How to Stop Buying Clothes You Never Wear Print
Tuesday, 6th October 2009 (by April)This article is about Clothing, Hints and Tips, Shopping
This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman.
A couple of years ago, I had a Great Closet Clean-Out. My clothing racks and drawers were overflowing at the time, and some of it still had price tags. Hoping to accomplish that European knack for owning less and looking better, I donated, consigned, and gave away about 75 percent of my wardrobe. Today it’s 100 times more functional.
These are the best tips I picked up while going through the process, gleaned from fashion gurus, designers, and style bloggers. These tips are applicable to women and men, whether you’re a high-power attorney or a stay-at-home parent.
1. Make four piles.
The Great Closet Clean-Out is your first step. Tim “Make It Work” Gunn, fashion guru and author of A Guide to Quality, Taste and Style, advises you to divide your clothes into four piles: throw out, give away, repair, and soul-stirring. Get rid of clothes in the first two piles and take the clothing in the repair pile to a tailor.
It would be great if you could do it all at once, but letting go of the goofy tie you wore to graduation or the bubble-gum pink prom dress that you’ll never wear again takes time. Try to let go of personal attachments.
2. Think “meat and potatoes.”
Take a look at what you have left after purging. Make a list of any gaps in your wardrobe to keep you on track when you’re shopping. Jessica Schroeder, the fashion blogger behind What I Wore, says:
I like to take stock of what I have in my closet and think of pieces that can extend the lives of those clothes already hanging out in my wardrobe. Maybe its a new belt or scarf or tie — think of small ways to get maximum use out of what you already have.
If you don’t know how to identify gaps, look to wardrobe essential lists and see what you might be missing. I’m not usually impressed with most “must-have” lists, but Allie at Wardrobe Oxygen has great advice for both women and men.
3. Identify your dominant season.
You Look Fab gets the credit for this tip, which has helped this Texan curb her winter coat habit. Blog author and style consultant Angie writes, “It’s important for the largest part of your wardrobe and seasonal fashion budget to reflect the dominant seasons where you live.”
In other words, if you live in Iowa, you won’t get much wear from a collection of flip-flops. Some people live in places with four seasons, and in that case, it’s best to buy equally for the seasons.
Angie notes one exception. If you routinely travel to a climate different from your hometown, you’ll need to consider that when allocating your clothing budget.
4. Consider your lifestyle.
Your lifestyle dictates your clothing needs. Maybe you are a busy mom, are pregnant, or work from home. Age makes a difference, too. Someone in their 30s has different needs than someone in their 50s. If you buy the majority of your clothes for a fantasy version of your life, instead of the reality, you’ll end up with a lot of clothes to store and nothing to wear.
Jessica says, “When shopping, I’m always thinking, ‘Would I wear this today? Does it work with the pieces already in my closet?’ If I can immediately scream ’yes!’ to both questions, it’s a go.”
Also, reconsider items that only work for very specific occasions. The more pieces you own that can be dressed up and down, the more wear they’ll get.
5. Identify your personal style.
If you like soft fabrics and loose cuts, don’t get suckered by a shiny J. Crew display of wool turtleneck sweaters that would itch and bind. Instead, ask yourself if it fits your personality. Know what styles make you feel good. Look to your soul-stirring pile from tip #1 to identify the shapes and colors you gravitate to the most.
6. Repeat after me: Fit and fabric.
Before my Great Closet Clean-Out, I owned 15 pairs of jeans. I wore three pairs. Those three were high-quality denim and fit fantastically. The others were made of stiff fabric and didn’t do my figure any favors. Avoid buying 12 pairs of blah jeans by keeping in mind fit and fabric:
- Only buy clothes that fit well. No gaping, no pulling, and no sucking in your stomach. No buying clothes that will fit you once you lose 10 pounds. If you lose the weight, have them altered. If the size on the tag bothers you, cut it off. Do not make excuses for a bad fit. Be brutal.
- Have clothing altered. Most alterations are fairly reasonable in price, or maybe you’re lucky enough to have a friend or family member who sews. (Hi, Mom!)
- Buy long-wearing fabrics. A nice merino wool sweater will last year after year with proper care, unlike an acrylic one which may not last the season.
Remember that price doesn’t dictate style. If the perfect pants in the perfect color are $30, they are a better buy than the trendy, designer pants that cost $200 and work with nothing else in your closet. The bracelet I get complimented on the most was a trinket my mom bought me from Target. Jessica mixes thrifted clothes with vintage with self-sewn with Payless — and it works.
On the other hand, don’t be swayed by low prices. A piece that sort of fits but is on the clearance rack is not a deal, no matter what the price tag says.
Finally, if you buy an item and decide you don’t like it once you’re home and standing in front of your own mirror, return it as soon as possible.
7. Don’t buy something only because it fits.
What the —? Didn’t I just say it’s all about fit? Well, yes. But just because something fits doesn’t mean you should buy it. Only buy items that make you feel like a million bucks. That’s the best way to ensure you’ll actually wear what is in your closet.
If it doesn’t make your heart sing, it’ll probably never see the light of day. Even a white t-shirt has the potential to make you feel good when you put it on. It’s much better to wear something more often and look and feel great than to own a ton of so-so clothes that you only sort of like.
What about you? Do you have clothes you never wear? Or, if your wardrobe is streamlined, are there other tips you’ve used? How do you pursue fashion on a budget?
J.D.’s note: I’m not exactly a fashion maven, but I’ve always had a terrible habit of buying clothes I never wear. When we moved from our old house in 2004, I had stacks of shirts I had purchased but never taken from the packaging. I thought they were Good Deals. My current year-long clothing purge is helping me to see that what I need is not new clothes, but far fewer clothes; I wear only a small fraction of my wardrobe…and keep more of my money in my high interest savings account. Photo by Jessica Schroeder of What I Wore.

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October 6th, 2009 at 5:25 am
I do agree that we women buy so many pieces of clothing that we will never wear.
I stopped buying clothes and shoes for a year while I was putting my finances in order, during that same period of time I purged my closet several times. I learned that I did not need to buy new clothes every season , and that I could mix and match much better having less than more.
Great post!
October 6th, 2009 at 5:29 am
I really like the comment on quality clothing. I buy classic clothes and they last for years and are in style for years - although I’m never trendy, which is fine with me. But when I go buy clothes (and its rare) I head to some place like Talbots or Ann Taylor cause I know I can get the quality and style I like. I shop in department stores, but I’m careful of the quality and fit I buy. I spend a little more at these stores, but ultimately I buy less because these clothes last. I can honestly say I haven’t been shopping for clothes for myself in at least a year. That being said…I do need to go and get a few things for fall.
October 6th, 2009 at 5:44 am
When cleaning out your wardrobe, it’s very handy to have an honest friend on hand. I get strange emotional connections to items which somehow allow me to overlook very basic flaws in clothing - like it’s got armpit stains or there’s a hole or it just doesn’t fit well. Choose wisely though - somebody who will be honest but will be careful of your feelings.
October 6th, 2009 at 5:53 am
About getting rid of the clothes you have an emotional attachment to… maybe I read it on this site, but I remember a suggestion to take a photo of it. It’s not the clothes you’re in love with, but the memory they invoke.
October 6th, 2009 at 5:56 am
I went through a clothing purge a few weeks ago and I can’t tell you how freeing it is. For years I was digging through a huge pile of clothes to find the few items that I end up wearing over and over again.
For me, it was just another attachment to stuff that prevented me from taking back my closet long ago. I was sure that if I kept all those things I never wore I would eventually find a use for them. Nope!
They’ll be a lot more useful to someone else at Goodwill.
October 6th, 2009 at 5:57 am
One thing I watch out for is stuff that requires dry cleaning or has washing instructions that will prevent you from tossing it in with a load of the stuff you already own (my late batchelor friend Mark had the simple rule of never buying anything red). Especially in summer garments (linen dresses, I’m talking about you). You can get away with having a wool blazer dry-cleaned once a year, if you take it off before you eat, but where I live, you can’t wear stuff more than once in the summer without cleaning it, and that gets really expensive.
Also, how well cat hair sticks to things plays a big role for me personally. Things like black corduroy pants don’t even merit consideration.
October 6th, 2009 at 6:09 am
Goodwill is a great place to get clothes if you know what you are doing (thank you Auntie Betty). My local store is supplied by the very rich ladies in town and I affectionately call it Talbot’s Too.
Buy classic designs in natural fibers. And when you buy button up anything from anywhere take a minute to drop some clear nail polish on the button threads and those buttons will stay on forever.
October 6th, 2009 at 6:18 am
I’m working on this… Starting to try and build a professional wardrobe before I need it. I have pretty much nothing, so I’m starting from college clothes’ scratch. I’m working on good fit, quality and classic cuts/fabrics. Hopefully, by starting before I need it, I can build a good closet for not a ton of money.
October 6th, 2009 at 6:49 am
Great advice on fit and only buying things that make you feel like a million bucks! I have to remind myself of that fact when I find something that’s ho-hum but really affordable.
My girlfriends and I host Clothing Swaps twice a year (Spring and Fall) where we band together to trade clothing mistakes or items that no longer fit. All the leftovers are donated to the hostess’s charity of choice.
October 6th, 2009 at 6:52 am
I use thrift stores a lot(because you can buy Nordstrom, Talbots, Dana Buchman at my thrift stores-like Rox above- the rich ladies don’t wear their stuff very long),I buy mostly washable clothing(and I handwash some things), and I recycle. I give away my clothing or some things become cleaning cloths. You can even turn old fabric into rugs if you knit or crochet or into other pieces of clothing(I used to re-fashion but not anymore)
I just read a short fashion piece in the Sunday NY Times- there is a guy who makes new jeans look old by tearing, fading and patching them. They sell for over $500!!!
October 6th, 2009 at 6:52 am
Tim Gunn’s 10 Essential Items Every Woman Needs (these should be in neutral colors)
• Basic black dress (I choose blue)
• Trench coat
• Classic dress pants
• Classic white shirt
• Skirt
• Blazer
• Day dress
• Cashmere sweater
• Jeans
• A comfortable alternative to a sweatsuit
It really works well to have these items as the basis (they are classics that can be purchased anywhere). Once you have one of each of these, you’d be surprised how little else you need to complete your everyday look.
I am trying to go through my wardrobe twice a year, get rid of items that are damaged, or that I haven’t worn in at least two seasons and then fill in the holes. I purchase far fewer items every year now that I do this, and nothing is wasted. Everything goes with some outfit.
I work in a formal setting and have also found that if I purchase one new suit in the winter and one in the summer, my wardrobe stays well enough refreshed that I don’t need anymore than that.
October 6th, 2009 at 7:04 am
Clothes are my weakness, insofar as, I have no sense of style, so I just don’t buy anything. Almost everything I own is stained, torn, or generally shouldn’t be seen by the general public. Happily, I work in a lab, so everyone else wears stained and torn clothes.
When I do buy clothes, it is generally because my sisters dragged me out shopping and dictated what to buy.
October 6th, 2009 at 7:07 am
Good post. Now I’d like to see a follow-up post on how to deal with a MOUNTAIN of baby clothes.
October 6th, 2009 at 7:38 am
My personal fashion style is Maui Casual.
Work provides me with my uniform, I own two suits (wedding and funeral) and four dress shirts. Beyond that it’s shorts, blue jeans and a Hawaii shirt.
October 6th, 2009 at 7:39 am
So when someone says “buy quality clothing” how long do you expect that to last? I usually buy shirts & khakis for work at places like Gap, Banana Republic, Eddie Bauer, etc and get a good 5-7 years out of them. At $20-30 a pop, I think that’s good value. Does going up to a price point of $50-75 really get me that much more life?
October 6th, 2009 at 7:50 am
I have a huge problem with this myself. I buy things that either don’t fit or don’t look great after a month or so, then I’m stuck with it. I usually donate it to a thrift store, but it’s still a huge drain on my bank account!
October 6th, 2009 at 7:54 am
@Kate–Great tip!
@Kevin–It’s sort of up to the individual to decide what’s worth it. I think paying $20-$30 for an item that you wear for seven years is a pretty good buy. I doubt that going to $50-$75 khakis will get you that much more life out of your clothes.
However, buying a cheaply-made sweater for $15 that loses its shape and pills up after one wearing is $15 down the drain, in my opinion. If you paid a little more, maybe found something on sale, you could find a garmet that will last much longer.
October 6th, 2009 at 7:59 am
I typically don’t buy high quality dress shirts or suits. I’m an attorney, and it matters how I look coming into the office b/c you sometimes have to deal with clients. With that being said, I buy my suits at Men’s Wearhouse, ties at Marshall’s and dress shirts at Kohl’s. The shirts (wrinkle free) run a little over $20 apiece and last about 10 drycleanings (before the collar begins to fray with color). The suits are in the $250-$400 range (usually wait and try to hit the sales). The ties are usually $10 or less if I’m buying them. My wife helps, and I still feel like I come out looking okay.
I always think it’s a tremendous waste of money, though - and that’s with me going cheaper than most of the other people I work with. Some of them buy Brooks Brothers or have tailors make their suits from scratch. Some of them buy $100 dress shirts (hard for me to believe). I can tell a difference, but those clothes just aren’t where my values lie. Why stretch for those.
I think if you want to look better - a good pair of running shoes is probably a better investment than a $100 shirt…but that’s just my take.
October 6th, 2009 at 8:00 am
Good advice - I’m trying to upgrade from a Kaitlyn (#12) style to something more presentable. My sister has promised to drag me to the thrift stores in her metropolitan area to help out.
As for baby clothes, the same sister is part of a group that just passes the kids’ clothes from one to another. When they were babies, she always knew someone who knew someone who had kids in the size available. Between grandparents, doting aunts, and the pass-around clothes I don’t think she spent anything on baby clothes and neither did many of her friends.
October 6th, 2009 at 8:00 am
@Kevin, the problem I have with those places is that it seems to be hit or miss on quality. Sometimes the clothes, like you say, lasts forever. Sometimes it doesn’t make it a year. And I haven’t figured out the trick if there is one. (Also, at least two, if not all three, are owned by the same parent company. So you aren’t buying anything different at one store or the other you’re just paying for a different brand name on the label. Not that there’s anything inherently wrong with that. I just though you should know that the khakis at both places are the same thing even if the price is different.)
All that aside, I’ve been debating whether to pay more for some of the basics just to get more consistancy out of the pieces I buy. I’d really like some good casual clothes that last like those old t-shirts that shouldn’t be worn unless I’m deep in the woods camping with a couple of friends.
October 6th, 2009 at 8:06 am
I like to identify fundamentals in my wardrobe and basic quantities, and fill in the gaps as I can. This helps me to shop in a focused way, not just looking around for “something nice”. For example, this fall’s target was a matching gray pencil skirt and jacket. I set myself a budget of $300 and went to every store that carries that type of clothing at that price point, and after a day’s shopping, came out with exactly what I wanted and no more.
October 6th, 2009 at 8:06 am
#18 - Todd @ Personal Finance Playbook - I would consider paying more for dress shirts that don’t fall apart after only ten wears. My husband only buys his when they go on sale, but they have never frayed, so the money goes a lot further. He still has some good quality shirts he bought about seven years ago.
October 6th, 2009 at 8:08 am
@CB - actually, the fit of khakis at Gap and BR (the 2 owned by the same parent) are completely different - I’ve started cycling out my Gap khakis (fraying at the leg cuff anyway) and going to BR more often. The cost is a tad higher, but worth it for me considering the lifespan.
I usually shop at their outlet stores, but I’ve always had good luck with both Gap & BR. Now, Old Navy (also under the Gap/BR umbrella) is definitely lesser quality and I rarely shop there.
October 6th, 2009 at 8:19 am
I can go weeks spill-free, but when I’m eating something that will stain, sure enough it ends up on my shirt. So in the fall I stock up on end of summer sale knit tops and tank tops (which I use as camis) that I wear year round paired with cardigans, blazers, etc for work. They cost a max of $5 each, and I get a great pop of color in my wardrobe. Nice button down shirts I only get in dark colors, and I’ll often use those in the summer and fall with a tank or tee instead of a heavier blazer.
October 6th, 2009 at 8:23 am
@FourPillars either hand down the baby clothes to friends with little ones, save them if you are planning one an additional little one, or donate them to the charity of your choice.
I used alot of these ideas myself this weekend as I did my twice annual closet cleanout. I think an additional rule needs to be added though if you are losing weight, toss out the clothes that you have shrunk out of. I realized I was holding on to lots of clothes that were too big and I dont want to give myself the option of gaining the weight back so out it went.
October 6th, 2009 at 8:34 am
Fantastic tips. I try to purge every season. If I haven’t worn something in a year, away it goes. Great write up!
October 6th, 2009 at 8:46 am
I am not much of a shopper so when I do shop, I tend to always wear those clothes.
October 6th, 2009 at 8:53 am
Great post, April! I’ll add to the discussion on cheap vs. quality that you can often extend the life of a cheap garment by handwashing it and either drying flat or hanging up. My sister does this all the time with those flimsy Forever 21 tops (I’m much lazier and tend to buy sweet, washable t-shirts), though I’m not sure there’s an equivalent for guys. But I think with any piece it’s important to treat it with care so it will last longer.
I will say the clothes I get the most mileage out of are the ones that I personally identify with. I see them and think, “that’s so me.” Right now it’s Old Navy jeans and anything purple. Most of these pieces were inexpensive, and they do wear out eventually, but if I get a good run out of them that’s worth it to me. I always say that my purchases fall into two categories: practical and aspirational. There are the clothes I know I will wear, the jeans and t-shirts, but that aren’t terribly exciting. Then there’s the “nice clothes,” the things I think I should wear in order to be a more mature, stylish person. Sometimes they get used, sometimes they don’t. I’m still figuring out how to find a middle ground, clothes that I can wear often that don’t look like the same wardrobe I had in high school.
October 6th, 2009 at 9:07 am
In addition to considering your “dominant season” geographically, you might also have to think about the dominant seasons in your profession. I’m in education, so the schedule of the academic year dictates that I need more dressy winter clothes than summer clothes.
October 6th, 2009 at 9:14 am
The first time I really thought about cleaning out my wardrobe was right after a trip to Guatemala. I met many incredible Mayan women there, and I soon found out that most of them only owned two outfits. They would wear one and wash the other when it was dirty. That experience made me so aware of the excess sitting in my closet at home.
Now, I am lucky enough to have only two main modes of dressing: casual (I have a casual workplace, too!) and for dancing (I dance Argentine Tango several times a week). At one point, I began stocking up on quality basics: t-shirts, tank tops, good-fitting jeans, skirts, etc. I have a lot of solid color basics now, and I have found that a nice pair of earring or a necklace can go a long way in making those basics pop.
I have added some spice to my wardrobe with some patterned dresses and tops, but I always try to choose pieces that I would wear for a long time. I also love finding tops that work in all settings: everyday wear, at work, and for dancing. It doesn’t always happen (a good tango dress isn’t always work-appropriate!), but taking a moment to really consider my clothing before I buy it has helped me build a wardrobe that I actually wear regularly.
October 6th, 2009 at 9:15 am
April, this was a terrific post! Thank you so much. I’m really happy to have been introduced to Wardrobe Oxygen (and her companion blog) as well.
October 6th, 2009 at 9:16 am
This is an inspiring post — I do hope to be adding some stuff to my goodwill bag this afternoon!
I wonder how many people find it as hard as I do to recognize when sunk costs are sunk — I know I sometimes keep a mistake for years on the idea that I’ll find a way to wear it.
Then then there are some things that I love so much that I don’t really notice they are wearing out — I’m still thinking of something as “new and nice” when it’s on its really on its last legs.
And, I’ve recently lost just enough weight that some of my favorite things are a little large — and it’s not always easy to get good tailoring done for women’s clothes, at least not without spending almost as much as getting something new on sale…
October 6th, 2009 at 9:22 am
The best investment I ever made in my wardrobe was a year’s subscription to MissusSmartyPants (plug the name into Google to find her web site). Her Personal Profile newsletters gave me a solid understanding of what works well not just for my coloring, but for my combination of petite height, pear shape, and short-waisted proportions. Now when I shop, I can disregard about 95% of the options available to me (tunic tops? nope. skinny jeans? bad. prints anywhere on my bottom half? don’t bother). The result is that I buy far fewer clothes, but look anywhere from pretty good to fabulous in everything that I do buy.
Also, I no longer hesitate to pay full retail for some items if they’re basics that work well for me. Last year I went shopping at Coldwater Creek for a pair of black dress pants, and found some at full price that made me look like I’d lost 10 pounds the minute I tried them on. Sold!
Being petite makes most thrift stores a needle-in-a-haystack venture for me, so I focus my thrifting at places where the potential for reward is higher. This means regular stops at the one Goodwill store in our area that actually separates the petite clothes onto a separate rack. At other thrift stores, I disregard pants altogether and focus on knit shirts in my best colors, ignoring the sizes on the labels. Sometimes a “regular medium” shirt shrinks down to a “petite small” size, which is often the reason why it gets donated to a thrift store.
October 6th, 2009 at 9:25 am
I saw a guest on Oprah a couple of years ago say that most people wear 20% of their clothes 80% of the time and a lightbulb just went off in my head. I surveyed my closet and found that to be completely true for me. I have since stopped buying clothes I won’t wear lots. I have a couple of outfits for church/dressier occasions but the rest are mainly jeans and pullovers in the winter and capris and T’s for summer… all this stay-at-home mom needs right now.
Thanks for your articles. I’m loving a woman’s perspective on this blog. It was a great blog before but even better now!
October 6th, 2009 at 9:35 am
I have wasted far too much money on low quality clothes that ended up in the “household clothing” drawer or dismantled to make rags in a matter of months. Once I started in being thoughtful of my purchases, then I realized that clothes can last for years. There was one item of clothing I “invested” in when I was 18. It was a $400 coat and though it was a lot of money, I loved the fit and quality. When I gave it away last year (it was several sizes too large), it didn’t look that much different than the day I brought it, though I wore it probably 180 days out of the year for eleven years. I have had cheaper coats during that same time that didn’t last more than one to two years tops.
I purged my closet several times over the past few years due to weight loss. If I cant have an item altered (there is a limit to how small a garment can go) I either sold them or gave them away. My closets tend to be small so there is a limit to what I can have anyway.
October 6th, 2009 at 9:36 am
I agree..I am one of that persons whose closet has more clothes than it can hold:-( But, I always buy on sale..so I dont feel guilty:)) Once in a while, I bring in huge trash bags and fill up with ill fitting clotehs and dispatch it to Goodwill
Every Thanksgiving I get a pair of Jeans from Gap–9$
I got one Ralph Lauren skirt for 5$–Have been wearing it for 4 years now.
The best way to save money is to learn to accessorize well. I usually, team up my tops with accent scarves (again puchased during sale) so it looks trendy and not boring.
October 6th, 2009 at 9:49 am
One of the best tricks I’ve found for reducing closet crap is this: at the start of a new clothing season, rather than move everything into the convenient closet, put everything you think you might wear into another bedroom or hall closet. As you wear it, hang it back up in your main closet. At the end of the season, you’ll likely have lots of stuff still sitting that you never touched - excellent candidates to pass on!
October 6th, 2009 at 10:05 am
A couple HUGE tips:
1) It’s all about the color. Figure out what colors look good on you and never buy anything in those other colors no matter how trendy they are this season. For example, I look terrible in off-white—only pure white blouses/sweaters/tops look good on me because of my coloring.
2) To liven up a classic wardrobe, try buying trendy stuff at Target–just to see if you like it. Yes, a $9 shirt won’t last long, but after you try it you may only want to wear it for one season. If you do end up liking the style, then you can go out and spend a lot on a high quality version. Goes for jewelry too—if huge clunky necklaces are in style, try some plastic ones from Target and only buy the quality dept store version if you end up liking it (or just keep on wearing the Target version).
October 6th, 2009 at 10:07 am
Hubby and I are at a definite advantage being self-employed. I own four outfits: three for wearing around the house, one for church and social functions. Yes, I really do wear the same outfit every single week to church and not one person has commented about it. When I go out, I put on my “outside” dress and hang my home dress back up to wear again. I don’t wash them until they are truly dirty, which makes them last longer.
Hubby’s clothes, on the other hand, take up 4/5 of our available closet space, has five dresser drawers (I have none) and 6 pair of shoes to my 2. He washes his clothes even if they are only on his body for one hour and works very hard to never wear the same thing to the same place more than once a month.
I don’t think it’s a “girl” thing, I think it’s a mindset.
And I agree about quality. With 6 kids, hand-me-downs are a major money saver for us. We could spend $200 at Sears for clothes that will last one child one season or $400 at Hanna Anderssen for clothes that will last through six kids’ wearing and then donate in excellent used condition. Yeah, it’s hard to fork over twice as much at the outset, but we get it back in the long run.
October 6th, 2009 at 10:14 am
I find it much easier to stick with two-four brands or stores for professional clothes, I know the clothes from these stores will fit me well, wear well, etc. I’d rather pay more for a good pair of work pants that I know I’ll wear once every two weeks than get a super bargain for pants I might wear once or twice. When I buy clothes, I calculate the price per wear before making the purchase.
October 6th, 2009 at 10:24 am
I like the “where will I wear this?” advice?
For me, I only have 3 main categories:
1) work (business formal for me. Classics, deliberately kind of boring.)
2) casual wear for at-home, grocery shopping, and hanging with my kids (casual/shredded jeans, funky t-shirts, fleece, yay I get to express my personality!)
3) date night (includes sexy jeans, short skirts, and tops that are a little too attractive for work–another side of my personality!)
For very fancy occasions (my Dad’s wedding, etc)– I will usually go shopping for something to wear to these rare specific events anyway. So I resist buying anything in this category “just in case”.
I also broke down & purchased several warm & stylish coats–one for each category. Since I live in a place where it is winter 9 months of the year, I decided to give up on the idea of just having 1 parka that I wore with everything–it didn’t really work well and I got sooo sick of that one coat I was ready to burn it after one winter anyway.
October 6th, 2009 at 10:26 am
Gee - I do have trouble with this - my life is too checkerboard! I wear LOTS of jeans and t-shirts (and sweatshirts) at home & at the boat - but I ALSO have call for both formal, dressy, business wear & clothes that function more or less like COSTUMES, as I am an actress…Living in L.A. one HAS to have fairly chic clothes to keep up with the styles. And one can’t seem to have too many t-shirts. The truth of the matter, I think, is - as I read once - to be really well dressed, you HAVE to have a LOT of CLOTHES. But not clothes you never wear. That is, alas, NOT my problem….I also find that I never know which items will become staples - So often it’s an off-the-wall choice that just seems to GO with everything. I do, however, stick to the principle that anything I get has to make me feel GREAT (& the hell with the SIZE, as long as it fits.)That said, I shop the thrift shops here & in the So. Cal area for great DEALS on nice stuff - but it sometimes turns out that it will take me a year to wear that particular pair of fabulous shoes ($200+ for $7??) with just the right outfit - but in L.A. sometimes that is just the ticket. And you know - eventually I seem to wear EVERYTHING.
October 6th, 2009 at 10:46 am
That sounds interesting, although I have to admit the clothes problem has never been mine.
I only own two pants, and true, I now own 3 pairs of shoes rather than he usual 3 (regular shoes, summer shoes and now winter boots due to moving to Canada).
All the clothes I own, apart from the boots, are several years old (well, my wedding clothes are just over a year old, but they’ll last a lot more).
I guess I’m lucky I don’t have the problem so many people have. I almost ever spend my money on clothes, it seems a waste of money when I already have some that still “work”. I do buy cool T-shirts on occasion, but still I have maybe 5, at most 10 of them, so I don’t think that’s too much.
I think it’s great that you’re giving advice for the (apparently many) people who need them. Some of my friends sometimes ask me, but I have no clue how to help them. It would be like asking an asexual person “how do you stop yourself from having one-night stands?”
At least now I can direct them to this article.
October 6th, 2009 at 10:48 am
J.D. and April,
J.D. I think you did a great job picking April as a staff writer. This topic keeps you relevent in blogging about life and personal finance. So many people want to discuss just the principles of money, economics, and finance stuff on their blogs. This gets old after awhile and there is only so much you can write about how a mutual fund works.
What is more important is how our financial decisions intersect with everyday life.
In teaching most of my students come to me knowing that 6×9=54, but many don’t know how to apply that knowledge to everyday life and how the concept of multiplication can be applied to so many other areas, making math easier for them. The knowledge is almost useless if you don’t know how to apply it. Keep the articles coming that teach your readers how to apply common sense personal finance principles to everyday life. To me this is a lot more practical than the scholarly aspects of personal finance.
October 6th, 2009 at 11:13 am
Hey April,
An incredibly effective way of minimizing your wardrobe is to clothes maximization: maximum usefulness with minimum items.
The strategy is to have the least amount of stuff in your closet while still have complete functionality (without needing tons of layering or clothes-changing) and desired style.
Have each clothing item satisfy these two categories:
1) FUNCTIONALITY. Like you mentioned in buying for the season and lifestyle, analyze where you spend most of your time. Cities? Woods? Beach? Warm? Cold? Then get clothing with the necessary material (polyester, nylon, cotton, etc.) and the necessary features (warmth-preserving fleece, moisture wicking fabric, etc.).
2) STYLE. Does it look good and fit well? Like you said, does it make you feel like a million bucks?
If each clothing item gives you maximum necessary functionality depending on what you do, and you actually get excited wearing it (rather than for pure functionality), then you:
- Get dressed faster (the fewer choices, the easier to make a decision)
- Have less stuff (need less space, easier to travel, minimal lifestyle)
Keep on maximizing your wardrobe,
Oleg
October 6th, 2009 at 11:40 am
Since I’m a size 00 petite (I really hate vanity sizing) my personal rule is to buy multiples when I find something I like. I have a tendency to wear the same items enough times that they wear out within two years.
October 6th, 2009 at 11:47 am
I have the opposite problem. I still wear some clothes that I’ve had for 10 years. My wife complains that I’m out of style and need to buy some new clothes. I just set up a new ING savings account to put $40/month in for clothes purchases.
October 6th, 2009 at 11:49 am
I definitely fall victim to “swaying to low prices” being the bargain lover that I am. I have accumulated way too many things that I never use or wear this way.
A friend recently taught me a little trick, which I took to heart. When something catches my eye at the clearance section, I ask myself “Am I more in love with the price or am I more in love with the item?” Nine out of ten times, it is usually the price I am more in love with, and not the item itself. And that shouldn’t be worth my money (and grief of adding to the clutter at home).
October 6th, 2009 at 12:10 pm
I have a simple tip. Move to New York and make sure everything in your closet is black or white and you will always be in style…or is that just my lazy way of doing things?
October 6th, 2009 at 12:12 pm
@Jessica, LOL re not leaving yourself the option of going up a size again - good for you! I work from the opposite edge: if my size 8s start to get tight, I don’t go buy a 10: I stop eating so much!
@Rachel, I also have to plan for dancewear and in four different categories: teaching, shows, social dancing, and practice. Ugh.
This means my closet is pretty full. For my day job (business casual) I have a small selection of good slacks, skirts, and dresses, with inexpensive tops for variety over time. Keeps the cost pretty low.
Great article and fun discussion!
October 6th, 2009 at 12:12 pm
Clothing is my Achilles heel when it comes to spending. I too know the shame of items that sit in the back of my closet with price tags still attached! I find that if a piece of clothing is going to become ubiquitous, I’ll pretty much tear the tags off and wear it as soon as I get home–or at least the next day. Anything I don’t wear in a week, I should probably just bring back to the store for a refund.
October 6th, 2009 at 1:12 pm
@jeremy: That’s a great trick. I’m going to remember it next time I go shopping with my mother. She’ll hold up an item from the clearance rack, I’ll give a lukewarm response, and she’ll say, “But it’s only $3!” My thought is, “Why would I PAY money to look bad?”
October 6th, 2009 at 1:19 pm
Here’s my clothing advice: Don’t buy any. I have the same clothing as I had in 10th grade. I don’t gain weight, so I never need new sizes. And the same clothes I wore then haven’t worn out. A couple years ago I bought a black dress shirt because I joined a gospel choir.
October 6th, 2009 at 1:46 pm
Outstanding post. It’s rare to see a blog dealing with fashion from a practical perspective, but its a welcome point. Do more with less basically just means… buy less in the first place!
October 6th, 2009 at 1:47 pm
@Simon #53 - If I wore the same clothes I did when I was in the 10th grade, I would be walking around like an unkempt teenager. I’m 31, not 15. The rest of us do get older, have careers that require more than a pair of jeans and shorts, maybe get pregnant, gain and lose weight, wear clothes out and dress in a way that’s appropriate to our age and lifestyle.
October 6th, 2009 at 2:03 pm
My style has changed a lot over the years, so my occasional closet purges can produce weird and/or funny things, like vintage polyester shirts with huge collars or strangely colored sneakers that were never worn for athletic pursuits. Over that last 5 years or so, though, I’ve stabilized my closet and it now holds a fairly conservative but fashion-conscious wardrobe. What I’ve learned:
1. Buy the best shoes you can afford. The plasticky leather and rubber soles on cheap shoes look like crap new and look even worse with age and wear; high-quality leather looks great new and gets even better as it ages, assuming it’s regularly conditioned and polished. Reputable shoe makers will recondition your old shoes, which gets you a pair of like-new shoes at a fraction of the cost of a new pair.
2. Fit is more important than brand or price. Know your body, and know how clothing is supposed to fit. Shirts and sweaters are often cut in a gigantic “relaxed fit” that makes a man look like a flying squirrel when he raises his arms, each trouser leg could hold two limbs, and suit jackets are worn two sizes too big. Don’t pay for a bad fit unless it can be tweaked by your tailor, but do be willing to pay for a good fit. It can be hard to come by.
3. You get what you pay for. This goes for shoes, suits, shirts, jackets, and everything else. I can’t count how many times I’ve bought a cheaper item of clothing only to realize that no discount can make up for shoddy materials, inferior construction, and third world labor practices. There are great American brands like Samuelsohn, Alden, Woolrich, Filson, Oxxford and others that cost more but make a great product with terrific value per wear.
4. One in, one out. I don’t always obey this rule, but it has kept things under control when applied. If I really want that new sweater or whatever, I have to get rid of an old one. If there are none that really need to go to Goodwill, then I probably don’t need to buy the new one.
October 6th, 2009 at 2:15 pm
Being a guy, I have a simple way to not buy clothes I never wear—I don’t buy clothes.
I have no taste in clothes, and therefore, I simply ask for clothes at any gift-giving time of the year. Namely, my birthday and Christmas. That way, I know what I get will look good on me (or should) and I never have too many clothes–cuz I only get them two times a year.
October 6th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
@Dave/Yourfinances101 Exactly. We should hang out. I don’t buy clothes either. I get my brother’s old ones sometimes, and the occasional new pair of jeans at Christmas keeps me going.
October 6th, 2009 at 3:45 pm
I love this one. I’ve read that we wear only 20% of our clothes 80% of the time. Certainly true for me, and I’ve whittled down my wardrobe significantly in the past year. And I’ve discovered I’d rather own two pair of really great pants than the mish mash I used to have. I got pants that fit well and have an enduring style. They cost a bit more, but it was well worth it.
October 6th, 2009 at 7:26 pm
Im Indian but live and work in the US. My problem is that I need to maintain 2 wardrobes with 2 entirely different esthetics-Western and Indian- and ideally I would like be well dressed in both. My job requires me to have a lot of evening wear. What I now do to stay on budget is to keep a very basic professional Western wardrobe for work and buy saris for evenings. The latter are extremely forgiving-much more so than Western clothes, esp if one is over 40, and you get a lot more for your money, in terms of fine fabric, than anything you can find at a mall-plus they last a lifetime. There are now extremely avant-garde designer saris out there, so one can be cutting-edge. Western fashion is unforgiving for women over 40-little fits or flatters-and is not particularly interesting either. As you have to get sari blouses custom tailored, they fit beautifully. Its hard to go back to pret-a-porter after one has got used to custom tailoring…..The New York esthetic is particularly dreary-I am dreading the day when some brainless skinny woman will pressure me to buy a little black sari….. I usually pay full price and buy relatively few items, but the best quality I can afford-I am not super dressy, but at least professional. I express my dramatic side in the evenings.
October 6th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
Why would you buy clothes you don’t wear? I don’t get it. I donate the worn out stuff, but it all gets worn out.
October 6th, 2009 at 10:41 pm
Same here. As for some of my silk saris, my mother gave them to me over 30 years ago, and being 100% handloom silk of a quality that cannot be found today, if properly stored and maintained they are as good as new and still wearable-you get new accessories periodically so they can be worn indefinitely. They never go out of style. I think the fashion business itself is the greatest problem here…it makes everyone feel driven to keep up by buying more stuff. I’ve more or less opted out without totally sacrificing looking stylish, which has taken some thought. I dont buy fashion mags anymore-it is just depressing-and a waste of money.
October 6th, 2009 at 11:50 pm
All these tips seem easy…on paper. But how do you tell if something is quality or not? Last winter I bought two pairs of shoes. Within less than a year, both needed repairs. They cost over 100$/pair so they should have been good quality (got them on sale though so I paid less). Obviously you can’t go by price alone. I know from experience that sweaters from H&M are generally lower quality so I usually get my sweaters from elsewhere…but quite a few of those have had seems come undone too. Seems to me that no matter where you go you end up with cheap, Asian-made stuff just with a different label.
Only go with colors that suit you. Sounds great. How am I supposed to know which colors suit me? I’ve actually tried determining what “season” I am but I really can’t tell if my skin has more of a peach tone or a pink (or something like that). All this is easier said than done, especially for a guy.
One particular thing I’ve been pondering lately, is that I’m turning 30 next month. I’ve been thinking about what this means for my clothing needs. I mean, sometimes you see someone wearing something that is sooo not their age and it looks ridiculous. However, that person probably has no clue and thinks it’s stylish/trendy or whatever. Or maybe they just got stuck wearing what they wore during a particularly good period in their lives. I don’t want to become one of those so I’m wondering whether there are clothes that look ridiculous on me because I am getting older, clothes that aren’t “my age”.
October 7th, 2009 at 5:44 am
I am a stay-at-home mom, so casual dressing is the norm. My trouble with shopping for clothes is that I tend to shop only when there is an urgency (sometimes, but not always, due to procrastination since clothes shopping always seems like a chore). Examples: right before a holdiday party, a wedding, or a week before a last-minute trip when I discover that I have no clothes that will work in a different climate or that are presentable. On top of that, I still try very hard to watch the spending…I am faced with a time limit and a spending limit which means hasty choices on clothes that are not worn too often and that are usually of a lesser quality. The result: the total opposite of ‘maximizing’ a wardrobe.
Also, there are not too many clothes retailers in close (less than 30 min. drive) proximity, so I sometimes do the online thing, which is even worse! Not only can I not see, feel, or try on the clothes live, but I also have to pay shipping, both at the point of purchase and also at the return when I decide that the 6 1/2 shoes just won’t fit. Can you say “frustration”!?
October 7th, 2009 at 6:10 am
this was a great post! I especially liked the suggestion that you shop for the climate in your area. I live in FLorida - it’s hot for most of the year. There are displays of wool sweaters and overcoats at the mall right now - and it is going to be 93 degrees today with high humidity. For me, fun sandals and accessories are the best investment to change up the “shorts and a top” or “skirt and a top” ensemble that dominates my dressing.
I have downsized my closet dramatically - but have a kept a small box of old clothes in the attic of sentimental items. I will never wear them again (was I ever that small?) but it is a fun part of my past.
October 7th, 2009 at 8:07 am
To JonasAberg,
Get a personal shopper-I have one-all good stores like Nordstrom provide this service-its worth it and in the end saves time and money. A personal shopper will help with style decisions and can provide guidance on quality. I buy clothes in batches about twice a year and I find my clothes suit me better and last longer-I simply dont have time to troll the mall every weekend.
October 7th, 2009 at 8:14 am
I have found I will pay extra for things like “wrinkle free” so I don’t look like I slept in it. I used to just buy “cheap stuff” off clearance racks, but i found alot of the sweaters shrink, or stretch out. I stay away from dry clean stuff. I like as little maintenance as possible. And with my kids I found alot of clothing overkill also, now I limit them to 7 pairs of jeans and 15 shirts. After all it seems like we wear the same clothes over and over anyhow and the rest of it just takes up space.
Just as a fun note, when I was at a garage sale this summer my 12 year old son was what I thought patiently waiting for me to get done looking. When we got in the car he said mom that lady had 34 pairs of shoes!
October 7th, 2009 at 9:55 am
Maharani
I highly doubt there is such a thing as personal shoppers in my town. I’m not even sure people do that on a professional level here in Finland at all (perhaps in Helsinki).
They do sometimes offer consulting sessions at various stores but that is mostly so they can sell their own stuff.
October 7th, 2009 at 1:09 pm
I actually find the superfluous clothing I buy all happens when I think “I need a pair of black slacks to fill this gap in my wardrobe.” So I make it a habit NOT to shop to “fill gaps in my wardrobe.” But then, I’m weird when it comes to clothes; I don’t think I’ve owned 15 pairs of jeans in my entire life.
October 7th, 2009 at 8:30 pm
This is a good post.
I think getting close altered is a beautiful idea (when applicable).
I know a lot of folks who have gone out and spend buck wild money when they could have just gotten what they had altered.
Now… I don’t gain weight… so I’m with Simon and Dave
October 7th, 2009 at 10:47 pm
Interesting thread, though not very applicable to those with professional jobs. I’ve heard and seen the “stay at home moms” and “comfortable” arguments: this seems to mean jeans/sweats and t-shirts/polo shirts. Not much help in an office.
The responses mainly seem to be from those who feel buying clothes is sinful/extravagant/ridiculous/a waste of money. Yes, I could wear the same clothes I did 20 years ago (they haven’t fallen apart!), but that would reveal a severe lack of judgement and growth. (Unless, of course, I had the ability to shop for quality classic looks in my teens. Which I didn’t.) Also, JD mentions quite frequently that the best way to Get Rich Slowly is to increase your income: you might be great at your job, but you also need to dress for your next position. While it is possible, I doubt that wearing clothes from high-school will help. Remember that Oscar Wilde said that “Only shallow people don’t judge by appearances” (my paraphrase). To believe otherwise is adolescent.
Sorry for the rant, here’s something constructive:
- Figure out your classic uniform: slacks, skirts, shirts, dresses, that won’t go out of style.
- Only spend $$ on accessories to keep current: shoes, bags, jewelry, and haircut.
- Buy basics (layering camis, t-shirts, etc.) as cheaply as possible (Gap, etc.).
- Spend $$ on anything that is tailored (jackets).
- Skip “wrinkle-free”: that says it’s not quality and it won’t look good. You’re better off getting cotton instead of a polyester blend that won’t wrinkle.
- Don’t do trends, do the trendy colors in accessories: the Pantone color charts for each fashion season can give you an idea on what to buy (cheaply) to make your look look current.
October 8th, 2009 at 6:17 am
Thanks, Mimi (above)…some great advice!!! Yes, we all have the need to “dress the part”, some more than others. Don’t think so much thought needs to go into hands-on jobs like elementary school teachers, librarians, gardeners, or S-A-H moms, but a higher quality brand will certainly take its punishments. And since business attire doesn’t go out of fashion so quickly, it makes sense to buy those in higher quality as well.
October 8th, 2009 at 9:24 am
Mimi: Great tips, I think your comment might be the most helpful one here.
Jonas, I can relate and I’m female. I have no idea what colors are good, how to find quality, etc…just keep trying.
October 8th, 2009 at 10:30 am
I went on a no-clothes shopping hiatus last year that lasted 8 months. It gave me a newfound freedom from shopping, impulse shopping and buying things I didn’t need. It helps every few months to assess your closet and take an inventory. Also I take JD’s tip and if I bring something in, then something must come out. And there is always one or two things that I haven’t worn much that need to go out.
Jessica’s blog is great for getting ideas on mixing, matching or repurposing. She wore a dress as a top once with a belt (another great way to remix what you have). another one of my favorite fashion bloggers Katy who blogs at kansascouture.com also had some great tips on re-wearing summer pieces for the fall. You could wear sleeveless dresses with turtlenecks and leggings … lots of options.
There are also some great books including “nothing to wear,” which is a classic one on building a wardrobe. rachel zoe, the lucky style guide and issach mizrahzzi (the guy who founded Target).
October 8th, 2009 at 10:58 am
I see myself in this article. Lots of clothes purchased for the Fantasy Me: High-Powered Businesswoman Me, Rock Star Me, Hot Babe Me. Stuff I never wear IRL because it feels so NOT me. I think I’ll purge the closets this weekend.
In the meantime, have you seen this?
http://www.theuniformproject.com/
The Uniform Project is an “exercise in sustainable fashion”. The girl is wearing the same dress every day for a year (there are seven identical dresses), changing only how she accessorizes.
Proof that you only need one good piece in your closet, if you have a lot of ingenuity and accessories, and can stand to wear the same thing every day. I’m often surprised at the creativity she shows. Check it out. It’s also a charitable project for a good cause.
October 8th, 2009 at 3:02 pm
I found this post from the lovely blogger who runs kansascouture.com helpful on layering with summer pieces - http://www.kansascouture.com/search?updated-max=2009-09-10T19%3A34%3A00-05%3A00&max-results=7
October 8th, 2009 at 9:07 pm
I am horrible about keeping clothes I don’t wear, for two reasons.
One, my mom is a seamstress. Even when I can’t or don’t wear something anymore, it’s hard to chuck something your mom made for you from scratch.
Two, my husband and I have been together since high school. It’s a lot easier to chuck the prom dress and the high school “memories” clothing when you are no longer with that guy.
October 8th, 2009 at 9:10 pm
I am always hearing to “buy quality”, but I am constantly ruining clothing with mystery stains or clumsy falls. It’s hard to shell out for a nice item knowing you’re going to ruin it after only a few wears. I spent a lot on a gorgeous work blouse, dark blue, and it just came out of the washer with bright pink splotches all over it. I have no idea what happened. It was only soaking in a little Woolite.
For me, I really think cheap junky clothing is the way to go.
October 9th, 2009 at 6:01 pm
As a short, fat woman with small breasts, I unfortunately can’t hold out for “items that make [me] feel like a million bucks.” Pants are always way too long (in both the crotch and the cuffs, so just getting them hemmed won’t help), tailored tops (including blazers) always have darts too low for my small breasts so the fabric puffs out in weird places, and many, many tops are too low-cut because I don’t have the bosom to fill them out. Of course, I am working on losing weight, but in the meantime, I have to go with whatever I can find that’s easy to care for, fits OK and looks OK. And forget the thrift store!
October 10th, 2009 at 5:08 am
Hi Jenny–Have you tried plus-sized petite pants and tops? Talbots has a good selection (they call it “woman petites”). Petite sizes have a shorter crotch and inseam.
I can’t do thrift stores, either. I’m short and slim, but with curves. I’ve tried and tried, and even if I find something I like, it never, ever fits. :/
October 10th, 2009 at 6:05 am
April D - Thanks, yes, the only pants I can buy are “plus petite.” Unfortunately, they tend to be much harder to find (and much more limited as far as style, color, etc. goes). It’s harder to find tops that are plus petite, at least in my budget. But maybe I should give Talbots a try.
October 13th, 2009 at 10:36 am
I have a lot of clothes that I don’t wear…I should definitely donate them or something. However, I am lacking on the occasional items that I need…like a business suit!
October 13th, 2009 at 11:19 pm
My friend is short, petite, curvy and heavy-busted but she looks amazing. Her secret: Dress Barn. They have fantastic prices with a variety of patterns, colors and styles to suit almost everyone. She frequents their clearance racks and mixes/matches things together - try a long striped skirt with a fitted blazer on top. Keep it fitted and avoid buying pieces that are too tight and you can’t breathe.
October 30th, 2009 at 1:24 pm
If you find something that makes you look like a million bucks, that’s the 20% you wear 80% of the time, is something you realize you’re going to wear to bits and look for more…
Buy two.
In my experience it’s often jeans for women and dress shoes for men.
Another tip: shoes last longer if you don’t wear them every day. At least alternate days. This lets the moisture evaporate and preserves the shoes. Cedar shoe trees help the process along and keep your shoes well shaped. If you buy fancy dress shoes, the trees are a good investment.
November 1st, 2009 at 6:24 pm
Great advice, thank you! I’m in the process of moving to a smaller apartment, and while I sold a lot of my clothing at a yard sale, and gave a great deal away, I can benefit from further purging. This inspires me to either take the fix-it items to the tailor or let go of them. I can’t keep moving garments around if they aren’t wearable.
Also, Gwen (#9), that is a great idea!
An editing item: Having grown up in SE Iowa, I feel it is important to note that Iowa does indeed have four distinct seasons, one of them being a long summer of BRUTAL heat and humidity. If you are to survive a summer in Iowa, save one pair of flip-flops.
November 17th, 2009 at 1:56 pm
This is quite a good read. I’ve read through all of the comments, and I also have an odd situation, which leads to way too much clothing. I haven’t changed size since 9th grade, maybe even 8th. I still have clothing that fits from then. However, IT MUST GO. I am at least 8 years out of high school, with some of my clothes being 12 years old! It is no longer appropriate for me to wear and it is all worn out. I am moving into the professional workforce, and am in need of good clothes. I know how to shop, I know what looks good on me, but I don’t have the time! I need to purge, but I also need to be dressed. I have a few things that are newer and can stay… but not that many.
Further complicating things, I am an accomplished seamstress. I can alter anything, including wedding dresses. My rule for myself is to look at it and think: “will I alter this?” because some things it’s just not worth it to take it apart to the extent that I might need to in order to make it fit right. I also tend to buy things I cannot make, or things in a nice fabric I don’t have access to without undo spending.
As a seamstress, I have affection for my clothing. I have things that were my deceased grandmothers. Nevertheless, there is still a lot of clothing that I can and will get rid of. I mostly wear skirts, so I have stopped buying pants. I’m not going to wear it, so why buy it? Maybe you too have a category of clothing you buy because you think you’re supposed to, but you never really wear.
I think I’ll ask one of my friends to come over and help make sure I get this done and make sure I get rid of the things that are old. I’ll purge in time for Thanksgiving sales regardless of how hard it’s going to be.