Career Moves: How to Win the Office Politics Game (Part Two)
Published on - October 31st, 2011 (by April Dykman) This post is from staff writer April Dykman.
Last week we talked about the whys of office politics. Why do they exist? Why do we have to play the game? Today we’ll get to the good stuff: How to run a positive campaign and how to deal with the Negative Neds and Nancys in your work life. (No offense intended if your name is Ned or Nancy — I’m sure you’re lovely.)
Running a good campaign
In part one, I touched on the importance of promoting yourself and your team, and we’ll explore that a little more, as well as other ways to engage in positive office politics, with the following best practices:
- Network up and down. Politicians go on the road to meet “the people,” and you have to do the same, but within your company. For example, I had a department head who weighed in on my evaluation, but I had no interaction with this person. Once again my favorite supervisor had the perfect solution: find a project that will get you some face-time. She helped me get in on a project in which the head of the department was involved, and I was able to make a favorable and direct impression.
- Find a mentor (or two). If you don’t already have one, make it your goal to find a mentor in the next two weeks. I had a couple of them at my last job, and they helped me navigate difficult personalities; look for solutions when I needed a sounding board; and check my e-mails for sarcasm (priceless if, like me, sarcasm comes as naturally as exhaling). Most people like to help others — just be sure to come to him or her with a problem and a few possible solutions. Your mentor isn’t there to listen to you complain or to solve all of your problems for you.
- Take initiative. Start something new, even if it’s just a fun thing for your coworkers to do together. Some of my coworkers organized yoga-at-work classes during lunch, fundraising activities, and office holiday celebrations. It doesn’t have to be something that increases revenue to show leadership and team-building skills. (Although if you can identify a way to increase revenue, by all means, go for it!)
- Overcome your fear of speaking up. Many people have good ideas, but they’re afraid of being shot down or of what might happen if the idea bombs. But participation is an important part of good office politics. It shows that you’re engaged and thinking of solutions. If you’re too scared to speak up, talk to your mentor about ways to present your ideas at the next meeting or try joining a speaking group, such as Toastmasters.
- Look for ways to look good. And not only ways to make yourself look good, but find ways to make your team, your boss, and your company look good. For example, I knew a designer who entered every design contest she could. If the company paid her entry fee, she entered something. She tried to get her coworkers to enter, too, but if one declined, she’d enter a second design into the contest. When she’d win one, it made her look good, and it made her design team and department look good, which in turn made her boss look good. And every boss wants to look good.
- Think about the best interest of the team or company. Before asserting your opinion or arguing your case, ask yourself who will benefit. Are you against change because you don’t want to take the time to learn something new, even though it’ll improve a system? Think big-picture and beyond your immediate desires. When a disagreement starting going downhill, try to get the group to refocus on the big picture.
- Be positive. This isn’t always easy. Believe me, I’ve never been accused of being Little Miss Sunshine. But the people who constantly complain and play the victim are no fun to be around. People will start avoiding you, even if what you say has some merit. One coworker and I had a routine to deal with tough days at the office: We’d meet at the picnic tables for lunch and spend the first 10 minutes or so venting, then we’d move on and discuss anything but work. Sometimes it’s cathartic to get things off your chest, but it doesn’t lead to positive solutions, so don’t dwell on it. You want a reputation as a problem-solver, not a whiner.
Unfortunately, there’s more to it than running a good campaign. You also have to live with the negative politics.
Dealing with bad office politics
It can be difficult to stay positive if you feel like you’re living in an episode of The Office, but there are ways to deal with bad politics. Here are some tactics to deal with the negative:
- Don’t participate in the telephone game. Gossip will inevitably reach your cubicle, but ask yourself if there’s any credibility to the rumors. Whether there is or there isn’t, don’t pass it on. People who enjoy gossip usually only have half the story, and taking part is a sure way to wind up with your foot in your mouth.
- Get to know the people who practice bad politics. Instead of distancing yourself from them, as I once did, get to know these people better. Try to understand their motivations and goals to work more harmoniously with them (or at least avoid being in the crossfire as much as possible). Be polite, but be careful about what you say, too, which brings us to the next point…
- Watch what you say “in confidence.” Most things said in confidence will get out, usually starting with “I’m not supposed to say anything, but…” Disclose at your own risk. I tried to be professional and polite to everyone I worked with, but there were very few coworkers I trusted. Just because you like someone doesn’t mean you can trust them with your confidential information.
- Want to give someone a piece of your mind? Keep it to yourself. You might think it would feel good to “put someone in their place,” but it comes at a steep price. You’ll lose a potential ally (the target of your rage), and you’ll be viewed as unprofessional and difficult, which will affect future promotions.
- When all else fails, keep documentation. Sometimes you’ll encounter a particularly difficult person. If that’s the case, it’s unfortunate but necessary to keep records in case the situation escalates or winds up in human resources. Again, keep it to yourself. The last thing you want is for your coworker to hear that you’re keeping a file on them — that’s a quick way to make a bad situation worse.
Whether you call it office politics, networking, or people skills, learning to work well with others is a part of any office-based career (and I’d argue it’s just as important for entrepreneurs and freelancers).
What are some ways you practice good politics? How have you proactively dealt with negative situations?
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All excellent tips
I was wondering though, does anyone else have social media issues? Some of my coworkers are also friends, but I’ve ended up excluding them from my Facebook and Twitter accounts because I was learning things I didn’t want to know. Work-related things, not to mention seeing how much time they were spending watching videos, tweeting, etc. while I’m working my butt off! Or how they were partying the night before then I’m covering their work the next day while they are “sick”. I wouldn’t rat them out, but I could feel my resentment brewing. Now I worry they’ll think I’m being anti-social. Crazy, isn’t it?
I know people should be smarter about what they say on social media, but they aren’t! I don’t think you just have to watch what you say in confidence — I think you need to be careful what you announce to the whole world too.
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You bring up a good point Elizabeth. I’ve de-friended my friends from work and let them know about it too. I told them I don’t want certain people looking at every picture / ‘like’ of mine, so I won’t be adding any coworkers to my facebook. Each person agreed and did the same on their profiles.
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Yes, to social media issues. What I do on Facebook and Google Plus is accept all friend requests from coworkers, then put them all together in a group with very limited visibility to what I post or others post about me. Google Plus is much better at that sort of thing than Facebook. This way, I can accept the request (and not reject it), but they don’t see what I don’t want them to see. And if they ask me in real life why they don’t see anything on my Wall, I just tell them I don’t use FB that much.
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One thing I’d add is “control the message about yourself” – watch how people describe you. When three people tell you e.g. not to be too blunt when you’ve given them no sign of bluntness, the reason is usually someone gossiping about one incident that got exaggerated in the telling. If this gets out of hand, it could give you an unearned reputation for years, but in the early days it’s enough to tell the same three people how that incident actually went.
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I find that the “bad politics” are much less effective in the office than in elections. In an office setting, things are too close and intimate, and what kind of value you have will get around sooner rather than later. In my experience, no one who practices that sort of negative politicking, gets far for it in the long-term.
In regards to the comment above, I tell my co-workers I never go on FB anyway so not to bother adding me. It’s just not a good policy, I don’t want to take the chance of my of my goofball friends posting something that could really hurt my personal “office politics” campaign as I try to build a reputation and climb the ladder.
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I found that killing people with kindness and politeness really made a big difference in a not-great office environment. One year of teaching, I shared a lunch break with three others in my department who would go out for lunch every Friday without inviting me. They would even discuss their plans in front of me. One of the three felt bad about it and made an excuse to me during one of their planning sessions and said (with clear insincerity) that I was welcome to join them anytime. Rather than say something sarcastic, which I kind of wanted to do, I said “Thank you very much!” very brightly and let it drop.
By the end of the year, I was invited to lunch, offered teaching materials and treated as a colleague. By making it about winning them over instead of resenting them, I made the entire situation much more positive.
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I made the mistake of giving someone a piece of my mind . . . during a meeting. That’s a mistake I will never make again. I wasn’t even giving a specific someone a piece of my mind, per se, but venting about a policy. My concern and thoughts were valid, but they ended up being ignored due to the manner in which I presented them. Even after I apologized and followed the appropriate method, people turned a blind eye because of the initial outburst.
Far better, I have found, is to first get the emotion out (journaling, trusted non-work friend, therapy, screaming in rage in the privacy of your home, etc). Then, rationally and calmly work your way up the ladder with your rational and calm concerns.
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Earlier this year I changed organizations, where the office politics are much different than anything I’ve seen. I’m used to working in teams, pushing to achieve new goals, etc. At this new organization, everyone in my department has been here for at least 5 years, most have been from 10-20. It seems they are set in their ways and don’t really have the drive for the things I mention. Most complain everyday about hating their jobs and wishing they could find another one.
My question and I think it ties into this website directly, are there are 8 people in my department and everyday some people will go to lunch. It’s not everyone or the same people, every day, but there is always some group going. I try going to lunch once every couple weeks because I feel obligated and don’t like being left out, but I find it hard going as often as the rest because for one, I live 5 minutes from my office and it’s much cheaper eating at home and second, the conversations usually revolve around how much everyone hates their jobs or what they’re working on and I would just rather not be apart of that.
How do people handle those conversations and also, handle eating out for lunch when it’s often more expensive and usually more unhealthy for you?
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I used to be in this exact situation. I would try to gather everyone to eat in the cafeteria, or mention that I’d love to join them if they brought food back to eat. However, I would make an effort to go out with them every 2 weeks or so, and just make sure I either ordered something small, or large enough that I could make it into 2 lunches.
I also made friends with people in different departments who were motivated, young, and saw the value of eating lunch brought from home. It was much more interesting to discuss work with someone whose job I didn’t have insight into on a daily basis.
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These are excellent tips, since you always want to take the high road.
Toward that end, a bad job/boss is actually GOOD for you, because you can use your negative emotions to propel you toward something better. Keep thinking about your crazy boss and lousy job each day, and you can motivate yourself to take actions every day that move you to a better situation.
I made the transition from frustrated employee–with a micromanaging boss–to empowered business owner. I started a consulting business part-time, and built it into a full-time endeavor which is the sole income for my family of 4. I’ve QUADRUPLED what I used to make at my day job, and have much more flexibility. Being self-employed, I actually have a lot LESS stress than I did with my former day job (and bad boss).
Whether you decide to start your own consulting business as I and lots of others have done, you can use a bad job to propel you toward a better place.
You can check out an interview I recently did where I talk about how I made the switch from employee to consultant, and where I talk about some of my initial fears & doubts, and give actual income and rate numbers:
http://www.startmyconsultingbusiness.com/how-i-made-the-switch-from-employee-to-consultant.
Greg Miliates
http://www.StartMyConsultingBusiness.com
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Great post! For those of us with more grey hair than not, how about BEING a mentor? It’s a great way to work with new, young employees and often be exposed to a different way of looking at the “way we’ve always done things here.” It’s a win all the way around.
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One tip I learned recently about speaking up in meetings (from Atul Gawande):
If you hear your own voice once, during a meeting, you are much likely to speak up again. Even something as simple as introducing yourself can have an effect on your contribution to a meeting. This is especially important in meetings with people you don’t know, or don’t know very well.
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I am currently taking initiative and starting new projects for myself at work that will help the organization look good. No only will this help me look good, but it will ensure that I won’t get let go during the project.
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I escaped office politics altogether by starting two businesses of my own.
While I was still working a 9-5 job I began buying fixer-upper houses and converted them into rental properties.
When I finally quit my regular job last year to carve out my own niche, I also starting up a second business writing “how-to” books.
Between those two businesses, I am happily self-employed, doing what I like to do. And, I now no longer have the stress associated with an 9-5 job.
As Emerson said, “Do not follow where the path may lead. Go, instead, where there is no pah and leave a trail.”
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The office refridgerator has its own set of office politics alone.
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Focus or concentrate on what is important and ignore the rest.
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I no longer work, but I do volunteer, and the information is useful in that arena, too. Non-profits have office politics, and volunteers sometimes get caught up.
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Hope you won’t mind me pointing out an editing error:
“When a disagreement starting going…”
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Great post! We’ve had some pretty heavy office disputes in the last 6 months, and I skated through it with 0 enemies by keeping my ears open and my mouth shut.
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Great post, this area is often overlooked in blogs (as lots of bloggers aren’t in the corporate world) but office politics is important! And advice such as “ignore it” and “bring in your lunch regardless” isn’t helpful. Thanks for the insights and tips!
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useful tips
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