This is a guest post from J.D. Roth. J.D. founded Get Rich Slowly and now writes at More Than Money.
Ready or not, the holidays are here and the shopping season is upon us. Although I wish I could convince you not to shop during November and December — I’m a fan of Buy Nothing Day myself — I realize I’m in the minority. It’s Black Friday. It’s Christmas. People are going to shop.
If you do choose to shop this time of year, be smart about it. Make no mistake: It’s a war out there, my friends, and the merchants aren’t on your side. They want your hard-earned money just as much as you do, and they’ve got all sorts of tricks to separate you from your cash.
You see, merchants are smart. They spend billions of dollars every year conducting research into what makes people like you and me buy things. And so they put the sweetened cereal at your 6-year-old’s eye level. They block the aisles with displays to create traffic jams in front of the things they want to sell. They’ll even use scent to encourage spending!
In his 2000 book Why We Buy: The Science of Shopping, Paco Underhill — an environmental psychologist — described what he’d learn through years of research into consumer behavior and retail marketing. Some of this stuff is very subtle.
Take this anecdote, for instance:
I once heard a talk given by the vice president of merchandising from a national chain of young women’s clothing stores in which she deconstructed a particular display of T-shirts. “We buy them in Sri Lanka for $3 each,” she began.
“Then we bring them over here and sew in washing instructions, which are in French and English. Notice we don’t say the shirts are made in France. But you can infer that if you like. Then we merchandise the hell out of them — we fold them just right on a tasteful tabletop display, and on the wall behind it we hang a huge, gorgeous photograph of a beautiful woman in an exotic locale wearing the shirt. We shoot it so it looks like a million bucks. Then we call it an Expedition T-shirt, and we sell it for $37. And we sell a lot of them, too.”
It was the most depressing valuable lesson I’ve ever had.
Like it or not, you’re manipulated all of the time while you’re shopping, and in ways you don’t even suspect. But by taking Underhill’s lessons for marketers and flipping them around, you can make yourself immune to marketers’ manipulations. (Well, maybe not immune, but less likely to succumb to their ploys, anyhow.)
Here are a few easy changes you can make to spend less while shopping:
- Spend less time in stores. Underhill writes: “The amount of time a shopper spends in a store (assuming he or she is shopping, not waiting in line) is perhaps the single most important factor in determining how much he or she will buy.” Don’t browse. Shop with a purpose.
- Don’t use a basket. Only use a basket (or shopping cart) if it’s absolutely necessary. Baskets induce people to buy more. And you know how the upscale places offer to place your items behind the counter to make it easier for you to shop? That leads you to buy more too.
- Only seek employee contact if you need help. Employee interaction also induces people to buy more. Underhill notes that “the more shopper-employee contacts that take place, the greater the average sale.”
- Don’t try samples. Research indicates that people are more likely to buy something if they can sample it first. Don’t try the samples as you wheel around the giant warehouse store — or stand at the perfume counter. They’re likely to make you want the product.
- Don’t examine or handle things you don’t need. The more you interact with something, the more likely you are to buy it. “Virtually all unplanned purchases — and many planned ones, too — come as a result of the shopper seeing, touching, smelling, or tasting something that promises pleasure, if not total fulfillment.”
- Don’t try on clothes you don’t need. “Shopper conversion rates increase by half when there is a staff-initiated contact, and it jumps to 100 percent when there is staff-initiated contact and use of the dressing room. In other words, a shopper who talks to a salesperson and tries something on is twice as likely to buy as a shopper who does neither.”
- Avoid advertising. Advertising exists for one purpose: to get you to buy things. If you don’t want a closet full of clothes you never wear, reduce your exposure to advertising.
- Make a list and stick to it. The majority of supermarket purchases are unplanned. Underhill writes: “In one supermarket study, we counted how many shoppers came armed with lists. Almost all of the women had them. Less than a quarter of the men did. Any wife who’s watching the family budget knows better than to send her husband to the supermarket unchaperoned.”
- Ignore the racks of impulse items. Those things by the cash registers are high-margin products designed to make the retailer profit while parting you from your money. These are not things that you need.
- Don’t go shopping. The number one way not to buy anything is not to go shopping. It’s obvious, but true.
Many of you have probably read Malcolm Gladwell’s best-selling Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking. That book, too, points out the power of marketing, emphasizing how shoppers are manipulated in lots of tiny ways. Even when we think we’re immune to marketing, we’re not.
Here’s how Underhill sums up his own research:
Good stores perform a kind of retailing judo — they use the shopper’s own momentum, her largely unspoken inclinations and desires, to get her to move in a direction unplanned, and often unaware. In the end, it’s not enough that goods be within reach of the shopper — she must want to reach them. And having reached them, she must then wish to own them, or all this effort goes to naught. Amid so much science, we discover in the end it’s love that makes the world of retailing go round.
So, be careful out there, folks. If you’re going to shop on Black Friday — or at any other point during the holiday season — be smart about it. Go prepared. Stick to your budget. And, most of all, watch for the tricks that merchants use to lure you to buy.
(Source: Savings.com)
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My wife used to work for a company that imported furniture from India. The company would use old doors (off old houses) and put them on a box to make a curio. Sold it in the states for $1,000+. The t-shirts reminded me of that. The store was it was “old furniture” from India; which I guess is technically true…
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I like buy nothing day, but sometimes fall in the trap of advertisers. They are everywhere, even in movies with product placement you feel that you need the actor’s watch, drink or tech gadget. Rationalizing a purchase will generally lead to the conclusion that you don’t need the item.
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Making a list and sticking to it is key when we go grocery shopping. We occasionally give in and buy something not on the list but we know we shouldn’t. We’ll need to try even harder during the holidays because there are crazy advertisements everywhere.
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I love the idea of buy nothing day. I recently went a week without buying anything such is my anti-consumerism attitude these days.
Watching little or no TV makes a huge difference because you’re automatically exposed to about 80% less advertising than the average person.
Nice post!
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I totally agree with that. We don’t have cable and I never have any idea what new products are coming out.
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Our answer is simply in two practices. As for Xmas gifts, buy them throughout the year, and save them up in the closet. As for other “stuff”, consider a thing an “investment”: stick to just “a few good things” and when you buy one thing, consider getting rid of the old thing it replaces. Collections of seldom-used toys just gather dust and require cleaning once a year. (What tedium here in the desert southwest!)
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That’s totally Mr. PoP’s philosophy – he actually wrote about it on Friday on our site – Buy It For Life. Buy fewer high quality goods that will last for decades or longer. Repair rather than replace.
We joke that we buy “heirloom quality” goods even though we don’t have any heirs yet!
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Totally agree. It may sound funny, but there are a lot of memories in my kitchen. I think of my grandmother every time I use her soup spoons, or smile when I use my grandfather’s casserole dish. The things they “bought for life” are now some of my “for life” stuff.
Some things aren’t going to last forever, but I try to buy with “cost per use” in mind.
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Why in heaven’s name would anyone think that having directions printed in French would make someone think the product was made in France? I can’t imagine anyone “inferring” that. I think the person doing the presentation was joking about that.
I do always check the “made in” label on clothing and food and cooking products, because there are a host of countries I do not purchase things from for a wide variety of reasons.
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Your kidding me right, young kids are highly susceptible to marketing and peer pressure and when It comes to clothes girls moreso than boys, not being gender biased but I see the importance of clothes with my daughters and their friends, where as the boys don’t care as much, they have other interests.
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I’m not saying the kids aren’t interested in clothing…I’m saying that having the laundry directions in French are not going to make anyone think the product is French. Especially since, as Marla and Sue state, French makes it appear that the product is going to be sold in Canada.
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I can tell you OneEC that you are definitely wrong! A couple months ago my Mom brought a stuffed animal for my son. She said it was $45 and she bought it at the fancy french boutique at the mall. I checked the back of the tag and it was made in China! I can guarantee that she wouldn’t have paid 45 bucks for it if she had seen it at Wal-mart, and yet it was probably no better quality than a stuffed toy you’d find there. Stores know this kind of stuff works, and it does!
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Especially with any Canadian – we expect bilingualism. Pretty funny.
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I’m American and when I see bilingual labels in English and French I think Canada, not France. I remember when sewing patterns started to be printed in both languages. Makes sense to me if the manufacturer wants to sell in Canada and not make special packaging, or in the case of the actual patterns and instructions, product.
Just like it makes sense that many merchants where I live have signs and advertising in English and Spanish because we have a growing population of people whose native language is Spanish.
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Funny, when I see French, I think African.
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Never underestimate the stupidity of the buying public. When my Canadian wife once mentioned to a person she met that she was from Canada, that person (an Iowan) said “That’s north of Iowa, right?” A lot of Americans are not tuned into the rest of the world!
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I went out on Black Friday (after 12 PM) to procure the following things:
1) an oil change at Sears, which was not crowded by the time I got there
2) while my oil was being changed, I walked to Staples to pick up ink for the printer my parents are gifting me (rather than getting a new one for Christmas, I’ll just take the old one they were getting ready to throw out)
3) Barnes and Nobles for a specific book for a Christmas gift
I had previously made my Christmas gift list and done all my shopping online, so there were no lines, no in-store browsing, and no hassle. I make lists for the grocery store too, and that’s allowed me to stay within a pretty strict grocery budget.
Finally, when I worked retail, our motto was “smile and say hi” to every customer you see. Not only does it deter theft, it encourages legit shoppers to stay in the store, approach you for help, and buy more.
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Costco has a $150 food processor down to $100 this weekend. I could go in/out to get it, but there will be crowds to elbow….
Or I could stay here watching Bundesliga games. Hmmm…. oh here’s the whistle!
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Really nice to read something from J.D.again. And glad to see the new blog. Count me as a fan.
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Why We Buy was a huge eye-opener for me. Somewhere in the book Underhill shares a calculation that those in the grocery industry had made: for every additional minute a shopper spends in the store, s/he will spend an additional X number of dollars (I don’t remember the exact figure — JD, maybe you recall what the dollar amount was?).
One of our local grocery chains offers free coffee to all its customers. The coffee station is just inside the entrance of the store. That piping hot cup of coffee in your hand will certainly slow down your pace as you walk more carefully to keep it from sloshing out the cup’s opening and onto your skin. I’m sure those “free” cups of coffee more than pay for themselves as they increase each partaker’s transit time through the store.
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This may interfere with another principle Underhill highlighted – if you have 2 free hands, you are more likely to browse, touch and therefore buy. If you are holding the coffee and pushing a cart (or holding a basket) you’ll need a third hand to grab what you need
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not if the carts have cupholders!
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Years ago, I learned in my “Consumer Behavior” graduate business class that, psychologically, when consumers take free samples at a store, they naturally feel an obligation to give something back. We’re polite, so we buy a little something to even things up. It’s a little like using the bathroom at a gas station when you don’t need to fill up, and then you buy an expensive drink so you don’t feel like you are taking something(stealing?).
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I wonder if that calculation is a little bit backwards, or at least doesn’t show causation. If I only need 2 things, it doesn’t take much time in the store for me to get them. If I need 2 pages of stuff to make Thanksgiving dinner and Christmas cookies and 3 other meals that week, then it will take me a long time to gather all those items. So, yes, the longer I am in the store the more I will spend, but I think it’s because I had more on my list, not because I am distracted by sipping coffee while walking near all the shiny things.
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I minimize shopping by finding a single gift that everyone will like and ordering them in a catalog or online. This year many on my list are getting a utility tote for their car or home. half my list was done in ten minutes.
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i got hooked last week at trader joe’s. one of the crew was walking around with a bag of pretzels dipped in white chocolate and sprinkled with bits of peppermint. they were heavenly and i bought only one bag-which of course i wouldn’t have done if she hadn’t asked if i wanted to try them.
the upside is that i will be making my own to give to a few folks at christmas.
i did buy on friday, but only from local merchants. i spent less than $8 on 2 items.
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I liked this post, and I found a lot of the points made to be absolutely true; the manipulations used to get us to spend more( I also believe stores play subliminal messages along with the music they pipe in, urging shoppers to buy, buy, buy) the tricks to make us feel all warm and cozy and trusting, the pricing gimmicks–yep, I think they do all that and more. But I’ve been a thrifty chick for most of my life and I’ve found that going shopping “with a purpose” and a made-up mind, trumps almost all the tricks. If I shop knowing my bottom line and aware of all the subtle cues being used to get me to spend more, it gives me strength to resist temptation.
) going on to get me to spend more of my hard-earned cash, I end up truly spending less. The last paragraph of JD’s post summed it up perfectly.
A couple of things: I’ve found (for me) that spending more time in the store causes me to spend LESS, not more. Weird, but true. I go in with a list, a budget, and a few coupons, and when I take time to price check and think long and hard about what I’m buying, I often decide that an item is not really worth it even on sale and with a coupon. Plus I could find a better way to get the same result without buying it, which is fantastic.
Also, before I check out, I go over everything I’m buying, to make sure I have no second thoughts. It really helps. I have a lot of buy-nothing days, and it’s important to have them. But on the days I have to shop, and I don’t mean the run-into-the-store-and-pick-up-one-thing trips, I mean the full scale grocery buying trip or even Black Friday shopping–if I go into the store fully prepared to spend less and aware of all the little seductions
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“the more shopper-employee contacts that take place, the greater the average sale.”
Is this really true? I walked out of a store just a week ago because the sales people wouldn’t leave me alone to browse the Christmas ornaments in peace.
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I’m over shopping. I once had a roommate who frequented discount stores and bought lots of under $10 shirts, purses, etc. Problem was, she wasn’t in love with any of them and always had to buy more. I’m the type to buy two pairs of nice expensive jeans than 10 cheap ones. I even dry clean my dark jeans so the color lasts. Today instead of shopping, I re-dyed 5 articles of clothing black and they all look fabulous! I was able to add a skirt, cardigan, pair of skinny pants and leggings, and a summer top back in to the top tier of clothes in the closet for $2!
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Hi, I also like Buy nothing day. And what about this idea? “Buy Nothing Until 2013″, from Leo Babauta
http://zenhabits.net/almost-anything/
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I do shop Black Friday, with a plan in mind.
It’s when I stock up on fabric for the year, as that is when the craft store has it at rock bottom prices.
I also did the shopping for my kids on my parents’ behalf. I live in a city of 1 million people and my parents live in a town of 2,000. They would have to drive a 120 mile round trip to go to Target, for example. They don’t shop online, either. In the past, they’ve gotten my kids total junk that was never played with or that broke or that drove us all nuts (furreal friend. a crying baby doll. novelty hats out of the claw machine game). They asked me to do the shopping for them because they had to work through the weekend.
So, I did a combination of online and bricks & mortar shopping. I was able to purchase quite a few high quality items for a very reasonable amount- less than $100 per child. The gifts I found included a lamp for my daughter’s bedroom, sterling silver earrings for my daughter that were originally $45, down to $8, a baby book and play mat for my baby, and solid wooden jigsaw puzzles and wooden toy cars for my toddler son. Much better than plastic junk or clothes that won’t fit. And I saved my parents $30+ in gas.
At the same time as doing the shopping for my parents, I combined purchases I was already going to make so I could take advantage of certain deals. Target, for example, had spend $50 in apparel/shoes/accessories/home, get a $10 giftcard on Friday morning. I needed to buy pajama pants and an LED lantern for my husband so I combined that with the lamp and got the giftcard, which was a nice bonus.
At Kohls, I needed to buy my husband a couple of henley shirts that he’s wanted for a long time and hasn’t been able to find. I combined that with a few items for my kids and got the Kohls cash that I otherwise wouldn’t have qualified for.
The extra $10 at Target and $15 at Kohl’s will buy another two gifts or some things we need, like dress socks for my husband.
I had a budget to work from ($100 for my husband, $100 for each kid for my parents behalf) and stuck to it. I only went to 4 stores in person and two online.
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One of the ploys that stores use is to give stuff off with a discount. Anybody who isn’t financially smart will fall into this trap and buy stuff they don’t need thinking they are getting a good deal. Most of such discounted products tend to be of poor quality too. Nowadays, I would much rather buy something I love even if the cost is a bit high, so that I would get a lot more use out of it.
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Avoid advertising = Mute button on the remote.
I don’t watch much Television. But when I do, I am usually working on something as I watch. One habit I have formed is to mute the audio during commercials. It helps a lot!
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Really interesting and informative post. Its so weird to think about the mind tricks that marketers and advertisers use on us; its almost as if they know more about what we want than we do. Having a purpose and figuring out exactly what you want to buy before you head out to shop is the number one thing to remember if you don’t want to spend extra money.
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I will never forget a time many years ago when I happened to be in a Sachs store and saw some tennis balls of a brand I had just purchased the day before for under $2 on sale for $5. I looked over the can and it looked exactly the same. I went to the clerk and asked him:
“Not to be off putting, but is there something special about these I can’t see because I swear I bought the same ones the other day for $2?”
He smiled, looked me up and down and apparently satisfied I wasn’t a regular, nor likely to become one, lost some of his formal stance.
“Nothing special about them,” he said. “We tried selling them for $2 a while back. People complained, asking what was wrong with them or saying we were selling defective tennis balls or last years left overs and they didn’t move. So we priced them at $7 and they started selling. We “sale” them at $5 periodically and they fly off the shelves. People who shop here seem to expect to pay more, and seem to get upset if they aren’t.”
He noted my look of bafflement.
“I guess it’s more about status than price,” he said with a shrug. “It’s got to be expensive if its worth buying here.”
I’ve noticed this with lots of “things” involving status. The perception of things, it’s status and how others perceive it, is more important than the thing itself. That’s what marketing is constantly trying to sell and manipulate in us, be it the latest “green” product, a sexy foriegn woman being a frumpy little car, or overpaying for a t-shirt that implies it’s from France (like the French make better T-shirts?).
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I make sure to have many days that are “Buy Nothing” days. I am a very strict list shopper. I make one and stick to it. I try not to buy things that I don’t “need”. I just wish my wife would follow me.
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For me lists are invaluable. In a way, a list serves as its own task I need to complete. The process of checking off the list keeps me focused on completing my goal of purchasing all the items. This process keeps me from noticing things I don’t really need.
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I used to take JD’s opinions seriously. And then I learned that he took his feline to a shelter where it was likely put to death. Who does that, especially when one has a blog on animal intelligence??
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You know, this is the second or third time you’ve posted something like that here, and I can’t understand WHY you are here. If you don’t have anything positive or helpful to say about GRS topics, please go away. Try the FoxNews forum.
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I have learned my lesson for target. Thank you article!!:)
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I shall never visit Target again! Useful post, thanks.
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