Jim, a reader of our Facebook page, shared some of his personal finance journey in Facebook comments a while back. We reached out and asked him if he would elaborate so we could share his story with the Get Rich Slowly website readers. This is Part 2.

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After I was out of debt, I didn’t stop saving. I remember buying a 19-inch TV (in cash) after my first month of being debt free, because I “deserved” it. Sarcasm intended. But I remember promising myself I will never pay a penalty fee, interest payment on a credit card (I pay in full each month) or have a negative net worth again.

I stuck with the notebook concept even after being debt free. The difference this time was that all of the money I had allocated toward debt was being put to savings. And that’s when it became fun. I still lived like I was in debt, but it didn’t hurt. It was natural. My sole savings account turned into two, then that morphed into a high-yielding CD. And slowly, my hundreds of dollars turned into thousands. I stuck to my game plan and was diligent about it.

Bragging led me to mutual funds

A couple of years later, I fortunately met a guy who introduced me to mutual funds. And that is when my life changed again. I was on the golf course with him and started  bragging about my saving accounts and CDs, and he basically said I was wasting my time and that I should get into mutual funds. I said I didn’t know anything about them, and told him I don’t have time to invest in stocks. He rebutted, “You don’t need to know about stocks; the manager does it for you, and it is like a bank you can’t drive to.” That caught my interest because I knew about banks.

So I went to the library (this was before the Internet) and picked up some easy-to-read books about mutual funds that discussed what they were and how to pick them, and the rest was history. After reading a few books and realizing they all basically said the same thing, I took out the most recent Kiplinger’s Personal Finance magazines. I was determined to look at the top-rated funds over the last three, five and 10 years. I learned if you pick the performer for one year, you are only chasing past performance because most of the profit has already been realized! In other words, only the existing shareholders are extremely happy enjoying that great return. What would happen if I had gotten in at the top? Not much room for growth. So I figured I’d be safer looking long term because that is what I investing for — not three years from now, but 30.

I remember clearly seeing two funds repeated in both categories (five- and 10-year). They weren’t No. 1, but second and fourth,  so not bad.  I was OK with that.  I also liked the fact that I could open an account with only $25 a month with a monthly allotment from one my accounts.  So I called and they mailed me their prospectus, which was required before signing up. It was as easy as that.

If I was to teach somebody today what I learned over the years, I would say that you would want to choose a fund whose management fees are relatively low (below 1.3 percent), stay away from funds that take 12b-1 (advertising) fees and load funds, and ensure that the manager was at the helm during the period of nice, positive returns.  For example, if you are looking at a fund that made 17 percent on average for five years, make sure the manager hasn’t been there for only six months to a year because he or she would be riding their predecessor’s coattails.

Another thing to consider that made me feel better about my investment choices: look at the percent performance return when times were “bad.” Looking at 2000 and 2008 would be great examples. It’s great to get 20 percent annually, but it stinks when you lose 27 percent. But when comparing funds, if one lost 9 percent and another lost 3 percent during the same period, I would lean toward the 3 percent if everything else was the same.

With this new opportunity presented to me, the timing was perfect: I started in the mid ’90s during the recession. I didn’t realize it at the time, but I had been given a gift.

Were mutual funds really that good?

I remember looking at my fund “value” week after week and it was either going down or just flat line.  It was so bad, I remember talking to my mentor and venting to him, “I don’t know why I am even in mutual funds. I am just wasting money.” I was used to my savings accounts and CDs and each month they were worth more because of the interest paid on the accounts. I definitely experienced the joy of compounding interest.  But we were in a mild recession in the mid ’90.  I didn’t know any better. I wasn’t experienced.  My mentor stared at me and smiled, “You disappoint me.  I thought you were better than that, at least smarter. What about your goal?” he joked.  I never quite got it until one day (and I will never ever forget that moment) shortly after our discussion, I was looking at my value and remember being shocked.  I went from being close to $1,000 in the red (down) to positive $400.  I didn’t expect that. It only took a couple of days for the turnaround.  For whatever reason, I never expected it to be so volatile.  But it was then when I believed in the dollar-cost-averaging method.   I was purchasing all of these shares ($25 at the time didn’t buy much, but it meant a lot to someone who only made $1,200 a month) at a discounted price.  It started to make sense and I began to look for other funds into which I could diversify.  Now I was dollar-cost-averaging into three or four funds with no effort on my part. It was all happening electronically, so it was very easy.

I continued to live within my means. I no longer relied on the notebook, started to buy clothes, go out to eat, and started to bowl again, all while paying my bills in full.  Now my money was making money and I could pay off my credit card in full. Any car loan, I would pay off early as part of my game from old. When I got a furniture loan, I took advantage of the zero percent for 12 months, but made absolutely sure not to be  late making the lump-sum payment because they backdate all of the previous interest.

Bragging led me to help my dad

When the tech bubble was building,  I finally felt financially independent as my money was making money and I earned more in a day than I made in a month at my job.  And now I could share what I’d learned.  I actually helped my dad get into the “preparing for retirement” reality. We were at a restaurant, and he was bragging about all of his CDs. He was in his mid-50s at the time, and I told him how I had made $12,000 that day. He was a little shocked — similar to the reaction I had with my friend on the golf course. The tables were turned. We got together soon after and talked about mutual funds. He became more devoted to saving/investing than I ever was. It was one of the few things we could bond over at the time. (Now we have that and my 7-year-old son’s incredible golf talent with my dad on the bag during junior tournaments.) We would bounce ideas off each other and call each other when the market made big moves up or down. We’d compare losses and gains and relate to each other. I am grateful for this opportunity. The way stocks sky-rocketed during that three-year period, I started to think I could retire at 40.  I envisioned an endless money train, fast-tracking me to wealth.  I didn’t know any better of what was to come. There was frenzy in the air, and it was all smoke and mirrors.

I remember clearly talking with my dad in May 2000 and telling him, “I have a gut feeling that this was the end of the tech bubble. I should take some profit.” But we both said, “It is due one more jump up” like it had in the past.  It never happened.  I was complacent with my money and hard work and sacrifice.  The bubble burst and I lost all the value. But remember, you only “lose” when you sell. I was young, still not married, with no kids, no worries. I had a good job in IT then.  But it stunk to think about the “value that was.” To this day, I still think, “What if I had taken that profit when I had the chance and reinvest it all over again, how much more I would have had today.” But thankfully, I stuck with dollar-cost-averaging the same funds I had invested before the tech boom and stuck to the plan. I monitored the value as it went up and down during the “lost decade” when you gained 2 percent over 10 years.

Every December, I would see the capital gains and the dividends being re-invested in my accounts. I was accumulating many shares by sticking to the game plan. I reinvested the capital gains and dividends over the years and it was all on autopilot. It was easy. Then 2008 hit and I got hammered with a 70 percent loss, as did most normal Americans who had invested in the stock market. Very few saw it coming this time. I remember talking to my dad in November 2008 after the umpteenth triple-digit loss and way too many 400+ point losses in the market, and he said he had to sell because he was losing everything.  But he was 64, so I didn’t blame him. It was at that moment when I considered it seriously as well.

I pulled out a notebook and weighed the options, just as I had done 15 years prior. I weighed the pros and cons of selling. Scared, I almost pulled out at the near low, but I had remembered the voice of my mentor, “You disappoint me. Stick to your goal.” I remembered that moment when in a flash the value had re-appeared and I was in the positive. Thankfully, I didn’t pull out and I stayed with dollar-cost-averaging and actually threw $4,000 — most of my cash on hand — more into the “fire.”

Then it happened.  It was March 2009 when that “a-ha” moment occurred and I got back to even. Because of the large number of shares I had accumulated through the good times and bad, the small increase in prices exponentially sped up my personal recovery.  Without changing a beat from what I did in 1995, from that scary moment in 2008 until today, my shares have quadrupled and then some.

Reflecting on the journey and planning for the future

I can tell you, the journey seemed easier when I had only just a few bucks to my name and it was easy to go after one debt at a time. The process was simple. It was even easier that I wasn’t married, had no kids, relatively healthy and had met the right people at the relative right time. But I used these resources, used the library for free books, a subscription to Kiplinger, Quicken (which has replaced my notebook and it has all of my expenses tracing back to 1994) and the Internet to track my finances, the Money Club on CNBC (no longer on TV) and the desire to retire early to guide me during my pursuit. After being burned twice in 2000 and 2008, I truly felt “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me” with these bubbles. I promised myself that I would have more foresight as to why these things happened and take more responsibility as who controls external factors of my life.

Today, I have educated myself about the Federal Reserve (and consequently have become very concerned about our future) and what makes bubbles and how perception is controlled in America. I discovered you really have to uncover a lot of layers to maintain your wealth once you have accumulated it. I am more cautious then ever. I get so frustrated when I hear the media talk about that the recovery is here and America is on its way back up and there is a lack of inflation. As someone who has tracked pennies for his entire adult life, I know food is more expensive, medical is more expensive, rent is more expensive, cars are more expensive – but there is no inflation? That is because the government adjusts the formula not to count these “essential” elements (food and energy). It doesn’t seem right.

So I have learned that you have to dig a little deeper and go beyond what is preached in books and seminars. It is so true: The game is rigged for the rich, and the recovery has only worked for those in the stock market. I am living proof. I haven’t had a raise in six years and fear I could lose my job every day because the business is suffering since it depends on American citizens to be generous. But if our customers don’t have discretionary income, they would rather spend money on food, medical, rent and maybe a car. But if you look at the market and the media, things are roses and rainbows. So it is a challenge to sit here and be confident that everything we see and hear will hold true in my future and my child’s.  I fear I am in the middle. I am not rich, and I am not poor. I am not protected and have a lot to lose after all of my hard work and sacrifice.

I have made a modest income over 20 years (averaging about $33K annually). Still, with discipline, a little education and sacrifice, it can be done. At first I struggled to find money for the next bill. Now I am almost prepared for a comfortable retirement. More important, I have helped others in the last 20 years with getting out of debt and shown them that it could be done. I felt poor back then and had a mountain of debt at my feet. It felt incredible to hurdle that mountain. It feels even better knowing where I am now compared with where I was.

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