This post is from new staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and getting her kids to eat kale at Childwild.com. Last week, J.D. wrote about Stuff; today, Sierra shares her thoughts on the costs of clutter.
Do you have piles of papers lurking on your desk? Mountains of laundry looming beside your bed? Shelves double-stacked with knick-knacks? I have a bit of a clutter problem myself. The other day, I spent an hour looking for the vacuum cleaner, which eventually turned up buried under a pile of laundry almost as tall as I am.
All that clutter isn’t just annoying. It’s expensive. That’s right: Excess Stuff can keep costing you money even after it’s been bought and paid for.
How expensive is your Stuff? Professional organizer Jen Hunter of Find Your Floor in Boston says clutter can cost us real money in a lot of ways:
- Buying replacement Stuff: Somewhere in your closet is that pair of running shoes you bought last year. Probably next to the ones you bought the spring before that. Clutter costs us dollars and time when we have to buy duplicates of stuff we know we own but just can’t find.
- Damage to your Stuff: When you have more Stuff than space, storage can become a problem. Things can get stepped on, stored improperly and broken, water-damaged or just so buried they can’t be retrieved when needed.
- Missing deadlines: When your Stuff is disorganized, you wind up paying hundreds of dollars a year in bank fees, late charges, library fines, overdue fees and tax penalties. Trust me on this one. I speak from years of painful experience.
- Renting storage space: Almost 10% of U.S. families rent storage space for belongings that don’t fit in their homes. That’s a lot of dollars going to serve your Stuff instead of your life. Even those that don’t rent space may choose larger homes than they need so that they can store more Stuff.
- Health costs: Out of control clutter can pose health risks from falling, and encourage the growth of allergens like dust and mold. Treatments for those can get expensive. Clutter can also affect your mental health. Writer Ariel Gore saw a therapist until she realized that what she really wanted was a clean home. So she hired a housekeeper for less than she paid the therapist and lived happily ever after.
To Hunter, the biggest cost is an intangible. “It’s the impediment that it presents to people’s lives,” she says.
Stacy J. Kaplan of Clutter Away in San Diego agrees. “You can’t function at your optimum level if you’re disorganized,” Kaplan says. “You wouldn’t run a business without a business plan. If you’re not organized your business will fail. A house is a small business in a way. It’s the operating structure behind what your family is doing.”
Clutter stops us from working as effectively as we otherwise might. At its most basic level, time spent looking for your car keys is time you’re not spending working, playing or relaxing.
It also costs us time because all that Stuff demands attention. While clutter might be a sign of neglect, it requires us to spend time working around it to accomplish basic household tasks like paying bills or preparing a meal. Those extra hours of housework are a drain on time and energy that could go into creative side projects, education or any number of other productive pursuits.
We can become prisoners of our Stuff. J.D. has written a lot here about how Stuff ties up our money. We can inadvertently tie up a lot of our earnings in rarely used sports equipment, video games, and other pricey toys. Selling that unused Stuff frees up not only your cash but your energy. When there’s too much Stuff around you, you’re like a plant in a too-small pot. It’s hard to grow or thrive when hemmed in by clutter.
Of course, the answer isn’t to move to a bigger place. There are families who live happily in 100-square-foot apartments. They just have less Stuff than we do.
The solution is to put your space on a diet. Some basic steps to get started:
- Consider adopting The Compact, an agreement to buy nothing new for one year. This should cut the flow of Stuff coming in down to a trickle.
- To deal with the Stuff you have, go through one small area at a time. Don’t try to do the whole house at once. Choose a room, a closet, a desk, or even just a kitchen drawer.
- A good rule of thumb: Get rid of anything you don’t use or love.
A habit of clutter can be hard to give up. If you’re used to having a lot of Stuff around you, a pared-down space can feel too spare and empty. Before you rush to fill that void, try sitting with it for awhile and really setting an intention for you want to replace your clutter with. It might be original art, new bookcases, workshop space or just more breathing room.
Whatever you choose to do with your space, you can use the same techniques you used to clear it to keep it clean. Don’t keep Stuff you don’t use or need. Don’t buy Stuff you don’t want or need. Spend a little time each day keeping your space organized.
Here are the top three clutter-busting tips from GRS Twitter followers:
- “Throw clutter in bags, put them in the attic. As you need something, take it from the bag. After 6mo, donate bags.” — @jacobmlee
- “For clutter: I’m using @gretchenrubin‘s rules: Make your bed and the 1-min rule: if you can do it in 1 min, do it now!” — @jc_losangeles
- “My fave declutter advice: Spend 15 Mins a day!” — @BudgetsAreSexy
I know we just talked about Stuff last week, but how do you combat clutter? What tips and tricks can you share with readers?
This article is about Consumerism, Self-Improvement
SEARCH FOR RECENT ARTICLES




As I always say…
You can spend a little time getting organized, or you can spend all of your time being disorganized.
loading....
This was a great article! Great suggestions in the comments, too! It inspired me to go through my closet AGAIN and get rid of more clothes that I do not like to wear.
Now if only I can get my cat off my feet…
loading....
I hate all sorts of useless stuff. George Carlin: “A house is just a place to keep your stuff while you go out and get more stuff.”
I have almost completely decluttered my life and it feels great not owning any possessions besides a couch and TV. Trouble in paradise though is my wife and kids. Seems like whenever i throw something out, they bring something right back in. Drives me insane as now I’m picking up all their stuff constantly.
Just thought I’d rant . . .
loading....
I would like to implement the 1-minute rule, but my spouse seems to be opposed to it. She gets frustrated if she has to stand around while I’m doing one of these small tasks. (Even worse is when she finds a small task, then I finish mine and see she is busy so I start another task… leapfrogging until one of us gets frustrated).
We’re also at odds about decluttering. I have finally gotten her on board that decluttering needs to be done, but we’re still orders of magnitude apart as to how much stuff we need to get rid of. Sometimes she even resists when I want to get rid of my own, personal clutter (e.g. clothes.)
Anyone have advice for me?
loading....
Steve, if you are attached to your spouse, have a sit down and figure out what both of you want and how you’re willing to get there. The stupid arguments will stop when you both have the same goals or at least support each other’s goals (at least they did for us and it’s been about 6 months since our sit-down).
loading....
Here’s the strange part for me. Most of my space in my home looks beautiful – lots of space, cool artwork, everything in place but lived-in cozy. Then, enter the walk in closet in my office and all hell breaks loose.
Just moved recently – no, let me correct myself – movers moved me, all 12,000 pounds worth. Hell, I used to move all my stuff in a VW beetle! What happened? I never thought of myself as consumer oriented
. Maybe I should start by getting rid of some of my 65 boxes of books…oh, but oh, I love them so!
loading....
What really works for me is the 5 a day rule. Every day I toss or donate 5 items. It only takes a few minutes. I started doing this in January and now that it has become a habit I find that I look forward to getting rid of 5 items every day even if it is 5 pieces of paper from a file. It really adds up that’s approximately 150 items a month or 1800 items a year. I’m loving the extra space that is being created by getting rid of items that are no longer needed.
loading....
Clutter in the US is directly related to Consumerism
How easy and affordable it is to just buy another item than search for it among clutter in the US! Only if Americans would travel to just Europe and not even any third world nation would they realise in how much excess they live. Here we not only have monster size homes but then folks even rent storage on top of that.
I have had the good fortune of moving for jobs (many times not because of choice)that I had to be selective of what I needed to carry or store. I have realized that things that were not used for 6 months to 1 year are never going to be used, these are prime candidates to get rid of.
loading....
About 10 years ago I needed to pack up the children’s play room in the basement — they had all outgrown it and it was an unused mess. However, between work, teenagers, and all the other things that make up a life, there was never time. I managed the whole thing this way: each time I went into the basement, I took care of one thing — whatever would fit into one hand. By concentrating on the very small, the whole project was accomplished. Did it go quickly? No. Was speed important? No — the end result was. The room is now lined in book cases and has a scrapbooking table and room to exercise. If it hadn’t been for the one-thing-at-a-time approach, it would probably still be a mess.
By the way, things from the playroom were tossed, saved for future grandchildren (washed and stored in the attic), given away to friends, or donated to the elementary school’s after school program — something which I heartily recommend. They constantly need to replace odd checkers, chess pieces, and other small game pieces, so hang on to them and pass them on!
loading....
I remember Suze Orman demonstrating this years ago. When she was on the Oprah show, she would call out of the audience a couple of people who had debt and a couple of people who didn’t. Then she’d have them open up their purses or wallets. People with debt had messy purses, while those with no debt would be neat, with their dollar bills neatly lined up in order. She also visited them in their homes. People with debt often had messy houses, filled with never used purchases, duplicate items, misplaced checks or bills, etc. It was interesting.
loading....
If you’ve ever been through a divorce, you learn to not value “stuff” because you lose a lot of said stuff due to the extreme reduction in income (at least in my case anyway). I now value people and relationships and don’t get attached to my things. Over this past year, I took what was left from our last move, sold a bunch of stuff on Ebay, sold more stuff at a flea market, and got rid of all the clothes I have outgrown
at a consignment store.
I took the proceeds from all this selling and used it toward our yearly vacation in the Carribean.
loading....
I’ve found that a lot of stuff in our house gets accumulated in small packages centralized in the kitchen and bathroom. How many types/containers of pasta do we have because our pantry is unorganized? A lot!
Our bathroom is a also mess because I love buying cosmetics/facial products; my goal is to not buy anything until I use everything up. As a sucker for the next snake-oil cream, this will be challenging, but I’m looking forward to a clean medicine cabinet.
loading....
To Jane in Comment #22:
About jeans, They absolutely have to fit great in all the right places! (Remember to check the 3-way mirror!)
As far as expectations: I totally agree. Don’t obsess about the perfect house. Enjoy your little ones. But get a system for dealing with the outgrown clothes and toys, and purge regularly. (I wish I had done that.)Otherwise you’ll quickly be overwhelmed. Limiting the number of toys is tough, but a great goal. Maybe they can learn to donate them to a kid’s charity as they get older. Keep 2 or 3 of the cutest baby outfits/shoes in a cedar chest and hand down all the rest.
loading....
Steve:
Maybe a face-to-face about what your “Ideal” home would look like. Start with one room. Clip pictures and websites for style ideas for inspiration. (Our daughter did a complete HGTV-style makeover of our bedroom. It opened my eyes to the possibilities.) Then decide on practical, manageable ways to make it happen. I use realistic deadlines to help me keep my goals. (And it’s always a work-in-progress.)
What is your spouse’s history? Tough childhood or maybe suffered a loss (house fire, loss of a parent when young?) If so, she may have issues that she needs to work through (with the help of a life coach/therapist). Good luck
loading....
Our small home cannot accomodate alot of stuff…With bedrooms as big as 9′ x 9′ (we can fit a twin bed and desk. That’s all) I have to find ways to pare down. I do purge every so often as the kids grow out of clothing and put shelves on walls so toys can be within reach but not take up floor space. I have also learned to clean as if I was moving. I have purchased large plastic bins to store items that are collectible or to make things more organized and label them..As time goes by, I go through them and donate alot of it for a tax write-off or have a garage sale. My husband says I “just want to live in a box” and not have anything around. I agreed to that. I’m not into “Stuff” taking up alot of valuable space. My mother had gotten into the habit of going to garage sales and sending me things she thought I could use (I live 1500 miles from her). I told her I could not use candles that were melted, old yellow coloring books, cake mixes (I’m diabetic), or empty tins. She said I did and kept sending me more of it. I sent her photos of my home, which encouraged her even more as she felt my home was uncluttered and had plenty of room to store more of this valuable stuff she was shipping to me. It took years of me telling her that I throw all of it away or donate it to charity before she stopped sending it. Needless to say, dad used to call mom a “pack rat” and I’m not sure why she felt I needed to become one too, but it has all stopped. WHEW. I am much happier in a uncluttered living space and believe that a cluttered room leads to a cluttered mind. My mind is more clear now.
loading....
I have to say that this post inspired me. My boyfriend and I have a fairly small apartment (made seemingly smaller by not much storage). We cleaned out one of our two closets today and were amazed by how much stuff we managed to fit in there. We’ve trimmed several boxes worth and repacked. In the process, we found a few things we’ve been looking for. So, thanks for encouraging me to take care of my clutter. I don’t think this stuff cost us any money, but it sure did cost us psychologically.
Actually, come to think of it, cleaning out will probably cost us, since we got rid of a lot of stored dishes and decided to throw in the few matching pieces we are using (so that we can donate a whole set). We’re likely going to buy a new set of dishes and get rid of all the rest of our mismatched collection. But at least we’re rid of clutter, and we’re looking for a matching set that will fit neatly together in our cupboard, meet our needs, and not be more than we need.
loading....
If you really want to be motivated to get rid of clutter, take a look at “Squalor Survivors”. When I get lazy about housecleaning I take a look…… It always succeeds in motivating me to stay organized around the house and keep clutter to a minimum. Also watch “Hoarders”..
loading....
Two of the biggest reasons for me to always stay “de-cluttered”:
Less wasted time. Which to me, means less wasted money
Less mental stress.
Plain and simple.
loading....
I live in a small apartment so for ages every time I have bought something new, I’ve had to dump something old. This has taught me to buy only things I 100% love and not waste time or money on unnecessary stuff.
My office papers, however, need a major de-clutter attack.I plan on adopting a friend’s method, which has always kept his apartment (even smaller than mine) clutter free. He says you have to be “ruthless” about dumping unnecessary possessions. With that tough word in mind, my dusty old papers don’t stand a chance.
loading....
Thanks to those who responded to my comment. So far after years of effort I have managed to raise my wife’s commitment level from “opposed” to “agrees it’s a good idea but it’s uncomfortable, like eating broccoli and going to the dentist.”
I haven’t had much luck trying to convince her to use tactics such as the 1 minute rule, one-in-one-out, “put all the stuff in one place and move it to another as you use each item, then after X time get rid of the stuff you haven’t moved” (this would work perfect for clothes, or for our collection of hundreds of board games.)
I don’t think there’s anything psychological here. Heck, I am not that much behind her, it’s hard to let go of something you like, plan(ned) to use someday, sentimental, etc… We’re closer together on the scale than we are apart. I just feel all our Stuff is getting in the way of our life, and so have slightly more motivation to get over my feelings than she seems to.
loading....
I have friend. She and her husband live in NYC. They pay an astronomical amount of money each month in rent. When they moved into their current place – which was bigger (and more expensive) her husband enforced the ‘Is it worth the rent?’ rule. Basically asking her for every knick knack that she owned (most given to her in her teens and twenties) is it worth the rent to keep it? And MOST were not. She ended up with only the things that she really loved, and a beautiful new apartment that despite being in NYC seems spacious because they got rid of so much stuff.
The way I keep the clutter to minimum in my house – I hired a cleaning service. They come every two weeks, they don’t do clutter they just clean. So to get my money’s worth, at least every two weeks the kitchen counters, living room tables, and bedroom and bathroom floors are clutter free to allow the cleaners to do their thing. I grew up in a house that was constantly covered in clutter (mail and clothing) and it is so refreshing to know that my house is never more than 1hr from being clean and houseguest worthy.
loading....
Sell on eBay; donate to Vietnam Vets; give to my grown children starting their households.
I also belong to Paperbackbookswap.com, a really great way to recycle books and read new ones.
My husband is a bit of a pack rat though; wish I could get him to declutter his old stuff. Not that he’s not organized- au contraire! Maybe one day.
loading....
I start with the public areas of the house. Then I pick one drawer in the chest of drawers or one shelf in the bathroom. Limiting it this was seems much less overwhelming.
loading....
Hi. I’m one of the professional organizers quoted in the article. Great article, and I also love the comments. I’m glad to see that so many people are thinking about their relationship with their stuff, and choosing to take action to make it better. One more idea: Donating your unwanted things will help other people get rich slowly, as they will save money buying things secondhand!
loading....
i told friends and family i didn’t want any more stuff, that i was clearing out 20 years of stuff, and if they wished to give me something, would it please be smelly candles, incense or jewelry.
i am a reformed clutterer. in my 30s my motto was acquire! now at 47 my motto is discard and minimize!
i don’t have time to sell my unwanted things. in my neighborhood it is the custom to place unwanted object on the curb. someone will give them a new home.
loading....
A lot of my clutter comes from sentimental things. Clothes I wore as a child, events I attended etc. Now I take pictures of these items and find I can still go back in time with the memories even though the items are long gone from my house.
loading....
As a professional organizer I am always interested in what treasure we will find while working with the clutter. It often is uncashed checks, savings bonds or money from a trip. Often the money we find will pay for my services
loading....
I hate decluttering! I agree with being organized, but I say never get rid of good things. I’m telling you, I decluttered my basement last summer and got rid of things and during the winter I regreted much of it. Now, I’ve had to buy or borrow things I had at one time! Go figure.
loading....
Piccolina: Find a friend or two who don’t have a lot of spending money and gift them with these items from your mother!! Your friends will LOVE you for it … and if your mom specifically asks about an item, tell her, “Oh, I gave that to Jill because she really needed (fill-in-the-blank), and she was SO thankful!” If your mom knows the item is appreciated, even if not by you, she’ll probably be OK with it.
The better option would be for her to stop wasting her money on things you don’t want/need … but in my opinion, she won’t stop doing that unless it’s her OWN decision.
So in the meantime, bless some other people in your life with these items.
loading....