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	<title>Comments on: Be thankful for the present amid planning the future</title>
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		<title>By: Tracy (the other one)</title>
		<link>http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2012/11/22/be-thankful-for-the-present-amid-planning-the-future/comment-page-1/#comment-3114562</link>
		<dc:creator>Tracy (the other one)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 17:05:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fantastic post! This is pretty much my dilemna every day. How much planning for a retirement we might never enjoy is enough? How about planning for various worst case scenarios? Should we really spend our life in a place we hate, because of the immense financial difficulty of changing location? How can I live more in the moment and actually enjoy it, as opposed to resenting where and how we currently live? I realize that even having the luxury of asking these existential questions makes me incredibly spoiled and lucky.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fantastic post! This is pretty much my dilemna every day. How much planning for a retirement we might never enjoy is enough? How about planning for various worst case scenarios? Should we really spend our life in a place we hate, because of the immense financial difficulty of changing location? How can I live more in the moment and actually enjoy it, as opposed to resenting where and how we currently live? I realize that even having the luxury of asking these existential questions makes me incredibly spoiled and lucky.</p>
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		<title>By: Adam P</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adam P</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 16:10:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think this may be my favorite article on GRS, at least my fave not written by JD.  It spoke to me on a ton of levels.

I love Santorini, its my fave place on earth. I definitely made sure I enjoyed and savored every minute I was there (having cocktails on a terrace overlooking the sea was amazing).

This past week, I broke down and bought an executive first class ticket to Australia for February and a piece of original art that I&#039;ve wanted for years from my favorite artist. 

Rather than save save save, I&#039;ve opened up and spent on me.  And it feels good. I&#039;m still going to put away money each month and stay out of debt, but YOLO! I make enough money to balance saving and spending.

Thanks for this post Kristin. It was brilliant.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think this may be my favorite article on GRS, at least my fave not written by JD.  It spoke to me on a ton of levels.</p>
<p>I love Santorini, its my fave place on earth. I definitely made sure I enjoyed and savored every minute I was there (having cocktails on a terrace overlooking the sea was amazing).</p>
<p>This past week, I broke down and bought an executive first class ticket to Australia for February and a piece of original art that I&#8217;ve wanted for years from my favorite artist. </p>
<p>Rather than save save save, I&#8217;ve opened up and spent on me.  And it feels good. I&#8217;m still going to put away money each month and stay out of debt, but YOLO! I make enough money to balance saving and spending.</p>
<p>Thanks for this post Kristin. It was brilliant.</p>
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		<title>By: Wm</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 15:31:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Our brain spends 70 percent of its time either thinking about the past or daydreaming about something that hasn’t happened&quot; - I am guilty of doing this quite often. One trick that has helped me alleviate this problem is just writing down my thoughts and enumerating the concerns + action plan for the future and also stuff about the past I wish I could have done differently. The simple process of putting it down on paper helps me to stop mulling over it 24/7. It gives a concrete structure to my abstract thoughts. And that stops the rewind and replay mode. Great post and happy thanksgiving!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Our brain spends 70 percent of its time either thinking about the past or daydreaming about something that hasn’t happened&#8221; &#8211; I am guilty of doing this quite often. One trick that has helped me alleviate this problem is just writing down my thoughts and enumerating the concerns + action plan for the future and also stuff about the past I wish I could have done differently. The simple process of putting it down on paper helps me to stop mulling over it 24/7. It gives a concrete structure to my abstract thoughts. And that stops the rewind and replay mode. Great post and happy thanksgiving!</p>
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		<title>By: Kim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 15:01:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a nurse for the past 18 years, I have worked with many people who made it their life mission to save for their magical retirement. They saved and scrimped and denied themselves everything so that they could retire in comfort and, finally, be able to enjoy life. Unfortunately, folks, we are not guaranteed one day more on this earth. I have seen many of these people become sick (or die)shortly after retirement and be unable to enjoy any of their hard-earned savings!  I&#039;m not saying that we should live irresponsibly and save nothing for retirement, but it has to be balanced by living in the present. Don&#039;t wait to start your bucket list. Start it now!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a nurse for the past 18 years, I have worked with many people who made it their life mission to save for their magical retirement. They saved and scrimped and denied themselves everything so that they could retire in comfort and, finally, be able to enjoy life. Unfortunately, folks, we are not guaranteed one day more on this earth. I have seen many of these people become sick (or die)shortly after retirement and be unable to enjoy any of their hard-earned savings!  I&#8217;m not saying that we should live irresponsibly and save nothing for retirement, but it has to be balanced by living in the present. Don&#8217;t wait to start your bucket list. Start it now!</p>
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		<title>By: Kristin Wong</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristin Wong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 14:32:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Drink up! Thanks for reading, and thanks for the computer advice...definitely something to consider...I&#039;ll have to look into it. Cheers!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Drink up! Thanks for reading, and thanks for the computer advice&#8230;definitely something to consider&#8230;I&#8217;ll have to look into it. Cheers!</p>
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		<title>By: Mike</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 04:53:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Such a great post for us who r constantly planning for the future often i think, if i can just get this much saved then my life is set and i can start enjoying it. But then i think im wasting the time right now inshould be enjoying more. Great post really resonated with me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Such a great post for us who r constantly planning for the future often i think, if i can just get this much saved then my life is set and i can start enjoying it. But then i think im wasting the time right now inshould be enjoying more. Great post really resonated with me.</p>
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		<title>By: El Nerdo</title>
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		<dc:creator>El Nerdo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 02:48:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks! And-- great article! YES to living in the moment (not FOR the moment-- that&#039;s different-- hm, there&#039;s an idea for my next article).  

Would have read/posted much much sooner but had to run the kitchen all day.

Anyway not sure how old yr puter but you could (in theory) swap the HD for an SSD and increase RAM.  SSD = FAST.  But it all depends on so many things-- just throwing the idea out there.

Now pardon me, I have some drinks to to drink :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks! And&#8211; great article! YES to living in the moment (not FOR the moment&#8211; that&#8217;s different&#8211; hm, there&#8217;s an idea for my next article).  </p>
<p>Would have read/posted much much sooner but had to run the kitchen all day.</p>
<p>Anyway not sure how old yr puter but you could (in theory) swap the HD for an SSD and increase RAM.  SSD = FAST.  But it all depends on so many things&#8211; just throwing the idea out there.</p>
<p>Now pardon me, I have some drinks to to drink <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Kristin Wong</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristin Wong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2012 02:06:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the kind words. Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the kind words. Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving!</p>
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		<title>By: Mrs PoP @ Planting Our Pennies</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mrs PoP @ Planting Our Pennies</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 20:04:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Time spent worrying and fretting almost seems like it costs double non-worrying time.  Not only is the time gone, but it also tends to leave you exhausted and with little patience for the rest of life.  

Hope you&#039;re having a wonderful Thanksgiving and enjoying BOTH of the lovely families that you have in your life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Time spent worrying and fretting almost seems like it costs double non-worrying time.  Not only is the time gone, but it also tends to leave you exhausted and with little patience for the rest of life.  </p>
<p>Hope you&#8217;re having a wonderful Thanksgiving and enjoying BOTH of the lovely families that you have in your life.</p>
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		<title>By: Red star</title>
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		<dc:creator>Red star</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 19:14:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You reminded me Western culture can be so goal-oriented that we lose sight of living and enjoying!!!!  Letting go of minor things and learning to accept now - always - is a mastery unto itself. This was a great read.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You reminded me Western culture can be so goal-oriented that we lose sight of living and enjoying!!!!  Letting go of minor things and learning to accept now &#8211; always &#8211; is a mastery unto itself. This was a great read.</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 16:04:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Kristin,

If your computer is on its last leg, maybe we should take a look at it together to check it&#039;s really dying and not something fixable. I guess it&#039;s the frugal thing to do!

Shoot me an email ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Kristin,</p>
<p>If your computer is on its last leg, maybe we should take a look at it together to check it&#8217;s really dying and not something fixable. I guess it&#8217;s the frugal thing to do!</p>
<p>Shoot me an email <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Holly@ClubThrifty</title>
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		<dc:creator>Holly@ClubThrifty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 15:43:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is awesome, Kristin!

I, too, have problems living in the moment.  It&#039;s easy to get caught in in an exciting future and not live in the moment.  I&#039;m trying to work on that....but since I am a natural planner and overthinker it&#039;s hard!

I hope that you have an amazing Thanksgiving, Kristin!~</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is awesome, Kristin!</p>
<p>I, too, have problems living in the moment.  It&#8217;s easy to get caught in in an exciting future and not live in the moment.  I&#8217;m trying to work on that&#8230;.but since I am a natural planner and overthinker it&#8217;s hard!</p>
<p>I hope that you have an amazing Thanksgiving, Kristin!~</p>
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		<title>By: Ren</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 15:35:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really enjoyed this article.

But....buy the damn computer!  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really enjoyed this article.</p>
<p>But&#8230;.buy the damn computer!  <img src='http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Mary</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 15:15:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very thoughtful article for Thanksgiving!  Thank you!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very thoughtful article for Thanksgiving!  Thank you!!</p>
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		<title>By: Kerry @ Frugal City Girl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kerry @ Frugal City Girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 14:47:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;The definition of frugality says it’s about avoiding waste, and I can’t think of anything more wasteful than stewing over the past.&quot;

This is great! I have similar issues of being so fixed on the medium-term that I don&#039;t give myself space to enjoy the present...although sometimes that just results in careening back into spending too much in the present to compensate. 

I hope your Thanksgiving is lovely!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;The definition of frugality says it’s about avoiding waste, and I can’t think of anything more wasteful than stewing over the past.&#8221;</p>
<p>This is great! I have similar issues of being so fixed on the medium-term that I don&#8217;t give myself space to enjoy the present&#8230;although sometimes that just results in careening back into spending too much in the present to compensate. </p>
<p>I hope your Thanksgiving is lovely!</p>
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		<title>By: Karen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 14:41:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wish their was a cure for instant gratification, too many of my family members suffer from it! Have a Happy Thanksgiving!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish their was a cure for instant gratification, too many of my family members suffer from it! Have a Happy Thanksgiving!</p>
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		<title>By: LeRainDrop</title>
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		<dc:creator>LeRainDrop</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 14:29:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Important reflections on appreciating the present -- thank you for the thoughtful article.  Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Important reflections on appreciating the present &#8212; thank you for the thoughtful article.  Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!</p>
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		<title>By: Drey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Drey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 12:57:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good thoughts to ponder on a day like today. Have a truly thankful thanksgiving!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good thoughts to ponder on a day like today. Have a truly thankful thanksgiving!</p>
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