How many of you have what I call "foolin yourself expenses " ?
This is where you have your table of debt of what you are working on - so much for credit card #1 , so much for credit card #2 , so much for the car payment , so much for single / joint expenses , so much for loans .
But your significant other is bugging you about the $2,000 you owe her for the household items that were bought 6 months ago , or the curtains , or the fridge that she paid for and you haven't included this in your financial table .
I recently had $1,000 of expenses for my child that I owed my spouse , and $440 in curtain expenses . And I finally said , you know , I am just foolin myself . I paid her the $1,440 and put that amount into my debt table .
Does this sound familiar ?