I have been re-watching the documentary “Jiro Dreams of Sushi” for the past couple of months. I’ve seen it at least 10 times, probably more, while writing drafts for this article. I’ve watched it alone, with my wife, with friends, and I don’t tire of it; I’ve recommended it to everyone I know, and now I’m wholeheartedly recommending it to you.
This little gem of a documentary by David Gelb takes a look at the work and life of Jiro Ono, a Michelin three-star sushi chef who, at 85 years of age, continues to work on his craft every day at his tiny restaurant in a Tokyo office building basement opposite a subway station entrance. His colleagues, his country, and at least one very knowledgeable food writer recognize him as perhaps the greatest sushi chef alive.
I have watched this film in fascination, trying to extract lessons from this master. What have I learned from him? And what questions do these lessons open up for me?
You must fall in love with your work
“Once you decide on your occupation,” says Jiro, “you must immerse yourself in your work. You have to fall in love with your work. Never complain about your job. You must dedicate your life to mastering your skill. That’s the secret of success and is the key to being regarded honorably.”
Jiro himself is enormously happy with his work; he is a blissful craftsman who truly enjoys his work, which keeps him vital in his old age.
However, it’s crucial to note that he doesn’t say “find work that you love,” as if suggesting one goes on some romantic quest in search for the perfect job, but rather he tells us to love the work we have chosen.
This means to consciously and voluntarily cultivate love, much like we do in a marriage. This is different from a teenage crush whereby one gets struck in the head by a random force and goes temporarily mad, only to wake up to disillusioned weeks or months later. Jiro’s path to joyful work requires a lifetime of devotion.
This brings to mind a more common conception of work some of us have: We tend to categorize jobs as being either “passion work” or “work just for the money.” Then we tell ourselves that passion work is a pipe dream and we must endure a lifetime of mindless toil until the day we retire and begin to enjoy life.
What would happen, I wonder, if we consciously and purposefully loved the jobs we feel condemned to do “just for the money”? Could this perhaps completely revolutionize our relationship with work, increase our quality of life, and diminish our hunger for retirement?
Specialize, simplify, go deep
Sushi is by definition a minimalist food, and Jiro has taken this simplicity to another level, not only in his sushi-making technique, but also in the composition of his menu. Unlike other restaurants of its kind, Jiro’s does not serve appetizers. Rather, they create a daily menu of about 20 pieces of sushi per person. He serves sushi only, and no other dishes.
Moreover, his restaurant has only 10 seats. This allows the staff to focus on preparing top-quality sushi and serving each client the best possible way, noticing little details like how much they eat or if they are right- or left-handed.
Jiro’s eldest son, Yoshikazu, who is a sushi chef in his own right but still works with his father as the heir apparent, says that at the restaurant they try to repeat the same thing every day. What’s left implied is that mastery results from this constant repetition.
This focus goes beyond the confines of work: Jiro repeats the same routine every day, down to standing on the same spot to take the train. He dislikes holidays and wants to return to work as soon as possible.
It seems to me that Jiro increases his creativity by going deep, rather than wide — start with an automatic daily routine, pursue a narrow focus at work, and within that narrow focus, the combination of talent and hard work open up a universe for creative exploration.
This reminds me of that mad genius William Blake, who wrote in “Auguries of Innocence”:
To see a world in a grain of sand
And a heaven in a wild flower,
Hold infinity in the palm of your hand,
And eternity in an hour.
With happiness like that, who needs vacations?
Loving your work requires sacrifice
If we stick for a moment with the “passion work” scenario I mentioned earlier, I notice that some people tend to assume that doing work you love is free of difficulties and that everything will be well in your life if you just switch careers. It is not. Doing work you love may cost you dearly, especially in the initial stages, and everyone choosing such a path should be willing to pay the price of admission.
In my case, pursuing studies in the humanities and striking out on my own instead of finding a place in academia meant I have to work longer hours and make less money compared with people working in established organizations and with perhaps fewer years of education.
I have made peace with that fact because I am doing work that I love, but the trade-off is evident. Today I aim to increase my income to a more comfortable level by cultivating focus and honing my skills, but it’s a steep climb. Still, this was a conscious choice that I do not regret.
I know this may seem to contradict a little bit what I said earlier about loving the work you’ve chosen, but I guess what I’m trying to say is that loving your work can at times be difficult, but if you persevere you will find yourself rewarded for it.
In the case of Jiro, the demands of his job kept him away from his family while his children were growing up. He also had to struggle against poverty; when he got married he had no money in the bank, and years later his kids had to save for months before they could afford a Coca-Cola.
Things have changed today, Jiro shares a good relationship with his children, who learned their craft from their father, but it took years of sacrifice and hard work to get there. Jiro himself had to endure being slapped or kicked during his learning years, but he didn’t quit. He’s had apprentices, however, who only lasted a day in his kitchen.
The point of this, to me, is that the kind of bliss Jiro finds in his daily work can’t be achieved through quick solutions and four-hour workweeks. It takes hard, intense, concentrated, and often painful work. Dream jobs don’t simply work their magic because you find them; they do because you marry them for life and they reward you for your efforts as years go by.
I am not suggesting, of course, that citizens of 21st-century Western democracies with different cultural prejudices put up with unfair or unsafe work conditions, but Jiro’s tale is a reminder that love and sacrifice can reward us in transcendental ways that cannot be reduced to quick formulas for easy success. His path may not be for everyone, but I believe it’s at least worthy of examination.
On the next installment: more lessons from Jiro. Meanwhile, please enjoy the movie if you get a chance.
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Very inspiring story. I have met a few people like this chef who just love what they do, usually a manual craft, and do it so well their love is contagious. It is harder now, to fall in love with a corporate job, especially when you want to go fast, ascend, skip steps. All the opposite of the mindfulness and slow process described here. I am hoping to find that drive one day.
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I interviewed a career coach once and she told me that a lot of people confuse dissatisfaction with their job with dissatisfaction with their career. Some people, she said, love what they do but don’t love where they’re doing it.
I think I’ve reached that point. I love what I do, but I don’t love how our company has been treating us in the past several months. I’m not quit ready to strike out on my own, but I wonder if I’ll be happier in the long run leveraging my career into self-employment.
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I don’t know that self-employment is for all, but it is for me, problems and all, though it is not without traps.
In self-employment you can also fall into unpleasant deals– I recently had to part ways with a client who interfered so much with our work that the quality of our output suffered and all the work that went into fixing things ate into the profits.
We were trapped and losing sleep about this situation for several months… anyway, long story, will save for a different article.
One thing I’ll be discussing in part 2 though is the issue of knowing who you are (“leader or collaborator” says Jiro) and how we find our roles.
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I’m looking forward to hearing more, El Nerdo
Right now I appreciate the security of a regular pay check and have loved the jobs I’ve had with corporations. Both of my parents were self-employed at one point in their careers, so it’s definitely not a decision I’ll make lightly.
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Very valuable advice, also for those contemplating striking out on their own or starting something for a side income. If you are, it is wise, as El Nerdo says, to pick a narrow specialty and focus on being a hero to a few, rather than just another vendor to many.
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I find that my day goes by better when I actually try to like my job. The days that I am miserable at work take forever and just puts me in a bad mood. Our culture is taught to love what you do, which is important. However, there are some jobs that just need to be done to make society function smoothly.
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I think not everyone can be a 3-star Michelin chef but you’re right, if we can really put our mind in our work instead of wasting time complaining about it we will enjoy it more.
JD had this story about working at two fast food chains when he was in highschool (or thereabouts). The McDonalds was well-run and everyone was happy in it and did their best. The Burger King was poorly managed and nobody cared and everyone was miserable.
Just this past weekend I was watching the documentary “Happy” and one of the featured people is a short-order cook in a diner. The man literally dances as he works.
Then there are the “dirty jobs” that people are happy doing.
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The movie is currently available for free on Amazon Prime.
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“striking out on my own instead of finding a place in academia meant I have to work longer hours and make less money”
As the wife of an academic, I’d love to know where these high-paying, low-hour jobs in academia are! He works constantly for so little; we’re always wondering if he should bail into the private sector. This was probably just a rhetorical flourish on your part, but I think things are tough all around.
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Hi Yozka,
I get what you’re saying, but we have a circle of artist/academic friends, and the tenure-track folks are the one-percenters of our world!
I mean, many of us teach or have taught or are looking for teaching jobs just so we can eat. And these are adjunct jobs I’m talking about– no benefits, nothing. The tenure-trackers are buying homes while the rest of us are looking for ever-cheaper rentals (some even couch-surf on occasion).
My wife and I decided to skip the teaching thing and focus on the creative work, and make it work come hell or high water. It hasn’t been easy but we’re making progress- though we’re still definitely “the working poor”.
One of our friends who used to be a “famous” artist is now a tenured professor because of economic pressures– when she complains to us about money, we laugh to her face. “You eat at restaurants!” we tell her.
Then again, she’s not an investment banker.
Wealth is definitely relative!
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I watched that on Netflix the other day! He was almost obsessive about his sushi. Very entertaining stuff!
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While there are definitely some things about how you are describing Jiro’s career that I wouldn’t be on board with in my own life, there’s a lot of great messages here. I might not be intent on on loving a job I do just to pay the bills, but I am intent on liking that job, and I take pride in doing it to the best of my abilities and always trying to improve.
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Very inspiring story. By the way, It’s really true that citizens of 21st-century Western democracies with different cultural prejudices put up with unfair or unsafe work conditions.
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Ha ha, yeah, hm, I think my sentence construction was confusing? I didn’t mean that this doesn’t happen, I meant that I wouldn’t suggest that we let it happen. Sorry if that wasn’t clear.
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While not having watched the movie, I will say that he is narrow in a major aspect of his work, not necessarilly all his work. He is not just a chef who sits before his stove or cutting board and processes food. He has to consider his vendors, plan deliveries, order staples, cator to customers, ensure his rent is paid, etc. even for the small business he has since his stand and sushi are only as good as the raw ingrediants and location he choses. I am sure he has taken not just years, but decades, in finding ways to handle that aspect of his business as well (he may delegate, but in the end he is responsible) and many of these aspects can change over time and he must find ways to adapt to those changes. Do not assume that because he has a narrow focus that it divorces him from looking past the front of his shop.
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It does seem like America is obsessed these days with “finding your dream job” and not ‘settling’ for anything. But this post brings up a great idea, which is, find love and joy in whatever it is that you do. Make the job you have now your dream job. I think there’s a lot of job disatisfaction today and I think it’s because our expectations have gotten so freaking high and unrealistic!
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Thank you for sharing this. I will definitely check this movie out in the next few days. I have long thought that the ‘follow your passion’ camp of self-help gurus were not only wrong, but potentially dangerous. Thanks for sharing what seems to me to be wisdom around the idea of work.
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Yep, I’ve watched this documentary and it is gorgeous (wrote a blog post about it too!). I was also struck in particular by his love for what he does, and the immense care and effort that he puts in. It’s really quite touching and I hope that there will always be people who are so dedicated to their craft.
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One of the best posts ever. The whole “finding your passion” idea is fraught with problems, not least the anguish that comes from searching and wondering. Thank you for an inspiring post.
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Thank you for sharing this; it really resonates and puts a different light on the mentality of work. Probably not a movie I would’ve picked for myself, but I’ll be watching for it now
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What an incredible post! Thank you for sharing. So many lessons to be learned.
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Sadly for William Blake, that stanza is used in the first Tomb Raider, and every time I read it all I can think of is Angelina Jolie.
Loved this post though, and love sushi! I’ll have to add this to my netflix queue
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I saw this documentary too, and while I greatly admire the dedication and focus that Jiro has towards his work, I felt terribly sorry for his wife and kids. Someone who dedicates that much to their work lacks a sense of balance in their life, and while that way of life made him happy, I don’t think it particularly made his family happy.
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One of the friends I watched it with brought that up, in fact, wondering about missed birthdays and that kind of stuff.
It did make me wonder, but it’s hard to reach a clear conclusion because the documentary doesn’t touch on that.
There are in Japan people who overwork themselves to death though (this isn’t letting me link, but do a search for karoshi), so it seems to me that Jiro is not the only person who has to work all the time in his culture.
However, while work kills other people, it seems to be keeping Jiro young, strong, and lucid. Why is that, is what I’m trying to figure out. He did have a heart attack at age 70 though, and subsequently quit smoking, but I don’t have enough information to know.
Like I said, I wouldn’t suggest that you or I put up with murderous work schedules, or let ourselves get slapped and kicked at work, but there is something about this guy that sets him apart from other people, and I’m trying to figure out what is it.
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GREAT observation! And that’s the rub. When success happens it takes dedication and/or luck. Since we all can’t rely on luck, dedication tends to be the prime factor. When venturing on my own path, my husband was the only person I dedicated time to, everyone else was notified of my planned absence and temporary presence and knew that the importance (to me) of the project was to produce success for all—or bust. Thankfully, it worked out. But I will say this, I have an extremely cooperative and equally determined husband, that played the role of ambassador and fan, he understood the trade-off and respected his placement in all of that. He fortunately lived my dreams for and with me— and at the age of 45, it’s finally his turn. I’m now taking the backseat, I’m taking his prior post, I’m retiring from my own 20 year passion…because it is his turn—as we planned all along. And man! It is so fun to watch that enthusiasm again. It’s like being re-born. (And no, our passions together could not have been pursued simultaneously) THANK YOU NERDO!
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I watched this video early this year and was incredibly inspired by his work ethic and dedication. On the other hand, as Amy pointed out, the brunt of the sacrifice was taken by his family.
It brings to mind a quote by Francis Chan:
“Our greatest fear should not be of failure but of succeeding at things in life that don’t really matter.”
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Hi Jacque,
Your comment was eaten by spamfilters (not sure why, the server is bananas) but I just fished it out. Already replied to the points you make in my reply to Amy.
However, I’ll add– his relationship with his sons seems to me to be very loving one.
The fact that he couldn’t see his children much while they grew up might not have been his choice, or it might have been the “tough love” choice of doing what he could to save them from poverty and destitution (because he grew up an orphan and was abandoned by his father when he was 7).
The invitation to jump to conclusions is certainly there, but there really isn’t enough information for me to say “this is what was going on with his family.”
His present relationship with his sons, however, I see as one of strong love and caring– I can see that in the way the talk to each other and about each other and the way they care.
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“However, I’ll add– his relationship with his sons seems to me to be very loving one. ”
I don’t know if there is a choice, though. In Asian cultures, as far as I know, you obey your elders. Even as adults, there is none of this “cutting out toxic relationships” concept. One cannot simply “cut” family ties, as easy as people do here in the West. Secondly, in Asian cultures, you’re responsible to maintain your family’s good name. Therefore any resentment or conflict within the family must be kept within the family and to the outside world, we must show that we’re strong and united.
The movie is great and when I saw it, it made me yearn for life back in Asia, the values I was taught. The lessons are great but I don’t know if I can recommend westerners to follow working their asses and sacrificing family, because people here are not built to withstand such treatment.
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Well, of course, neither can I, which is why I ended the article with more or less that caveat.
About the family name, tradition, etc.– okay, but did you hear what Jiro said about his own parents while he was visiting their grave? Daaaaaaamn. He’s totally putting it out there.
This is precisely the reason I stuck to approaches to work and kept the psychoanalysis out of the article — we really don’t know enough about this family to make a judgment. All we can do is speculate. But once the cat is out of the bag, I’ll speculate he is a good loving father who thinks a lot about his children.
What I’m asking of readers here is simpler though– can we learn anything from this guy? Can we apply some of what he does to our own lives? We don’t have to copy everything he does. Even Jiro’s younger son, who apprenticed with his father, doesn’t do exactly the same thing– his restaurant, by his own words, offers “a more relaxed atmosphere”.
I’m sure us westerners will remain casual and continue to watch sports on weekends (I do)– applying mindfulness and practicing love of the work we’ve chosen isn’t going to destroy that though, but it could help end the misery so many people feel at work.
Life doesn’t have to be a succession of TGIFs.
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Really enjoy reading your analysis of things, Nerdo, and I’m putting this on my queue.
Reminds me of my mom a bit. She hated–HATED–her job when she first started it years ago. Didn’t enjoy the work; didn’t enjoy the people she worked with. But she had no other choice, so she decided she was going to love it no matter what. According to her, it worked, and she ended up truly loving her job, and even (most) of the people she works with!
She said when you can’t change anything else, change your attitude. I love that.
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Reading posts like this reminds me how lucky I am that I love the work that I do. I fell into it by accident, encouraged by a boss that thought it might be a good fit for me. I’ve chosen to “go deep”, and although it’s taken some time, it’s really paid off. Someone asked me the other day if there was a subject matter expert that I could turn to and I realized that it was me! (Again, very narrow field). I’m in my mid-50′s with no desire to retire, so I generally delete all of those retire-by-40 articles because I love what I do.
Just as an fyi, I work for a government agency. Finding your niche and work that you love is not limited to being self-employed. It’s about keeping your heart and mind open to opportunity and not being afraid to try some new things.
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Thanks for this, Nerdo! I’m in grad school and have recently been really down about my work. I really needed to hear this perspective and remind myself that I DO love the work that I have chosen, I just need to find ways to remember that when it feels too hard.
It’s amazing how reframing your attitude can totally change the situation. Great article.
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I am wondering how to interpret loving the work I do in the context of a corporate career track. In a lot of companies, including mine, progressing up the ladder means changing what you do, in some steps rather dramatically – moving from selected tasks to more oversight work, adding responsibilities around clients, vendors, etc, adding people management, all depends on the specifics. What if you like what you do on the current level, but you don’t care about the added responsibilities one level up? I’ve seen people (e.g. in IT) refuse to be promoted to managers because they like their current work a lot. I myself when the time came to step on a level that took me more towards client networking and away from project management, I chose to step sideways on a parallel track I liked better, but which also involved job change.
It’s a bit like the Peter Principle, but not so much about the level of ability as the level of enjoyment you get from your job.
I guess what I am saying is that if we think of complex corporate jobs you don’t have the leeway to stay in one stop and just master what you are doing, you either do this and get bypassed for promotions, or you chose to go up the ladder often at the cost of moving away from the job aspects you like.
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I definitely find el Nerdo’s thoughts as shared in this post highly intriguing. I’m going to make an extra effort to apply the lessons here. Also, I’ll check out the suggested film. Thanks!
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Requested the film from the library – thanks for the recommendation!
This article is very interesting and I hope to see the film before you publish Part Two. BTW – how many parts? And when will the next be?
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Thanks Samantha,
I think just 2 parts. I was having a hard time keeping all my ideas within the word limit. I didn’t want to just list a bunch of things without analysis, so I’ll deal with other approaches/strategies in part 2.
When will it be published? I’m writing it right now (wanted to get comments first to adjust for part 2) but publishing schedule depends on the boss (and how soon I turn this in, anyway).
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Important existential question: should I view this movie while eating my grocery store sushi, or will the pure excellence of the movie sushi make me resentful of the luxury I cannot obtain??
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The latter, I’m afraid– in a big way. Plus the documentary touches briefly on what the popularity of supermarket sushi is doing to tuna stocks.
Pour yourself a beer though, so you can say “aaaaaah!” with Yoshikazu when he attempts to define “umami.”
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I always felt that if you love your work you will be good at it. If you are good at it, you will do well financially.
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Great documentary, and an excellent set of conclusions drawn from it in this post.
One of my favorite points:
“…some people tend to assume that doing work you love is free of difficulties and that everything will be well in your life if you just switch careers. It is not. Doing work you love may cost you dearly, especially in the initial stages, and everyone choosing such a path should be willing to pay the price of admission.”
I’ve chosen this path, passing up opportunities to work in the field I chose for college, and after 6 years I’m finally seeing the rewards for my struggles and dedication.
Thanks for the insight and ideas!
Kyle
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This is my favorite part of this great article. “You must fall in love with your work” And it really does!!!
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Thanks for a great post, El Nerdo! And I love the comments and your responses to them. It’s rare to find someone on a huge fan blog who responds to comments. It shows that you care about the readers, and commented that you are going to tailor the part 2 because of feedback. Wow!
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We love you, El Nerdo. You are definitely my favourite writer on GRS.
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El Nerdo,
I feel this was the best article you’ve written to date on GRS. Very thought-provoking. Very well done. Looking forward to part 2.
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This calls to mind MLK Junior’s ‘Street sweeper’ speech. Gets to me every time. I wonder what such an outlook on life would do for our society’s mental health? I know too many people who have slipped into depression because life didn’t bring them the job of their dreams.
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I found it! I had never heard or read it, this is great!
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts on “Jiro Dreams of Sushi!” I really enjoyed the film, and got a lot out of your comments!
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El Nerdo,
Can all the movies you review be found on netflix or elsewhere?? I really wanted to watch your last one Queen of Versallies but i couldn’t find it. I’m interested in this one as well . Please let me know thanks
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Hi Teinegurl
I watched Queen of Versailles at the theatre (tax deductible!) and it’s only touring in a few towns now BUT the DVD/BluRay come out Nov 13 (just found out) so it should be on Netflix in 6 more days! (and who knows, maybe streamable too).
Jiro is DEFINITELY on Netflix streaming right now (also on DVD and BluRay). I’ve watched the stream only, but I’d love to see it on BluRay just because it’s so gorgeous. Anyway, you have options.
Also one of the commenters (see above) said it’s streaming free on Amazon Prime. I’m not sure what Amazon Prime is (lol @ my consumer ignorance) but I like the sound of “free”.
I hope that helps!
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Thank you for the response! i dont know what amazon prime is either but netflix or maybe even redbox may have it so that helps thanks!
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One of the best posts I’ve read on your site. Thank you!
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“You must fall in love with your work”, this reminds me of Cal Newport’s message on his blog studyhack. Rather than endlessly searching for your passion start where you are and fall in love with what your doing. You can become a master!
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I watched this video early this year and was incredibly inspired by his work ethic and dedication. On the other hand, as Amy pointed out, the brunt of the sacrifice was taken by his family.
Thanks!!
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