I have a suggestion for your social life: join Meetup.com or anyother interest group you have in your area.
Checked it out and nothing in my area. Everything is in a large city the next state over (1.5hrs away), and those idiots can't drive... I used to work over there. I appreciate the help, but I think I'm like that country song. "I've given up on love cause loves given up on me."
At first glance anyone who sees me doesn't know that I love the outdoors how did I get into it? Hiking with a group of people. Now I can't get enough of being out on the trails.
Too bad you're not closer. I love hiking and I have almost got all the trails hiked at my somewhat local state park. They have around 25 miles of hiking trails with 3 degree's of difficulity. You'd prolly love the trails there.
Start herding your friends and share the cost to do stuff.
Would have to find some first
Don't be so hard on yourself while not being lackadaisical with your payments.
I think your payments are automated if I am not correct; if thats the case just enjoy the ride.
Constantly thinking about it and allowing all that stress is too much pressure.
Stick to the plan; and slowly everything will fall into place.
They are semi automated. I know what I need to send in to each bill, but I don't have it set up so it automatically gets paid. I won't give anyone control over my bank account. I've read too many horror stories how someone set up auto deductions and even after they canceled their service that company still auto deducted. No thanks. I'll pay my own stuff.