This guest post from Christine is part of the “reader stories” feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success or failure. These stories feature folks from all levels of financial maturity and with all sorts of incomes. This reader story is a little unusual. It’s the product of Daily Worth’s “The Money Fix”. But I’ll let Christine explain…
My name is Christine, and I’m a school teacher. Last year, I set a goal for myself. I’d been renting homes and apartments to live in for eight years, and the last two rentals were particularly bad. The houses themselves were nice, but after one rental foreclosed underneath me and the next was leased by an awful realtor who couldn’t even get me a key to the pool that was 100 feet outside of my door, I knew I needed a change. That’s when I decided to buy a house.
When I made the decision, I started getting all my ducks in a row. About six months before my lease was up, I met with a good friend who was a realtor, and he hooked me up with a lender he trusted. We sat down and both spent half the day getting me pre-approved for my loan and answering every question I had. After crunching some numbers, I knew the price range I could afford for the monthly payment, principal, interest, insurance, and taxes. (This range was well under the maximum I was approved for.) I took notes, and with this new knowledge under my belt, it was time to save.
Actually, therein lay the problem: saving money.
Financial Obstacles
Months before meeting with the realtor and lender, I had begun to stash away money here and there to meet my goal. However, after talking with the both of them I began to feel wholly unprepared to buy the house of my dreams. My meager savings was far from what I needed to make my first home purchase.
Not only that, but I wanted to be sure I was financially sound after buying my first house. I wasn’t going to wipe out my savings to buy a home; I wanted to make sure I still had a cushion of money in the bank in case there was an emergency or some sort of surprise repairs.
At the time, I had almost $5,000 saved to go towards my down payment and closing costs; I needed about $3-4,000 more in order to be able to be able to afford to buy. This meant I needed to save between $500-$1000 a month to be able to purchase and close before my lease was up. I needed help — and fast if I was going to be buying before the end of the year.
That’s when I got lucky.
The Money Fix
Daily Worth — a financial website for women — ran a contest asking readers about their financial problems. If you wrote to describe your situation, you could receive advice from a financial expert and $200 for writing two posts reflecting on your experience.
I wrote in, and one morning I received a phone call telling me I had won, and financial expert J.D. Roth would be getting a hold of me soon to discuss my problem. (FYI, Daily Worth is currently taking applicants for their third season of this contest, so if you have a money problem its probably worth checking out!)
This next part may sound cheesy or cliché, but from the moment I won and began getting advice from J.D., my life changed.
J.D. called me one morning and I laid out my problem: I wanted to buy a house but didn’t know how to save enough money in a short amount of time. I admitted I wasn’t financially perfect, and I probably spent too much on silly things, like going out to eat, when I should be more frugal. I had experienced some financial troubles in the last few months, like paying off medical bills, dental work, and car maintenance, which were putting a dent in the amount I was able to save.
J.D. asked me a lot of questions in order to figure where I could make changes in order to save. When I put down the phone I was not only relieved that I was getting some help, but I also felt like just talking to someone helped me realize what flaws I was making financially. I was ready for a change and awaited J.D.’s advice eagerly.
A few days later, I received J.D.’s financial plan. There were no curveballs or any strange tips; actually all the suggestions he mentioned were things I read before (mainly at Daily Worth or GRS). The difference is that when J.D. laid out his advice for me, I had no more excuses. I couldn’t read the same advice in a blog or website and think, “Oh that’s great advice for someone, but not me,” because the suggestions were tailor-made for me. I had no more excuses for dismissing good financial advice.
What did J.D. recommend?
Save First
In the past, my plan was to save all my leftover money; however that wasn’t working. There was always an extra expense (car repairs, dental work, a pretty pair of shoes, etc.) to take that extra money away. J.D. suggested I automatically transfer about 10% of my paycheck to my savings every pay period, and that I should aim to gradually increase this amount to 20% or more of my take home pay.
This would force me to learn to live on a smaller chunk of my income and stretch my money, because the money that went in my savings wouldn’t be readily accessible to me in my checking account, and I could no longer fall back on the “extra money” that I knew would be there at the end of the month when I wanted to go buy something I could live without
Keep Multiple Savings Accounts
J.D. suggested multiple savings accounts, so I will always have a back up stash of cash to cope with new tires, dental work and other such emergencies. This will also allow me to have a separate account solely for saving for the down payment and closing costs of my future home. He also suggested a third account for other things, like Christmas or birthday gifts or future vacations.
He suggested using an online savings account, as having an account separate from my existing bank would make my money more difficult to access. Multiple accounts for specific purposes would give my money a specific purpose and give me an idea of what I can and cannot afford.
Track Spending
I had been tracking my spending prior to J.D.’s suggestion by keeping a spreadsheet in Excel. I would make two pages for each month: One with all my regular monthly bills and expenses (rent, electricity, my car payment, insurance, etc.) and one page keeping track of the charges I put on my credit card.
I know it seems silly to write down all the charges I put on my credit card, because anyone can just look online and see how much they have spent, but that never worked for me. Writing my charges in Excel gave me an idea where I stood (even if I didn’t always follow the budget I laid out). However, J.D. suggested using Mint or Quicken to get a clearer picture of where my money was going. I could use the software to set targets on how much money I wanted to spend each month on expenses like gas and groceries.
J.D. also suggested I use the Balanced Money Formula to set my spending targets. Using this formula, you aim to spend 50% or less on needs, save more than 20% (including debt repayment), and use the rest, around 30%, to spend on wants.
I liked the idea of using a software to track my spending because keeping the spreadsheet can be a lot of work, and it doesn’t tell me too much about what percent of my spending is on things I need, like food, versus how much of it is on my wants, like going out to eat, makeup, and clothes. The 50-20-30 formula gave me a guideline to use in regards to my spending.
Take a Second Job
This was another thing I was already doing. During the school year, aside from teaching, I also worked as a habilitation provider. The problem with my second job was that I always looked at the extra income as extra spending money, when what I needed to do was think of it as extra saving money. I need to change my viewpoint and think of that income as my primary source of savings, and pick up extra work until I have saved enough for my down payment and closing costs.
Plan into Action
From there I put J.D.’s advice into action. I used Get Rich Slowly: Best Savings Accounts for 2011 to guide my search for an online savings and narrowed my search down to ING Direct, Ally Bank, and Sallie Mae. In the end, I chose Sallie Mae, because not only did it have one of the higher compound interest rates, but it also offered up to a 10% match of your rewards through Upromise, a service that allows you to earn a small percentage of money from your everyday spending.
About a month later, I also opened a Perk Street checking account. I now had four separate accounts for specific purposes: my checking and savings accounts at my brick and mortar bank for regular bills and unforeseen repairs and expenses, my Sallie Mae account to save for my home (which would later turn into my emergency fund after buying my home), and my Perk Street checking for all wants, gifts, and vacations.
I picked up some extra work tutoring and created an Etsy store to bring in some extra income. All surplus income I would not normally have to pay bills was put towards saving for my future home. I also redistributed my regular income, arranging for 10% of my income to automatically deposit into my savings each month.
I switched to Mint to track my finances, and abandoned my former budgeting spreadsheet. Since I am a visual person, I like that Mint shows my spending using graphs, which allows me to see how close I am to the individual budgets I have set up. Mint.com showed me that I was over spending on groceries, and when my Money Fix story ran readers gave me great suggestions to help me slim down this area of my budget, like making a monthly menu to help me plan out what I need to buy at the grocery store. This also means that I am not only going to the store with a list and a plan, but I’m also only going to the grocery store about once a month and filling in with small trips when I need to.
However, Mint didn’t just help me trim my grocery bill; it helped me trim my overall budget. I cut back my restaurant spending and started going out to eat only once a week, instead of 2-3 times. I’ve been going out less on the weekend, and therefore have been spending less on gas. When it was time to get new clothes when I had to go back to work this school year, I resisted the temptation to go to the mall and hosted a clothing swap.
Mission Accomplished
The bottom line is that the plan worked. I was able to cut my overall spending by 30%. I made saving a priority. After putting the plan into action, on November 15th, I closed on my first home.
The journey to saving for my first home has taught me that I need to make saving for my future a priority. Savings shouldn’t be whatever money is leftover, but the money that is taken out first, because there will always be a need to have money in the bank (especially now that I have a home to maintain). My savings now comes first and completely shapes the way that I budget my money.
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What a lovely story. Setting a goal and achieving it. I hope you enjoy making your new house into a home. I have to wonder why so many landlords think that scruffy, dirty, damaged homes are fit for people to live in. It’s not as if home improvements cost a fortune. Then again, some people live like pigs and think that’s ok for everyone else too. I remember renting a room in a lovely house but with a horrendous bathroom. I felt dirtier after a shower than before it, and taking a bath was out of the question in that tub. The landlord showed no sign of wanting to replace it so I moved on. And when I bought my new home it was a wonderful moment, and a huge relief.
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Sounds like my current apartment! It was having issues fives years ago when I needed an inexpensive first place to live, but since then my rent as gone up every year and my place is getting worse. Neither the superintendent nor the property management company is interesting in doing any work. It would be a beautiful place if they would fix it up!
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Generally, it isn’t the landlord that trashes the place. There comes a time when they run out of money or interest in going beyond the minimum after repeated trashings.
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Unfortunately, everyone suffers when a few tenants trash the place. My superintendents have been good with urgent problems — like my fridge dying — but unless something is a safety hazard they won’t fix it.
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Fantastic – Well done,
I think the moral of the story here is don’t try to do it all alone. Once she started to get financial advice and action steps -her life changed..
Congratulations and keep it up..
Jack
http://jackfoley.net
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In my landlordiness, I make my places the kind of homes I would like to live it. Doing that has made my places rent fast, at top dollar and attract the kind of people who will respect my property. Some landlords are maroons, nay ultra-maroons.
Congrats on your home Christine! Keep saving, and you can buy another home. Then rent out your current home which will ultimately be anice chunk of change for you, with much less effort than none realizes.
-Chip
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Now that you are in the mode of saving, condisder keeping it up for the foreseeable future. For the first few months the savings can go toward home improvements or any appliances and furniture you need. Then start pounding away at the mortgage with extra payments. In the early years of a mortgage, extra payments on the principle can take YEARS off the length of the mortgage, and save tens of thousands in interest.
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Like Christine, I bought a home that was much less than the bank told me I could afford. Early on, I made large extra payments and settled into making double payments every month, no matter what. I paid off my loan a few days ago, just shy of its 5 year anniversary – instead of the 15 years originally financed.
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I’m moving to a much more expensive part of the country, and paying off that other mortgage allowed me to negotiate the purchase of my new home without having to worry about selling the first one.
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I want to emphasize this, too. I was only paying about $100 per month in principal at the start of my loan, so doubling that wasn’t a big stretch. I ran an amortization schedule and found that if I continued to pay that extra $100 I’d reduce the length of the loan to 22 instead of 30 years and save about $46,000 in interest. Based on the rate we were paying on the loan vs. the rates we could get from our other investments, we got a bigger return on this extra payment, by far, than on anything else we saved.
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This is such a great story. Congrats! You prove that we all can find financial stability and independence, even when facing adversity.
-Brian
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Congrats, Christine! This post was very timely for me as I’m considering the same move. I live in a university town, so a lot of landlords can get by with sub par places because there’s always demand. It’s really frustrating.
I’m contemplating buying a modest condo as getting a nicer apartment is going to cost more per month. Like Christine, i think the deciding factor is going to be lifestyle.
I’m still weighing the pros and cons, but found the tips in this post helpful!
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Congrats on achieving your goal. You can be a role model to students and to adults that want to reach their goals.
I spent too many years with roommates and that was my motivation to buy my first house. When I look back I have lots of crazy roommate antics and the stories they created, but they weren’t too much fun to live through.
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Hello Christine,
Thank you so much for sharing your story. It is clearly written, easy to follow and gives us both a beginning and an end to complete the circle.
Change can be difficult. You set your goal and decided to work on achieving it. I am happy for you.
Thanks also to J.D. Roth for taking time and energy to suggest strategies and mentor you in your path towards home ownership.
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I agree with the advice to have multiple savings accounts. I do that so I always have some money in a different bank than the one I usually use. I would have to take extra steps to access those funds, which makes it less likely I’ll do so until I’m ready.
Daisy
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i do the same. at first i didn’t think it mattered, a separate account was a separate account, even at the same bank.
until i realized i had spent most of a chunk of money i had to save for a few months. ack! i pulled the stops and “put it back” (transferred scraps of cash from other accounts to make up for what i spent), then transferred it to another bank. now with a separate set of logins and a several day transfer period- along with no ATM card- it takes significantly more effort to raid that fund. i can’t say i haven’t gone into it a little, but it was for a planned decision (finishing that ’11 roth!) rather than an impulse decision so i don’t feel so bad.
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Sounds like you got some good advice that really put you on the right track. Something I personally have never understood though, is the desire to have so many accounts. For me, simplicity is a major goal of personal finance and having a bunch of accounts to that only exist to enable this mental accounting feels a little odd. To each their own I suppose.
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I didn’t desire a lot of accounts but now I have like 6 or 7 at ing and it eliminates any mental accounting I would have to do if it were all in one bucket.
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Agreed – creating extra accounts on ING is easy, and I find it much easier to schedule a few recurring payments based on annual budgets rather than trying to keep track of one big ol’ bucket of savings.
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Great story! Owning a house (vs renting) is a no-brainer, and you’ve made an excellent move. Thanks for sharing your experiences!
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Why is owning a house a no-brainer?
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As per my calculation here http://onecentatatime.com/should-i-buy-or-should-i-rent-a-calculated-approach/
Renting a house is more beneficial and buying right at this moment.
I suggest you do a similar math as well and check where you stand.
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Oh, believe me, I have run the numbers for several different scenarios. In my area, buying a house doesn’t pay off for 22 years. This would be be buying a crapshack of a house that I wouldn’t be able to afford to fix up. For me, renting is a no brainer. The money I am saving by not owning a house will allow me to purchase a house with cash in the future.
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Great story. Savings ARE a priority. Now good luck with paying off the mortgage, then saving for an early retirement!
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Great story and huge congratulations!
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Christine,
What a great story! I love how none of your scrimping and saving is presented as sacrifice, but instead as a tool for your dream of home ownership.
I’ve always considered limited funds to be a spark of creativity instead of a limitation. After all, how satisfying is it to get everything you want without having to use your imagination?
Enjoy your new home and have fun with it!
Katy Wolk-Stanley
“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”
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Christine;
Your story is most encouraging and I felt like I could identify with the fact that you are only human and didn’t do it all perfectly. Congrats on reaching your goal. Now you know that you can achieve your financial goals using a specific method for budgeting your money and saving. Keep up the good work.
Best wishes, Paula
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Congratulations! I’m doing almost the same thing, and am crossing my fingers that the bid I put in on a short sale condo goes through. Once I sat down and realized just how far I could cut things, I am embarassed about all the money I felt I wasted all along. Sometimes it takes a little soul searching to resist the trip to Sephora and pretty shoes and focus on being able to get a 15 vs 30 year mortgage. Good luck to you!
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How lovely to hear a story where someone has got ahead without being perfect! You should be proud of yourself.
I got ahead by starting my consulting business as a side job. I worked at my day job, but freelanced and consulted outside work hours. Since consulting, even when I was in my early 20s, paid $35-$65 an hour, it was easy to make a few hundred extra per month. Eventually, I got to where I was making $1,000 or more extra each month. Since I had so many tax write-offs, I was keeping most of that money. I was able to pay cash for a car, trips and make a big dent in retirement savings. Eventually, I got rid of my job and just focused on consulting, since I was making more than I had at my job. (JD himself has blogged about that transition point in his own life.) I still designated certain streams of income as “savings”. I have a certain amount I live on and everything else goes into savings. This helped me make a big downpayment on a home, make balloon payments, go on trips and bolster my retirement savings. While I know consulting and freelancing aren’t for everyone, I think they are a heck of a lot better than working at a night job or what-have-you. At even $50 an hour, you could work 10 hours a month, build your savings, not need a roommate (for example) and end up with better work experience.
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Congrats on your new place and thanks for sharing your story. I tend to put savings last, too. Good reminder of how to prioritize it.
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Fabulous story! You’ve done a great job by setting goals and holding yourself accountable.
I’m not sure if you teach in a public or private school, but have you started taking classes toward a Masters?
In my home state, public school teachers could advance their salary either through additional education or through longevity of employment. Most of my teacher friends have two Masters (or a Masters plus 30 credits), so they are at the top of the salary schedule. While additional education does cost money, it is often well worth it when you run the numbers.
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Great story. Looking forward to this moment myself. Trying to figure out what to budget for general household repairs. I was thinking of allowing about $200 a month. Does that seem reasonable to anyone? I have been asking around and most people don’t seem to have such a thing, but I would imagine that Get Rich Slowly people might think differently!
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I don’t think there’s a one size fits all category here. It depends upon so many things – the state of your house, your own ability and desire to do your own repairs, and your access to the proper tools. For us, $200 a month would be way too high as we now own every tool known to man and we do our own repairs.
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Our first house was a 1930 bungalow and $200 a month would have been prudent if we had been doing a better job budgeting at the time. We now live in a 1970 ranch that was updated before we moved in, and $100/month is more than enough for routine stuff – but we still try to save extra for appliance replacement, unexpected repairs, etc.
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true – it really depends on the home. I currently budget $25/week for home-related costs…but I live in a condo. Our place was semi-recently rehabbed (within the last 10 years) but it was built about 90 years ago, so while usual expenses are pretty low, we do occasionally have to dip into the home-savings for special assessments for building repairs.
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Congratulations! I’m curious about what role your Etsy shop was in helping meet your financial goal. If I may ask, what do you sell on the site and, excluding any materials costs, etc, how much does the site contribute toward supplementing your income? Did you find it worth your time and the investment?
Thanks in advance!
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No I didn’t really generate any income from my Etsy shop and will likely close it this year. Etsy did however get me some exposure to get into some local shows, which was a big personal accomplishment but still not profitable. My main extra income source was the tutoring jobs and working as a habilitation provider.
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Sorry your shop didn’t work out, but i’m glad to be in good company. I tried several etsy stores to sell first crafty items (failed, turns out i hate crafting) and then some of my professional artwork (also failed, turns out etsy doesn’t pay as much as professional art buyers. i sold several postcards to a friend then shut down).
i always hear “oh, start an etsy shop and make some money!” but it’s really quite an undertaking, it’s not really a get rich quick thing. i was shocked whenever i made a sale, but it’s hard being pleased at selling a $2 item, when you have 100 of them and paid $200 to make everything and are paying $5/mo to keep it listed on the site. etsy is a fun idea, but the actual profit versus initial investment math made my head hurt with its insignificance.
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This is a great story of financial responsibility, long-term goal setting and discipline. Congratulations on your new home!
A side note: Over the last several months, the editing on this website has suffered. For example, when did “schoolteacher” become one word? It’s not. And phrases like “every single” are bad writing — it’s redundant. “Every” conveys the same meaning, and the “single” is unnecessary jargon.
And how did ” therein lied the problem” get through editing?? It’s “therein lay the problem” if you want the past tense. “Lay” is the past tense of “lie.”
What is “sills”? I’m guessing it should be “silly.”
“… because really anyone…” It’s just “…because anyone…” The word “really” is unnecessary and sounds like someone is writing in the tone of voice that a child would talk.
I could easily list a dozen other subtle and not-so-subtle editing errors.
I stop reading many blogs because many bloggers don’t seem to have a basic grasp of English grammar or spelling. It’s important. JD’s generally good writing is part of what made this blog good. The new editors need to improve their skills and attention to detail.
J.D.’s note: Sometimes, though, the problem is with my editing, not the editing of anyone else. If I’m rushing the job, I don’t catch everything. Or anything. But these errors make me wince because I agree: One of the things that sets GRS apart is the quality of the writing. As I begin to have a greater presence on the site in the coming months, that’ll include better attention to editing. Sound good?
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Sounds good, JD. You’re lovely. Thanks for caring enough to reply. I know you’ve consciously worked on your writing over the years, and I know you recognize the importance of quality writing, even for blogs.
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Seriously folks. I read this blog for the information I can use to improve my financial status. I am not the editing police. You are wasting my time with your non beneficial comments on grammar and spelling. Can you just email JD an whine there instead of in the comments section? Most of us are here to glean financial advice.
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mayb ud take advise from sumwon hoo rites like this. I woodnt.
You’re able to glean information because the communication is clear. The communication is clear because the writers adhere to standards. The standards for writing are generally called “grammar.”
I believe that people who write (or publish) for a living ought to be, well, literate. My thanks to Margot for making her point and to J.D. for responding well. And for the record, I have a different standard for guest posts and shared stories than I would for J.D. My grammar is imperfect but I’m an accountant – I just do my best and hope I’ve remembered the rules learned decades ago.
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My nephew has Dysgraphia. I can read his writing which is similar to you sentence of insult. I can pretty much read anything including Doctors handwriting. Unfortunately my spelling, sentence structure stick, because I write exactly as I speak ~ Warts and all.
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Congrats! Very, very impressive!!!
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May I ask how much the home cost, or at least how much comparable homes in your area cost? I have to admit… I read the rest of the article while wincing. $8,000 was enough for a 20% down payment on a house? I am guessing not? Am I reading this information incorrectly? To me this seems like a recipe for foreclosure? What happens in the case of a layoff? How many contingency mortgage payments are available in savings? Eek!
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Where does it say 20% in the article? The entire personal finance online community seems to be completely oblivious to the fact that first time homebuyers not only *can* buy a house with 3.5% down through a FHA loan, but that a great many people actually do this. FHA loans are plentiful and no more difficult to get than other loans as long as you meet the requirements, which are not particularly strict. I bought a house last year with an FHA loan and 3.5% down, the financing for it was completely routine.
You need 20% down to avoid paying PMI, you don’t need it to buy a house in general.
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We bought our home with 3.5% down a year ago. The cost of the house was less than 1 year of our gross salary, and the payment is less than 10% of our monthly income. We are hardly a “recipe for foreclosure”.
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We bought our home with 5% down. Paying our mortgage, taxes, and insurance was a lot cheaper than renting. It was the single smartest financial decision we ever made.
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Awesome story. It’s great to hear about a teacher…one of the most undervalued people in society…achieve financial stability and reward. Best of luck in the future!
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Great story! And I didn’t know about DailyWorth.com until now. I’ve checked it out and it looks great, albeit its target audience is women. But hey, many of the lessons apply to men too!
Cheers~
Mark
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I am SOO impressed!! What a great uplifting, motivating story. I have been fiddling around with so many different pieces of advice and never settling on one that worked. This method makes so much sense! Time to make the same commitment and stick with it. I tried Mint, but didn’t really like it – or use it to its potential. I am using a basic checkbook program now and I hate it. I used to use Quicken, but it’s been discontinued, so I guess I’ll try Mint again. It’s very brave of you to share this!!
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Congratulations!! Thanks for the much need inspiration.
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Congrats, Christine! This is a great story, and so near and dear to my experience right now. My husband and I are currently striving to save a LOT more this year, and we’re discovering that we have the capability (income), but we need the motivation + automation. I love the Daily Worth ladies, and am glad to see they partnered with J.D. in this. Enjoy your new home!
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Congratulations on buying your first home! You were so wise not to wipe out your bank account when buying a home!
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Christine,
Congratulations on your new home. I have been wanting to buy a home for awhile now, and have started to do the legwork, only to come up a few thousand short of where I need to be. Of course there is always something that comes up to spend my savings on. Thank you for sharing the great advice that you were given.
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Well Done!!!!
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Thanks for the great story and congratulations on buying your first house.
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