Welcome! I hope you're able to learn lots of helpful information from this site. You'll find lots of members are more than happy to come forward and critique your budget and suggest money-saving tips.
The first few questions I have are really just for the basics. How old are you and your husband? What do you have for debts? What do you have for savings and retirement accounts? What's your income? What's your home worth and what's your outstanding mortgage? How "grown" are the two children still living at home, and are they old enough to be paying rent?
