Savarel wrote:We have talked, and we both want children.
If a woman wants children, then I assume she is willing to concede career goals in order to take care of them properly. Being a schoolteacher, its rather natural to assume climbing the corporate ladder is not one of her goals.
If she said "I want children, but I want to keep working as an elementary school teacher making a very modest income while you quit your lucratice career and be a stay at home dad just because I want to act like a crazed feminist who wont be kept down by the man" then I'd probably start looking for a divorce attorney.
Are you seriously calling me a crazed feminist? That's awesome in ways you can't possibly understand. Seriously. Oh heavens. I'm going to go hug my fiance now. I can only imagine what you'd think of the rest of the compromises he and I have made.
I'm leaving aside everything else you said. I'm not married to you, so you aren't my problem.