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  • Fire: Oh, that will never happen to me (0 comment)

    This article is by staff writer William Cowie. Laughter and hooting filled the house as my wife had Karen and a few other friends over for a mid-morning tea. (Such are the joys of retired life.) Th...

  • Networking strategies can help you overcome the fear of trying to advance your career (12 comments)

    This post is by staff writer Honey Smith. I've written about the power of personal networks before. Unfortunately, lots of people find networking intimidating for a variety of reasons. Certainly, I ...

  • Hiccups on the way to combining finances (32 comments)

    This is a guest post from Kathleen O'Malley, who writes about finding joy in a simple, frugal life at Frugal Portland. It happened fast. We barely talked about it, but all of a sudden, about a wee...

  • Breaking taboo: Ask your friends and family for financial advice (49 comments)

    Note: This article is from J.D. Roth, who founded Get Rich Slowly in 2006. J.D. recently launched the Get Rich Slowly course, a year-long guide on how to master your money. His non-financial writing l...

  • Act surprised: Your wedding ring is a terrible investment (95 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Holly Johnson. Divorce. It's an unattractive yet common end to a relatively high percentage of marriages in the U.S. In fact, as many as 50 percent of American marri...

  • Taking the Chairman’s Flight and other career-limiting moves to avoid (114 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Sam. Sam spent 13 years working in Equities on Wall Street and discusses financial independence strategies on Financial Samurai. Sam is also the founder of the Yakezie ...

  • Deals on wheels: Should you buy your child a car? (82 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Lisa Aberle. As far as I know, only one reader of Get Rich Slowly knows me personally. And last week, I was having lunch with my one-person fan club. (Actually, I am...

  • Giving kids money to manage (26 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Lisa Aberle. We've slowly started our children's financial education. I thought the easiest way to start would be opening a savings account. I suppose I was correct,...

  • ‘When She Makes More’: 10 rules for breadwinning women (144 comments)

    Note: This article is from J.D. Roth, who founded Get Rich Slowly in 2006. J.D.'s recently launched the Get Rich Slowly course, a year-long guide on how to master your money. A few years ago, my li...

  • The Second Annual Chautauqua on Wealth and Happiness (10 comments)

    Hey, everybody. J.D. here. Last September, I traveled to Ecuador to participate in a good old-fashioned chautauqua. Near Otavalo, I joined Mr. Money Mustache, Jim Collins, and Cheryl Reed to share wha...

  • Can you grow your family on a shrinking income? (31 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Lisa Aberle. Our two kids came with an almost two-year gestation, similar to an elephant's gestation, actually. (Here's where I would make a joke about now our salar...

  • When the right choice isn’t obvious (69 comments)

    This post is by staff writer Honey Smith. What do you do when the right choice isn't obvious? Earlier this month, I said that my husband Jake and I had reached the last straw with regard to our c...

  • Reader Stories: 5 money-savvy tips for recovering from a divorce (13 comments)

    This story comes from reader Julia Lawrence. Julia thoroughly enjoys writing about finances, pop culture and selling diamonds! When she isn't hard at work writing, she spends her time wither with an a...

  • How to cure a spending hangover (37 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Holly Johnson. A few weeks ago, my husband and I took a somewhat frugal vacation to an all-inclusive resort in Playa del Carmen, Mexico. And while I was very excited...

  • Ask the Readers: Post-divorce — buy out wife or sell house? (72 comments)

    This reader question comes from Rick. He's asking for the readers' advice on this common dilemma that many divorced people face. My wife and I had a pretty good handle on our finances and were on ...

  • Can you be friends with rich people? (69 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sarah Gilbert. I wanted to title this post, "Can you be friends with people in decidedly different financial situations than you?" but that wasn't very catchy. (And ...

  • Ask the Readers: How much do you dare to bare? (93 comments)

    This is a guest post from Ashley, who blogs at skintinthecity.com, a site which reveals how you can live the high life even when your budget’s tighter than your skinny jeans. Last weekend my husb...

  • Couples and money: Lessons from The Queen of Versailles (32 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. I recently got sick for the first time in almost a decade, and was bed/couch-ridden for a good four days. Since I had some time on my hands, I was able t...

  • Friends and philosophies of personal finance (32 comments)

    This post is by staff writer Honey Smith. Recently one of my bridesmaids came to my city to attend a professional conference, and we were fortunate to be able to spend some time together as well. Thi...

  • Talk about money: The key to financial literacy? (53 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sarah Gilbert. April's post about financial literacy struck something in me, especially the part about the "Fallacy of Financial Literacy." The idea here is that we ...

  • Love, relationships and financial harmony (64 comments)

    You'll have to forgive the overt theme of today's post. I've been wanting to write about this topic for a while, but it's such personal issue that I've shied away from it. But when I realized tha...

  • Relationship deal breakers, then and now (66 comments)

    This is a post from staff writer Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the adviser for The Motley Fool's Rule Your Retirement service. I recently had break...

  • Lessons on money and relationships, from fiction (29 comments)

    Saturday night -- Sunday morning, really -- I stayed up almost all night reading, in one mad dash, Gone Girl. I slunk through half the day like I had a hangover, kicking myself, trying to figure out w...

  • When Seizing the Day Backfires (55 comments)

    A little over a month ago, I experienced one of those moments in life where everything was as it should be. You know those moments—when work, love, friendships, etc., are all operating smoothly, in ...

  • Reader Story: Dodging Financial Bullets: A Tribute to My Ex (94 comments)

    This guest post from Holly Johnson is part of the “reader stories” feature. Holly is a 32-year-old wife, mother of two, and frugal lifestyle enthusiast. She blogs about saving money, frugal habits...

  • What Matters in Matters of Love and Finance (166 comments)

    "You need to keep your skills fresh," said a commenter in a recent post about the finances of parenting, referring to the concept of a mother staying at home with the kids. "In case of death or divorc...

  • Earning More vs. Spending Less, Round 3: ‘The Queen of Versailles’ (57 comments)

    This is the third article of a series. The first one is here and the second one here. Earning and saving money both take time, effort, knowledge, attention, and continuous dedication. Since we know...

  • Friendships and Financial Inequality (167 comments)

    This article is from staff writer Kristin Wong. A few years ago, I started spending time with a coworker outside of work. She was cool, fun to hang out with, and we had a lot in common. Except in...

  • The Politeness Tax (157 comments)

    This article is from staff writer Kristin Wong. The other day, I ordered a small pizza for lunch. The delivery guy showed up, sweating from the summer sun, and told me my total was $10. I had a twe...

  • Signs of Financial Relationship Trouble? (179 comments)

    This post is by staff writer Sarah Gilbert. With my husband across the planet in Kuwait for most of the past two years, we don't fight a lot. When we do fight, it's about three things: what I'm ...

  • Showered With Needs (142 comments)

    Until the end of this week, we're sharing "audition" pieces from folks interested in being new staff writers at Get Rich Slowly. Your job is to let us know what you think of each of these writers. Pay...

  • Finding Balance in an Imbalanced World (70 comments)

    For the next week (or two), we'll be sharing "audition" pieces from folks interested in being new staff writers at Get Rich Slowly. Your job is to let us know what you think of each of these writers. ...

  • Estate Settlement: Reading the Will Is Not What You Expect (24 comments)

    For the next week (or two), we'll be sharing "audition" pieces from folks interested in being new staff writers at Get Rich Slowly. Your job is to let us know what you think of each of these writers. ...

  • The Power of Community (65 comments)

    For the next week (or two), we'll be sharing "audition" pieces from folks interested in being new staff writers at Get Rich Slowly. Your job is to let us know what you think of each of these writers. ...

  • Frugal or Foolish? Our Cruise-Ship Wedding (201 comments)

    For the next week (or two), we'll be sharing "audition" pieces from folks interested in being new staff writers at Get Rich Slowly. Your job is to let us know what you think of each of these writers. ...

  • Wills, Trusts and Drama: What to Expect When Settling an Estate (57 comments)

    This is a guest post by Jennifer Rose Hale, one of the candidates for a new staff writer position here at Get Rich Slowly. We all face times when we suddenly, necessarily have to become experts on ...

  • Reader Story: What Financial Freedom Really Means (50 comments)

    This guest post from Sue is part of the "reader stories" feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success or failure....

  • How to Handle People Who Undermine Your Success (92 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. Do you have someone in your life who is a bad influence when it comes to your financial or career goals? I've known a people like that. Typically thi...

  • Ask the Readers: Why Don’t People Talk About Money? (291 comments)

    On Wednesday, I visited a fifth-grade class in McMinnville, Oregon to talk with the kids about money. I had a great time, and I'll share more about the experience on Monday. Today, though, I want to s...

  • Ask the Readers: How Do You Merge Finances and Philosophies? (132 comments)

    Everyone is different. That's the beauty of life — but also one of its greatest complications. When two people fall in love, the meshing of these differences can be both fun and frustrating, esp...

  • Reader Story: How My Nosy Family Taught Me About Money (109 comments)

    This guest post from GenQwerty is part of the "reader stories" feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success or fa...

  • Three Game Plans for a DIY Valentine’s Day (72 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. I love Valentine's Day. I know many people don't — they think it's a commercial holiday that makes people feel obligated to drag themselves to the pin...

  • Reader Story: Why I Lied About Money (84 comments)

    This guest post from Aloysa is part of the "reader stories" feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success or failu...

  • Let Go of the Spatula: Reconsidering Wedding Registries (237 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Tim Sullivan. My brother, my best friend, and my girlfriend’s sister are all getting married in the upcoming year, so I’ve heard a lot about wedding registries...

  • A Place of My Own (577 comments)

    Two months ago today, I asked my wife for a divorce. I won't be writing about the personal aspects of the divorce at Get Rich Slowly. In fact, other than some brief background at my personal site, ...

  • How to Fend Off Financial Trolls (34 comments)

    Note: It's a rare thing, but it happens once or twice a year: Life has reared its ugly head, and there's no fresh story for you this morning. Instead, enjoy this classic from the Get Rich Slowly archi...

  • Ask the Readers: How Can I Talk to My Parents about Money? (90 comments)

    In many families, money is a taboo subject. It's not something that's discussed openly. But this weekend, as people gather to celebrate Christmas, there will be lots of opportunities to bring up the t...

  • Reader Story: Recovering from Divorce (70 comments)

    This guest post from Gina is part of the "reader stories" feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success — or...

  • Protecting Yourself Against Sexually-Transmitted Debt (54 comments)

    This is a guest post from Claire Brown. Previously at GRS, Claire shared a reader story about how she learned about frugality from de-cluttering. As we hit the season of Christmas parties and New Y...

  • Reader Story: How Debt Put My Dreams on Hold (85 comments)

    This guest post from Jason Jacobs is part of the "reader stories" feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success &m...

  • Play the Fooly-Wed Game! (24 comments)

    This is a guest post from Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the adviser for The Motley Fool’s Rule Your Retirement service. He contributes one new articl...

  • Reader Story: The High Cost of Kids’ Sports (92 comments)

    This guest post from Kay Lynn Akers is part of the "reader stories" feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success ...

  • Old Friends: Scenes from a Class Reunion (52 comments)

    I am getting old, my friends. I am getting old. It's no longer just a feeling, either. More and more, there are objective real-world reminders that I'm not the young man I once was. Kris and I spent l...

  • How Much Do We Owe Others? (And When Should We Walk Away?) (239 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer Donna Freedman. Donna writes a personal finance column for MSN Money, and writes about frugality and intentional living at Surviving And Thriving. Last January I ...

  • Social Capital and the Neighborhood Exchange (75 comments)

    It's been a while since I've raved about the joys of social capital. For those who haven't been exposed to the concept, social capital is the mutual goodwill generated whenever you volunteer at a soup...

  • Managing Mom’s Money: An Update from Happy Acres (149 comments)

    I'm sitting in the lobby of Happy Acres waiting for the business manager to return from lunch. I just spent half an hour talking with Mom, who's doing much better than she was a month ago. She still s...

  • Budgeting Dilemma: How Do You Decide What You Can Afford? (101 comments)

    This is a guest post from No Debt MBA, who is trying to pay for an MBA from a top-five business school without student loans. This is a post that asks questions but offers no answers. My significa...

  • Drama in Real Life: A Place for Mom (259 comments)

    In my ideal world, you'd now be reading an article about the freelancing or entrepreneurship or extreme couponing or one of the half dozen other topics I've started to write about. In my ideal world, ...

  • Reader Story: Making Life Transitions Meaningful (83 comments)

    This guest post from Laura Mezoff Christy is part of the "reader stories" feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial su...

  • How to Make Separate Finances Work: An Interview with J.D. and Kris (199 comments)

    Every couple has its own way of managing money. Some folks share their finances completely. Some — like my wife and me — keep their finances completely separate. Most couples fall somewher...

  • Reader Story: How My Parents and I Partnered on a Win-Win Savings Plan For College (93 comments)

    This guest post from Robb Engen is part of the "reader stories" feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some reader stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial succe...

  • Reader Story: I’m a Sugar Mama (and Proud of It!) (127 comments)

    This guest post from Kerry is part of the "reader stories" feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some reader stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success &m...

  • Ask the Readers: What Is My Financial Obligation to My Family? (256 comments)

    Last Friday's question about the moral implications of spending prompted a great discussion, as well as a few personal messages. One of those e-mails was from Dave, who wrote with his own ethical dile...

  • Financial Security for Unmarried Couples (97 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and raising children at Childwild.com. Money is one of the biggest issues couples fight about. It's a...

  • Ask the Readers: How to Talk to Friends and Family About Money? (82 comments)

    Last spring, Andy submitted a question he hoped readers could help him with. I promised I'd post it...and then went to Alaska for ten days and forgot. Well, Andy's a patient man. And persistent. Last ...

  • Frugality and the Long-Distance Relationship (36 comments)

    This is a guest post from Kelly M., who writes about long-distance relationships at Long-Distance Life. Long-distance relationships can be exciting, challenging, fulfilling, and all sorts of other ...

  • Five DIY Valentine’s Day Ideas for Frugal Sweethearts (42 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. Valentine's Day is a commercialized holiday, but I say, "So what!" Sure, you don't need a holiday to show appreciation for your significant other, bu...

  • Ask the Readers: How Do I Motivate My Boyfriend to Save Money? (104 comments)

    Although we cover the topic once or twice a year, I constantly get questions from people who are frustrated by the financial habits of their spouses and partners. Some people are Spenders, and some pe...

  • The Cost of Love (60 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. Have you ever noticed all of the song lyrics about love and money? "No romance without finance..." "My love don't cost a thing..." "Only boys who...

  • How to Lend Money to Friends (Without Ruining the Relationship) (175 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. Lending money to friends and family is a generous act — one that could easily backfire and even ruin your relationship. Most of the time when some...

  • Caring for Aging Parents (156 comments)

    As more of my friends enter middle age, they're talking less about how to care for their kids and more about how to care for their parents. Our mothers and fathers are nearing (and, in some cases, sur...

  • The Laundry Agreement (102 comments)

    Yesterday, I made a passing reference to The Laundry Agreement. A couple of eagle-eyed readers noticed a further reference in the screenshot I posted to illustrate the article. Kevin and Samantha both...

  • The Cost of Being a Better Parent (107 comments)

    This is a guest post from Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the adviser for The Motley Fool’s Rule Your Retirement service. He contributes one new articl...

  • Reader Story: My Debt-Free Marriage (65 comments)

    This guest post from Mike C. is part of the "reader stories" feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success —...

  • On the Value of Networking (56 comments)

    It's hard to believe, but Kris and I graduated from Willamette University nearly twenty years ago. We enjoyed our time in college, and remain close to many of our classmates. It's always fun when we g...

  • Reader Story: Since My Divorce (196 comments)

    This guest post from Mandy Walker is part of the "reader stories" feature at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success &m...

  • Ask the Readers: Help! I’m Overwhelmed! How Do I Get Started? (153 comments)

    I'll admit it: I'm way behind on posting reader questions. I get tons of questions, and can never reply to all of them. I do ask a handful of folks if they'd like to put their problems to the general ...

  • Book Review: How to Debt-Proof Your Marriage (37 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and getting her kids to eat kale at Childwild.com. This post is part of Book Week at Get Rich Slowly. ...

  • Talking About Money with Family and Friends (47 comments)

    What does a blogger's spouse do while the blogger is out of town? Hang out with other bloggers and their spouses, of course! While Chris Guillebeau was off playing with the tigers in Thailand, his wif...

  • Money CAN Buy You Happiness! (61 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and getting her kids to eat kale at Childwild.com. In today's article, she tackles a topic I've been mea...

  • Ask the Readers: “Help! I Co-Signed on a Loan and Now I Wish I Hadn’t!” (146 comments)

    Ah, relationships. Without other people, money management would be easy! Easy-er, anyhow. But love, family, and business relationships tend to make people do things they know they really oughtn't. ...

  • Reader Story: Rich Dad, Stingy Dad (199 comments)

    This guest post from Anna is part of the "reader stories" feature here at Get Rich Slowly. Some stories contain general "how I did X" advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial...

  • Worth More Than Money: Taking A Detour on the Road to Riches (105 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and getting her kids to eat kale at Childwild.com. Hola! My family is spending the month of July vaca...

  • Reader Story: Social Capital and the Microeconomic Recovery (30 comments)

    This guest post from Kimberly is part of the Reader Stories feature here at Get Rich Slowly. Some reader stories contain general "how I did X" advice, and others are examples of how a GRS reader achie...

  • The Calculus of Cats and Dogs (172 comments)

    The other day, I made a passing comment in my article about judging (or not judging) others. I mentioned that although my friend Michael is in dire financial straits, he's still making life decisions ...

  • Casting Stones: When Is It Okay to Judge? (237 comments)

    I've been stewing over something for the past few days, and I'm finally ready to write about it. I'm not a fan of judging others and their actions. Like Atticus Finch, I believe you never really k...

  • Social Capital: More Valuable Than Money? (63 comments)

    I'm back! After ten days boating through southeast Alaska (and two days of recovery), I'm ready to think about personal finance once again. Actually, it'll probably come as no surprise that I never st...

  • Is Your Spouse Hiding Debt? Recovering from Financial Infidelity (44 comments)

    I'm on vacation in Alaska. This is a guest post from MP Dunleavey, editorial director of DailyWorth.com, a free daily personal finance email for women. I've been a fan of Dunleavey's writing for a lon...

  • Six Steps to Strengthen Your Family on the Journey to Financial Freedom (43 comments)

    J.D. is on vacation in Alaska. This is a guest post from Dustin Riechmann. Dustin created Engaged Marriage to help others achieve the extraordinary in marriage and in life. Together, his family paid o...

  • The Business of Marriage: Five Things You Should Do Before Tying the Knot (46 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and getting her kids to eat kale at Childwild.com. I'm at a friend's wedding this weekend, traveling ...

  • Money and Relationships: A Matter of Control? (92 comments)

    Last week I gave a talk at Powell's bookstore here in Portland. During the question-and-answers session, one woman posed an interesting question. (I've forgotten her name, so let's call her Kim to mak...

  • Trading Happiness for Money: A Bad Bargain? (59 comments)

    I think a lot about happiness — about my own happiness and about the happiness of those around me. Knowing my interest in the subject, Kris forwarded a recent column from David Brooks of The New...

  • Reader Story: Be Happy on Your Own Terms (114 comments)

    This guest post from Joann is part of the "reader stories" feature here at Get Rich Slowly. Some reader stories contain general "how I did X" advice, and others are examples of how a GRS reader achiev...

  • Reader Story: How I Learned to Save LESS — and Loved It (62 comments)

    This guest post from Avistew is part of the new "reader stories" feature here at Get Rich Slowly. Some reader stories contain general "how I did X" advice, and others will be examples of how a GRS rea...

  • What Did Your Parents Teach You About Money? (122 comments)

    February was National Parent Leadership Month, which highlighted the role parents play in shaping the lives of their children. As a sort of tie-in, the most recent poll in the Get Rich Slowly sidebar ...

  • Reader Story: A Cautionary Tale (165 comments)

    This guest post from Maria is part of the new "reader stories" feature here at Get Rich Slowly. Some reader stories contain general "how I did X" advice, and others will be examples of how a GRS reade...

  • What Marriage Has Taught Me About Money (112 comments)

    This is a guest post from WC, a guy in Chicago that writes about money at The Writer's Coin. In May, I will celebrate my two-year anniversary with M, my favorite person in the world. I thought I kn...

  • Money Without Matrimony (42 comments)

    When you get married, figuring out the financial implications can be a challenge. Do you merge your money completely? Do you keep some or all of the accounts separate? And who takes care of which hous...

  • Love and Money: Do Savers Seek Spenders? (62 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. Social psychologists have found that people tend to choose their significant other based on similarities—similar attitudes, values, and even simil...

  • How to Talk with Your Spouse About Money (73 comments)

    This is a guest post from Sierra Black, a long-time GRS reader and the author of ChildWild, a blog where she writes about frugality, sustainable living, and getting her kids to eat kale. Talking ab...

  • Reader Story: How I Got Married on the Cheap — And Loved It! (122 comments)

    This guest post from Lars is part of a new feature here at Get Rich Slowly. Every Sunday will include a reader story (in the new "reader stories" category). Some will be general "how I did X" stories,...

  • Ask the Readers: Do You Buy Christmas Gifts For Your Spouse? (165 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Adam Baker. Baker recently listed the Top 10 Money Movies of the Decade. At this point, I hope you've done most of your Christmas shopping (and/or making). Only the...

  • Giving to Receive: What Legacy Will You Leave? (46 comments)

    This is a guest post from Tyler Tervooren, a long-time GRS reader. Tyler is a practical environmentalist who writes about the overlap of money, sustainability, and personal development at Frugally Gre...

  • Ask the Readers: How Do You Handle Peer Pressure? (207 comments)

    Your friends and family influence you. They affect the way you view life. If your friends are frugal, it's easier to be frugal yourself. But if they're wrapped up in consumerism and materialism, and c...

  • Are Pre-Nuptial Agreements For Everyone? (138 comments)

    This is a guest post from Andy Jolls, founder of VideoCreditScore.com. Andy ran the myFICO.com business for a number of years and now educates consumers with free credit videos. You can follow him on ...

  • Money and Marriage: Tackle Trouble BEFORE It Begins (73 comments)

    Ron Lieber writes the excellent "Your Money" column for The New York Times. Last week, he shared a list of four money talks to have before marriage. Lieber writes: Divorce tends to be emotionally...

  • Ask the Readers: How to Face a Family Financial Crisis? (91 comments)

    With the arrival of the GRS staff writers, the semi-regular "ask the readers" column has a new home. Look for this feature most weekends. "Ask the readers" is your chance to get (and give) advice abou...

  • Peer Pressure and Money: Do You Spend Differently with Friends? (85 comments)

    This is a guest post from Neal Frankle, a Certified Financial Planner and the blogger at The Wealth Pilgrim. Neal is a potential Staff Writer for Get Rich Slowly. His first post explored the benefits ...

  • Investing as a Couple: Draw on Your Differences (35 comments)

    This is a guest post from Cristina Adams, editor of DailyWorth. DailyWorth offers daily personal-finance tips for women. It’s official: Warren Buffet has a feminine side. Not that the billionaire...

  • My Sister’s Keeper: Sharing Financial Goals with an Accountability Partner (28 comments)

    "Don't you have any tips for single folks?" I'm often asked. Like any writer, I tend to write from my own experience — that of a married man. Fortunately, there are plenty of single people in th...

  • The Wisdom of My Father (50 comments)

    This is a guest post from Ann Zerkle, a Get Rich Slowly lurker, and the founder of Heroes of Capitalism. As the daughter of a truck driver and stay-at-home mom, my family lived very frugally (and...

  • Why Do You Want to Be Rich? (78 comments)

    I'm not the only one who has been thinking about the relationship between money and meaning lately. This is a guest post from CJ at WiseMoneyMatters.com, who is trying to live a rich life even as he w...

  • The Miser’s Peril: Why You Should Save for Tomorrow AND Enjoy Today (55 comments)

    I recently dropped in to speak with my accountant (who is also a good friend). We chatted about my finances, and we spent a little time discussing Get Rich Slowly. Somehow the conversation turned to f...

  • Ask the Readers: Debt Consolidation or Consumer Credit Counseling? (79 comments)

    One of my favorite parts of Get Rich Slowly is the weekly "Ask the Readers" section. It's fantastic to see how well this community pulls together to help each other find solutions to financial dilemma...

  • Finding Balance Between Time and Money (102 comments)

    Lately my personal focus has been on finding balance in my life. I'm trying to discover the proper place for money — and for time. Over the past few years, I've allowed money to become too impor...

  • Start a SwapLuck to Share the Things You Make and Do (25 comments)

    When I wrote about homesteading magazines in February, several people praised Countryside as the best of the bunch. Intrigued, I subscribed. I've received my first issue and I have to say: I'm impress...

  • A Frugal Dinner with Friends (67 comments)

    Kris and I had dinner last night with our new acquaintances friends, Chris and Jolie. Dinner was fun. This was in part because our hosts made a point of preparing a frugal meal. "If you bring wine," C...

  • Recession Romance: Make a Delicious Valentine’s Day Dinner at Home (59 comments)

    With Valentine's Day approaching, I polled my Twitter followers for their favorite frugal and romantic date ideas. Some of the great responses included: From @Finc_Confluence: "A photo scavenger ...

  • The Razor’s Edge: Lessons in True Wealth (160 comments)

    Our friends have a profound effect on our personal finance habits. Some friends can lead us to spending and to debt. Others offer insight into the virtues of thrift. For me, my friend Sparky has been ...

  • December 24, 1958: A Six-Dollar Christmas (21 comments)

    I'm on vacation. This is a guest post from my aunt. It's sort of a real-life "Gift of the Magi". My aunt and uncle (who is called "Pop" in this story) celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary this pa...

  • Ask the Readers: How Do You Talk to Your Loved Ones About Money? (80 comments)

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