{"id":1777,"date":"2008-05-01T05:00:50","date_gmt":"2008-05-01T12:00:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/getrichslowly.org\/blog\/?p=1777"},"modified":"2023-10-02T16:19:33","modified_gmt":"2023-10-02T22:19:33","slug":"life-after-school-advice-for-new-graduates","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.getrichslowly.org\/life-after-school-advice-for-new-graduates\/","title":{"rendered":"Life after school: Advice for new graduates"},"content":{"rendered":"
On Tuesday evening I gave my first-ever presentation about personal finance. I spoke to a group of about 70 graduating seniors from Western Oregon University<\/a>. My talk went okay. It wasn’t terrible, but it certainly wasn’t good. It’s a start. I learned a lot, and I’ll do better next time.<\/p>\n I was the fourth and final speaker of the evening, though. Before I talked about personal finance, three WOU alums spoke about life after college. While my talk might have been mediocre, theirs were outstanding.<\/p>\n The first speaker was Brian Reick, who described his experience moving from job-to-job. He began knocking on doors right out of school and eventually found work. But the job wasn’t perfect, and neither was he. He was fired after only two years. This experience taught him a couple things:<\/p>\n Later in his career, Brian found himself working in a job he didn’t like. He made a promise to himself: “I told myself that if I wasn’t happy with my job one year from that day, I’d leave. That was the best decision I ever made. After a year, I knew it was time to go. It was more important for me to be happy than to chase dollars.” Two other life lessons Brian shared were:<\/p>\n Next we heard from Ron Clark, a Portland lawyer<\/a>. Ron shared three major points:<\/p>\n The third speaker was Celia Kimbrough, a professional photographer. As a single mother, Celia applied for the interpreting program at Western Oregon University. She was one of 72 applicants for 16 spots. She didn’t get in \u2014 she didn’t let it bother her. “I’ve failed at a lot of things in life,” she says, “but they’ve made me who I am today. It’s okay to fail.<\/b>” The important thing is to be working toward something, to have a goal.<\/p>\n Still, you should always keep your mind open for other options<\/b>. Don’t be so locked into your goal that you miss opportunity knocking on the door. Sometimes life will lead you in directions you don’t expect. When she didn’t get into the interpreting program, Celia pursued a degree in Natural Sciences. She wanted to be a teacher. But then life led her in another direction, and now she owns a successful photography studio.<\/p>\n “You’ve got to find your passion<\/b>,” Celia says. “I changed my major six<\/i> times. That’s okay. Everything you do leads you to the person you’re becoming. As long as you have some goals, you’ll be fine.”<\/p>\n Celia stressed that it’s important to think about the sort of life you want to live. Some of what she said reminded me of Tim Ferriss’ notion of lifestyle design<\/a>, building your life and career around what you want to do. Entrepreneurship has allowed her to construct a fulfilling life.<\/p>\n “What’s important to you?” she asked asked the students. “Make your choices based on that. I wanted to be excited about what I do every day. If you’re complaining about what you’re doing, then try something else.<\/b>“<\/p>\n To conclude the program, I gave a short presentation on personal finance. Again, this was the first such talk I’ve given, and it was pretty rough. I actually tried to stress some of the topics Get Rich Slowly readers suggested last Monday:<\/p>\n With my speech, I handed out a one-page guide to personal finance, which contained supplementary material.<\/p>\n I felt pretty geeky during this dinner. When the first speaker began, I pulled out my pad of paper and started jotting notes. I couldn’t help it. Though these talks were ostensibly aimed at the graduating seniors, there was plenty of valuable information in them for anyone<\/i>.<\/p>\n I was surprised and happy to discover that one theme seemed to shine through in all four presentations. Money’s a great tool, each of us said, but it’s not the only thing in life. It’s not even the most important thing. We each in our own way stressed one point above all: It’s more important to be happy than it is to be rich.<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<\/span>Brian Reick<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/span>Ron Clark<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/span>Celia Kimbrough<\/span><\/h2>\n
<\/span>J.D. Roth<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/span>Conclusion<\/span><\/h2>\n