needs at 50% and allocate 20% to my wants and 30% to my savings (I am maxing out my Roth IRA and building an emergency fund). My goals for the future include paying cash for my next car, building a $20K emergency fund, and paying off my federal student loans.
Thanks so very much for creating such a useful and inspiring blog. I will continue to be an avid reader and forward your posts to my friends.
Reminder: This is a story from one of your fellow readers. Please be nice. After nearly a decade of blogging, I have a thick skin, but it can be scary to put your story out in public for the first time. Remember that this guest author isn’t a professional writer, and is just learning about money like you are.
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Congratulations Rita! Very inspiring story & JD – love this feature. Thanks for all you do!
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Great posting, thank you!
Just a comment to the owner of this blog — I find myself very interested in many of your postings and yet oftentimes a bit overloaded by the sheer volume of information in each posting. Personally, I would prefer if long postings such as today’s would be broken up into smaller segments so that I could more more easily fit my review of the information into my email time for the day.
Others may possibly feel the same way, so I thought I’d pass this idea along.
Again, thanks for what you do, and Happy New Year.
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A lot of people here have mentioned that they use an Excel spreadsheet for budgeting/debt reduction. I want to do this, but I have no clue how to set it up. Can anyone give suggestions?
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This is kind of boring…we cheer and then move on. Then what? There would have been more to learn with real numbers. Maybe it’s time to focus on Getting Fit Slowly….hmmmm. Then when we all become fit we’ll get bored….!
HAVE A PROGRESSIVE DECADE, EVERYONE!
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Many people are putting their money into online savings accounts and i think that is a great idea! It allows you to save without really knowing you’re saving until when you look at your emergency fund and realize that you’ve saved a good amount. Congrats on your free-debt days!
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Loved this article! Rita SHOULD write professionally, as this was very plainly put and really met me where I’m at right now. Thanks, JD, for a wonderful and inspiring site.
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I am thrilled with the idea of this new feature because real stories from actual people make the process more real somehow.
But I agree with Frank (#37): more detailed numbers would be a **huge** plus. I can have a conversation with a friend about refinancing my mortgage and how beneficial it was to have good credit when I did so, but somehow that lacks the same punch as saying “I refinanced my $263K mortgage into a 5.375% 30-year, but there’s no way I would have been able to do that on my $45K salary if I was still carrying $10K in debt.”
Can you make a point of asking people to include some hard numbers in their stories? Not just how much debt was paid off, but what their monthly fixed expenses were–or how they shaved those monthly fixed expenses from C to Z–and what they earned from the first job, second job taken to help pay off debt, etc. That would be extremely helpful, and inspiring.
Thanks!
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Thank you for explaining some of HOW you got out of debt. It’s nice to be motivated, but I want to learn and I can’t learn if I don’t know HOW someone did it: What calculators/resources did you use? What was your plan exactly? What worked? What didn’t work? Did you get a second job? Did you originally buy a house that you could afford on one salary only and that’s what freed up money? What was your frame of mind? How did you stay focused? What tempted you away from your plan and how did you resist that temptation? And what bumps did you encounter? How did you overcome the bumps? This meat part of the stories is going to be GREAT!
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This was interesting and I’ll be glad to see more of this feature. I was surprised to see one person thought it was too long, as I thought it very short. To each his own, I suppose. I will say that I don’t agree that there’s any need for specifics beyond those offered by the author. This is her story. If someone else wants to get into the details of their own budget, that’ll be up to them.
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This is a perfect example of “doing what works for you”. Great post!
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Rita, you’re not the only one who thinks “fun money” is important! My husband and I each get $25 a month, which isn’t much, I know, but it keeps us from going crazy not being able to have the little things we want.
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Go Rita! A truly inspiring story! I like how you attacked debt first before establishing an emergency fund – I have felt like a failure for years because of my inability to leave that EF alone. We finally opened a savings with ING, so the money is not immediately available. This has made a big difference. We are almost at $1000.
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It’s interesting that the big place to be cut was the experiences. Did you just cut back on the number? Or did you swap out for other less expensive experiences (switching from high end dining to unknown ethnic)? Or a combination of both?
I agree with a couple of other people that it’s the details that make the story really useful for others and not just motivational.
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Congratulations, Rita!
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I have to agree with the calls for numbers and details. This is a great accomplishment but it seems like this story is only halfway finished, kind of like a recipe without any measurements. I see a lot of these stories and I notice the same thing about the vast majority of them: no hard numbers, no techniques explained, no household demographic info, etc. Details please! These things would help others assess if a similar strategy could work for them.
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Nice article. I like the length and do not need the amounts.
JD – I am wondering if people who get through large debt ever roll there snowball into large savings….
Thank you for adding voices.
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I’m inspired. Thank you for posting this alternative to the building emergency savings first for us spending-holics. Paying off my small debts is energizing me to continue. I’m so excited that my billpay for my first pay-off is going out in 2 days and I know that I’ll be able to power through these smaller debts a lot easier than it would be to save up $1K which is no small task for us spenders. I find this to be better for me as an action-junkie. I don’t need many specifics because I was thinking about my own $$ the whole time anyway. We do love Get Rich Slowly and after we pay off our debt I’ll make a mental note to have #s for all of you when I write my success story.
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Wow congrats Rita! I admire your discipline and determination to pay off your debts. Thanks for being willing to share your story. I completely agree with some of the other commenters when they mentioned featuring “real people” in the stories. Thanks JD – great idea and I’m really looking forward to reading more of them!
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congrats to you!! Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring others!
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