This is a guest-post from Free Money Finance. It’s a follow-up to Mrs. Micah’s post earlier today.
A few weeks ago, J.D. and I were chatting when he asked me what it felt like to be debt-free.
He’d read on my blog that I had no debt and was curious if I’d write about it for Get Rich Slowly. In particular, he asked me to communicate both how I managed to pay off my mortgage (the biggest debt most people have) as well as how it felt when we did so. I was happy to accept his offer.
Just to note, the purpose of this post isn’t to debate whether or not paying off all debt is a good idea (versus only making mortgage payments and investing the rest, for example), so I’ve purposely left it out. My goal is simply to tell you our story — what happened and how we did it. From there, you can decide whether or not this path is for you. Since my wife and I are debt-haters, this option simply seemed natural to us. In addition, I can also tell you that living ten years without any debt has been a great feeling.
In the mid-90′s, we moved to the southern part of the U.S. Here’s how we paid off our mortgage in 1997 and haven’t had one since:
- We spent less than we earned starting as soon as we got married in the early 1990′s. We saved quite a bit, combined it with some previous savings and the equity from the sale of our Northeast home, and were able to come up with a down payment of about 35% of our new home’s value.
- We bought a house we could afford. Instead of stretching to buy the biggest house possible, we decided what we needed in a house and purchased a place that met those criteria. In the end, we only borrowed about 60% of what the bank said they’d let us borrow.
- We applied everything we could to retire the mortgage: extra payments (from still spending less than we earned), pay raises, bonuses, income from a side business, my wife’s income, and gifts. If money came in, it usually went to paying down the mortgage. However, we did not sacrifice what we considered to be better investments, such as fully funding my 401k.
- Within five years, we had the house completely paid off. We lived there a few more years, then when we moved to Michigan, we sold the house and paid cash for our new one. It’s now been ten years since we’ve had a mortgage.
In the early years, I got the biggest thrill out of paying extra on the mortgage. I’d make an additional payment and wipe out six to eight payments at one time (Quicken would show me the results.) During the first year, I eliminated several years of payments on a 30-year mortgage (something like eight years) and the thrill of making such great progress simply built and built into a snowball of enthusiasm. Each payment I made had a dramatic impact on the total, which fueled more payments, which had more impact, which fueled more payments and so on and so on.
Then there were the big hits — when I got a bonus or when we decided to forego a big vacation to put it against the mortgage. These large impacts to the debt made a huge difference and added fuel to the fire.
As we got close to paying off the entire amount, we were looking for anything we could find to put towards the mortgage. When the day came when we paid off the whole thing, we were thrilled, but I don’t think we realized the comforting feeling that was to come.
It’s been a long time since we’ve had a mortgage, so much of the “newness” and “excitement” has worn off. But it’s been replaced with a very peaceful feeling. You often hear the words “debt freedom” talked about, but can’t really grasp what they mean unless you are free from debt. I can honestly say that there is a great financial peace in knowing you don’t owe anyone anything.
Since we’ve paid off our mortgage, we’ve been able to save a bundle and give more to charitable causes we support. We’re now on track to retire by age 55 with more than enough to live on and no debts outstanding.
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[...] Free Money Finance talks about The Thrill of Paying Off a Mortgage [...]
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The thrill of paying off a mortgage is the opposite of the agony of never paying off rent.
I hope you’re all motivated to pay off that mortgage now.
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Hmm — I can certainly see the point in arguing between the advantages of renting vs. paying a mortgage. But the relative advantages of renting vs. a paid-in-full mortgage?
Hmm, I’d take the paid-in-full mortgage any day unless one factor was the most important: that I knew I’d want to move relatively soon.
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paid off before retiring 3 yrs ago–via Suze Orman…..great feeling, no house payments….work a little part time..very part time..smile.no debts…save a lot with Money Markets…no plans to move from sunny California–
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We paid off our house 2/06 small cape cod in Northeast, we don’t make big money (nurse and security officer) 1 child who we paid for college completely,paid for wedding, small amount given for down payment on her house.We are finishing off credit card debit.My point to this is many times I read pros and cons all types of sources but it came down to if either of us got laid off/fired we can stay in our house and do almost any job to cover the basics but we are safe.We have health ins, long term disability,term life all the safety nets in place and retirement funding of 401K and 403b.More people need to write about specifics on actual examples of how we did it for ideas for others.I used paper calendar for whole year, plotted out each pay check and what it would knock off.2 times a year there are 3 pay checks in a month those were used for lump sum payments or for a repair/upgrade in the house.
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The other aspect to consider with the “what if you’re losing money by not renting/paying the house off early?” argument is: if you’ve got a completely paid off house and money in the bank to cover your foreseeable needs for the future, does it really matter if you could’ve earned more money doing it the other way?
Once your needs are taken care of, “extra” is more a means of keeping score than anything else. Sure, there’s a measure of security in having a bigger number there to cover things you didn’t expect — but there’s another kind of security in not having to depend on your income-generating potential to pay for your shelter.
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Just curious to know/get an explanation why paying off mortgage is better than keeping mortgage to full term.
Other than not having a debt, I want to see some math why it is better or worse to have a mortgage.
I am actually for paying off mortgage, but somehow, everywhere I look, people like Dave Ramsey, Rob Black, etc. all say pay off all debts except for mortgage (and college loans I think) because this is a good debt. I think I am missing something.
I have friends who upgraded to million dollar homes to get an even larger mortgage because their financial advisors told them so. They said something about AMT but I did not get the full details.
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@doughboy
The nature of a mortgage is such that during the 1st few years, the majority of your payment is going toward interest, while at the end, most of the money is going toward paying down the principal. Therefore, a lump sum is “worth more” in paying down the amount you owe the earier on it is in the term.
Consider a $100,000 30-year loan at 6% as an example. If you made no extra payments, you would pay almost $216,000 total to pay off a $100,000 loan, most of which goes to the bank.
The reason that a mortgage is sometimes called “good debt” is because it is often at low interest rates compared to credit cards or the rates of return in the stock market. Some people argue that since you can make more than 6% in the stock market, you are better off not prepaying your mortgage. But any money you put into your mortgage is a guaranteed rate of return, while there are no guarantees in investments.
I really enjoyed this post and I am encouraged to see someone advocating paying off your mortgage as soon as you can.
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We paid our mortgage off early as well in only seven years [of a 15 year mortgage]. We did the same as many other people in that we live in a house that cost LESS than we could afford. We also did not forego contributions to our 401(k) or regular savings. Rather all bonuses went to the mortgage. We did not purchase things we did not really need. Surplus funds each month either went to savings or to pay down the mortgage.
We enjoy the feeling of security and we will be able to save the money we would have paid for an additional 127 payments. Now our goal is to continue to build up savings so that we will BOTH own our house and have a stream of income from investments which will give us the flexibility to retire early, take less stressful jobs, or other undertakings that might come to mind.
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Matt,
You’re saving on rent to begin with but to also leach off your parents by not helping them with the food budget, utilities, cable et al is just wrong. It will just lead to resentment on their part and leave you open to being called a leach (and rightfully so). As a minimum you ought to assist them with the food bill – as they’d have utilities, cable bills (though not as high) without you being there. I expect you to do the right thing.
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[...] more sense to invest the money. However, it’s also clear that eliminating a mortgage offers a tremendous psychological boost. I’ve never heard anyone say they regret owning their home [...]
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Great post. My husband bought our house 6 years ago, about a year before we started dating. In the past year we started our own business and own a writing company working from home. We’re $40,000 away from paying our house off. Pretty much anything we can put on the house has gone on it and we’ve made improvements to the house along the way. We’ve been literally making payments of $5-$10,000 a month on our house when possible. Our business has totally allowed us to do it. We’re planning on having it paid off by June of this year, just in time for our Vegas vacation.
We’re so excited. We don’t have any other debt than the house. We paid cash for our brand new car and our other car is paid off. We have neglected our retirement, but we plan on being able to make up for that in the coming year easily. I’m 25 and he’s 35, so this is so huge to us. We don’t know many people who are retired with a paid off house much less people our age.
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Wow, I am so excited … I am only 8 months away from paying off my mortgage. I’m looking forward to be 100% debt free, yeah!!!! My wife and I bought our house exactly 8 year ago. I remember our first day when we received the keys to our first home, it was so intimidated …you know as a first time home owner! What do we do now. …But, after we moved in everything fell into place and it has been smooth sailing ever since.
The closer it gets to paying off my mortgage the longer it feels. Hey, stay focus and you too we will be able to enjoy the joy of a debt free person. God Bless you and remember that God always loves you.
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Tax break on mortgage isn’t as big as people think. Married filing jointly get a 10k tax break if they don’t itemize. For us, we paid about $17k in interest last year, which is really $7k over not itemizing, for a total savings of $2k – $3k (30% taxes or whatever).
Secondly, Buffett said long term stock gains in the future will be more like 6% a year after taxes and that the future won’t keep up with the past returns. Buffett is a smart dude, so it seems like a wash.
Lastly, almost all financial advice seems to be for people who are looking to work like dogs for 40 years, invest, then retire with a few million completely bored in Florida. Seems like mortgage payers enjoy a more paced existence. So while you might make more in other investments, you don’t get to touch them until you’re retired. Not everyone wants to retire or have a ton of money. What am I going to do with millions when I exhausted from working? I’d rather take some mini-retirements in my 30s and 40s and continue to work as long as I feel like it. Seems more balanced this way.
This is a great article and really made me start thinking about it. I’m on board!
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Brian – I can not agree with you more. I am about 2 years away from paying off my mortgage and being debt free and I too am excited about the possibility of taking several months off in a row in a “mini-retirement” while still in my 30s and on. I believe I can enjoy my time much more now rather than later. There is no guarantee that either myself or my wife will be healthy enough or even around long enough to see a full retirement at 65 or 70 when most others retire. You cant take your millions with you but you will have that piece of mind from day 1.
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Brian, couldn’t agree with you more. My wife and I will be 100% debt free in about 2.5 years and we’re going to have a huge party afterward and invite all the people who said we couldn’t do it. Maybe we’ll send them on a paid vacation as well…just to humble them while we rub it in:)
I always hear about this concept of not paying off the house but instead working like dogs your whole life and investing like crazy in stocks for maybe $50,000 more when you retire. What? Does anyone know anyone who’s ever done this? I can manage to live this frugally for a few years knowing that there’s a big payout coming right up. But to be so frugal for you’re whole life just to die with a little more money(MAYBE)just seems rediculous to me. I’ll post again when I take my first minni retirement!
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I just paid off my House. I had my Mortgage for a total of 8 years. This last year I concentrated fully on paying it off. It was hard at first to see all my paychecks go directly into my mortgage..After all I am American and I naturally want to buy stuff!
For me knowing that if I was hurt or lost my Job no matter how long I have been in my house it really belonged to the Bank and they are not in the forgiveness business!I have to admitt at this point it doesnt seem real.I really didnt think I could do it..WHOOOOOO HOOOOOO!!!
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My wife and I sold some land we had in early 2007 and used the $100,000 profit we made to pay off our mortgage. My (former) accountant/investment advisor told us we were crazy because our mortgage rate was 6.25% and the stock market returns 10% annually. Well guess what, I would still be down 15% if I had invested that money and I would still be paying a mortgage each month. As a self employed contractor, I haven’t lost one minute of sleep during this recession because I’m mortgage free. What a feeling!
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I can’t wait to pay off my mortgage as well. After seeing what happened in the stock market I am looking for a safe bet. I don’t plan to move anytime soon and I want to actually own my home… instead of using it as an ATM. I have been reading about the pros and cons, but the sense of sucurity from owning your house must be priceless. Like Bob said, you won’t lose sleep from your mortgage payment. I have a blog setup http://www.payingoffmyhouse.com to keep me honest. I know that if I am reminded daily of my goal I will eventually reach it.
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Josh, I went to your ‘blog’ and all you have there is sponsored advertisements. Disappointing, thought you were genuine..
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I am 2 weeks from writing my last check… and youll see it happen when I submit my video to the contest
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My wife and I just paid off our home yesterday, and I turn 35 next week! It’s the best birthday present ever, and we’ll truly be independent this 4th of July! God has been good, and it is amazing how hard work and living simply can pay off!
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My wife will be 39 when we pay our house off and I will be 47…. the world is open to us after that. I have been also contributing the maximum to my 401k for over 20 years. I just bought a house the size we needed, stayed in it, watched folks by houses too big, lose their jobs and lose their houses. I don’t care what anyone says, paying off your mortgage is one of life’s ah ha moments…. most folks keep buying a bigger one and working harder to pay for it. We are going to travel…. alot…. Maybe even buy a little place by the ocean… to eventually move to when we sell our “first house”… who knows… the world will be ours.
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I think the number one reason to pay a house off…
The feeling or experiences (for once on your life) to be “un-plugged” from the over dramatized media on economic, and political housing news which cause people to panic over nothing.
Also, with a house paid off, you don’t need to be at the mercy of people who make boardroom decisions on whether your job becomes targeted for a layoff.
The impact of losing your job, becomes “a no-big-deal” moment, because you have the satisfaction of knowing, the only risks, truly falls on your employer, and not on the jeopardy of your home and/or neighborhood you love.
For me, the American Dream is not (and I repeat…) is not having the bank be your mortgage-holders. The American Dream, is the spirit and ideas of owning your home free and clear within a neighborhood you love, and improve. This is the best investment for our economy, because it’s a ROCK SOLID move which strengthens our values, and betters our neighborhoods IMHO. Buying and owning your home, is good for Americans.
If you find the right home, “buy it out-right” and make it an even better place.
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I paid off my mortgage and got my certificate of title to my home today. It saved me tens of thousands of dollars in interest to throw some extra $$’s at it to pay it a few years early.
What a relief that now I will never ever be forced to leave my home if my financial circumstances turn bad. Security of tenure in your own home is the best feeling! No-one ‘owns’ my future decisions any more. Whew.
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We paid our house of LAST FRIDAY. This Friday, I will receive my first paycheck without having to pay anything towards a mortgage. The rules he describes above, such as spending less than you earn and buying a house than you can afford are a requirement. We were sending two mortgage payments a month. In the end, I decided to cut it short by several years by cashing out my 401(K) and paying off the house. Warren Buffet himself has already stated that investors can probably expect an average return of 4% annually this century. Century, not year or even decade. When you compare 4% return with my 3.75% mortgage, cashing out my 401(K) when it was at the top didn’t seem suicide. The peace of mind that I have felt since Friday when I mailed the cashier’s check can’t even be described properly with words. I left the bank shaking to drive to the post office to mail the check, the last check, to the mortgage company. I am no longer the bank’s CEO’s slave. I now can invest my monthly mortgage payment towards my retirement, but I will do it peacefully as I know the roof over my family’s head is ours. As of last Friday, my debt to income ratio is 0%.
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We paid our house off in march. Man did April 1st feel good when we did not have that mortgage payment deducted. Instead we sent it to the retirement account. We Pay ourselves now. We are 41 and 42 living in a paid for house with no debt. We decided to to it in case the job went away. In our state it could happen at anytime being a teacher. So if it does we just need to pay taxes and upkeep. Heck we heat with wood so we could hunt for food. Happy to know we saved about 300000 in interest over 30 years by doing this.
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Hi All,
Great Posts!
Q) We now have duplex, home, and Manufactured home paid off. Home is built so that we could split up from down and have seperate entrances/yards ect.. So we have rented downstairs for 3years(1410) ..paid off is great plus income.
Now we have the manafactured home vacant again as we carried note (is in great area) and they gave it back (after paying us $67k) so we confused … do we move into mobile home and rent our place or try to resale mobile(is in park only owners can live there)
is hard decision …
in any event is a good problem to have right now …
Answers to the above: NEVER MOVE IN W FAMILY THEY MOVE IN WITH YOU IS BETTER … UNLESS HAVE TO OR IS SEPERATE LIKE GUEST HOUSE…
One thing may help anyone trying to pay off … if you learn how to become a landlord(and this is not for the unwise) it CAN payoff if down right …
Option: can rent out anything you own with a mortgage … make it pay its own way …
I see properties with a mortgage like chains on my neck … and am firm believer unless one is well off that home should pay its own way ie it should earn its keep … consider moving to small apartment and renting house to help pay off …
Sell anyhome with mortgage if can buy another and pay-off in less time that said i dont like selling what you have as is hard to get another … everyones area is different and mine happens to be excellent for renting so it works for me maybe not for all …
I cant stand paying property taxes and mortgage with no return or income from the home ..
I love this site … you know sometimes i think there is no secret formula its so individual and has broad range of solutions dependent on many factors … one thing i know if you average person income you will never be free with a mortage unless very small … wish i had the above info in 1992 when i purchased my 1st home would have helped me alot …
Can tell you we are both in are 40′s and now have over $6700 a month in rental income with now debt plus our jobs incomes … we owe nothing is very nice to accumulate cash and have options … that said i never knew that options even good ones could cause one stress in decision making …
Everydecision once have money seems just as important as one you make when dont have money or property and are working to get there …
am taling way to much
sorry
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