Anyone who has lived on the margin has likely felt the anxiety that comes with having just about enough to get by. That's why I'd like to suggest a holiday present that can make a short- or long-term difference in someone's life — the gift of breathing room.
Got a barely-afloat friend or family member or one who is inching toward the red side of the ledger? Even a small amount of leeway could be extremely helpful (maybe even life-changing) to unemployed or underemployed friends and relatives, single parents, retirees or recent college grads.
The freeing-up of even $20 from someone's budget could become seed money for an emergency fund, an extra payment toward consumer debt, the sneakers her kid needs for gym class.
I included workarounds for those who are themselves on budgets. But the higher-end suggestions could be good collective presents if need be. Suppose you and your parents chipped in on a breathing-room gift for a sib who graduated with deep student debt and a starter salary?
1. Lend the initial deposit for someone's apartment.
2. Pay a week's worth of rent (or more.)
3. Offer to let the giftee stay with you for a couple of months as they save money for a place of their own.
Budget-friendly workarounds: Help a newbie find the best housing deal or offer your help (and your truck/van) for the move. Fill a bag with cleaning supplies and foods from your pantry and call it an “apartment starter kit.”
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4. Lend the amount of any utility deposit(s).
5. Upgrading your still-decent cellphone? Give it to someone on your list.
6. Offer $25 toward the electric bill.
7. Does the recipient use a pay-as-you-go? Buy some minutes.
Budget-friendly workarounds: Put the person on your family cellphone plan. Help weatherize a drafty home. Offer to install a clothesline.
8. Pay for a bridge/road toll sticker for a month.
9. Put a gasoline gift card under the tree. (Your money will go a little further at a discounted gift card website.)
10. Live in a bike-friendly region? Lend/give that old fat-tire you're not using.
11. Gift a monthly transit pass.
12. About to buy a new vehicle? Weigh the few hundred dollars' worth of trade-in you might get vs. the difference you can make in someone's life. Not having a car payment is huge.
Budget-friendly workarounds: Offer to let the recipient ride with you without asking for gas money. If you are good at bike maintenance, tune up someone's wheels. Shade-tree mechanics could teach minor fixes like oil changes.
The shopping list
13. Give a supermarket or drugstore gift card (again, from the secondary market).
14. If you do batch cooking, propose a swap where the person helps once a month and goes home with meals.
15. Do you garden? Suggest an apprenticeship and pay in veggies/fruits. You don't have to work as hard and the other person learns a useful life skill.
16. Gift a membership to a warehouse store.
17. Teach him or her how to coupon. The CouponMom.com website matches cents-off deals (including electronic ones) to specials at drugstores, supermarkets and dollar stores.
18. Invite the giftee to dinner once a week.
Budget-friendly workarounds: If you belong to a warehouse club, bring the person along. Couponers can offer some free products; gardeners can give extra produce.
19. Offer to spring for piano lessons, sports/scouting fees or whatever parents can't currently afford.
20. Pay for a week (or more) of child care. (This makes a good everybody-chip-in present.)
21. Gift a family pass to the YMCA, a local museum or some other fun place.
22. For families without wheels, offer a twice-a-month trip to the library.
23. Got skills? Offer to help with basic homeowner issues.
Budget-friendly workaround: Pass along your kid's outgrown clothing/toys. If you work at home/don't work outside the home, offer to take a child on the next in-service day or school holiday.
24. Spring for a week/month of health insurance.
25. Pay one month's auto insurance premium.
26. Pay for renters insurance for a few months, or a year. (It's actually pretty cheap.)
Budget-friendly workarounds: Offer to help inventory belongings for insurance purposes. Encourage him to look for better car insurance deals.
27. Help the person learn about retirement – Roth IRAs, Roth 401ks and other options.
28. Make a token contribution to start the retirement ball rolling. If you are flush (and a mensch!), offer to match whatever gets put in (another good chip-in gift).
29. Start a college fund. Be the boring grownup who thinks about future needs. (Often kids have too many toys anyway.)
30. Give a savings bond, which, while not as sexy as Legos, are safe, convenient and offer tax advantages.
Budget-friendly workarounds: Lend personal finance books and share your favorite personal finance websites.
This holiday season you could wrap up a DVD or a funny T-shirt, or some tchotchke that will amuse briefly and quickly be forgotten … or you could choose to make a real difference in someone's life in the short or long term.
Readers: Got any other ideas for gifts that truly keep on giving?