Psychology


  • Preventing failure before it is an option (28 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Lisa Aberle. When I wrote an article about poverty, I wasn't sure where Brandon and Leah, the two people I shared about, would be in the next few months. I needn't ...

  • Change is hard: Willpower versus habit (19 comments)

    This post is by staff writer Honey Smith. Recently on GRS I've been exploring the concept of motivation. But what if you didn't need to be motivated at all? What if you did what needed to be done au...

  • Weird ways our brains control our money habits (21 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong. I'll admit it. I'm a sucker for money psychology studies. And it's not just because I write about money. On a sheer curiosity level, they're fascinating....

  • Our brains on scarcity: Breaking out of the trap (Part II) (17 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong. (This is a two-part series. Part I is "Our brains on scarcity: The trap of not having enough.") For my last post, I wrote about the book "Scarcity: Why ...

  • Our brains on scarcity: The trap of not having enough (Part I) (36 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong. (This is a two-part series. Part II is "Our brains on scarcity: Breaking out of the trap.") I recently discovered the book "Scarcity: Why Having Too Lit...

  • Motivation and money (34 comments)

    This post is by staff writer Honey Smith. Especially for those of us like me who are in the midst of the long, hard slog of debt pay-down, staying motivated can be tough. How do you keep your excitem...

  • How to negotiate when you hate negotiating (19 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong. In an ideal world, you wouldn't need to go negotiate. In an ideal world, the weather would be perfect, there would be no war, and your employer would si...

  • Becoming friends with your future self (24 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong. I fight splurges less often than I used to, but the urge still pops up occasionally. Sometimes, it's okay to splurge; but mostly, I find myself wanting...

  • Teaching life skills to your children (22 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Lisa Aberle. While I've tackled many kid-centered topics, like how to save on kids' clothes, should you buy your kid a car, or pay for your child's college, you k...

  • A guide to managing your fear of money (23 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong. My first year of high school, I was looking for an easy, goof-off elective -- a class that would allow me to take a break in between Geometry and Engli...

  • Talking with Tess Vigeland about the psychology of money (14 comments)

    Note: This article is from J.D. Roth, who founded Get Rich Slowly in 2006. J.D.'s non-financial writing can be found at More Than Money, where he recently wrote about how to be happy. As part of the ...

  • Gratitude is good for your soul … and your finances (19 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong. I'll admit it. When I lost work last year, a tiny sense of entitlement crept up on me. Okay, maybe it was more than tiny. On the outside, I told people:...

  • What type of procrastinator are you? (20 comments)

    This post is by staff writer Honey Smith. Aah, procrastination. Controlling our time can be difficult, and most of us are intimately familiar with the act of delaying the act of starting or completi...

  • ‘When She Makes More’: 10 rules for breadwinning women (144 comments)

    Note: This article is from J.D. Roth, who founded Get Rich Slowly in 2006. J.D.'s recently launched the Get Rich Slowly course, a year-long guide on how to master your money. A few years ago, my li...

  • Talking with Gretchen Rubin about money and happiness (23 comments)

    Note: This article is from J.D. Roth, who founded Get Rich Slowly in 2006. J.D.'s non-financial writing can be found at More Than Money, where he recently wrote about how to be happy. As part of the ...

  • The 10 habits of financially successful people (39 comments)

    Note: This article is from J.D. Roth, who founded Get Rich Slowly in 2006. J.D.'s non-financial writing can be found at More Than Money, where he recently wrote about the relationship between action a...

  • The joy of being average (94 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Sam. Sam spent 13 years working in Equities on Wall Street and discusses financial independence strategies on Financial Samurai. Sam is also the founder of the Yakezie ...

  • A case for “hard work pays off” (43 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong. Over the weekend, a friend of mine came to visit. She's a career counselor and, while I wasn't looking for free advice, the conversation naturally turn...

  • Do we have a duty to live up to our potential? (85 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Sam, the Financial Samurai. It takes a while to discover who we are. During my sophomore year in high school, Coach Stucker hounded me in gym every week to try ou...

  • Can we really change our financial habits if our backs aren’t against the wall? (56 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Sam, the Financial Samurai. I recently had a discussion with a friend who made an argument why it's better to eat out in Manhattan than to save money by cooking bec...

  • Material stuff can make you happy (69 comments)

    This article is by staff writer April Dykman. Experiences make us happier than "Stuff." That's the current line of thinking, which quite a few studies support. Here's an example from Livescience.co...

  • Big wins: The quickest way to wealth (106 comments)

    Note: This article is from J.D. Roth, who founded Get Rich Slowly in 2006. J.D.'s non-financial writing can be found at More Than Money, where he recently wrote about the difference between tenacity a...

  • 8 hacks to help you keep your resolutions (35 comments)

    This article is by staff writer April Dykman. When I was in the first stage of personal finance, I had two obvious goals: Pay off my credit card Save $10,000 for an emergency fund ...

  • Reader Stories: Youth and exuberance give way (aka my lesson on entitlement) (8 comments)

    This Reader Story comes from Stevie Lutgen, a mortgage content editor for Lender411.com. She has a job now, but still writes for free, just for fun. Some reader stories contain general advice; othe...

  • Coping with job loss (45 comments)

    A few weeks ago, I lost a freelance job. I won't dish the details, because it's not relevant to this post, and I'm still friendly with my contacts there. What is relevant to this post, however, is t...

  • 5 ways to get over the money blues (25 comments)

    This article is by contributor Jeff Rose, CFP. He blogs at Good Financial Cents. In a surprising conversation with a client, I learned that he logs into his account online in the morning and agai...

  • When is your financial relaxation due date? (48 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Lisa Aberle. I am perched in the corner chair, cup of Chai in hand, with just hours before the deadline for this post. I have piles and piles of clean laundry that n...

  • Reader Stories: How a healthy lifestyle saved my money and my life (64 comments)

    This Reader Story comes from Gunnar, a filmmaker, a computer geek, a traveler and most recently an entrepreneur, who has launched the blog Wosla to inspire others to get healthy and save money. So...

  • Are English-speakers less likely to save money? (30 comments)

    If you speak English, you probably have a harder time saving money than someone who speaks German. That's because the language you speak influences your money habits, according to a Yale study publ...

  • 5 money excuses that held me back (58 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong. It's been several months now that I've been on a savings lockdown. It's been going well, except for this past weekend, when I had a relapse. I over-s...

  • Heal your money shame in 3 simple steps (22 comments)

    This guest post is from Kate Northrup. Kate is the author of the new book, Money: A Love Story. She’s leading a live online event called A Course in Having Enough with guest teachers Marianne Willia...

  • You Are the Boss of You: How to Find Success with Life and Money (71 comments)

    Note: This article is from J.D. Roth, who founded Get Rich Slowly in 2006. It marks his return as a contributor to this site. J.D.'s non-financial writing can be found at More Than Money. "What do ...

  • Is there morality in personal finance? (46 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Kristin Wong. A while back, my blogger friend and fellow GRS writer Holly Johnson wrote about a healthy dose of lifestyle inflation. In that article, someone made a ...

  • Talk about money: The key to financial literacy? (53 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sarah Gilbert. April's post about financial literacy struck something in me, especially the part about the "Fallacy of Financial Literacy." The idea here is that we ...

  • The sneaky sales strategies of your local grocery store (97 comments)

    It's Thursday, and I've been to the grocery store five times this week. This isn't normal for me. Usually, I take the time to plan and list what I need and get everything in one frugal, fell swoop. ...

  • Throwing away an old rule (74 comments)

    Fellow peasants, unite! The time has come to overthrow the old order! GRS rule #3 says, "Spend less than you earn." But why should we continue to do that always? Because of tradition? Because of aut...

  • My New Year’s resolution: lowering the bar for happiness (68 comments)

    A blog to which I contribute recently won a contest, and upon finding out, my boyfriend suggested that we celebrate. "Oh, no, it's not a huge deal," I told him. "It was just a small contest." He...

  • In defense of passion (with the help of reason) (81 comments)

    "Nothing great in the world has ever been accomplished without passion." -Hegel Last week, GRS published an article by April Dykman that presented some ideas by Ramit Sethi and Cal Newport about h...

  • The morality of personal finance (80 comments)

    I was running last Sunday night. I had waited too long to start my run, and it was dark. I've taken to using my iPhone to track my runs, because I'm very motivated by the additive nature of all my r...

  • Join the Debt Movement (40 comments)

    This is a guest post from Jeff Rose, a Certified Financial Planner who writes about financial planning topics at Good Financial Cents. His first book, Soldier of Finance, is slated to be released the ...

  • Take a deep breath: Letting go of financial stress (31 comments)

    I've been reading through some of my old posts and thinking about what I wanted for this, my very-end-of-the-year statement on money. And what I saw was a lot (a lot) of angst and worry and stress. ...

  • More fun with life and death (29 comments)

    This is a post from staff writer Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the adviser for The Motley Fool’s Rule Your Retirement service. I’ve always assum...

  • Why we buy: The science of shopping (42 comments)

    This is a guest post from J.D. Roth. J.D. founded Get Rich Slowly and now writes at More Than Money. Ready or not, the holidays are here and the shopping season is upon us. Although I wish I could ...

  • Jiro Ono to all newbs: Be tough (49 comments)

    I was planning to wrap my review of the documentary about Jiro Ono with a nice, nearly clinical summary of all the extra “lessons” I had managed to extract from the film (one was “surround yours...

  • Is investing optional? (101 comments)

    This guest post from William Cowie. William has contributed to ConsumerismCommentary.com, BudgetsAreSexy.com and other personal finance blogs, including his own, Dropdeadmoney.com. We've all see...

  • Financial enlightenment does not come from charts (52 comments)

    I've always looked at websites and apps that purport to solve your financial woes and set you on the path to fiscal happiness with skepticism. It's not that I think they're not useful; but I think tha...

  • The rise and fall of the shopaholic (85 comments)

    As a college student, I often took up side jobs to make extra cash. One of those side jobs included selling random things on eBay. It was easier and slightly more lucrative than holding a garage sale ...

  • When Seizing the Day Backfires (55 comments)

    A little over a month ago, I experienced one of those moments in life where everything was as it should be. You know those moments—when work, love, friendships, etc., are all operating smoothly, in ...

  • Tips for the Introverted Negotiator (80 comments)

    In my last article, I talked about saving money on the big things, like cars and houses. Multiple readers contributed good reasons why we don't save as much money as we should on cars and houses. B...

  • Earning More vs. Spending Less, Round 3: ‘The Queen of Versailles’ (57 comments)

    This is the third article of a series. The first one is here and the second one here. Earning and saving money both take time, effort, knowledge, attention, and continuous dedication. Since we know...

  • Reader Story: Finding Hope In The Bleakest Of Situations (99 comments)

    This guest post from Sam is part of the "reader stories" feature at Get Rich Slowly. Sam writes at Financial Samurai and is one of the esteemed colleagues with whom I'm exchanging ideas this weekend a...

  • The Power of Personal Responsibility (72 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer Donna Freedman. Donna writes the Frugal Cool blog for MSN Money, and writes about frugality and intentional living at Surviving And Thriving. Last Wednesday eveni...

  • The Politeness Tax (157 comments)

    This article is from staff writer Kristin Wong. The other day, I ordered a small pizza for lunch. The delivery guy showed up, sweating from the summer sun, and told me my total was $10. I had a twe...

  • Ask the Readers: How Do You Handle Money Mistakes? (63 comments)

    Getting started with smart money management can be tough. It can be frustrating. For one, you have to discard so many old habits. Plus you have to develop new habits. And, toughest of all, you have to...

  • Frugality: Welcome Challenge or Only a Chore? (95 comments)

    This article is from new staff writer Kristin Wong. As a kid, it was my job to pull the weeds in our embarrassingly overgrown backyard. No, my parents didn't believe in doing or paying for yard wor...

  • Nobody Has It All: Careers We Can Believe In (189 comments)

    This post is by staff writer Sarah Gilbert. By now, lots and lots of people know that Anne-Marie Slaughter doesn't have it all. Even though she was extremely high-powered, as Director of Policy Pla...

  • Finding Balance in an Imbalanced World (70 comments)

    For the next week (or two), we'll be sharing "audition" pieces from folks interested in being new staff writers at Get Rich Slowly. Your job is to let us know what you think of each of these writers. ...

  • The Power of Community (65 comments)

    For the next week (or two), we'll be sharing "audition" pieces from folks interested in being new staff writers at Get Rich Slowly. Your job is to let us know what you think of each of these writers. ...

  • How Saving Money Cost Me Money (86 comments)

    For the next week (or two), we'll be sharing "audition" pieces from folks interested in being new staff writers at Get Rich Slowly. Your job is to let us know what you think of each of these writers. ...

  • The Statute of Limitations on Regret (122 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer Donna Freedman. Donna writes the Frugal Cool blog for MSN Money, and writes about frugality and intentional living at Surviving And Thriving. Recently I read a bl...

  • Ask the Readers: Why Don’t People Talk About Money? (288 comments)

    On Wednesday, I visited a fifth-grade class in McMinnville, Oregon to talk with the kids about money. I had a great time, and I'll share more about the experience on Monday. Today, though, I want to s...

  • How to Change Your Spending Habits (32 comments)

    This is a guest post from Charles Duhigg, the author of The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do and How to Change. Learn more at www.ThePowerOfHabit.com. When you get to the cash register, what do...

  • Your Friends are Marketing to You (How to Like Them Anyway) (22 comments)

    This post is by staff writer Sarah Gilbert. Your friends may be marketing to you. I know: I'm taking the internet-shocking tactic I hate seeing elsewhere, but if I didn't have evidence in my ver...

  • Trading Time for Money (70 comments)

    Last week, I was complaining to my Spanish tutor (who, by the way, thinks I always complain). "Ideally, I'd be writing less," I told her. "I want to have more time to learn Spanish and to focus on oth...

  • From the Trenches: An Update on My War on Stuff (105 comments)

    Though our divorce is final, Kris and I continue to see each other about once a week. We have lunch or dinner together, and sometimes we do chores around the house. One big chore is approaching: We...

  • A Philosophy of Failure (80 comments)

    Though I've been reading and writing about money for six years now, I still do stupid things sometimes. Most of these errors are un-interesting — it's the compulsive spending that's interesting,...

  • Are You Afraid to Earn More? (137 comments)

    This is a guest post from Rya Hristova. Rya had her reader story featured at Get Rich Slowly last year. She writes a Bulgarian personal-finance blog called kadebg.com. Did you grow up in a modest f...

  • Getting Emotional About Money (40 comments)

    This is a guest post from Danielle LaPorte author of the forthcoming book, The Fire Starter Sessions: A Soulful + Practical Guide for Creating Success on Your Own Terms. This material appears in the b...

  • The Fear of Missing Out (136 comments)

    This post is by staff writer April Dykman. When I was in the fourth grade, I had a bad case of FOMO. I contracted it when I realized that all of my classmates (or so it seemed) had Nickelodeon, ...

  • The Cost of Being an Overachiever (108 comments)

    This post is by staff writer April Dykman. "What do you do for a living?" That's one of the first questions we ask each other in our society. The choice of how you earn a living tells others a l...

  • Class Consciousness and Social Mobility (241 comments)

    Kris and I have returned from three weeks traveling in Argentina and Chile with a group from our university alumni association. My favorite parts of these trips are when we get to interact with th...

  • Can Money Buy Freedom? (124 comments)

    On Saturday, my friend Tyler hosted a blog meetup. I first met Tyler several years ago. He was a GRS reader who dropped me a line to see if I'd meet him for dinner. I said "yes" — as I almost...

  • Make 2012 Better by Asking the Right Question (30 comments)

    This post is by guest writer Carl Richards. Carl is a financial planner, contributor for The New York Times and Morning Star, and author of Behavior Gap: Simple Ways to Stop Doing Dumb Things With Mon...

  • Don’t Forget Regret — Use It Instead (47 comments)

    This is a post from staff writer Tim Sullivan. Right after we graduated from college, my best friend wanted to buy a real bed. He’d slept on gifted beds, Craigslist-ed beds, found beds, futons, c...

  • How to Fend Off Financial Trolls (34 comments)

    Note: It's a rare thing, but it happens once or twice a year: Life has reared its ugly head, and there's no fresh story for you this morning. Instead, enjoy this classic from the Get Rich Slowly archi...

  • How I Lost 25 Pounds — And How It Can Help Your Finances (35 comments)

    This is a post from staff writer Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the adviser for The Motley Fool’s Rule Your Retirement service. He contributes one new...

  • How “Anchoring” Sways Your Decisions (50 comments)

    This is a post from staff writer April Dykman. My favorite places to shop are sites like 6pm.com and Last Call Neiman Marcus. I like the idea of buying a $400 dress for $80 because I get better qua...

  • 5 Free Ways to De-Stress (51 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. I've started to notice something about my spending habits, and maybe you can relate. When I'm sad, stressed, or emotional, I often justify expenses by t...

  • Want to Save Money? Slow Down (94 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer Donna Freedman. Donna writes a personal finance column for MSN Money, and writes about frugality and intentional living at Surviving And Thriving. About a year ago...

  • Ask the Readers: Staying Motivated to Save? (82 comments)

    Sometimes you do everything right — you work hard, you cut back on spending, you invest for retirement — but all of your effort seems for nought. You get sick. You wreck your car. Or, as h...

  • Empower Your Willpower (23 comments)

    This is a post from staff writer Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the adviser for The Motley Fool’s Rule Your Retirement service. He contributes one new...

  • Finding Your Flow: Spend Less and Do More (56 comments)

    This article is from new staff writer Tim Sullivan. How can you get the most out of the dollars you spend on entertainment? Though it seems counter-intuitive, I've found that with a small investmen...

  • Do What Works for You (48 comments)

    I'm writing this post in Lima, Peru, on the last day of my six-week South American odyssey. I've had a great time. I've climbed mountains, explored ancient ruins, petted llamas (and cats), mangled Spa...

  • What Are the Differences Between the Rich and the Poor? (359 comments)

    Disclaimer: I realize this topic stirs strong emotions, but I think it's both interesting and important. Besides, if any group is capable of having a deep discussion about it, it's Get Rich Slowly rea...

  • How to Know When to Quit (62 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. Before I became a full-time freelancer, I worked for a couple of different companies. Both times I started a new job, it started out exciting and fun. ...

  • Got the Urge to Splurge? Use These Strategies to Fight It (or Not) (122 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer Donna Freedman. Donna writes a personal finance column for MSN Money, and writes about frugality and intentional living at Surviving And Thriving. This just in: Sal...

  • Overcoming Uncertainty (43 comments)

    I met an old friend for lunch the other day. Andrew and I have known each other since the first day of first grade — way back in 1975. "You know," he said as we slurped down Asian noodles, "when...

  • The Spectacle of Financial Difficulty (170 comments)

    This post is from new staff writer Sarah Gilbert. Both my husband and I have spent some periods of unemployment over the past decade, and we have become intimately familiar with financial humiliati...

  • Logic and Emotion: Why Smart Money Management Isn’t Just About Math (86 comments)

    This is a guest post by former GRS staff writer Adam Baker of Man Vs. Debt. This week, registration opens for You vs. Debt, Baker’s six-week online class with daily videos, challenges, and accountab...

  • Ask the Readers: How to Cope with Financial Mistakes? (88 comments)

    Nobody's perfect. This should be obvious, but we all tend to forget it — and often. We judge other people for their mistakes, and often we judge ourselves even more harshly. I do this too. When ...

  • Decision Fatigue: Why Willpower Isn’t Always Enough (85 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and raising children at Childwild.com. A Snickers bar can save you money. Not just a little money eit...

  • Playing to Win: Turning Money Management into a Game (65 comments)

    I am a gamer. All my life, I've been a fan of games of all types. I've played Dungeons and Dragons since I was in the third grade. During 2000 and 2001, Kris and I had marathon bridge sessions with an...

  • Playing to Your Strengths (52 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and raising children at Childwild.com. Shortly after finishing college, a friend of mine was fired fr...

  • Every Purchase Is a Trade-Off (76 comments)

    While I was digging out of debt, I cut back on my comic book habit. I'd been spending a mind-boggling $250 every month on comics — most of which I bought in the form of hard-bound compilations &...

  • What Do You Care What Other People Think? (181 comments)

    Yesterday afternoon, I shared a biking vs. driving calculator that tries to show how much you could save if you gave up your car in favor of other forms of transportation. Whenever I post a story abou...

  • Defining Your Financial Future (34 comments)

    This is a guest post from Kent Thune. Thune urges readers to place meaning and purpose before money and planning at his blog, The Financial Philosopher. For better or worse, language has a signific...

  • The Psychology of Consumerism (198 comments)

    This is a guest post from David M. Carter, a graduate of the master of applied positive psychology program at the University of Pennsylvania, and the first graduate of the program to emphasize the inh...

  • Tackling Temptation: Is It Better to Resist or to Give In? (90 comments)

    This is a guest post from Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the adviser for The Motley Fool’s Rule Your Retirement service. He also has a blog, Twitterin...

  • How to Spend Your Way to Happiness (Part Two) (47 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. It's part two of How to Spend Your Way to Happiness. Read part one here. Last week, we discussed three out of eight key ways that spending money can inc...

  • How to Spend Your Way to Happiness (Part One) (109 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. You know the old adage “money can't buy happiness”? Researchers Elizabeth Dunn, Dan Gilbert, and Timothy Wilson say it's a myth. Drawing on empirica...

  • Outsmarting Myself (117 comments)

    Every spring for the past decade or so, I've turned from a normal, healthy adult into a sniffling, dripping fountain of whine in just a matter of days. Something in the air doesn't agree with me. Last...

  • Affirm Your Way To Wealth (79 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and getting her kids to eat kale at Childwild.com. This morning, I did something unusual. After I bru...

  • The Power of Patience (57 comments)

    When I was young, I had no patience. I wanted everything, and I wanted it now. No wonder, then, that I found myself with over $20,000 in credit-card debt just a few years out of college. I was spendin...

  • Wants, Needs, and the Sense of Entitlement (56 comments)

    This is a guest post from Gail Vaz-Oxlade, the host of the popular Til Debt Do U$ Part on CNBC (Saturday nights at 10 and 10:30). Gail is a columnist for MoneySense, Chatelaine, and Zoomer Magazine an...

  • Confessions of a Spendaholic: How to Curb Compulsive Spending (51 comments)

    My name is J.D., and I'm a spendaholic. Now admittedly, I mostly have my spending under control. I'm no longer in debt, and I force myself to make conscious decisions about what I purchase. (Conscious...

  • How to Cope with Budget Blow-Ups (42 comments)

    This is a guest post from Gail Vaz-Oxlade, the host of the popular Til Debt Do U$ Part on CNBC (Saturday nights at 10 and 10:30). Gail is a columnist for MoneySense, Chatelaine, and Zoomer Magazine an...

  • All Value is Perceived Value (44 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. A lot of folks hate advertising, and it's hard to blame them. But in a 2009 TED talk, ad man Rory Sutherland argues that what advertising creates &mdash...

  • Reader Story: A Fresh Start on the Path to Prosperity (112 comments)

    This guest post from Louisa Rogers is part of the "reader stories" feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success ...

  • One Problem, One Correction: How to Set New Year’s Resolutions You’ll Actually Keep (54 comments)

    A new year is coming, and for many people that means it's time to make a list of resolutions. I used to be one of these folks, carefully cataloging the faults I'd like to fix every winter. Not anymore...

  • Fantasy vs. Reality: Paving a Path to a Promising Future (45 comments)

    On Saturday night, I had dinner with Wendy and Dennis, two Get Rich Slowly readers who recently moved from Phoenix to Portland. We talked about a lot of things — most of them nerdy. We also chat...

  • What to Do When Personal Finance Becomes a Chore (62 comments)

    Yesterday, Sierra wrote that she's bored. She's reached a point in her financial journey where nothing exciting seems to be happening. She's paid off the easy debts, and now it's a slog as she pays of...

  • Gaming The System: Score Points With Your Savings (42 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and getting her kids to eat kale at Childwild.com. I'm at a bit of a personal-finance plateau. I've c...

  • What to Do When You’re Completely Unsure (26 comments)

    This is a guest post by Tyler Tervooren of Advanced Riskology, a blog with resources for extraordinary risk takers. You can follow him on Twitter @tylertervooren. Personal finance is full of confus...

  • Why Are There No Ads Urging Us to Save? (39 comments)

    This is a guest post from Rob Bennett, a long-time GRS reader. Bennett created the first retirement calculator that contains an adjustment for the valuation level that applies on the day the retiremen...

  • Reader Story: Even Better Than Enough (51 comments)

    This guest post from Louisa Rogers is part of the "reader stories" feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success &...

  • Welcome to Generation App (51 comments)

    This is a guest post from Joseph D’Agnese who, with his wife Denise Kiernan, wrote The Money Book for Freelancers, Part-Timers, and the Self-Employed, which sets forth a personal finance system for ...

  • Bargain Shopping Gone Berserk! (49 comments)

    This is a guest post from Gail Vaz-Oxlade, the host of the popular Til Debt Do U$ Part on CNBC (Saturday nights at 10 and 10:30). Gail is a columnist for Yahoo Canada, Chatelaine, and Zoomer Magazine ...

  • How to Use a Commitment Contract to Change Your Habits (45 comments)

    This is a guest post from Pop at Pop Economics, a great new blog about investing, personal finance, economics, and more. It's now 9pm on August 30th. I'll finish this guest post by 11:59pm on Augu...

  • How Much is Enough? On Average, About $75,000 Per Year (97 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and getting her kids to eat kale at Childwild.com. A few weeks ago I wrote about how money really can...

  • Book Review: Mind Over Money (20 comments)

    "Financial success is more about mastering the mental game of money than about understanding the numbers." That's the first tenet of the Get Rich Slowly philosophy. That math of personal finance is si...

  • Action Not Words: The Difference Between Talkers and Doers (104 comments)

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  • Money CAN Buy You Happiness! (61 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and getting her kids to eat kale at Childwild.com. In today's article, she tackles a topic I've been mea...

  • How to Build Confidence and Overcome Fear (36 comments)

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  • Productivity Lagging? Take a Siesta (35 comments)

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  • A Simple Question to Jump-Start Your Finances (57 comments)

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  • Use an Informational Interview to Overcome Mental Barriers (38 comments)

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  • Bigger Isn’t Always Better: Remembering to Appreciate What I Already Have (196 comments)

    Walking home from work today, I decided to take the long way. Most of the time, I choose the easy quarter-mile stroll downhill from the office to our happy half acre (or happy .62 acre, if you'd like ...

  • Patience and Personal Finance (29 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. I used to describe myself as impatient as though it were a trait of which to be proud. While I still have a long way to go, I think back on that and...

  • Finding Your Financial Blind Spots (31 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and getting her kids to eat kale at Childwild.com. Every month, you spend money you don't need to. No...

  • Three Passive Barriers I Use to Counter Consumerism (37 comments)

    This video post is by staff writer Adam Baker. Baker previously featured a post on his own blog entitled, Dave Ramsey Vs. Suze Orman. Passive barriers are those small mental impediments that keep u...

  • How Quickly Wants Can Turn to Needs (42 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Adam Baker. Baker recently featured a post on his own blog entitled, Are You Eating Yourself Into Debt? As some of you know, Courtney and I recently spent just under...

  • Social Capital: More Valuable Than Money? (63 comments)

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  • The Importance of Finishing What You Started (34 comments)

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  • Getting Paid to Lose Weight with HealthyWage (47 comments)

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  • Money and Relationships: A Matter of Control? (92 comments)

    Last week I gave a talk at Powell's bookstore here in Portland. During the question-and-answers session, one woman posed an interesting question. (I've forgotten her name, so let's call her Kim to mak...

  • Money, Stress, and Your Health (46 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. A 2009 AP/AOL survey, Debt Stress in the United States, found that American adults are experiencing significantly more debt-related stress than repo...

  • Trading Happiness for Money: A Bad Bargain? (59 comments)

    I think a lot about happiness — about my own happiness and about the happiness of those around me. Knowing my interest in the subject, Kris forwarded a recent column from David Brooks of The New...

  • Spend Based on Who You Are, Not Who You Want to Be (110 comments)

    Last Thursday, on April Fool's Day, I wrote about my obsession with gadgets and how much that's cost me over the years. As always, your comments and stories were more entertaining (and instructive) th...

  • Reader Story: Be Happy on Your Own Terms (114 comments)

    This guest post from Joann is part of the "reader stories" feature here at Get Rich Slowly. Some reader stories contain general "how I did X" advice, and others are examples of how a GRS reader achiev...

  • Warren Buffett on the Lottery of Birth (69 comments)

    This is a guest post from Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the advisor for The Motley Fool’s Rule Your Retirement service. He contributes one new articl...

  • A Two-Step Approach to Breaking Bad Money Habits (20 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. Bad money habits, like other bad habits, can be tough to break. Relying on willpower alone to stop cold turkey makes us long even more for the Stuff...

  • Reader Story: How I Learned to Save LESS — and Loved It (62 comments)

    This guest post from Avistew is part of the new "reader stories" feature here at Get Rich Slowly. Some reader stories contain general "how I did X" advice, and others will be examples of how a GRS rea...

  • Waving Good-Bye to the Joneses (153 comments)

    A new study out of the U.K. confirms what many of us have already learned: Money only makes you happy if you have more than those around you. According to the London Telegraph: Despite the vast i...

  • The Balance Between Splurger and Miser (68 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. Before I changed my habits, I spent money without much thought. In college, if I had a two-hour break between classes, I’d drive to the mall. Once...

  • The Hidden Cost of Spending While In Debt (51 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Adam Baker, who recently released an 83-page guide entitled Unautomate Your Finances. Courtney and I are big fans of what we call "mental filters". These are simple ...

  • Book Review: The Happiness Project (47 comments)

    One of my core beliefs is this: It's more important to be happy than it is to be rich. My personal experience bears this out (though I'm fortunate to be both), as do the anecdotes I receive from GRS r...

  • Reader Story: How I Fought Lifestyle Inflation — and Won! (46 comments)

    This guest post from Michelle is part of a new feature here at Get Rich Slowly. Every Sunday will include a reader story (in the new "reader stories" category). Some will be general "how I did X" stor...

  • Should You Really Be Reading This Post? (54 comments)

    This is a guest post from Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the advisor for The Motley Fool’s Rule Your Retirement service. He contributes one new articl...

  • What We Know, Don’t Know, and Never Knew (49 comments)

    One of the toughest parts of writing Your Money: The Missing Manual (and writing Get Rich Slowly every day) has been the constant feeling that I don't know what I'm doing. I'm an accidental personal f...

  • To Find Happiness, One Millionaire Gives His Wealth Away (43 comments)

    One of the primary themes of Get Rich Slowly (and of Your Money: The Missing Manual) is that it's more important to be happy than it is to be rich. I learn this lesson over and over again, but sometim...

  • Love and Money: Do Savers Seek Spenders? (62 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. Social psychologists have found that people tend to choose their significant other based on similarities—similar attitudes, values, and even simil...

  • Break Out of Your Comfort Zone to Achieve Success (44 comments)

    This is a guest post from Flexo of Consumerism Commentary. Flexo is embarking on a ten-day, ten-blog tour. Previously at Get Rich Slowly, he's shared how to be CFO of your own life. Humans are wire...

  • Notes on Self-Study from a Killjoy Perfectionist (35 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. I have a friend who just doesn’t see himself. He has declared bankruptcy twice and alcohol abuse landed him in jail for the past year. Despite los...

  • Happy New Year! My One Goal for 2010 (73 comments)

    As an amazing 2009 fades into the sunset, it's time to review my progress and look forward to the year to come. Am I a better person than I was a year ago? (I believe so.) How can I be even better at ...

  • It’s More Important to Be Happy Than to Be Rich (71 comments)

    This article is the final installment of a 14-part series that explored the core tenets of Get Rich Slowly. Here's the opening paragraph from my forthcoming book, Your Money: The Missing Manual. It...

  • Where’s Your Financial Comfort Level? (138 comments)

    This is a guest post from Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the advisor for The Motley Fool’s Rule Your Retirement service. He contributes one new articl...

  • Failure is Okay (55 comments)

    This article is the 10th of a 14-part series that explores the core tenets of Get Rich Slowly. Yesterday, for the first time in my 40-1/2 years on this earth, I went ice skating. Initially, I was s...

  • The Perfect is the Enemy of the Good (54 comments)

    This article is the ninth of a fourteen-part series that explores the core tenets of Get Rich Slowly. You want the best — for yourself, for your spouse, for your family. You want the best car...

  • My Advertising Crash Diet (62 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. Thanksgiving might be my favorite holiday, and in large part that's because I spend it camping in Terlingua Ranch and hiking, backpacking, or k...

  • Do What Works for You (56 comments)

    This article is the seventh of a fourteen-part series that explores the core tenets of Get Rich Slowly. I struggled with debt for over a decade. I made several attempts to tackle the trouble, but n...

  • The Curse of a Big-Win Mentality (44 comments)

    This article is by GRS staff writer Adam Baker. Despite his best attempts, Baker struggles to budget while adapting to life in New Zealand. Earlier this week J.D. tackled an important issue with hi...

  • Knocking Out the Beliefs That Hold You Back (69 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. A college professor once told my journalism class that freelance writing is something you should do on the side. It's not anything you could make a ...

  • The Paradox of Choice and the Dangers of Perfection (81 comments)

    As important as I believe National Save for Retirement Week is, I have to confess that after four days (five, if you count Sunday), I'm bored of it. My short attention span has dwindled. (Imagine the ...

  • Accumulation and Attachment: Finding Balance (52 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. A lot has been made of the minimalist lifestyle on personal finance blogs. Some readers love it; some think it sounds like a miserable existence. Bu...

  • The Guilt of Wealth (167 comments)

    Yesterday I shared a guest post from Leo of Zen Habits. His guide to minimalist money was a sort of overview of good financial skills, useful information for those in the first stage of personal finan...

  • The Personal Finance Hour, Episode 23: Money and Happiness (5 comments)

    On today's episode of The Personal Finance Hour, I joined Jim from Bargaineering to discuss the relationship between money and happiness. Will more money make you happier? Are we happy when we get...

  • Happier (79 comments)

    "Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence." — Aristotle For a long time, I was unhappy. I used to think that this was because of my overwhelm...

  • Money is More About Mind Than It Is About Math (87 comments)

    This is the first of a fourteen-part series that explores the core tenets of Get Rich Slowly. I had a group of old high-school friends over to the house last weekend. As the daylight faded and the ...

  • Finding Financial Values (23 comments)

    What is important to me? How do my values influence my financial decisions? These are some of the key questions I've begun to ask as I move deeper into the "third stage" of personal finance. Now that ...

  • Lighting a Fire: How to Overcome Procrastination (49 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. This article is particularly relevant to my own circumstances as I begin work on my book project. I've been procrastinating. A lot. In fact, I liked Ap...

  • Further Adventures in My War on Stuff (102 comments)

    Long-time readers of Get Rich Slowly know that I've been waging an ongoing battle against Stuff — the clutter and crap I managed to collect during 20 years of wanton spending and debt. Though I'...

  • What Got You to Get Better? Reasons for Change (86 comments)

    This is a guest post from Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the advisor for The Motley Fool’s Rule Your Retirement service. He contributes one new articl...

  • Discovering (and Challenging) Your Financial Values (48 comments)

    This is a guest post from Karawynn, who writes about personal finance at Pocketmint. Karawynn is a potential Staff Writer for Get Rich Slowly. In her first article, she visited the Island of Misfit Fo...

  • The “Do-I-Have-Enough-For-This?” Effect (53 comments)

    This is a guest post from Baker, who writes about personal finance at Man vs. Debt. Baker is a potential Staff Writer for Get Rich Slowly. His first post described the many advantages of couchsurfing....

  • Peer Pressure and Money: Do You Spend Differently with Friends? (85 comments)

    This is a guest post from Neal Frankle, a Certified Financial Planner and the blogger at The Wealth Pilgrim. Neal is a potential Staff Writer for Get Rich Slowly. His first post explored the benefits ...

  • Freedom from Mindless Spending (143 comments)

    This is a guest post from April Dykman, an avid GRS reader, and a writer and editor by trade. April is a potential Staff Writer for Get Rich Slowly. April is an active commenter at this site. "Peop...

  • Failing Forward: Transforming Mistakes into Success (22 comments)

    Sometimes the best personal finance books aren't about personal finance. In June 2006, for example, I shared a brief review of Steven Pressfield's The War of Art. Ostensibly this book is about cre...

  • Do Experiences Lead to Greater Happiness Than Material Purchases? (59 comments)

    The August issue of the Journal of Consumer Research arrived in my mailbox yesterday. It contains an interesting article from Nicolao, Irwin, and Goodman entitled "Happiness for Sale: Do Experiential ...

  • Lower Your Expectations, Increase Your Happiness (87 comments)

    "Did you listen to Rick Steves this afternoon?" Kris asked me on Sunday. I shook my head. "That's too bad," she said. "It was about the relationship between money and happiness. I think you would have...

  • Financial Serenity – The Missing Ingredient (24 comments)

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  • When Money DOES Buy Happiness (65 comments)

    Money can't buy happiness. Or can it? The TierneyLab blog from The New York Times recently conducted an informal survey. Based on Spent: Sex, Evolution, and Consumer Behavior, a new book from Dr. Geof...

  • Remnants of Things Past (96 comments)

    I did a little time traveling yesterday, and I didn't like it. "I'm going to clean the workshop," I announced at breakfast. "I know I should write or mow the lawn, but I'm going to clean the works...

  • Further Research on Money and Happiness (53 comments)

    Recent research confirms what many GRS readers already know: money doesn't buy happiness. At the University of Rochester, psychology professors Edward Deci and Richard Ryan and graduate student Christ...

  • The Loneliness of the Long-Distance Debtor (32 comments)

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  • Ask the Readers: What Makes You Feel Rich While Being Frugal? (162 comments)

    Earlier this week, Aaron asked whether repaying debt should be an obsession. I replied that for some people, "gazelle intensity" makes more sense. (Trent from The Simple Dollar is one of these folk...

  • Want to Spend Less? Carry Bigger Bills (44 comments)

    In a study that will appear in December's issue of the Journal of Consumer Research (but which was published online last month), Priya Raghubir and Joydeep Srivastava argue that "the denomination ...

  • The Lure of SkyMall (72 comments)

    For me, the best personal finance lessons are the ones I learn first-hand. When I actually experience something, I get a lot more out of it than simply by reading about it. Last week I flew to San ...

  • The Turning Point (44 comments)

    I had lunch with my friend Bo recently. Over our enchiladas, we talked about how dumb we were when we younger, and how we'd do things differently if we could. To what point would we return if we wante...

  • Ask the Readers: Where’s the Fun in Personal Finance? (101 comments)

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  • Economic Stimulus and the Marginal Propensity to Consume (99 comments)

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  • Oversaving Does Not Lead to Happiness (51 comments)

    I love frugality. Frugality helped me to dig out of debt, begin to build wealth, and find more meaning in the things I already own. But at some point I crossed the line from frugal to cheap. I've spen...

  • Lighting the Way (38 comments)

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  • Ask the Readers: What Do You Do When Frugality Gets You Nowhere? (166 comments)

    In general, the frugal person who saves and invests will slowly build wealth, and will find herself far ahead of her peers. But sometimes the progress is slow — or even non-existent. When this h...

  • The Psychology of Passive Barriers: Why Your Friends Don’t Save Money, Eat Healthier, or Clean Their Garages (100 comments)

    This is a guest post from Ramit Sethi, the founder of iwillteachyoutoberich.com, a blog on personal finance and entrepreneurship. His new book, I Will Teach You To Be Rich, will be published on March ...

  • Defeating Temptation: 10 Questions to Ask Yourself When You’re Tempted to Buy (99 comments)

    You're in the mall or at the Electronics Emporium. There's nothing you need to buy, but you're killing time while your spouse finishes an errand. As you wait, you browse. You admire the Thneeds. Look!...

  • The Light at the End of the Tunnel (25 comments)

    This is the third of a five-part series about the "stages" of personal finance. In the first part I described the zeroth stage of money management, in which I was fumbling in the dark, spending compul...

  • A Candle in the Dark (46 comments)

    This is the second of a five-part series about the "stages" of personal finance. Last Sunday, I shared part one: "Fumbling in the Dark". In June of 2004, Kris and I bought a new house. On paper, we...

  • The Ongoing Battle with Lifestyle Inflation (60 comments)

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  • Fumbling in the Dark (77 comments)

    I've had good control of my saving and spending for nearly two years now. I still make poor choices now and then, but they don't have the consequences they would have a decade ago. A decade ago, I was...

  • How to Build Confidence and Destroy Fear (102 comments)

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  • George Kinder: Three Questions about Life Planning (31 comments)

    I spent last Tuesday at the mid-winter conference of the local financial planning association. I was there to give a one-hour presentation about financial blogs, but I had a secondary motive. I wanted...

  • Behavior Gap: The Psychology of Investing (19 comments)

    At Behavior Gap, Carl Richards is on a mission to help investors overcome the self-destructive behaviors that prevent them from prospering. Over the past week, while preparing for an upcoming presenta...

  • How to Make Your Own Luck (86 comments)

    The current issue of Newsweek (cover-dated 02 February 2009) has a fantastic article from Ben Sherwood entitled "What It Takes to Survive". Ostensibly, this piece is about how people handle crises. Wh...

  • Use Personal Marketing to Persuade Yourself to Save (46 comments)

    This is a guest post from Lynn Brem, who writes one of my favorite sites, Take Back Your Brain! TBYB! is all about advertising to yourself, about using marketing tools to help meet your goals. Pers...

  • How to Replace Bad Financial Habits With Good Ones (51 comments)

    This is a guest post from Leo Babauta of Zen Habits. His first book, The Power of Less, was recently published by Hyperion. It was Aristotle who said, "We are what we repeatedly do ... Excellence i...

  • Ask the Readers: How Much Money Would it Take For You to Compromise Your Principles? (207 comments)

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  • You Are Not Your Money (40 comments)

    Joe S. sent me a recent New York Times editorial from Ben Stein, who describes being approached by representatives from Bernard Madoff. Madoff ran a Wall Street hedge fund which reportedly "never lost...

  • How to Make Your New Year’s Resolutions Stick (77 comments)

    Yesterday a GRS reader named "P" pointed me to a New York Times article from Alex Williams, who writes that change isn't easy. Williams notes that about 80% of those who make resolutions on New Year's...

  • What’s Your Why? The Importance of Finding Meaning in Your Life (28 comments)

    J.D. is on vacation. This is a guest post from Jeremy Martin. You've heard the phrase, "A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.” I’ve often wondered about that — should we really set...

  • When Less is More: The Importance of Perceived Value (71 comments)

    The things we buy have an absolute value — the price we pay for them — but they also possess relative perceived values. Not everything with the same price holds the same value to me. An $8...

  • You Can’t Always Get What You Want: The Dark Side of Personal Finance (127 comments)

    I drove down to clean the moss of the roof of my mother's house last week. I spent several hours on top of the house with my cousin Nick, scraping and hosing and blowing away years of green growth. We...

  • Ask the Readers: How Do You Talk to Your Loved Ones About Money? (80 comments)

    What happens when you take control of your finances, but the other people in your life continue to struggle? I've heard this question from two people lately. During the Q&A of my talk at the library l...

  • The Irritation Threshold and Lifestyle Inflation (59 comments)

    This is a guest post by Scott L. from The Circular Ruins. Last weekend I went camping with my wife and our children. Because I was the one who accidentally left the camp stove at home, I was the on...

  • Why We Buy: The Science of Shopping (30 comments)

    I am sick. Rather than take a day off — heaven forbid! — I've pieced together an old 3-part post from the GRS archives. These stories originally appeared on 18 May 2006. Why We Buy: The...

  • 10 Unconventional Money-Saving Tips (65 comments)

    For me, the hardest part about learning to save was changing my relationship with money. I understood intellectually that I needed to spend less than I earned, and I could see the debt accumulating as...

  • What Does it Mean to Be Rich? (151 comments)

    I had lunch with my accountant the other day. Sabino is more than a financial advisor to me — foremost, he's a close friend. I told him about my current circumstances, about how I'm now making m...

  • How Do You Turn Passion into a Career? (And Should You?) (31 comments)

    Ask Metafilter is one of my favorite sites on the internet; I've been an active member there for years. It's a great place to get advice on many subjects, including money. And careers. Recently a user...

  • The Sunk-Cost Fallacy Revisted (38 comments)

    Last month I wrote about the sunk-cost fallacy, the mistaken belief that just becuase you've spent money on something you should continue to spend money on it. In reality, once you've spent your m...

  • Research Reveals Credit Cards Encourage Spending (61 comments)

    Conventional wisdom says that people spend more when they use credit than when they use cash. But is it true? In The Money Answer Book, Dave Ramsey writes: When you pay in cash, you can "feel" the ...

  • The Never-Ending War Against Advertising (90 comments)

    I spoke with a reporter the other day. She was looking for ways to fight the urge to shop. "My top tip is to avoid advertising," I told her. "That sounds nice," she said, "but how do you actually ...

  • The Power of Attentive Spending (26 comments)

    This is a guest post from Kevin, who writes about getting and staying out of debt with a plan at No-Debt Plan. Saving money and the frugal mentality are all about awareness. If you're in the dark a...

  • The Sunk-Cost Fallacy: Good Money After Bad (97 comments)

    My mother spent three weeks in the hospital in August. Her extended stay affected me in lots of little ways I couldn't anticipate. To escape my daily worries, I went searching for a little solace &mda...

  • Ask the Readers: How to Cope with Spending Addiction? (94 comments)

    Nicki wants to get out of debt, but she can't — she has a spending addiction. She's hoping that other Get Rich Slowly readers can give her advice. Here's an abridged version of her story: I...

  • The Idea of Having (105 comments)

    My mother has been out of the hospital for two weeks now. She's home and recovering well. The past two Sundays, Kris and I have driven down to see her, and the three of us have spent part of the after...

  • Financial Success Comes from Within (36 comments)

    This is a guest post from Flexo at Consumerism Commentary, the granddaddy of personal finance blogs. Previously at GRS, he shared how to be the Chief Financial Officer of your own life. Success, fi...

  • Building a Better Budget: Think Yearly, Not Monthly (26 comments)

    If you struggle with keeping a budget, it may be because you're trying to predict your spending in time chunks that are just too small. A new study published in the Journal of Consumer Research found ...

  • The Psychology of Happiness: 13 Steps to a Better Life (104 comments)

    We think we know what will make us happy, but we don't. Many of us believe that money will make us happy, but it won't. Except for the very poor, money cannot buy happiness. Instead of dreaming of vas...

  • Ask the Readers: The Psychology of Credit Cards? (105 comments)

    Cory is a young man who wants to do the right thing. He's been making smart financial choices, and he wants to continue to do so. But he's worried that using his credit card is too easy. He's come to ...

  • A Momentary Lapse of Reason (69 comments)

    I used to have two responses when faced with stress: spend more or eat more. I still sometimes struggle with stress-eating, but stress-spending hasn't been an issue since I started this blog. My mo...

  • Cleaning House: When Little Messes Become Big Problems (129 comments)

    Kris and I drove down to clean Mom's house last night. Over the past decade, her place has gradually been overtaken by Stuff and clutter. Since Mom is still in the hospital, we figured this was a grea...

  • If Personal Finance is Easy, Why Isn’t Everybody Rich? (53 comments)

    Yesterday, MSN's Smart Spending blog posted a version of my recent article about the dirty secrets of debt reduction (and what to do about them). "You make it sound so easy," one commenter wrote. But ...

  • Dangerous Norms: When a Treat Becomes a Routine Matter (54 comments)

    This is a guest post from Trent Hamm, who writes about frugality and fighting debt at The Simple Dollar. When I was young, going out to eat at a restaurant was a rare treat, something to anticipate...

  • Five Tactics for Pursuing Voluntary Simplicity (26 comments)

    One of my favorite personal finance bloggers is Philip Brewer at Wise Bread. He writes long, thoughtful articles about the philosophy of money, not just on tips and tricks to save at the grocery store...

  • The Dirty Secrets of Debt Reduction (and What to Do About Them) (74 comments)

    When I was a sophomore in college, I got my first credit card. I thought it was awesome — it was like free money. Soon I got another credit card, and before long I'd maxed them both out. I enter...

  • Is It More Important to Be Rich or to Be Happy? (53 comments)

    Sometimes we in the United States forget how privileged we are. Because of our relative wealth, we can make claims like "it's more important to be happy than it is to be rich". In this guest post, Sar...

  • The Art of Frugal Living (43 comments)

    Christine just sent me a National Public Radio story about the frugal artists of New York City. Columbia University recently released a study of 213 visual artists over the age of 61. Their average in...

  • A Small Bite: The Sensible Way to Splurge (41 comments)

    This is a guest post from my wife. I need dessert. After a fine meal — home-cooked or dining out — I simply don't feel satisfied without a bit of something sweet. The slowing metab...

  • Why It Pays to Ignore Financial News (27 comments)

    Financial news can be dangerous to the health of your investment portfolio. I spent some time yesterday reading recent articles about the stock market. What I found was mostly hysterical hype ("Gas...

  • Closing the Gap Between Dreams and Reality (32 comments)

    While sorting through reader e-mail yesterday morning, I began to detect a subtle recurring theme. People were writing because they had a goal in mind, but their present circumstances seemed to be far...

  • Richer Than Rockefeller: Putting Wealth in Perspective (64 comments)

    This is a guest post from Bob at ChristianPF.com. Bob writes about personal finance from a Christian perspective. John D. Rockefeller founded the Standard Oil company in 1870. He was the first ...

  • Behavioral Economics on Why We Buy What We Buy (28 comments)

    Money is more about mind than it is about math. Our financial decisions are often based on psychology and emotion rather than on pure numbers. Nearly everyone understands intellectually that credit ca...

  • Ask the Readers: “I’m Doing Well Financially But My Family Is Not” (147 comments)

    Personal finance would be easy if it were only about the numbers. But it's not. Money management not only requires that we master our own whims and emotions, but that we navigate the sometimes rocky w...

  • A Rather Obvious Metaphor for Personal Finance Couched in a True Story About Physical Fitness (8 comments)

    This piece originally appeared at Andrea's Consultant Journal in a slightly different format. Exercise is a funny thing. When you start a fitness regimen, you feel awful, especially if it's been mo...

  • Personal Currencies: New Ways to Look at Money (57 comments)

    On Saturday, I wrote about my transition from spender to saver. I mentioned that I'd recently peeked at the latest camera equipment. "I spent twenty minutes on Amazon, drooling over the Nikon D300," I...

  • Reader Success Story: To Wii or Not to Wii? (32 comments)

    I received another great e-mail yesterday describing a reader victory. Joshua has been wanting to buy a Nintendo Wii, even though he knows it's not the best use of his time or money. On Friday, he sta...

  • Making the Move from Spender to Saver (55 comments)

    I pulled out my camera gear last night. It's been two years since I used it regularly. Before I started Get Rich Slowly, I seriously considered trying to become a professional photographer. But for a ...

  • If I Can Do It, Anyone Can (26 comments)

    At this moment, Kris and I are driving home from a long weekend in Central Oregon. Every year, we rent a home in Sunriver, and spend three days with some of our best friends. It's great fun. (Yesterda...

  • What’s the Reason for Saving and Investing? (35 comments)

    Yesterday, in his final piece for The Wall Street Journal, Jonathan Clements shared what he learned from writing 1,008 columns about personal finance in 26 years. What is the reason for all this ...

  • Seven Traits of Successful People (45 comments)

    This is a guest post from Pinyo, author of Moolanomy, a personal finance blog about money, wealth, investing, and more. Ever wonder why some people can never do wrong? I have been observing succes...

  • Ask the Readers: How Do You Keep from Losing Control? (59 comments)

    Jay wrote with a question that I think most of us have had to face at one time or another: What do you do when you feel like you're slipping into bad financial habits? Here's his story: I have no...

  • Don’t Panic! Coping with Financial Mistakes and Setbacks (42 comments)

    When I was young and stupid, I became addicted to spending. I got my first credit card in college, and over the next fifteen years, I accumulated $35,000 in debt. I'm debt-free now, and have even begu...

  • What’s the Safest Thing I Can Do with My Money? (41 comments)

    "What's the safest possible thing that I can do with my money?" wonders Afroblanco over at Ask Metafilter: I take bearishness to an extreme. Having witnessed the 2000 tech crash, I have no faith...

  • The Magic of Thinking Small (41 comments)

    There's an old man who lives down the street. I don't know his name, but every day I see him walking up and down the road with his cane. He moves slowly. He always wears the same thing: faded denim pa...

  • Excited and Scared: One Week as a Full-Time Blogger (60 comments)

    I've had a week now to adjust to the idea that I'm a full-time blogger, that I'm completely in control of my financial success or failure. To be honest, I'm both excited and scared. I had the same...

  • Cat and Girl on Wants and Needs (36 comments)

    Jan D. sent a note that the latest episode of webcomic Cat and Girl features a meditation on wants and needs. With the permission of artist Dorothy Gambrell, here's the strip: Click to open a full-...

  • Why We Shop: Getting a Grip on Consumerism (27 comments)

    This is a guest post from Betsy Teutsch, who writes about socially responsible investing, savvy consuming, and sustainable living at Money Changes Things. Advertisers spend billions of dollars honi...

  • The Number One Impact on Your Investments is YOU (18 comments)

    This is a guest post from Kent Thune, The Financial Philosopher, who applies timeless wisdom and inspiration to investing, personal finance, and the economy. "God grant me the serenity to accept th...

  • Ask the Readers: How Do You Prepare for Enormous Debt? (74 comments)

    Consumer debt is bad. Buying lots of Stuff on credit cards is a sure path to financial woe. But while some people argue that all debt is bad, most experts agree that certain debts are acceptable (good...

  • Possessed: People Who are Ruled by Stuff (38 comments)

    When I was a boy, I hoarded Stuff. I had what my parent's called a "rat's nest", a closet full of the Stuff I'd gathered. Why did I hoard Stuff? Was it because we were poor and I wanted to own things?...

  • How Shopping Momentum Leads to More Shopping (48 comments)

    Recent research at the Stanford Graduate School of Business suggests that shopping can lead to more shopping. When such savvy marketing researchers as Uzma Khan of Stanford, Ravi Dhar of Yale, and ...

  • What Motivates You to Pursue Smart Personal Finance? (47 comments)

    I met with a Get Rich Slowly reader at the local coffee house yesterday. Like many of us, Aaron got into money trouble when he was young — he made some dumb mistakes. He fell for a get-rich-...

  • Ask the Readers: I’m Not Good With Money — How Should I Handle a Windfall? (76 comments)

    Mitch recently wrote to me with one of the toughest reader questions I've seen yet. He lives a paycheck-to-paycheck existence, but will soon be coming into a lot of money. He wants to know what he sho...

  • Some Thoughts on Making the Transition from Debt to Savings (28 comments)

    One of the most rewarding aspects of writing Get Rich Slowly is sharing success stories and strategies with the readers. In the forums, there's an entire section devoted to financial success stories. ...

  • Proven Methods for Servers to Increase Their Tips (121 comments)

    In 2004 Dr. Michael Lynn, associate professor at the Cornell University School of Hotel Administration, produced a paper entitled "Mega Tips: Scientifically Tested Techniques to Increase Your Tips" [P...

  • How to Cope with Frugality Burnout (27 comments)

    Sara Noel at the Frugal Village blog recently shared some excellent advice about avoiding frugality burnout. "If you’ve been focused on frugality for a while," she writes, "at some point you’ll pr...

  • Tech Lust: How to Cope with Gadget Envy (72 comments)

    Yesterday morning was a rough one for me. It's a day I both dread and crave every year: Steve Jobs' Macworld Conference keynote address. I'm a Macintosh fanboy from way back, and as other Mac fanboys ...

  • Don’t Make Resolutions — Set Goals for 2008 (42 comments)

    With Christmas past, most of us have begun to focus on our plans for the coming year, making lists of resolutions to improve our lives. But Chuck Jaffe at MartketWatch suggests that this year you ditc...

  • How Good Habits Keep Small Mistakes Manageable (23 comments)

    I have been swamped lately — absolutely buried. I'm busy at the box factory, busy with my blogs, and busy with holiday social activities. It's been nearly impossible for me to juggle everything....

  • Money and Security: Fear of the Future (55 comments)

    This is a guest post from Plonkee Money. Plonkee lives in England, where she writes about personal finance. A friend of mine has a tendency to be swayed by conspiracy theories, his favorites being ...

  • The Thrill of Paying Off a Mortgage (80 comments)

    This is a guest-post from Free Money Finance. It's a follow-up to Mrs. Micah's post earlier today. A few weeks ago, J.D. and I were chatting when he asked me what it felt like to be debt-free. He'd...

  • The Pastoral Lifestyle: A Life Removed from Day-to-Day Concerns (21 comments)

    This is a guest post from Karl Staib. A few months ago, J.D. wrote an interesting review of Voluntary Simplicity, a book dedicated to living a stress-free life. What I found most interesting was no...

  • The Hidden Costs of Stuff (59 comments)

    This is a guest post from Amanda, a Colorado tech writer and an activist for children with congenital heart disease. For a couple of years I’ve been learning the “tips and tricks” to saving m...

  • Money Hack: Prepay Your Monthly Bills (72 comments)

    Note: While I think this is a good idea, it's clear that many readers strongly disagree. Before deciding whether to try this, please read the arguments in opposition. Earlier this year, on a whim, ...

  • Are You a Shopaholic? Six Steps to Curb Compulsive Spending (89 comments)

    I had dinner with my friend Sue the other night. Over pasta and clams, we talked about life and money. She told me about her brother. "He's a compulsive spender," said Sue. "He spends money even when ...

  • The Unbranded Kid: Thoughts on Marketing to Children (70 comments)

    Kris and I are childless by choice. We love our friends' kids, but we've elected not to have any of our own. As a result, we've never had to face the financial challenges that come with parenting. One...

  • Yardwork and Financial Setbacks: A Metaphor (11 comments)

    A metaphor Kris and I did more yardwork today — it never ends. We wheeled out the chipper and continued to grind away at the branches and the leaves. We spread the resulting mulch at the base o...

  • Understanding the Seven Habits of Wealth (38 comments)

    This is a guest post from Dough Roller, a Washington D.C. blogger who writes about building wealth, one dollar at a time. We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit....

  • On the Relationship Between Temperament and Financial Behavior (13 comments)

    This guest post is from Jaimie, who writes about personal finance at paidtwice.com. Do you look before you leap? Or do you jump right in with no reservations? Recently I've been watching my da...

  • Countrywide and Me: A Real-Life Look at Risk Tolerance (42 comments)

    My month-long experiment with Countrywide Financial is over. As I've mentioned before, I keep a small portion of my investment portfolio designated for "fun" trading. That is, trading that is more ...

  • The Smell of Money: Marketers Use Scent to Encourage Spending (29 comments)

    When you shop, you are manipulated in myriad subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways. Everything from store layout to background music to package design is carefully planned to make you more likely to part wi...

  • Three Questions About Money and Ethics (105 comments)

    Lady Kemma recently wrote with a question about money and ethics: Last week I went out with my work department. After feeding 30 people, all with individual checks, I left the harried waitress a ge...

  • Getting to Now: How to Beat the Procrastination Habit (82 comments)

    I am a procrastinator. I always have been. It's a character flaw, and I admit it. I've tried all sorts of things to beat the habit — Getting Things Done, e-mail reminders, dozens of list systems...

  • What if the Stock Market Makes You Nervous? (31 comments)

    A couple of readers have mentioned that they're nervous about the stock market's recent volatility. I've read similar concerns on other blogs and financial news sites. People are worried that the stoc...

  • Why Smart People Make Big Money Mistakes (and How to Correct Them) (21 comments)

    Money is more about mind than it is about math — that’s one of the key tenets of this site. People make financial decisions based not on mathematical ideals, but on emotion. There’s ...

  • The Top 3 Mental Blocks to Personal Finance (and How to Get Past Them) (14 comments)

    This is a guest post by John Wesley. He blogs about self improvement, motivation, and productivity at PickTheBrain.com (feed). The transition from student to professional is a psychological challe...

  • Marketing Affects How Children Perceive Food (16 comments)

    How powerful is marketing? How young are we when we first feel its effects? Can marketing really change the way we perceive the things we buy? Earlier today I shared a passage from Malcolm Gladwell's ...

  • Malcolm Gladwell on The Power of Marketing (28 comments)

    In February I wrote about the insidious power of marketing. "We can try not to be swayed by advertising and marketing," I said. "But no matter what we do, we are all affected by attempts to manipulate...

  • The Tyranny of Stuff (103 comments)

    "Did you learn anything in England and Ireland?" a friend asked the other day. I brushed the question aside; I didn't have a good answer. But I've been thinking about it. Maybe I did learn something: ...

  • What I’m Doing Right (140 comments)

    Today's guest post comes from M, a blogger and writer living in San Francisco. She keeps a fascinating personal blog, as well as Bay Area Love Letters, a site devoted to San Francisco and Northern Cal...

  • You Are Your Own Worst Enemy (108 comments)

    My friend Gillian called the other day — she's been having money trouble and was looking for help. "I'm not really a financial advisor," I told her. "I write about money, and I try to help peopl...

  • The Power of Yes: A Simple Way to Get More Out of Life (130 comments)

    For much of my adult life I've been shackled by fear. I've been afraid to try new things, afraid to meet new people, afraid of doing anything that might lead to failure. This fear confined me to a nar...

  • If Personal Finance Is Easy, Why Isn’t Everybody Rich? (55 comments)

    Last fall I wrote an article describing how to get out of debt. Debt elimination involves three steps, I said: stop acquiring new debt, establish an emergency fund, and implement a debt snowball. A vi...

  • The Problem with the Bank of Mom and Dad (39 comments)

    An anonymous poster at AskMetafilter wonders should parents finance grad school? Should parents help their children pay for grad school if they can afford it? My parents are divorced, but both are ...

  • Feeling Broke: Little Things Add Up (54 comments)

    Every weekend, I enter receipts into Quicken. Usually I feel good about this process, but yesterday's session left me bummed. I feel broke. My checking account is down to $38.90. After I get gas this ...

  • There is No Secret: The Myth of the Law of Attraction (337 comments)

    This review was written several weeks ago, but I shelved it for fear of making anyone cranky. Things have changed. The Law of Attraction cultists are out in force, and they're gunking up my site with ...

  • The Perfect is the Enemy of the Good (24 comments)

    "I'm going for a walk," I announced to Kris at about 10:30 Saturday morning. Though it was cool and rainy, I needed some exercise. It's been a while since I made my three-mile stroll through the neigh...

  • How to Fight the Urge to Splurge (42 comments)

    Today I stopped by the local electronics store to look at microphones and headphones. I didn't intend to buy anything, but after a half hour browsing I found myself in line holding $170 of gadgets. I ...

  • Ask the Readers: When Does This All Pay Off? (97 comments)

    Annie is a young woman who seems to be making all of the right moves. She has an emergency fund, she's saving for retirement, she's living frugally, and she's paying off her debt. But she's beginning ...

  • The Secret of Wealth and Happiness (18 comments)

    It's a beautiful day here in Portland. The sun is shining. The camellia and magnolia are in bloom. The cherries are resplendent in white and pink. The birds and squirrels frolic in the yard while ...

  • Take Back Your Brain! (4 comments)

    I recently wrote about the insidious power of marketing, about how advertising is used to make you want, need, and buy Thneeds and Zizzer-Zoof Seeds, and all sorts of things you don't really need. ...

  • Building Success from the Ashes of Failure (5 comments)

    When I was a young man, I had a poor relationship with money. The "money blueprint" I had inherited from my parents didn't give me the skills I needed to build wealth. The only positive financial role...

  • Beware the Insidious Power of Marketing (46 comments)

    Advertising is powerful. Avoiding it — in print, on radio, on television — is one of the best ways to control your urge to spend. When you willingly expose yourself to commercial pitches, ...

  • The Curse of the Money-Saving Gadget (40 comments)

    One of our friends has a Starbucks habit. He used to stop every morning for a venti five-shot white-chocolate mocha. Last summer he spent $300 on a fancy espresso machine. He also bought a few accesso...

  • Don’t Watch the Super Bowl Just for the Ads (23 comments)

    Super Bowl XLI will be played in south Florida this Sunday. Millions of Americans will watch the game on television — more than 90 million people tuned in last year. But not all of them will be ...

  • Rich or Poor? Sometimes It’s All in Your Head (15 comments)

    I recently shared the story of a woman who wondered, "I make $6.50 an hour — am I poor?" The author had lost a good-paying job, moved to rural Montana, and was struggling to get by. Several read...

  • Book Review: The Consumer Trap (8 comments)

    Last spring I reviewed Why We Buy: The Science of Shopping, a book that explores what motivates us to purchase products, and explains how businesses sell to us. Today guest-author Paul Bausch looks at...

  • Procrastination Can Cost You Money! (26 comments)

    As I was driving home from work yesterday, I passed a police officer. When his car pulled onto the road behind me, I thought nothing of it: my vehicle is in good repair and I was obeying the traffic l...

  • Inside the Mind of a Spendthrift (8 comments)

    Sound personal finance is more about mind than it is about math. You've heard me preach this before. Success with money requires more than just knowing that compound interest is a marvelous thing &mda...

  • Facing and Fighting Financial Trolls (18 comments)

    Money is more about mind than it is about math — that's one of the fundamental precepts of this site. If you improve your self-esteem, if you improve your mental attitude, if you improve your...

  • Secrets of the Millionaire Mind (71 comments)

    Initially, T. Harv Eker's Secrets of the Millionaire Mind: Mastering the Inner Game of Wealth seems cast from the same mold as Loral Langemeier's The Millionaire Maker (my review): full of vague promi...