{"id":21311,"date":"2010-04-21T04:00:37","date_gmt":"2010-04-21T11:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/getrichslowly.org\/blog\/?p=21311"},"modified":"2020-12-12T21:41:39","modified_gmt":"2020-12-13T05:41:39","slug":"are-we-there-yet-how-will-you-know-when-youre-rich","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.getrichslowly.org\/are-we-there-yet-how-will-you-know-when-youre-rich\/","title":{"rendered":"Are We There Yet? How Will You Know When You’re Rich?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Here at Get Rich Slowly, we imbibe many flavors of frugality, smart investing, and money management. Between J.D.’s (and others’) posts and the treasure trove of comments, you could build a path to wealth tailored to your individual income, assets, and circumstances.<\/p>\n

But how will you know when you’re done? Are you there yet? Are you rich? And what will you do once you get there?<\/p>\n

When I worked as a lawyer at a Big Bank I conducted an informal poll of my co-workers, asking what their magic number was: What dollar figure would make them feel comfortable retiring? (Or at least leaving their comfortable jobs to pursue their passions?) I guessed that at least some would say $1 million would be enough to let them leave in comfort. After all, we weren’t living in a big city, and the cost of living in our town was pretty reasonable.<\/p>\n

I was wrong: $1 million wasn’t even close to the magic number.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

This didn’t completely surprise me. Some people have a lifestyle they want to maintain, and they’ll have to save a lot<\/i> of money if they want to maintain that lifestyle. But even those colleagues who lived frugally threw out numbers like “$5-7 Million, minimum,” citing the impact of taxes, inflation, medical care, the desire to travel, etc.<\/p>\n

$5-7 Million? Minimum?<\/i><\/p>\n

I have a friend whose husband makes a six-figure income at his job, plus significant income as a consultant. They have a million-dollar home and a cottage on a lake and one million in a retirement account. One day, I made an off-hand comment about how wealthy they were, and my friend vehemently objected to the description. “We are not<\/i> wealthy,” she said. “I’m not saying we’re poor. We’re comfortable, but we’re not wealthy.”<\/p>\n

On the other end of the spectrum, most of the world would view the readers of this blog as incredibly wealthy. (Check out this “Wealth-o-meter<\/a>” to see how you compare to the rest of the world.) On a personal note, my job was eliminated by the Big Bank at the beginning of this Great Recession. I got a severance package, which has since run out. Despite the absence of a steady income, I’m not alarmed, hysterical, or panicked. Most days, I feel blessed, perhaps even \u2014 dare I say it? \u2014 wealthy. Why?<\/p>\n

On one level, my husband and I are the poster children for Why You Should Establish an Emergency Fund. We did the things that readers of this blog do, including:<\/p>\n