Reader Story: Debt-Free College Education as a Returning Student
Published on - March 27th, 2011 (by J.D. Roth) This guest post from Penny Saver is part of the “reader stories” feature at Get Rich Slowly. It’s a response to Crystal’s reader story about how she avoided student loans. Some stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success — or failure. These stories feature folks from all levels of financial maturity and with all sorts of incomes. Penny Saver writes about making the most of meager means at The Saved Quarter.
Two weeks ago, Crystal shared her story about how she avoided student loans. Though a lot of the comments argued about if she really avoided student loans, I was more interested in the comment from Carla, who wrote:
Now that I’m in my mid 30′s, I’m almost determined to do the impossible. It would be nice to have articles highlighting people who do/did go to college as ADULTS with challenges such as disabilities, no financial cushion (parents) and/or who is not as sharp as Crystal and have to struggle.
Although I’m not dealing with disabilities, I’m a returning student in my thirties, living on a low income without parental support. Years at home with children have addled my brain a little! I wanted to share how college can be done — debt-free even — as a returning adult.
Work or School?
I always knew I wanted to go to college and get my degree. But between community college and now, life got in the way. The first time around, I didn’t have much support at home while in college. I wasn’t able to take out student loans to pay for college without my parents signing the FAFSA, but they were unwilling, and were unable to provide me with monetary support themselves, so I took a year off to save up money and pay my own way. That year turned into two. Then three. Then four. Eventually, I woke up a decade later — happily married with kids, but without my bachelor’s degree.
My education was on the back burner, the goal simmering while I stayed home to parent two young children and to support my husband in building his business. While this was personally satisfying, the full-time job of parenthood doesn’t come with a paycheck and didn’t present me with the challenges that I know I’m capable of achieving. When the economy took a nose-dive and my husband’s income feel, it seemed to make financial sense for me to go back to work. But my lack of a degree and years out of the workforce — to change diapers, read Dr. Seuss, and play Candyland — didn’t help my résumé rise to meet current hiring managers’ expectations.
We were debt-free, but we struggled to make ends meet. Taking a low-wage job would cost my family money after accounting for childcare. It was clear that going back to school would give me skills, something to put on my résumé, and that all-important degree. By going back to school, I could skip the low-wage job and start a career for myself after graduation. It would also fulfill me in a way that my family life couldn’t: I could complete the goal that I’d set out for myself, expand the way I look at the world, and show my children the importance of education, hard work, and determination.
Making the Dream Come True
In 2010, I set a goal to save a quarter of our income: $6,000 for an emergency fund. When I met my goal, I realized that debt-free college was also achievable. I set that as my follow-up goal. I still don’t have (nor do I expect) financial support from my parents, but I’m taking advantage of a variety of options available to low-income and returning students to get through and graduate from college debt-free.
I returned to school last fall, taking classes at night while my husband is home with the kids. I do my schoolwork during naptime. I opted to take business classes at a small private college that would allow me to graduate in two years, rather than at a state school, where it would take me four years. The expense is greater, but I’ll graduate and return to the workforce two years sooner — a cost-effective tradeoff. Balancing my home and school life — as well as blogging and bringing in money through a variety of odd jobs — is more difficult than it was when I was nineteen. Still, I haven’t been disappointed in my decision to return.
What is this costing me?
- Tuition and fees for 17 courses at primary college at $1,500 per course = $25,500
- Tuition for 6 courses at community college to complete lower division work = $0 (I get California’s Board of Governor’s waiver, which covers my community college tuition)
- Course materials and books for 21 courses at an average $100 per course = $2,100 (I avoid the school bookstore, instead opting to save on textbooks by buying online, using ebooks, and other methods of getting them for less than full price)
- Fees at community college = $186
So, the total I’ll need to graduate is $27,786. I don’t count “room and board”, which hasn’t changed since returning to school. Where will this money come from?
- Pell Grant: $13,875
- Individual Development Account Matching Grant: $6,000 (I’m contributing $2,000 of this $6,000 matching grant)
- The American Opportunity Tax Credit: $2,000
- Bernard Osher Scholarship: $2,500
- Out of pocket: $3,411
I’m incredibly grateful for programs like the Pell Grant, Individual Development Accounts, and scholarships that help unconventional, older, and low-income students reach their goals. These programs increase the options for gainful employment. Without them, I wouldn’t have gone back to school, a step that will surely improve my chances of financial independence.
GRS is committed to helping our readers save and achieve your financial goals.Savings interest rates may be low, but that’s all the more reason to shop for the best rate.Find the highest savings interest rate from Ally Bank, Capital One 360, Everbank, and more.
This article is about Education, Reader Stories
Disclaimer: This content is not provided or commissioned by American Express. Opinions expressed here are author's alone, not those of American Express, and have not been reviewed, approved or otherwise endorsed by American Express. This site may be compensated through American Express Affiliate Program.
Discover is a paid advertiser of this site. Reasonable efforts are made to maintain accurate information. See the Discover online credit card application for full terms and conditions on offers and rewards.
SEARCH FOR RECENT ARTICLES



Congrats and I wish you all the best-
I have one comment- you said “I am grateful for the Pell Grant”… Aren’t you a US taxpayer? This is part of your taxes at work to improve America/Americans. When you say “I am grateful” you make it sound like charity, when it is not charity.
loading....
I really appreciate all of the encouraging comments, everyone!
@Karla – good point! The life between formal education can certainly be a worthwhile education on its own.
@Ryan – I’m with you! Every parent should sign the FAFSA.
@Michael – that’s not a bad side effect of marriage, but certainly not the reason to get married if you’re not ready for it!
@Luke – I wrote the post in response to a comment on Crystal’s post, asking for examples of returning to college as an adult without financial support and with additional responsibilities to manage. If you’re interested in the financial struggles that have brought me to this point, please check out my blog, where I’ve detailed my financial journey. I linked in the article to how I met my savings goal, which gives an overview of what I did last year to save.
@Michial – Good for you for finding a way to fit in the study time. That’s the part I’ve found most difficult.
@Holly – my social life has definitely suffered, but it’s a worthwhile trade off right now. I’m sorry to hear about the lousy teacher, opening the book in class! I’m taking a few lower division classes at community college classes and have been fortunate to get really good teachers, but it can be hit or miss for sure.
@Lindsay – Good for you for finding a way to get through for free! How fortunate that you have an employer willing to help – no wonder you’ll stay!
@Chris M – Try Googling “individual development account” and your state or county. I see a few options in Maryland when I search. It’s a great program and can be used for starting a business, buying a house, or going to school.
@Jeff – with budget cuts, my local state university wasn’t accepting applications for a year, and classes aren’t offered as frequently. They told me to anticipate it taking 3 years to finish my 2 years of classes, after waiting a year to get in.
My private college (not a for-profit) has a program for returning adults that offers all classes in order each year so I won’t miss a class I need, and if I need to retake it I know when it will be available again.
My degree will be in business management.
loading....
@ saad – You’re right, it’s not charity, but I’m still grateful that it’s available. I have paid taxes into a lot of programs that don’t directly affect me, and I’m grateful to have this program that does.
loading....
@ Jeff, in addition to sometimes not accepting students (as was mentioned above), you are right that classes are not always offered as frequently due to budget cuts. I went to a private school for undergrad (with the scholarships I received, the out-of-pocket cost was the same was it would have been to attend the flagship state university in my hometown), and I graduated easily in 4 years, including studying abroad. Many of my friends went to the flagship state university, and only one of them graduated in less than 4. Maybe 2 or 3 more graduated in 4 years, and the rest (5 or so friends) took 5 years. At bigger schools, or schools with budget shortfalls, it is sometimes difficult to get into classes. The only classes I couldn’t get into were optional and therefore didn’t keep me from graduating.
loading....
Love the story, and it is inspirational to hear someone going back to school after so many years (you usually only heard the other story of “I always meant to….”).
loading....
Your story is inspiring.
That being said, one problem I have with this article and also Crystal’s article previously is that it’s tough to evaluate “a college education” as a single commodity, when differences between majors and schools make a tremendous difference regarding return on investment.
It’s like comparing prices between two boats, but you have no idea what you are getting. Is this a kayak or a yacht?
What about the other half of the equation? What’s the return on investment?
loading....
@Lincoln, it definitely is tough to compare college educations, since they can vary so broadly.
I’m a business management major, marketing minor, which should offer plenty of options and flexibility when looking for employment. It wouldn’t be worth the time and expense for me to major in something that wasn’t marketable right out of the gate. While college isn’t a guarantee of employability, I think that the ROI for mine will be worth the cost.
loading....
I’m another “non-traditional” (college euphemism for “old”) student who went back after not getting the degree in her youth. I had one year of college in 1976-77.
Then life happened.
I went back when I was almost 48 years old and received my degree from the University of Washington at age 52.
Total cost out of pocket: $0. Like Penny, I scrambled for grants and scholarships. I got a Pell grant, federal work-study, a last-quarter scholarship from the community college where I started, a one-time scholarship from the local Mensa chapter, a state grant and then the big enchilada, a three-year UW scholarship from a private foundation. Monies left over from those sources paid for my books and fees, with a little left for living expenses. (I was working a couple of part-time jobs at the same time.)
Since finishing I have contributed a few hundred dollars to the community college scholarship fund. In the near future I plan to donate to the private foundation as well.
There is a ton of money out there. Finding the sources and then applying for it takes a lot of work. You may be VERY pleasantly surprised by the result.
Don’t give up, older students!
loading....
I started college in 2001 at the age of 33 and graduated in 2009 with a BS degree completely debt free. $0 out of my own pocket.
It was some combination of single female + very low income + p/t jobs + live frugal + cheap podunk state college + hard science degree + high GPA + apply for every grant and scholarship I could find.
Pell Grants and state grants made up the bulk of my finacial aid awards.
Get to know the people in the Financial Aid dept of your college. They can help you get money!
loading....
It is unfortunate that some parents would refuse to sign a FAFSA.
Some of the comments are talking about grad. school but the article is about undergrad.
Funding and financial aid for grad. school is quite different than what is available for undergrad studies. Pell grants are generally only for undergrad and the American Opportunity Tax Credit is also only for the first 4 years of school. The Bernard Osher Scholarship are only for undergrad. I don’t know if IDA programs would fund grad school but I’d doubt it. So the funding sources don’t really apply to grad. school.
loading....
Wow, I never really thought of how hard it is for non traditional students to finish school. I have a friend with a similar story. She left college to get married and now she has two kids with no degree. So I know she would find your story relatable. I’ll share it on Facebook.
loading....
@Jeff
“Why would public college take 4 years vs. 2 years with a private college? A Bachelor’s requires the same number of credits no matter where you take it, so I don’t get it. Is it just that the local public university doesn’t offer classes as frequently in the evening, so you’d have to spread it out longer?”
I want to ask this too. I see that you have replied to Jeff in 52, but I don’t think you really answered his question.
My understanding is that bachelor degrees are 4 year degrees, and that’s taking a full course load. Maybe I’m just misunderstanding and you’re not working towards a bachelor degree but a different type?
loading....
@akajb – it would have taken a year to get into the state school because they weren’t taken new applicants, and three years to finish two years’ worth of classes, because of budget cuts and class availability.
At my private college, I got in for last fall (no year waiting) and it will take only two years to do the same 2 years’ worth of classes.
I’ve already completed my general education (first two year) at community college.
Does that make more sense?
loading....
Ah, the community college 2 years part wasn’t clear. I think that’s where the confusion was from. It sounded like you were managing to do a 4 year degree somehow in 2 years at the private school. But really you’re just doing your final 2 years at the private school. That makes much more sense. Thanks for clarifying.
loading....
Sorry about the confusion! Re-reading it, I see where that part wasn’t clear.
loading....
Thanks for bringing up the IDA! I hadn’t heard of them and I know of a friend or 2 who it might change their whole situation being able to start one.
loading....
I just wanted to say thank you to all of the commenters who added their tips and insight to the discussion. It’s much appreciated, and I will be looking into quite a few of these financial assistance opportunities before I go back to school for my Masters. I’ve been pretty intimidated because I’ve got an albatross of a undergrad loan from a private school, and was feeling a little sorry for myself. Enough of that! Getting back on the horse.
loading....
“It is unfortunate that some parents would refuse to sign a FAFSA.”
Agreed! My case was a tax-cheating parent (deducting the cat and dog as dependents, long before SS # were required, as just one example) would refused to provide the info. Not one year later, when I was 19, my parents divorced.
loading....