For me, the past few months have been transformative. There have been some monumental changes in my mindset, which have begun to be reflected in my everyday life. Some of these changes are public — I’m doing more interviews, I’m preparing to tackle my next book project — and some of the changes are private. But it’s my hope that all of them will allow me to better pursue my personal goals and to live a happier life.
Making these changes hasn’t been easy. In fact, some of them have been tremendously difficult — not to mention scary. There are risks involved, there’s uncertainty. My decisions affect other people’s lives, both directly and indirectly. Ultimately, though, I believe my choices will lead to a better world, both for me and for those around me.
As part of this process, I’ve been thinking a lot about what it is I’m here for. Why am I on the Earth? Deep stuff, I know, but I’m not a spiritual guy in any way, so I don’t often dwell on personal philosophy like this. Still, I can’t deny that I feel called to help others improve their lives, especially their financial lives. Sometimes I fight against this — do I really want to write about money for the rest of my life? — but I always return to the fact that this is what I seem to do best. This is how I’m able to help the most people.
All of this navel-gazing is prelude to a simple announcement: My friend and colleague Chris Guillebeau has just released a short (and completely free) “manifesto” that he calls The Tower. It’s all about building something great, about creating a legacy that’s bigger than just you. The Tower is short but filled with wisdom. Guillebeau doesn’t pitch any products or websites here. He’s simply written a long essay about the importance of doing great work. I urge you to download it.
Guillebeau’s isn’t the only work that’s caught my eye lately. Here are some other things I’ve liked from around the web:
First, both Kris and Wendy sent a link to this NPR story about why Americans spend too much. This is an interview with Princeton professor Sheldon Garon, who has just released a book about why the U.S. is a spender nation. He seems to think the issues are systemic — easy access to credit, a lack of incentive to save — which I believe is only part of the issue. (What do I think is of greater importance? Check out yesterday’s post about why financial literacy fails to find out.
Next, Tyler (and several others) pointed to yet another xkcd comic strip about money. In this case, it’s a chart of almost all money in the U.S., where it is, and what it can do. This is an amazing piece of work (with every stat documented) that I could explore for hours. (And in a similar vein, this year’s version of the Death and Taxes poster has now been released!)
Elsewhere, Kevin McKee (the Thousandaire) has produced another personal-finance music video. This time he’s tackling a controversial topic: prenuptial agreements. Here’s his latest work:
Finally, if you have the time, take a look at this long but interesting article from Todd at Financial Mentor. “Are safe withdrawal rates really safe?” he asks, breaking down the guideline that you can generally withdraw 4% of your retirement saving every year. If you’re thinking about retirement planning, and especially if you’re nearing retirement, you ought to read this.
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Please stop feeding Kevin McKee. The guy may be occasionally funny and have some decent ideas about consumer finance education. But, he lobs nasty attacks against people who happen to be poor. Which is to say a lot of people in America. They aren’t “complainers,” as he claims, but very often people who have been dealt a tough hand in life. The economic downturn hasn’t helped, nor have policy decisions, rapacious bankers, and generational poverty.
See, for example, this post to highlight what I mean: http://www.thousandaire.com/blog/i-am-the-53/
Getting a financial life doesn’t have to be mean-spirited or so dang selfish.
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JD, Professor Wade Pfau points out in his analysis that 4% can still work. It’s not as bad as it seems, and people still have ways to “maximize the utility” of their 4% retirement portfolio.
http://the-military-guide.com/2011/11/16/is-the-4-withdrawal-rate-really-safe/
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Read the post (and supporting research) carefully. The devil is in the details. For example, it assumes you annuitize a base level income before spending a higher (riskier) percentage of assets. This gives you the annuity income as a base level fallback position if the risk of failure strikes. In other words, it’s not “safe” but the risk of failure is tolerable if your baseline annuity is sufficient. This is a very different statement from claiming the 4% rule is reasonable.
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Regarding the pre-nup song, I think it’s worth linking to the following day’s article where he discusses them in more detail:
http://www.thousandaire.com/blog/should-i-get-a-prenup-yes/
(Whether you’re for or against, at least it will save you trawling through his archives to find the page.)
Personally, I can see the benefit of forward planning but I don’t know whether it’s realistic to do it all before the wedding and then set it in stone. With a will, you can update it as you go along, e.g. if you want to leave money to your children who weren’t born when you did the previous version.
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Interesting that at least 50% of the links provided have the reader ending up with some kind of sales pitch. 50-50, not a bad number I suppose, considering the interwebs are full of sales pitches. I can’t wait to order my death and taxes poster!
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J.D. – I think you’re not the only one. There have been a lot of people I know that have felt inexplicably compelled to make a lot of changes in their life so they can be of more service to the world – it’s tough to do that without a clear head and heart. For me, that has also involved a lot of change and uncertainty. It’s also taken trust that that changes I make will help me be better at what I am called to do (which is distinctly NOT helping people with finance!). So have some faith in that feeling.
I think a lot of it is that it is becoming increasingly clear that what we’re doing in the US isn’t working. People are in debt, we’re using up our natural resources faster than we can replenish them, and people quite frankly, are miserable. There has got to be a better way – that’s no way to live. Having freedom from debt and a good understanding of the psychological causes of wanting to spend money you don’t have is a really really important start to that better way.
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I think the guest post on Budgets Are Sexy RE: the prenup video, and its ensuing discussion, were pretty good. The video itself, and the actual post on Thousdandaire? Meh.
Chris’s manifesto did give me a lot to think about, but I don’t think it packed quite the punch that his earlier manifestos did. Still, it’s definitely worth the read for anyone that hasn’t had a chance to yet.
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The XKCD commic about all the money is fascinating.
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I may be completely off base and it’s none of my business anyhow, but this post reads to me like – I’ve decided to get a divorce and I need more money to fund the consequences of that. It makes me sad, but maybe it’s the right choice. Then again, I might be completely off base…
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Yes for some reason I’m reading “I’m getting a divorce” in this post. I hope that is not true.
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I thought the same thing. Hopefully we are all wrong.
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ditto and it made me feel kinda of sad.
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I agree. I tend to skip over pre-nup posts in all things GRS/PF/Kevin McKee. I am 100% aware that those who advocate for pre-nups tell me I am being foolish. I am also 100% confident in my marriage. It’s an unfalsifiable tenet. I believe that if you think you need a pre-nup, the answer is just to not get married.
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Not to be nitpicky, just curious – What’s up with the sheep picture in Guillebeau’s “manifesto”?
I don’t really get going on for multiple pages about what a waste of time the equivalent of playing Farmville is.
I think I’ll stick with Aristotle’s manifestos on the purpose of life. I often think these many motivational? manifestos out there in the blogosphere are geared towards very timid people who seem to need a lot of encouragement to think for themselves.
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Keep helping people improve their financial lives! (I am one of the people you have helped, directly!) And it’s not been all about money either. Your post on How to Build Confidence and Destroy Fear is bookmarked on my smart phone and I often call it up on the bus.
But….if it is time for you to move on someday, we will understand that, too.
“Do not ask yourself what the world needs. Find what makes you come alive and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” ~Howard Thurman
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Thank you for the mention, J.D.
Very much appreciated!
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I’m all for pre-nups but what a sexist and degrading video. It assumes that the woman make less money than the man, that a woman will be resistant to a pre-nup, Everything that he describes about marrying a woman has to do with her physicality (ginormous breasts). My ex-boyfriend was all about pre-nups as well which I supported entirely as I told him that I wanted to be protected because if raising children would derail years of my career (would have to cut back on travel) and diminish my earning power so I wanted to be protected in case he decided to leave me with little ones.
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JD’s post have been bordering on Steve Pavlina territory recently
I rarely come to the site any longer
Used to have lots of info relevant to me
I thought the additional writers were a great step to take
But now they’re just variations on the same theme – how to shop around for this and that, etc etc
It’s like you can sense the desperation for new topics to write about each day
I would love to see more book reviews, interviews with retirees and successful investors, and Kris’ thoughts
Realise this is harsh but if I’m thinking this way, other readers must be starting to feel similarly too
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I like the direction the site is going except for these aspects of it: fewer posts by JD himself, less (or less attentive) editing, and the occasional political post that I think is off topic. But other than that, I appreciate that the growing “bullpen” of writers has made for a rich set of posts that cover a wide swath of PF experiences.
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