Reader Story: Starting a Successful Business as a Single Person
Published on - April 22nd, 2012 (by J.D. Roth) This guest post from Kelly is part of the “reader stories” feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success or failure. These stories feature folks with all levels of financial maturity and income. Want submit your own reader story? Here’s how.
When I was younger, I’d always planned to be a professor in the social sciences field. I studied hard through college and was accepted into a top graduate program in my chosen discipline. But after spending three years in my program, I realized (much to my dismay) that it wasn’t a good fit for me. I ended up switching programs and completed a different degree altogether.
When I graduated at the age of 26, I immediately moved across the country and then had to decide on a new career path. Although I’d worked at summer jobs and part-time jobs since the age of 16, I’d never actually had a real grown-up job. I interviewed for a few positions, but didn’t find anything that spoke to me. So, I decided to start my own business instead.
Minding My Own Business
The prevailing wisdom on starting a business is to do what you know. The thing that I knew how to do was standardized test preparation (for tests like the SAT and ACT). I got involved with test preparation after studying countless hours for the GRE for graduate school admission. I decided that I should use that knowledge for something, so I went to work for one of the major test preparation companies. I worked there on the side during graduate school and then later worked for a private company.
After several months of extensive reading and a meeting or two with the people at SCORE, I was ready to get started. At the time, I was single and without any consistent source of income. I’d also just moved, so I had no social connections and had to start everything completely from scratch. I had a small cushion of savings that I had built up during graduate school, though, which allowed me some flexibility.
My business started very slowly as I experimented with gaining clients. I got a few clients from Craigslist and two from a very pricey magazine advertising experiment.
During my first year, my fledgling company brought in about $20,000.
The next year revenues doubled, and then they doubled again. In year three (which was smack in the middle of the economic meltdown), revenue crossed over into the six-figure territory and has continued to increase every year since.
Barriers to Success
Starting a new business is always challenging, but I faced some extra challenges as a single person.
Most obviously, I didn’t have another source of income to fall back upon if my business didn’t succeed. This was actually a positive in many ways, in that I quickly realized that if I didn’t work, I didn’t eat. It was also pretty empowering in those early days to be able to support myself on something that I had literally created from nothing.
Health insurance was another major factor, and one that almost kept me from starting my business. My graduate school insurance lasted a few months after I graduated, so I used that time to start looking for an individual plan through EhealthInsurance.com. As a fit, healthy, non-smoker, I didn’t anticipate having much of a problem finding a policy. However, individual health insurers can reject applications for the smallest of reasons, and my application got rejected by at least five companies. Luckily, I finally found one company that would insure me. It’s expensive, but I will never, ever drop the coverage since I’m not likely to ever find coverage again.
Buying a house was also tricky as a single, self-employed person. Well, that’s not true. Buying my place was disturbingly easy. I bought a small condo in 2006 (the height of the housing bubble), shortly after I moved. Although I didn’t have an actual job, or a history of steady employment, I was given a 7.0% stated income mortgage (a.k.a., liar’s loan).
However, when the rates started dropping a few years later, I wanted to re-finance to a shorter term and that’s where I started running into trouble. Although I had plenty of income at that time to support the mortgage, the mortgage company kept requiring more and more documentation because I was self-employed. One refinance fell through altogether, but I was eventually able to refinance twice in the past two years (lowering the term each time).
One unhappy surprise that comes along with being a single, small business owner is taxes. Self-employment tax (having to pay both the employer and employee portion of Social Security and Medicare) is already shocking in itself. But since I’m single and don’t have children, I have virtually no deductions that I can take other than those related to my house.
One of the only tax-reducing mechanisms available to me is a retirement account. I have a Solo 401k, which allows for contributions for up to $49,000, depending on business income. I have been maxing out my account for the past few years, and this has saved me a bundle on taxes.
The Single Advantage
There were a few factors that made it much easier for me to start a business as a single person:
- I had an immaculate credit score. My parents taught me how to use checking accounts, savings accounts and credit cards from a pretty early age, and I took those lessons to heart. I’m pretty sure the only reason I was able to get my house was because of my credit score.
- I was able to get through graduate school with no consumer debt or student loans. Based on my GRE scores (which, ironically, eventually led to the creation of my business), I received a fellowship that paid tuition and a small living stipend. I had a tiny undergraduate loan, but the payment was very small. Had I had large debt, I would have had to get a “real” job to service the payments.
- I always had my eyes open for extra ways to make more money. Both during graduate school and the early years of my business, I took on all kinds of side-hustles. Among other things, I mystery-shopped, took internet surveys when they were still lucrative, started a text-book selling business, taught classes for other businesses, did freelance editing, found temporary jobs on Craiglist, and worked at a summer camp. Each little bit helped while my company was still getting off the ground.
As a recent GRS commenter pointed out, there aren’t a whole lot of stories out there about single, successful entrepreneurs. Not having a partner to fall back on can make starting a business a lot more difficult, but it is quite satisfying to build something awesome all on your own.
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I enjoyed hearing your story! Thank you for sharing
It’s nice to hear from someone who built their own business while also building a post-university life and a new network. Kudos!
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I agree–it’s always inspirational to hear how others have started their businesses and how they’ve made them successful.
One thing that struck me from Kelly’s story and that I’ve found to be true for myself since I started my own business is that my worldview has completely changed, from dependent employee to instead looking for and seeing money-making opportunities. It’s a complete paradigm shift, and is incredibly empowering.
Like Kelly, I started my business small, with just 1 client, and then gradually grew it so that I was earning 6 figures about 18 months after I’d started, and have more than QUADRUPLED my former day-job salary.
One of the most empowering things about running a business is seeing the results of your efforts.
Greg Miliates
StartMyConsultingBusiness dot com
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You don’t mention having employees – how did they (or the lack of them) affect your business expenses and profits?
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Great post! Good luck with your future endeavors!
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Great post! I’d love to hear about more of the challenges you faced doing all that!
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I think this story is very interesting, but I would like to hear about single business owners/entrepreneurs who feel like they have to insure their business or take additional steps to protect their personal assets before even starting. Or how their risk tolerance influences their choice of errors and omissions insurance, general liability, and forming an LLC.
While I do feel like “just get started” is a VERY good philosophy about generating income or starting a business, I feel like being more informed is preferable to being less informed.
If anyone out there has some stories about that portion of starting a business, I would definitely be interested in hearing about it.
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I think there’s a big difference between starting a business soon after graduating versus starting a business when you have an established career. There are disadvantages and advantages to both.
I’d be interested in hearing more of these stories too.
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Hi Kris and Elizabeth,
Thanks for the replies.
When I first got started, I did not have many assets yet, but I had just purchased a house and expected my assets to grow. I did have an eye on protecting my assets and future income along the way and planned accordingly.
The very first thing I did was to set up as a Limited Liability Company right away. It doesn’t provide as much protection as a corporation, but it’s better than being a sole proprietor.
I also immediately set up a business account and have run my expenses exclusively through it to avoid “piercing the corporate veil.”
I have liability insurance to protect me in case someone is injured at my office.
I got an umbrella policy a few years ago to help protect me from personal claims. It integrates with my home and car insurance (I had to raise the coverage on those as part of the umbrella policy). It is ridiculously cheap.
I also have private long-term disability insurance, which is ridiculously expensive. Private long term disability is even harder to get than private insurance, and it has taken me about 3 years to finally get to a policy that is actually useful to me.
Since I am my only source of income, the potential loss of income or my assets is a major concern for me.
Thanks for your comments!
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Structuring as an S-corp can help reduce the self-employment tax. While not always the way to go, it tends to be the way I see most self-employed incorporate.
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It does by making the employer’s portion tax-deductible as a business expense, but it still has to be paid in full, and going from a sole proprietorship to a corporation adds to bookkeeping and reporting costs.
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I did actually just go through the process of changing my tax status to LLC taxed as an S Corp this past month. It does add an extra layer of complexity and expense (I had to hire a payroll company and now have to pay into unemployment insurance), but it now makes sense for my business to be structured that way because the savings will outweigh the costs.
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S-Corp’s have many other advantages. Not for the small mom & pop places but for someone with 6 figure income S-Corp is likely the way to go.
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Mmmm quite illuminating,wish i read this before starting out.Not late though can still integrate some ideas even now
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Great singleton success story but beware of urban mythology! People with partners don’t always have much to fall back on. Being successful on your own offers the greatest satisfaction!
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Wonderful story, very encouraging, except for the health insurance bit, i.e., it’s fine to try if you’re young and healthy, but if you’re middle-aged and with kids you’d better stay safe under a corporate umbrella.
I don’t mean to turn this into a partisan debate, but we have politicians who tell us how they love small business, the backbone of the American economy, while at the same time they let access to health care remain as the biggest barrier for people striking it out on their own. Their doublespeak is infuriating.
Having said that, there are other avenues towards health insurance. If you happen to live in the “right” states, you can get health insurance through the freelancer’s guild, for example.
Here some other options for the self-employed:
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/27/business/smallbusiness/27sbiz.html
Not very heartening but at least you get an idea.
Me, I’m able to get subsidized health insurance through a university hospital by keeping my income below certain limits. So it’s okay to be self-employed as long as I don’t make too much money. (!!)
Bottom line though, our current health care system discourages free enterprise for the middle class. Shame!
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Insurance is depressing, and I agree about the doubletalk. Even if we didn’t have single-payer, I think we should decouple insurance from employment. That would make it much easier for anyone to take a leap, and there would also be more competition if everyone had to buy health insurance on the open market.
For me, I also found my insurance through ehealthinsurance.com. I didn’t have any problems getting approved by my company despite a few minor health problems. I pay $180 a month now for a high deductible plan that gives me a free physical and one free sick visit during each calendar year along with free generic prescriptions. Only downside is no maternity coverage, so I work hard to make sure that isn’t an issue. I wish there were better options out there, but there are a lot of restrictions on what insurers can and can’t cover.
I have a grandfathered plan, which is the only reason I get the good benefits I want without maternity — maternity is now required, and the new plans are a little cheaper but don’t come with the three things listed above that I use every single year.
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I hope that the decision to not have kids is not determined by health insurance. It’s really sad when people have to forego on such things because of health care (or lack thereof).
As a Canadian who is possibly immigrating to the States in the near future I find this whole issue depressing.
And yes, as El Nerdo states, there is a definite discrepancy on the part of politicians who want to encourage small businesses but don’t want remove obvious barriers to self-employment.
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Oh, we are going to have kids. As soon as I get a job that has better insurance. The other option is to pay to have me on my husband’s insurance ($300 a month through his work), which would cover maternity. I’m just being responsible here.
I find the issue quite depressing as well, especially since many people either aren’t responsible or can’t control what happens to them (cancer, car crash, etc or even smaller issues can bankrupt you if you decided to gamble with health insurance OR got unlucky with health insurance that decided to cut you off for a “form error”). Maybe someday we’ll have a better system.
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Supposedly this is getting fixed in 2014, but who knows what will happen by then. Here’s a real-life perspective from an entrepreneur:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jody-miller/small-business-needs-obam_b_1374779.html
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I agree with the author (and with your post above) that making employers responsible for the health insurance of employees is insane.
As if businesses didn’t already have enough on their plate competing in their industries, they are also burdened with the responsibility to provide employee health care. Why???
We got a state grant some years ago, and one of the conditions to get the money was that we had to swear an oath (seriously, a clause in our contract) that if we ever grow enough to have 5 or more employees we’ll have to give them health insurance. Suuuuure! That’s if we live long enough to see that day. >:(
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My health insurance does not include any maternity coverage at all. When I was looking for coverage five years ago, there wasn’t a single inidividual policy to be found that covered pregnancy. Good thing I don’t plan to have kids
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I’m Canadian, but living & working in the US (I was recruited for a senior academic position) for the last 7 years. I am married, no kids, husband on my insurance. I think I have good insurance, but if I had kids, I think I would have thought twice about coming here – between the health insurance system (and with kids, more medical needs) and the mess in public education in NYC (there are some good schools, but the competition to get in seems fierce), it wouldn’t have been worth it. I think it’s crazy to have health care tied to employment …
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As others have stated, much lip service is given to small business as an economic engine in our country. I strongly feel if we de-coupled health insurance from the employer workplace, AND made it affordable to buy on the open market (or single payer), AND had the safeguards in place to ensure there aren’t denials due to pre-existing conditions, we could go far. Everyone has some kind of condition in their history – I even heard of a denial due to taking acne medicine. If that continues, then we are just seriously screwed up.
If we could makes theses changes with health care we’d see folks that are just parked in jobs they don’t like moving on, as they’d have the freedom and health safety assurance to explore new opportunities. This could have outstanding and positive effects across the board.
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Not only would more people be willing to strike out on their own, but existing businesses would likely be more willing to hire workers if they didn’t have to worry about shouldering the health insurance burden for those workers.
Agree that current system is completely, cruelly dysfunctional and radical change is needed. Single payer, baby.
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I agree, it IS just lip service.
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Joining the local Chamber of Commerce may be a help – we have our own business (no outside employer) and recently moved to a new state so our old health insurance doesn’t help much (better than nothing, but any local emergency would be out of network). Our old insurer does not offer coverage in our new location.
The local Chamber has group insurance available for a very good rate as long as you are an official business (LLC, S-Corp, etc basically anything that’s registered as an entity). Even after paying the annual Chamber fee this is still $1,000 or more cheaper than any other option I found for us locally.
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i was insured through the freelancers’ guild for several years and it worked out fine, a little pricey but i was able to get my meds and doctor visits. (i’m a freelance creative in nyc).
it did start to get super expensive though and i am a sickly little creative, but thankfully i got married and my husband’s company’s policy is aces.
love the story, btw.
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Great story! I like your attitude of going for it all.
I have not started my own business, but I had a similar situation in other bits — I started a PhD program and decided it just wasn’t the right match for me. I finished my MS and moved on to other things. What really saved my butt in this whole process was also not having loans. I can’t explain enough how valuable that has been in allowing me to explore jobs and possibilities for life without worrying about the size of the paycheck. I’m now finishing a second grad program (that required some small loans, unfortunately), and I know this is the right step based on the exploration I was able to do thanks to no loans and living frugally on what I did make.
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I’m currently in grad school (PhD) and thinking about what to do afterwards. I enjoy teaching, but there are so few full time (i.e. tenure track jobs) out there, and I don’t want to be teaching sessional my whole life. The idea of starting a business is appealing to me, but I find it hard to come up with a good idea for a business. It’s good to hear how other people came up with (and implemented) their business ideas.
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Hi Kelly
What is the name of your company and website. I have two daughters graduating this month and need to prepare for the GRE’s for their future graduate work.
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As you indicated there are pros and cons for a single entrepreneur. I see many more positives such as time, no agreement or explanations if things go bad. Sure you miss out in the sharing, support, additional income, but those are just additional pluses.
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It’s always a genuine pleasure to read a success story from a fellow self-employed individual.
Although I confess that I feel Kelly overlooked several substantial personal challenges facing a self-employed upstart(i.e. self-discipline; time management; the trial-and-error process etc.)I LOVE the fact that he or she was able to finance their venture without the use of a loan, line of credit or debt. Depending on the size of one’s endeavor (small businesses generally require less initial capital) as a self employed individual myself (part-time three years, full-time one year) I cannot stress enough that not only is this, infact possible, but there is much less personal, financial & legal consequence should your own capital be lost on a failed venture.
@ #9 El Nerdo: I agree completely that health coverage is one of the leading issues facing the self-employed.
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Hi Adrian,
Yes, I realized I left some of that part out after I had submitted my article!
I have always been good at time management and discipline, so this wasn’t much of an issue for me.
One good thing about having been single during the start-up time period was that I was free to work whenever I wanted. I am a night person, so I did a lot of my freelancing work between the hours of 10pm and 2am.
I am an entrepreneur at heart, and I loved the trial-and-error process. Although I don’t have a business education background (all those years of school and not a single business class!), I did a ton of reading and consulting and experimenting with my business.
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I thought Kelly addressed the time management issue by the “work to eat” comment. =)
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Way to go, Kelly! I really enjoyed reading your story and congratulate you on your well-earned success.
I also appreciate your recognition of the extra risk associated with doing this as a single person. Often times in my workplace I find that people don’t recognize some of the challenges single people face in that we need to do EVERYTHING to take care of ourselves, have no partner to fall back on for even the simplest things. If my car goes in the shop, I have to take it, figure out how to get around in the meantime, pick it up, etc. If a repair is needed at home, I have to do it or hire the right person and then coordinate letting them in, supervising, etc. If an errand needs to be run, I have to run it. Not that all of this is terribly burdensome, but it’s like couples forget these circumstances, and it sure would be nice to have some help sometimes!
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Amen to that, Sara. People constantly ask me why don’t I do this, that and the other, but they fail to recognize doing anything on a limited income as a single, disabled person (no matter how young and mobile I am) is an uphill battle most of the time.
I would love to see more articles like this of people “beating the odds”. Not all of us adults are coupled up, healthy and gainfully employed.
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Kelly, thanks for sharing your story! It’s nice to hear the background information about you not being in debt… helping you to get off on the right track.
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Charitable contributions will also help you, when you have little or no deductions other than mortgage interest, and the organization to which you contribute.
I, too, am self-employed, and the amount of money I pay to the IRS in the form of quarterly payments about gives my husband and I heart failure.
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Great article. I always like reading about other peoples journey to success.
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Thanks for sharing.. I’m curious as to how the banks looked at your income when you own your own business. I’m sure you were deducting many of your expenses, thus lowering your ‘income’ right?
I’m thinking of some day transitioning to my own business but I’m a little worried about how that will look to banks when I want to purchase real estate.
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Thanks for sharing your story. It is encouraging to read about someone who had the courage to take step many of us wish we had the guts to take! Well done!
Also, it’s good to see someone plow ahead through the obstacles that inevitably present themselves. All of us can use more of that, I think.
Finally, kudos for a non-writer to take up the (electronic) for our benefit!
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Your story surely inspired many of us. yes the insurance piece is scary. Still if we can we should look in to something similar.
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I am very curious about your textbook selling business (the side hustle you mentioned). Would you be up for sharing any of the details of how that worked?
Also, I think it’s very encouraging to hear that you have doubled your income in the first 3 years of your business…that certainly does not always happen! My hats off!
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I enjoyed hearing your story. It was very inspiring and encouraging!
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Kelly,
This article came right on time for me. I have been mulling turning my passion for editing papers and essays into a side business. I currently have a full time job but I definitely think that I can do this on the weekends. Thanks for the inspiration!
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This is an awesome story. It makes me nervous in the retelling but it’s awesome you “made it” and you’re here on the other side of six figures telling your tale.
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Like a lot of other people mentioned, health insurance is a necessary evil. With my own business (where I’m the sole employee), I’ve been fortunate to get insurance through a state-sponsored program targeted to small businesses, which allows my employees (me) to get “group” coverage; as a result, I have Blue Cross/Blue Shield for myself and my family (wife + 2 kids). It’s pricey–$1,200 per month–but worth it, and 100% of the premiums are paid as an employee benefit, which is essentially like paying the premiums with pre-tax dollars.
Greg Miliatis
StartMyConsultingBusiness dot com
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