{"id":122252,"date":"2012-02-13T04:00:36","date_gmt":"2012-02-13T11:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/getrichslowly.org\/blog\/?p=122252"},"modified":"2018-11-18T12:14:06","modified_gmt":"2018-11-18T20:14:06","slug":"how-to-have-more-money","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.getrichslowly.org\/how-to-have-more-money\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Have More Money"},"content":{"rendered":"

You can have more money. And you can have it \u2014 get it \u2014 without turning your life upside down or driving yourself nuts. Seriously.<\/p>\n

I got it that way, quietly, simply, and still am. You can, too. Maybe only a modest amount more, maybe a lot more. I don’t know. But I do<\/em> know that you can have more. I’m not doing anything so far as concept and technique go that you can’t either. I just work the simple little four-point program that follows. You’re welcome to it.<\/p>\n

Here’s what I do \u2014 and don’t do.<\/p>\n

Never incur new unsecured debt<\/em><\/strong>
\nI don’t debt and haven’t for 28 years now.<\/p>\n

I know: using debt<\/em> as a verb is unlovely. But it helps to distinguish that act from other uses of money, to be clear about what is actually being done \u2014 not spending, buying, enjoying, but: going into debt.<\/p>\n

Readers of Get Rich Slowly<\/a> and other personal finance blogs almost certainly know that using unsecured credit is a bad idea. But I’ll tell you: It’s more than a bad idea. It’s a catastrophe<\/em>. If any single thing can crush, break, and poison a life, kill anything of value or pleasure in it, it’s unsecured debt, the sustained and mounting pressure of it over months, years, and even decades.<\/p>\n

In his play A Doll’s House<\/em><\/a>, Henrik Ibsen wrote more than 130 years ago, “There can be no freedom or beauty about a home life that depends on borrowing or debt.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

True. I’ve never seen anyone for whom it isn’t.<\/p>\n

By the time I bottomed out on debt myself, way back in 1984, my marriage was over, my books were out of print, and my life shattered. I was waking up every morning with ground-glass in my stomach thinking, \u201cOh God, there’s another bill coming in!\u201d without any idea how I would ever be able to pay it. I was living in near constant pain and despair.<\/p>\n

I was $113,000 in unsecured debt then (in today’s dollars), had expenses of $3,000 a month and a guaranteed income of only $350 a month. It was clear, finally \u2014 made brutally clear to me by the misery, the anguish even \u2014 that this could not go on. So I stopped debting, cold turkey. Because I had to. Because I knew there was no other hope for me.<\/p>\n

From that day in March of 1984 on, I did everything and anything I had to in order not to go one single dollar deeper into unsecured debt:<\/p>\n