Reader Story: Negative Budgeting and a Healthy Outlook on Life
Published on - July 17th, 2011 (by J.D. Roth) This guest post from Shara is part of the “reader stories” feature here at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general “how I did X” advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success — or failure. These stories feature folks from all levels of financial maturity and with all sorts of incomes. Last year, Shara shared her story about the other side of bankruptcy.
On a ride to town the other day, our truck started to overheat. The coolant was low, so my husband filled it. A few days later it started to overheat again: a coolant leak. A trip to my mechanic and a couple of phone calls later revealed a perforated coolant line and a $1500 estimate.
There’s no hand-wringing about whether to fix it — the truck is worth more than $20,000 in good condition — but $1500 is still a lot of money to hand over all at once. It could easily lead to a lot of stress as we juggle expenses and wonder how to come up with that money. A lot of people would put it on a credit card and the stress would be compounded as every month any extra money went to bring that balance back down. However I was able to simply sigh and remind my husband, “These things happen.”
Some of my attitude comes from an outlook I’ve worked to cultivate. But mostly it’s because I have the money in the bank to write a check. We make pretty good money, but you have to make far more than we do to not worry about a check of that size! A lot of people at Get Rich Slowly would pay for the repair out of an emergency fund. That’s fine for some people, but I’d obsess about replacing the money. Besides, emergencies are those things you can’t foresee. If you have a car, you’re probably going to have to repair it eventually. The reason I’m not stressed is because of effective budgeting.
Negative budgeting
We’re all familiar with the standards of a budget. It’s easy to include major recurring expenses like:
- Rent or mortgage
- Utilities
- Insurance
- Cell phone
- Debt payments
- Groceries
But how many people remember to budget for irregular expenses? Do you include:
- Clothes
- Gifts
- Medical bills
- And, yes, car repairs
In order to be prepared for irregular expenses, I transfer money every paycheck into an ING account. I then keep a simple spreadsheet that looks something like this:

It takes me five minutes every month to update this spreadsheet. I can tell you in moments how much I have on hand to spend on gifts. I can tell you how much I spent on propane last year and project it for next year. If a balance gets especially high or low, I know it, and I can adjust my behavior or my budget. The money set aside for car repairs means I’m not only prepared for major repairs, but I also don’t blink when routine maintenance comes due (and, therefore, I’m less likely to put it off). This has led to a better relationship with my mechanic, both because he knows I respect my vehicle and he knows he will always be paid.
This method also saves me a lot of time. I don’t track every penny that goes out. I simply make sure that every dollar comes from the proper pot. I call this negative budgeting because I count down from what I’ve budgeted rather than adding up what I’m spending. Having a budget this specific isn’t for everyone, but it makes sure one type of expense isn’t dependent on anything else. If you’re the sort to put off a vacation because your dog had to go to the vet — or even worse, putting off getting that sore knee looked at because Christmas is coming — this type of method might be for you.
Not an emergency
Most importantly, negative budgeting saves me a lot of worry. It helps my life outlook.
My emergency account is ready for real emergencies, such as when my mother-in-law was suddenly hospitalized. I was able to worry about her and the family rather than something else popping up for which I might need the money we used for tickets. While I can foresee the routine unexpected, real emergencies are much more rare. Therefore, I can relax and give the emergency fund time to replenish with my routine money transfer.
It’s human nature to feel like the universe is victimizing us when something bad happens for which we’re not prepared. But cars break down. People and animals get sick and hurt. Utilities go up and down to the point of pain when the weather is extreme. Bad things are going to happen. But it’s not an emergency unless you make it one.
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This is pretty much the method I use. It’s like having multiple banks accounts but more flexible. Kind of a simple cash flow.
This method especially suitable for those living month-to-month and trying to break free from the habit. Or those who are really lazy.
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Great post. I always budget $2,500 for car repairs (on top of gas and insurance). We’ve had a couple of years that have been significantly under and so we put extra in retirement those years. We’ve also had one year that was over and that was a truely unexpected emergency.
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we do a variation on this, and it’s great. whether it’s an unforeseen bike repair or a new roof, we set aside money each month to cover these expected expenses.
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Great post, I am working on increasing our income so we can budget for things like this. However I do not stress over these matters either, just get a healthy dose of resilience. Our head gasket blew over a month ago now and it will be another 2 months at least before I can come up with the money. In the meantime? we bike the 4 miles into town daily either for work, groceries or laundry. Who needs a costly gym membership? LOL
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Not to be a debbie downer, but I had the same problem 2 months ago and it cost me under $100 to get repaired.. Maybe you shouldn’t respect your mechanic THAT much..
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I agree. We had the same problem and certainly didn’t pay anywhere close to that. Maybe the next time you have a car repair, you should get multiple quotes.
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I also concur. This $1500 radiator hose must be made of solid gold, which really isn’t a great material for a radiator hose.
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Add me to the list of people saying that is way too much for that repair. I’ve had a radiator hose blow, too, and it didn’t cost nearly that much. It was <$100.
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I also agree with this. Get an itemized receipt for what the mechanic actually replaced. It’s possible that other stuff was in poor shape too (both coolant hoses, water pump, radiator) that the poster didn’t reveal, but $1500 seems really high to replace a coolant line in a truck.
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It’s possible that the perforated coolant line lead to other damages. An absence of coolant on a hot day, for example, can cause real problems in a very short period of time if the car isn’t shut off immediately. If there were radiator issues associated, $1500 could be achieved relatively easily. (I realize the author didn’t elaborate but the car repair wasn’t really the point.) If I’m totally wrong here then, yeah, the author got a really high estimate for a coolant line.
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I thought the author got taken for a ride too. One should question all quotes from a mechanic if you suspect the charge. Better yet have him show you the problem. I purchased a new radiator for my car for $34 online with free shipping, as good as original quality. Hose replacement cost another $17 bucks. I did the repairs myself and saved on labor. Antifreeze I had on hand. Learning basic car maintenance saves one thousands of dollars. A community college may have a course to take. Cooling in the engine goes from engine through hoses to radiator (and heater) and back to engine. Dealer quoted about $800 for a main oil seal replacement. My son and I will do it for cost of parts. It will require taking out transmission but is doable. While at it we will replace oil and cam seals on other end as well as water pump and timing belt and all other belts. Best to do as much as one can while the car is up on jack stands. It would cost more than car is worth if dealer did all that. But I enjoy taking care of my cars.
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Actually the quote was reasonable. The coolant line is on a diesel truck. The line is a solid pipe, not a hose, that was part of a larger manifold. My mechanic could not weld it due to the material and location of the break in the line. And the manifold itself was in a location that required a bit of disassembly to replace.
I saw the broken part as well as got an itemized receipt including the part itself (which came directly from the manufacturer and had no markup). My mechanic was actually more upset than I was at the cost and the fact that he couldn’t repair the part in place. That was part of why he called in another mechanic from the dealer (and didn’t charge me for the consultation).
As an aside, this same mechanic did a repair for free last year because he missed the problem while doing other, unrelated, work on my car. It was a problem with a battery line while he was working on my brakes and fluid replacement, but he felt it reflected badly on him to have me stranded a week after he looked at it so he didn’t even charge me for the part.
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Nicely done. If readers seek more information, they can look at Wikipedia for “accrual accounting.” The material is reasonably short and provides a tax viewpoint on the underlying record keeping system. Again, great post.
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Impressive commitment to responsible budgeting! You’re right about most people not realizing the “true cost” of owning a vehicle. I teach a high school business course and when we go over what it actually costs to own a car in terms of depreciation, fuel costs, repair, insurance, etc. the students are totally bummed out, but I try to justify it by saying it’s better they learn now…
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I love this concept! I use it but never knew it had a name. I labeled my bank accounts with the amount I fund every month, for example “Mortgage and Insurance 1500″ so that I never have to sit and calculate how to distribute, and so my husband could pick it up instantly if I were unable. I agree it reduces a lot of stress.
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Great post Shara, and very timely information. I’ve been reading this website off and on for 2 yrs now and I was doing pretty good at one point, until an unexpected emergency came up and I wiped out my savings, and depleted my 401k in 6 months, and racked up some credit card debt.
I just recently received a small bonus from work and I’m planning my “escape from cubicle nation” and I’m trying to get my finances on track before i make the big jump. I had never thought about negative budgeting before and this puts a great perspective on some other stuff i should be setting some money aside for, and moving them out of the emergency budget category.
Thanks for sharing today!
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Budgeting or not budgeting? if you are reaching your financial goals, that is all that matters. I recently had to pay for an A/C repair of $387 that I did not expect. I have the money, but I hate the surprise. The unit is under ten years old.
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I find it easier to track money instead of trying to budget in advance. I have us my Discover card statement each month and sort until I know how much spend in June for gas, food, entertainment, etc. I have a running chart that compares all months spending as well as a graph for income vs. expenses. I can tell at a glance how I am doing for the year, but don’t have to sweat it if one months spending is out of wack.
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We used to set aside money for irregular expenses every month in a saving account, but for us it was too much work as we have a very good cash-flow that will cover the irregular expenses (including vacations) from our salary.
What we do now is quite simply to invest more in the months we have no irregular expenses.
Saving over 40% of our take-home pay gives us flexibility and makes some things a bit simpler.
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I do something similar to this, without all of the detail. After running out of money at the end of every summer (I teach part time and summer is more expensive), I started doing the following:
The first thing I save for every year is property taxes. I put all extra money for that in a separate account starting in January.
The next thing I save for is the irregular expenses. I finally got smart enough to calculate how much I need to save and set aside. That money is untouchable until after Sept 15.
The next thing I save for is an emergency fund. Since we’re still paying off some debt, this is not as large as I would like it to be.
This is my first full year of trying this plan. We have paid off $4000 in debt and are fully funded for the summer. Looks good so far.
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I do this same type of thing, but with extensive categories – I’m just that Type A personality, I guess. I’d recommend checking out something called Mvelopes @ http://www.mvelopes.com
Basically, you can download your bank/cc transactions and input your cash spending. You initially divide all your checking/savings account money into different “envelopes” (which are strictly imaginary), and then record your spending as coming from particular categories. You can easily check online, or with their mobile app, what your remaining balances are in each envelope.
It basically simulates the idea of having cash in separate envelopes at home and when the envelop is empty, you stop spending in that category. It’s been really useful for our family in knowing how much of a larger checking account balance is available for spending on clothes, books, etc…
It works better for people who like to track, yet doesn’t take much time since most transactions these days are by check or card, and download automatically each day.
I’m glad the negative budgeting is working for you. I, too, have an “envelope” for car repairs, since I know at some point or another, they will happen. Thus they are not an emergency for us, but a planned expense with an unknown due date.
Thanks for the post!
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Excellent post. I have always had lots of categories in my budget, close to twenty now. And STILL have an emergency fund.
My only difference is that because I’m around two hundred years old, I use a pen and paper instead of a computer .
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This is how You Need A Budget works. We budget $100 a month for repairs and maintenance. Oil changes account for $30 every 3 months, tires, etc. Anyway, when luck is high, our car doesn’t need much, so that amount builds up. It was up to $1000 a few weeks ago, then the alternator went out. Drop a few hundred out of this budget category. If times get real bad, we might have to budget more, which pulls from other budget categories, usually the one for electronics and furniture.
The beauty is that the software handles the money in each category. We have one account through citi (thank you points) which go up as we spend, and one account through ING which gets $ for not spending. The program has something like 30 budget categories. I only need 2 accounts to handle all those. It’s envelope budgeting in the 21st century. It’s also exactly what this article is about.
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Goal based saving is the way to go. I have tried using budgeting for more 10+ years and failed. But ever since I switched to goal based saving I am able to live stress free life, but you have to pay yourself first. Think about it, if keeping away 25% of take home salary takes care of your saving/reteirement (post 401k) and your emergency fund, and remaining 75% takes are of all your expenses and entertainment, then why do you want to know how much did you spend eating out? Just my 2 cents.
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I still just have one big bucket for everything. It seems to work just as well.
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Agree, PF bloggers make way too much noise about budgeting by catagory. As long as money into pot is more than money going out one has nothing to fear.
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I really have to disagree. Yes on the surface you are fine if money out < money in. But category budgeting is absolutely necessary to prevent lifestyle creep.
As money coming in grows, it is easier to justify money going out, as long as its less. But what you may not realize is how much you are spending on restaurants or other "niceties" that you would never have considered when you made less.
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But how does one not notice that they are going out to nice restaurants more often?
I notice it every time.
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I think it depends on people’s natural inclinations. Those of us who have a tendency to spend probably need to keep a closer watch on things. Some people just don’t spend any money, and don’t need to track. I do envelope budgeting AND track every dollar (not penny) because I could easily spend my six figure income and more on sushi, spa trips, and shoes. I just like Stuff (and massages) and I have to fight hard not to overconsume. Some folks never buy anything but groceries and gas so I can’t begrudge them for not spending time on a complicated system that doesn’t do them much good.
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Yes Lawyerette I am in your camp. Currently I am trying to get BF and I to eat out only twice a month, with him paying once and me paying once. So that is $70/month for restaurants. We have spent way more than that in the past. The problem comes in when I also want to meet friends out. Do I ditch BF to spend it on friends? Should ‘friends’ get their own category? It is hard to set up initially to get the right balance but I am working on it.
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A lot of people might disagree but in this case of car repair, I would have spent using my credit card, I would have selected the one which gives maximum cash back. I have one that gives 2% cash back. So for $1500 repair I would got $30 as cash back. I would have paid my credit card from emergency account.
Basically what you are suggesting is another emergency fund, which might not be best solution for people who struggle to keep one emergency fund.
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I like the spreadsheet idea. I’ve been using Mint for budget tracking each month through their purchased tracking tool, but it’s a pain to assign each purchase a different category. I like that this method keeps the emergency fund out of the way as well.
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We put money aside for irregular expenses too. It makes life so much easier. I do not get the idea of using your EF for expected expenses like car or home repair. It should be a part of your budget. In the months we do not spend the money we set it aside for future months. I put away almost as much towards irregular expenses as I spend for my regular one. Sure gives a person some flexibility.
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Not all of us have the monthly cash flow to put large amounts away for home repair or car maintenance. We set aside money every month for routine care for our car, but a major break down emergency would have to come from the emergency fund. The same goes for a large unexpected home repair. We do the best we can to stay ahead of things via routine maintenance, but sometimes things happen and we don’t have the money to pay for it except in the emergency fund. That being said, if our monthly cash flow was higher I would be budgeting larger amounts for it. We have the same problem with our medical bills. We set aside $100 a month, but at the end of the year, we have usually spent more than that, the rest has to come out of our savings or emergency fund. Sometimes a lower income household doesn’t have the luxury of planning ahead for every possible expense.
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Good article. You write: I was able to simply sigh and remind my husband, “These things happen.”
In our budget, we actually have a category named “Life Happens” for unpredictable expenses like repairs, gifts, and medical.
My only reservation lies in the last paragraph: People and animals get sick and hurt (…)But it’s not an emergency unless you make it one.
I’m really happy for you and your family if you’ve never experienced horrendous medical bills because of an accident, disease, or chronic condition; but people do get hurt or diagnosed with really expensive problems. Please don’t make us feel like it’s a fault to dip into an emergency fund for a several-thousand-dollars-in-a-year surprise medical problem.
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I did not read that as the intent of the paragraph at all. A several thousand dollar bill would qualify as an emergency in any ones book. One the other hand a $100 ER copay is something that would fall under the category of irregular expenses.
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Jenny, I didn’t think that’s really her intent either. It just could use a little nuance.
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I like the “Life Happens” expenses
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We follow the same concept but I use QuickBooks.
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I’ve found this doesn’t work for me – I’ve tried it in the past and the balances just don’t frow fast enough to do anything useful when there are so many separate columns.
What I do have is a not-an-emergency fund.
Its the backup to the emergency fund, and its one bucket for alll those things. Now the column balances actually goes up fast enough to be useful.
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That’s totally what I do — accumulating “accounts” for clothes, car repair, gifts, etc. Every now and again, if an account accumulates way more than we would realistically need in it, we’ll transfer it out into a “general savings” account, or to another fund that needs it.
Software-wise, I happen to use MoneyWell for Mac, and it’s fabulous. One thing I like about it is that the money for a particular thing, e.g., car repair, doesn’t actually have to reside in a particular bank account. You just make sure that your “buckets” (envelopes, sub-accounts, whatever you want to call it) add up to the total funds you have in all of your bank accounts. It doesn’t really care how you allocate your money in the various accounts. It’s a bit improvement over my too-complex system before that was breaking down due to the need to shuffle money between accounts every time I needed to spend it.
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There have been times where i never had any sort of fun – all the money i made was up in the air – budgeting was a foreign language to me. That’s when your’re more likely to get hit with bills – cars repairs, broken gas pipes – what have you. One of the biggest factors in saving money towards an emergency fund was “transferring” what i would usually spend eating out – daily lunch, weekend etc – it really is amazing how much this can add up to. Compound this with savings from other sources – like not buying shoes every month and now i feel like i can handle any emergency worth $1500
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Thank you, Shara, for giving us a an opportunity to learn from your experience. As you mentioned, all of us are different. We may already have an emergency plan which works for us or we may be new to budgeting and wiser use of money. There is nothing quite like paying off the bills. Your suggestions may encourage a person to try strategies that lead to a changed life.
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On the whole a very useful post. What gets me slightly confused is why do you call this ‘negative budgetting’? In my mind this is proper budgetting – when every month we allow for expenditure that doesn’t occur every months. The rest is ‘record of expenditure’ which although part of budgetting is not a budget.
Apart from everything there is nothing ‘negative’ about budgetting now for future expenditure – if anything it is positivity incarnate.
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Negative because she is subtracting from the total amount budgeted with each purchase.
Maybe a weird name for regular use, but accounting-speak.
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This is a great method, Shara! It’s all about putting money aside from your paycheck for what I call category four: expenses that occur less than once per month. Categories 1, 2, and 3 are: fixed monthly, variable monthly, and those that occur more often than once per month, respectively. So every month, just as you budget $X for electricity, you budget $X for these items. I like to make it as specific as possible; in the 30+ years I’ve been budgeting, I find the more specific you are, the better off you’ll be. However, it is wise to make adjustments to your balances as these items are hard to predict timing-wise and dollar-wise. This is another step to being LIQUID which gives you freedom.
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I 100% agree with you on this. Within YNAB, I can easily see where my money has been spent over the past year, and I can plan going forward based on that. For things like car repair, I just place a little in that budget each month, knowing that I’ll use it in the future. I also have a separate budget category for an emergency fund, which does not cover things like clothing, car repairs, etc.
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There is another aspect to this, personally I am really interested in cars. However I dont want to take out a car loan or pay to much for a car. I have decided that my overall budget for transportation is about 1000 dollars (i dont live in the US so if this sound high is because cars are much more expensive to own in most other countries. About half of this goes for insurance, gas, preventative maintanance, tires etc. The other half goes in to a car fund will be used to replace the car on the day that is needed and also for larger break downs that cost a lot of money. If i do a good job, keep my current car for many years, maintain i well etc. I will be able to buy a ‘nicer’ car with the money in the fund the next time. If not…well I dont want to spend any more than my $1000 on transportation so it will have to wait.
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So I’m feeling a little dim – is it you have a set amount to your Savings every month, but think of and track that total as broken down into Emergency, Clothes, Car, etc. as percentages of your total balance in that account?
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I like You Need A Budget way as well. You budget for everything you definitely need and for things you know that you’ll need eventually, but just don’t know exactly when. Car upgrades and repairs are facts of life. I keep one fund for both and fund it to a level I feel comfortable.
It’s nice the way the software lets you split a single physical bank account into a bunch of user defined budget categories that you can easily track( balances and spending ).
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I do this. I just didn’t know it had a name. I called it my “0″ budget. All my money is allocated to each category as soon as we get paid. Then I withdraw from each category as I use it over time.
I just use excel to track it.
I showed my DH the article and he finally believes I’m not totally crazy for doing this and I’m not the only one. Although he said I must be anal retentive to actually want to do this.
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Thanks for the posting, I enjoyed the article
I use YNAB software to track and budget what is happening with money and I think anything that works (allows you to know where and what you spend money on) for you is great.
After you find that out you can decide if you are happy with the spending/earning trend. And if you are happy paying the mechanic the money as you know and trust them with you car (and life).
It’s interesting to see what people call emergencies as it’s different for different people.
And lastly you can just have one account (pot of money) just so long as you know what it is all allocated for, some for living some for emergencies, heck that is one of the YNAB rules ‘give every dollar a job’
Kind Regards
Giles
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