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Self-Improvement


  • Ask the Readers: Are you reaching your goals? (44 comments)

    This article is by editor Linda Vergon. Remember when 2014 was new? I’d rather not think about it, but more than half the year is behind us already and we’re moving into fall fairly quickly. Fo...

  • Using “Decisive” for your decisions (29 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Lisa Aberle. The older I get, the more complicated my life gets -- and the harder it is for me to make decisions. Do we have anything in common there? By far, the...

  • Weird ways our brains control our money habits (22 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong. I'll admit it. I'm a sucker for money psychology studies. And it's not just because I write about money. On a sheer curiosity level, they're fascinating....

  • Our brains on scarcity: The trap of not having enough (Part I) (36 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong. (This is a two-part series. Part II is "Our brains on scarcity: Breaking out of the trap.") I recently discovered the book "Scarcity: Why Having Too Lit...

  • How to negotiate when you hate negotiating (19 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong. In an ideal world, you wouldn't need to go negotiate. In an ideal world, the weather would be perfect, there would be no war, and your employer would si...

  • Teaching life skills to your children (22 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Lisa Aberle. While I've tackled many kid-centered topics, like how to save on kids' clothes, should you buy your kid a car, or pay for your child's college, you k...

  • A guide to managing your fear of money (23 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong. My first year of high school, I was looking for an easy, goof-off elective -- a class that would allow me to take a break in between Geometry and Engli...

  • Overwork and the illusion of a “high-paying” job (67 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong. I recently read a short article in The New Yorker titled "The Cult of Overwork." In it, James Surowiecki writes: "For decades, junior bankers and Wall...

  • The Second Annual Chautauqua on Wealth and Happiness (10 comments)

    Hey, everybody. J.D. here. Last September, I traveled to Ecuador to participate in a good old-fashioned chautauqua. Near Otavalo, I joined Mr. Money Mustache, Jim Collins, and Cheryl Reed to share wha...

  • Pick your hobbies strategically and save (73 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Honey Smith. For the most part, we think of hobbies as activities that we naturally gravitate toward. The idea of being strategic in our selection of hobbies may seem ...

  • On a time crunch? Squeeze more out of your day (50 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Lisa Aberle. When I (or others) want to improve our financial situations, most excuses involve time. I am too busy to take on another job. I don't have time to st...

  • Heal your money shame in 3 simple steps (22 comments)

    This guest post is from Kate Northrup. Kate is the author of the new book, Money: A Love Story. She’s leading a live online event called A Course in Having Enough with guest teachers Marianne Willia...

  • 4 steps to finding financial improvement (33 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Lisa Aberle. The two worst years of my financial life were 2007 to 2009. Before 2007, our income was low, but our expenses were low, too. We didn't save much, but we ...

  • You Are the Boss of You: How to Find Success with Life and Money (71 comments)

    Note: This article is from J.D. Roth, who founded Get Rich Slowly in 2006. It marks his return as a contributor to this site. J.D.'s non-financial writing can be found at More Than Money. "What do ...

  • The high cost of saying ‘no’ (25 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. Before I became a full-time freelancer, I worked in the communications department at a large non-profit. The organization hosted several events every yea...

  • Should you ever work for free? (42 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sarah Gilbert. I lose count of my "jobs" these days: my literary writing (that theoretically pays, or had better one day or else), a nonprofit board on which I serv...

  • Reader Stories: How I built up the courage to quit a promising career with a six-figure salary (42 comments)

    This reader story is from a longtime GRS reader Sumitha, who blogs at afineparent.com. Some reader stories contain general advice; others are examples of how a GRS reader achieved financial success or...

  • Financial advice for my former self (80 comments)

    This is a post from staff writer Holly Johnson. This year, our office welcomed a 24-year-old professional into our tight-knit group. Aside from making everyone else in the office feel really, reall...

  • 9 traits of underearners (75 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Kristin Wong. I just read Barbara Stanny's "Secrets of Six-Figure Women." I was happy to find that I share similar traits to the 150 women she interviewed. But there ...

  • Friends and philosophies of personal finance (32 comments)

    This post is by staff writer Honey Smith. Recently one of my bridesmaids came to my city to attend a professional conference, and we were fortunate to be able to spend some time together as well. Thi...

  • Building a life we value (57 comments)

    The reason why I think "earn more" is better than "spend less" is not simply because more money gives us more options to amass a positive net worth, or because I don't like to spent my time transpor...

  • Ask the Readers: What are your favorite personal finance blogs? (159 comments)

    Of course, you’re a loyal reader of Get Rich Slowly – and we certainly appreciate it! But what other blogs do you read, and why do you like them? Many readers have mentioned Mr. Money Mustache ...

  • My New Year’s resolution: lowering the bar for happiness (68 comments)

    A blog to which I contribute recently won a contest, and upon finding out, my boyfriend suggested that we celebrate. "Oh, no, it's not a huge deal," I told him. "It was just a small contest." He...

  • The morality of personal finance (80 comments)

    I was running last Sunday night. I had waited too long to start my run, and it was dark. I've taken to using my iPhone to track my runs, because I'm very motivated by the additive nature of all my r...

  • This year, switch and get things done (28 comments)

    Friends: this is only an arbitrary calendar, but still, it's a nice mental paradigm to start counting again from day one. Don't forget to write the correct year when you write your next check! (Tha...

  • Take a deep breath: Letting go of financial stress (31 comments)

    I've been reading through some of my old posts and thinking about what I wanted for this, my very-end-of-the-year statement on money. And what I saw was a lot (a lot) of angst and worry and stress. ...

  • Getting rich slowly on my own terms (47 comments)

    Over the last six months, I have had several articles published at Get Rich Slowly. However, I have never had the pleasure of formally introducing myself. My name is Holly Johnson, and I am a 32 yea...

  • More fun with life and death (29 comments)

    This is a post from staff writer Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the adviser for The Motley Fool’s Rule Your Retirement service. I’ve always assum...

  • When you just can’t get the important stuff done (38 comments)

    This is a post from staff writer Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the adviser for The Motley Fool’s Rule Your Retirement service. He contributes one new...

  • Ask the Readers: Do Your Morals Cost You More? (163 comments)

    This is a guest post from personal finance writer Gwendolyn Pearce. I'm considering building a chicken coop. I'm thinking about this choice because paying over $5 for a dozen eggs seems ridicul...

  • The Power of Personal Tranformation: Change Your Self, Change the World (116 comments)

    Note: On July 8th, I gave the closing keynote at World Domination Summit 2012. After listening to Brené Brown talk about vulnerability, Susan Cain talk about introversion, Scott Harrison talk about b...

  • World Domination Summit 2012: Community, Adventure, Service (66 comments)

    Last June, I helped nine friends do something crazy. With the help of a few dozen volunteers, we staged a conference at the Portland Art Museum. We called this conference the World Domination Summit. ...

  • Ask the Readers: How Much Do You Spend on Self Improvement? (160 comments)

    I'm a firm believer in personal development. Self-improvement is part of living a rich life. In fact, when I started this blog six years ago, the self-improvement category was one of the first I imple...

  • The Power of Community (65 comments)

    For the next week (or two), we'll be sharing "audition" pieces from folks interested in being new staff writers at Get Rich Slowly. Your job is to let us know what you think of each of these writers. ...

  • Just One Thing: A Simple Way to Make Changes to Your Life (46 comments)

    As part of my recent vow to do what I love, I've been spending a lot more time with friends. Lately, for example, my friend Castle and I have been meeting once per week to hike though Portland's Fores...

  • This I Believe: 43 Lessons from 43 Years (94 comments)

    Because I'm a nerdy kind of guy, I have some nerdy traditions. In the past, one of those nerdy traditions has been to celebrate my prime-number birthdays with a big party. When I turned 37, for instan...

  • Time Sinks and Passion: More Thoughts on Time Management (46 comments)

    One advantage of bringing back the short afternoon posts here at Get Rich Slowly is it'll give me a chance to carry on more of a dialogue with you, the readers. For instance, there was a good conve...

  • A Magician of Time (92 comments)

    It's strange sometimes to see yourself through other people's eyes. Others see things — both good and bad — that you don't see in yourself. "I see you as outdoorsy," a new friend told m...

  • Kickstart New Habits with a 30-Day Challenge (52 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. I never make New Year's resolutions. I've got nothing against them, but I'm usually already working on resolutions made throughout the previous year. I'...

  • Want to Save Money? Slow Down (94 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer Donna Freedman. Donna writes a personal finance column for MSN Money, and writes about frugality and intentional living at Surviving And Thriving. About a year ago...

  • Empower Your Willpower (23 comments)

    This is a post from staff writer Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the adviser for The Motley Fool’s Rule Your Retirement service. He contributes one new...

  • Finish What You Start (57 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. Last week I realized something: I've been playing piano consistently for more than one year. That's a feat considering that I've wanted to play for as f...

  • How to Know When to Quit (62 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. Before I became a full-time freelancer, I worked for a couple of different companies. Both times I started a new job, it started out exciting and fun. ...

  • Overcoming Uncertainty (43 comments)

    I met an old friend for lunch the other day. Andrew and I have known each other since the first day of first grade — way back in 1975. "You know," he said as we slurped down Asian noodles, "when...

  • How to Learn a Foreign Language Without Spending a Cent (88 comments)

    Last week at Far Away Places (my new travel blog), I shared some tips on how to learn Spanish fast. The short version: Hire a tutor. But what if you can't afford a tutor? What if you don't want to spe...

  • Paying for What You Could Get Free (57 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. Each month I pay about $400 to reach personal goals. These are goals that won't make me money, and they certainly aren't saving me money, but nonetheles...

  • Ask the Readers: When Is It Not Your Fault? (256 comments)

    In popular American mythology, the rich work hard for their wealth. They've earned it. They deserve it. While this is often true, everyone can cite instances of people who have money due to fate and c...

  • What Do You Care What Other People Think? (181 comments)

    Yesterday afternoon, I shared a biking vs. driving calculator that tries to show how much you could save if you gave up your car in favor of other forms of transportation. Whenever I post a story abou...

  • World Domination and the Pursuit of Happiness (67 comments)

    My friend Chris Guillebeau never rests. Over the past few years, he's written a best-selling book, visited every U.S. state and Canadian province (except Nunavut, but why quibble?), and traveled to mo...

  • 42 Goals in 42 Months (118 comments)

    I'm not big on holidays. They seem fabricated — an excuse to sell stuff. Thanksgiving is a big exception. So too are birthdays. I think everyone should celebrate birthdays in a big way. For m...

  • The Power of Patience (57 comments)

    When I was young, I had no patience. I wanted everything, and I wanted it now. No wonder, then, that I found myself with over $20,000 in credit-card debt just a few years out of college. I was spendin...

  • Ask the Readers: How Much Should You Spend on Self Improvement? (89 comments)

    Ah, it's good to be home and finally getting back into something of a routine. As part of that routine, I've been reading hundreds of e-mails, including quite a few reader questions — like this ...

  • Developing Systems That Work (75 comments)

    In my fantasy life, I'm an organized guy. In the real world, that's just not the case. I do my best to stay on top of things — I make lists, use a calendar, ask Kris for help — but there a...

  • Calling the Shots: How to Be the CEO of Your Own Life (31 comments)

    This is a guest post from Flexo, creator of Consumerism Commentary, one of the first independent blogs to focus on personal finance. During the 1990s, my financial life was like a Caribbean cruise ...

  • The Importance of Salary Negotiation (76 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and getting her kids to eat kale at Childwild.com. I have a good friend who recently graduated from M...

  • One Problem, One Correction: How to Set New Year’s Resolutions You’ll Actually Keep (54 comments)

    A new year is coming, and for many people that means it's time to make a list of resolutions. I used to be one of these folks, carefully cataloging the faults I'd like to fix every winter. Not anymore...

  • In Praise of Work-Life Balance (47 comments)

    I went running with my friend Dan the other day. As we ran, we chatted. "You know, J.D.," he said. "It seems like you have the perfect life." I laughed. I think that Dan seems to have the perfect l...

  • Productivity Hack: Using the Web to Minimize Internet Distractions (55 comments)

    This post is from staff writer April Dykman. There have been days when I've wasted an embarrassing amount of time mindlessly surfing the Internet. While I try to make that the exception rather than...

  • What to Do When You’re Completely Unsure (26 comments)

    This is a guest post by Tyler Tervooren of Advanced Riskology, a blog with resources for extraordinary risk takers. You can follow him on Twitter @tylertervooren. Personal finance is full of confus...

  • Welcome to Generation App (51 comments)

    This is a guest post from Joseph D’Agnese who, with his wife Denise Kiernan, wrote The Money Book for Freelancers, Part-Timers, and the Self-Employed, which sets forth a personal finance system for ...

  • How to Use a Commitment Contract to Change Your Habits (45 comments)

    This is a guest post from Pop at Pop Economics, a great new blog about investing, personal finance, economics, and more. It's now 9pm on August 30th. I'll finish this guest post by 11:59pm on Augu...

  • Action Not Words: The Difference Between Talkers and Doers (104 comments)

    It's Sunday morning and I should be editing articles in advance of my upcoming vacation. Instead, I just got done playing another game of Starcraft II. Since the game was released on July 27th, I've p...

  • How to Build Confidence and Overcome Fear (36 comments)

    "How to Build Confidence and Overcome Fear" is a rare GRS re-run; it originally appeared on 17 February 2009. I'm dealing with a family crisis, and haven't had time to write. Things should be back to ...

  • Productivity Lagging? Take a Siesta (35 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. I've discovered that one of the biggest benefits to being a full-time freelancer can be one of its drawbacks: setting ones own schedule. Don't get m...

  • Downshifting: The First Day of the Rest of My Life (75 comments)

    "This is it," I told my wife last Monday. "This is what?" Kris asked. "This is the first day of the rest of my life," I said. She knew what I meant. For the past few years, I've been living in a...

  • Patience and Personal Finance (29 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. I used to describe myself as impatient as though it were a trait of which to be proud. While I still have a long way to go, I think back on that and...

  • Social Capital: More Valuable Than Money? (63 comments)

    I'm back! After ten days boating through southeast Alaska (and two days of recovery), I'm ready to think about personal finance once again. Actually, it'll probably come as no surprise that I never st...

  • Struggling with Time-Debt (51 comments)

    This post is from staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and getting her kids to eat kale at Childwild.com. I recently found myself, late one night, staring a...

  • Spend Based on Who You Are, Not Who You Want to Be (110 comments)

    Last Thursday, on April Fool's Day, I wrote about my obsession with gadgets and how much that's cost me over the years. As always, your comments and stories were more entertaining (and instructive) th...

  • A Two-Step Approach to Breaking Bad Money Habits (20 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. Bad money habits, like other bad habits, can be tough to break. Relying on willpower alone to stop cold turkey makes us long even more for the Stuff...

  • Book Review: The Other 8 Hours (75 comments)

    Before I started Get Rich Slowly, I was a slacker. I'd get up in the morning and drive to a job I hated where I gave almost no effort. When I came home in the evening, I'd fritter away my time: I watc...

  • Made by Hand: In Praise of Amateurs (98 comments)

    Note: I'm afraid this post is long and rambling. So sue me. I've been meaning to write about this subject for a long time, and finally felt moved to do so. This article may be amateurish, but that's k...

  • Resisting the Time Suck (93 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. I usually have an idea of what I want to accomplish once I get home from work. It goes something like this: Practice yoga. Get some writing ...

  • The High Cost of Clutter (81 comments)

    This post is from new staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra writes about frugality, sustainable living, and getting her kids to eat kale at Childwild.com. Last week, J.D. wrote about Stuff; today, Sierra ...

  • Book Review: The Happiness Project (47 comments)

    One of my core beliefs is this: It's more important to be happy than it is to be rich. My personal experience bears this out (though I'm fortunate to be both), as do the anecdotes I receive from GRS r...

  • Should You Really Be Reading This Post? (54 comments)

    This is a guest post from Robert Brokamp of The Motley Fool. Robert is a Certified Financial Planner and the advisor for The Motley Fool’s Rule Your Retirement service. He contributes one new articl...

  • What We Know, Don’t Know, and Never Knew (49 comments)

    One of the toughest parts of writing Your Money: The Missing Manual (and writing Get Rich Slowly every day) has been the constant feeling that I don't know what I'm doing. I'm an accidental personal f...

  • Take Control of Your Finances by Building on What You Already Know (26 comments)

    This post is from new staff writer Sierra Black. Sierra has provided several great guest posts over the last few months, so I asked her to come aboard as a semi-regular staff writer. Good thing, too. ...

  • Great Lessons from Great Men (67 comments)

    Because I write a personal finance blog, I read a lot of books about money. I'll be honest: they're usually pretty boring. Sure, they can tell you how to invest in bonds or how to find the latest loop...

  • Break Out of Your Comfort Zone to Achieve Success (44 comments)

    This is a guest post from Flexo of Consumerism Commentary. Flexo is embarking on a ten-day, ten-blog tour. Previously at Get Rich Slowly, he's shared how to be CFO of your own life. Humans are wire...

  • Notes on Self-Study from a Killjoy Perfectionist (35 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. I have a friend who just doesn’t see himself. He has declared bankruptcy twice and alcohol abuse landed him in jail for the past year. Despite los...

  • Happy New Year! My One Goal for 2010 (73 comments)

    As an amazing 2009 fades into the sunset, it's time to review my progress and look forward to the year to come. Am I a better person than I was a year ago? (I believe so.) How can I be even better at ...

  • Action Beats Inaction (50 comments)

    This article is the 13th of a 14-part series that explores the core tenets of Get Rich Slowly. Five years ago, I was a different man. I had no savings, retirement or otherwise. I was literally liv...

  • Failure is Okay (55 comments)

    This article is the 10th of a 14-part series that explores the core tenets of Get Rich Slowly. Yesterday, for the first time in my 40-1/2 years on this earth, I went ice skating. Initially, I was s...

  • Don’t Just Thank…Act! (15 comments)

    This article is by staff writer Adam Baker. Baker has recently come to realize that there will always be an excuse not to give if you look for one. As the holiday season approaches each year, we're...

  • Knocking Out the Beliefs That Hold You Back (69 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. A college professor once told my journalism class that freelance writing is something you should do on the side. It's not anything you could make a ...

  • Happier (79 comments)

    "Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence." — Aristotle For a long time, I was unhappy. I used to think that this was because of my overwhelm...

  • Lighting a Fire: How to Overcome Procrastination (49 comments)

    This post is from GRS staff writer April Dykman. This article is particularly relevant to my own circumstances as I begin work on my book project. I've been procrastinating. A lot. In fact, I liked Ap...

  • What’s the Difference Between High-Income Earners and Low-Income Earners? (232 comments)

    In June, a user at Ask Metafilter wondered: What are the differences between someone who makes $100,000/year and someone who makes $30,000? As you might expect, this question generated a lot of discus...

  • Discovering (and Challenging) Your Financial Values (48 comments)

    This is a guest post from Karawynn, who writes about personal finance at Pocketmint. Karawynn is a potential Staff Writer for Get Rich Slowly. In her first article, she visited the Island of Misfit Fo...

  • Failing Forward: Transforming Mistakes into Success (22 comments)

    Sometimes the best personal finance books aren't about personal finance. In June 2006, for example, I shared a brief review of Steven Pressfield's The War of Art. Ostensibly this book is about cre...

  • The High Cost of Laziness (66 comments)

    Last month, Forbes published an article about all the ways your laziness is costing you. As a semi-reformed layabout (Kris would say I haven't reformed at all!), I read the article with interest. I re...

  • Have More by Choosing Less (27 comments)

    As I search for simplicity in my life, I've realized that it's not just about purging Stuff. Stuff is simply the physical representation of an overall pattern of clutter. In order to accomplish what I...

  • Financial Serenity – The Missing Ingredient (24 comments)

    This is a guest post from Neal Frankle, a Certified Financial Planner and the blogger at The Wealth Pilgrim. Please stand up if you read Tim Ferriss’ The 4-Hour Workweek. Now sit down if you work...

  • Further Research on Money and Happiness (53 comments)

    Recent research confirms what many GRS readers already know: money doesn't buy happiness. At the University of Rochester, psychology professors Edward Deci and Richard Ryan and graduate student Christ...

  • Where We’re Starting From (30 comments)

    Each of us has a unique relationship with money. Some have always used it wisely, have saved, have avoided debt. Others, like me, have struggled. I carried consumer debt for 20 years. I didn't open my...

  • Book Review: Overcoming Underearning (15 comments)

    This is a guest post from Jeremy M, who writes about experiencing a full life at Lucid Living. When I asked GRS readers recently which books they'd like to see revieweed here, Overcoming Underearning ...

  • How to Build Confidence and Destroy Fear (102 comments)

    Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering. — Yoda Last week I did something that scared the hell out of me. I stood in front of near...

  • George Kinder: Three Questions about Life Planning (31 comments)

    I spent last Tuesday at the mid-winter conference of the local financial planning association. I was there to give a one-hour presentation about financial blogs, but I had a secondary motive. I wanted...

  • How to Make Your Own Luck (86 comments)

    The current issue of Newsweek (cover-dated 02 February 2009) has a fantastic article from Ben Sherwood entitled "What It Takes to Survive". Ostensibly, this piece is about how people handle crises. Wh...

  • How to Replace Bad Financial Habits With Good Ones (51 comments)

    This is a guest post from Leo Babauta of Zen Habits. His first book, The Power of Less, was recently published by Hyperion. It was Aristotle who said, "We are what we repeatedly do ... Excellence i...

  • Commitment Contracts and StickK.com (21 comments)

    It is not difficult to change for a day. But it can seem almost impossible to change for a year — or a week. Though 2009 is only eight days old, I suspect that many folks are already struggling ...

  • Book Review: The Power of Less (31 comments)

    Today I am reviewing new books written by two colleagues: Trent from The Simple Dollar and Leo from Zen Habits. As you read these reviews, please remember that I am friends with both authors. Zen H...

  • How to Make Your New Year’s Resolutions Stick (77 comments)

    Yesterday a GRS reader named "P" pointed me to a New York Times article from Alex Williams, who writes that change isn't easy. Williams notes that about 80% of those who make resolutions on New Year's...

  • One Year Later: Checking My Goals for 2008 (55 comments)

    Last year, I didn't make any New Year's resolutions. Instead, I set goals. "I don’t like long lists of resolutions," I wrote. "You need focus to achieve a goal. If you set too many goals, it’s dif...

  • What’s Your Why? The Importance of Finding Meaning in Your Life (28 comments)

    J.D. is on vacation. This is a guest post from Jeremy Martin. You've heard the phrase, "A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.” I’ve often wondered about that — should we really set...

  • Book Review: Work the System (9 comments)

    J.D. is on vacation. This is a guest post from Winston, the Get Rich Slowly "intern". Sam Carpenter has written an intriguing book about how his approach to owning and managing his telecommunicatio...

  • Finding Time to Pursue Your Dreams: Free Up 750 Hours a Year with One Simple Change (91 comments)

    This is a guest post from Erica Douglass. Erica sold her successful business and "temporarily retired" at age 26. Having made over $1 million online, she is now sharing her business knowledge with ove...

  • Museum Day 2008: Free Museum Admission This Saturday (14 comments)

    Looking for some frugal fun this weekend? Saturday is Museum Day in the United Sates — a chance to get into local museums for free. This event is presented by Smithsonian Magazine and a handful ...

  • Warren Buffett’s Ten Secrets to Wealth and Life (45 comments)

    Warren Buffett is the richest man in the world, yet his reputation for frugality, folksy wisdom, and straight talk make him seem like just a regular guy, like he might be the billionaire next door. He...

  • Financial Success Comes from Within (36 comments)

    This is a guest post from Flexo at Consumerism Commentary, the granddaddy of personal finance blogs. Previously at GRS, he shared how to be the Chief Financial Officer of your own life. Success, fi...

  • The Psychology of Happiness: 13 Steps to a Better Life (104 comments)

    We think we know what will make us happy, but we don't. Many of us believe that money will make us happy, but it won't. Except for the very poor, money cannot buy happiness. Instead of dreaming of vas...

  • The Myth of Multitasking: How Doing It All Gets Nothing Done (62 comments)

    Multitasking has killed my productivity. At this moment, on this computer, I have: Five open browser windows with a total of 59 open tabs (in Safari) 79 open text documents (in BBEdit) — I...

  • Reader Success Story: How I Gave Myself a Raise (20 comments)

    Jon wrote yesterday to share a success story of personal finance principles in action. Here's a slightly modified version of his e-mail. I've been a reading personal finance blogs for some time now...

  • The Key to Getting Things Done (19 comments)

    This is a guest post from Philip Brewer of Wise Bread, a personal finance and frugality blog. Philip is one of my favorite personal finance writers. Today, however, he's sharing about productivity. ...

  • Use Written Goals to Pursue Your Dreams (22 comments)

    This is a guest post from Jim, my friend and colleague at Blueprint for Financial Prosperity. A few months ago, my wife and some of her friends decided to start a book club. They recently held thei...

  • Dangerous Norms: When a Treat Becomes a Routine Matter (54 comments)

    This is a guest post from Trent Hamm, who writes about frugality and fighting debt at The Simple Dollar. When I was young, going out to eat at a restaurant was a rare treat, something to anticipate...

  • Randy Pausch and The Last Lecture (32 comments)

    Last summer, Randy Pausch, a professor at Carnegie Mellon University, learned that the pancreatic cancer he was fighting had metastasized, and that he only had months to live. A few weeks later, he de...

  • Network Your Way to Job Security (42 comments)

    This is a guest post from Brandt Smith, who writes for Wealth and Wisdom, a blog focused on helping you achieve wealth and life balance through entrepreneurship. I was stunned but not surprised whe...

  • The Nonconformists’ Guide to Personal Finance (84 comments)

    This is a guest post from Chris Guillebeau at The Art of Non-Conformity. It's long. It's good. If you can't read it all now, bookmark it and come back later. It's worth it. Earlier this week, Chris re...

  • Guarding Against the Invasion of Stuff (58 comments)

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