A Meeting of Minds: Ten Personal Finance Bloggers Talk About Money
Published on - March 29th, 2008 (by J.D. Roth) Yesterday I attended a workshop in San Francisco devoted to personal finance and personal finance tools. This gathering — sponsored by Strands, Expensr, and NetworthIQ — brought together a handful of bloggers to discuss the financial challenges our readers face, and the things they’re looking for in a personal finance tool. (Thus my question on Thursday.)
Though I’m interested to see what sort of application these three companies eventually produce, the highlight of the event for me was meeting some of my colleagues for the first time. I’m impressed. On the whole, personal finance bloggers are a smart and funny bunch with a genuine passion for the topic. Attendees included:
- Cap from Stop Buying Crap
- SVB from The Digerati Life
- Sam from Getting Finances Done
- James from DINKS Personal Finance
- John from Queercents
- Lazy Man from Lazy Man and Money
- Jeffrey from Saving Advice
- Flexo from Consumerism Commentary
- Jim from Blueprint for Financial Prosperity
- J.D. from Get Rich Slowly
For eight hours, we talked about money and how we use it. I took notes. Here’s a very rough summary of the topics we discussed.
Reporting from the trenches
Most of us use Quicken or some home-brewed money-management system to track our money. Cap from Stop Buying Crap has tried all of the tools, both web-based and desktop. It’s one of his hobbies. Which is his favorite? “I don’t need a money-management tool,” he said. “Pencil and paper, Excel — that’s pretty much how I roll.” This echoes a lot of what you folks told me on Thursday.
SVB from The Digerati Life doesn’t track her expenses in detail. “It’s like a black box,” she said. “I just have one category for expenses, and I don’t bother to break them down any further than that.” She doesn’t have to. She knows that she never spends frivolously, and that she has enough money to cover what she buys. She’s less interested in a tool to track her current habits, and more interested in something that can help her plan for her future.
Jim at Blueprint for Financial Prosperity noted that current personal finance tools allow users to track what has happened in the past. He’d like a tool that can help users decide what to do next based on their life circumstances. James from DINKS Personal Finance agreed. “It would be great to see a personal finance tool that contained the wisdom of a textbook,” he said. This is a fascinating concept — imagine Quicken with built-in advice about home equity loans or lessons on the magic of compound interest!
We wanted tools that can help us get ahead, that can help us with our future. But is this because we’re a group of people who have our present under control? Are we representative of the population at large? We’ve all managed to overcome our mistakes, and have now begun building wealth.
“As your net worth increases, the marginal value of a dollar decreases,” said Jeffrey from Saving Advice. That is, as you save more, each additional dollar you earn makes up a smaller portion of your overall wealth. Also, your psychological approach to money changes as your situation changes. A good tool needs to account for these factors. We don’t want a tool that is one-size-fits-all.
As we’ve learned to control our money, many of us have moved from cash-based finances to plastic-based finances because they allow us to more easily track our spending. “I don’t budget,” added Jeffrey. “I’ve just gotten to the point where I don’t spend money.”
Seasons of life
As the discussion developed, it became clear that there’s no current tool that accounts for the natural “life-cycle” of personal finance. Most people seem to follow a sort of progression, starting with a heavy debt-load as young adults, saving in mid-life, and planning for retirement at the end of a career. Most people don’t know how to prepare for each phase. We make mistakes. “Out in the world, there are terms and conditions you don’t know about,” said Cap from Stop Buying Crap.
Sam from Getting Finances Done noted that a lot of personal finance is about relationships. It’s not about the nuts and bolts of saving and spending, but about how we interact with our spouses and friends. It’s about psychology. Because of this, there’s only so much that any financial tool will be able to help with. A tool that helps you track your spending isn’t going to solve marital problems that are causing money woes.
“Finance is a tool for goal achievement,” James said. He believes that it’s important to define your goals and values so that you know why you’re saving and investing. I agree.
Finally, Flexo from Consumerism Commentary observed that many of the workshop participants had experienced a trigger event that led to a financial epiphany. We did dumb things when we were young, and then something happened to cause us to change direction, and to begin caring about how we spent our money. “How do we reach people with smart personal finance information before they get into trouble?” Flexo asked. “How do we prevent the massive debt?”
It’s a great question. We couldn’t find a great answer. Until you’ve reached rock bottom, you’re probably not ready to listen to financial advice.
The business of blogging
With so many personal finance bloggers in one place, the conversation naturally turned to the business of blogging. We exchanged tips and tricks. I learned a couple of ways to increase subscribers, and hope that I was able to help others move toward their goals, too. Listening to all of these great personal finance bloggers, some common threads emerged.
- We all feel fortunate to be where we are today.
- We’re grateful for the help we’ve received from other personal finance bloggers and from our readers. (“My readers are amazing,” a couple bloggers told me. Maybe so, but the readers at Get Rich Slowly are the best!)
- We’ve all spent a tremendous amount of time building our sites. “I don’t think new bloggers understand how much time is involved,” I said. Others admitted that they, too, treat their sites like a full-time job.
- We all work toward goals, and we stick with it even when we don’t have the time or the interest. “A lot of being successful is just being stubborn,” said Jeffrey.
“No one ever says, ‘When I grow up, I want to become a blogger.’ You don’t do it for the money,” said Jim from Blueprint for Financial Prosperity. “The real value of blogging is the social interaction, both with readers and with other writers.” He’s right.
Personal finance as personal development
I came away from this workshop with a renewed appreciation that personal finance isn’t just about money. Personal finance is really about personal development, about having a good life while growing toward your goals. It’s about a holistic approach to life. Personal finance is about money, sure, but it’s also about emotions and how you choose to spend your time.
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“It’s important to define your goals and values so that you know why you’re saving and investing”. I think that should be the first step to anyone trying to get a hold of their finances. I mean all the financial advice in the world won’t mean anything to you unless you have a valid reason to implement whatever it is that is being told you, because let’s face it, you don’t just wake up one day and decide you’re getting your finances under control. You need a defining moment.
“Until you’ve reached rock bottom, you’re probably not ready to listen to financial advice.” In my case, it was moving out of my home country into the States. New country, new language, new people, having to start over from scratch. It doesn’t get any worse than that. All of a sudden all those personal finance books I was reading started making A LOT more sense.
“Personal finance is about money, sure, but it’s also about emotions and how you choose to spend your time.” This relates to the earlier point about values. Your investment and/or savings options will be directly determined by your goals when it comes to income and lifestyle, or by what your biggest fears are.
Actually my personal point of view is that many personal finance books would have a much bigger impact if they actually pictured what you stand to face if you don’t get your stuff together rather than stress financial prosperity, which most people can’t wrap their heads around. Why? Because negative emotions trigger more powerful emotional responses than positive emotions. Now whether or not such books would be marketable is an entirely different question
Maybe I should test the market with such a blog and see what the response is
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I don’t think it is dumb for young people to accumulate debt. Debt is a way of borrowing future earnings and spending them now. That makes sense for a lot of young people starting out. It gives them resources to experiment and opens possibilities that they otherwise would be unable to consider.
People are always looking back on their youth and asking “what was I thinking?”. Why should you expect a different reaction about how you spent your money?
Middle age people tend to look back with regret on their misspent youth. When you are securely retired, you are likely to start to regret not having misspent more of it. Retirement isn’t the only goal in life – in fact its not a goal at all. Just a phase that we pass through on the way to dying. Spending your whole life planning around it is foolish.
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I had a blast, it was great meeting you JD.
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It’s nice to hear you say you appreciate your (non-fellow-blogger) readers. I guess it’s assumed, but not every blogger takes the time to write that.
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For me, recovering from debt is just like how I recover from other ‘problems’ in my life. In the 12 step community they talk about the idea that if someone isn’t ready for recovery, ie they haven’t hit their bottom, that no one can talk them into recovery. They have to be ready for it on their own time. For me, my debt was the same. When I realized that going back to school could be a reality for me, I also realized that I didn’t want to arrive at grad school with anything other than my student loan debt. So I’ve worked my butt off for the past year plus, and when I arrive at grad school this fall, it will only be with my student loan debt. But if you’d told me three years ago that I could have done it in even less time (I was earning more money then), I would have laughed at you because I wasn’t ready to change my behavior to get what I wanted.
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Wow, I wish I could have been there! Unfortunately, the timing was inconvenient. It seems like you guys all had a valuable experience, and if they do this again, I will try to get out there. Thanks for sharing the recap.
As for budgeting, I’m along the lines of SVB and Jeffrey… I don’t really do it because my wife and I are very frugal, don’t spend more than we earn, and research and discuss at length all large purchases. Our situation may change when we have children and go down to one income.
Guinness416, I love all my readers! Without them, my blog wouldn’t exist.
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Re: Personal finance as personal development
This is very true. Sometimes I wonder if visitors to my blog think, “These people are just obsessed with saving money,” and if I’m making mountains out of molehills about saving a few dollars here and there.
But personal finance is a foundation upon which we build our lives. Money can’t buy happiness, but it buys a lot of things that contribute to the quality of life, which contributes to happiness. So, thanks for that reminder.
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It sounds like it was a very interesting meeting. Several things rang familiar. One that I never thought about, but is true with me is “As your net worth increases, the marginal value of a dollar decreases”.
When I was younger and had less, I would get worked up over having to spend $500. Now that I have more, it really doesn’t register when my wife brings home a $500 charge receipt. Now I still wouldn’t spend it, but now there is a higher limit before the “battle” begins.
Best Wishes,
D4L
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Thanks for posting all these great personal finance blogs, J.D. Lots of good info and perspectives. Also, I commend you on the layout of your blog. Great design sense and example of form following function. Keep up the great work!
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Great wrap-up! Going out to SF to meet you and the others was a fun experience, and well worth it.
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Sounds like a real who’s who of the PF blogging world. Most of the names listed (including you, J.D.) are the ones that inspired me to start my own blog. I especially appreciated the comments regarding the time invested in building a blog. You are correct, us beginners had no idea what it really required behind the scenes to continually crank out quality content AND handle the many administrative responsibilities.
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Wow. That was a very interesting article about how financial bloggers actually think about money and blogging.
The unanswered question about how to reach people before they are in a financial crisis is a common problem. There are a lot of people living beyond their means with unavoidable financial problems – yet they are not ready to talk about it until they hit the bottom. The ‘Status Syndrome’ is closely related to this. Many people are more afraid of social perception then financial collapse. They would rather look good in the eyes of their neighbors – then put their kids through college.
I would like to see the leading financial bloggers tackle this issue. Why do people make decisions that prop up their insecurities – while putting the future of the family at risk? Why are the emotions of social status that powerful?
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first off, i think its awesome that you bloggers got together –
second of all – i think its great to post links to others’ blogs …
third of all – i also like hte fact that people share how they track their finances.. from Quicken, to Money, to excel – it can get a little daunting – so thank you so much for giving the wide spectrum of ideas.
you guys are doing an awesome job!!!
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Hey J.D., it was great to meet I just wanted to say thanks again for being a part of this and posting your thoughts here. The challenge is always taking the great ideas and incorporating them into something concrete, but that’s what drives me and I think there was a lot of great insight into all the different aspects of how people think about and manage their money. Thanks to the GRS readers too for the comments in the last post, I won’t get into whose readers are best
, but that thread is a treasure trove for anybody trying to build pf tools.
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Why do all of these financial blogs looks so bad design-wise? There are plenty of free wordpress themes that could suffice. I won’t read something if it is horrible to look at…just me.
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